SOLVING LDR: 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Long-Distance Relationship |

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024

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  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Loves this so much ..
    1 For us communication is Key .. As my partner says " don't keep anything in your heart. Speak up
    2. Don't rely so much on Google translation mostly is your from countries that speak different language . Be ready to also sacrifice in learning the language too.
    3. Culture difference/ shock is huge! This can easily make or break the two of you. Be very sensitive when you communicate because it could be received differently.
    4 . Listen to understand and not to respond.. don't be reactive , be responsive.
    5. This should even be 1st.. Put God in it. Challenges will come, lots of paperwork, possible visa rejection 😔, unexpected turn of events ,negativity from family or friends..
    Enjoy the moment , yes it's doable and possible
    All the best to all in LDR❤❤❤

  • @thandoe0734
    @thandoe0734 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I noticed that your points do not apply only on LDR, but on a relationship as a whole, those things are very important because even if you see your person everyday, trusting him in the time he is not with you can be hard, so those points apply to a short distance kinda relationship.
    Thank you Marie, you always pitch up hey❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ItsNattybee
    @ItsNattybee Před 3 měsíci +4

    You should start a podcast…your voice is soo relaxing

  • @amcke8948
    @amcke8948 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Marie you are looking beautiful ❤❤ my man came to kenya after a long distance relationship and we got married within 2 months and i got my visa within 2 months im in Europe together .. good information ❤❤ you will be together with your man soon ❤❤❤

  • @sharonpokuaa1948
    @sharonpokuaa1948 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Have been in long distance relationship for 3years now and am Soo happy will meeting him in August after all these years am Soo Soo happy for closing the distance.....What really helps us through all these years is constant communication, he sometimes watched me sleep before he hung up and that really makes me feel special and Soo many things I can't talked about, with all that we have decided we will never give up on each other ❤.....Miss Mariie thanks for sharing yours with us❤

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci +3

      Awww..I love to hear this!! Congratulations girl, I'm so happy for you. And thank you for sharing this on the platform. I'm sure it's going to encourage somebody to keep going.
      Healthy consistent communication is definitely the key.

  • @blancitakiwanga374
    @blancitakiwanga374 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Been a minute since you used "work hard on yourself than you do at your job" line.. its nice hearing it from you again. Thank you for the remainder as it has a positive impact to some of us😊

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You're looking great Marie💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼,and your setup is soo beautiful

  • @cynthiaadams7689
    @cynthiaadams7689 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Mariie I'm here for this series ; solving ldr. 😊
    Noting all the points down. 💯
    Thank you for doing this. ☺️

  • @zara.smithwick
    @zara.smithwick Před 3 měsíci

    This is very informative and real! Long distance relationships and or marriages are not for the faint hearted. But guys, its possible, its workable as long as you are both mature enough to commit, be honest, truthful and kind with each other!Thanks Mariie for wrapping it up so well❤❤❤

  • @hajiranankoma4255
    @hajiranankoma4255 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So inspirational baby gal,big up to yourself ❤

  • @salonanamane8779
    @salonanamane8779 Před 3 měsíci

    Mariie you looking extremely beautiful hey. LDR is a problem to all even to those whose partners or spouses stay or work in different districts or counties within a country. Trust, commitment, and communication are key in any relationship ❤❤❤ key on hanging there, dear. The distance will soon close

  • @AnneKenya
    @AnneKenya Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow..the set up is something else 🥰

  • @margaretmutune1902
    @margaretmutune1902 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks miss marrie ..looking forward to this new series.. I'm also in a long distance relationship for the past 12 months. My boyfriend is coming to Africa (Kenya,) to meet me for the very first time in July. . This is the most hardest thing I've ever had to do.. It's really hard

  • @anitakyei9162
    @anitakyei9162 Před 3 měsíci

    Yes marrie everything you've said is true LDR is not easy I'm also in the same thing and it's not easy at all thanks for your messages my dear

  • @claudettepercival6875
    @claudettepercival6875 Před 3 měsíci

    I enjoyed this article so much, Marie you're so extraordinary person I really hope that you and Eamon really able to have your heart desires to get everything work out.

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you so much💕. Those are very uplifting words. Blessings upon you and yours❤

  • @oliviahongere
    @oliviahongere Před 3 měsíci

    Aww can't wait for this love love this keep going girl

  • @AnneKenya
    @AnneKenya Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks baby gal for enlightening us. I'm looking forward to being in one and I'm trusting God to give me a good partner. I'm really happy for you and wishing you the very best ❤

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      You are so welcome and Goodluck in your search. I'm sure your person will locate you soon. 💕

  • @akullujanetanita7932
    @akullujanetanita7932 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi Miss Marie, looking great. Thanks for the great informative video. Its worth taking note of.

  • @caroline3117
    @caroline3117 Před 3 měsíci

    I love you miss Marie and how eloquent you're ❤❤I can watch you any day any time❤...And I pray you be the one who relocates to Australia ❤

  • @Inloveandbeyond
    @Inloveandbeyond Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’m super excited about meeting my partner soon. I’m also nervous. Hopefully God makes this successful cos the distance is crazy. I love your new series Mariie. Much love to you and everyone else in long distance relationship ❤we will pull through

  • @user-eo7vc9uz3c
    @user-eo7vc9uz3c Před 3 měsíci

    Like your setup for this video and tips for LDR super.Miss Marie you're glowing super good.am watching you from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @dorinechesire6993
    @dorinechesire6993 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love you and your content 💕

  • @YvonneTempler
    @YvonneTempler Před 3 měsíci

    Hello dear,all your points are on point.As someone in a long distance relationship,i can attest to all that.

  • @Impilo_no_Zanele
    @Impilo_no_Zanele Před 3 měsíci +1

    Notification gang🎉🎉, I love the set up🤍🤍🌻

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you love. It's an honor to have you here🥰💕

    • @Impilo_no_Zanele
      @Impilo_no_Zanele Před 3 měsíci

      @@missmariie ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lucyachieng3271
    @lucyachieng3271 Před 2 měsíci

    I'm stressed with communication but I'm working on it

  • @ChipoMugari
    @ChipoMugari Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you Dea for the advice ❤ much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

  • @Soso-uy3wp
    @Soso-uy3wp Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you miss Marrie
    Much appreciated
    Thank you for kindness to share such vital information
    Very very helpful indeed
    Thank you for starting this platform LDR is hard and without advise and wisdom you can miss a chance to meet your future husband
    Please continue with more points lm sure they are more than 10 😂
    Thank you

  • @lilith_maya
    @lilith_maya Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks mariie for replying will always be asking questions from you

  • @tabbiaachieng2023
    @tabbiaachieng2023 Před 3 měsíci

    Am soo proud of you. This is great... you must have really done alot of research. Wishing you all the best

  • @Leakenvlogs
    @Leakenvlogs Před 3 měsíci

    Ooh im in love with your content so much nikiingia CZcams lazima ni ku search 😂 this is fetish or obsession jamani , your fullof positive vibes 🌹🌹🌹🌹 and im excited to watch this video juu ata mm naona nikona issues za LDR

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      Awww🥰🥰🥰I'm humbled!! You're such a sweet soul. You can set camp here any day any time.💕

  • @ednakuwana-hx6fq
    @ednakuwana-hx6fq Před 3 měsíci

    Excellent advice, you looking great girl ❤

  • @angellakisakye5076
    @angellakisakye5076 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Iam 48 years old woman can I get a lover on dating app??

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes dear. Love can find you anywhere, anytime and at any age💕

    • @mosy2049
      @mosy2049 Před 3 měsíci

      You mean a 48 year bouncing baby girl? Of course! You only need to believe that you deserve to be loved. Everything else falls into place. Look good and put yourself out there. ❤️All the best Hun.

  • @denisealexis4261
    @denisealexis4261 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi ms mariie i miss some of your videos i have to go back an watch all of them .how are you doing. I was but i could not take it anymore an i decided to leave .i could not trust him anymore. I know my girl i love my own company its a tuff one i can relate .good to see you my dear girl

  • @donabengochea8626
    @donabengochea8626 Před 3 měsíci

    You look very beautiful marie,you look very professional

  • @zolekanyathi8153
    @zolekanyathi8153 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Please don't forget to wear you ring

  • @esthertizirai270
    @esthertizirai270 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much you've really helped a lot ❤❤

  • @BlessingJoe680
    @BlessingJoe680 Před 3 měsíci

    This is beautiful….

  • @lilith_maya
    @lilith_maya Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hello miss mariie,,,first time commenting but a full time subscriber,,, while back before you even met your fiance,,, have been on your channel from the beginning,,, I hope you answer this for me,,, how do you do to accommodate your fiance in your house,,, cause i think they book hotels before even having there flight or am i wrong,,,i just need to know how i can accommodate him,, without him booking an hotel,,, plus he wants to sent money but we don't even know how to go about all,,, please help a sister,,,i asked so many and no answer hopefully you won't disappoint a sister and a fan of your sweet journey

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Hey beautiful, thank you so much for the support. You guys are the reason I'm here🥰🥰 I don't take it for granted 💞.
      They don't have to book accommodation at a hotel before booking their flights, all they have to do is provide an address for where they are going to stay while in your country. Send him your current address to use when booking flights and applying for the visa. That should work just fine.
      As for money, he uses the Remitly app so he can send money directly to my mpesa account. Its the quickest.
      There's also the option of PayPal but it's alittle bit more expensive and less dependable in my opinion.
      I hope that helps.

  • @enealiceitodo8542
    @enealiceitodo8542 Před 3 měsíci

    You are glowing babe❤

  • @christinesitawa6334
    @christinesitawa6334 Před 3 měsíci

    This is great piece of advice. Would you share some online tools/articles on building intimacy in LDR?

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you,, I definitely will do that💯

  • @carolinencube7912
    @carolinencube7912 Před 3 měsíci

    Please wear your ring, l am saying this out of love ❤❤❤❤

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thanks for the concern 😊

  • @leoniewinobo6313
    @leoniewinobo6313 Před 3 měsíci

    Thankyou marie for some advise my ldr is 2years now we dont meet yet thankyou i love your advise

  • @nontokozongwenya2660
    @nontokozongwenya2660 Před 3 měsíci

    looking beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @hellendoisi7511
    @hellendoisi7511 Před 3 měsíci

    Looking beautiful

  • @Christinekiama
    @Christinekiama Před 3 měsíci

    Miss marie my biggest problem has been when they want to explore the sexual connection and how far should one go as i don't want to trust the wrong person as some want you to engage in the "things" with video call or sharing explicit pictures ? Kindly advise as that is where i fall out with most being seductive to what point would you advise?

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      From my experience, as long as it doesn't feel right or comfortable, it's too soon or it's the wrong person. Always trust your gut feeling when it comes to online dating.
      These are the questions to ask yourself, are you comfortable engaging on that level? Do you feel like he's coming on too strong?
      Do you have a connection besides the sexual stuff?
      Does it feel good pursuing this sexual connection or do you feel forced?
      If any of your answers to these questions is a no then it's either the wrong timing or the wrong person.

    • @Christinekiama
      @Christinekiama Před 3 měsíci

      @@missmariie thanks for the heads up as I feel some come too strong and you really haven't gained each other trust

    • @Christinekiama
      @Christinekiama Před 3 měsíci

      @@missmariie but atleast I know if he is serious he will be patient till we are on the same page

    • @missmariie
      @missmariie  Před 3 měsíci

      The sexy talk should not start until you have established that you have a connection with this person and that it's somebody you're interested to pursue something more with. That should be atleast a month in.
      If you start talking and a couple of texts in he is already asking for nudes and videos then Run! He's gonna ghost you as soon as you send those nudes.
      Also as a side note, never send any nude photos or videos to a random person on the internet. Those are privileges he can only get when there's a commitment already made i.e, you have physically met, he has officially asked you to be his girlfriend, he has ringed the finger etc...

    • @Christinekiama
      @Christinekiama Před 3 měsíci

      @@missmariie yes this is it coz I always ask the person we can flat and all that but we have to meet and be sure of what we doing before doing some things but I love that now I see then am not the wrong one been feeling kinda some way lost n the fact that I know I want to be with someone from a different country and I know it's something I will have to get through it.... Thanks for the girl keep encouraging us into this as we keep looking forward to this definitely I will give you feedback by the end of it

  • @rahabpulanemakwala4447
    @rahabpulanemakwala4447 Před 3 měsíci

    Good advice indeed Marie and you are glowing girl😘😍👌

  • @Inloveandbeyond
    @Inloveandbeyond Před 3 měsíci

    Most times expiration date depends solely on the immigration 🥹and it can get frustrated sometimes 😢