4 Habits To Instantly Stop Looking Weak
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Breaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect.
While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation.
And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:29 - #1: Adjust your body language
2:18 - #2: Speak slowly and uses pauses
3:12 - #3: Build stoic courage
5:23 - #4: Be irreplaceable
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My favorite part of Walt’s story is how he adopts the characteristics of all of the people who he’s killed/defeated in order to empower himself.
He respects the fallen
Just like mega man
*SPOILERS*
My favorite part was when he killed Uncle Jack at the end and absorbed his racism and said the n-word repeatedly
Good point.
Like how kratos acquires new powers
For me, the truly calm under pressure is shown in Mike Ehrmantraut character.
He's the real badass.
Mike and Gus
Fingers
Angry:😒
Sad:😒
Happy:😒
Dying:😒
Left granddaughter alone:😒
Son died:😒
No more half-measures. ;)
not only a badass ex cop and maybe soldier.
but also a deeply disillusioned depressed guy who pretty much doesn't care about a lot anymore because of his murdered son
Recap:
1) Body Language: Eye Contact, Straight Shoulders and Chest Out.
2) Slow Speech. Keep tension between the key parts of the speech and the rest.
3) Memento Mori. Live life fully.
4) Be irreplaceable.
None of those things will work unless you shave your head bald though😅
@@lusoverse8710 NAHHH💀💀💀
@@lusoverse8710 How about Waltuh in the last episode?
He had hair
Irreplaceable is unattainable. Anyone can be replaced.
If you, or me, or your neighbor dies, we can all be replaced. There are over eight BILLION people on this planet. You are not unique. I am not unique. None of us are, and no amount of posing will make any one of us irreplaceable.
@@thetheory6159 All of people are unique.
You forgot the step where you call Saul
Lol
No one respects him in BB either BCS
@@morlarav602 huel does
@@morlarav602 Kim and Howard??? ( i mean they used to)
@@_yvngxak huel is more respected than Saul
When Charisma on Command keeps making videos on how to learn charisma from villains: “HE CANT KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS”
Cringe
@@Calebe311 no u
@@Calebe311 “Cringe,”- 🤡
@@Calebe311 “Cringe.” - 🥸
@@Calebe311 Someone with a weeb picture calling others cringe?
Walter White has the best transformation ever, it's like the actor was born for the part
Just remember he was once Malcolm's Dad.
@@avgjoe-cz7cb lmao
waltuh
@@sporperino put your d away waluth
Cranston is perfect for the role, but it’s a combination of masterful writing and acting that truly elevate it.
"A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent." ~ Jocko Willink 💪🏻🚀
True
What is the different between quiet and silent?
@@MUHAMMADFIRDAUSBINJAURIKPM-Gur quiet is a short-term state to maintain silence for a short period of time, it helps you to not expose your weaknesses and your personal info to their will, someone that doesn't have to show who they are through their words but through actions while being silent is someone that is silent for a long-term state of time, you do something they don't like, they will remain silent forever, usually is related to shyness, insecurity and being unable to speak or act
4:44 he hasn't lost confidence, he actually is putting on an act to put his plain into fruition. only a few seconds later he is very confident and is in control of what is happening.
Walter does that a lot.
Act weak when you are strong, act strong when you are weak.
Waltuh
Yeah my thoughts exactly
Yeah agreed. He might have actually been stalling a bit to buy Jesse a few moments to get ahead of them to the apartment
Did you even continue the video? He exactly explains that 10 seconds later, yet you couldn't resist yourself from being the smartass who knows it all
Now you guys have to do an analysis of Saul Goodman! There are so many things about Saul's people skills that make him charismatic and it would be awesome to get more depth on how he does it! :D
SAUL GOODMAN
Agreed!
Hes like the jesus of social skills
This. I want this
Would love to see this!
I never watched this show, but I did learn some things about commanding respect and confidence from my Dad. He wasn't the biggest man around, but when he was around nobody had more attention and respect than him. His air of confidence made his 6 foot stature seem like he was 10 feet tall and bulletproof. He's gone now but far from forgotten. Dad will always be my hero and model for what a man should be.
Could you please elaborate on what your father used to do to be respected and heard? Thanks
@@Juan-nu8pm First off he remained calm no matter the situation. Second he always spoke clearly and to the point. Third he would listen to opposing views. The response he had was usually given after he took a moment to think. That's command for respect. Flying off the handle and yelling never gets respect.
watch the show bro it’s so good
@@mikemcgown6362 Totally. Thank you for your answer.
@@mikemcgown6362 thank you for this!
4:16 Oh my god! It's Walter black!
Please do one in Gustavo Fring. His emotional composure and ability, to play on people's ego and person interests is unparalleled.
It's scary watching him because you cannot predict how he will respond. At any point
In that regard, the character traits of Stan Edgar should also be analyzed
He's OCD. Too careful.
The show got spoiled for me but I still couldn't predict his reaction so that is some next level character
Gus Fring was a psychopath. That's why he was able to keep so calm, and emotionally detached. Pull up any video on psychopathy, and it'll describe him precisely.
Walt, Hank, Saul, Gus and especially the bourboun soaked voice of Mike - what a great cast.
3:55 - you don’t know how bad I needed to hear that, man. It’s been a tough week. Thank you for your content always!
@@aebious8886 kinda rude to send that don't you think
@@josefdrapak1889 i agree with the user above
@@josefdrapak1889 how
not only does talking slower make you seem more confident, it gives you more time to think about what your going to say next
"Choose your words wisely, because they will influence your happiness, your relationships, and your personal wealth."
It's worth adding: "In some cases, they might even save your life, but the key is knowing not only what to say and how, but also when to speak and when to keep quiet."
I was diagnosed with terminal cancer 6 years ago and it made me much less afraid in general, like the fictional Walter White.
So didnt end up being terminal? Thats awesome I am so happy for you man
@@lukemarcollo9979 Thanks!
you started a meth empire?
@@kingdeespadas I'm thinking about it
@@madmarlowe1422 😂😂
The key in most of these clips is Walt is perfectly willing to go where his adversaries are afraid to tread. What they fear most means nothing to him.
Yes his medical issues made him in a way fearless his opponents couldn't match.
What is the most useful life lesson you have learned?
1. Quit constantly posting on social media.
2. Most people don't adore you; it's a symbiotic relationship.
3. Never use coercion in relationships, discussions, or meetings.
4. Find your inspiration every day and use it to get through the day.
5. Money just creates an illusion of happiness, not the real thing.
6. Most people have no idea how pure bliss feels.
7. Never grow old. It is possible to live it.
8. You can accomplish a lot for someone and still be abandoned.
9. Make the most of your emotions. Let them dominate you only when required.
10. Death is NOT the end, whether you believe in science, religion, or nothing.
11. Invest in good memories with or without money. Age-related needs for them
12. Everything is mental.
13. Love yourself, but also love others. Be kind to everyone, even haters. Kindness isn't weakness.
14. Do good things with no expectation of reward. This is not a deal.
15. Pure heart, mind, and body. Avoid negative energy.
16. DRINK LOTS OF WATER REGULARLY.
17. Eat healthy foods including vegetables, fruits, and yams.
18. Exercising regularly keeps you healthy. Go for a run or the gym.
19. In the end, you'll realize it's all futile. Our endless aspirations of money, excitement, attention, and life. "Yote ni vanity," as we say.
20. Don't pursue someone who won't return your kindness.
21. Love them now, but you'll be surprised how lovely they'll be in a few years.
I'm saving this, thank you!!!
@@_Bacon_bits Glad to help.
Fear is the mind killer.
Waltuh, put your fear away waltuh. You are not supposed to back down from the challenges life given you waltuh
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this show is a masterpiece. the small little details that transformed walt into heisenberg is just amazing
I just drove past Walter White's house today, and ate at Los Pollos Hermanos. Perfect timing for this.
Loved the bit about stoic confidence
"That which is fearless must guide that which is fearful. That which is great must guide that which is small. That which is strong and wise must guide that which is weak and fallible."
_The New Message from God » Fear and Fearlessness_
Awesome 😎💐
So essentially, that which is human must be placated by that which is supreme?
Beautiful
So how does one that can never be supreme comprehend or identify supremacy? It’s all a human fallacy.
You should do one on Mike Ehrmantraut. Very brave and likeable character with a lot to offer in terms of tricks to be more confident and brave!
finally someone said it
All of those things come with a lot of experience. The only thing Mike is, is experienced.
This set of ideas is so effective, give it five or ten years of practice in social or work situations and you will not even know yourself anymore. It will change your inner world. Confidence breeds more confidence, it's a feedback loop.
Never ever look weak, if you get that much right you're half way there.
Thank you for this amazing breakdown. And now that we're here, please do one about Saul Goodman. He is truly one the most charismatic and xharming caracters ever created. And the fact that he know how to win the confidence of a lot of people to actually scam them is amazing. He has a lot of power because despite what he does nobody can hate him
1:01 Absofreakinglutely! People all across social media will go on and on about how important eye contact is. Yet when they are face to face with another person, they are rarely comfortable.
I use all of these points in my life and number 1, eye contact, is how I garner control in social situations. The eyes truly are the window to the soul and people feel vulnerable if you look deep in their eyes. When I speak to people, even those that may be combative, and I maintain eye contact with them and speak in a deeper register, they 100% of the time back down
Mike Ehrmantraut and Saul Goodman are starkly different characters with very different mannerisms, yet they both are able to get what they want and recover from seemingly hopeless and difficult situations. For example, despite his age and seemingly frail appearance, Mike should have been punked by the gangsters he is surrounded with, but he has this calmness, confidence, and ruthless mannerisms that inspire fear into his adversaries and "coworkers" so to speak. Saul is a sleazy person who is very hard to trust when you look at all of the dishonest and sly things he's done in the past. Yet he still is able to use his charismatic and confident personality to get what he wants without much resistance. For example, he is able to project confidence and power, even when he has little or none (Tuco and the "skateboard scamming" brothers negotiation in the desert). Just some suggestions for some characters you guys could break down in future analysis!
1. I can vouch for this working. Several years ago I stood up to a guy who was not behaving in a way I appreciated. Despite him being taller than me and apparently in better shape,* he backed down when I stood my ground. (*In better shape than me, except for teeth. As part of my standing up to him I told him to grow some teeth. I guess I'm lucky he didn't smack me for that, but I was ready.)
2. Memento mori and thinking about dying in five years. That one hit home.
Would you consider doing a video about Patrick Jane's (Simon Baker) character from The Mentalist? I believe there to be some great charismatic nuances from his performance that would be valuable to analyze with your methodology!
Hey Charisma on Command, thank you for this video. I learned a lot.
That transition from the video to the. Charisma University pitch was the smoothest thing ever
never break eye contact first or looking down
This can escalate the situation. Look to the left or right to break the tension. This allows you to stand your ground while communicating that you want to solve ithe conflict without a fight.
I have never watched a whole video on the channel before! Now I have watched the video fully several times! It's really useful and superb! Keep it up!! Thanks for the wonderful work!
Pls, can you do a character breakdown of either Gus Fring or Stan Edgar?
I love the episode when Walton Woke said 'It's breaking bed, Jerry' and winkled to him alluding to sexual intercourse
Yoooooo💀
What?
Fav episode ❤
@Hello Therethis sentence made me burst out in laughter lolol 😂
creepy
This is good stuff. Now I gotta make sure to actually remember it and put it to practice.
Thank you so much.. .Now I learned more about Walter and I can apply this to myself
#4 just reminds me of a self made quote I always use to tell if you have a good villain, if you’re gonna act like you’re better than everyone else, you have to BE better than them
That had to be the cleanest transition into an ad I have ever seen😂🎉
The thumbnail is so funny to me
for me too 😂😂😂
this is the exact moment when heisenberg copied this habit
I needed this today
Good reference to Stoicism, also thank you for your amazing channel and I look forward to going to charisma University once I have more time.
As a person who wish to explore 'stoicism', I have encountered many fake stoics, who demand others to be not offended, while themselves getting offended for petty matters.
Stoicism should be widely explored
you should do a video on Hiesenbones, he commands every scene he's in and never shows fear. Oscar worthy performance
1. Eye Contact
2. Speak Slowly with Purposeful Pauses
3. Memento Mori
4. Be Irreplaceable
i. Ability
ii. Likeability
many thanks
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
Nice one !
This is good stuff
can we please notice the 50 000 thing, that both walt and mike demand in both series from the salamancas? and they both "get it" by being fearless and willing to risk everything.
Please can you do a video on confidently facilitating a workshop / work event
can you take a look at captain Flint in the series Black sails. keep up the good work !
Thank you so much this help with my anxiety and confidence talking to people have never felt better reading Chrisma university made my life better and I always wanted to have the same habit as Walter white I appricate your work.
I like how Walt is now the symbol of domination
uh i took this a bit seriously and now my friends think im possessed because i usually look at peoples lips instead of eye contact because i have adhd
In your head just think: "say my name"
5:12 You missed the point in Season 3... Walt is playing a game and is manipulative. He makes other believe he is weak, but in reality he his playing his cards until he drop his hand on the table while being all-in. That moment is where Mike understood he got played... he tells everyone in Season 4 that the last thing he needs is for Walt to speak... because he always find a way to manipulate people the way he wants. Jesse is a good example. He understood at one point that he got played.... the whole time.... even if Walt truly care for him as much as a step son.
Thanks for the break bad promo im watching it
Please make a video on lalo he is such a great character and is so scary
Ty for the eye contacts
Just stare at people like a psychopath. Charisma +10
Can you please make a video on what to learn from Berlin in Money Heist because he has got a lot of things I would like to know from your perspective
Btw love videos 😁
0:59 noted ✍🏼
make a tutorial on how to be 3D like Saul
I am always like that, but I am never in danger or pressure. In Germany this slow speaking and starring is very common, most times it’s strange if someone doesn’t make eye contact when he talks to u, only shy people break it. If u grow up with that u can’t be different. I studied psychology I was never aware of the difference between the countries.
One of the best pueces of advice I have is to be as selectively honest as possible. Be honest as much as possible. Especially with the bigger problems, because they only get bigger. I say selective because I never share more than I have to. This often leads to people sharing with you. But you need to tight lipped.
People think you are smart if they know you have more information than you are revealing. This is especially true when you do ut in front of people that you know things about
Can you do a video like this, but discuss what Mike has to teach us about gaining confidence?
Man o Man , this is the best series so far
Hi...great video. Could you do some Video about how Saul Goodman /Jimmy McGill makes all people likes him.? Everybody who loved this video sure will enjoy with such idea.
Brilliant. It works...
That's actually how I got so much more confident. I've gotten out of situations where I should have died three times now; the most recent situation I had years to come to terms with it, and multiple hospitals and specialists told me to just make myself comfortable.
I was able to recover, and having already come to terms with my mortality, nothing else seems really risky anymore. What's the worst thing that could happen if I put myself out there--I could die? I'm supposed to be dead! 🤣
My compliments!
4:50 I feel like the “no longer calm under pressure” was just an act, because he, I always saw it as that. Feel free to change my mind though.
How to be stronger
-Be Cancer
-Be 52 years old
-Be Danger
This is the moment kid named finger became charismatic?
He shaved his head and that’s what made him BADASS! Real men shave their heads
bro slipped the ad in 💀 anyways, helpful video, thanks.
People often mistake weakness for compassion of others.
MASSIVELY INSPIRING!!
Rick Grimes would do this too in the Walking Dead too. Very good vid and advice. Thank you.
can anyone recommend some books that talk about this particular subject, i just got into reading so that'll be really helpful
Hi ..i am curious to know how they use video clips and not got reported or even they receive copyright stickes ? How.
Amazing
What legitimately worked for me in having confidence in high pressure situations was when I was younger, my friends and I would eat a bunch of LSD and go out causing just enough trouble to get the police called but not enough trouble to get arrested. Taught me there is nothing in can't handle.
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah LSD also changed my life, it's the real life equivalent of life changing magical, fantastical adventure
Acid taught me that we notice our own insecurities way more than other people do. And I became so much more self-confident after that
Based
well that might have worked out i guess
I could write essays on this show. Greatest of all time
Can you do a breakdown of Bryan himself and not his Walter white character? First time watching an interview recently and he captures you when he talks.
This is the moment when walter white became fearless
Thumbnail: copy this habit *arrow at heisenberg*
Me: Where did i put my volumetric flask, my boiling flask, and my methylene...
The things that you describe in this video are consequences of not having a lot of fear and having confidence already. But imitating these traits doesnt erase fear nor emulate confidence. I would appreciate any tips and suggestions on how to reduce my fears, I am not an actor and imitating anyone never did help me.
*HRV biofeedback
Wow. I love breaking bad so very much and I hope it never dies
Thanks Charisma on command.... amazing content for boys growing to be men.... thanks a lot.❤️
Use another channel to your benefit as well. If you enjoy ideas about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder yes will surely follow that...
@@sushant.280 Feel free to use it to your benefit and never hesitate to ask for a second opinion if you ever get stuck on your challenges.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder thanks....
1. Adjust your body language
2. Speak slowly and uses pauses
3. Build stoic courage
4. Be irreplaceable
5. Cook meth
starting with 5, hope this works!
Y'all need to do a video on Omar Little from the Wire.
Can u make video on mike ehrmantraut calmness?
Gus fring and mike were the most badass characters in the whole series hands down
can you do one on Mads Mikkelsen, such a charismatic dude.
Do a video on Daemon from HOTD
I dont usually comment on your videos but I have a question.
I don't think being charming and charismatic is that difficult but what if you're an introvert?
I find myself being more extrovert to charm people, more engaging and out there but typically I'm more closed off and to myself.
But it gets tiring to put that front up for so long. Eventually I fall back into antisocial mode and then my first impression to people are I'm intimidating or antisocial. What can I do to prevent this? Or bounce back from it?
how bout you spread your extrovert effort. Instead of dishing it all at once then feeling depleted, be the silent type and throw a good word here and there to cheer people up
@@luketimewalker Thanks! That sounds like really great advice 🤔I guess I have been doing just a little too much. I appreciate your help!
@@adamstrangelove1081 just my educated guess hehe! Do come back to tell how it goes in a while ;)
1:50 got me like " yuh eh- but the kid is not my son "
There are those who aren't afraid of dying. They're more afraid of not really living.
Hopefully there are upcoming videos about Gus, Mike and Saul...
Please do an analysis on Lalo Salamanca. He's definitely the most worthy personality to get into.