When I Was Afraid of Girls

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  • čas přidán 7. 05. 2019
  • Please don't stalk me.
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    (I asked the girl for permission before making this video)
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    E's Jammy Jams - Present Day
    Metal Gear Solid - Alert Theme
    Kevin MacLeod - Dream Culture
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Komentáře • 7K

  • @yami6256
    @yami6256 Před 4 lety +16649

    "I'm coming to your school tomorrow."
    " *h a h a* , no you're *N O T* "

    • @wittyname3599
      @wittyname3599 Před 4 lety +424

      Invasion 100

    • @jovantosic2119
      @jovantosic2119 Před 4 lety +111

      I wanna like but it's at the devils number and I wanna keep it that way

    • @yami6256
      @yami6256 Před 4 lety +56

      @@jovantosic2119 thank you I love you

    • @jovantosic2119
      @jovantosic2119 Před 4 lety +44

      @@yami6256 fck, it reached 667 already. Goddammit... LoL

    • @no-wd5nk
      @no-wd5nk Před 4 lety +21

      Its 998 now

  • @T-Jex
    @T-Jex Před 5 lety +8554

    "She's just standing there...
    *MENACINGLY* "

  • @Heidegaff
    @Heidegaff Před 3 lety +8073

    So the moral is, *you were perfectly justified being afraid of girls since one was effectively stalking you, knowing where you went to school and where you lived despite never telling her.*

    • @ilililil490
      @ilililil490 Před 3 lety +381

      There is a public registry in sweden where theres information about every citizen there. Idk about minors doe.

    • @pop5705
      @pop5705 Před 2 lety +772

      @@ilililil490 They also meet because of a friend in common, she could've just asked that friend.

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 Před 2 lety +181

      @@pop5705but still its creepy since house address is something only the person who lives in it should know.

    • @braziliantsar
      @braziliantsar Před 2 lety +113

      @@animeuniverse5586 What?

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 Před 2 lety +172

      @@braziliantsar idk what i was thinking while typing such a great sentence.

  • @crispyybaconx
    @crispyybaconx Před rokem +100

    "All women are agents of the state. Any and all contact must be avoided"

  • @de132
    @de132 Před 5 lety +15126

    I'm coming to your school tomorrow.

    • @markmcculfor6113
      @markmcculfor6113 Před 5 lety +697

      You better not buddy

    • @lakamokolaka
      @lakamokolaka Před 5 lety +396

      @@markmcculfor6113 Why? He will take me to a cafe if I do and will run because I exist.
      What do I have to lose?

    • @NA-rz2qf
      @NA-rz2qf Před 5 lety +483

      hahaha you’re kidding; right?

    • @anasxo1
      @anasxo1 Před 5 lety +51

      no god please no no

    • @seanseanston
      @seanseanston Před 5 lety +55

      Maybe it's the alternate universe version of the classic threat...
      "Some of you guys aren't alright; I'm not coming to your school tomorrow."

  • @colagesicht
    @colagesicht Před 4 lety +4201

    2:33 Are you winning son?

  • @hazzesanimations8212
    @hazzesanimations8212 Před 3 lety +68

    1:32 "and she's standing there..."
    *"M E N A C I N G L Y"*

  • @gmalecastro9976
    @gmalecastro9976 Před 3 lety +740

    Loved your illustrations, Matthias. They almost tell a story all their own. You should consider animating them as children’s stories (which, by the way, work excellently for adults, too). Best wishes!

    • @Cellulolytic
      @Cellulolytic Před 9 měsíci +1

      I read that as illusions and I thought you were saying he was like schizo or something. I'm way too sleep deprived for this

    • @ahmedwael3971
      @ahmedwael3971 Před 9 měsíci

      Bro get some sleep😭
      @@Cellulolytic

  • @tesculeanuandrei6744
    @tesculeanuandrei6744 Před 4 lety +8734

    Dudes say things like: ''Girls give mixed signals and I don't get them''
    Also dudes: this video

  • @elflux888
    @elflux888 Před 4 lety +18739

    Girl: Oh, you're approaching me? Instead of running awa...
    Mattias: *runs away*

    • @nkyiem
      @nkyiem Před 4 lety +181

      Nah its the other was around lmao

    • @neyney1664
      @neyney1664 Před 4 lety +372

      nigerundayo!

    • @tarpulin8179
      @tarpulin8179 Před 4 lety +274

      Mattias is a joestar confirmed

    • @hibosmo
      @hibosmo Před 4 lety +25

      @@tarpulin8179 LOL

    • @cheez4233
      @cheez4233 Před 4 lety +84

      joestar secret technique

  • @simelstre
    @simelstre Před 3 lety +567

    There was a girl who I had a crush on for my entire 8th grade year. I was lucky enough to actually become friends with her, to an extent. Friends enough that we ended up working on a poster-making project, I don’t remember exactly what it was. Together. Just the two of us. I spent almost the whole time being scared and awkward, staying at a distance from her even though we couldn’t work on the poster at the same time that way. God, I felt like such a fool. I was making myself look both awkward AND lazy because I wasn’t helping as much with the poster. I still remember that day every now and then. It’s just something that stays with you, I guess.
    I was also too scared to ask her to sign my yearbook at the end of the year, even though I spent the entire earlier part of the day psyching myself up for it. She went to a different high school than me, so those were my last memories with her. Even if I wanted to, I’ll never forget these things. They’re as precious to me as they are cringey and painful, I cared about that girl so much. That‘s my experience being scared of girls, I hope it means something to someone reading this.

    • @myftpuqtsm
      @myftpuqtsm Před rokem +27

      Kinda had the same experience but i moved countries instead of high schools

    • @ThatLandonSmith
      @ThatLandonSmith Před rokem +10

      It meant something to me.

    • @Shadow-ew3je
      @Shadow-ew3je Před rokem +6

      awww

    • @-_deploy_-
      @-_deploy_- Před rokem +3

      Damn bro

    • @rileyowen7245
      @rileyowen7245 Před rokem +3

      Bro your not alone I had similar experiences 😢 I had a crush too but never could tell her. I hated myself for being so afraid. Next time please don't be afraid to tell her

  • @jd7634
    @jd7634 Před 3 lety +163

    My man had a girl simping for him and his reaction was *"I don't know what to do with my hands."*

  • @supertron6039
    @supertron6039 Před 3 lety +2288

    He was around 14 when all of this happened.
    *_laughs in single_*

    • @PanzerMan332
      @PanzerMan332 Před 3 lety +212

      *laughs in not ever having a girlfriend in all 20 years of life*

    • @scoundrel7011
      @scoundrel7011 Před 3 lety +33

      @@PanzerMan332 Same

    • @nikosgreekman8812
      @nikosgreekman8812 Před 3 lety +60

      @@PanzerMan332All 21 years here

    • @gum307
      @gum307 Před 3 lety +147

      guys, i had no girlfriend until i was 28. and i had similar cringe moments with girls. when i decided to not give a fuck about them (not in an ignorant childish way) and enjoy my life, they started to approche ME. also please don't think you are worth less because you have no girlfriend...thats bullshit and kills your confidence

    • @theburgersystem126
      @theburgersystem126 Před 3 lety +5

      I didn’t have moments like this until I was 15/16 ish

  • @user-zi8lg5qu1h
    @user-zi8lg5qu1h Před 3 lety +3458

    "Some girl is asking for you"
    "We both know it's a lie, what are you up to dad"

  • @gabrielemilani9066
    @gabrielemilani9066 Před 11 měsíci +9

    "And then it stopped. It's raining now" BRO WTF I'VE ALMOST CRYED

  • @danielawesome36
    @danielawesome36 Před 3 lety +60

    The stuff they did feels low-key like an actual date.

  • @cyatram
    @cyatram Před 3 lety +11349

    That girl is definitely the antagonist of a horror movie.

  • @nietlars5563
    @nietlars5563 Před 4 lety +11186

    And my dad comes in and says...
    Are ya winning son?

  • @samuelolwero
    @samuelolwero Před rokem +9

    “...and my dad asked me, Are you winning Son?” 2:34

  • @aramisortsbottcher8201
    @aramisortsbottcher8201 Před 2 lety +44

    Can relate. In kindergarten and primary school I had some female friends, that changed in secondary school. In the last years I even had a reputation of being a mysogenist or something as I was rude? I simply did not know how to deal with girls, the "sit as far away as possible"-scenario happened to me aswell. Then, in December 2019 I was invited to a friend and he had a girl invited aswell, we did not know each other - the first time in 5 years or so I meat a girl outside of school. It went ok and as we had the same friends we saw each other here and there. She once said we would be friends, but honestly I don't think so, I mean... if only we two are together somewhere we can talk for an hour and then there is just akward silence... not what I would call a friend. Yet she is the closest I was to a girl in a long time. So I still don't know how to handle them, but it got better. And now there is Corona - problem solved XD
    Also I have a female penfriend in Canada, it works. Luckily I live in Europe, so chances are I'll never see her.
    It is wierd, isn't it? I can write to a girl, but as soon as there is one physically present my brain is in "girl-mode" and I don't know how to behave. I'm glad I don't miss it, so I don't "suffer".

  • @raseruuu3742
    @raseruuu3742 Před 5 lety +2286

    Me, a virgin:
    "I love you too, pretty stalker girl who i totally did not give my address to!"

    • @subscribetopewdiepie5259
      @subscribetopewdiepie5259 Před 4 lety +77

      Will be a waste not to

    • @datpoyo4900
      @datpoyo4900 Před 4 lety +66

      You Wont Be A Virgin If She Goes To Your Bedroom The Second Date

    • @gbm6882
      @gbm6882 Před 4 lety +19

      honestly yandere works for me, I’d die for a solicitor given time

    • @AnnaHans88
      @AnnaHans88 Před 4 lety +1

      This is why I sometimes wish I was a dude

    • @thalassaer4137
      @thalassaer4137 Před 4 lety +14

      @@AnnaHans88 Get in my van

  • @Awesomepedia
    @Awesomepedia Před 5 lety +5246

    Hey Mattias I have a pamphlet for you to read about stalking

  • @ZiroWatt
    @ZiroWatt Před 2 lety +506

    the most unbelievable thing about this story is that not only did she consistently reach out to you, but she actually opened up to you about liking you instead of the other way around. This breaks all laws of physics

    • @jeremyhodge6216
      @jeremyhodge6216 Před rokem +3

      I thought this was a interesting video 😁

    • @titandarknight2698
      @titandarknight2698 Před 11 měsíci +9

      How? its normal for people to have crushes and then tell them about it.

    • @Mr.Goodkat
      @Mr.Goodkat Před 10 měsíci

      @@titandarknight2698 It's because girls are never the ones consistently reaching out and having to open up, it's always the other way around.

    • @_mosesb
      @_mosesb Před 10 měsíci +10

      It's believable since he said they were kids or teens 🤷, it's more innocent, less games.

    • @greatman5885
      @greatman5885 Před 10 měsíci +19

      @@titandarknight2698 yeah it's normal when a boy confesses his love... you don't see the reverse often

  • @tatago580
    @tatago580 Před 3 lety +12077

    The real lesson: "Life is not an anime."

    • @joditiarsutrisno5556
      @joditiarsutrisno5556 Před 3 lety +290

      *me looking at Promised Neverland
      "Sure it is"

    • @surmminthcv0895
      @surmminthcv0895 Před 3 lety +83

      Only empty people think it is

    • @hussein7517
      @hussein7517 Před 3 lety +81

      I sure wish it was. I'm 22 and have never been with a girl and i don't think I'll ever be with one. Being in an anime could change that

    • @hilton_chloe.e
      @hilton_chloe.e Před 3 lety +4

      @@joditiarsutrisno5556 umm ok sure ... 😤

    • @Michael-zg4ig
      @Michael-zg4ig Před 3 lety +201

      @@hussein7517 I dont think so, with that mentality you would probably be a side character

  • @felixyoung1482
    @felixyoung1482 Před 4 lety +5065

    Mathias anime TAGs: romantic, psicologic, yandere, comedy, slice of life.

    • @pairez1041
      @pairez1041 Před 4 lety +151

      Im coming to your home tomorrow

    • @fideldog1
      @fideldog1 Před 4 lety +53

      Pairez I’m coming to your room tomarrow

    • @howtyplcal350
      @howtyplcal350 Před 4 lety +82

      The grammar police are coming to this comment section.

    • @Unit-sg1wc
      @Unit-sg1wc Před 4 lety +18

      It's nhentai lol

    • @foxsoncvj
      @foxsoncvj Před 4 lety +2

      What about going to srekx

  • @rishik7665
    @rishik7665 Před 3 lety +25

    Thanks! This was really helpful. I feel comfort knowing that there are kids like me and that I can be okay someday. This definitely wasn't "cringey" mattias. I'm really grateful to you for making this video. Cheers!

  • @Prototype037
    @Prototype037 Před 3 lety +69

    Thank you Mattias for sharing, being from Gothenburg myself it was extra wonderful to be able to relate to the scenes.
    Hope you have a great time.
    -Leonard

  • @janbertguerrero6988
    @janbertguerrero6988 Před 5 lety +2491

    Other title: "A Stalker Cured My Anxiety"

  • @agnel47
    @agnel47 Před 4 lety +2389

    I can relate.
    I'm 28.

    • @ein8539
      @ein8539 Před 4 lety +17

      Lol. Listen to After Hours by Velvet Underground

    • @mh4624
      @mh4624 Před 4 lety +97

      @I’m Okay Are you really okay?

    • @blinkcatmeowmeow8484
      @blinkcatmeowmeow8484 Před 4 lety +38

      M H his name says he is

    • @decay2__
      @decay2__ Před 4 lety +14

      @@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 so he's not 28?

    • @blinkcatmeowmeow8484
      @blinkcatmeowmeow8484 Před 4 lety +37

      D. Khulu Nkabinde hes both 28 and Okay.

  • @elismart13
    @elismart13 Před 2 lety +6

    Okay dude 3:02 I would Be asking many questions... Also (horror movie soundtrack plays... At that moment)

  • @Shbeeve
    @Shbeeve Před 9 měsíci +3

    im actually a master at hiding it

  • @star-manrainbowstar336
    @star-manrainbowstar336 Před 5 lety +4340

    Mattias: Doesn't remember literal first date
    Also Mattias: Remembers the price of said date
    I think I could be Mattias

    • @zipity2782
      @zipity2782 Před 4 lety +39

      I think he meant more of a general feel of the price, and how it was more expensive than expected.

    • @kingyouki5904
      @kingyouki5904 Před 4 lety +3

      Star-Man RainbowStar as my mother would say “Just like a man”

    • @koromaru6666
      @koromaru6666 Před 4 lety +2

      @@zipity2782 Hmmm money is to me more important than social relationships. Lol my dear money i love you!

    • @ReadToasts
      @ReadToasts Před 4 lety

      Alright, you're allowed to be A Mathias, but not THE Mathias

  • @dystrophic
    @dystrophic Před 5 lety +23047

    Dude... didn't you ask her how she found your school and your house? You didn't find that creepy and weird?

    • @MattiasPilhede
      @MattiasPilhede  Před 5 lety +10435

      I didn't at the time, but I think she contacted one of my friends and asked them. Even now I haven't asked her.

    • @OufTarek
      @OufTarek Před 5 lety +5088

      @@MattiasPilhede She's a hacker!
      *anime plot intensifies*

    • @nathanhollow0
      @nathanhollow0 Před 5 lety +2919

      @@MattiasPilhede This anime is deeper than i thought

    • @racvv
      @racvv Před 5 lety +915

      Do it and then tell us. It's a perfect OVA... kind of

    • @eggblade4191
      @eggblade4191 Před 5 lety +677

      NEED SEASON 2 ASAP!

  • @supertroopa
    @supertroopa Před 3 lety +32

    when 4:46 hit i slammed my desk and said "you let it slip you goddamn idiot!" and then i laughed for a while lmao

  • @excus5762
    @excus5762 Před rokem +1

    I like the “are ya winnin son?” reference, great videos man :)

  • @AutismoCentral
    @AutismoCentral Před 4 lety +2394

    "Someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." -> important lesson

  • @aliberkozderya3112
    @aliberkozderya3112 Před 5 lety +4124

    A very personal and emotional video is about to end,
    Mattias: And I could finally say...
    Me: Oh he is just about to say something very profound and meaningful about life
    Mattias: Thank god life is not anime
    He does this in every video and it still catches me off guard

    • @jevonbatti
      @jevonbatti Před 5 lety +16

      I feel ya buddy

    • @fallenangel9614
      @fallenangel9614 Před 5 lety +8

      Ali Berk ÖZDERYA chough chough this story is very close to a something that happened to me just didn’t meet her on the internet

    • @aliberkozderya3112
      @aliberkozderya3112 Před 5 lety +6

      @@fallenangel9614 how did you meet her then?

    • @fallenangel9614
      @fallenangel9614 Před 5 lety +7

      Ali Berk ÖZDERYA school

    • @aliberkozderya3112
      @aliberkozderya3112 Před 5 lety +18

      @@fallenangel9614 lol of course the school, for some reason I was expecting something very unusual. I was like scratching my head thinking "what can it possibly be if it is not the internet?". Anyway, hope it is a good memory for you. Take care

  • @bgsbrokenboneafterfighting726

    2:45 Well I’m a girl. I saw this. I’m confused. And scared.

  • @tylereclement
    @tylereclement Před rokem +12

    I’m glad you were able to learn lessons like this when you’re young, I never talked to people much before senior year of highschool cause I was scared, but it made me so depressed that I broke out and for the next three years after I came out of my shell, I’ve felt like I had to emotionally mature and learn lessons fast cause I was so socially behind all my college friends. Now thankfully I feel like I’m at the level of emotionally maturity that I should be in at 22 but boy was it a hard few years getting to this point

    • @exoticbomber137
      @exoticbomber137 Před 10 měsíci +1

      What was your experience with catching up in maturity? Is there anything you did to help mentally grow?

    • @tylereclement
      @tylereclement Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@exoticbomber137 I fucked up a whole lot, like a whole lot more than anyone should, and I learned from my mistakes slowly. Wish I could have gone about this better but I didn’t even understand the things I was doing was wrong or anything until things blew up in my face enough

  • @cliffworsfold1994
    @cliffworsfold1994 Před 3 lety +9262

    WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW SHE ROCKED UP TO BOTH HIS SCHOOL AND HIS HOUSE WITHOUT HIM TELLING HER WHERE THEY WERE?

    • @sulpherbratigh7936
      @sulpherbratigh7936 Před 3 lety +1256

      Well she's a friend of his friend, perhaps she just asked the friend where he lives

    • @sulpherbratigh7936
      @sulpherbratigh7936 Před 3 lety +534

      @EZO EZ Both of them are around 14, Pedophilla is out of the question even if they switched genders, Creep stalker is possible but it would only start to seem suspicious if they stays around after being given no answer to their confession, in this case she backed off and likely never sees him again because she was hurt

    • @Dragiux
      @Dragiux Před 3 lety +146

      If you know someone's name and last name, you can find where they live in sweden, because it's public information.

    • @yb0805hw
      @yb0805hw Před 3 lety +26

      Well she’s not gonna kill or rape him like men do

    • @whatareyoudoinginmyswamp3596
      @whatareyoudoinginmyswamp3596 Před 3 lety +171

      @@yb0805hw Huh?

  • @pointynoodle
    @pointynoodle Před 4 lety +1616

    "She confessed that she actually liked me."
    Bro no way

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx Před 3 lety +64

      i wish they lived happily ever after

    • @jersonryan9269
      @jersonryan9269 Před 3 lety +29

      @@AC-mp7cx 6:35

    • @vens1337
      @vens1337 Před 3 lety +124

      If a girl would look in my general direction for more than 10 seconds I'd be happy for the day.

    • @pointynoodle
      @pointynoodle Před 3 lety +32

      @@vens1337 Trust me, you really don't. I've been in your position and you really don't want that.

    • @vens1337
      @vens1337 Před 3 lety +62

      @@pointynoodle Man, Ive rarely talked to a girl aside from a few words here and there for the past, like, 6-7 months. I want female interaction, and its not like im nervous or anything, i just dont have anything to say in the same way i do with dudes. Then again, i also rarely talk to people i dont know unless they approach me, so whatev for me.

  • @delg_vi
    @delg_vi Před rokem

    Great, great video. Keep up the good work!

  • @itzcloudy5672
    @itzcloudy5672 Před rokem +1

    actually a really mature video told by a person who seemed like my big brother sharing his relationship advice with me. I really enjored!!! Thanks for sharing

  • @thatonepersonthatwritesess7157

    “I just talked to a girl!”
    *Didn’t actually talk*

  • @RigbyWilde
    @RigbyWilde Před 3 lety +7514

    Actually I believe that girl never existed and was only his imagination. That would be a good example of fighting shyness

    • @lavascopersecondaccount3099
      @lavascopersecondaccount3099 Před 3 lety +30

      Kkkk mds Rigby

    • @enderwigin7976
      @enderwigin7976 Před 3 lety +79

      I really wish that that could happen to me..

    • @nayan7398
      @nayan7398 Před 3 lety +22

      that's what i was thinking the whole time

    • @Ocer.
      @Ocer. Před 3 lety +16

      That's dumb

    • @sinoidal5683
      @sinoidal5683 Před 3 lety +3

      Thats the correct assumption of what happen and why this vídeo is calles shyness boy with girl when he gets a girl un love with him

  • @RSKEDITS
    @RSKEDITS Před 3 lety +5

    The shoe falling off part was totally relatable

  • @Jugi
    @Jugi Před 10 měsíci +11

    pretty similar to what i had, i had a crush on this girl that was and still is way out of my league.
    we were 13 and she kept hugging me randomly and drawing on my hands in class and i was completely oblivious to this because i thought she would never want to go out with me, but now years later, she obviously had a crush on me.
    for 3 years in school i wanted to ask her out but never got the courage to do so, she eventually asked me out but i was also really awkward, we met twice(she had changed schools for the last year) and it was the most awkward "dates" both of us have ever had, i was completely silent for the majority of it and even asked how she was doing at school, like grade wise, yea that's gonna get her going lol
    then she met someone else and we have had stuff here and there yada yada
    but good thing, we are now both single at 23 and going out on friday lol

  • @Nyangamer-nk8ri
    @Nyangamer-nk8ri Před 5 lety +772

    Anime brought them together...but anime also broke them apart...

  • @RecycleBin0
    @RecycleBin0 Před 8 měsíci +3

    *knock knock*
    who's there?
    ya blew it.
    you blew it and she did most of the work. blew it.
    blew it.

  • @jagaimo3484
    @jagaimo3484 Před 4 lety +10763

    Ok jeez we get it, you talked to a girl once stop bragging not everyone is that lucky

  • @quad7685
    @quad7685 Před 2 lety

    This is probably my favorite by Mattias

  • @StarAmbience42
    @StarAmbience42 Před 2 lety

    Good job, great narration

  • @user-hy3vi5wk5m
    @user-hy3vi5wk5m Před 5 lety +1130

    This guy draws with crayola to make 10/10 quality vids

  • @faisal.5347
    @faisal.5347 Před 3 lety +3661

    She did all that just for you?! She must really like you

    • @gabicci5210
      @gabicci5210 Před 3 lety +91

      Your comment specialy make me feel wierd, because I was very like that whit EVERY person as like to me, and they in the box comments are leaving me lik a huge, ridiculous stalker, except may yours and a couple more :')
      (I'speak spanish, sorry)

    • @reese8050
      @reese8050 Před 3 lety +342

      @@gabicci5210 Damn i didnt understood a single thing, sad

    • @Lucas-Nunes
      @Lucas-Nunes Před 3 lety +202

      @@reese8050 I think he means that he acted just the way the girl on the video does, thus making this comment in particular make him feel weird about it.
      And now everyone in the comment section makes him feel weird and like a stalker too.

    • @Lucas-Nunes
      @Lucas-Nunes Před 3 lety +27

      @@gabicci5210 Hi!
      Would you mind if I tried to "fix" your 5 day old comment?

    • @marcoslightspeed5517
      @marcoslightspeed5517 Před 3 lety +25

      @@Lucas-Nunes bold of you to assume its a he

  • @vinitsharma5703
    @vinitsharma5703 Před rokem +14

    Something similar happened to me. Me and my ex were in a relationship, and we loved each other. But due to our family feud, I had to break up with her. I still to this day remember her face when I said we should break up. Her tears still haunts me. It eats me from inside.

    • @Andre-ih8rv
      @Andre-ih8rv Před rokem +4

      Accept my condolences, I'm sorry for you both and don't really wan't to put my two cents here but I too had unpleasant experiences with girls and want to say that by learning from mistakes we become better, it's also important to do good conclusions though 💚

  • @tamro9701
    @tamro9701 Před rokem +8

    I let anxiety control my life, I avoided all social interactions and anything that could possibly make me uncomfortable. Now at age 23, my reward is no friends, no social skills, and worse anxiety. The path of least resistance is a path to nowhere.

    • @Sun-God2
      @Sun-God2 Před 10 měsíci

      I'm going through the same situation, and I'm only 17

    • @tamro9701
      @tamro9701 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Sun-God2 I wish I could go back and fucking beg my 17 year old self to just try reaching out to people no matter how awkward and painful it feels.

    • @outlander3000
      @outlander3000 Před 3 měsíci

      When I was 23 I was exactly like you, but guess what? Now I'm 40 and I'm still the same. Surprise!

    • @man.i.literally.failed6772
      @man.i.literally.failed6772 Před 6 dny

      same spot at 43😥life suck's

  • @chopin65
    @chopin65 Před 5 lety +1618

    Your Dad has a villain mustache? Does he twirl it and make demands about paying the rent?

    • @thelyricguy2497
      @thelyricguy2497 Před 5 lety +3

      @Vladimir Lenin 😂

    • @chopin65
      @chopin65 Před 5 lety +2

      @Vladimir Lenin Oh. Okay.

    • @KrazyProductions
      @KrazyProductions Před 5 lety +8

      it's a me WARIOOOO

    • @MrFram
      @MrFram Před 4 lety +7

      @Vladimir Lenin What kind of parties..? **mushroom party intensifies**

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 Před 4 lety

      Does he ask if his son is winning tho?

  • @polish_filipino
    @polish_filipino Před 5 lety +1603

    It's only been a minute and I already relate so much
    Although, she never came to my school :/

  • @CoolMaisa
    @CoolMaisa Před 2 lety +1

    THE MESSENGER SOUND EFFECTS!!! 😍😍😍😍

  • @imanmokhtari5098
    @imanmokhtari5098 Před rokem +2

    I dont usually comment on youtube, but this was a really good and relatable video. Good job

  • @MattiasPilhede
    @MattiasPilhede  Před 5 lety +1432

    I have hayfever and I bought a new microphone so I probably sound a bit different. Had to enunciate a bit more so I didn't sound unintelligble.

    • @sco9301
      @sco9301 Před 5 lety +18

      Hope you feel better man, rest up.

    • @user-uw2pe7ib2m
      @user-uw2pe7ib2m Před 5 lety +8

      j

    • @hanalanaelle1357
      @hanalanaelle1357 Před 5 lety +6

      it sounds great. can you share your setup(equipment and software)?

    • @iwillrocksomeday
      @iwillrocksomeday Před 5 lety +2

      I can tell your English isn't great. I'm not teasing or ridiculing you, just trying to help. Pronounce and enunciate are two different things. Pronunciation is saying a word correctly, and enunciating is reeeally sayying itt properrlyy (really saying it properly). Hope this helps you and you don't find it offensive. I love your video and have subscribed.

    • @Katerspacedopwater
      @Katerspacedopwater Před 5 lety +3

      You know, this story might not be great for anime, because it's much better than anime. Because it's real. Anime sucks at being real. So yes, thank God anime isn't real.

  • @hyerikalee6688
    @hyerikalee6688 Před 3 lety +1567

    Homer: Marge, I'm confused, is this a happy ending or a sad ending?
    Marge: It's an ending, that's enough.

    • @Nayhan123
      @Nayhan123 Před 3 lety +5

      You got likes thought I’d tell you

    • @mooganify
      @mooganify Před 3 lety +16

      Oh man I can hear that

    • @sibro4747
      @sibro4747 Před 3 lety +14

      I remember that episode

    • @tlotro625
      @tlotro625 Před rokem +2

      Eh, I mean, good experience comes from bad experiences, it's learning that makes it good.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před rokem +1

      ​@@tlotro625good lessons from bad experiences. F me and my life if I was enjoying the bad experiences that taught me.

  • @jtdogzonejdz7587
    @jtdogzonejdz7587 Před 3 lety +5

    "Bad story for an anime"
    Me as an Otaku: I would still watch it

  • @meanya4687
    @meanya4687 Před rokem +13

    I used to get so nervous around boys, particularly boys I liked. You know that natural filter you have over your speech that takes all the mishmash coffee grounds pouring through your brain and filters it into a steady stream of coherent speech? Every time I was around certain boys, I was spitting straight grounds. I had no filter. I made a fool of myself every time and I'd look back on each moment wondering what had come over me. I didn't even _feel_ like myself.
    I had a similarly awkward situation where a boy I had liked asked me out on a date. I had to sit myself down and tell myself "He's not interested in you. Stop melting and act like you do around your friends." And just like that, I let all my feelings and anxieties for him go all at once. I was way more relaxed, I felt more like myself, and we had a perfectly lovely time.
    And I never had feelings for anyone ever again :)

  • @boats_r_cool
    @boats_r_cool Před 5 lety +322

    *girl shows up at home uninvited, without being told where home is*
    Welcome inside

    • @nemudere
      @nemudere Před 3 lety

      me at my crush's bday be like:

  • @kargovroom7701
    @kargovroom7701 Před 3 lety +7180

    Dude same, im also afraid of girls...
    And boys.
    I have social anxiety
    Y'all, I appreciate the advice and sympathy, but I don't have social anxiety. I didn't know what social anxiety was when I wrote this. At the time, I thought I had social anxiety, but no, I was just really awkward.✌

    • @espiritodasinceridade7848
      @espiritodasinceridade7848 Před 3 lety +130

      Do meditation, It will help a lot

    • @lightsfeed9541
      @lightsfeed9541 Před 3 lety +213

      Yeah....It's sweating like sweating about talking to guys ...and having a full blown fever and wicked adrenaline rush for talking to girls.

    • @espiritodasinceridade7848
      @espiritodasinceridade7848 Před 3 lety +59

      @@lightsfeed9541 I understand, I was like that but I'm good now, and my life is much better.

    • @spooderdan9127
      @spooderdan9127 Před 3 lety +123

      I also have social anxiety but thats from dealing with assholes a lot. Thats why I hate people in general

    • @notacaml8303
      @notacaml8303 Před 3 lety +64

      Then don’t have social anxiety

  • @ScotlandFC1873
    @ScotlandFC1873 Před rokem +5

    1:05 bro remembers EXACTLY what they were talking about

  • @soterstheivering
    @soterstheivering Před 3 lety +5

    “Thank god life is not anime”
    These words hit harder than a truck

  • @nadri3335
    @nadri3335 Před 3 lety +4085

    The most infuriating love history that I ever heard.

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 Před 3 lety +85

      You mean "never had"?

    • @pureconlimon4317
      @pureconlimon4317 Před 3 lety +7

      Ever?

    • @adriatical9016
      @adriatical9016 Před 3 lety +123

      I’m banging my head against the wall... but at the same time I would’ve probably done the same

    • @NilesBlackX
      @NilesBlackX Před 3 lety +27

      If you like this I've got like ten of these
      But I didn't pick up on the signals until like literally years later, so it's even worse 🤦

    • @shrooman768
      @shrooman768 Před 3 lety +10

      your profile picture is FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNG amazing
      I FUCKING LOVE IT
      I L-O-V-E IT
      I LOVE IT

  • @lori9885
    @lori9885 Před 5 lety +444

    Afraid of girls? Damn you almost became an anime harem protagonist.

    • @ew8381
      @ew8381 Před 4 lety +9

      Lori *mayo chiki! Intensifies*

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh Před 4 lety +4

      Whats a harem

    • @imcool2931
      @imcool2931 Před 4 lety +31

      @@Lg-xt5eh oh you sweet innocent child

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh Před 4 lety +2

      @@imcool2931 ok lol

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh Před 4 lety +2

      @@imcool2931 Is it hent*i?

  • @nikleduc2148
    @nikleduc2148 Před 3 lety

    thank you for this I really liked this

  • @chrisdude119
    @chrisdude119 Před rokem

    what a cool story!
    i guess we've all been awkward around girls back then, since we are just immature teenagers, we are shy and we like girls, and its tough to talk with them, due to shame/fear!
    with that being said, i think that it was nice of this girl that she hanged around with you and that she helped you to solve your awkwardness and to make you be more sociable/more comfortable around girls, so sometimes a little push helps people alot.
    ofcourse, like you said above, "someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." , and its very true.
    yet, i feel that this kind girl that stood up to help you, could've been a good long-time friend to have, or to even have a relationship with.
    few people are so lucky in such cases.
    either way, its a good video, with nice animations, and a very funny story! bravo!

  • @user-nz4dr1sy5g
    @user-nz4dr1sy5g Před 4 lety +980

    This could have easily ended in "it was my imagination all along"

    • @Crazyapple16
      @Crazyapple16 Před 3 lety +36

      ""I was so horny and alone I imagined a girl""

    • @bingletoncoochiesmith.
      @bingletoncoochiesmith. Před 3 lety +3

      @@Crazyapple16 😂😂😂

    • @Impoopinus
      @Impoopinus Před 3 lety +1

      @Abdul Rahman Mohammed eyyyy

    • @wiseboi_1149
      @wiseboi_1149 Před 3 lety +1

      For most of us

    • @FonchoVidal
      @FonchoVidal Před rokem +4

      "Then a doctor wake me up and told me 'you were in a coma, i'm afraid its been 9 years' 💀"

  • @ridhoaffandi5644
    @ridhoaffandi5644 Před 5 lety +1068

    Bad Protagonist + Manic Pixie Dreamy Girl... wait up... isn't that Evangelion?

    • @rampantmutt9119
      @rampantmutt9119 Před 5 lety +85

      I wouldn't call Asuka or Rei "manic" or "dreamy".

    • @wasjagrach5621
      @wasjagrach5621 Před 5 lety +83

      It's "Scott Pilgrim against The World" actually.

    • @faisaalkamara4181
      @faisaalkamara4181 Před 5 lety +15

      Rampant Mutt askua is definitely manic lol

    • @MegaDudon
      @MegaDudon Před 4 lety +27

      "Get in the damn robot, Matthias!"

    • @acookie1410
      @acookie1410 Před 4 lety

      Ridho Affandi
      And your goddamn profile is her in the video
      AAAAHHHH

  • @gotthatswag4502
    @gotthatswag4502 Před 3 lety

    thanks man. you really helped me with the video

  • @RunnJake
    @RunnJake Před 3 lety +8

    While for awhile I've had extreme distaste for my ex, I'll give credit that my experience with her finally helped correctly gauge my interest in girls, along with settling the social anxiety I've always had about speaking my mind. I wasn't and still am not one for being a socially inept weirdo, but I could never get over the thought of rejection, but with my ex I knew that I kind of had it in the bag, so I said, fuck it, why not? And that's possibly the best philosophy you can have when you are debating with yourself if you should ask a person to date, or what have you, and if the possible rejection is worth it. I realize that if you are rejected, you shrug it off, and get on with life, especially if you're younger.

  • @El-bq9rk
    @El-bq9rk Před 5 lety +2876

    It’s hilarious how guys always say that girls are “difficult to understand”
    But guys in their teens apparently show feelings by moving their chair very far away from you and/or running away on the first meeting!

    • @thedarkship8035
      @thedarkship8035 Před 5 lety +313

      Yeah and some guys say that maybe, we should just not make huge generalisation about large groups of people.

    • @benryangarcia
      @benryangarcia Před 5 lety +324

      He never said he liked the girl. He was uncomfortable so he behaved uncomfortably. Logic checks out.

    • @DanTKD87
      @DanTKD87 Před 5 lety +13

      Seems like those tactics worked put pretty good lol
      Oh wait I saw the ending

    • @El-bq9rk
      @El-bq9rk Před 5 lety +31

      TheDarkShip True but my comment was supposed a joke about about generalizations

    • @El-bq9rk
      @El-bq9rk Před 5 lety +16

      Benjamin Garcia Might’ve been true with the second girl (even though he did say that they were at least friends white texting eachother before she came to his school)
      But with the first girl he also specifically said that bc he got nervous around girls he moved his chair far away from her making her think he’s mad at her even though he wasn’t.

  • @callancaustic9355
    @callancaustic9355 Před 4 lety +539

    "Literally means fear of heights" what a scary name, thank God here in Australia we have domestic names for rides like *KAMIKAZE.* Definitely not going on that thing.

    • @M3I0n_Me
      @M3I0n_Me Před 4 lety +13

      Oh yeah. We have kamikaze at my local fair

    • @callancaustic9355
      @callancaustic9355 Před 4 lety

      @@M3I0n_Me yeah its at the yearly carnival here

    • @ultima2399
      @ultima2399 Před 4 lety +9

      I'm scared shitless of heights. I've never gone on those rides

    • @adrih8694
      @adrih8694 Před 4 lety +31

      American carnival rides are a while other league. They have names like "Super Mega Assfucker Toesucker Tilt-a-Whirl".

    • @callancaustic9355
      @callancaustic9355 Před 4 lety +6

      @@adrih8694 I really want that to become a real ride name. I mean at my local carnival the names are pretty basic, with "the cha-cha" being on the not at all scary side, and "The space roller" on the end of being totally over the top in design, size, and scare factor.

  • @sksn8200
    @sksn8200 Před rokem +4

    bro why are you so casual about the fact that you didnt tell her where you lived but she somehow just KNEW? thats creepy af

  • @Roblino
    @Roblino Před rokem

    Så sant Mattias, tack och lov att jag inte är ensam om detta

  • @ivanljujic4128
    @ivanljujic4128 Před 5 lety +3259

    How on Earth did she find you?

    • @dooplon5083
      @dooplon5083 Před 5 lety +148

      @Angel Aniki They meant find their school and house. Having a common friend doesn't necessarily mean that common friend knows either pieces of info (and it's implied they didn't considering his confusion)

    • @hamizannaruto
      @hamizannaruto Před 5 lety +73

      @@dooplon5083 Dont know how, but if i have to guess, that common friend tell her the address and everything.

    • @wanghajowang
      @wanghajowang Před 5 lety +8

      hitta.se

    • @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343
      @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343 Před 5 lety +14

      王家晧 wtf

    • @cipher5893
      @cipher5893 Před 5 lety +36

      Any pictures can contain subtle clues. Landmarks, shops, school uniforms, etc. Pin down general area, then school, follow him home, boom. She worked up the courage then visites.

  • @killer1gamer1
    @killer1gamer1 Před 3 lety +364

    "I'm coming to your school tomorrow"
    take that out of context for a bit

  • @spikeonsteroids
    @spikeonsteroids Před 3 lety

    I like this art style.

  • @wee6096
    @wee6096 Před 2 lety

    This is probably the best story I've seen in yt

  • @KruCorn
    @KruCorn Před 3 lety +380

    "you sit far away from her and she thinks she did something wrong"
    Me : "OH NO-"
    *sudden bad memories came rushing in*

  • @bobbyzeitgeist1842
    @bobbyzeitgeist1842 Před 3 lety +3253

    I consider myself awkward around girls but holy shit this man is on another level

    • @xydez
      @xydez Před rokem +178

      Hah, wait till you see me

    • @sheepy8602
      @sheepy8602 Před rokem +69

      Oh, I thought this is how everyone behaves...

    • @kyleag86
      @kyleag86 Před rokem +105

      I'm awkward around everyone regardless of gender so I'm like this to everyone lol

    • @StinkyKiwiSeth
      @StinkyKiwiSeth Před rokem

      she stalked him dumbass

    • @Afreshio
      @Afreshio Před rokem +19

      this level of cringiness is similar to hollywood tropes. I didn't think anyone behave like this in real life to be honest!

  • @Shizkeb
    @Shizkeb Před rokem +2

    They are even scarier now

  • @user-ym1vo7ql8n
    @user-ym1vo7ql8n Před rokem +2

    Girl was on a mission

  • @funneman7034
    @funneman7034 Před 3 lety +636

    *"I'm coming to your school tomarrow"*
    But first, a sponser from Nord VPN

  • @hyunaslollipop372
    @hyunaslollipop372 Před 5 lety +359

    “Okay what? Just get a deodorant.”
    😂😂

  • @magicmanticore3536
    @magicmanticore3536 Před 2 lety

    I’m glad I found your channel.

  • @FonchoVidal
    @FonchoVidal Před rokem +1

    SHE'S STANDING HERE, MANACINGLY!

  • @user-tl1ni8si6p
    @user-tl1ni8si6p Před 3 lety +2375

    아니 이 그림?동화? 알고리즘 왜자꾸 뜨는건데.....심지어 제목은 한국어고 들어가보면 영어로 말하고 영어댓글밖에 없음...ㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋ

    • @user-il9id9bt6m
      @user-il9id9bt6m Před 3 lety +92

      그니까요ㅋㅋㄱㅋ진짜 넘뜬금없게 이런영상뜸...

    • @user-ov3mn6kl7z
      @user-ov3mn6kl7z Před 3 lety +266

      제목이 한국어가 아니라 한국인한테 자동으로 번역돼서 보이는거임. 미국인한테는 영어로 보이고

    • @user-bl5rf6ii3n
      @user-bl5rf6ii3n Před 3 lety +74

      유튜브 자막기능 키시면 한글 자막 나와요

    • @Nmarri415
      @Nmarri415 Před 3 lety +2

      ㅇㅈ

    • @rabbinyang
      @rabbinyang Před 3 lety +2

      ㅇㅈ요....

  • @pirateswiggity5278
    @pirateswiggity5278 Před 3 lety +422

    Girl: *talks to me.
    Me: ...[Loading Bar...]

    • @savary5050
      @savary5050 Před 3 lety +22

      If only you could somehow have a ten minute thoughts cutscene that lasts for one second (LIKE IN FUCKING ANIME!)

    • @pirateswiggity5278
      @pirateswiggity5278 Před 3 lety +19

      @@moriarty756
      Friends: *talk to me
      Me: ...[Loading Bar...]

    • @sel_ine
      @sel_ine Před 3 lety +4

      Just say yes and shake your head while smiling. Thats what i do to guys.

    • @Discaptured
      @Discaptured Před 3 lety +2

      @@pirateswiggity5278 same bRuH

    • @lapr4z153
      @lapr4z153 Před 3 lety +3

      Same 😭

  • @stevkohudran
    @stevkohudran Před rokem

    This is such a good story! Hilarious and just wholesome, kinda sad it didn't work out but great moral lesson!

  • @rajinfootonchuriquen
    @rajinfootonchuriquen Před rokem

    That was a fun story. Thanks for sharing it

  • @lightbrand_
    @lightbrand_ Před 3 lety +1531

    Actually it’s creepy that she came to your school, then to your house, like I would be creeped out if that were to happen to me

    • @laikaperraespacial6025
      @laikaperraespacial6025 Před 3 lety +10

      Hahaaha ikr

    • @ravaloulicheyo
      @ravaloulicheyo Před 3 lety +55

      yea but if shes really really cute then you would still be her friend.

    • @alanvx9272
      @alanvx9272 Před 3 lety +1

      ip grab

    • @tt-qq4xq
      @tt-qq4xq Před 3 lety +76

      @@ravaloulicheyo still creepy

    • @ravaloulicheyo
      @ravaloulicheyo Před 3 lety +40

      @@tt-qq4xq They are not exclusive to each other, with enough cuteness, it can overwhelm your brain that it produces enough dopamine for you to overcome the creepiness. Of course, its just an opinion of mine. More case studies are required.

  • @forrest7186
    @forrest7186 Před 4 lety +1634

    When I was younger, I was that one loud kid in class who was friends with everyone in class. I could easily talk to girls, I even had 2 girls a crush on me(Im actually not sure tho, I only found out from my friends). Then middle school came hit me like a fucking bus, my personality did a 180, I became that one quiet kid who doesnt talk at all. I lost a majority of my friends because I felt like a bother to them, and couldn't fit in to their group of friend. I became self consious and kept putting myself down, and thinking that everyone is looking at me, laughing at me. Soon one of the girls that liked me went to another school, the other one lost interest in me (I actually dont know), but was still good friends with them. I then all of a sudden became nervous around girls, and it was extremelly hard to make friends with them. It was literally impossible for me to make friends in class. I could only make friends next to me and what was worse was that I was in Honor classes so everyone kept to themsleves and only talked when we were grouped together on projects, and what was even worse was that the majority of those classmates is girls, so it was even more harder to try to make friends. In the end I never changed, Im still that self concious, anxiety filled, lonely person.

    • @Robot257onlinehue
      @Robot257onlinehue Před 4 lety +124

      Same dude, same.

    • @Maxithicc
      @Maxithicc Před 4 lety +185

      Hey, Girls And boys are both Humans who all go through what most humans go through, its ok to be anxious around girls, But you should try talking to girls the same way you talk to boys, With trust and Honesty

    • @uhoh5501
      @uhoh5501 Před 4 lety +20

      we the same person 😔

    • @bebetter6403
      @bebetter6403 Před 4 lety +40

      Aw man, I’m sorry :c I have anxiety too and I’m always self conscious and things. I believe in you though! Everyone has good qualities and stuff to offer other ppl

    • @forrest7186
      @forrest7186 Před 4 lety +24

      @@bebetter6403 Thank you, I believe in you too!

  • @nationalparkes2469
    @nationalparkes2469 Před 2 lety +1

    "Because I never told her where I lived"

  • @user-rp6yq5rw3r
    @user-rp6yq5rw3r Před rokem

    This is some hi fi level research material bro. Thanks