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MWANAKE WAKWA MENA ITHE MANYAMARITIE NGINYA NGAKINYA MUICO NDEITHINITU URIA NGWIKA
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- čas přidán 20. 02. 2022
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Me I left home at 18yrs.at 24yrs Nikaoa ,at 27yrs I had 2 children.now at 2*.sasa Niko na mali yangu settlement and Gari and affording three meals a day.wonderful to God .
Mom needs to let her son to depend on himself ajue nyumba hilipwa, ajisimamie mambo yake. If he dont work to get food he will go hungry for a day, the second day he wil work to get it. Ati pocket money at 28 na anaenda tu kukunywa huko?
Mwanake ucio ni gitunio, kwaja kuhea heo mbia onagara itithiraga nadaranogera, ira mutumia usio darateithia Njenga onahanini
Kabisa.
I agree
Nampea akifanya kazi
@@cecilianjogu6249,
I understand the mother's love, it's hard to see your son suffer. BUT mum you should understand the best love you can give your child is prepare him for tomorrow. Life is unpredictable kesho hatujui mahali tutakuwa. Simo is correct tough love is the best gift you would ever give to your child. Aende ajitafutie from scratch akilala njaa leo kesho the next day akili zitaamka aanze kujipanga.
Kweri
The problem is you are trying to fill the gap you didn't raise him but it's not going to work because he is taking advantage of you .....you can take him to rehab then you do canceling together that way you can bond and build relationship slowly by slowly..you are a good mother and you are doing what you think it's right and he is behaving like a child because he is finally with his mom he doesn't hate you ...I'm sure he is a good son ☺️☺️
Well done Symo K very practical advice to mum.ona mukuru nieragwo no kurumwo atarumagwo.🛐✝️✍🏽🙏🏽📖📖🙌🏽🙏🏽
Mom niahe wira ngire njenga eno namanga ndimihurite haro njeke ta uthi, nie ndaumire hee aciari akwa ndina miaka 23
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Symo ira nyina wa Njenga ethe councilor na kuma hau aingate kimwana kiu gwake ..ni kunana niundu wa guikara a comfort zone
Waheo ciana njega na njathiki ni tha CIA jehovah
I must share with my dad hii story just to appreciate him coz he would take us to good schools then ukimaliza he would literally chase us and we thought it was bad but now I understand coz he was teaching us to be grown and fight with world.I love you daddy
Mother you have spoilt your son. He keeps coming back to you, because you are always there for him.
Njenga is badly brought up...he doesn't know the meaning of the word poverty,
Mum yes he's your son but he must man up. Let him be independent huyo ni mwanaume mzima. And if he's an alcoholic he can be taken to rehab.
The mother is referring to him as 'ka njenga', like he is still in diapers.
Sawa
its hard for many women to be strick on their children.dont blame mama njogu. its hard, very hard. i know this woman though i dont know njenga. but she tries. kikuyu saying- mundurume ni mugambo. the presence of a dad is voice is very important. i was also chased by my dad. he told me to stay very far from him and neither could i go home to mum. i decided to go to mombasa and looked for a college and we became friends with dad again. otherwise i could have been a a pain in the neck in my family if dad was not tough. symo- your advice is good. let mama njenga take a step , although its difficult. especialy for a woman parent. pole mama njogu.
Pole mum woyee na vile umejitolea kusaidia huyo kijana,Na sisi huku ni kustruggle kai guthiaga atia maa.
Ooh waoh,1st time to see someone I know on this interviews!
Pole Cecilia wa Njogu.
Asante
Mama Njenga I am way older than you, so please listen: Symo is giving you a truth you don't want to hear - you are a problem too. You are justifying every correction point Symo brings up. You are actually very defensive of your position. I'm sorry to tell you that YOU ARE THE ENABLER. Yenda mùno ìkùraga rùrìra. Ngai akuonekanìrè.
Very true.
Pray for him and leave him in the hands of the Lord eat and sleep tight he is taking advantage of be careful next he shall bit you for your money earlier the better love him but you are spoiling him
Let him go to rehab first there is counselling sessions, but keep praying for him,let him stand on his own so that he can be responsible, he is still young he can put his life together if he want there is still room for improvement all the best mom
The problem is not Njenga and alcohol....its you, mother.
Symo very good advice 👍. Niathie agacarie ta arume aria angi!
Big up Symo wakiaria ta athuri atano maikariire njug'wa
So sorry Wanjogu.. A very hardworking mum here in namanga, mungu atakupigania, namanga sijui kuna roho gani ya pombe.. njenga needs prayers n mpelekeni rehab
Mwanake ucio nimutuniye,muno ni mum washana na huyo kijana
Nowadays earth is different. May God bless you mom
May God have mercy on us
Woooi hakuna kama Mama may God hear your prayers mama Njenga 👏
We will pray for him. Be blessed mummy. U have tried
Ooh my dear, i feel for this lady, l feel her pains, The Dad needs to be in this guy's life, like live close to him, it is well, keep praying,
Thanks
Uyo Jamaa anahjty counseling
It shall be well, mama Njenga.
The boy needs counseling, the actions of parents affects the children, it is good you are repenting on his behalf , keep on praying for him.
Tough ❤️....love, works, l did that with my son, ako poa sasa.
Waiting. Pole sana mum.
Pole sana village mate
Pia Mimi napitia hio stress watoto wangu wame gro kwa baba yao.. wame lundi juzi kwangu but mambo na pitia ni mungu too
Mungu akupe nguvu
Ucio mwanake ndangiteithika tondu wa kuhuritaniyo na mum wao. Very sad he needs rehab and counseling sessions to help and support with prayers and fasting and delivarence before it's too late 📖🙋🛐🙏🏽😭
Mom let him go stop spoiling Njenga
Huyo mtoto mwishowe atamua mamake coz ya kumbembelezwa .....Mama unalea nyoka hapo.fukuza yeye akakufie mbali.
Umemuongelesha vizuri symo .
Mum, why let this boy control you mpaka hukuli ,leave them ata huyo dadake she is not wise kwani you have strong shock absorbers than their dad who raised them brainwashing them.wakwende ukae na njogu who this dad discriminated.
At 28 there are Men who are still relying on their parents upkeep Mama Njenga accept what Symo has told you niutunitie Njenga ATI unaenda kumuamsha wwcha aamshwe na shida zake.
I'm talking through experience my son was like that for many years wakati nili mwekea cavew now he is standing like a man
Symo umeuliza a good question that I intended to ask
Am a mother of adults, I have passed through the same but I became hard to them and I know what am saying. The rest is history
Nilifukuzwa home at the age of 17 nikiwa na mtoi wa 2 years. Greetings from Ludwigshafen Germany
Ndure mukuru mama Njenga urio minji minji.
Sawa
May God fight for you mama
This looks like venye tu umesema mugambo wa guka wao...
Mungu yupo
I thank God because I know this mother she is a very hard working mother in manga town
That's a grown up person
May God bless mum, it's well,
But I think your son needs some sort of help as he is drinking and using miraa, his age does not matter when it come to addiction, As you suggested could be his dad might support him or even take him to rehad and also check about that voice you mentioned, good luck mum!
Symo k.that is a good piece of counsel to her son!!!.
Symo....umepeana very good advice.
May be the boy was spoiled by the step mother, pray
Pole sana
Mugambo mi muru muno wacha arudi kwao juu ya sauti ya guka yake am witness wangu nilimuacha juu.ya.hiyo sauti na ako sawa
Am for good man see in kenya soon
She needs to let her son work for himself and know how to manage his own money, Mom there’s tomorrow what about if you not there? You’re spoiling your son!
Sawa
Dependency can be chronic. Mother's become victims of such children because of their nurturing nature. Children with such behaviour should be ashamed of themselves. They are sheer exploiters
Symo that's the best advice. Hugo mama amedekeza njenga
I'm sure the other lady was jealousy that's why she was conspiring with your husband be careful with friends
Mama.
Please don't spoil your son.
"You are the cause of all this.
Mother's love is special but sometimes love yourself first. My mum has high blood pressure coz of my brother.
same here,mlifanya aje?
Sometimes wanaume huharibu watoto then wanawatuma wa wanawake kuwasubua may God remember you mama
Thanks my sister
That is guilt tripping by the daughter and father and he needs to be shown the door to grow up 📖🙋✝️🛐🙏🏽
Symo good advice bro!
This is the way to go symo. Good advice.
May God bless u more hugs mum symo ranjoz alienda wapi we miss him 👋 👋
Asante
Thank you SYMO I feel sorry for this lady. One from the beginning of the whole story this lady is the one enabling her son. He is a grown young man he should be taking care straggling like the mother is doing. Rehab first before buying all what you are planning to do. He has to change let him hit the
rock bottom. Sorry mum your love is not helping. Don't feel guilt for those talks.
Pole mama njogu kwa yale jenga amekupitisha,naelewa huruma ya mama kwa mtoto
Lakini usijali Mungu yupo na ana uwezo wa kubadilisha.
Symonds umeongea vizuri sana this lady akusikize huruma yake ina mumess mwanawe.She seems to listen to people's opinions.God bless ha
Mwanake usio orire gwa ithe tondu nionire mami wao niaramunyita muuno niguo njenga niasoke gwi ithe asoke eritire wira atekuheo onaki ethukumire
Waah! This lady is my neigbour in my working place ,,, ifeel for you mama njogu bur at the same look for acouncellor to guide your son but also you have tought your son the wrong way of life let him go and hussle like other men bur hyo yakumpea food , pesa nani mtu mzima si mgojwa na ako abled apana , anyway all the best and may njenga reform and stop giving you sleepless night .
Mimi kijana yangu alinipeleka kwa chief ati simpi food nilambiia chief hata bibilia imesema lazy bones wasipewa chakula na nikamuacha nikaenda majuu Sasa akitaka pesa lazima kwanza anifanyie kazi ndio apate yangu imagn siku Ile utamnyima utaona Kanyoni WA Ngethe
Karega nyina nigukua gakuaga kaga gukua nyina agakua wimenyerere mum
Ngoma inanagio niguthijiro let him be a man
Please mother, you spoilt your son
You gave him food, even when he was working and could feed himself.
He grew up with dad
No.hiyo ni sauti ya Guka yake akirudi kwao atabadirika
Always waiting to hear from you symo k. Your show is the most watched vernacular show recently. Thank you for the inspiring stories
Thanks alot May God bless you
for real btw ata tuko sai wanatoa story uku
@@essymumjay2492 Glory to God we thank God for this far
Njenga enagikundi kiuru kia raha na dawa Ngai aromiririkana
Symo that’s a totally solid advice to the mom
Waciara warira ,waga urire ..kwega niku ..
I understand it's difficult to let go but I see this lady is the problem. She should let Njenga survive like other men. Njenga is an adult. He is solely responsible for his own sins
Symo I second you.
Mother, you have SPOILT your son PERIOD. Mother you are an enemy to your son not a friend. You don't like him, because, you are messing him up.
@Line Wangui, I agree with you 100%. Hii ni upendo ya kuharibu. The mother should not be guilty of her marriage not working, she did her best and now that the children or this Njenga knows her mother's pain, he tries to hide under the shadow of this pain. Well, it might have impacted on his mental health and emotional health while growing up but he should be faced with the reality that he is now an adult and choices have consequences. The mother faced challenges, but she made lemonade out of it and slowly picked her pieces. Why inflict more pain to her while she has healed and moved on? This guy has been baby sat, and he knows the mother will always look for him..
I agree with you 💯 per cent, tough love works , it worked with me.
He is using reverse psychology against the mum ati mnanichukia and the mum let,s it affect her
I think this woman is right. Let this boy go back to his father. Why did he not allow her to carry the boy. I echo all what she's saying.
NDUGU ZANGU WALILIGAIWA, MASHAMBA, NA BADO WANAISHI, KWA WAZA NA WAMEZEEKA, WAKO JUU YA 60YEARS,
Mum Niko side ya symo Njenga ni mwanaume wewe niwe uratuma anyue juu Hana kitu ya kufanya na pesa utamlipa nyumba mpaka lini mum akuna mtu hapendi mtoto yake mache apelekane na wanaume you have done ur part
Helping your son at this age will only make him dependant.
Keep him off your property strictly, don't set any business for him now, do it when he reforms. Haki wamama kuchezewa na watoto.
Njenga is extremely a spoiled child, he needs the earth's lessons.
Ucio kwanza hau aiyaga, angiararaga borithi🤔
Woi Mama.....I Pray and hope that your son changes to be a better man and may he bring joy to your heart not sadness ....my grandmother went through the same with my cousin but it did not end well....as someone who has experienced the same first hand I tell you that there is no formulae on how to parent such kids, just do your best, what you think is best and pray for the best outcome... I wish you the best ...God is able.
Thanks Aggie
Remember he have his own choice live him and world
Mwanaume mzima hata hana akili kubuf yeye he should manup
A twenty seven year old man agirirwo ni kwiikaria na ucio Ti thina waku mum ukurwara na umutige o akinyua macohi make
When children are brought up on abusive environment they suffer mentally and physically and start taking drugs and alcohol to numb the pain
What you need is to pray for your son's and daughter cos those second wife they come to destroy you and your kids.
Nikweri
I wish i had an older bro 2 work on my younger bro whose exactly like that n same age.
Spare the rod,spoil the child.A kid should never call the shots,a parent should always take charge.
You spoilt the boy..The moment he started to disrespect you,that's when he was supposed to be kicked out of your fold.Afterall he was over 18'
Hapo symo umemsaidia sana
Uchio ni mundu mugima niatige guthumbura nyina apelekwe counseling kwanza
Can the family first check weather this young man is alcoholic they start from there
Don't ever quit praying for your child. Continue to pray for him and even after you are gone God will answer many of your prayers. Your son will never never as long as he live get away from the prayer of a praying mother and a father. Believe God don't give up.
Mama is you are too soft on the boy and trust me he will never grow. He has learned of your weakness
You are creating an environment of him being supported by you. You have spoiled him. You have refused to let him being responsible thinking you will look a responsible and loving mother. Take him to rehab first. But let go.
Peleka yy rehabilitation