Open up to a therapist. I know everybody says it, but it really helps. Its not about what he or her says back its just a good feeling to have someone listen and understand. Lonelyness kills people, either inside or literally.
@@davis5839 men need a good friend, not a therapist. a good friend before of therapist. if its not getting better thats when a therapist should come in.
My parents have been watching “The Bear” and I saw this scene while they were watching it. It was one of the most incredible examples of acting I’ve ever seen. It wasn’t melodramatic, it wasn’t anything emotional, just a man bearing his soul to his support group.
The one thing I love the most is the extent that the level of humility he had to say that's hes just a cook just a different kinda cook instead of saying chef shows that the validation he wanted wasn't from being called that but instead getting that the people he loved and looked to could be proud of him in general it took me a long time to separate myself from that kind thought that it's not that if I'm enough or good enough, it's that people I cared about thought I amount to anything...I love being a great cook and leaning I don't need validation for it it's vibrant
Rip link. The person who posted this is my cousin. He reposted this because his older brother had passed away around the time this came out and it was exactly how felt with his older. Now he has passed. I miss you everyday lincoln. Long live Lincoln. Yall go check out his music. U wont be disappointed
My name's Carmen. My, um... my brother's an addict. My, My brother was an addict. And this morning, I, um... Sorry, uh... I forgot, um... B-Before I came to Al-Anon, I was a cook. I mean, I'm-I'm still a cook, I'm just a different kind of cook, I guess. My brother and I, we would cook a lot together, especially when we were kids. You know, that's-that's when we were closest. Food was always our common ground. We wanted to open a restaurant together. Um, we had a name, we had a vibe, all of it. My brother could make you feel confident in yourself. You know, like, when I was a kid, if I was nervous, I was scared, I wouldn't wanna do something, he'd always tell me to just face it. You know, get it over with. He would always say, um... Stupid, he would always say, um... "Let it rip." He was loud. And he was hilarious. And he had this amazing ability. He could just, he could walk into a room, and he could take the temperature of it instantly. You know, he could just, he could dial it. And, um... I'm not built like that, man. I, um... I didn't have a lot of friends growing up. I had a, a stutter when I was a kid. I was scared to speak half the time. And, uh, I got shitty grades 'cause I couldn't pay attention in school. I didn't get into college. I didn't have any girlfriends. I don't think I'm funny. I always thought my brother was my best friend. Like, Like, we just knew everything about each other. Except... everybody thought he was their best friend. You know, he was that, he was that magnetic. And, um... I didn't know my brother was using drսg. What does that say? As we got older, I-I realized I didn't know anything about him... really. He stopped letting me into the restaurant a couple years ago. He just cut me off cold. And that, um... that hurt, you know. And I think that just, that flipped a switch in me where I was like, "Okay, fսck you, watch this." And because we had this connection through food and he had made me feel so rejected and lame and shitty and uncool, I-I made this plan where I was gonna go work in all the best restaurants in the world. You know, like, like, I'm gonna go work in real kitchens. Like, fսck Mom and Dad's piece of sh¡t, right? And it sounds ridiculous, you know, me saying that now, but that's-that's-that's what I did. And I got the sh¡t kicked outta me. And I separated herbs and I shucked oysters and clams and uni. And I cut myself, and I got garlic and onions and peppers in my fingernails and in my eyes, and my skin was dry and oily at the same time. I had calluses on my fingers from the knives, and my stomach was fսckеd, and it was... everything. And a couple years later, this funny thing happened which is like... for the first time in my life I-I started to find this, uh, this station for myself. And I was fast. I wasn't afraid. And it was clear, and I-I felt... I felt okay, you know. I knew which vegetables went together, proteins, temperature, sauces, all that sh¡t. And when somebody new came into the restaurant to stage, I'd look at them like they were competition, like I'm gonna smoke this mοthеrfսckеr. I felt like I could speak through the food, like I could communicate through creativity. And that kind of confidence, you know, like I was finally... I wa... I was good at something, that was so new, and that was so exciting and I just wanted him to know that and, fսck, I just wanted him to be like, "Good job!" And the more he wouldn't respond, and the more our relationship... kinda strained, the deeper into this I went and the better I got. And the more people I cut out, the quieter my life got. And the routine of the kitchen was so... consistent and exacting and busy and hard and alive, and I lost track of time and he died. And he left me his restaurant. And over the last couple months I-I've been trying to fix it 'cause it was in rough shape, and I think it's very clear that me trying to fix the restaurant... was me trying to fix whatever was happening with my brother. And I don't know, maybe fix the whole family because... that restaurant, it has and it, it does mean a lot to people. It means a lot to me. I just don't know if it ever meant anything to him.
Hi I'm the brother of the poster, He past away in 2022. its a year later and this is crazy too watch. This is everything I was feeling about him. He was my best friend, a part of my life I can't leave behund. I kno this sounds corny but he was the one that understood me and mentored me to the man I am today. He taught me that you don't let anyone tell you. You wont make it. At least until you try. He was tryna be a rapper and he tried his hardest and thats what I believe in now. Anyway if u have the chance, check out his music. It's in a Playlist on his channel. This is all he wanted was for people to hear his music
I won’t ever open up to anyone again but if I did it would be like this, written and acted by someone that hurts…wonderful show.
I feel u just me and myself
Open up to a therapist. I know everybody says it, but it really helps. Its not about what he or her says back its just a good feeling to have someone listen and understand. Lonelyness kills people, either inside or literally.
@@davis5839 men need a good friend, not a therapist. a good friend before of therapist. if its not getting better thats when a therapist should come in.
b@@judahbgameshd4849 friends are great but therapy is important
@@davis5839I have tried therapy and meds for decades and it never helped me.
He is really good at playing a person who has a difficult and/or real background. He can really feel people's pain.
My parents have been watching “The Bear” and I saw this scene while they were watching it. It was one of the most incredible examples of acting I’ve ever seen. It wasn’t melodramatic, it wasn’t anything emotional, just a man bearing his soul to his support group.
The one thing I love the most is the extent that the level of humility he had to say that's hes just a cook just a different kinda cook instead of saying chef shows that the validation he wanted wasn't from being called that but instead getting that the people he loved and looked to could be proud of him in general it took me a long time to separate myself from that kind thought that it's not that if I'm enough or good enough, it's that people I cared about thought I amount to anything...I love being a great cook and leaning I don't need validation for it it's vibrant
2:04 is what you need to hear
Andrew tate said that
@@Jullebulle333bro..
@@hardstruckbeatz7213 what?
@@Jullebulle333he didn’t
@@Jullebulle333 no?
Rip link. The person who posted this is my cousin. He reposted this because his older brother had passed away around the time this came out and it was exactly how felt with his older. Now he has passed. I miss you everyday lincoln. Long live Lincoln. Yall go check out his music. U wont be disappointed
I am sorry for your loss it looks like his channel had a lot of potential
Sorry for you’re loss, hope you are doing ok ❤
Bro he is a good actor. Especially when it comes to films or rolls that are realistic. Like damn i felt his pain.
I miss you Dustin , my big brother , I’ll always go hard for you brother
My name's Carmen. My, um... my brother's an addict. My, My brother was an addict. And this morning, I, um... Sorry, uh... I forgot, um... B-Before I came to Al-Anon, I was a cook. I mean, I'm-I'm still a cook, I'm just a different kind of cook, I guess. My brother and I, we would cook a lot together, especially when we were kids. You know, that's-that's when we were closest. Food was always our common ground. We wanted to open a restaurant together. Um, we had a name, we had a vibe, all of it. My brother could make you feel confident in yourself. You know, like, when I was a kid, if I was nervous, I was scared, I wouldn't wanna do something, he'd always tell me to just face it. You know, get it over with. He would always say, um... Stupid, he would always say, um... "Let it rip." He was loud. And he was hilarious. And he had this amazing ability. He could just, he could walk into a room, and he could take the temperature of it instantly. You know, he could just, he could dial it. And, um... I'm not built like that, man. I, um... I didn't have a lot of friends growing up. I had a, a stutter when I was a kid. I was scared to speak half the time. And, uh, I got shitty grades 'cause I couldn't pay attention in school. I didn't get into college. I didn't have any girlfriends. I don't think I'm funny. I always thought my brother was my best friend. Like, Like, we just knew everything about each other. Except... everybody thought he was their best friend. You know, he was that, he was that magnetic. And, um... I didn't know my brother was using drսg. What does that say? As we got older, I-I realized I didn't know anything about him... really. He stopped letting me into the restaurant a couple years ago. He just cut me off cold. And that, um... that hurt, you know. And I think that just, that flipped a switch in me where I was like, "Okay, fսck you, watch this." And because we had this connection through food and he had made me feel so rejected and lame and shitty and uncool, I-I made this plan where I was gonna go work in all the best restaurants in the world. You know, like, like, I'm gonna go work in real kitchens. Like, fսck Mom and Dad's piece of sh¡t, right? And it sounds ridiculous, you know, me saying that now, but that's-that's-that's what I did. And I got the sh¡t kicked outta me. And I separated herbs and I shucked oysters and clams and uni. And I cut myself, and I got garlic and onions and peppers in my fingernails and in my eyes, and my skin was dry and oily at the same time. I had calluses on my fingers from the knives, and my stomach was fսckеd, and it was... everything. And a couple years later, this funny thing happened which is like... for the first time in my life I-I started to find this, uh, this station for myself. And I was fast. I wasn't afraid. And it was clear, and I-I felt... I felt okay, you know. I knew which vegetables went together, proteins, temperature, sauces, all that sh¡t. And when somebody new came into the restaurant to stage, I'd look at them like they were competition, like I'm gonna smoke this mοthеrfսckеr. I felt like I could speak through the food, like I could communicate through creativity. And that kind of confidence, you know, like I was finally... I wa... I was good at something, that was so new, and that was so exciting and I just wanted him to know that and, fսck, I just wanted him to be like, "Good job!" And the more he wouldn't respond, and the more our relationship... kinda strained, the deeper into this I went and the better I got. And the more people I cut out, the quieter my life got. And the routine of the kitchen was so... consistent and exacting and busy and hard and alive, and I lost track of time and he died. And he left me his restaurant. And over the last couple months I-I've been trying to fix it 'cause it was in rough shape, and I think it's very clear that me trying to fix the restaurant... was me trying to fix whatever was happening with my brother. And I don't know, maybe fix the whole family because... that restaurant, it has and it, it does mean a lot to people. It means a lot to me. I just don't know if it ever meant anything to him.
Jezuz
Hi I'm the brother of the poster, He past away in 2022. its a year later and this is crazy too watch. This is everything I was feeling about him. He was my best friend, a part of my life I can't leave behund. I kno this sounds corny but he was the one that understood me and mentored me to the man I am today. He taught me that you don't let anyone tell you. You wont make it. At least until you try. He was tryna be a rapper and he tried his hardest and thats what I believe in now. Anyway if u have the chance, check out his music. It's in a Playlist on his channel. This is all he wanted was for people to hear his music
my favourite actor
“Shameless mentality”
2:13 is what your looking for
Not all hero’s wear capes
Do you remember when andrew tate said exactly that line.
@@Jullebulle333He didn't they use his voice over in the tate videos
Really, Andrews voice sounded exactly like that when he was younger.
Thanks
Amazing!
I love him in shameless
Okay I gotta watch Shameless again
I don't think I blinked during this speech. Truly amazing
Is this what I missed last week on shameless
every time i see jeremy allen white i think of lip
Lip is going crazy...
Carmy unironically becoming the face of the red pill movement lmfao 2:08
Only for people projecting their insecurities in something thats not related to there struggles but sure 😂
@@jrodriguez2133well said
Live laugh love Jeremy Allen White 💖💗
His nAme is phillip
I thought the audio was Eminem 💀💀
I kinda did too oddly
I thought jake paul
i knew that was jeremy. sounds just like him 😂
2:09
4:06
💔 I can relate you’re not alone
lel
can't believe they would put something like this over an andrew tate clip for god's sake
L take
@@janglyechoes communicate in more than letters young gen zer
@@bhavyakukkar bruh ur literally gen z
@@janglyechoes based on what evidence?
Fr 😂
Tate is a clown
Where can i Watch the serie
Disney plus
lip
Lip
es lo mismo wey
People who know him from shameless
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Ye lol
Shameless*
Bro thinks he’s lip
Wtf are you?
This is missing from kitchens more than people realise . Snowflake era shinning bright right now .
He doesn't sound like he's from Chicago. C'mon man! It aint' hard. You're a professional actor....and a good one!
It’s a conscious choice - in press the creator and actor talk about how Carm worked to lost his accent when he left Chicago
@@curiousgangsta Do any of the main characters have a Chicago accent?
@@alakamisyambohimahamadagas3515 His cousin and sister?
Just watch the fkin series.@@alakamisyambohimahamadagas3515
4:05