I’m sure you realized this, but when that creep was asking about how long you’ve been living in the van and such, he was getting info on whether or not you would be a target that wont be missed or immediately noticed as missing.
@@Deenique16 I was concerned he would pop up some where. I hope all of this exposure will make him get HELP cause he is one sick person if he is doing what it looks like he is doing. GET HELP if you (that man) are reading this!!!
I saw that original video, and I have to say, as an older woman who has had more than one or two scary moments with men, that guy scared the hell out of me. You handled yourself very well, and I’m very glad you, a) recorded the entire encounter, and, b) got out safely. All the best to you in your future life of freedom on all the roads of life.
I saw the original as well he was a creep, couldn’t get his story straight about who is bringing water ( he never had any on his golf cart) then at the very end, he just kept staring at her - I felt uncomfortable for her. She did the right thing ( although if there was a fight, I am certain Alyssa would win hands down ). People like that guy almost make you trust no one. Sadly.
Some guy made a follow up trying to find this dude out in the exact same spot and ran into some other old guy that had been there for 3 years and said he had never seen anyone on an ATV offering water to anyone. So that was a straight up lie from the creepy dude tbh
I just went back to see that video. Your instincts were correct. He was 1. Trying to get you out of your van close to his ATV so he could grab you.( When he said look at the truck). 2. He was judging how or if he could overpower you. Hence the long pauses and staring. 3. He tried to entice you to his home to take a shower. Talked about a wife and children. Probably not married. If he was broken in to why invite strangers to come to his home especially when his wife was home alone with him out of town. Always keep your ammo etc at hand.
He did not have a wife and kids at home. No woman would allow strangers to come into her home to shower. And if she had kids in the house, even less than zero percent chance of that happening. The guy wasn't a good liar. The wife/kids thing wasn't the only example of that. Thank goodness he gives out so many red flags.
Doesn't hurt to learn some basic self defense tools either. Fight or flight can really trip up the mind tho. A woman knows when she's being preyed upon. Every hair on her body stands on edge and the adrenaline starts going... it's not a pleasant space to exist in. If you can't flee... it's good to know how to fight. Many freeze... you learn a lot about yourself in such situations.
It’s like watching someone escape a real life horror movie scenario, that was *sketchy* like 👀 almost on dateline *sketchy* this is a good solo van-life story to pass on, maybe how she handled him might help someone else down the line too you never know. You never know who might appear randomly when you are out there alone I always tell the van-life crowd to be safe out there ❤ there’s great people to meet but then there’s also people like this dude.
He was mentally ill. A codependent on the further side of the spectrum. He may even be delusional with some psychotic features, like paranoia. But he's not a freak. Let's keep dignity in the conversation.
exactly what I just commented. his body language got fidgety along with the awkward silence as soon as he realized his plan to SCARE her into moving to the other side or coming to HIS house. he was contemplating not letting her leave.
It reminded of the old Tom and Jerry cartoons where Tom would have the devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. The devil would try his best to get Tom to do something evil while the Angel tried to talk Tom out of it. That guy definitely was having that same moment
That's exactly what I was thinking. He was deciding on whether or not to do something bad. Its good that she interrupted his thoughts by asking if he needed anything. Sadly, creeps like this are why I don't go camping alone.
I'm a 50+ y/o male. This guy was creepy as hell. Everything was off about him. The long stare, the invite to shower but make sure he was there the first couple times so his wife wouldn't think something strange was happening (when he already said it a common thing for him to invite people to shower/use the water hose, etc), even the cadence of his voice sounded wrong when he was telling the story - you could feel he was lying. I'm going to guess the guy doesn't have a wife at home. I love that you have his face, conversation, and atv on video and everyone can see it. I hope someone sees your video, recognizes him, and let's him see it so he can crawl back into his hole and ensure he never approaches someone again in this manner.
I hope she sends it to the police. I have no earthly idea why she didn't go immediately to the police and file a report. It's one of the most chilling videos I've ever seen.
Oof yes. The wife and kids were just to make him appear “less threatening” to her. He was lying through his teeth. When he was asking her personal questions he was trying to case her out. Creeps like that are capable of of anything. I’m glad she got out
That part was so odd to me. Where in his mind did he think it made more sense to say that him being around when she showered would make his wife feel better. Like it would make way more sense for him not to be around at all when thats going on.
So glad you got his face on video. Now others can watch out for him. You might not realize it, but you may have saved another solo female from that creep for posting the video. You should be proud of yourself.
One late evening I stopped at a fast food place to catch a quick meal. While I was reading a newspaper I noticed a guy sitting by himself while I was eating in the restaurant. I left the restaurant and walked to my locked car to get in. Suddenly that dude appeared just as I leaned over to fasten my seatbelt. He could have approached me in the bright restaurant but ohhellno, here in a dark parking lot. I told him I was a Fed and “Show me your ID.” He backed right off. Idiots. Don’t ever approach a woman alone. We *are* armed and not afraid to use what we have.
The key moment that spooked me was his long, awkward stare. It was like in that moment he was contemplating if he was going to do something evil or not and when you spoke it helped snap him out of it. It could be that he was quite literally just perving but either way that was a very scary and spooky moment. Forget ghosts or demons, it's humans that are the most terrifying. I'm glad you were armed in this context.
He was no way perving only. He was contemplating if or how to get her since she didn’t come out to see this truck he wanted her to see. He was going to grab her from behind and overpower her then drag her to her van and rape and possibly kill her. Did you notice how his finger was moving about the steering wheel as he contemplated? Freaking too creepy.
Men see a woman alone and assume that means we somehow want their attention. It ruins so many of our solo travel experiences. It's infuriating. Thank you for sharing your story.
It does! They make us feel unsafe and it's so wrong! I've had many men at least ask if they can approach and they are usually just curious about my rig (I'm in a big ass school bus) and they just ask me questions about how I like driving something so big, mechanical concerns, etc. But there have been many who just walk over or stop in their atvs uninvited and I just crank up and drive away but that pisses me off because it takes me a while to find a good spot to camp and here they are being invasive!
@@brainspout3447 It’s a breath of fresh air for a man to recognize this fact! Thank you! Most men just say, “not all men” without any contemplation that women have no idea which men so we have to be on guard with all men. Even fathers tell their daughters to be wary of “men” because they know it too.
@@brainspout3447 Exactly, guys don't need to explain "not all men" anytime this conversation is had, that's so obvious even a child understands it immediately when her father says the same words.
I remember seeing your original video and i was really impressed with how you handled yourself. As someone who works in crime scene technology and behavioral science, you did everything right. You kept him in your sights and didn't show fear. I have a theory that human predators share a lot in common with animal predators. Showing fear could've excited him and encouraged him to pursue. If you started running, it could have triggered panic and a desire to make sure you can't tell on him. Or excited him enough to pursue the chase. If you were rude it could have made him angry and want vengeance. The best thing you did when he got into the zone by staring, was talk to him. You're right about it breaking him out of his trance and back to reality. I hope it continues to go viral and teach other women
Yes, so true! Once he knows she has figured out what he is up to, he (the predator) knows he has nothing to lose at this point, that he may be reported anyhow and will act. So it makes sense if the victim shows fear that it signals to him that he has been already 'caught,' that his victim has figured out that he intends wrongdoing. I am a victim of an unsolved crime. We know the perpetrator but can't get enough evidence. We do have electronic bank records AND the criminal admitted to cashing federal notes, though she claims she had the right to. However, her story contradicts what was a bank employee said and other evidence. THIS, is where I believe we have her. We also need some checks and papers we have checked for her fingerprints and DNA of both her and the person who we believe she had a hand in causing the death of. I am looking for DNA and if there is anyway to look up this criminal's text/phone times as well as computer/internet activity during the time leading up to and associated with the crimes. It happened in Texas. The crimes are bank fraud, 2nd degree felony theft and forgery, wire fraud, identity theft, money laundering, stealing government services/money, and contribution to an elderly person's death. It will take combining ALL the efforts of Federal, state and local authorities. I have a LOT of evidence but need someone from each area of law enforcement to help. The crimes occurred in Texas. The federal crimes are the wire and bank fraud, money laundering and theft of government services (both state and federal). I have NO idea where to start. The local PD said it was a very unusual case. They are not used to people committing forgery or bank theft over 100K in their area, they usually go after bad checks in the $100 to $1000 range.
Yes. When he came around the second time he was definitely weighing his options and I think it was smart for her to “play along” long enough to get safe
The fact that you felt the need to explain why you were there over and over is very upsetting. That video made me terrified for you, and I understand why it took so long to film a follow up. You dont have to quit ANYTHING just because creeps are out there. You were careful and you were experienced enough to trust your gut. I am so proud of you, you are amazing!
women always end up having to over explain and defend themselves. The amount of guys in the comments saying dumb things in her other video were off the charts. And the amount of them saying "hurr durr this is why I have a gun". Like buddy, she had a gun. Just say you don't listen to anything women say and move on to another video lol
Most people just want you to be safe. You want to camp by yourself and are prepared to have a shoot out, you do you. I'm glad she posted it, and I would never want my daughter in this situation armed or not. Am I old-fashioned or just sensible?
Girl I send you a video a few months ago telling you that two girls were murdered in that same area. That man could have been the person that murdered them. You were featured in someone’s video showing it was the same location. Thank God you made it out ok. The other girls didn’t!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You were in denial, honey. It’s a normal post-reaction. Don’t worry about the haters. Just always follow your gut. You made it out safe, that’s all that matters.😊
Yeah, I was giving the dude a break until he started doing that. That is what is great about having a dog as a traveling companion. Most of the time they sense right away if something is off about a stranger.
I am just glad that guy didn't have a weapon. This is so chilling. One thing I wouldn't have told him was that you were going to leave. That might have triggered him to act quickly and do something crazy. But you did a good job of not panicking....so I am glad you're alive and able to share this.
I had my daughter watch that video. It is important because every other vanlifer presents videos like the dangers are made up, and it's all just one happy family. I never believed that as I lived out of an RV in a down time in my life, before this was a popular thing to do. Young people many times have a naive view of what's out there. PLUS, the way YOU handled it was exactly as I would hope my daughter would (being that her and her BF bought a camper recently). You followed your gut, didn't override it by denial, or being ''nice'', and you did what you had to do to be safe, by leaving that situation. Good job. Thank you for being a good example. Side note: i wish women could just exist in peace. I always thought ''well when I am this age, or that" that it would change, and I'd be invisible. But mid 50's now, it never changes. That's why I carry bear spray whenever I'm going out somewhere.
Same. I'm older too and still the men come uninvited.. I drive away right when they're trying to talk. I also have bear spray and other weapons. It is also bad camping etiquette for anyone but they still do it anyway. I wish they would just wave and keep going like everyone else who has some sense.
My boyfriend and I are traveling through New Zealand and here are a lot of super nice people offering to shower, fill up water or even sleep at their place. But there was this one guy who didn’t let go of us and asked again and again. He had a puppy with him and even payed for our drinks (we were at a small local bar). Something felt off by his offers - compared to those of some other genuine people that just want to help out (yet we never accepted those offers). So we trusted our gut feeling and I‘m really happy about our decision especially since the owners asked about out safety the next day we went there to grab a coffee. They have never seen the guy before and we’re creeped out by him as well just from overhearing the conversation we had with him, trying to get some information about our stay, where our van was parked and so on. Some people don’t even mind being seen by others or wouldn’t back off whether your solo traveling or not. So stay safe everyone and always trust your gut feeling!
Im not paranoid but the vibes you got from this person's second visit that finally made you leave the area quickly, i was already getting those vibes from his first visit. I thought this guy is coming back. I'm just glad you're safe. Take care
She keeps that pew pew on her so she wouldn’t have anything to be worried about. You on the other hand have a reason to be if you don’t know how to defend yourself and you aren’t a social person. She’s meeting strangers daily. she can’t just assume everyone guy is out to get her and if they are they better be faster than a bullet ❤
@@KagomeHWell I have ran across some pervs and some jerks who were a little psycho so I don't apologize for not being a socialite when I'm out and about.
@@KagomeH it's the woods, you're alone with strangers..... aint no one trying to be miss congeniality out there, esp after the Moab (sp?) murders of those 2 women.
@@GetUnwoke if you’re not willing to that’s fine. YOU don’t seem confident in your ability to defend yourself and that’s fine. If you camp, YOU need to make sure to take people you feel safe with, and that can protect you since YOU can’t do that on your own. but don’t try to put your insecurities out on others. She told us time and time again that she was capable of defending herself, so why are you trying to go against that?
@@KatMistress-kw3py and that’s fine. That’s why you don’t live the life that she does. it’s fine to be paranoid just don’t try and put that out on others. Shes a smart and cautious women don’t assume she’s a target because that’s how you view yourself when you’re out alone.
girl, i stopped watching that video like a quarter in when i found you last year because i was considering doing a cross country solo car camping adventure. instead i binged your other videos which helped me make the decision to go on a 2 month trip this past spring. i slept many places alone and never had a problem. you are a huge inspiration to me!
@@bonson9156another comment mentioned Hornet spray, cans in both door holsters. I thought that was brilliant. Especially the extreme spraying far shooters 😅
I remember you very clearly for the first video. You said that both your parents were military and that someone should “fuck around and find out” and I told my daughter about you. You made me SOOO proud that you could handle yourself like that. There’s NO WAY you should be out there alone unless you have protection and I’m glad you have such great instincts. Stay well❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know that location, my dad and stepmom have camped there for many many years. If you ever felt compelled to show that video to the Pima County Sheriff, they might be able to check the guy out(if he truly lives in that area) and see if he's a sex offender. Im so thankful you got out of there safely because he was definitely contemplating doing something to you.
"If you ever felt compelled to show that video to the Pima County Sheriff" LOL - I can't believe I watched this and the original video and not 1 word about law enforcement?????? I almost doubting this story to be honest? Did she make a police report? FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME THIS GIRL FILED A POLICE REPORT.
@pojo1010 Technically we will never know what the cops would do in this situation because she never called to report the strange incident. Which makes me question why. Was she afraid for her safety or not? THE POLICE SAY THIS ALL THE TIME => "IF YOU SEE SOMETHING, SAY SOMETHING!" I'm calling BS like so many in this thread.
@@Lisalynne-ck9gf It would take this girl 2 seconds to forward such an email w video attachment to the police. even as a precaution. Just ya know, say hey this may be nothing, but ABOUT 100 PEOPLE ONLINE are telling me to forward this video to you police officers ...... KEEP IN MIND THO - if she made the whole thing up .... AND IT LOOKS LIKE SHE DID .... She would be in legal trouble for forwarding this youtube video. She would be filing a false police report. That is why she is not doing it now. EVEN with 100 people begging her to file a police report she can't .... THIS WOMAN IS A FRAUD.
5:39 I am so GLAD you have a gun! That man was a freak! That 30 second pause was horrifying. Seriously, you are very smart to have a gun. He could have come off that 4 wheeler in a nanosecond. HE could have pulled a gun on YOU! Thank God nothing bad happened. I love your videos and congratulations again, on your new van. So happy for you. Safe travels! ♥
So true, I think he did not come close because he was not aware of what she had protection wise. He wanted her to step out of her van, which is why he told her to come look at the white van. My daughter in law was walking to her car at Walmart and a man and woman was trying to lure her. So you can be alone or in a public place and still have creeps bother you. It’s so sad but she handled it perfectly
@@lunatune3714 its a fact most people are harmed by their own gun because the perp takes it away from them. Most hesitate to shoot, giving the perp time to grab it,
I really hope you get that video to the police department in that area because you never know what other young Travelers has stopped there and became victims or disappeared
I read between the lines a long time ago. I knew you could take care of yourself. I remember in your video when you said thanks Mom and held up the box of ammo. FAFO is our motto. Stay Sweet and stay Safe. Love ya! 🥰
Thank you so much for sharing this, Alyssa. I am a 66 year old woman who will soon be a solo traveler in my skoolie. This gives me strength to continue to plan my journey. I wish you all the best in your travels and hope to meet you one day on the road. You are truly an inspiration.
Some people don't get you can literally be in the middle of nowhere and see no one for miles one day and the next there happens to be that one weirdo nearby. Glad the "know it all" commenters nor the creeper have kept you from doing what you want to do. Your awareness and calmness are super admirable. Keep cranking out great content!
It's scary how much the Mind protects Us in survival mode. I honestly think the denial is just so that you don't have a fucking breakdown in the moment and think as clearly as possible. Unfortunately I think that actually was a life-threatening situation, and I'm so happy that you got out. And I'm so happy you got his face on camera
love you Alyssa!!! I am 30 year old mom of three; two girls and a boy. We have watched your channel for over a year now! We knew you could handle yourself. You are intelligent, beautiful and funny. That guy was probably staring at all those Angels you had around you. God was “nope not her.” Not today Satan!!! You are gifted and Jesus loves you don’t stop seeking him. ❤
heck ya they are, and we can assist by invoking them around her with our prayers. It's a beautiful thing, our spiritual nature. Be free, be wise, stay strong in spirit Alyssa. We support your sharing.@@roundtwo3321
That’s exactly what I said. But he wasn’t seeing them. He was staring at her and contemplating. The best thing she could have done was what she did - address him asking if he needed something. It shook him. However I fully believe her angel was with her and prayers said in the past or present were keeping her safe. He would have been back a third time if she didn’t leave and he would have followed thru with his sicko plan. Or tried to. Thank God it was thwarted, her boldness in that moment is what did it!
I saw the original footage/ video, and I commented on it. It’s great that it went viral, as it can help other solo female travellers/ van lifers deal with these encounters the way that you did. Your casual attitude with this guy was great instead of panicking. It’s clear you can handle yourself. Enjoy your travels 🫶
i starting subscribing to you from that video. as another female solo traveler it's so belittling for people to tell you "never travel alone" or anything along the lines. Things can happen anywhere; in the city or in the middle of nowhere. You're doing what you love against all of the fears. The reason I decided to subscribe is that you are continuing to live for yourself even after this scary encounter.
It’s the “We BOTH made it out alive” for me… cause baby that steel would’ve made quite an impact if he tried something. Thank you again for sharing, I can only imagine the strength it takes to share this part… as someone who wants to do vanlife one day, this helps me mentally prepare 🙏🏾✨🦋
He was so creepy. Objectively one can try to pick apart why he wasn't a threat but everything about his demeanor sets off alarms for any woman who watched. He was 100% malicious and creepy and thought he found an easy target. The way his gout swollen feet woulda tried to run his sorry ass away once she unpacked that heat.... Glad she didn't have to go through the trauma of having to harm him though!
imo the only life that was at stake there was his. for her it was if she got outta there without having to end the guy with her experience in weaponry from an early age, it is clear as day how that encounter wouldve ended
"Someone is up on the hill watching you with binoculars!" Oh yeah? is he wearing a flannel shirt and driving a golf cart? "Um... yeah he is" Is it YOU? "I... I... think I have to go now..."
I'm a former 911 Police Dispatcher. I'm so glad that you don't heap guilt upon yourself and have moved on from your horrific experience. It is indeed commonplace to not tell anyone after such an encounter. We inside of the law enforcement community hear this regularly. Van camping, van dwelling is no different than anywhere else except the places and faces change more often. People who do not travel simply do not understand that as a reasonable fact but it is certainly true. Van Dwellers are simply a Microcosm of Society as a whole. I'm certain that your Dad taught you wisely 💯 based on his own experience in law enforcement. Much respect to you and your Dad for grooming you for life's any challenging experiences. As Always Be Well, Be Safe, Be HAPPY-GO-LUCKY.
I have lived on this earth for 62 yrs. and made many poor choices which put me in the cross hairs of evil minded men. I have gotten much wiser and more cautious. I loved it when you mentioned you were from Texas and I knew right then that you knew what you were doing but I was in that van with you trying to tell this old POS he needed to move on now. Glad you got the heck out of there quick. As a mom, I was wanting to mother you and then I saw this update vid and knew, you got this. I heard someone say, "Humans are the only species that goes toward danger, animals leave immediately". I took that to heart and it works. Be well and a belated Merry Christmas!
Just wanted to say that your reaction to the creepy situation is a very normal reaction to a traumatic situation. Glad you have been able to process this, and am sorry you've had to endure so many unhelpful opinions about the situation. Glad I found this channel! Look forward to seeing more of your adventures
I happened to stop and watch your 1st video because i live in Tucson and i recognized the mountains i actually live in that area I know exactly where you were at, because snowbird park there every year, that video really creeped me out, that man approching you, I felt uncomfortable for you glad you're ok couldn't get over it for a week thinking that weirdo was in our area. Wonder if anyone recognized him from that video, be safe!
People will always try to blame the victim, no matter what the evidence is, and it doesn’t matter what they think. I’m just so glad you got out of there safely, that’s all that matters. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that situation and it’s no wonder it’s still hard to think about. But you’re doing amazing.
I've camped out in that same area, also solo female. I felt it was kind of sketchy when I was there; it just gave me a bad feeling. I stayed for about 3 nights to finish out my work week. I was so happy to leave! I remember watching your original video last year but didn't realize where you were. I'm so glad you got out of that situation safe!
I do hope you share this with the police in that area because he may have done other things to someone else. Stay safe. You are doing well. You're prepared and careful so what more can a person do.
He must have been watching you from binoculars before riding out to ya. He put it on another person but it was really him. Thats how he knew he could ride out to your vehicle. He assessed the situation and left and then came back. Normal men don’t do that. He has done it before and I hope he’s never acted on it but that’s just about impossible with someone like that. Their carnal impulses take over. He was measuring up the situation and if he could get you near him or get you to follow his “suggestions” then he would have felt empowered to overtake you. Normal men truly out to do a good deed don’t talk like he did and they don’t invite you to shower at their house! He said he had a wife and kids which I doubt, he probably said it to make you feel a false sense that he was “safe”. He was and is stupid though. He couldn’t keep his mouth from running and gave himself away from the get go. But thank God for that or you might have thought it was safe to stay there and he could have snuck back later. Man I have been around a lot of creepy men before and I’ve been in situations that I shouldn’t have been in and I KNOW THAT I KNOW that Jesus sent angels to protect me because of the prayers of my family, but I never felt as creeped out about someone as I did about him and even tho I knew you were obviously okay, I was so scared for you in that moment because I could “see” what he was thinking and capable of. If you ever find yourself in that type of situation again, make sure your weapon is on you or in your hand! He was dangerous, but stupid. Thankfully!
I remember seeing the original video last year and then seeing his comments defending himself. I don't know if it was actually him or a troll but he was desperate in defending himself. I'm glad you're okay.
Saw the original video. Was so thankful you got away from that situation. Girl never feel guilty that you might have to cause harm to someone who is threatening your safety. Trust your instincts and be safe
I'm just glad you are safe. I remember when you posted that video. The guy was very creepy. His story was so full of holes. I'm glad you had protection with you. It couldnt hurt to have some pepper spray at the ready too. Never be afraid to stand your ground.
My mother and others blamed me for purchasing next to a stalker. After a couple of months the cops removed a 17 year old female, foster child, he beat regularly. A week after the foster child was removed, he attacked his 63 year old tenant, dislocating her shoulder and cracking three, ribs. Then the neighbour behind me told me there has been more than one woman removed from his property that had died. Cops told me he was bad news. Now this is on a remote island without police, a gas station or any services. He kept cutting off my water. He and his crew would use my property daily to process logs. He and another felon, tried to pinch me in-between two moving trucks and were banned by police and not allowed on my property. Having no access to my yard really pissed him off so retaliation meant cutting off my water and blocking access to my driveway. Lawyers want $40 000 to start litigation. Now my house sits empty and is unsaleable, no water and no access up the mountain. I left, I am living in my van, full time and know if I am around a threat, at least I have the option to move.
Your character keeps me subscribed. Your videos are like a Netflix new release. I’m happy to hear about your upbringing! I thank your parents for their service as a fellow veteran myself. Keep on keeping on!!! 💪🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Great update Alyssa! Red was sooooooo annoyed at all the people getting onto you after that video. I was pretty sure you had a gun and I know you are a smart girl. I was only concerned for the anxiety I know it gave you. So glad it’s over and that you caught the creepy guy on film and it exploded your channel so you can get a better profit from your channel (I hope) Thanks for sharing your journey with us! We love you! 🌹 Red
@@exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430 anyone should know with any sense from her first video. and also the video where she gets ammo from her mom Maybe if you watched her videos you’d know more 🤷♀️
Thanks for sharing this journey with me. I Love You Please Stay Safe . Safe Travels Always. God Bless U Beautiful Friend. Mucho Love from your friend in Michigan Tam ❤️ ♥️ 💕 💗
I watch alot of van life channels and only stumbled onto this one because of that video. I applaud her for being so authentic. Sounds like she spent a miserable summer in the Arizona heat, day in and day out, which must've been a hot monotonous grind. Then she tries to get some relief and then this weirdo comes up on her. Yet she's still out there. Good on you.
For people saying it's not creepy, it's creepy, it's kinda of common sense that it's creepy to walk up on a stranger when they are alone or in a secluded area, just in daily life strangers approach me like this, I can be sitting in my car , I've been ask for money ,lighters, directions etc, why ask a anyone sitting alone in a car anything, I've never been approach for things like that inside the store or in front of people, you're like those people that stand right beside you at the checkout, it's creepy, why were you never taught to stay out of peoples bubble?
I'm with you Alyssa, we can't live in fear like that. I saw that video and it was scary for you I'm sure but when you stand your ground and be strong and smart about things like that it's not as dangerous as people think. I think a lot of times these predatorial people look for ones that are scared and weak and you are not that and neither am I. I finally got a van and I plan on doing plenty of traveling. I will be smart about it, I've learned a lot from watching you and others and I just won't back down if it ever comes to me to stand up to somebody...but I don't look for trouble either...best of luck to you out there and hope to see you in Quartzite this January! 😊
Agghhh, people. They love to victim blame and/or shame. Women get attacked sitting in their homes by their supposed "loved one" more than by a stranger in public. And for the record, you have always struck me as a very capable and self aware person. I think people take your soft voice as an indicator of how you are in general. But as an old commercial used to say..."Don't let a smooth face fool ya". Always keep that "pew pew" near you and continue to follow those instincts. I look forward to your next video.
Alyssa!! Hey girl, been following you a year or so ago since I’ve started my whole nomad journey, and the authentic and rawness that you show through your videos is what kept and grabbed me in. And you honestly helped me feel so comfortable and less alone when I was at my lowest, I hate to see you had to relive this situation through again, I remember when you had posted it initially and my heart was pounding with you. But tbh i think it definitely needed to be safe, help keep other van lifers safe out there 💖
I watched the other video too.I’m glad that you can defend yourself.Also,you need to get a pepper spray and taser too.When you are camping in a wilderness make your concealed carry visible.That’s a good warning too.
You did great, both during the incident and now talking about the fallout. I remember that posting and how difficult it was for you to talk about. I also remember what a creep he was... Thanks for sharing your adventures with us, I have enjoyed the journey. Much ❤
I watch a ton of Vanlife videos and just came across the one that proceeded this - that was so creepy. I'm glad you recorded the encounter and posted it so others could get a look at the creeper. As a mom, I was worried for you - as a woman I was proud of you. Clearly, you can hold your own, I hope you're never in a situation like that again. I'm glad you did the follow-up (though it was clear to me what you meant by being a full-blooded Texan and stand your ground laws). I'm glad to know the encounter did not deter you from living life the way you want to live it. Safe travels!!
People really don't understand this life style and I believe you stay safe where ever you are...stay safe always. And don't let people say any different
As a fellow SFT I completely agree with you about creeps being commonplace but part of travelling is being one step ahead. You were. I was impressed how well you handled that situation. You acted assertively without escalating and delivered your message…not all communication is verbal and he got yours loud & clear. I’ve reacted after a situation the same - it’s a gross feeling to realize someone had bad intentions toward you and hard to process. Glad you’re well & safe travels 🫶
I started following your channel waaaay back when you were in chevyvedder. So, when the "being watched" video came up, I was already emotionally involved; so I watched with some concern. But you had obviously made it through alive and fine. And I wasn't worried about you, because I knew you could protect yourself, and I hoped that you'd continue living the life. In some ways, the video was a PSA to just be vigilant, but don't let fear stop you. Anyway, I'm super happy you didn't let it discourage you, cuz I love your channel, pal :) (And I can't wait to see my member badge ;) It's good to be back.)
I remembered that video. You're one of my regulars that I try to keep up with. I never thought much of it other than I believe that you handled yourself well & did exactly what you should have done. I'm sorry that you had to experience it I didn't know how much of an emotional strain it was for you. Stay strong & hope to keep watching you.
Thank you for the update . I remember that video and prayed for you at that moment while I watched. I continue to keep you in my prayers while you live your adventurous life.
I actually just watched the video today (the original one) and now am watching this one. I just wanted to say that I actually really appreciate your authenticity. Since "van life" got super popular and basically "influenced" I honestly find most creators not fully honest about disclosing their full background and glamorizing what can be a very challenging but also rewarding lifestyle (for the right person of course!). Van life isn't for everyone, but I think it's also super important for people to see that just because something is different from the norm, doesn't make it less legitimate than any other way of living life. Keep on keeping on girl!
im so glad you updated, i weirdly came across your video when it was still in the hundreds of views and very recently posted, and i was very uneasy seeing that guy. but i admire your strength i need to try letting my past experiences haunt me less
Always listen to your intuition! Carry and enjoy life, as a solo trucker running all lower 48 and Canada I saw so much out there, people are weird! And so many prey on those not being watchful, weaker, or presume that you will freeze in fear. Being the first to confront a lot of times unnerves them, you just have to quickly access the situation and act . God bless you I know this shook you up
When my wife and three kids were returning to Lawrence, KS after a trip to Utah, we stopped to camp just across the Kansas border near Sherman Lake (39°11'24"N 101°45'48"W). It was dark and already quite late, so we set up our tent by flashlight. There were people camping further in and we thought it was nice not to be completely alone because there was a feeling of foreboding there. We (me wife, & 3 kids) laid down in our sleeping bags but a truck was slowly circling, driving past slowly with engine at idling speed... Really creepy. After 5 or 6 passes I thought we'd be okay but my wife felt strongly we should get out of there. I was annoyed because I was so tired, but I got thinking that my wife has this intuition while the truck came grinding by on the gravel. So I said let's go. I said don't turn on any lights or give any indication we are leaving. We packed up the sleeping bags, took down the tent and rolled it up in the dark, then got in the van, turned on the lights, and left! I think your first time takes you by surprise, but afterwards you become much more aware!
Your van-life experiences are valuable learning tools for everyone, especially for females traveling alone. Keep sharing them; you're helping the world.
yep saw this in the uk national news the other day , guy was definitely calculating what his next move would be and maybe made a quick risk base assessment of you that would would be no pushover !
My heart absolutely breaks for you doing this recap. You have grown in so many ways with strength by your side. May God continue to shield you from the dangers and you continue embark on your journey. A bird in a cage is never free, continue to fly my sweet friend.❤
So proud of you for posting this it brought tears to my eyes I will continue to watch you I haven't checked out Twitter or tic tok be safe and have fun
Two things that I noticed from the original video: When he was pointing and talking about the white dodge, he was pointing into the distance saying, "Come out here and I'll show you." Hmm... this story would have a different ending if she had done that. Second thing, when he had his silent stare at the end, you see his eyebrows shoot up above his glasses. I wonder what Alyssa is doing at this point that caused such a reaction. Very scary and strange situation. Edit: I just watched the video by Roadside Cross, and he also mentioned that this guy was trying to get her out of the van and closer to him.
" what was she doing to make.his eyebrows ", this is a real person not a game of clue please remenber that as you watching a video and treating it like a toy when it someone life
I caught that too come out he said. He had angry body language too. His body was in attack position and comforting himself with his thumb. She was wise to not go out.
Your first video about this brought me here. Thank goodness you listened to your intuition. And eff people judging your choices. It's really disturbing how we've normalized women having to compromise on every moment of their lives to *hopefully* avoid being assaulted by a man. You should be able to exist anywhere at anytime without ever having to worry about that. It seemed to me like he was trying to make the white truck guy look suspicious to you so you would move and he could isolate you from the only other person around. Anyone choosing this life, needs to really prioritize strengthening their intuitive skills because that will be the only protection you need if you know how to listen and trust your intuition. I live in my car part time traveling and that's the most valuable thing IMO when it comes to avoiding potentially dangerous situations. Don't undervalue that. We all have this intelligence within us that knows and learning how to hear and trust that communication will save your life. 💜
Thank you for this sane and graceful update. Your beauty and poise can’t hide your obvious inner strength. Enjoy the journey… you’ve given me some confidence to continue my own solo van adventures in the desert. Safe travels 😊
Hello ! New subscriber here 🥳 ! I literally just watched your video of that creepy incident and I’m glad to see an update . I think you handled the situation well.. I’m happy you didn’t pack up mid convo bc I felt like he would’ve sensed your fear and maybe followed you as you left. GOD was definitely with you. Lesson: never tell ppl especially strangers that you are alone . Always have an escape plan and pay attention to Red Flags. Safe travels to you ☮️💟
You are young. You will learn. You need to be careful and no matter what you think of the people that warn you… this world has changed alot. While there are many more good people in the world than bad, you need to think about the bad because it jusy takes once. I am proud of you that you are strong and you are doing the nomad life. I have traveled alone a lot. I have run into many scary situations and confidence is key! When you act like a victim you will be a victim. Right?! Keep on keepin on! ✌🏼🙏🏼💕
Yea, that pause and stare was very unnerving. He was thinking about something. That creeps me out. I've never really watched your videos prior to that one and this follow up but I am so glad you are ok. Also glad you carry a weapon. Stay safe girl and I look for ward to watching more of your van-life videos.
I watched that episode and I felt sick for you. You did an amazing job and had god watching you. He was definitely considering doing something wrong 😑. Nice job filming it. Take care keep being present and living your life ❤
I saw the original and this update, and I’d like to thank you for having the courage to try to live a life that’s true to your heart and to share your journey. My biggest takeaway from the first video was when you said f around and find out, it REMINDED me that I’m bada$$ and fierce and I don’t need to be scared of anything just because I’m a woman. And then the second video, I was proud of you that you made the judgement call not to tell your friends and family right away about your bad experience because you knew since they care so much about you, their instant reactions would be to say to close the book and be done, but you knew in your gut that you weren’t done your adventure; you felt you had more to experience and in turn share with others, and actually how you handled the desert creeper was proof you have a very good head on your shoulders and very good instincts. You handled it with both decisiveness and grace.. 🎉 Thank you for sharing and being empowering towards others.
Bruh.... That long pause tho 🫤 ... You hit the nail on the head with the "John Wayne Gacy if he was into girls not little boys" vibe for sure!! I was feeling all the anxiety for you! I'm just glad you made it away from that creeper! Thaaaat's crazy!
Hi Alyssa I have been a fan from day 1 of you and I will be a fan of yours for life You do show the Raw truth of van life and every aspect So IF people don't like it that's their tough luck I'm a Fellow Texan Born and raised in the Pasadena Area and graduated out side of Granbury Tx 35 miles from Ftworth Tx so I get it 100%
I very rarely comment on videos but I just have to comment on this one. I remember watching this video and was totally creeped out by the interaction. At the time I was thinking to myself that you actually handled it very well and was very surprised that you were getting comments to the contrary. You did nothing wrong and I hope you are doing ok.
No matter where you go you're never completely alone anywhere. If you find a spot that seems alone rest assure, someone else has already found it before you. You are right always follow your gut feeling
i mean the way you handled the situation as a whole is stellar! glad you got out of there safe and are in a better position, living out of a van/car can be scary sometimes especially when you're a solo female. it hurts my heart to know that you were afraid he would assault you. thats why its best to keep your guard up and travel with groups in vanlife. people can be scary when you don't know their intentions
I’m sure you realized this, but when that creep was asking about how long you’ve been living in the van and such, he was getting info on whether or not you would be a target that wont be missed or immediately noticed as missing.
I remember seeing him in the comments defending himself too
Exactly!!
@@Deenique16 I was concerned he would pop up some where. I hope all of this exposure will make him get HELP cause he is one sick person if he is doing what it looks like he is doing. GET HELP if you (that man) are reading this!!!
@@Deenique16 he did? Does he realize he creeped out a lot of people?
@@Deenique16 Oh I didn't realise that he was in the comments 😳 I must watch it again.
I saw that original video, and I have to say, as an older woman who has had more than one or two scary moments with men, that guy scared the hell out of me. You handled yourself very well, and I’m very glad you, a) recorded the entire encounter, and, b) got out safely. All the best to you in your future life of freedom on all the roads of life.
He was scary- she described him as Ted Bundy without the charm!
@@MyPronounIsGoddessI find it makes me an easier target. I was rapped at the age of 60.
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I saw the original as well he was a creep, couldn’t get his story straight about who is bringing water ( he never had any on his golf cart) then at the very end, he just kept staring at her - I felt uncomfortable for her. She did the right thing ( although if there was a fight, I am certain Alyssa would win hands down ). People like that guy almost make you trust no one. Sadly.
@@ukulelebutterfly it doesn’t matter how old, rape is an act of violence and the prey is a vulnerable target. I am so very sorry @ ukulelebutterfly
@@MyPronounIsGoddess Evil folk don't care how old/ young you are! Be careful!
Some guy made a follow up trying to find this dude out in the exact same spot and ran into some other old guy that had been there for 3 years and said he had never seen anyone on an ATV offering water to anyone. So that was a straight up lie from the creepy dude tbh
Everything he said was a lie! He just wanted to lure her away
Do u remember the name of video title or something
which video?
Dang, that's crazy
Great idea.....
I just went back to see that video. Your instincts were correct. He was 1. Trying to get you out of your van close to his ATV so he could grab you.( When he said look at the truck). 2. He was judging how or if he could overpower you. Hence the long pauses and staring. 3. He tried to entice you to his home to take a shower. Talked about a wife and children. Probably not married. If he was broken in to why invite strangers to come to his home especially when his wife was home alone with him out of town. Always keep your ammo etc at hand.
Exactly my reaction. He realized she had camera footage of him and was contemplating being exposed.
If he had a wife why would he invite a woman home to take a shower?
@@beautifulplaces2703 If you read my post then you can see I addressed that.
He did not have a wife and kids at home. No woman would allow strangers to come into her home to shower. And if she had kids in the house, even less than zero percent chance of that happening.
The guy wasn't a good liar. The wife/kids thing wasn't the only example of that. Thank goodness he gives out so many red flags.
Did anyone identify him?
I'm just glad you are ok. HE was a freak.
He was creepy as hell
I remember when you posted this last year. That was a tough time for you. That guy was really creepy! Glad you are doing well. Love your videos! ❤
Doesn't hurt to learn some basic self defense tools either. Fight or flight can really trip up the mind tho. A woman knows when she's being preyed upon. Every hair on her body stands on edge and the adrenaline starts going... it's not a pleasant space to exist in. If you can't flee... it's good to know how to fight. Many freeze... you learn a lot about yourself in such situations.
It’s like watching someone escape a real life horror movie scenario, that was *sketchy* like 👀 almost on dateline *sketchy* this is a good solo van-life story to pass on, maybe how she handled him might help someone else down the line too you never know. You never know who might appear randomly when you are out there alone I always tell the van-life crowd to be safe out there ❤ there’s great people to meet but then there’s also people like this dude.
He was mentally ill. A codependent on the further side of the spectrum. He may even be delusional with some psychotic features, like paranoia. But he's not a freak. Let's keep dignity in the conversation.
That was super scary. It felt like he was contemplating, doing something.
His body language said it all.
exactly what I just commented. his body language got fidgety along with the awkward silence as soon as he realized his plan to SCARE her into moving to the other side or coming to HIS house. he was contemplating not letting her leave.
Yes. I feel he was visualising what he wanted to do while looking at her, it really spooked me.
It reminded of the old Tom and Jerry cartoons where Tom would have the devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. The devil would try his best to get Tom to do something evil while the Angel tried to talk Tom out of it. That guy definitely was having that same moment
That's exactly what I was thinking. He was deciding on whether or not to do something bad. Its good that she interrupted his thoughts by asking if he needed anything. Sadly, creeps like this are why I don't go camping alone.
I'm a 50+ y/o male. This guy was creepy as hell. Everything was off about him. The long stare, the invite to shower but make sure he was there the first couple times so his wife wouldn't think something strange was happening (when he already said it a common thing for him to invite people to shower/use the water hose, etc), even the cadence of his voice sounded wrong when he was telling the story - you could feel he was lying. I'm going to guess the guy doesn't have a wife at home. I love that you have his face, conversation, and atv on video and everyone can see it. I hope someone sees your video, recognizes him, and let's him see it so he can crawl back into his hole and ensure he never approaches someone again in this manner.
I hope she sends it to the police. I have no earthly idea why she didn't go immediately to the police and file a report. It's one of the most chilling videos I've ever seen.
Oof yes. The wife and kids were just to make him appear “less threatening” to her. He was lying through his teeth. When he was asking her personal questions he was trying to case her out. Creeps like that are capable of of anything. I’m glad she got out
That part was so odd to me. Where in his mind did he think it made more sense to say that him being around when she showered would make his wife feel better. Like it would make way more sense for him not to be around at all when thats going on.
@@kltil5082I’m gonna have to watch it again because I thought he said for her to come around when he’s not there.
@@Sul516 maybe he was maybe he wasn't. People ask these types of questions all the time when others are on the road traveling.
So glad you got his face on video. Now others can watch out for him. You might not realize it, but you may have saved another solo female from that creep for posting the video. You should be proud of yourself.
THIS!!!
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Weird stuff happens even if you don't do van life.
That’s true!
True!
It's just much scarier when it's your only home you have❤️
Excellent point
Yup!
One late evening I stopped at a fast food place to catch a quick meal. While I was reading a newspaper I noticed a guy sitting by himself while I was eating in the restaurant. I left the restaurant and walked to my locked car to get in. Suddenly that dude appeared just as I leaned over to fasten my seatbelt. He could have approached me in the bright restaurant but ohhellno, here in a dark parking lot. I told him I was a Fed and “Show me your ID.” He backed right off. Idiots. Don’t ever approach a woman alone. We *are* armed and not afraid to use what we have.
The key moment that spooked me was his long, awkward stare. It was like in that moment he was contemplating if he was going to do something evil or not and when you spoke it helped snap him out of it. It could be that he was quite literally just perving but either way that was a very scary and spooky moment. Forget ghosts or demons, it's humans that are the most terrifying. I'm glad you were armed in this context.
He was no way perving only. He was contemplating if or how to get her since she didn’t come out to see this truck he wanted her to see. He was going to grab her from behind and overpower her then drag her to her van and rape and possibly kill her. Did you notice how his finger was moving about the steering wheel as he contemplated? Freaking too creepy.
He was definitely contemplating what he was going to do. The book The Gift of Fear would categorize this creeper as a danger.
Please report your experience to police. It might help with solving some cases.
Men see a woman alone and assume that means we somehow want their attention. It ruins so many of our solo travel experiences. It's infuriating. Thank you for sharing your story.
It does! They make us feel unsafe and it's so wrong! I've had many men at least ask if they can approach and they are usually just curious about my rig (I'm in a big ass school bus) and they just ask me questions about how I like driving something so big, mechanical concerns, etc. But there have been many who just walk over or stop in their atvs uninvited and I just crank up and drive away but that pisses me off because it takes me a while to find a good spot to camp and here they are being invasive!
Not all men are that way, but I understand why it's safer for women to just assume that all men are. So sad it has to be this way...
@@brainspout3447 It’s a breath of fresh air for a man to recognize this fact! Thank you! Most men just say, “not all men” without any contemplation that women have no idea which men so we have to be on guard with all men. Even fathers tell their daughters to be wary of “men” because they know it too.
@@AngelLuluBlu Interesting that you chose that example. I have raised two daughters and that is exactly what I have always told them.
@@brainspout3447 Exactly, guys don't need to explain "not all men" anytime this conversation is had, that's so obvious even a child understands it immediately when her father says the same words.
I remember seeing your original video and i was really impressed with how you handled yourself. As someone who works in crime scene technology and behavioral science, you did everything right. You kept him in your sights and didn't show fear. I have a theory that human predators share a lot in common with animal predators. Showing fear could've excited him and encouraged him to pursue. If you started running, it could have triggered panic and a desire to make sure you can't tell on him. Or excited him enough to pursue the chase. If you were rude it could have made him angry and want vengeance. The best thing you did when he got into the zone by staring, was talk to him. You're right about it breaking him out of his trance and back to reality. I hope it continues to go viral and teach other women
Yes, so true! Once he knows she has figured out what he is up to, he (the predator) knows he has nothing to lose at this point, that he may be reported anyhow and will act.
So it makes sense if the victim shows fear that it signals to him that he has been already 'caught,' that his victim has figured out that he intends wrongdoing.
I am a victim of an unsolved crime. We know the perpetrator but can't get enough evidence. We do have electronic bank records AND the criminal admitted to cashing federal notes, though she claims she had the right to. However, her story contradicts what was a bank employee said and other evidence. THIS, is where I believe we have her. We also need some checks and papers we have checked for her fingerprints and DNA of both her and the person who we believe she had a hand in causing the death of.
I am looking for DNA and if there is anyway to look up this criminal's text/phone times as well as computer/internet activity during the time leading up to and associated with the crimes.
It happened in Texas. The crimes are bank fraud, 2nd degree felony theft and forgery, wire fraud, identity theft, money laundering, stealing government services/money, and contribution to an elderly person's death. It will take combining ALL the efforts of Federal, state and local authorities.
I have a LOT of evidence but need someone from each area of law enforcement to help.
The crimes occurred in Texas. The federal crimes are the wire and bank fraud, money laundering and theft of government services (both state and federal). I have NO idea where to start. The local PD said it was a very unusual case. They are not used to people committing forgery or bank theft over 100K in their area, they usually go after bad checks in the $100 to $1000 range.
Yes. When he came around the second time he was definitely weighing his options and I think it was smart for her to “play along” long enough to get safe
The fact that you felt the need to explain why you were there over and over is very upsetting. That video made me terrified for you, and I understand why it took so long to film a follow up. You dont have to quit ANYTHING just because creeps are out there. You were careful and you were experienced enough to trust your gut. I am so proud of you, you are amazing!
women always end up having to over explain and defend themselves. The amount of guys in the comments saying dumb things in her other video were off the charts. And the amount of them saying "hurr durr this is why I have a gun". Like buddy, she had a gun. Just say you don't listen to anything women say and move on to another video lol
victim blaming is disgusting. You rock lady! safe travels and stay strong!!🙏❤🌹
Most people just want you to be safe. You want to camp by yourself and are prepared to have a shoot out, you do you. I'm glad she posted it, and I would never want my daughter in this situation armed or not. Am I old-fashioned or just sensible?
Girl I send you a video a few months ago telling you that two girls were murdered in that same area. That man could have been the person that murdered them. You were featured in someone’s video showing it was the same location. Thank God you made it out ok. The other girls didn’t!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
That’s terrifying! I’m not sure where you sent it but I didn’t see it :(
@@AlyssaVanilla I am trying to locate that video that I saved to send it to you.
Has anyone found this man??? The police should be questioning him
If you find the video can you please tell me the title and user name? I'd be very interested in watching it
why not send it so we can all see it Emily
@@AlyssaVanilla
You were in denial, honey. It’s a normal post-reaction. Don’t worry about the haters. Just always follow your gut. You made it out safe, that’s all that matters.😊
The way he was caressing his steering wheel while leering tells you everything you need to know. Glad you’re safe ❤
Yeah, I was giving the dude a break until he started doing that. That is what is great about having a dog as a traveling companion. Most of the time they sense right away if something is off about a stranger.
I am just glad that guy didn't have a weapon. This is so chilling. One thing I wouldn't have told him was that you were going to leave. That might have triggered him to act quickly and do something crazy. But you did a good job of not panicking....so I am glad you're alive and able to share this.
I remember when this happened and think about it from time to time. Still gives me chills!
Yes when he paused and went into a perverted pause, and she was like can I help you? The way she said it firm, like am I gonna have to shoot you?
I had my daughter watch that video. It is important because every other vanlifer presents videos like the dangers are made up, and it's all just one happy family. I never believed that as I lived out of an RV in a down time in my life, before this was a popular thing to do. Young people many times have a naive view of what's out there. PLUS, the way YOU handled it was exactly as I would hope my daughter would (being that her and her BF bought a camper recently).
You followed your gut, didn't override it by denial, or being ''nice'', and you did what you had to do to be safe, by leaving that situation. Good job. Thank you for being a good example.
Side note: i wish women could just exist in peace. I always thought ''well when I am this age, or that" that it would change, and I'd be invisible. But mid 50's now, it never changes. That's why I carry bear spray whenever I'm going out somewhere.
Exactly, thank you for stating this 👍
Same. I'm older too and still the men come uninvited.. I drive away right when they're trying to talk. I also have bear spray and other weapons. It is also bad camping etiquette for anyone but they still do it anyway. I wish they would just wave and keep going like everyone else who has some sense.
My boyfriend and I are traveling through New Zealand and here are a lot of super nice people offering to shower, fill up water or even sleep at their place. But there was this one guy who didn’t let go of us and asked again and again. He had a puppy with him and even payed for our drinks (we were at a small local bar).
Something felt off by his offers - compared to those of some other genuine people that just want to help out (yet we never accepted those offers). So we trusted our gut feeling and I‘m really happy about our decision especially since the owners asked about out safety the next day we went there to grab a coffee. They have never seen the guy before and we’re creeped out by him as well just from overhearing the conversation we had with him, trying to get some information about our stay, where our van was parked and so on.
Some people don’t even mind being seen by others or wouldn’t back off whether your solo traveling or not.
So stay safe everyone and always trust your gut feeling!
Im not paranoid but the vibes you got from this person's second visit that finally made you leave the area quickly, i was already getting those vibes from his first visit. I thought this guy is coming back. I'm just glad you're safe. Take care
She keeps that pew pew on her so she wouldn’t have anything to be worried about. You on the other hand have a reason to be if you don’t know how to defend yourself and you aren’t a social person. She’s meeting strangers daily. she can’t just assume everyone guy is out to get her and if they are they better be faster than a bullet ❤
@@KagomeHWell I have ran across some pervs and some jerks who were a little psycho so I don't apologize for not being a socialite when I'm out and about.
@@KagomeH it's the woods, you're alone with strangers..... aint no one trying to be miss congeniality out there, esp after the Moab (sp?) murders of those 2 women.
@@GetUnwoke if you’re not willing to that’s fine. YOU don’t seem confident in your ability to defend yourself and that’s fine. If you camp, YOU need to make sure to take people you feel safe with, and that can protect you since YOU can’t do that on your own. but don’t try to put your insecurities out on others. She told us time and time again that she was capable of defending herself, so why are you trying to go against that?
@@KatMistress-kw3py and that’s fine. That’s why you don’t live the life that she does. it’s fine to be paranoid just don’t try and put that out on others. Shes a smart and cautious women don’t assume she’s a target because that’s how you view yourself when you’re out alone.
girl, i stopped watching that video like a quarter in when i found you last year because i was considering doing a cross country solo car camping adventure. instead i binged your other videos which helped me make the decision to go on a 2 month trip this past spring. i slept many places alone and never had a problem. you are a huge inspiration to me!
And that's how it should always be. In fact everyone who loves to travel solo should be able to do so safely and be left alone.
always carry pepper spray AT LEAST
@@bonson9156another comment mentioned Hornet spray, cans in both door holsters. I thought that was brilliant. Especially the extreme spraying far shooters 😅
I remember you very clearly for the first video. You said that both your parents were military and that someone should “fuck around and find out” and I told my daughter about you. You made me SOOO proud that you could handle yourself like that. There’s NO WAY you should be out there alone unless you have protection and I’m glad you have such great instincts. Stay well❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know that location, my dad and stepmom have camped there for many many years. If you ever felt compelled to show that video to the Pima County Sheriff, they might be able to check the guy out(if he truly lives in that area) and see if he's a sex offender. Im so thankful you got out of there safely because he was definitely contemplating doing something to you.
"If you ever felt compelled to show that video to the Pima County Sheriff" LOL - I can't believe I watched this and the original video and not 1 word about law enforcement?????? I almost doubting this story to be honest? Did she make a police report? FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME THIS GIRL FILED A POLICE REPORT.
@pojo1010 Technically we will never know what the cops would do in this situation because she never called to report the strange incident. Which makes me question why. Was she afraid for her safety or not? THE POLICE SAY THIS ALL THE TIME => "IF YOU SEE SOMETHING, SAY SOMETHING!"
I'm calling BS like so many in this thread.
She needs to show the original video to the police. If it's true 2 girls were murdered in the area they should see it.
@@Lisalynne-ck9gf It would take this girl 2 seconds to forward such an email w video attachment to the police. even as a precaution. Just ya know, say hey this may be nothing, but ABOUT 100 PEOPLE ONLINE are telling me to forward this video to you police officers ...... KEEP IN MIND THO - if she made the whole thing up .... AND IT LOOKS LIKE SHE DID .... She would be in legal trouble for forwarding this youtube video. She would be filing a false police report. That is why she is not doing it now. EVEN with 100 people begging her to file a police report she can't .... THIS WOMAN IS A FRAUD.
@pojo1010 I just called the Pima County Sheriff .... THIS STORY IS A FAKE.
5:39 I am so GLAD you have a gun! That man was a freak! That 30 second pause was horrifying. Seriously, you are very smart to have a gun. He could have come off that 4 wheeler in a nanosecond. HE could have pulled a gun on YOU! Thank God nothing bad happened. I love your videos and congratulations again, on your new van. So happy for you. Safe travels! ♥
So true, I think he did not come close because he was not aware of what she had protection wise. He wanted her to step out of her van, which is why he told her to come look at the white van. My daughter in law was walking to her car at Walmart and a man and woman was trying to lure her. So you can be alone or in a public place and still have creeps bother you. It’s so sad but she handled it perfectly
Agreed ...people that have a gun feel a false sense of security....they think they are quick draw macraw or something....
@@lunatune3714 its a fact most people are harmed by their own gun because the perp takes it away from them. Most hesitate to shoot, giving the perp time to grab it,
You are definitely not to blame. Creeps should keep to themselves. And those judgmental need to judge themselves.
I really hope you get that video to the police department in that area because you never know what other young Travelers has stopped there and became victims or disappeared
Yes exactly. He’s a predator and he was fixin’ to strike.
The police need to keep close tabs on that guy.
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I read between the lines a long time ago. I knew you could take care of yourself. I remember in your video when you said thanks Mom and held up the box of ammo. FAFO is our motto. Stay Sweet and stay Safe. Love ya! 🥰
Hahaha I forgot about that!
@@AlyssaVanillaWe remembered that. Lol....
What FAFO means?
f*ck around and find out!@@pn9959
@@pn9959F*** around and find out
Thank you so much for sharing this, Alyssa. I am a 66 year old woman who will soon be a solo traveler in my skoolie. This gives me strength to continue to plan my journey. I wish you all the best in your travels and hope to meet you one day on the road. You are truly an inspiration.
I hope everything goes well for you ✨
@@AlyssaVanilla So did you share that footage with the local police ?
Some people don't get you can literally be in the middle of nowhere and see no one for miles one day and the next there happens to be that one weirdo nearby. Glad the "know it all" commenters nor the creeper have kept you from doing what you want to do. Your awareness and calmness are super admirable. Keep cranking out great content!
Yep. Even when we think no one is around there always is weather you see them or not.
It's scary how much the Mind protects Us in survival mode. I honestly think the denial is just so that you don't have a fucking breakdown in the moment and think as clearly as possible. Unfortunately I think that actually was a life-threatening situation, and I'm so happy that you got out. And I'm so happy you got his face on camera
love you Alyssa!!! I am 30 year old mom of three; two girls and a boy. We have watched your channel for over a year now! We knew you could handle yourself. You are intelligent, beautiful and funny. That guy was probably staring at all those Angels you had around you. God was “nope not her.” Not today Satan!!! You are gifted and Jesus loves you don’t stop seeking him. ❤
I am truly blessed and highly favored!
Guardian Angels are real.
heck ya they are, and we can assist by invoking them around her with our prayers. It's a beautiful thing, our spiritual nature. Be free, be wise, stay strong in spirit Alyssa. We support your sharing.@@roundtwo3321
@AlyssaVanilla what does blm stand for?
That’s exactly what I said. But he wasn’t seeing them. He was staring at her and contemplating. The best thing she could have done was what she did - address him asking if he needed something. It shook him. However I fully believe her angel was with her and prayers said in the past or present were keeping her safe. He would have been back a third time if she didn’t leave and he would have followed thru with his sicko plan. Or tried to. Thank God it was thwarted, her boldness in that moment is what did it!
I saw the original footage/ video, and I commented on it. It’s great that it went viral, as it can help other solo female travellers/ van lifers deal with these encounters the way that you did. Your casual attitude with this guy was great instead of panicking. It’s clear you can handle yourself. Enjoy your travels 🫶
i starting subscribing to you from that video. as another female solo traveler it's so belittling for people to tell you "never travel alone" or anything along the lines. Things can happen anywhere; in the city or in the middle of nowhere. You're doing what you love against all of the fears. The reason I decided to subscribe is that you are continuing to live for yourself even after this scary encounter.
It’s the “We BOTH made it out alive” for me… cause baby that steel would’ve made quite an impact if he tried something.
Thank you again for sharing, I can only imagine the strength it takes to share this part… as someone who wants to do vanlife one day, this helps me mentally prepare 🙏🏾✨🦋
He was so creepy. Objectively one can try to pick apart why he wasn't a threat but everything about his demeanor sets off alarms for any woman who watched. He was 100% malicious and creepy and thought he found an easy target. The way his gout swollen feet woulda tried to run his sorry ass away once she unpacked that heat.... Glad she didn't have to go through the trauma of having to harm him though!
imo the only life that was at stake there was his. for her it was if she got outta there without having to end the guy
with her experience in weaponry from an early age, it is clear as day how that encounter wouldve ended
"Someone is up on the hill watching you with binoculars!"
Oh yeah? is he wearing a flannel shirt and driving a golf cart?
"Um... yeah he is"
Is it YOU?
"I... I... think I have to go now..."
Exactly. He was an idiot (thankfully).
I'm a former 911 Police Dispatcher. I'm so glad that you don't heap guilt upon yourself and have moved on from your horrific experience. It is indeed commonplace to not tell anyone after such an encounter. We inside of the law enforcement community hear this regularly. Van camping, van dwelling is no different than anywhere else except the places and faces change more often. People who do not travel simply do not understand that as a reasonable fact but it is certainly true. Van Dwellers are simply a Microcosm of Society as a whole. I'm certain that your Dad taught you wisely 💯 based on his own experience in law enforcement. Much respect to you and your Dad for grooming you for life's any challenging experiences. As Always Be Well, Be Safe, Be HAPPY-GO-LUCKY.
I have lived on this earth for 62 yrs. and made many poor choices which put me in the cross hairs of evil minded men. I have gotten much wiser and more cautious. I loved it when you mentioned you were from Texas and I knew right then that you knew what you were doing but I was in that van with you trying to tell this old POS he needed to move on now. Glad you got the heck out of there quick. As a mom, I was wanting to mother you and then I saw this update vid and knew, you got this. I heard someone say, "Humans are the only species that goes toward danger, animals leave immediately". I took that to heart and it works. Be well and a belated Merry Christmas!
"evil minded men" get over yourself
Just wanted to say that your reaction to the creepy situation is a very normal reaction to a traumatic situation. Glad you have been able to process this, and am sorry you've had to endure so many unhelpful opinions about the situation.
Glad I found this channel! Look forward to seeing more of your adventures
I happened to stop and watch your 1st video because i live in Tucson and i recognized the mountains i actually live in that area I know exactly where you were at, because snowbird park there every year, that video really creeped me out, that man approching you, I felt uncomfortable for you glad you're ok couldn't get over it for a week thinking that weirdo was in our area. Wonder if anyone recognized him from that video, be safe!
I think i would have shared his pic with the police just in case. I bet hes got a history.
The video probably became popular again because a girl went missing camping by herself in Arizona
that while blonde girl who it ended up being her boyfriend who killed her?
At this point CZcams and ticktock needs to make sure the owners of the videos only benefit from their own content.
wouldn’t that be the day 🙂
People will always try to blame the victim, no matter what the evidence is, and it doesn’t matter what they think. I’m just so glad you got out of there safely, that’s all that matters.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with that situation and it’s no wonder it’s still hard to think about. But you’re doing amazing.
It's not victim blaming, it's victim warning. Grow a brain
I've camped out in that same area, also solo female. I felt it was kind of sketchy when I was there; it just gave me a bad feeling. I stayed for about 3 nights to finish out my work week. I was so happy to leave! I remember watching your original video last year but didn't realize where you were. I'm so glad you got out of that situation safe!
If it feels sketchy. Don’t wait. Just leave asap
I do hope you share this with the police in that area because he may have done other things to someone else. Stay safe. You are doing well. You're prepared and careful so what more can a person do.
He must have been watching you from binoculars before riding out to ya. He put it on another person but it was really him. Thats how he knew he could ride out to your vehicle. He assessed the situation and left and then came back. Normal men don’t do that. He has done it before and I hope he’s never acted on it but that’s just about impossible with someone like that. Their carnal impulses take over. He was measuring up the situation and if he could get you near him or get you to follow his “suggestions” then he would have felt empowered to overtake you. Normal men truly out to do a good deed don’t talk like he did and they don’t invite you to shower at their house! He said he had a wife and kids which I doubt, he probably said it to make you feel a false sense that he was “safe”. He was and is stupid though. He couldn’t keep his mouth from running and gave himself away from the get go. But thank God for that or you might have thought it was safe to stay there and he could have snuck back later. Man I have been around a lot of creepy men before and I’ve been in situations that I shouldn’t have been in and I KNOW THAT I KNOW that Jesus sent angels to protect me because of the prayers of my family, but I never felt as creeped out about someone as I did about him and even tho I knew you were obviously okay, I was so scared for you in that moment because I could “see” what he was thinking and capable of.
If you ever find yourself in that type of situation again, make sure your weapon is on you or in your hand!
He was dangerous, but stupid. Thankfully!
I remember seeing the original video last year and then seeing his comments defending himself. I don't know if it was actually him or a troll but he was desperate in defending himself. I'm glad you're okay.
Saw the original video. Was so thankful you got away from that situation. Girl never feel guilty that you might have to cause harm to someone who is threatening your safety. Trust your instincts and be safe
I'm just glad you are safe. I remember when you posted that video. The guy was very creepy. His story was so full of holes. I'm glad you had protection with you. It couldnt hurt to have some pepper spray at the ready too. Never be afraid to stand your ground.
This is why I always tell you to stay safe. And keep that thang witchu.
Thang thang bang bang
My mother and others blamed me for purchasing next to a stalker. After a couple of months the cops removed a 17 year old female, foster child, he beat regularly. A week after the foster child was removed, he attacked his 63 year old tenant, dislocating her shoulder and cracking three, ribs. Then the neighbour behind me told me there has been more than one woman removed from his property that had died. Cops told me he was bad news. Now this is on a remote island without police, a gas station or any services. He kept cutting off my water. He and his crew would use my property daily to process logs. He and another felon, tried to pinch me in-between two moving trucks and were banned by police and not allowed on my property. Having no access to my yard really pissed him off so retaliation meant cutting off my water and blocking access to my driveway. Lawyers want $40 000 to start litigation. Now my house sits empty and is unsaleable, no water and no access up the mountain. I left, I am living in my van, full time and know if I am around a threat, at least I have the option to move.
Girl he wanted you to look at the truck and get a “good description” to get you out of your van. Stay safe out there.
Stay strapped, better to have it and not need it then.... Happy trails. 🏕️
Your character keeps me subscribed. Your videos are like a Netflix new release. I’m happy to hear about your upbringing! I thank your parents for their service as a fellow veteran myself. Keep on keeping on!!! 💪🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Aww this is an awesome compliment thank you! And thank you for YOUR service!
@@AlyssaVanilla My pleasure 😊
Great update Alyssa! Red was sooooooo annoyed at all the people getting onto you after that video. I was pretty sure you had a gun and I know you are a smart girl. I was only concerned for the anxiety I know it gave you. So glad it’s over and that you caught the creepy guy on film and it exploded your channel so you can get a better profit from your channel (I hope) Thanks for sharing your journey with us! We love you! 🌹 Red
Love you Red! ❤️
Why do you feel the need to state she have a gun..
no one needs to know for safety reasons
@@exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430 anyone should know with any sense from her first video. and also the video where she gets ammo from her mom Maybe if you watched her videos you’d know more 🤷♀️
Thanks for sharing this journey with me. I Love You Please Stay Safe . Safe Travels Always. God Bless U Beautiful Friend. Mucho Love from your friend in Michigan Tam ❤️ ♥️ 💕 💗
@@exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430You must not have paid attention to the video. Lol
I watch alot of van life channels and only stumbled onto this one because of that video. I applaud her for being so authentic. Sounds like she spent a miserable summer in the Arizona heat, day in and day out, which must've been a hot monotonous grind. Then she tries to get some relief and then this weirdo comes up on her. Yet she's still out there. Good on you.
For people saying it's not creepy, it's creepy, it's kinda of common sense that it's creepy to walk up on a stranger when they are alone or in a secluded area, just in daily life strangers approach me like this, I can be sitting in my car , I've been ask for money ,lighters, directions etc, why ask a anyone sitting alone in a car anything, I've never been approach for things like that inside the store or in front of people, you're like those people that stand right beside you at the checkout, it's creepy, why were you never taught to stay out of peoples bubble?
I'm with you Alyssa, we can't live in fear like that. I saw that video and it was scary for you I'm sure but when you stand your ground and be strong and smart about things like that it's not as dangerous as people think. I think a lot of times these predatorial people look for ones that are scared and weak and you are not that and neither am I. I finally got a van and I plan on doing plenty of traveling. I will be smart about it, I've learned a lot from watching you and others and I just won't back down if it ever comes to me to stand up to somebody...but I don't look for trouble either...best of luck to you out there and hope to see you in Quartzite this January! 😊
Best of luck to you, I will hopefully be there!
@@AlyssaVanilla I get NO notifications anymore if someone replies to my comments so I was just checking back on some I made...yes, hope you do!
Agghhh, people. They love to victim blame and/or shame. Women get attacked sitting in their homes by their supposed "loved one" more than by a stranger in public. And for the record, you have always struck me as a very capable and self aware person. I think people take your soft voice as an indicator of how you are in general. But as an old commercial used to say..."Don't let a smooth face fool ya". Always keep that "pew pew" near you and continue to follow those instincts. I look forward to your next video.
Alyssa!! Hey girl, been following you a year or so ago since I’ve started my whole nomad journey, and the authentic and rawness that you show through your videos is what kept and grabbed me in. And you honestly helped me feel so comfortable and less alone when I was at my lowest, I hate to see you had to relive this situation through again, I remember when you had posted it initially and my heart was pounding with you. But tbh i think it definitely needed to be safe, help keep other van lifers safe out there 💖
I watched the other video too.I’m glad that you can defend yourself.Also,you need to get a pepper spray and taser too.When you are camping in a wilderness make your concealed carry visible.That’s a good warning too.
You did great, both during the incident and now talking about the fallout.
I remember that posting and how difficult it was for you to talk about. I also remember what a creep he was...
Thanks for sharing your adventures with us, I have enjoyed the journey.
Much ❤
❤ Rooting for you!
I watch a ton of Vanlife videos and just came across the one that proceeded this - that was so creepy. I'm glad you recorded the encounter and posted it so others could get a look at the creeper. As a mom, I was worried for you - as a woman I was proud of you. Clearly, you can hold your own, I hope you're never in a situation like that again. I'm glad you did the follow-up (though it was clear to me what you meant by being a full-blooded Texan and stand your ground laws). I'm glad to know the encounter did not deter you from living life the way you want to live it. Safe travels!!
That video is very unsettling to say the least! But, you are helping people having shared it x
Please stay safe. Safe travels
People really don't understand this life style and I believe you stay safe where ever you are...stay safe always. And don't let people say any different
As a fellow SFT I completely agree with you about creeps being commonplace but part of travelling is being one step ahead. You were. I was impressed how well you handled that situation. You acted assertively without escalating and delivered your message…not all communication is verbal and he got yours loud & clear. I’ve reacted after a situation the same - it’s a gross feeling to realize someone had bad intentions toward you and hard to process. Glad you’re well & safe travels 🫶
I started following your channel waaaay back when you were in chevyvedder. So, when the "being watched" video came up, I was already emotionally involved; so I watched with some concern. But you had obviously made it through alive and fine. And I wasn't worried about you, because I knew you could protect yourself, and I hoped that you'd continue living the life. In some ways, the video was a PSA to just be vigilant, but don't let fear stop you. Anyway, I'm super happy you didn't let it discourage you, cuz I love your channel, pal :) (And I can't wait to see my member badge ;) It's good to be back.)
Yes you’re truly an OG! I’m very lucky to have you :) can you not see your member badge? I can!
@@AlyssaVanilla I didn't see the badge until I submitted the comment :) Now I can! Woot! And thanks, Alyssa! Aww.
I remembered that video. You're one of my regulars that I try to keep up with. I never thought much of it other than I believe that you handled yourself well & did exactly what you should have done. I'm sorry that you had to experience it I didn't know how much of an emotional strain it was for you. Stay strong & hope to keep watching you.
Thank you for the update . I remember that video and prayed for you at that moment while I watched. I continue to keep you in my prayers while you live your adventurous life.
I actually just watched the video today (the original one) and now am watching this one. I just wanted to say that I actually really appreciate your authenticity. Since "van life" got super popular and basically "influenced" I honestly find most creators not fully honest about disclosing their full background and glamorizing what can be a very challenging but also rewarding lifestyle (for the right person of course!). Van life isn't for everyone, but I think it's also super important for people to see that just because something is different from the norm, doesn't make it less legitimate than any other way of living life.
Keep on keeping on girl!
im so glad you updated, i weirdly came across your video when it was still in the hundreds of views and very recently posted, and i was very uneasy seeing that guy. but i admire your strength i need to try letting my past experiences haunt me less
Always listen to your intuition! Carry and enjoy life, as a solo trucker running all lower 48 and Canada I saw so much out there, people are weird! And so many prey on those not being watchful, weaker, or presume that you will freeze in fear. Being the first to confront a lot of times unnerves them, you just have to quickly access the situation and act . God bless you I know this shook you up
I love how articulate you are. People can be weird anywhere. It can be hard to admit things are crap. It's ok. Peace to you, you are awesome.
When my wife and three kids were returning to Lawrence, KS after a trip to Utah, we stopped to camp just across the Kansas border near Sherman Lake (39°11'24"N 101°45'48"W). It was dark and already quite late, so we set up our tent by flashlight. There were people camping further in and we thought it was nice not to be completely alone because there was a feeling of foreboding there. We (me wife, & 3 kids) laid down in our sleeping bags but a truck was slowly circling, driving past slowly with engine at idling speed... Really creepy. After 5 or 6 passes I thought we'd be okay but my wife felt strongly we should get out of there. I was annoyed because I was so tired, but I got thinking that my wife has this intuition while the truck came grinding by on the gravel. So I said let's go. I said don't turn on any lights or give any indication we are leaving. We packed up the sleeping bags, took down the tent and rolled it up in the dark, then got in the van, turned on the lights, and left! I think your first time takes you by surprise, but afterwards you become much more aware!
Be camped by night time. Who wants to set up camp in the dark. First mistake.
Your van-life experiences are valuable learning tools for everyone, especially for females traveling alone. Keep sharing them; you're helping the world.
Sis its a blessing your here today to share your story 🙏🏾❤Sadly the world 🌎 is full of crazy ppl 😕be safe and blessed
Glad you are safe, worked well under pressure and was able to diffuse it.
yep saw this in the uk national news the other day , guy was definitely calculating what his next move would be and maybe made a quick risk base assessment of you that would would be no pushover !
My heart absolutely breaks for you doing this recap. You have grown in so many ways with strength by your side. May God continue to shield you from the dangers and you continue embark on your journey.
A bird in a cage is never free, continue to fly my sweet friend.❤
So proud of you for posting this it brought tears to my eyes I will continue to watch you I haven't checked out Twitter or tic tok be safe and have fun
Two things that I noticed from the original video: When he was pointing and talking about the white dodge, he was pointing into the distance saying, "Come out here and I'll show you." Hmm... this story would have a different ending if she had done that. Second thing, when he had his silent stare at the end, you see his eyebrows shoot up above his glasses. I wonder what Alyssa is doing at this point that caused such a reaction. Very scary and strange situation.
Edit: I just watched the video by Roadside Cross, and he also mentioned that this guy was trying to get her out of the van and closer to him.
" what was she doing to make.his eyebrows ", this is a real person not a game of clue please remenber that as you watching a video and treating it like a toy when it someone life
I caught that too come out he said. He had angry body language too. His body was in attack position and comforting himself with his thumb. She was wise to not go out.
Your first video about this brought me here. Thank goodness you listened to your intuition. And eff people judging your choices. It's really disturbing how we've normalized women having to compromise on every moment of their lives to *hopefully* avoid being assaulted by a man. You should be able to exist anywhere at anytime without ever having to worry about that. It seemed to me like he was trying to make the white truck guy look suspicious to you so you would move and he could isolate you from the only other person around. Anyone choosing this life, needs to really prioritize strengthening their intuitive skills because that will be the only protection you need if you know how to listen and trust your intuition. I live in my car part time traveling and that's the most valuable thing IMO when it comes to avoiding potentially dangerous situations. Don't undervalue that. We all have this intelligence within us that knows and learning how to hear and trust that communication will save your life. 💜
Thank you for this sane and graceful update. Your beauty and poise can’t hide your obvious inner strength. Enjoy the journey… you’ve given me some confidence to continue my own solo van adventures in the desert. Safe travels 😊
Hello ! New subscriber here 🥳 ! I literally just watched your video of that creepy incident and I’m glad to see an update . I think you handled the situation well.. I’m happy you didn’t pack up mid convo bc I felt like he would’ve sensed your fear and maybe followed you as you left. GOD was definitely with you. Lesson: never tell ppl especially strangers that you are alone . Always have an escape plan and pay attention to Red Flags. Safe travels to you ☮️💟
You are young. You will learn. You need to be careful and no matter what you think of the people that warn you… this world has changed alot. While there are many more good people in the world than bad, you need to think about the bad because it jusy takes once. I am proud of you that you are strong and you are doing the nomad life. I have traveled alone a lot. I have run into many scary situations and confidence is key! When you act like a victim you will be a victim. Right?! Keep on keepin on! ✌🏼🙏🏼💕
Yea, that pause and stare was very unnerving. He was thinking about something. That creeps me out. I've never really watched your videos prior to that one and this follow up but I am so glad you are ok. Also glad you carry a weapon. Stay safe girl and I look for ward to watching more of your van-life videos.
I watched that episode and I felt sick for you. You did an amazing job and had god watching you. He was definitely considering doing something wrong 😑. Nice job filming it. Take care keep being present and living your life ❤
I found your channel from that original video and decided to stick around ❤
💞💘
I hope all the folks that found you from that video stick around coz you’re the bee’s knees ❤
I saw the original and this update, and I’d like to thank you for having the courage to try to live a life that’s true to your heart and to share your journey. My biggest takeaway from the first video was when you said f around and find out, it REMINDED me that I’m bada$$ and fierce and I don’t need to be scared of anything just because I’m a woman. And then the second video, I was proud of you that you made the judgement call not to tell your friends and family right away about your bad experience because you knew since they care so much about you, their instant reactions would be to say to close the book and be done, but you knew in your gut that you weren’t done your adventure; you felt you had more to experience and in turn share with others, and actually how you handled the desert creeper was proof you have a very good head on your shoulders and very good instincts. You handled it with both decisiveness and grace.. 🎉 Thank you for sharing and being empowering towards others.
Bruh.... That long pause tho 🫤 ... You hit the nail on the head with the "John Wayne Gacy if he was into girls not little boys" vibe for sure!!
I was feeling all the anxiety for you!
I'm just glad you made it away from that creeper!
Thaaaat's crazy!
Hi Alyssa I have been a fan from day 1 of you and I will be a fan of yours for life You do show the Raw truth of van life and every aspect So IF people don't like it that's their tough luck I'm a Fellow Texan Born and raised in the Pasadena Area and graduated out side of Granbury Tx 35 miles from Ftworth Tx so I get it 100%
You’ve been here a longggg time! I’m grateful that you still watch me! Texas forever!!!
I live in MT Now and still Love my Texas Girls @@AlyssaVanilla
I very rarely comment on videos but I just have to comment on this one. I remember watching this video and was totally creeped out by the interaction. At the time I was thinking to myself that you actually handled it very well and was very surprised that you were getting comments to the contrary. You did nothing wrong and I hope you are doing ok.
No matter where you go you're never completely alone anywhere. If you find a spot that seems alone rest assure, someone else has already found it before you. You are right always follow your gut feeling
i mean the way you handled the situation as a whole is stellar! glad you got out of there safe and are in a better position, living out of a van/car can be scary sometimes especially when you're a solo female. it hurts my heart to know that you were afraid he would assault you. thats why its best to keep your guard up and travel with groups in vanlife. people can be scary when you don't know their intentions