Luv Dr. Anita however, I am not a proponent of yoga for the following personal experience: The Lord kept me from exposing my spirit to that in yoga. While at the gym, I decided to participate in a yoga session as the instructor asked us to make a certain pose, something immediately rose up within me & I internally yet silently screamed "the only God I will bow down to is Jesus." I quietly got up & walked out of the class. I then asked God to show me what happened in that yoga class, within 2-days, I saw a news segment on tv wherein a yoga guru explained certain poses rever and pay respect to deities (i.e., Gods) of different religions. You can research this for yourself.
"If I use my mouth to interrupt my thoughts, I can bring my thoughts into alignment with what I am saying!" Thank you! No more fear about talking to myself!
Dr. Phillips, you don't know how much you've helped me. I ran across your video, which is a miracle to me. I know that this was nobody but the Lord. Thank you for allowing him to use you. And I say to you; be truly blessed...
Yes. Theology and mental health. Guilt, control, manipulation. Family is very challenging. Saw you at The Potter's House. Much healing. I am awoke. Let the Lord use you🙏🏽Many blessings
Dr. Phillips is phenomenal!!! This is an excellent teaching!!! She goes into a lot of detail regarding toxicity in relationships with ourselves as well as with other people.
Speechless about how timely this video is in my life. God knows when because when I saw this was recorded 4yrs ago, I was so disappointed that I’m just hearing about her. But today is better than never!!!! Thank you.
Please keep making these video they are helping people to heal.. we need people like you in the body of Christ to aid the healing process. May God continue to bless you and may his holy spirit inspire you on going as you continually seek his face and be lead by his spirit to share the message he places on your heart. Love from a listener in New Zealand.
Awesome, my ex husband was renowned for insulting me publicly or with his friends around, whilst pretending it was a joke. Relieved to be away from interacting with this person. You have the best description of this subtle behaviour and the impact it has on a person Dr Anita. I never felt able to use my voice and towards the end remained totally silent.
Absolutely true Dr Phillips I had an alcoholic father n now I’m dealing with an alcoholic husband n it’s so draining on a daily basis n I’ve sort some counselling now n I’m looking forward to getting the help I need as it’s been a long long time. You are amazing dear. God bless you ❤️✨🙏
That was an excellent tip to shut down negative words that are spoken over us before they take root. I will use this technique to disrupt negative words being spoken into my life.
Signs of toxic people and functioning of an ongoing toxic relationship: 1. @2:00 Physically abusive 2. @5:53 Someone constantly belittling you 3. @7:22 Someone who has bad temper 4. @8:21 People overreact to thing and deflect 5. @11:11 Guilt inducer Recommendation: 💚@1:26 What's going on in the relationship 💚@9:24 Toxic doesn't kill at the spot it's actually constant poisoning to slow death 💚@12:32 not only focus on toxic people, focus on why this toxic relationship is working 💚@13:33 truly discern and pay attention to unspoken and spoken words and stop the flow of the negative words 💚@18:12 Stop toxic interaction with yourself 💚@19:58 Also allow God to reveal in you what in you that keeps you tied to toxic people 💚@21:00 Hardest to do with your family 💚@22:16 Become hyper-aware 🙌🏻✝️💖@23:13 Prayer Thanks Dr. Anita Philips for this incredible video. I'm blessed.❤️🌸
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU soooo so Much for Doing these Time Stamps Honey…. ❤️🔥 Sending you Grateful Hugs from Australia
Yes and unfortunately THEY have to be willing to get help before YOU can help! Like you said…… IT TAKES 2! 2 = a couple! You can’t make someone change who they are or make them love you. If you do me wrong continuously, you don’t love me!!
Holy Spirit led, I had to delete my social media to see who really cared for me Insta, Facebook, Twitter EVERYTHING! I got so many realisations! Take it to the throne! If I can survive years of Narcissistic abuse caused by my physically & spiritually manipulative mother, via Christ help, anyone can! I've never been happier and I am leading a life of solitude! The JOY in Christ is like no other - God Speed saints! PRAY there is no PAIN Jesus cant heal!
My daughter’s father was in prison most of her life. She resorted to drugs. She was able to get off them. He was released from prison. Moved in her home with her. Got her back on drugs and more chaos. I put him in jail which lasted all but a second. He’s married but seems to want a “clean” relationship with daughter who’s now 50. But she has to visit Him. He sells drugs. Suspected using them too.
Thank you thank you thank you.. Phillips I'm saying this 4 years in my journey being that clock time wow everything you talking about I've been trying to understand and you write with healing you can go to but when a lot of your understanding has something to do with the spirit that God the anointing the holy spirit that God has put on you will be need spiritual counselor that can let us really understand Us in the Walk of sometime we still deal with the human flesh not saying that everyone is on this level but I'm speaking from me how I can understand everything and thank you for being obedient for recording this message who would know I would have found this on CZcams who would know .But God bless Jesus name 🙏🏼🙌🙌💜🤍💙💜🤍💙👏👏👏💚 My God
Thank God for your ministry. Not only does it make me look at the people around me, but it forces me to confront myself and my own behavior and what I am doing to benefit or damage my relationships. I realized the dislike I had towards my son's behavior in certain situations, was parallel to my own behavior.
My marriage is all of these My husband is an addict, physically abusive, anger problems, deflects, and he doesn't belive in God! Lord, please help him. I know we have to be apart but i ask you to show him who you are.
This video was such a blessing and life changing. Thanks so much Dr. Anita Phillips for taking the time to do this video. God is using you to help heal so many people. 💕
Praise God, I thank you sister for being used by God for his Glory. I just released my toxic son and he's been so awful towards me. It's not right but it's ok, cause him and his disrespectful girlfriend will have to deal with God. We use to have a beautiful relationship but what has happened is too painful for me to carry any longer. He must grow up and I'm not helping, I'm being codependent. I'm a cancer survivor and I need my peace and clean comfort to function and they continually challenge me. Thank you Dr Anita I Love you, God keep her!!!
And I want to point something else out. It's not that I don't need a man. Not only does it have to be the right man, what I can't tolerate is when a man who has or is trying to force a woman in a vulnerable position so that she will need him. And men will try to enter a relationship with that mindset.
Dr Philips, you are definitely God sent. Thank God for this teaching. You break down such a complex topic and make it easy to comprehend. You are truly the bomb dot.com. God bless you.
I just said this to myself, if I talk crazy, but my thoughts are of good things I begin to tell my mouth to hush. My toxic interactions with myself ends now...
I relate to what she said about taking 3 steps in the healing direction but because im stuck in an abusive family situation i take 2 or more steps back there aint no progress at all. If i decide that im gona work on my healing i find a small thing triggering anger and frustration in me so its so hard and difficult although i am believing God for my healing
This was so awesome, I hear you woman God and this a teachings that's needed for all people, bless you God cover and bless her. For this is a enlighten word.
OH MY!!! That reflective behavior. Let's be GROWN and take responsibility for our actions. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I did 18 years with an addict. He was my children's father. I left 2 years ago and loving it!!!
Don’t confuse honour with manipulation!!! 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿!! Thanks Dr. Anita ❤️
Luv Dr. Anita however, I am not a proponent of yoga for the following personal experience: The Lord kept me from exposing my spirit to that in yoga. While at the gym, I decided to participate in a yoga session as the instructor asked us to make a certain pose, something immediately rose up within me & I internally yet silently screamed "the only God I will bow down to is Jesus." I quietly got up & walked out of the class. I then asked God to show me what happened in that yoga class, within 2-days, I saw a news segment on tv wherein a yoga guru explained certain poses rever and pay respect to deities (i.e., Gods) of different religions. You can research this for yourself.
She’s so real and smart! Discovered her yesterday. I wish she was my therapist!!!
"If I use my mouth to interrupt my thoughts, I can bring my thoughts into alignment with what I am saying!"
Thank you! No more fear about talking to myself!
Dr. Phillips, you don't know how much you've helped me. I ran across your video, which is a miracle to me. I know that this was nobody but the Lord. Thank you for allowing him to use you. And I say to you; be truly blessed...
Life with alot of guilt, can be very dangerous and overwhelming. Amen
Yes. Theology and mental health. Guilt, control, manipulation. Family is very challenging. Saw you at The Potter's House. Much healing. I am awoke. Let the Lord use you🙏🏽Many blessings
Dr. Phillips is phenomenal!!! This is an excellent teaching!!! She goes into a lot of detail regarding toxicity in relationships with ourselves as well as with other people.
This lady is brilliant. I love her guidance
Totally agree
Words are the active ingredient in a toxic relationship!! Spoken and unspoken!!
Speechless about how timely this video is in my life. God knows when because when I saw this was recorded 4yrs ago, I was so disappointed that I’m just hearing about her. But today is better than never!!!! Thank you.
Please keep making these video they are helping people to heal.. we need people like you in the body of Christ to aid the healing process. May God continue to bless you and may his holy spirit inspire you on going as you continually seek his face and be lead by his spirit to share the message he places on your heart. Love from a listener in New Zealand.
Awesome, my ex husband was renowned for insulting me publicly or with his friends around, whilst pretending it was a joke. Relieved to be away from interacting with this person. You have the best description of this subtle behaviour and the impact it has on a person Dr Anita. I never felt able to use my voice and towards the end remained totally silent.
Lack of safety!!!!!! This is what’s missing
Absolutely true Dr Phillips I had an alcoholic father n now I’m dealing with an alcoholic husband n it’s so draining on a daily basis n I’ve sort some counselling now n I’m looking forward to getting the help I need as it’s been a long long time. You are amazing dear. God bless you ❤️✨🙏
That was an excellent tip to shut down negative words that are spoken over us before they take root. I will use this technique to disrupt negative words being spoken into my life.
Signs of toxic people and functioning of an ongoing toxic relationship:
1. @2:00 Physically abusive
2. @5:53 Someone constantly belittling you
3. @7:22 Someone who has bad temper
4. @8:21 People overreact to thing and deflect
5. @11:11 Guilt inducer
Recommendation:
💚@1:26 What's going on in the relationship
💚@9:24 Toxic doesn't kill at the spot it's actually constant poisoning to slow death
💚@12:32 not only focus on toxic people, focus on why this toxic relationship is working
💚@13:33 truly discern and pay attention to unspoken and spoken words and stop the flow of the negative words
💚@18:12 Stop toxic interaction with yourself
💚@19:58 Also allow God to reveal in you what in you that keeps you tied to toxic people
💚@21:00 Hardest to do with your family
💚@22:16 Become hyper-aware
🙌🏻✝️💖@23:13 Prayer
Thanks Dr. Anita Philips for this incredible video. I'm blessed.❤️🌸
THANK YOU
THANK YOU
THANK YOU
THANK YOU
THANK YOU
THANK YOU soooo so Much for Doing these Time Stamps Honey…. ❤️🔥
Sending you Grateful Hugs from Australia
❤ thank you
Yes and unfortunately THEY have to be willing to get help before YOU can help! Like you said…… IT TAKES 2! 2 = a couple! You can’t make someone change who they are or make them love you. If you do me wrong continuously, you don’t love me!!
Holy Spirit led, I had to delete my social media to see who really cared for me Insta, Facebook, Twitter EVERYTHING! I got so many realisations! Take it to the throne! If I can survive years of Narcissistic abuse caused by my physically & spiritually manipulative mother, via Christ help, anyone can! I've never been happier and I am leading a life of solitude! The JOY in Christ is like no other - God Speed saints! PRAY there is no PAIN Jesus cant heal!
My daughter’s father was in prison most of her life. She resorted to drugs. She was able to get off them. He was released from prison. Moved in her home with her. Got her back on drugs and more chaos. I put him in jail which lasted all but a second. He’s married but seems to want a “clean” relationship with daughter who’s now 50. But she has to visit Him. He sells drugs. Suspected using them too.
Thank you thank you thank you.. Phillips I'm saying this 4 years in my journey being that clock time wow everything you talking about I've been trying to understand and you write with healing you can go to but when a lot of your understanding has something to do with the spirit that God the anointing the holy spirit that God has put on you will be need spiritual counselor that can let us really understand Us in the Walk of sometime we still deal with the human flesh not saying that everyone is on this level but I'm speaking from me how I can understand everything and thank you for being obedient for recording this message who would know I would have found this on CZcams who would know .But God bless Jesus name 🙏🏼🙌🙌💜🤍💙💜🤍💙👏👏👏💚 My God
This changed my entire perspective on toxicity... thank you sooo much Dr. Phillips! You’re a blessing more than you’ll ever realize
Thank God for your ministry. Not only does it make me look at the people around me, but it forces me to confront myself and my own behavior and what I am doing to benefit or damage my relationships. I realized the dislike I had towards my son's behavior in certain situations, was parallel to my own behavior.
My marriage is all of these My husband is an addict, physically abusive, anger problems, deflects, and he doesn't belive in God! Lord, please help him. I know we have to be apart but i ask you to show him who you are.
Powerful, God-given insight! Thank you Dr. Phillips. 🌟🌟
God bless you!! Bless you, BLESS YOU! Thank you for allowing the Lord to use you in this way!!
This video was such a blessing and life changing. Thanks so much Dr. Anita Phillips for taking the time to do this video. God is using you to help heal so many people. 💕
Yes and amen… boundaries. In families, friends, and workplaces. Thank you Lord for increasing my hyper awareness. So good…
Praise God, I thank you sister for being used by God for his Glory. I just released my toxic son and he's been so awful towards me. It's not right but it's ok, cause him and his disrespectful girlfriend will have to deal with God. We use to have a beautiful relationship but what has happened is too painful for me to carry any longer. He must grow up and I'm not helping, I'm being codependent. I'm a cancer survivor and I need my peace and clean comfort to function and they continually challenge me. Thank you Dr Anita I Love you, God keep her!!!
And I want to point something else out. It's not that I don't need a man. Not only does it have to be the right man, what I can't tolerate is when a man who has or is trying to force a woman in a vulnerable position so that she will need him. And men will try to enter a relationship with that mindset.
I’m the toxic person and I wish there was support to cycle out of having toxic traits.
Dr. Phillips - can you address narcissistic abuse.
RC blakes preaches so good about it check him out.
Doesn't all abuse come from a narcissistic place?
This has blessed me , and enlightened my perspective thank you 🥰
Dr Philips, you are definitely God sent. Thank God for this teaching. You break down such a complex topic and make it easy to comprehend.
You are truly the bomb dot.com.
God bless you.
I believe you have a brilliant mind , that's huge to work with, Amen.
WOW I NEEDED THIS!!!!
You hit the head on the nail. So very true!!!
I just said this to myself, if I talk crazy, but my thoughts are of good things I begin to tell my mouth to hush. My toxic interactions with myself ends now...
You speak from the heart!
This is so real to me! I needed to hear this to get the courage to end this toxic relationship.
Thank you bless you I'm in recovery I needed this ty ty ty
@xDrAnitaphillips hi I received a message in my email you wanted me to get ahold you I'm here sister
She’s smart and beautiful
This is so good!!
God bless and ty! Beautiful right on message!
You Helping Me!
Thank you !!!! Amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This Blessed my SOUL! THANK YOU!
AMAZING WORD SISTER ❤️🙏🏽🔥
That you for your wisdom. I needed this today
I relate to what she said about taking 3 steps in the healing direction but because im stuck in an abusive family situation i take 2 or more steps back there aint no progress at all. If i decide that im gona work on my healing i find a small thing triggering anger and frustration in me so its so hard and difficult although i am believing God for my healing
This is so powerful!
You are incredible 🙌 What a word!!! Amen
Uniting spirit, soul and body 💃🏾👏🏾
When I tell you this helped allot IT DID. It’s like you knew my situation. Thank you so much.
Thanks for sharing your gifts with me.
Excellent! Thank you so much.
You are truly Amazing
I like this Sistah.
Thank you so much for this holistic session very much needed with all the current trauma.
All I can say is AMEN!
Great Word Dr. Phillips. So clear.
Thank you Dr phillip god bless you
Awesome message! Thank you ❤
One of the best videos on CZcams
Absolutely Amazing ...
Sooooo good, Dr. Phillips
Very definitive message received
Soooo good!!!
Thank you!
Such an Amazing message & such an anointed woman of God!
This is timely and very much needed. Thank you Dr Anita :)
Never too late to learn 💙 people can really take you on a Trip 😳😱
Thank you father God for the teaching and prayers.
Love what you do. Picture perfect ❤❤
You don't have to challenge a man's love if he beats her. NOBODY believes this in their heart.
Keep up the GOD work ❗
Hi! 1st Time Listening & I Subscribed.
This was so awesome, I hear you woman God and this a teachings that's needed for all people, bless you God cover and bless her. For this is a enlighten word.
I Love ❤️ you Dr. Anita and the Powerful words you have shared during this lesson. Cannot wait until the next ..... God Bless you and your family!
Yes mam this is on point thank you❤
Thank you ❤️
Wow thats a powerful speech , you are my Jordan Peterson ❣
🙏Thank You Lord For Dr. Anita❣
A new subscriber 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Thanks for prayer. . .
OH MY!!! That reflective behavior. Let's be GROWN and take responsibility for our actions. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Thank you for this massage amen. 👌💯✍🙏
Very helpful! Thank you.
THIS IS AMAZING. THANK YOU DR. ANITA🙏🏽💕💐. THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏽🙌🏽💐💕❤️
Awesome message
Thank you.
I also can't believe you just freestyled/preached this proper essay.
great explanation...!
Thank you:)
So powerful
Phew 🙌🏼
It's Dr Phillips for you 💅🏾
Preach!
Thank you
Thanks.