Women love before intimacy and men are the direct opposite so therefore depending on how a woman feels about you....... you may be allowed or not. This insight has helped me a lot as a married man
They’ll say they’re tired but no matter how tired they are, they wake up early and go to work. It’s just sad how they view sex. All these excuses are as a result of how they perceive sex. They feel they’re doing the man a favour by having sex with him. You’re not in the mood but do you say that to your boss at work when you’re expected to do your work? Sad Generation but may God help us all in our marriages.
I need to rule out a few things. How are the household chores divided up between the men and women? Could the demanding house hold chores and child care be why they are tired? In addition to their jobs?
@@hiefia8568 No matter how divided the household chores are, women will still have excuses. But what about financial responsibilities? You think that is easy? The moment you start to think your responsibilities are more than the other, you create room for all kinds of excuses which lead to some of these issues we’re discussing here. If you prioritize the needs of your partner you’ll do whatever it takes to meet them. It’s a psychological game you’re playing here. Do you take the same attitude to work?
@@christiancomedyseries910 I don't think financial responsibilities are easy. But I am thinking of cases I have seen and that's what I am basing it on.
God, in his infinite wisdom, made room for polygamy for men that modern women have found it difficult to grapple with. Now, if some of you believe that sex is a nuisance to you because you get tired or when tired, then understand that sex calms men down when they're tired. Isn't it time for you modern women to understand the importance of polygamy in certain situations? Food for thought.
Why are the women tired? Is the man helping around the house? Is the woman allowed to seek for sexual satisfaction elsewhere when she is married to a man that is always working, travelling or he lives abroad? I await your answers.
Relationship both involves emotions and logic. A game of two halves. We need to fairly understand our women and vise versa. In the end we must both be willing to compromise and communicate our feelings. A good conversation will always reveal who needs what more being it sex or just having a sense of belonging.
Women are very easy to please, remember they need to be treated with love, respect, affection and to be heard or listen to. Guess what? You will be treated as a king. God bless 🙏🏾
You are very right about this. Many marriages are sexless and many men are just not speaking up because men are chastised for trying to speak up and women are praised for doing same.
But women who rejects her husband dia ,she is not cheating err . Mee like that it put me off when my wife said am tired. My feelings just goes off once is not because am enjoying else where. Men don't like asking for sex always is boring
The lady was not given a minute to give her reasons at all. She never gave a single reason why women withhold; I was interested to hear her. Also seems like she also does not know what the cause is.
In marriage, we have to understand that sex is vital. It's for both the man and the woman. Moving on, sex must be beautiful and dutiful especially when you have kids or you have a busy schedule that's putting your sex at risk in the marriage. Both of you must come have conversation about this issue and schedule and plan your sex life. Using specific days, dates, time and venue and constant reminders on your specific appointment. Make it special and appreciate each other. My husband and I do this and it's amazing.This is not Ghanaian but we need to adopt to this. Things have changed and the mentality of men not having enough sex must be addressed. Most women don't have enough sex but can't express it because of how culture has crippled our mentality about sex. Every body is different but we can adopt to something that will help all of us and make sex beautiful and dutiful.
Sex in marriage must be seen as a chore. Period. Hell with mood and all that. The tone is set before the act so what’s this mood mood thing. She isn’t in the mood, no problem. More than one wife will solve such a problem. You don’t want sex, don’t arouse me, I’m not getting “blue balls”. I’m not your boyfriend but your husband. What a generation of women. 🙌
Every husband understands his wife cannot have sex all the time, I believe they are asking about the excessive cases. 1) There is one group of women who married their last resort, that is, they married who was available in their late 20s- early 30s, so are not necessarily attracted to him. Once they fulfil the social requirements of marriage and childbearing they withdraw because they have tolerated him enough. 2) Some do it as a form of abuse or to punish the man for not doing something or not meeting a certain expectation. For example, she believes you should have accomplished a,b, and c at a certain point in life, once that hasn't happened, she will punish you out of spite by denying you sex. 3) Some are just lazy, they can make every excuse in the world to not have sex but those same reasons don't stop them from carrying out tasks. Both sexes have responsibilities once married, it is not just women, so that argument does not fly. 4) Some have had too much pre-marital sex, so their ability to look for sexual satisfaction from their husband is greatly hampered-there are studies confirming this.
Most women don’t find most men attractive. If you don’t look like an athlete or male model most likely your wife is not that physically attracted to you. She married you for other traits or for money, which is what men tell women to look for. So men want women to marry them for their character but get mad that the woman is not sexually stimulated by them. It doesn’t make any sense.
The men advocating for polygamy are not looking at this from a nuanced perspective. Do women get to have extra husbands if their husband is a businessman always working, travelling or living abroad? The crux of the matter should be looked into. Are women overburdened with housechores and childcare in additiom to their jobs? Are men and women communicating about their specific needs in relation to sex? What is the state of our sex education? Look at how sex is demonized in our society especially by our religious institutions and especially towards women.
Men deny sex too! When they’re going through tough times (financially especially) or when they want to set themselves apart and pray for a while if they’re Christians.
This issue is for real ooo. I was so tortured with this situation for a year and half I had to travel outside the country just to be free. Now, after 3years of not seeing her she claims she loves me because the table has turned and I am making money now. MY MARRIAGE WAS A HELL. I WOULD NEVER ENCOURAGE MY CHILDREN INTO EARLY MARRIAGE. I SWEAR I AM NOT COMING BACK TO GHANA. SHE MUST MOVE ON. 🥺
Have you now seen how our fathers who married more than one woman grew longer? If you listen to Mamavi closely in her closing statement the reason are 1. Stress 2. Sickness 3. Revenge because the men have also changed.
Sometimes this thing is has to do with health, there are some women who cannot offer sex to their husbands because after the act, they fall sick. If you have such a wife you need to understand 😊
Mamavi: If you listen you will understand. Same Mamavi: The problem with you is you are trying to understand women. 😂 The game is rigged from the very start.
Love is to deny your self (ego)and give a help to the other,you decreases but lift up the other up it's a sacrifice.God gave his only son to died for us in order to forgive , reconcile us back to God.Some times one may not be on the mood you try to satisfy the other.
Course , she has nothing to say. All her reasons fall on deaf ears. If a man rejects a woman’s sexual advances it causes her to take a second look at herself
Women love before intimacy and men are the direct opposite so therefore depending on how a woman feels about you....... you may be allowed or not.
This insight has helped me a lot as a married man
Sometimes it’s just that cuddles we want and nothing more,men need to understand that.
You too understand that sex is like food to men. Serve it and you'll get all the cuddles you want....
Women do this because they know there is no competition. If the man has two wives her tune will change quickly
Lol. I'm leaving. She can have him.
They’ll say they’re tired but no matter how tired they are, they wake up early and go to work. It’s just sad how they view sex. All these excuses are as a result of how they perceive sex.
They feel they’re doing the man a favour by having sex with him. You’re not in the mood but do you say that to your boss at work when you’re expected to do your work?
Sad Generation but may God help us all in our marriages.
It's foolishness
I need to rule out a few things. How are the household chores divided up between the men and women? Could the demanding house hold chores and child care be why they are tired? In addition to their jobs?
@@hiefia8568 No matter how divided the household chores are, women will still have excuses. But what about financial responsibilities? You think that is easy? The moment you start to think your responsibilities are more than the other, you create room for all kinds of excuses which lead to some of these issues we’re discussing here. If you prioritize the needs of your partner you’ll do whatever it takes to meet them. It’s a psychological game you’re playing here. Do you take the same attitude to work?
Ure right
@@christiancomedyseries910 I don't think financial responsibilities are easy. But I am thinking of cases I have seen and that's what I am basing it on.
God, in his infinite wisdom, made room for polygamy for men that modern women have found it difficult to grapple with. Now, if some of you believe that sex is a nuisance to you because you get tired or when tired, then understand that sex calms men down when they're tired. Isn't it time for you modern women to understand the importance of polygamy in certain situations? Food for thought.
Why are the women tired? Is the man helping around the house? Is the woman allowed to seek for sexual satisfaction elsewhere when she is married to a man that is always working, travelling or he lives abroad? I await your answers.
Kojo how else can brotherhood appreciate you😊
Thank you, guys. Most men are going through this torture, including myself
Hmmm
Relationship both involves emotions and logic. A game of two halves. We need to fairly understand our women and vise versa. In the end we must both be willing to compromise and communicate our feelings. A good conversation will always reveal who needs what more being it sex or just having a sense of belonging.
What a good programme it is. Please we want another programme like this with the ladies around. Thanks
I actually love it and don't mind when the man does wat I want and I also love him .
Women are very easy to please, remember they need to be treated with love, respect, affection and to be heard or listen to. Guess what? You will be treated as a king. God bless 🙏🏾
Women really don’t know what they want.
That's the problem..many women are confused..they don't know really what they want
For how long can one act perfect with the other?
@nanadrawslot fact!
Felicia you said it all. We don’t get tired of sex if men treat us right.
Great conversation!
Very important topic that was not treated seriously.
Kojo
You spoke the thing
Most men who do not complain, are having their needs met elsewhere..a very reluctant reality!
You are very right about this. Many marriages are sexless and many men are just not speaking up because men are chastised for trying to speak up and women are praised for doing same.
But women who rejects her husband dia ,she is not cheating err . Mee like that it put me off when my wife said am tired. My feelings just goes off once is not because am enjoying else where. Men don't like asking for sex always is boring
Of course , I will gladly get my needs met elsewhere. Possibly, I will also seek to end my relationship down the line. The single life is really good.
Good conversation 😊
The lady was not given a minute to give her reasons at all. She never gave a single reason why women withhold; I was interested to hear her. Also seems like she also does not know what the cause is.
That why I find it difficult to take advice from women when it comes to sex and relationship
In marriage, we have to understand that sex is vital. It's for both the man and the woman. Moving on, sex must be beautiful and dutiful especially when you have kids or you have a busy schedule that's putting your sex at risk in the marriage. Both of you must come have conversation about this issue and schedule and plan your sex life. Using specific days, dates, time and venue and constant reminders on your specific appointment. Make it special and appreciate each other. My husband and I do this and it's amazing.This is not Ghanaian but we need to adopt to this. Things have changed and the mentality of men not having enough sex must be addressed. Most women don't have enough sex but can't express it because of how culture has crippled our mentality about sex. Every body is different but we can adopt to something that will help all of us and make sex beautiful and dutiful.
Sex in marriage must be seen as a chore. Period. Hell with mood and all that. The tone is set before the act so what’s this mood mood thing. She isn’t in the mood, no problem. More than one wife will solve such a problem. You don’t want sex, don’t arouse me, I’m not getting “blue balls”. I’m not your boyfriend but your husband. What a generation of women. 🙌
Fact, more than one wife will solve all this problems
Women push monogamy but run away from the real work
Men should also understand the naturalake of a woman. Understand what makes her tick and she will come running for it.
Must I decode that on top of decoding the economics of the family 🙀🙀
Must a man try to decipher a woman state everytime they have sex. As stated I will always have my options open .
Every husband understands his wife cannot have sex all the time, I believe they are asking about the excessive cases. 1) There is one group of women who married their last resort, that is, they married who was available in their late 20s- early 30s, so are not necessarily attracted to him. Once they fulfil the social requirements of marriage and childbearing they withdraw because they have tolerated him enough. 2) Some do it as a form of abuse or to punish the man for not doing something or not meeting a certain expectation. For example, she believes you should have accomplished a,b, and c at a certain point in life, once that hasn't happened, she will punish you out of spite by denying you sex. 3) Some are just lazy, they can make every excuse in the world to not have sex but those same reasons don't stop them from carrying out tasks. Both sexes have responsibilities once married, it is not just women, so that argument does not fly. 4) Some have had too much pre-marital sex, so their ability to look for sexual satisfaction from their husband is greatly hampered-there are studies confirming this.
Most women don’t find most men attractive. If you don’t look like an athlete or male model most likely your wife is not that physically attracted to you. She married you for other traits or for money, which is what men tell women to look for. So men want women to marry them for their character but get mad that the woman is not sexually stimulated by them. It doesn’t make any sense.
Interesting discussions 😅😅😅😅
Prof. Yanson!!
The men advocating for polygamy are not looking at this from a nuanced perspective. Do women get to have extra husbands if their husband is a businessman always working, travelling or living abroad?
The crux of the matter should be looked into. Are women overburdened with housechores and childcare in additiom to their jobs? Are men and women communicating about their specific needs in relation to sex? What is the state of our sex education? Look at how sex is demonized in our society especially by our religious institutions and especially towards women.
We have to accept them even though we do not like it
Advice young queens ….. the biggest mistake you can make is deny your partner sex …. It’s a big turn off
could this be the reason for multiple wives in the oldies?
Men deny sex too! When they’re going through tough times (financially especially) or when they want to set themselves apart and pray for a while if they’re Christians.
eeeeiiii information dey oo😂😂😂
Pls.let the women at panel be more than one,so that explanation can more.
This issue is for real ooo. I was so tortured with this situation for a year and half I had to travel outside the country just to be free. Now, after 3years of not seeing her she claims she loves me because the table has turned and I am making money now. MY MARRIAGE WAS A HELL. I WOULD NEVER ENCOURAGE MY CHILDREN INTO EARLY MARRIAGE. I SWEAR I AM NOT COMING BACK TO GHANA. SHE MUST MOVE ON. 🥺
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Masa find a side chick if u want to live long
Dats all . Thanks for telling the truth
Kojo is speaking on behalf of all men 😅
You guys should’ve introduced a marriage counsellor for this great topic
Them counselors don’t know any better.
More than one woman can stop all this nonsense
They can do everything whilst tired but sex; that’s not love.
Exactly 💯
I feel sad for mamavi. She has been cornered by three strong men😅
understatement, She has been cornered by three strong sexually starved men...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's taboo to denial sex without sickness
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THEY CAN'T HANDLE ONE MAN
Say it again
Have you now seen how our fathers who married more than one woman grew longer?
If you listen to Mamavi closely in her closing statement the reason are
1. Stress
2. Sickness
3. Revenge because the men have also changed.
Is the do u loose money for me😂😂😂
BECAUSE SHE'S THE ONLY WOMAN
Sometimes this thing is has to do with health, there are some women who cannot offer sex to their husbands because after the act, they fall sick. If you have such a wife you need to understand 😊
Mamavi: If you listen you will understand.
Same Mamavi: The problem with you is you are trying to understand women.
😂 The game is rigged from the very start.
Love is to deny your self (ego)and give a help to the other,you decreases but lift up the other up it's a sacrifice.God gave his only son to died for us in order to forgive , reconcile us back to God.Some times one may not be on the mood you try to satisfy the other.
Women only care about their feelings. Everything they do is based on how they feel
Good topic but next time make it longer .
Kojo u do all 😂
The lady did not get a chance to respond to most of the comments or arguments.
you go explain tire mamavi , no evidence
I see no reason to beg for something meant for two people..my policy is. if she is not ready am not ready...as simple as Abc...
Typical academic Ghanaian woman mama vi she doesn’t get it when they want it and when you are tired too they complain that one is cheating somewhere…
For a man ,if yoou want to live long polygamy is best for every man ,if not cheating will always be your second opinion and that is nott good
the wife will leave when you bring in another wife so it's not polygamy just go straight to divorce instead of wasting time.
If she want to live fine ,if not I go marry add her ,I won't lose good wife because of sex but if I marry and she want to go fine@@asantesana5689
You did not allow her to tell us more
Course , she has nothing to say. All her reasons fall on deaf ears. If a man rejects a woman’s sexual advances it causes her to take a second look at herself
I swear I can’t stop laughing 😂
My husband told me last night that, he now sees me as his mother 😩 3wks without sex
Watch a movie with banku on 🔥
😂😅😂😅😂
Please both men and women shpuld understand the natural make of women
Must you guys always jack at the least provocation? Please you guys won’t get it
Bcox the gun is sensitive and powerful
Stupid discussion
U lack sex😂
This topic is 90percent of marriages
Certainly, any man that doesn’t pressure his woman for sex is getting it elsewhere