Taylor Swift - Better Man (Taylor's Version) (From The Vault) (Lyric Video)

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  • Official lyric video by Taylor Swift performing “Better Man (Taylor’s Version)” - off her Red (Taylor’s Version) album. Listen to the album here: taylor.lnk.to/redtaylorsversion
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    Lyrics:
    I know I’m probably better off on my own
    Than lovin' a man who didn’t know
    What he had when he had it
    And I see the permanent damage you did to me
    Never again, I just wish I could forget when it was magic
    I wish it wasn’t 4am, standing in the mirror
    Saying to myself, you know you had to do it
    I know the bravest thing I ever did was run
    CHORUS
    Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again
    But I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man
    And I know why we had to say goodbye
    Like the back of my hand
    But I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man
    A better man
    I know I’m probably better off all alone
    Than needing a man who could change his mind
    At any given minute
    And it was always on your terms
    I waited on every careless word
    Hoping they might turn sweet again
    Like it was in the beginning
    But your jealousy, oh I can hear it now
    Talking down to me like I’d always be around
    Push my love away like it was some kind of loaded gun
    Oh, you never thought I’d run
    REPEAT CHORUS
    I hold onto this pride because these days it’s all I have
    And I gave to you my best and we both know you can’t say that
    I wish you were a better man
    I wonder what we would’ve become
    If you were a better man
    We might still be in love
    If you were a better man
    You would’ve been the one
    If you were a better man
    Yeah, yeah
    REPEAT CHORUS
    We might still be in love, if you were a better man
    Yeah, yeah
    I know why we had to say goodbye
    Like the back of my hand
    But I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man
    A better man
    We might still be in love
    If you were a better man
    You would’ve been the one
    If you were a better man
    #taylorswift #bettermantaylorsversion #redtaylorsversion #taylorsversion
    Music video by Taylor Swift performing Better Man (Taylor's Version) (From The Vault) (Lyric Video). © 2021 Taylor Swift
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  • @joans.6919
    @joans.6919 Před 2 lety +6679

    bravery is leaving a toxic relationship and knowing that you deserve better.

    • @marisacoolio8542
      @marisacoolio8542 Před 2 lety +32

      Facts

    • @rachelmcgrath9853
      @rachelmcgrath9853 Před 2 lety +20

      AMEN to THAT!!!!

    • @haydenrose3237
      @haydenrose3237 Před 2 lety +56

      And maturing is realizing your mistakes and your partners mistakes and moving on

    • @nehavaish1994
      @nehavaish1994 Před 2 lety +69

      Even if it's not toxic, sometimes he is just not what you deserve. It's hard to leave a person whom you adore but you had to. It's like punishing him and yourself. But it's alright. It's alright

    • @Elizabeth-uj8vn
      @Elizabeth-uj8vn Před 2 lety +14

      I’m in one and I wanna get out … I’m confused cuz I care 😫

  • @lucaflores612
    @lucaflores612 Před rokem +2626

    this is objectively one of her best songs.

  • @sarahwilliams620
    @sarahwilliams620 Před 2 lety +2436

    Left an abusive relationship. The right thing but doesn’t take away the grief. This song has always hit hard. Thank you Taylor.

    • @stephane1623
      @stephane1623 Před rokem +31

      Hope you found your better man :)

    • @amandapoteet469
      @amandapoteet469 Před rokem +6

      Same!

    • @choosekindness613
      @choosekindness613 Před rokem +12

      Same, girl. This song always hit so very close to home for me. I can't count how many times I've listened. Always strangely comforting.

    • @amandahetrick9017
      @amandahetrick9017 Před 8 měsíci

      Me too 🙏🏼😔

    • @BasilGaydos
      @BasilGaydos Před 7 měsíci +4

      I am so glad that you left that relationship. I had a cousin in a similar situation, she was not as lucky and couldn't escape it. I am proud of you and anyone else who left this kind of relationships

  • @selenasanchez-saucedo5268
    @selenasanchez-saucedo5268 Před 2 lety +2074

    “You would’ve been the one if you were a better man”
    “It would’ve been fun if you would’ve been the one”

    • @nadine389
      @nadine389 Před 2 lety +22

      agreed but for me I relate them to two different ppl

    • @emmakaplan7508
      @emmakaplan7508 Před 2 lety +2

      @@nadine389 Which two people??

    • @nadine389
      @nadine389 Před 2 lety +23

      @@emmakaplan7508 oh just 2 different people in my own life, nothing to do with Taylor at all. Because in my experience the guy who needed to be a better man would not have been a fun time. However 🤔 this other guy I knew a long time ago would've been.

    • @gabriellagulyas3778
      @gabriellagulyas3778 Před 2 lety +1

      amazing association, love it!!! just sent the 1 to my ex the other day...and i wanna send better man to him too...

    • @Alan-tk4dy
      @Alan-tk4dy Před 2 lety +2

      Interestingly I noticed similar and more clues between this song and "the One". I know people relate the songs to their own experiences which is the way it should be. But as far Taylor concerned is not hard to see she is still missing at lest some aspect of that relationship. I wonder if Jake ever would listen or hear these songs.

  • @🈸
    @🈸 Před 2 lety +6472

    Better Man is definitely one of the most heartbreaking song in this album.

  • @katiarostova
    @katiarostova Před 10 měsíci +406

    This song hurts so much. Every lyric pierces through my heart. It’s so painful to love someone who doesn’t see your worth until you’ve finally decided that you had enough.

  • @rixyria587
    @rixyria587 Před 2 lety +576

    It's sad because I listen to this song everytime I miss my dad.
    "I wonder what we would've become if you were a better man."

  • @nabilahkhairina4950
    @nabilahkhairina4950 Před 2 lety +1680

    FACT : "Better Man" captures the feeling of getting out of a toxic, perhaps abusive, relationship and accepting the sorrow that follows the breakup.❤️

    • @hannahkelsey5660
      @hannahkelsey5660 Před 2 lety +23

      Yes I left one in July and this song and tolerate it are what helped me leave. And Halsey’s whole Manic album 🖤

    • @carysanna4152
      @carysanna4152 Před 2 lety +11

      i left one in february and this song makes me proud of myself

    • @lunarodrigues214
      @lunarodrigues214 Před 2 lety +10

      @@hannahkelsey5660 You should listen to July by Noah Cyrus

    • @hannahkelsey5660
      @hannahkelsey5660 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lunarodrigues214 downloading now!

    • @hannahkelsey5660
      @hannahkelsey5660 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lunarodrigues214 Jesus that fits my situation 😭😭😭😭

  • @thumpersmom2278
    @thumpersmom2278 Před 2 lety +3636

    “The bravest thing I ever did was run”…. This line deserves so much more praise 🍂🧣❤️

    • @wdhyrhrj4414
      @wdhyrhrj4414 Před 2 lety +65

      Reminds me of:
      “Sometimes giving up is the strong thing.
      Sometimes to run is the brave thing.
      Sometimes walking out is the one thing.
      That will find you the right thing.”

    • @finleyscotland
      @finleyscotland Před 2 lety +12

      I did this song in real life. I ran twice and now I am happy alone. No more wishing?

    • @HONORTONUMERIC123
      @HONORTONUMERIC123 Před 2 lety +4

      Yeah... That's right.... It's really hard to imagine....

    • @Carly4033
      @Carly4033 Před rokem +6

      It takes courage to leave a relationship with someone who isn’t the one for you

    • @user-us9ti6wt8u
      @user-us9ti6wt8u Před 10 měsíci +2

      It personally means a lot.She is a masterpiece and her art❤

  • @CannotThinkOfAHandleRn
    @CannotThinkOfAHandleRn Před 2 lety +2538

    No one knows how excited I was for this song. I kept listening to the Bluebird Cafe performance over and over again. Now that its here, I can't stop the tears-

  • @surreal_hearts
    @surreal_hearts Před 7 měsíci +126

    'the bravest thing I ever did was run'
    this line resonates so much, it reminds me of everything I got over by just moving away from them

  • @danbowers20
    @danbowers20 Před 7 měsíci +286

    One of the best songwriters of our time, at the very top of her game. The world really is a better place with her in it.

    • @jenniferhoyme483
      @jenniferhoyme483 Před 5 měsíci +9

      Don't agree with her politically but damn can this lady put pen to paper and make it real. Wise beyond her years lyrically an angel

    • @PaulConner-en6wr
      @PaulConner-en6wr Před 4 měsíci +1

      Great song writing. Little Big Town did a fantastic job with this song.

    • @juliar332
      @juliar332 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes. I’m glad Taylor wrote it and gave it to them to sing. I’m also glad that we have her version now as well.

  • @polyester8844
    @polyester8844 Před 2 lety +15428

    I'm so happy Taylor has finally recorded 'Better Man'. The most awaited From The Vault song other than all too well 10 mins version, I must say

    • @sadieabood4220
      @sadieabood4220 Před 2 lety +135

      Yes! I RAN to this CZcams video! It’s my favorite song!

    • @deepverma6978
      @deepverma6978 Před 2 lety +77

      I've been SO EXCITED for this one

    • @ozgeek09
      @ozgeek09 Před 2 lety +116

      I watched All Too Well 10 minutes version and flew here

    • @deepverma6978
      @deepverma6978 Před 2 lety +11

      @@ozgeek09 ME TOO!!!;

    • @phiba16
      @phiba16 Před 2 lety +8

      So true

  • @qkimmmy88
    @qkimmmy88 Před 2 lety +3054

    "sometimes, in the middle of the night i can feel you again" "the bravest thing i ever did was run" this lyric hits me so hard

    • @shumi7051
      @shumi7051 Před 2 lety +25

      *hugs hugs* proud of you
      It was painful but you made it out alive 💖

    • @franko161
      @franko161 Před rokem +5

      Be strong. I have been there as well :(

    • @kitcatmc8817
      @kitcatmc8817 Před rokem +4

      Me too 🥺

    • @putulghosh7259
      @putulghosh7259 Před rokem +7

      and then " you never thought i'd run" . what a bridge

    • @TSFSNRNERLFEM
      @TSFSNRNERLFEM Před rokem +2

      I've been there it hurts so much....

  • @shayx814
    @shayx814 Před rokem +396

    I love this song! 💗
    Its not angry.
    Its not blaming.
    Its transparency and vulnerability. 💗

  • @SwsPtvA7x
    @SwsPtvA7x Před 2 lety +90

    Lolol I didn't realize with heartbreak comes anxiety and lack of sleep for me. Her mentioning the middle of the night and staying up at 4am is so relatable. It's crazy how bad it gets. Hope everyone is doing okay. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone

  • @shannonsalem
    @shannonsalem Před 2 lety +3985

    This song sits differently when it's dedicated to your dad. I know it has the lyrics in love and the one and in the middle of the night I can feel you again.. but none of those lines have to be romantic in meaning even if they were written that way. And that is the beauty of music and Taylor's skills. When I hear this song from her.. I hear the lines like we might still be in love and think of the love between a father and daughter.. the line.. you might still be the one.. I think of my dad being the man to raise me and be the man I look up too.. and the line sometimes in the middle of the night I can feel you again.. I picture my dad carrying me to bed late at night when I had fell asleep.. but unfortunately he wasn't a better man. But I am thankful that Taylor gave me a song I can release my feelings too. Thank you Taylor.

  • @coloritr.o.y6197
    @coloritr.o.y6197 Před 2 lety +1403

    She could release a million songs and I would listen to ALL OF THEM

  • @nyx7805
    @nyx7805 Před 2 lety +203

    Dedicating this song for my dad cuz I really wish he was a better man. I'm low-key crying my eyes out on father's day xD

  • @theaditisharma
    @theaditisharma Před 2 lety +161

    "Now they say, my album Red is filled with too many breakup songs", but we're here for it, TayTay, we love crying to your songs, we seriously do.

  • @lorry5790
    @lorry5790 Před 2 lety +2810

    Taylor Swift is absolute genius, this smart strong woman shaped so many young kids and teenagers, I would dance to her songs in my room when I was 9 and defend her from any criticism because I know that she is amazing, she taught us all how to get better after a heart break, she taught us how to appreciate your friends and most important, she taught us how to appreciate ourselves. Congrats Taylor for regaining your freedom, you are a kind, smart, strong, lovable and gorgeous woman and us Swifties will support you no matter what! We love you!

    • @arrietty1619
      @arrietty1619 Před 2 lety +27

      Same. Taylor’s music has been part of my life since I was 9. I’m 20 now and I will forever her hold her music dear to my heart.

    • @buyingproperty215
      @buyingproperty215 Před 2 lety +6

    • @tharhponehtet6609
      @tharhponehtet6609 Před 2 lety +7

      Thank u so much for supporting her who is so talented and amazing.I am also a big fan of her.😆

    • @FlapjackR
      @FlapjackR Před 2 lety +7

      I supported this woman from her first album, defended her and partied with her at her concerts many many times. So sad to see her sell out in these recent years.

    • @gsiya4023
      @gsiya4023 Před 2 lety +8

      Criticism is ok , it helps one but hate is unnecessary

  • @soniagnanakuru
    @soniagnanakuru Před 2 lety +1304

    it's actually such a sad concept. how you're reflecting on a past relationship and that everything could have been different if they were better to you, and how you wish they were cause you loved them so much. if only that love was reciprocated

    • @evonnesmith6927
      @evonnesmith6927 Před 2 lety +27

      My 28 year marriage is ending and this song sums it up well. I stayed hoping the magic would return, but ultimately, it never did and I walked away. He told me he hadn’t been happy for a long time. I wish he had told me that rather than treating me the way he did. Sad thing is I still miss him.

    • @elleswickhart2588
      @elleswickhart2588 Před 2 lety +11

      @@evonnesmith6927 Sorry I'm going off tangent here, but reading your comment made me feel lots of things as it really hits close to home. My parents went through the same thing and it deeply hurt me. You've absolutely made the right choice to walk away after waiting and hoping and you should believe that yourself. Relationships in the end of the day are meant to make both parties happy and better, and when they're not doing that, they're not worth it. 28 years are a long time for that person to take root in your heart and grow and grow until all you can feel and love is them, but know that you can and still will find happiness out there, people who will love and value you like how you deserve to be treated. Everyone deserves what's best for them and even though it might have been magic in the beginning, sometimes they're simply just not the right person. It's better to realise and walk away, than staying in a fizzled out, draining marriage. It takes an immense amount of courage to leave them and turn a new page and what you've managed to do is so respectable. I only wish my mum has done the same. All the best wishes to you :)

    • @evonnesmith6927
      @evonnesmith6927 Před 2 lety +8

      @Elle Swickhart-Thank you for your encouragement. I think it’s the hardest thing I have ever done.

    • @juriemanalo6669
      @juriemanalo6669 Před 2 lety +5

      I’m crying! 😭

  • @rhiamaecharisompoy5643
    @rhiamaecharisompoy5643 Před 2 lety +748

    I don't get it why I can't hate him after all the things he did. I still do treasure those memories even though I'm not sure if he were sincere at that time. I hope time will heal me I don't mind if takes a long time as long as I am fully healed.

    • @louiejanedorian2825
      @louiejanedorian2825 Před 2 lety +39

      Same boat I don't get to hate him. I just told myself he was tired that's all and everything went as back as being strangers now.

    • @gladysperpuse8306
      @gladysperpuse8306 Před 2 lety +9

      Agreee same girl same

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo Před rokem +11

      No one's ever fully healed 🥲

    • @theincarnationofboredom207
      @theincarnationofboredom207 Před rokem +34

      Same here. I didn't even know him long, but I have such fond memories with him at first that it's hard to combine them with the reality of how he treated me at the end. I can't see both sides of him as the same person.

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish Před rokem +18

      i feel the same way and that makes me feel fragile and pathetic

  • @ashlymanosca
    @ashlymanosca Před 2 lety +46

    from her "in the middle of the night when I'm in these dreams it's like a million little stars spelling out your name" to "sometimes in the middle of the night, I can feel you again, but I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man" real quick. Nothing hurts more than realizing how your once romantic nights turned into nostalgic ones.

  • @valeriaortizsuarez7535
    @valeriaortizsuarez7535 Před 2 lety +762

    Better man is officially out as a Taylor song and I'm loving it.

    • @jilldurham5498
      @jilldurham5498 Před 2 lety +4

      It was technically alrready out as a taylor swift song.

  • @phuocnguyen_selfnotes
    @phuocnguyen_selfnotes Před 2 lety +265

    when she sings her own songs and tells her own story, it feels like we can feel all the pain to the bones.

  • @EBear-kd4hd
    @EBear-kd4hd Před 5 měsíci +27

    I know she is pop now, but damn she slays at country. This song hits so hard. Beautiful song!

    • @arickmccance3972
      @arickmccance3972 Před 2 měsíci

      If this is country
      Then GHOST is metal
      And Beyonce's not whining
      About Grammys

  • @angelawillis145
    @angelawillis145 Před 6 měsíci +14

    This version is the best. Nobody performs it like her.

  • @MaddieCastellanochannel
    @MaddieCastellanochannel Před 2 lety +343

    “And I gave you my best and we both know you can’t say that” 😭 TAYLOR I LOVE YOU

  • @deeyana_dy
    @deeyana_dy Před 2 lety +9075

    THIS HITS DIFFERENT WHEN YOU DEDICATE THIS SONG NOT FOR A MAN FROM A PAST RELATIONSHIP, BUT FOR YOUR FATHER 😭🖐️ I just wish he was a better man for my mom.

  • @ishaninigam7132
    @ishaninigam7132 Před 2 lety +10

    The line where it says oh you thought i would never run >>>> im crying

  • @Graciegal97
    @Graciegal97 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I feel this song on a spiritual level.
    I was rejected, patronized and treated with ungrateful hate.....
    Wish you were a better man!!!

  • @crystalclear5287
    @crystalclear5287 Před 2 lety +432

    The feeling of missing someone despite knowing that they treated you like shit is so painful and difficult to surmount. It’s like stopping a toddler from chasing and running around

    • @crystaltaylor9354
      @crystaltaylor9354 Před 2 lety

      🫂🫂🫂

    • @roza_sinha
      @roza_sinha Před 2 lety +2

      Thanks for writing this. I'm going through this right now and I don't know how to cope.

    • @crystalclear5287
      @crystalclear5287 Před 2 lety +8

      @@roza_sinha No one does. But hang in there, it’ll all get better if you stay on the right path. It’s rough but you need to keep reminding yourself why you left

    • @roza_sinha
      @roza_sinha Před 2 lety +1

      @@crystalclear5287 Thanks for being so kind💙

  • @abbyreaves595
    @abbyreaves595 Před 2 lety +175

    I genuinely think this is one of her best songs.

  • @juriemanalo6669
    @juriemanalo6669 Před 2 lety +188

    It is already 3 am in the morning while listening to this song and my tears fell down on my cheek.
    It feels like I am the one singing this song infront of the man I loved before. I almost gave everything that I have and break my parents rules for him. I chose him over me and my parents, and everything around me. I made him my world, like it came to the point that I can’t live without him. But I want also my love to be reciprocated the same way I give, butit didn’t happened. So…
    “The bravest thing I did was RUN, I thought I would never RUN”

  • @Lovelightpeace2223
    @Lovelightpeace2223 Před měsícem +3

    That song got me through some rough times. It took a while to accept that the mask he wore early wasn't really who he was. I fell in love with someone that didn't exist. I gave him my best and we both know he can't say that. I'm grateful to the people who lured him away from me. I pray they find the same peace and healing.

  • @remingtonolmschenk7545
    @remingtonolmschenk7545 Před 2 lety +481

    The people who disliked must have missed the thumbs up button because their eyes were full of tears

    • @guita7445
      @guita7445 Před 2 lety +26

      They prob thought the button says “dis i like” 😭😭😭

    • @remingtonolmschenk7545
      @remingtonolmschenk7545 Před 2 lety +3

      @@guita7445 I LOVE THIS

    • @wildestdreams7721
      @wildestdreams7721 Před 2 lety +6

      Lmao I was jamming too much that I accidentally hit the dislike button...until I saw it and quickly changed it

    • @guita7445
      @guita7445 Před 2 lety +1

      @@remingtonolmschenk7545 thank you lol, and my comment gave 13 likes

  • @not_daijobu_
    @not_daijobu_ Před 2 lety +928

    She's basically a poetess, who pens down her feelings and experience , in such a pretty way that I'm more amazed by her writings than her godly vocals.... much more love and strength to you Taylor....keep on writing and inspiring❤️❤️🥰

    • @zx7-rr486
      @zx7-rr486 Před 2 lety +10

      Actually, I am far more impressed by her musicianship. She is a genius melodist. There are lots of people who could write lyrics like this, but very few who could write so many brilliant melodies.. and harmonise them so well.. song after song. Having said that, I feel this song's lyrics are actually some of her best. Because she wrote it for others to sing it is far less self-orientated than most of her lyrics from other songs.. and I think they work beautifully because it is easier for the listener to identify with the message. I am really impressed she wrote them when she was only 16 (I think) before she could have really known from personal experience about the themes of the song.

    • @not_daijobu_
      @not_daijobu_ Před 2 lety +2

      @@zx7-rr486 no doubt she's a great musician ...but what she writes,let it be those simple words,she just adds much more meaning to them ..these songs are literary beauties
      And well I too get your point...bcoz yeah, her Melodies..heavenly❤️

  • @MaeveLanouette
    @MaeveLanouette Před 2 měsíci +5

    this hits different when you dedicate this to yourself, wishing you were better, but also thinking you're probably better off alone.

  • @localolla58
    @localolla58 Před 8 měsíci +14

    It just hits differently when you dedicate it to your toxic ex-friends

  • @Allen2
    @Allen2 Před 2 lety +2906

    Remembering when "Better Man" was first released by Little Big Town and became a huge hit, I thought "that really sounds like a Taylor Swift country song." And so it was, and so it now is. Superb authentic performance.

  • @kittymama9800
    @kittymama9800 Před 2 lety +833

    This song hits you differently if you've struggled in a toxic relationship and finally left it

  • @okie3807
    @okie3807 Před 2 lety +212

    As the years roll on by Taylor Swift has more than delivered the potential she displayed as a teenager. She continues to mine the emotions of the human condition and she is master at conveying the highs and lows of life. I'm an old man and I find her constantly refreshing and seamlessly mining the vein of deep feelings. I'm a fan.

  • @ramishazubair2879
    @ramishazubair2879 Před rokem +25

    This song has heard people cry tears and promising to be their stronger selves again✨✨

  • @nychigo
    @nychigo Před 2 lety +929

    Missing someone you know you're better off without is the hardest thing ever. Miss Taylor, thank u sm for recording this masterpiece. Crying* throwing up* singing my heart out*

  • @stinkykoala9278
    @stinkykoala9278 Před 2 lety +800

    She's done it againn🤩 better man is like one of my favorite songs and I'm so happy she owns it nowww❤️ Taylor's honestly worked so hard and deserves to get all her masters back🧣🍂

  • @senaliiddamalgoda
    @senaliiddamalgoda Před rokem +174

    I don’t know how taylor always sing our feelings. Soo beautiful♥️

  • @HyperDailyGames
    @HyperDailyGames Před rokem +48

    "Sometimes in the middle of the night, I can feel you again"... The lyrics hit on a whole different level. The music compliments it so beautifully and adds the further layer of magic to it!!

  • @arianaromero9458
    @arianaromero9458 Před 2 lety +151

    "and I gave to you my best and we both know you can't say that" GO TELL HIM SIS, why is this the first time I actually pay attention to these amazing lyrics

  • @justgraceanne
    @justgraceanne Před 2 lety +203

    You KNOW I had to come here first. I've been relistening to Bluebird Cafe performance and preparing.
    Thank you, Taylor

  • @eviening
    @eviening Před 2 lety +40

    I dedicate this song to my father especially the "I wish you were a better man" part.

  • @danelleb.8149
    @danelleb.8149 Před rokem +8

    I listen to Pearl Jam’s Betterman and hear a song of a weak, afraid, woman in an abusive/toxic relationship- unwilling or unable to leave & find a better man & being co-dependent. Then I listen to Taylor’s Better Man and hear the woman who found the strength, courage, and confidence to take control knowing the best thing for her is to leave, despite loving the man and having done all she could to make things work…. But HE was unwilling/unable to change to be a better man. Love these songs. And listen to them often back-to-back.

  • @drishtibajaj
    @drishtibajaj Před 2 lety +757

    "The bravest thing I ever did was run"
    It's time to go : "Sometimes to run is the brave thing"
    "I know, I am probably better off all alone"
    King of my heart : "I made up my mind, I'm better off bein' alone"
    "And I know why we had to say goodbye, like the back of my hand"
    Breathe: "You're the only thing I know like the back of my hand"
    "You would've been the one if you were a better man"
    The 1: "It would've been fun if you would've been the one"

    • @utkarshpanwar8067
      @utkarshpanwar8067 Před 2 lety +3

      Wow

    • @selenasanchez-saucedo5268
      @selenasanchez-saucedo5268 Před 2 lety +16

      “You would’ve been the one if you were a better man”
      “It would’ve been fun if you would’ve been the one”

    • @drishtibajaj
      @drishtibajaj Před 2 lety +1

      @@selenasanchez-saucedo5268 how did I not noticed the obvious one, thankyou.

    • @camibvaz
      @camibvaz Před 2 lety +5

      Also :
      Breathe: "You're the only thing I know like the back of my hand,"
      Better Man: "And I know why we had to say goodbye, like the back of my hand"

    • @drishtibajaj
      @drishtibajaj Před 2 lety +2

      @@camibvaz arrghhh I wonder how many more I have missed 😭👩‍🦯

  • @indayvlogs9584
    @indayvlogs9584 Před rokem +9

    this song hits different when you’re the one who broke it off with someone you had high hopes for… I do understand that things really had to end, but in the healing process there are times when we think of what if’s, like if they treated you better would things turned out better..?

  • @kayra7488
    @kayra7488 Před 2 lety +56

    *hot girl summer mood: closed*
    *sad girl autumn mood: opened*

  • @EmilyStancilbeautywithem
    @EmilyStancilbeautywithem Před 2 lety +438

    The way I have been waiting for this for YEARS and it did not disappoint

    • @kyn354
      @kyn354 Před 2 lety +5

      SAME, literally since little big town recorded it.

    • @tvanhowl
      @tvanhowl Před 2 lety

      Taylor never disappoints. 😍😍

  • @siversiver3130
    @siversiver3130 Před 2 lety +30

    She is the the best song writer of the whole century. No doubt

    • @wayneellison2602
      @wayneellison2602 Před rokem

      Thank you "the 1"

    • @dawngalewaler1989
      @dawngalewaler1989 Před rokem

      Taylor didn't write this song. This song has been out for years!

    • @brooke9225
      @brooke9225 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes she wrote this song. The band that released this song years ago was given this song by Taylor .but she most definitely wrote this song ​@@dawngalewaler1989

    • @a.jdeets5527
      @a.jdeets5527 Před 3 měsíci

      @@dawngalewaler1989Yes she did and she gave it to Little Big Town to sing. This is the original version.

  • @kevinn2407
    @kevinn2407 Před rokem +87

    Am I the only one dedicating this song to my old self, looking back on all the wrong choices I've made and singing it now, fully healed ?
    If not, everything's gonna be alright and the planets, the fates, and all the stars will align for you ❤️

  • @amandaserdynski6157
    @amandaserdynski6157 Před 2 lety +3234

    I love this song.
    I played this song (the original) on repeat when I left my abusive ex. I needed a song that said I loved him but knew I needed to run. A song that said it was ok to miss them.
    This was it. If he was a better man ...
    I never went back. And I think this song helped that.

    • @parkoho
      @parkoho Před 2 lety +39

      I can feel this too. I miss my buddy so much… I have to leave him but I will always miss him.. in my heart…

    • @renatacerekaite2331
      @renatacerekaite2331 Před 2 lety +53

      Well I left my boyfriend who had very big anger issues because I realized that true love is not when you are scierd that your lover one day will be Violent with you

    • @mimi-mj8ny
      @mimi-mj8ny Před 2 lety +13

      I’m so proud of you

    • @arandomgirl5234
      @arandomgirl5234 Před 2 lety +28

      I also listen to this when I think of my abusive ex.
      I showed this song to my friend who literally asked, “did she write this song for you?!”
      Anyway, I am proud of you for leaving. It isn’t easy

    • @amandaisraelrojas7209
      @amandaisraelrojas7209 Před 2 lety +34

      I just left my abusive ex. We were living together on another country and I just packed my stuff and left. Missing him like crazy but knowing he wasn’t what I deserved. This song portrays exactly what I’m feeling rn

  • @twyla8393
    @twyla8393 Před 2 lety +2042

    Naiiyak ako sobra😭😭😭😭 salamat at meron tayong inang kulot na palaging nakakaintindi ng feelings natin kahit sa paraan ng kanta😭

  • @zersix9567
    @zersix9567 Před 11 měsíci +18

    A song that you wish to cry out to someone you loved but did not want to give effort on the relationship.

  • @winter23987
    @winter23987 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I'm still so obsessed with this song.

  • @andreadawnabrigo1416
    @andreadawnabrigo1416 Před 2 lety +641

    No offense to Little Big Town but i love Tay's version so much. Since she wrote it, she knows how to sing it 😉

    • @hugo6390
      @hugo6390 Před 2 lety +43

      Well BLT’s harmonies are lovely on their version

    • @harrietbowles1153
      @harrietbowles1153 Před 2 lety +41

      @@hugo6390 bacon lettuce tomato 😭😭

    • @hugo6390
      @hugo6390 Před 2 lety +12

      @@harrietbowles1153 omg didn’t know they make up a delicious burger😍

    • @nataliacuagliarella2993
      @nataliacuagliarella2993 Před 2 lety +21

      @@hugo6390 exactly, they did a perfect version of this song but it's obvious that Taylor sings with more feelings because she wrote it and felt so bad

    • @MsChick-hn1qo
      @MsChick-hn1qo Před 2 lety +8

      The original is almost always better. (An exception is that Panic! At the Disco is better at singing Say It Ain't So by Weezer.)

  • @divinelyh
    @divinelyh Před 2 lety +419

    Those were the days when Taylor ruled the world with her emotions. 😢 I'm crying rn my mother listened to this song cause my dad was very cruel to her in the past . 😭
    Edit :she is the music industry you all , so yea she still does rule the world.

  • @Hamiltonrgy
    @Hamiltonrgy Před 11 měsíci +123

    Used to not like Taylor just because it was the cool thing to do and now she’s pretty much on every playlist I have. Her lyrics are unmatched and she cares so much about her music

  • @enyafitzroy5582
    @enyafitzroy5582 Před 2 lety +99

    It's amazing how Taylor tends to make us cry our heart out with the most simple words

  • @jannahcefre5397
    @jannahcefre5397 Před 2 lety +356

    I'm so happy that she can finally showcase every song she has. I found this song last year when i was broken. This song helped me realize who was worth my time. IF YOU KNOW THE PERSON IS TOXIC DON'T HESITATE TO LEAVE!!!Thank you Taylor 😭💓

    • @agentnine3973
      @agentnine3973 Před 2 lety +2

      I am so glad your doing better💖

    • @jannahcefre5397
      @jannahcefre5397 Před 2 lety +1

      @@agentnine3973 Thank you! 🥰 Couldn't have made it out without songs like this! 💓💓💓

  • @TairyinKlossner
    @TairyinKlossner Před 2 lety +213

    I can’t listen to this without crying right now because it hits so close to home. And now I don’t feel as alone.

  • @clpendygraft
    @clpendygraft Před měsícem +2

    I think she had a lot of guys who really needed to be better men. They couldn’t deal with a woman of her talent and strength. Hope she finds a better man. This song is so sad for those of us who stayed too long with someone who couldn’t be a better man.

    • @zachb1706
      @zachb1706 Před měsícem

      I’d agree if we were on guy 3. But guy 8…

    • @shirleyvand5788
      @shirleyvand5788 Před 16 dny

      @@zachb1706 Have you personally had to endure what Taylor Swift has had to in her life. Just a thought to ponder before you sadly make comments like this.

  • @davineuskens21
    @davineuskens21 Před 2 lety +14

    Starting at 3:33, do you guys notice that there's a Taylor backing vocal and it sounds like young Taylor? Could it be that she used part of the old, never released version? 🙆‍♂

  • @AG-lj3fq
    @AG-lj3fq Před 2 lety +239

    POV: Swifties after listening to Red TV in it’s entirety
    “I wish it wasn’t 4am, standing in the mirror,
    Saying to myself you know you HAD to do it”

  • @ilovemylife29
    @ilovemylife29 Před 2 lety +401

    I didn't know how she could top All too well but it feels like she did. this song is just so packed with feelings and emotions! I can't even, dying in memories

    • @melissarodriguez9134
      @melissarodriguez9134 Před 2 lety +6

      her memories dying along with the hope that he is going to be a "Better Man"

    • @farty81
      @farty81 Před 2 lety +1

      It's incredible, isn't it? How? How do you write something like this at 21/22. It's so moving.

  • @RocioMeh
    @RocioMeh Před 10 měsíci +5

    I really just wish that Taylor meets someone who truly undertands and loves her, she deserves it too much

  • @joydevdas2486
    @joydevdas2486 Před 2 lety +7

    "Sometimes in the middle of the night, i can feel u again" struck me like a bullet...

  • @FleetingFilms
    @FleetingFilms Před 2 lety +3540

    Damn been waiting for this for yearssssss 🙌🏻💓🙏🏻

  • @cozytapez
    @cozytapez Před 2 lety +87

    Taylor in 2012: I wish you were a better man
    Taylor in 2019 : I'd be the MAN 💕

  • @fatimamazhar7305
    @fatimamazhar7305 Před rokem +4

    The relatibility of her songs to things we go through, be it being the third wheel(august), long distance relationship( come back, be here), abusive relationships( begin again), and so much more. It's baffling, she has put every situation into extremely perfect words

  • @hansaniwanniarachchi8791
    @hansaniwanniarachchi8791 Před 2 lety +12

    When we are in love, it is so hard to see something wrong about the man we love, and it always has to be the worst possible way.

  • @kaisawagner4935
    @kaisawagner4935 Před 2 lety +176

    I liked Little Big Town’s version. But I LOVE Taylor’s Version! Somehow the same words mean so much more!

  • @somethingsomewhere509
    @somethingsomewhere509 Před 2 lety +41

    when she said "ill probably be better off on my own", i felt that as i'm sobbing listening to red tv 🥲

  • @ally5662
    @ally5662 Před 2 lety +19

    I’m in the middle of an abusive relationship I feel like I can’t get out of, this song hit deep. I don’t even care for country and I’m not really even a fan, but these lyrics hit deep. Thank you for this song.

    • @wazha14
      @wazha14 Před 2 lety +1

      leave sis

    • @lalrinawmi9058
      @lalrinawmi9058 Před 2 lety +2

      I understand that it's not as easy as they said. But I hope you'll have the courage to leave❤️

  • @tutsybassista
    @tutsybassista Před rokem +47

    I played this for my 86 year old mom, and she started crying BEFORE the chorus! 😭

  • @JayMiV
    @JayMiV Před 2 lety +136

    I literally discovered this song 2 days ago with little big town and was hoping this would be on the new Red album with just her singing it, wow.

    • @raida9516
      @raida9516 Před 2 lety +17

      You're lucky to get this in two days WE WAITED YEARS

    • @JayMiV
      @JayMiV Před 2 lety +2

      ​@@raida9516 lol!

  • @raeofsunshine1296
    @raeofsunshine1296 Před 2 lety +467

    I really wish my parents were better people. I've never had my heart broken before, so i didn't think I'd be able to feel the album very deeply, but heartbreaks don't have to be romantic, do they? Gods truly, I wish that things were better, that your love for me was better, that we were better, that all of us were better. And if it's not too much to ask for, i hope one day we get better.

    • @SandeepBhalla256612
      @SandeepBhalla256612 Před 2 lety +13

      Hey,
      I hope you’re doing alright! I’m sad though I’m sure you’ll be lovely when you’ll be a parent!! More power to you :)

    • @Karishma_Unspecified
      @Karishma_Unspecified Před 2 lety +22

      I spent all my time under my parents' roof wishing they were better people. When I finally got out of there, I was terribly terribly lost because the thing about toxicity is, you don't know how to be your own person. I'm still struggling to survive, but I'll say this: I haven't once regretted leaving. I wish you well Rae. You'll survive.

    • @raeofsunshine1296
      @raeofsunshine1296 Před 2 lety +2

      @@SandeepBhalla256612 thank you so much 🥺

    • @raeofsunshine1296
      @raeofsunshine1296 Před 2 lety +8

      @@Karishma_Unspecified Thank you so much🥺 the air around me is just filled to the brim with casual cruelty and i don't know how to handle things in any way other than shutting myself off from everything. But i love myself, and i know I'm gonna make it and that better things are waiting for me. I really really pray with all my heart that one day you find your safe place in the world too❤❤❤

    • @gemdaniellesigua8588
      @gemdaniellesigua8588 Před 2 lety +2

      cheer up 🤗 it will get better

  • @hyper-lethal-sigma3
    @hyper-lethal-sigma3 Před 11 měsíci +5

    The hardest love to Lose is the love that once was beautiful and strong but faded into bitterness and resentmentness and in those cases one holds on while thea other moves on

  • @froozenflaame5774
    @froozenflaame5774 Před rokem +8

    To my ex bf ..
    I discovered this song and i wish you listen to it, idk i was always praying and wishing you to get over your addiction and be a better person " your best version, like you've told me last year ", I've wanted to be there for you in your hardest moments even when you kept pushing me away, unfortunately you weren't there when i needed you the most..
    I just wanted to see you happy, and it's hard to admit that i still love you because the damage you caused to me is real...
    Hopefully, you will be a better man 💔

  • @Therorororororoew
    @Therorororororoew Před 2 lety +74

    Taylor really knows to comfort the broken hearts like us. YES WE DESERVE A BETTER MAN ✨

  • @amandavaz890
    @amandavaz890 Před 2 lety +1303

    Taylor has never let me down. She's always been so relevant to my life as a teenager and growing up. I could always relate. I couldn't relate more to another song, as I am now going through divorce with an awful man and a single mom of 4 now. I needed this song.

  • @meganferranti2592
    @meganferranti2592 Před rokem +5

    "I gave you my best, and we both know u can't say that..." Felt this...

  • @binurisachindaya904
    @binurisachindaya904 Před 2 lety +5

    This reflect exactly how i feel about my first relationship.. at that moment bravest step i was took was run .. now, when i am looking back its was so worth it . Upto date it was the best decision i took... i really wish he was a better man .... hardest decision always lead to beautiful destinations.

  • @starcheesey6478
    @starcheesey6478 Před 2 lety +56

    It’s been over an hour and I still haven’t finished the album, Taylor really spoiled us with all these songs

    • @angelclarke6111
      @angelclarke6111 Před 2 lety +3

      i's been two for me, and this is only the second song i've listened to, first was all too well (10 minute version.)

  • @cheese9027
    @cheese9027 Před 2 lety +541

    All Too Well, Forever Winter, and Better Man really paint a very specific picture, huh? Amazing story telling skills from this woman, amazing!!!

    • @aadhiablink9469
      @aadhiablink9469 Před 2 lety +44

      Finally someone who recognises forever winter 😭

    • @CHARLES-cx7lf
      @CHARLES-cx7lf Před rokem +18

      Dont forget theres I almost do comebackbehere and the moment i knew

    • @kmoneyyyy1994
      @kmoneyyyy1994 Před rokem +4

      Jake really broke this woman

    • @alexnibblett9222
      @alexnibblett9222 Před rokem

      Forever Winter 😭😭😭😭 rest in peace Jeff Lang

  • @l347
    @l347 Před rokem +3

    "I hold onto this pride cause these days it's all I have" 😭 That is such a brilliant line, in my opinion.

  • @havefun3470
    @havefun3470 Před 2 lety +7

    "the bravest thing i ever did was run"
    Yes the bravest thing you can do in an abusive relationship is to walk away

  • @tspolalove
    @tspolalove Před 2 lety +372

    "I'll hold on to this pride because these days it's all i have" I felt that.

  • @seggyc6513
    @seggyc6513 Před 2 lety +1307

    9 years of waiting is so worth. Been longing for this song in Taylor’s voice and finally she released it. I really love this song. The melody and lyrics stuck in my mind.

    • @agnesn8149
      @agnesn8149 Před 2 lety +5

      9 years?

    • @Alice-od3bw
      @Alice-od3bw Před 2 lety +17

      @@agnesn8149 She wrote this song 9 years ago

    • @GreenLeafCorner
      @GreenLeafCorner Před 2 lety +3

      hoping she would release her performance of Better Man at the super saturday night concert. She sang it in Little Big Town"s version.

    • @theosison638
      @theosison638 Před 2 lety +1

      @@GreenLeafCorner me too. I prefer the live version of her singing better man than the new one

  • @dancingwithmyhandstied
    @dancingwithmyhandstied Před rokem +9

    i'm so happy she released this too. her matured voice really suits this song. she slayed. it's a masterpiece.

  • @edengetaneh9521
    @edengetaneh9521 Před 8 měsíci +4

    The bravest thing i ever did was run......... that hits deeps when you know you have been so scared to make decision's for your life ad just scared to do anything

  • @giallala
    @giallala Před 2 lety +82

    so happy that she included this song, a masterpiece!

  • @imok.sadness
    @imok.sadness Před 2 lety +595

    Hey you. Yes you. random person that I will never meet. I truly hope that you will find happiness in life. Today is going to be a great day