The Truth About Cat Hoarders

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @Timelost_Techpriest
    @Timelost_Techpriest Před 3 lety +2411

    You're right, cat hoarders aren't evil. They're usually overwhelmed, out of their depth, and frequently mentally ill. They aren't bad people, they usually need help. Thank you for helping this one.

    • @AayushaJakhmola
      @AayushaJakhmola Před 3 lety +38

      they are usually less mentally ill than the people who don't care about nothing other than themselves.

    • @frostrose8222
      @frostrose8222 Před 3 lety +50

      A part of me thinks it fair to call hoarders cruel. They're an example of the idea that the path to hell is paved by good intentions. While they took in these animals out of the kindness of their hearts, it doesn't change the fact that their animals suffer because of them. I know they're not entirely to blame as its usually the result of mental illness but, I find it hard to be forgiving towards them. That's on me though as I don't seem to have a forgiving bone in my body.

    • @catsandcrafts171
      @catsandcrafts171 Před 3 lety +29

      @@frostrose8222 I understand how you feel, but I think if you think of the person as an extension of the cats, we can feel as much sadness for their suffering as for the animals suffering. After all, if the cats were just feral colonies they would be suffering exactly the same, life is awful for feral cats, I've seen it first hand as I foster for a local rescue. I don't think the cat hoarders are actually making the cats' lives any worse, they are simply not making it any better. (unless the cats are locked up of course, I'm assuming the cats are in and out of the house). x

    • @winternightmarecrochet
      @winternightmarecrochet Před 3 lety +11

      @@frostrose8222 Then, you can help them take care of the cats! Everybody wins.

    • @karlasalinas8203
      @karlasalinas8203 Před 3 lety +4

      True...they just need support

  • @disappearingmirror3923
    @disappearingmirror3923 Před 3 lety +1108

    I work at an animal shelter and we recently got 40 cats and kittens from a hoarding situation. Every last one of these cats was incredibly friendly and trusting and sweet. That doesn't happen by accident. The hoarder loved those animals. For every other way she failed them, it was with good intentions in her heart. As overwhelming and overwhelmed as my shelter is, I can still confidently say that those cats and kittens are having short stays with us, being moved into forever homes almost as fast as they recover and pass our health standards.

    • @barbmanley3114
      @barbmanley3114 Před 3 lety +11

      Other than having too many for their house, how else did they fail them?

    • @barbmanley3114
      @barbmanley3114 Před 3 lety +14

      I'd just like to know how many is too many.? What if you have a large or very large house?
      What are you going by? Some people can handle and give love 💕 to more than 1 or 2 animals at a time. Some can handle a lot and some can not. So what are people going by, when they say hoarding? I've talked to people who say they can ONLY handle 1 cat. Others say they have 7, 8, 10 or 15. So what is considered hoarding? Lady who posted, from working at the shelter, tell me. Please tell me.

    • @bjjones1969
      @bjjones1969 Před 3 lety +15

      I sure hope they went to forever homes. Because we don’t only have to educate the public about neutering and the love of a cat but also educate the shelters. I have found many shelters are not understanding the process of getting cats into forever homes. But are just giving kitties to empty the cages. We must be diligent in whom we adopt out to. We work with a cat organization and we are quite diligent of whom we adopt out to. And it doesnt depend on someone’s education or that they take their cats to the vet. but on learning where the person is at. We make home visits and we listen to the person to understand if they are in a good place. Because if they are in a bad place in their lives- they cannot give a kitty a good place to live. That is why shelters continue to show cats returned and communities with cats roaming outside. We have to make a difference for the life of a cat/

    • @noradennis4361
      @noradennis4361 Před 3 lety +9

      @@barbmanley3114 If we were allowed to have more than two cats I'd adopt at least two more.

    • @theeliblog4559
      @theeliblog4559 Před 3 lety +9

      You cannot love something and proceed to torture them. Not everyone is mentally apt to own animals and children and abuse is abuse regardless of one’s intention.

  • @chiyo9014
    @chiyo9014 Před 3 lety +4263

    The empathy you show toward both people and animals is what this world needs more of.

    • @theskdarram7564
      @theskdarram7564 Před 3 lety +10

      Amen

    • @katherinemaas6712
      @katherinemaas6712 Před 3 lety +25

      Amen. You teach so much more than how to take care of cats. You show teach us how to treat people. Well done!

    • @sarahsmiles9762
      @sarahsmiles9762 Před 3 lety +3

      No the world doesn’t need ppl like that bec there are already ppl in the world that need to change

    • @kitchenworker446
      @kitchenworker446 Před 3 lety +13

      Yes I think so too, a little bit of understanding instead of judging is a great thing.

    • @cmorris7246
      @cmorris7246 Před 3 lety +10

      Right? Imagine if someone would have offered her help this way years ago instead of complaining.

  • @soulcatcher_pajome
    @soulcatcher_pajome Před 3 lety +316

    The shelter I worked at last year got a call from a man who said he had a colleague with 30 cats in a 2-room apartment, and needs help, but is too scared to ask. We managed to reach out to him and get a bigger part of his cats into the shelter, where we socialized and adopted them. He had started with 2 cats about 4 years ago, but didn't spay and neuter them, they got kittens, and the kittens got kittens, and due to social anxiety and depression he had a really hard time reaching out to people for help. Our vet told us that he had called them multiple times to ask the cost for mass-spay, but then never got back them.
    When we met him, he seemed obviously embarassed and upset, he actually introduced himself as "hi, i'm the terrible person responsible for this mess" and I felt so bad for him, because he was a normal person still. He was fully conscious about the bad situation he was in. The boss who runs the shelter was really patient and friendly with him throughout the whole process and I admired that a lot. Treating those people like they are monsters is not helping, because it's only preventing them from reaching out to people.

    • @soulcatcher_pajome
      @soulcatcher_pajome Před 3 lety +32

      @@murdermysterymissing8044 Yes!! This man had called one of our vets multiple times and asked if there were discounts for more cats, but then was always too timid and probably embarrassed to come back to them about it.
      Since there are not a lot of strays here, there are few TNR programs, few vets experienced in teen-spays, and basically none who offer it for free.
      Resources and compassion are soo needed to prevent those kinds of situations!

    • @ILuvAyeAye
      @ILuvAyeAye Před rokem +4

      I also think this is why education about spay and neuter is so important - people don't always realize that sibling cats will reproduce with each other. It''s totally understandable that it's not something most people think a lot about lol, but it's a very serious risk if you're keeping a litter of kittens without sterilizing them.

  • @carissamccormack1185
    @carissamccormack1185 Před 3 lety +1804

    I've never thought of cat hoarders as evil. I actually have always felt a little sad for them. Like a lot of them were doing their best to help some fur friends and just couldn't stop. Big hearts with not enough space or resources.

    • @RoseT20
      @RoseT20 Před 3 lety +53

      Or some times they have one then they adopt another one and they don't fix them and so they make babies and then more babies from that litter, etc, etc. Animal hoarders aren't evil, they just want to help something they can relate to if they've been abandoned by their family or something like that. But like what you said, they do their best but just can't stop and don't know that they are doing some harm to the animals even if it's not physical abuse.

    • @Boopandfriends
      @Boopandfriends Před 3 lety +18

      I always think of them as someone who might need a little help wether it’s mentally or financially or any other problems

    • @hihello6647
      @hihello6647 Před 3 lety +12

      YES! Enough space in their hearts just not their houses.

    • @RoseT20
      @RoseT20 Před 3 lety +27

      @@Boopandfriends Hoarding is a psychological thing and has many factors as to why the person hoards ( such as Hannah states some such as childhood trauma/ trauma in general). I think if people were more educated on hoarding and given the information on how to approach a hoarder and where to get them help, that would be great.

    • @sallyandminty9792
      @sallyandminty9792 Před 3 lety +4

      @@RoseT20 I hope she knows that. She actually is a volunteer at my foster group and she has helped with 2 (or 3) hoarding situations. Also, completely agree we need more education on hoarding

  • @xandermin
    @xandermin Před 3 lety +530

    I suffer from hoarding disorder. I have a strong tendency to hold onto any kind of writing; books, newspapers, letters, receipts, etc. It got really bad in my old apartment. My hoard never grew past a quarter of my bedroom, yet I was still terrified of reaching out for help because I was so ashamed. The shame runs so deep, I can't express with words how awful it feels. I've never hoarded animals, but I can so easily put myself in the shoes of animal hoarders, cos when you're a hoarder, you lose control of the situation. So thank you for meeting hoarders with kindness & spreading the message! I'm in a much better place now cos I got help from kind, patient people.

    • @DARWINZOO
      @DARWINZOO Před 3 lety +21

      Hugs. I relate. Thank you for sharing.

    • @LimegreenSnowstorm
      @LimegreenSnowstorm Před 2 lety +9

      *Hugs youuuu* I wish on you the best support system and friends and people who are kind and empathetic ❤️ mental health is a butt… I know that all too well, and I have no doubt you are doing your best

    • @Xoxo_bambi
      @Xoxo_bambi Před 2 lety +6

      I’m not a hoarder but I can also understand the mindset they may have when it comes to animals specifically. They 90% of the time just need support and help

  • @nathanparker4015
    @nathanparker4015 Před 3 lety +2672

    I never talk about it, but my mom was a cat hoarder when I was growing up. Everything you listed fit her to a T. When I was 10(I’m almost 20 now), she lost her job which caused a human rights tribunal that sent her into a deep depression for years. She could hardly (even when she got another job) work because of how upset she was. She also was fresh out of divorce with my Dad, had always had problems with her family, and hardly had any friends except one (who I called my aunt). She was NEVER cruel to her cats, but she was so incredibly lonely and upset. It didn’t help that aside from having enough food to take care of the cats, hardly enough for me, she rarely ate. We were homeless too at some points afterward. She is a soft soul who just endured a lot of struggles, that’s all.
    Edit: I didn’t think many people would see this, thank you SO MUCH for all of the support. It means the world to me. You are all very kind people.

    • @korviscapetrova5269
      @korviscapetrova5269 Před 3 lety +175

      My heart goes out to the softer souls out there who've been hurt but who didn't have the opportunity to heal

    • @mushroomcat6720
      @mushroomcat6720 Před 3 lety +69

      awh tell your mom i said i'm sorry for her 🥺

    • @angelfaye101
      @angelfaye101 Před 3 lety +60

      Human rights tribunal??? Now im curious aka nosey. What happened? I hope you & your mom are in a better place now.

    • @stephm2429
      @stephm2429 Před 3 lety +54

      I'm sorry for what you went through, too. You must be a very kind individual to have to go through something like that and come out on the other side so positive.

    • @JMV1616
      @JMV1616 Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah well if she couldn’t take care of herself she shouldn’t make other lives depend on her. No excuses when animals get hurt as a result

  • @freddygigliotti7214
    @freddygigliotti7214 Před 3 lety +332

    Kitten lady never judges anyone. That is so refreshing and she always points out what is not so obvious to everyone. It's almost like she is on a debate team and points out the other side. Kitten lady builds a bridge to the other side, she doesn't bring negativity or shame to anything. YOU GO GIRL!!!💖🐱💖🐱💖

  • @jaz1551
    @jaz1551 Před 3 lety +1282

    Thank you for addressing this. What bugs me is people who think, hey she has a lot of cats, let's drop off a few more! The problem is generally more than just the one person

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Před 3 lety +69

      Yes. And people like to dump off animals in rural areas. I have to drive at least 30 miles to the next gas station, never mind a vet or shelter. I currently have four cats of my own and three that eat here sometimes, not to mention raccoons and roaming dogs. I want to do the right thing for everyone but it gets really overwhelming sometimes.

    • @paigek9923
      @paigek9923 Před 3 lety +26

      I live in the country and I have 5 cats that are mine and I spay and neuter my cats because we don’t want a bunch of kittens but the farms around me don’t and then there’s a lot of strays that show up and people dump animals out around my house and it’s really sad because we want to help these cats (sometimes we’re able to find them good homes) but it’s hard when there’s so many but we try our best by leaving food outside my barn for them since my cats don’t really want a bunch of strays in their barn and we don’t want conflict so especially in the winter I set food outside so the strays can eat and hopefully find a place to stay where there is shelter but not in my barn because it’s not fair to my cats and strays tend to pee in the barn when they get in there.

    • @yamitsukikarasu8857
      @yamitsukikarasu8857 Před 3 lety +29

      My partner used to live in the country. There was a spot near his house where people would frequently abandon their dogs. He would take them in and find them a new home. I don't get people who do this.

    • @lavenderlilac8920
      @lavenderlilac8920 Před 3 lety +20

      jaz1551 we had the same problem on our farm...people just dropping their unwanted, sometimes pregnant cats off at our gate.

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Před 3 lety +16

      @@lavenderlilac8920 We get that here too, boxes full of puppies dropped 5 miles from the nearest house, 6 week old kittens in a box in a pile of trash..flat out disgusting. I took one to the shelter that had been injured, ended up that this poor old guy had been dropped off neutered and declawed.

  • @jelatinosa
    @jelatinosa Před 3 lety +416

    I've seen some rescuers turned "hoarders" even when they do everything right. I personally know a woman that has way too many animals because people keep burdening her with them, as she has a hard time saying no and turning animals, especially dogs, away. But like I said, she is an intelligent woman, just has a hard time puting hard limits as she is very kind and soft, and so she tries to sterilize and vaccinate everyone she gets. If not she seperates them until she can recoup the funds to do so, to prevent any breeding. I've seen her devolve from a bright, cheerful rescuer, to a sad, depressed, overwhelmed, hoarder. I have fostered kittens for her and tried to help her home them, but the truth is where I live, there aren't many if any resourses to help people like her, and not many people wanting to adopt. I myself used to do rescue and foster and had to stop, as I ended up with several cats and a couple dogs that I never wanted to keep, because our island is oversaturated with homeless dogs and cats that nobody wants. People have a mentality of prefering to buy "pure" or "designer" breeds from backyard breeders and such than adopt a "sato" (our word for mutt or mixed breed). I used to feed animals from the street, but I even had to stop doing that, as it pissed some people off and encouraged them to poison colonies and packs that would congregate in areas to be fed.
    I now limit myself to do a couple tnrs when I have extra cash, which as someone trying to save to buy my first home, and who lives under the poverty line, is really hard. People who know me know that if they ever want to adopt a pet, I can help them find what they are looking for, as I know and follow many rescuers on the island, and they also refer others so I can hook them up with a rescuer or foster that may have the pet they are looking for. As it's difficult to find good homes here, some rescuers find adopters from the states and I have helped by connecting the rescuer with people that I know to be traveling who are willing to be travel partners with the animal that needs a flight to get to their new family. While I wish I could be doing more, and what I do is not enough, I can't personally foster or rescue anymore, for fear of unwittingly becoming a "hoarder" myself.

    • @attheranch873
      @attheranch873 Před 3 lety +28

      Thank you for all your kind work 😊

    • @rimaahali9251
      @rimaahali9251 Před 3 lety +12

      I live in Santurce, SJ I do what U do or did... Its hard. Gracias, Bendiciones.

    • @RoadkillbunnyUK
      @RoadkillbunnyUK Před 3 lety +29

      elines acevedo you are doing a great job in a difficult situation and have done well to recognise the dangers and your own personal limits. Keep on keeping on, I bet it doesn’t feel like it but you are doing a great job.
      Have you considered focusing on education? Talking to people, putting out flyers about getting their own pets sterilised and how SNR can help solve the problems of street cat colonies and dog packs. Just a thought as it seems that the place you live doesn’t have a lot of information on how to deal with the problem of feral animals or the joys of adopting animals rather than going to bad backyard breeders. It wouldn’t be something you can change quickly, it can take a generation or more for the message to start to stick. My main focus would be on teaching children as they will grow up as the next generation of pet owners. Still working on educating the adults but doing all you can to get into schools and youth groups the spread the message.
      Obviously it is not your sole responsibility to do this and even if you decide you can’t do more than the awesome job you already do that is quite understandable. Best wishes x

    • @jelatinosa
      @jelatinosa Před 3 lety +17

      @@rimaahali9251 it really is! I used to live in Aguada and even with support and working with groups from Aguada and Rincón, it was a lot of work for a few small groups of people. I used to form part of a group called ADA(Aguadeños en Defensa de los Animales) and we worked with ARF and DAR from Rincon, you probably heard of ARF as they're the "bigger" older group.
      I'm so bummed they stopped Spayathon, first because of the government and some greedy vets and then the final blow of covid. Volunteering in those events made me feel like I was really helping again. If you went to the one in your town, we may have crossed paths, I was there! I really hope they come back soon!

    • @jelatinosa
      @jelatinosa Před 3 lety +6

      Thanks for the kind words!

  • @e-blackheart
    @e-blackheart Před 3 lety +1236

    Thank you, I got out of control last year. I always rescued cats. I would spay, nueter, vaccinate and find homes for them all out of my pocket. But last 2 years there were so many kittens. I got overwhelmed, the cats had taken over my place. My family was on me to greet rid of them but I couldn't just get rid of them. I felt so guilty if I they didn't go to a good home and they didn't get it. I felt ashamed and scared at the same time. I didn't know where to turn to for help. Eventually I found rescues to help me. But I know the shame, fear and depression....

    • @danrothenhoefer4634
      @danrothenhoefer4634 Před 3 lety +139

      Having compassion for another living being is never something to be ashamed of.

    • @KM-pm6qe
      @KM-pm6qe Před 3 lety +129

      That explains a lot about why hoarders “hoard” and can’t let go of the cats. The concern about the cats going to good homes is understandable and even admirable, but when it’s excessive, it rises to the level of anxiety disorder and interferes with good judgment. Thank you for bravely sharing your experience and perspective. I hope you were able to get treatment for your anxiety and other emotional challenges.

    • @e-blackheart
      @e-blackheart Před 3 lety +54

      @@KM-pm6qe thank you, I have and it's a continuous struggle that I have to remind myself not to do it again. I have my original 3 a 14 year old and two 10 year old sisters. I don't want to risk losing them.

    • @e-blackheart
      @e-blackheart Před 3 lety +26

      @@KM-pm6qe The max number of cats/kittens i had at one time was 23.

    • @KM-pm6qe
      @KM-pm6qe Před 3 lety +34

      @@e-blackheart the most I ever had was 4, and I used to get some ribbing about it, but I can certainly understand the impulse. I think all animal lovers can, to some extent, to want to save them all. But we have to be realistic, and fair to the animals we already have. I believe excessive feelings of guilt and responsibility come from a deeper place of trauma that probably needs the aid of psychotherapy to understand and process. Again, thank you and best wishes for your healing.

  • @bromque
    @bromque Před 3 lety +90

    As someone with OCD, it feels great that you're shedding light on this aspect of the disorder. Its so complex!

  • @emskers
    @emskers Před 3 lety +647

    When she said that people just drop their cats off there😒 I cant even imagine ever doing that to my cats.

    • @Backinblackbunny009
      @Backinblackbunny009 Před 3 lety +30

      I've seen people abandon their cats When moving since I moved to nc.

    • @jcrefasi1
      @jcrefasi1 Před 3 lety +73

      Consider this: it isn't always owners that drop off their cats! It could be heartless relatives of the deceased owner who would rather dump the problem than have a shelter put it to sleep. Or a creepy neighbor who is tired of paw prints and scratches on their car or feces in their garden.

    • @jcrefasi1
      @jcrefasi1 Před 3 lety +12

      @@Backinblackbunny009 now that is just heartless cruel and insane. I think I would mail a letter to their former address hoping they are having their mail forwarded to the new address. I would tell them what heartless scum I think they are. Wouldn't help their abandoned pet but would sure make me feel better!

    • @aliyahk2965
      @aliyahk2965 Před 3 lety +15

      Also sometimes when people's cats have kittens they dump them instead of finding homes for them

    • @justcogitating
      @justcogitating Před 3 lety +13

      I think the whole point of this video was about being non-judgemental...

  • @Lerrae1908
    @Lerrae1908 Před 3 lety +152

    In real situations my ethos begins with the statement, "The moment someone feels attacked, all learning stops."
    We never get anywhere when we're always fighting each other and simply coming in with a different opinion is enough to trigger some people into feeling attacked. Hoarding is almost ALWAYS the *side effects* of an untreated mental health problem. You wouldn't scream at someone who is depressed to stop being depressed.

    • @kingexplosionmurderfuckoff9376
      @kingexplosionmurderfuckoff9376 Před 3 lety +8

      You couldn't be more right. I've never hoarded animals but in some situations where I feel judged even if I know I'm in the wrong I would lash out. I think everyone can get better just with compassion.

    • @suemick8709
      @suemick8709 Před 3 lety

      Brilliant!

    • @noradennis4361
      @noradennis4361 Před 3 lety +2

      Maybe not even a mental issue unless caring is a mental issue. I had a stray ginger tom who was hit by a car come to my porch and where ever I called, including the humane society, they would have put him down. Well thanks to the a local feline organization to my area, they, with half a payment from my husband, (it cost $600.00 total) got his back legs and spine fixed. We ended up adopting him and called him Lucky Chance. 🙂. We had three cats and ended up with four. 😄. Not what we planned but it was well worth it.

    • @lindaa2437
      @lindaa2437 Před 3 lety +1

      @Kat Mann Very well stated! We need more people who think like you do. The world would be a MUCH better place.

  • @SilkaLiveDoll
    @SilkaLiveDoll Před 3 lety +1337

    ... oof. I felt this one. Being a semi-recovered hoarder myself, I found this vid SUPER relatable.

    • @birgittazandhers9257
      @birgittazandhers9257 Před 3 lety +10

      🥰🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛❣

    • @Dr.RatioSnail
      @Dr.RatioSnail Před 3 lety +87

      I love that you are a recovered hoarder takes a lot to recover

    • @18puppies91
      @18puppies91 Před 3 lety +43

      Just know we are here if you ever need help!

    • @TeaLovingBre
      @TeaLovingBre Před 3 lety +28

      Congrats on recovery 💖

    • @shannonfick7170
      @shannonfick7170 Před 3 lety +32

      Congratulations on your recovery ❤️ We’re all here for you as a community

  • @sg-ww4km
    @sg-ww4km Před 3 lety +119

    Basically your helped transforming a cat hoarder to a cat under-control-colony watcher. Bravo!

  • @joyceedwards6112
    @joyceedwards6112 Před 3 lety +841

    I adopted a young cat from a hoarding situation. He was so sick with bronchitis that I didn't name him because I didn't think he'd make it. Two years later he is a spoiled beautiful kitty. 😻

  • @ana_lynn_w2959
    @ana_lynn_w2959 Před 3 lety +81

    I used to have a family member who was like this. When she started going to counseling I think it allowed her to start making some positive changes in her cat hoarding situation. Eventually she started volunteering at a spay and neuter clinic and doing cat fostering. though she still a hoarder and other ways I think she's got a lot more of a positive situations with the cats because she trusts the people who do the adoptions so she's more willing to let go of the cats she's fostering. A lot of these people deal with PTSD, abandonment issues. Trust issues… All that you highlighted in your video. These people are victims in their own rights and a lot of victims are manipulated to feel shame. A lot of these people don't have access to mental health professionals and what Hannah said to do is absolutely one of the best things you can do. Show compassion. I love this video!

  • @miniaturecookingshorts
    @miniaturecookingshorts Před 3 lety +802

    A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere

  • @3Mysty3
    @3Mysty3 Před 3 lety +106

    i'm literally in tears. i never judged cat hoarders, i can relate, but i never thought of how they can be helped. thanks for the informative video!

  • @derpychickadee3964
    @derpychickadee3964 Před 3 lety +411

    This is a great way of explaining! My cats were both rescued from hoarder as kittens. They look like a 100% purebred Exotic Shorthair and I get “So sweet! What breeder did you get them from?” All the time and end up having to explain they came from a hoarders not a breeder. Then everyone goes “Oh no! Hoarders are so terrible” And I don’t know how to respond. But this video will definitely help explaining 😸

    • @elizabethlowes6501
      @elizabethlowes6501 Před 3 lety +44

      I also have a rescued hoarded kitty, so I also get this quite a bit. I usually start with pointing out that hoarding is classified as a disorder, it's not something that they choose to do, and that a lot of the time, the person is living in just as bad conditions as their animals, then lead it into a discussion about mental issues, shame, etc and so on. Take it away from "ohes noes, teh poor kitehs" to "hey, let's have a rational discussion about how condemnation isn't the same thing as helping end a bad situation". Hope this also helps you a bit :)

    • @Kt-cn2rq
      @Kt-cn2rq Před 3 lety +6

      I has 3 kitten and I was able to give one to a lady who lucky her birthday and the husband couldn't order anything from Amazon during Hurricane Harvey. The other two I was going show her but they hid so well at my mil and found them asleep under her rocking chair so I assumed they were close to each other. I was suppose only have one but glad I kept them both. 3 years later of course found a sad little kitten chasing us when about to leave a friend auto shop. Patted her when walking kids to the car husband said she after the kids and I guess she chose us as her owners. I think secretly my husband was wanting keep her since he was hugging her when went pick him up 😆

    • @evasartorius9528
      @evasartorius9528 Před 3 lety +8

      I am big fan of the 'adopt don't shop' movement. You get the best critters that way. When I was really ill a few years ago about all I could do was sit in the sun and watch them.

    • @traekas7228
      @traekas7228 Před 3 lety +1

      Are Exotic Shorthair Cats similar to or the same as Oriental Shorthair Cats? In your opinion, I mean?

    • @MimiWalburga
      @MimiWalburga Před 3 lety +9

      I think I would tell them that not the hoarders, but the breeders are the terrible people here. And that the hoarders wouldn't even feel the need to take on so many cats if it wasn't for the breeders, who keep producing more cats although shelters are packed already.

  • @bjjones1969
    @bjjones1969 Před 3 lety +42

    I weeped and weeped. Yes, “hoarders” are just that, caring and good intentioned but help is hard to find. My husband and I lived near someone who had many many cats. Were not getting neutered and so you can imagine the situation. My husband got his certificate for catch and release. We neutered the outside cats & took in kittens that are now 6 years old. Still with us thriving and live on a lake house. We need to help those who have little means. Even for education and show compassion. Because compassion is key. Love your neighbor says the scriptures. I love cats because they are not looked on well. People mistreat them and neglect them. But we who know more must teach those who don’t know about these beautiful creatures. They have personalities that want to shine. And they love people oh how they love people!

  • @PuppyPlootes
    @PuppyPlootes Před 3 lety +329

    My cat, Sprinkles came from our small town's Cat Hoarder. Animal control came and took away about 50 of the cats. They were taken to our local shelter, and my family adopted one of them because my brother had been begging for one. Sprinkles was terrified of us, and literally scratched my Dad when we were bringing him home for the first time. (Sprinkles never scratched us after that- for 3 years)
    I got to speak to the woman who hoarded these cats personally, and she was such a sweetheart. She seemed quite troubled, and I hope she gets the help she needs.

    • @believer365
      @believer365 Před 3 lety +10

      Awww what a touching story, may God bless you all and the cats ☺️❤️

    • @bronchiaosaurus4804
      @bronchiaosaurus4804 Před 3 lety +5

      Did you name sprinkles after Angela’s cat?

    • @evasartorius9528
      @evasartorius9528 Před 3 lety +8

      I have known some hoarders and they are good people, they care about something no one else seems to care about. A stray. I love the people in these videos. They are so kind and caring, not in a big fancy way that gets them stardom. Just pure compassion for the world. They make it a better place.

    • @bb-gp3lm
      @bb-gp3lm Před 3 lety

      So it's ok to forgive animal abusers? NOTED LOL

    • @evasartorius9528
      @evasartorius9528 Před 3 lety +3

      @@bb-gp3lm Stop being an a$$.

  • @scaredsanty857
    @scaredsanty857 Před 3 lety +52

    Lady: "Hey everyone! This is my new foster kitren, Svetlana!"
    Me, Svetlana: 👁👄👁

  • @infracta300
    @infracta300 Před 3 lety +273

    Okay, but could Svetlana be more of a lovebug? No, the answer is no.

    • @pr0v0cative4pple
      @pr0v0cative4pple Před 3 lety +14

      I know right, the way that she's just falling asleep in Hannah's arms... Absolute sweetheart.

  • @Heymrk
    @Heymrk Před 3 lety +32

    When my orange tabby Spot was alive, we would watch Hoarders together. He liked watching the cats on the screen. I'd look at him and say, "You don't know how good you've got it." He'd always look at me and meow when I said that. He was the dude. You know, the duder, dudearino, el dudester. I miss him. Damned male-related kidney problems.

    • @mollysreadings4845
      @mollysreadings4845 Před 3 lety +1

      ❤️

    • @blasphemoustoast
      @blasphemoustoast Před 3 lety

      I'm sorry to hear that my guy :( If you get another cat you should feed them wet food. Dried Kibble is absolutely horrible for the kidneys, or so I've heard.

    • @Heymrk
      @Heymrk Před 3 lety +4

      @@blasphemoustoast The vet prescribed him a pH balanced dry food specifically for kidney issues. He ate it most of his life. A diet of only wet food is just as bad for their bowels. I do have two more cats now-- both male-- and thankfully neither have kidney issues.

    • @blasphemoustoast
      @blasphemoustoast Před 3 lety +3

      @@Heymrk Ah ok, good to know, I'm planning on getting a cat soon but I'm definitely still learning and your vet certainly knows more than I. I'm glad that your new cats are healthy!

    • @a.m.1534
      @a.m.1534 Před 3 lety +2

      @@blasphemoustoast wet food is good on occasion, it’s also good if the cat isn’t getting enough moisture. for most cats though, a high quality dry food and ample fresh water is good. the dry food helps them clean their teeth and get the excess plaque off^^ there’s a lot online out there from better sources than just me that talk about dry vs wet food, i definitely suggest reading those! good luck with your new fur buddy!

  • @isstinna
    @isstinna Před 3 lety +138

    Svetlana is a Russian name, and short for it is Sveta. The name means "light" (as in sunlight).

  • @averywillow4327
    @averywillow4327 Před 3 lety +38

    Oh, cat lady, I didn't know it was possible to love you more but you're compassionate to cats AND humans in hard situations ❣️

  • @Dr.RatioSnail
    @Dr.RatioSnail Před 3 lety +259

    I just about cried when you started talking about her saying thank you to the food and it made me emotional.

    • @deusexmagica
      @deusexmagica Před 3 lety +9

      i cried at that part 😭

    • @kanoosh78
      @kanoosh78 Před 3 lety +6

      That's the point where I immediately teared up.

    • @t_rizer
      @t_rizer Před 2 lety

      Me too!! Crying ever since.

  • @multiplefandomlover7179
    @multiplefandomlover7179 Před 3 lety +51

    Thank you for sharing this perspective, I would never have realized how isolating it truly is to be caring for so many animals and not be able to get the resources to help them properly, which can lead to so much misunderstanding between hoarders and the people they're surrounded by. This level of empathy is so important, not just for animals, but for humans as well.

  • @thebellamays
    @thebellamays Před 3 lety +266

    There’s a woman that lives by me who would be categorized as a cat hoarder. But in reality she takes in all of the strays in our neighborhood and cares for them. I received all three of my cats from her and they were well taken care of.

    • @TheAdrift
      @TheAdrift Před 3 lety +56

      @@shadowdancer909 that’s true! If the cats are well taken care of, and the person is not opposed to parting with some of them, we’d probably just call that person “someone who devotes a lot of time to cats,” or “an independent cat shelter operator.” It crosses the line into hoarding when the situation is out of control, and the person either can’t see it or can’t improve it, yet they keep acquiring and keeping more cats.

    • @OmqSparklez
      @OmqSparklez Před 3 lety +25

      some rando Yeah, I think people judge on number of animals, but I knew an animal hoarder with 6 dogs and I think 4 cats at the time. That’s not necessarily the extreme numbers people think, but it was a cycle of acquiring animals, neglecting them, all of these animals were vicious and the dogs were a danger to the cats and to people... it was awful. Luckily the animals were removed and the person got help (it was an inherited mental illness, really. His mom hoarded items, he hoarded animals. Both situations were horrific to see) but.. yeah. It’s more complex than “a lot of animals”

    • @KrazySaneGirl
      @KrazySaneGirl Před 3 lety +6

      @@TheAdrift I believe the term would be closer to "colony caregiver".

    • @OmqSparklez
      @OmqSparklez Před 3 lety +9

      @@KrazySaneGirl You're only a colony caregiver if you're... caring for a colony. Not everyone who has a lot of well-taken care of indoor cats is a colony caregiver, and not every colony caretaker is taking those cats into their home or even able to, the two experiences are not 1:1, they're distinct.

    • @KrazySaneGirl
      @KrazySaneGirl Před 3 lety +4

      @@OmqSparklez Oh right, yes, a lot of them were indoor. Fair point.

  • @chelseamorning4640
    @chelseamorning4640 Před 3 lety +14

    Thank you so much for being so kind on such a difficult subject. Hoarding, and mental illness, runs in my family and so often people look at it with disgust and pity. I struggle with hoarding myself-- it comes and goes with mood swings (I have bipolar type 2), my husband does his best to keep it under control.
    One hard limit we have set is no more pets. We already have 3 cats in a studio apartment with the two of us and our 7 month old daughter... but the urge is there.
    I brought home a sick little kitten once-- a tiny little orange baby whose eyes weren't even open yet-- covered in fleas and so, so weak. I stayed up all night with this little thing, I was so afraid he wouldn't make it... and in the morning he was so lethargic, barely responding to any stimuli. My husband convinced me to take the kitten to a shelter, we just don't have the means or the space or the time to give a kitten in that bad of condition the care it would need to survive.
    Ever since, we've had the rule of no more pets... I still cry thinking about that little kitty, hoping I did the right thing and wishing I knew that everything worked out for the little guy but part of me knows what often happens to little sick babies at the shelter...

  • @ThirtyBooks
    @ThirtyBooks Před 3 lety +100

    You treated the woman like one of your spicy kittens, with kindness and dignity (and not taking yourself too seriously). We need more kindness in the world. Thank you.

  • @strumminronin
    @strumminronin Před 3 lety +31

    Thank you for showing, and proving that "communication skills" is so much more than just having and idea and delivering it. What they don't teach at school, learn it from rescuing cats.

  • @andrewgnys6285
    @andrewgnys6285 Před 3 lety +144

    I was born with the mental illness schizophrenia and I love my animals. I have meet people that mean well but they have trouble looking after themselves besides 20 cats. I have 2 at the moment down from 5 but some people I meet have many more. I have even meet a lady that is known as the "cat lady". She drives around industrial areas feeding the strays and trying to catch them and get them help. Love your channel and hope it grows.

    • @abdul2074
      @abdul2074 Před 3 lety

      I didn't know you could been born with schizo are you sure

    • @amice1200
      @amice1200 Před 3 lety +10

      @@abdul2074 Google FTW, dude. Less confrontational, that way.

    • @andrewgnys6285
      @andrewgnys6285 Před 3 lety +3

      @@abdul2074 Yeah my mother has it too. Some people get it of drugs or their surroundings.

    • @Hannah-zw9ow
      @Hannah-zw9ow Před 3 lety +6

      @@abdul2074 “schizo” is definitely not the way to say this, it’s generally pretty offensive.
      And yes, you are always born with it. It may not actually show until later, but you don’t “catch” schizophrenia. You always have it.

    • @Hannah-zw9ow
      @Hannah-zw9ow Před 3 lety +8

      @@andrewgnys6285 you don’t “get” schizophrenia from drugs, you’re born with it. Usually it’s dormant/inactive when you’re born and something triggers it.

  • @lisaleone2296
    @lisaleone2296 Před 3 lety +18

    I have 7 cats. In theory I would love to have even more because they bring me so much joy. But I've realized I'm at my limit in terms of what I can reasonably take care of. Plus there's no more room on the bed :) Seriously, you're so sweet and always have a fresh perspective on these situations that people need to hear. Keep up the good work!

  • @RamenNoodle1985
    @RamenNoodle1985 Před 3 lety +207

    You can thank Animal Cops for vilifying cat hoarders. Most are just people who are overwhelmed, scared, and have no one to get help from.
    Blessings on you and Andrew for being that positive point of contact.

    • @zammmerjammer
      @zammmerjammer Před 3 lety +18

      I used to watch animal cops and I always felt incredibly sorry for the hoarders. They were usually living in absolutely squalid conditions along with their cats and were totally overwhelmed.

    • @flagal519
      @flagal519 Před 3 lety +14

      I agree, and I would like to think that most 'hoarders' are not bad people, but hurting people. Like Kitten Lady said, unless there is a cruelty situation , most people mean well and just get overwhelmed.

    • @conribarnes1373
      @conribarnes1373 Před 3 lety +11

      Animal Cops would also show the worst of the worst. The cases where you do need to get the animals out of there ASAP. Which if you think about it makes sense, cause those are the type of cases where animal control and/or the police are brought in.
      The problem is, most people just think of that worst case scenario when they hear cat hoarder. And don’t stop to think about what the situation might actually be like. And they want it to be a black and white issue, but it’s really not.

    • @synonymous_
      @synonymous_ Před 3 lety

      I find it reprehensible that this video is making animal abuse and malnourishment palatable.

    • @conribarnes1373
      @conribarnes1373 Před 3 lety +4

      @@synonymous_ You’re missing the point of the video. Those things are obviously not okay. The video is about how to fix the problem by showing compassion and working with the hoarder.

  • @WarriorVinyard
    @WarriorVinyard Před 3 lety +33

    100% spot on. They love cats, but get overwhelmed.

    • @barbmanley3114
      @barbmanley3114 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes, let's help with more rescues and adopting, so it takes a burden off others. In other words, let's share the burden. But it's Not a burden, if you love animals, in particular Cats (or dogs). Let's just help when and as much as we can, if possible. And Pray ,. Pray for GODS HELP. AFTER ALL THEY COME FROM HIM.!!!

    • @barbmanley3114
      @barbmanley3114 Před 3 lety +1

      To JJ Vineyard and all

    • @barbmanley3114
      @barbmanley3114 Před 3 lety +1

      And to All: yes let's All hep if we can so that animal lovers don't get so Overwhelmed!!!

  • @Sohraiyah1
    @Sohraiyah1 Před 3 lety +313

    Hoarders are people who just get overwhelmed and cannot find their way out.

    • @SilkaLiveDoll
      @SilkaLiveDoll Před 3 lety +10

      That's definitely part of it, yes.

    • @tareag993
      @tareag993 Před 3 lety +1

      True

    • @synonymous_
      @synonymous_ Před 3 lety +9

      Not an excuse for animals abuse. I used to work with shelters cleaning out hoarders homes and holy shit the depravity that I have seen

    • @vba2469
      @vba2469 Před 3 lety +7

      @@synonymous_ it's neither an excuse for the bad consequences their actions can have NOR a justification for the blame and judgement thrown their way (!). You know, judgement like using words such as "depravity" (talk about a loaded word).
      It just is. It's a matter of fact. It's simply that the world isn't black and white and hoarding isn't about being EVIL. That doesn't mean we should let it happen and look away. It's about understanding, to better cure.

    • @bb-gp3lm
      @bb-gp3lm Před 3 lety

      animal control is a solution. they just don't use it.

  • @sarcastiquea415
    @sarcastiquea415 Před 3 lety +6

    As a fellow cat foster, this video was extremely helpful in opening my understanding of cat hoarders. Many of the cats I have fostered have come from cat hoarders or overcrowded fostering situations from other fosters who took on more than they thought they could handle. I've never been one to openly judge anyone's situation but I have had a thought or two! This video really helped me see a different, more compassion and kind side of the story. Thank you!!!

  • @cherrycordiaI
    @cherrycordiaI Před 3 lety +171

    Svetlana is just an ANGEL. She's so loveably sweet.

  • @karenmacdonald6190
    @karenmacdonald6190 Před 3 lety +42

    I love how compassionate you are for everyone.

  • @user-sv4xe5yd3l
    @user-sv4xe5yd3l Před 3 lety +256

    I totally agree, this was 100% on point! Hopefully this opens up people’s minds about hoarding..

  • @Ntshgardner
    @Ntshgardner Před 3 lety +22

    Thank you so much for all you do!!! One of my neighbors is starting to become a cat hoarder. Not in the sense that she wanted to be, but strays would show up and she would feed them. Unfortunately they were not sterile and they continued to breed. I decided this week I want to TNR them. They all look healthy but I want to build trust with her and get them all sterile eventually. One by one like you did in your case. ❤️

    • @jodyj8528
      @jodyj8528 Před rokem

      It has been two years, were you able to help the neighbor out with some of these goals? :-) I hope so!

  • @fosterfarmsadventures4270
    @fosterfarmsadventures4270 Před 3 lety +48

    One of my cats came from a hoarder. The woman was mass producing devon rex. She took them to a shelter that my mom worked at and surrender them because her apartment was going to kick her and the cats out, and we fostered a litter of them. Also we kept one. But I don't think she meant to mass produced the cats. I think it went out of control.
    In the end she wanted to save the cats.

  • @l82theparty4
    @l82theparty4 Před 3 lety +2

    I had a relative who was blind. She was living on her own, the same thing happed to her. People dropped off unwanted cats. She fed them but was unable to “care” for them. Thank you for talking about kindness.

  • @00bikeboy
    @00bikeboy Před 3 lety +45

    I've never run into a cat hoarder, or any hoarder for that matter, but if I ever do I'll remember your wise, kind words. Thanks Kitten Lady!

  • @MrKatzenmutti53
    @MrKatzenmutti53 Před 3 lety +21

    Thank you for an enlightening video that (correctly, I believe) treats these people with the compassion they so desperately need. As a 67year-old woman, I am extremely grateful that so many younger people like you are addressing these issues with thoughtful positivity. Your Orphan Kitten Club is a cause I am proud to support!💖

  • @mcdudette
    @mcdudette Před 3 lety +207

    You are a very compassionate person. You care about people and animals alike. The world is a better place because of you 🤗

  • @stormycat4857
    @stormycat4857 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you so much for putting this video out to inform people. I have never felt hatred towards cat hoarders, just sadness. I read a book recently, and although it was fictional, it gave a really good perspective. A really old lady with dementia kept adopting cats because she loved them, but then she forgot about them. All of the cats were locked inside the small house. They were barely fed, no one had cleaned their litter boxes in months, they kept giving birth, and they kept getting diseases and dying. Throughout all of this, the old lady was unaware and just continued to love her cats that she thought she was taking care of. In the end, the cats were saved and the old lady went to the hospital, but even in the end one of the cats realized that the old lady did it out of love. Sorry for that, I just felt that it went well with the video, I hope y’all that read this far have a nice day :D

  • @adriankenny6946
    @adriankenny6946 Před 3 lety +108

    I wanna thank you for being compassionate and trying to stop ableism in the community. It really means a lot

  • @sherriedennehy6474
    @sherriedennehy6474 Před 3 lety +13

    I love this!!! I find so often in the cat rescue community that people have huge hearts and lots of compassion for cats, but that doesn't always extend to people. In my experience, cat hoarders have huge hearts but don't have the means or connections to support their compassion. 💓💓

  • @MustardSeedish
    @MustardSeedish Před 3 lety +55

    That kitten is living her best life.

  • @heathermiller7478
    @heathermiller7478 Před 3 lety +11

    How lovely this video is, thank you Kitten Lady, and the 13k gentle folks who validate this mindset...Always be kinder than necessary to everyone you meet, you never really know what kind of battle that person is fighting until you have proven you are not a threat to their mental balance... This video is balm to the soul of a 50yo for anyone who personally battles their "hoarder gene" like myself.

  • @TJtheBee
    @TJtheBee Před 3 lety +42

    You’re so compassionate and kind. I got a lot of resistance from my friends for being empathetic about difficult situations, to the point I worry I’m too empathetic. But you’re an amazing person with tons of empathy, too. That’s incredible.

    • @pookiehoney
      @pookiehoney Před 3 lety +3

      I'm so empathetic that if I see someone get hurt or if they tell me about their injuries I feel their pain physically. For instance if I see someone stub their toe instantly feel the pain and cry out Lol there's a name for this craziness (forgot) and I thought I was the only weirdo who did this but apparently I'm not. I need a support group.

  • @pthaloblue100
    @pthaloblue100 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much for making this video. I have a dear friend that is the kindest soul in the world, but over time slid into cat hoarding do to physical disability, illness, loss of her job, death of close family members and depression. Those cats meant everything in the world to her and she felt so much prejudice and disdain from people all the time! It was heartbreaking to try and help her and still watch her struggle. I'm happy to say she has finally been able to move into a better situation and the cats have found homes. I'm so grateful that you explained a sensible way to help, those kind acts would have made a world of difference to my friend and the cats that depended on her sooner.

  • @orsue8384
    @orsue8384 Před 3 lety +39

    Thank you for opening my eyes to a more compassionate understanding and approach for something I was very ignorant about.

    • @GaelissFelin
      @GaelissFelin Před 3 lety +4

      agreed. never would have thought of cat hoarders this way, but i get it now. they need help not judgment!

  • @jeandixon586
    @jeandixon586 Před 2 lety +1

    Hannah, you are such a KIND person. Kind to animals goes without saying. But the understanding and wisdom you carry for humans is phenomenal.

  • @rn2787
    @rn2787 Před 3 lety +23

    I have never turned a cat away so I understand how this happens. I would find homes for most them especially when there were too many showing up. I've helped about 100 or so animals find homes and I don't think I would have it in me to turn any away, but at some point I would probably have to take them to a shelter luckily that hasn't happened yet.

  • @TheAdrift
    @TheAdrift Před 3 lety +1

    Props to you, Hannah, for cultivating such a non-toxic community. Nearly everyone commenting here are wonderful people that are so full of empathy and compassion 🥺 and you do a wonderful job of leading by example, as always!
    I have hoarders (of stuff, not animals) in my family, and I have some hoarding tendencies myself, and so many people are just like “why don’t you just get rid of stuff? Don’t you want to live a normal, nice life? Do you love your stuff more than me?” And people do talk about animal hoarders like “how could you do this to them?” You are so right when you say there’s lots of shame involved-from the community, sometimes from the city/town government in the form of code enforcers and/or animal control, and often-times the family of the hoarder, but mostly from themselves. Many hoarders know that people aren’t supposed to live like this, and the ones that don’t are the ones that DO have really severe hoarding disorder-obviously they’d need treatment, not shaming.
    Thank you again for all you do, and all your videos ❤️

  • @impressionsofjapan8683
    @impressionsofjapan8683 Před 3 lety +24

    Your immense amount of empathy blows my mind. I've only ever gotten upset when hearing about hoarding situations. Thank you for showing a different approach!

  • @carlyh6913
    @carlyh6913 Před 3 lety +3

    God bless you for this, I have gone thru this, not with cats but having a messy house and being isolated due to PTSD, also a neglectful childhood. I felt so ashamed and didn't want anyone to come over. I got better because of understanding ppl like yourself

  • @eriklehnsherr5784
    @eriklehnsherr5784 Před 3 lety +49

    I LOVE her! Her name. Her face. All if her! What a doll baby!

  • @mannifinalsummer4544
    @mannifinalsummer4544 Před 3 lety +3

    This is amazing. Thank you for showing kindness to people who are already shunned for different reasons and teach us about it. I never had contact to a hoarder before but if I ever stumble over one I'll try to keep your method of kindness and understanding in mind and act similar. Thank you!!

  • @MissingmyBabbu
    @MissingmyBabbu Před 3 lety +95

    I've never thought animal hoarders (with few exceptions where there's intentional animal cruelty) to be bad people. Just people out of control of their animal situation. I don't always think the state needs to step in either- unless there's severe health hazards involved or if there's cruelty or neglect, what they need is community support.

    • @FeralCatSanctuary
      @FeralCatSanctuary Před 3 lety +1

      Oh, you are so right! I really think the communities need to step in and help. The usual situation is that cats are dropped off as soon as they know there is a feral colony that is being cared for. Happens all the time in my colony. While it is horribly frustrating I can at least be glad they didn't throw the cat out without any resources to care for him/herself.

  • @jenofire8724
    @jenofire8724 Před 3 lety +7

    I’ve been following your Instagram and CZcams for years. I’m so glad you help others. It’s the work you’ve been doing that has inspired me to foster kittens (after my husband leaves the military, they unfortunately won’t let us foster in military housing) when my husband retires. I wish I could do it sooner. Thank you for your educational videos and all the work you do. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @katieg9551
    @katieg9551 Před 3 lety +5

    As a social work student, I so admire your approach to these situations, as it reflects how social workers are taught to approach similar situations. A lot of people don’t realize that hoarding is actually its own mental disorder as well. Like you said, this disorder is often linked to anxiety, depression, and other mental disorders, so it needs to be treated with the same understanding and kindness all people with mental illnesses deserve

    • @anniekooper3122
      @anniekooper3122 Před 3 lety

      Not true. I am a vet, I know people who owns 5 or more cats, they are happy, unselfish individuals who cares. If you own 20 wigs or 20 pairs of shoes or 30 Pairs of earrings would that mean you have a mental problem?

    • @zahraa4149
      @zahraa4149 Před 3 lety

      @@anniekooper3122 that's not even close to hoarding.
      Putting cats aside for a second, people who hoard things are unable to throw anything away, and they keep collecting new things even if they physically have no space for them. Their houses are a mess. Buying 30 pairs of shoes isn't hoarding

  • @WaltersMama
    @WaltersMama Před 3 lety +2

    thank you for your compassionate take on hoarding, it's a complex mental health issue and if anyone is interested in learning more I recommend this book: Stuff: Compulsive Hoarding and the Meaning of Things

    • @synonymous_
      @synonymous_ Před 3 lety

      Ah yes, let us excuse people using sentient beings as pawns for their mental illness

    • @kaylaandjimbryant8258
      @kaylaandjimbryant8258 Před 3 lety

      @@synonymous_ nobody's excusing hoarders. What I'm seeing is people trying to understand what motivates hoarders and get them the help they obviously need. You obviously need the plank pulled out of your eyes before complaining about the dust motes in others eyes

  • @robloxroxplayz6667
    @robloxroxplayz6667 Před 3 lety +198

    Cats are literally the best animals ever!
    Edit: OMG THIS IS THE MOST LIKES I EVER GOT

  • @heatherdean7793
    @heatherdean7793 Před 3 lety +1

    You are a bright light. Truly a gifted teacher and caregiver.

  • @teddynadell158
    @teddynadell158 Před 3 lety +55

    Luv this video. I grew up in a hoarding situation. It was very difficult.

    • @zPinkCat
      @zPinkCat Před 3 lety +9

      I feel for everyone who has to go through that. And when they’re a kid when that is going on just makes it so much worse

    • @manifestationsofasort
      @manifestationsofasort Před 3 lety

      That sucks, mate.

    • @Lia-A-Eastwood
      @Lia-A-Eastwood Před 3 lety

      Teddy Nadell: May I ask. Are you a cat? 😉

  • @amirabannour2380
    @amirabannour2380 Před 3 lety +2

    I really love your approach to this and I hope a lot of people will take this to heart. By helping the person in need, you are helping the cats. That’s a big step in a good direction. Looking at a situation from the outside and assuming only the bad is never good

  • @oregonwriter743
    @oregonwriter743 Před 3 lety +36

    I love your kindness and generosity of spirit. Your love is uplifting and inspiring. Thank you for all the help you give everyone! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hey_its_rae2924
    @hey_its_rae2924 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for showing me that’s it’s okay that my rescues got out of control so long as I reach for help. I rescued so many and have recently realized I needed help with these kittens. I felt awful and just wanted to do right by them. You help people understand ourselves and others. Thank you.

    • @em6644
      @em6644 Před rokem

      I hope you were able to get support for all the kittens you were taking care of! Thank you for doing your best and also for recognising when you were at your limit

  • @clemintide
    @clemintide Před 3 lety +18

    I don’t know what I was expecting clicking on this video but hearing how thoughtful and informative you are, the list of positives go on, really warmed my heart

  • @cozykittens9634
    @cozykittens9634 Před 3 lety +9

    Hi, kind of off topic but I wanted to say thank you. I rescued a kitten that was born right in a backyard. We recently took her to a shelter and we think she will get adopted really soon! She is a little over a year old so still pretty young. Thank you for teaching me!

  • @emilygarcia8064
    @emilygarcia8064 Před 3 lety +19

    My day was a day of learning. I had a class today and now I end today with an informative video from the Kitten Lady......I’m loving it. I can’t wait for another video.

  • @TheYayaNet
    @TheYayaNet Před 3 lety +26

    I feel like anyone with compassion and love for animals can end up with a lot of animals and then that gets out of control. Thank you Hannah for this video!

    • @joedesorel
      @joedesorel Před 3 lety +4

      what an intelligent way to explain to the rescuers that their way of judging people who have basically the same goal as her without the knowledge and the means necessary to do so, with love and humility. Big thanks

  • @MrsTiffanyGrey
    @MrsTiffanyGrey Před 3 lety +26

    We love you, Hannah. Thank you for encouraging and educating us to try and always choose the path of kindness. 🥰

  • @rebeccagriffith905
    @rebeccagriffith905 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank You Hannah for speaking out for cat hoarders. I found myself in a similar situation a few years ago when I had to quit work to care for my husband. Our problem got outta hand because we lived in the country and people would drop off the Mama's to be. Luckily one of our state's ASPCA chapters was offering free spay/neutering and rabies vaccinations. And when they came they were surprised that the colony was so well behaved they asked If I minded if they put some up for adoption. Absolutely! I was so happy They were able to take 15 of our crew and place them in good homes. So you are so on point. Thanks again and Bless you and your other half for all you do for these babies.

  • @alessam3186
    @alessam3186 Před 3 lety +14

    Thank you for being so compassionate to both people and animals. Many people don't realize that hoarding is a mental disorder.

    • @parryyotter
      @parryyotter Před 3 lety +3

      Hoarding itself is not necessarily always a mental disorder. It can also be a symptom of other mental disorders.

    • @alessam3186
      @alessam3186 Před 3 lety

      @@parryyotter That's true. :)

  • @jessicadelashmit9510
    @jessicadelashmit9510 Před 3 lety +1

    I wish more rescuers were like you. I live in a community of people who don’t treat dogs properly and most of it is ignorance, they just don’t know, but it’s also cultural. They’ve never had a good example. Kindness wins the day!

  • @erindavis5308
    @erindavis5308 Před 3 lety +22

    A local cat hoarder’s house just burned down yesterday. Our local shelter rescued over 90 cats and dogs from that one house.

  • @lisalovesphotography
    @lisalovesphotography Před 3 lety +6

    I love that your compassion embraces all living beings. 🙏❤️

  • @binky8984
    @binky8984 Před 3 lety +13

    You are a truly inspiring person! Thank you for being the generous, supportive, open-hearted and loving soul that you are. ♡

  • @wandadawnmiller1552
    @wandadawnmiller1552 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for posting this! All of what you said is so true AND an excellent example of trauma informed care. I will be posting this on my Community Access TV show, Knowledge is Power York PA. We are all volunteer and a trauma informed news media.

  • @johannanewman7474
    @johannanewman7474 Před 3 lety +40

    First. I love this channel, I fostered newborn kittens too, with the help of your vids 😊

  • @sandralee9051
    @sandralee9051 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing, I've got 25 , 18 of them live outside, 35 lb of cat food a week, I've got them spade and nuderd with the last 3 months. Thank to a charity helping me. ♡

  • @April-yy3fg
    @April-yy3fg Před 3 lety +5

    I’ve seen some genuinely heartbreaking hoarding situations for a variety of animals and while it’s hard to see, you absolutely right about how on the whole hoarders are well meaning and caring people. You’re approach is so amazingly compassionate and it can be something people could use in other situations too. I imagine the shame and isolation that someone who is homeless can feel and how extending judgement free help would open the door for them to get the right kind of aid they need to improve their lives ❤️

  • @P4ndieEy3ss
    @P4ndieEy3ss Před 3 lety

    So many people are haughty and judgy, instead of being kind and compassionate. Nothing good ever comes of looking down your nose at someone. This video was such a breath of fresh air, so positive and uplifting.
    And that kitten is so smoochy!

  • @leahandersen5087
    @leahandersen5087 Před 3 lety +13

    What a great video! And Svetlana’s air biscuits- I can’t with the cutenesssss 💕

  • @ScaryBoomBoomGun
    @ScaryBoomBoomGun Před 3 lety

    Thank you for showing that woman such kindness and gentleness. Love goes a long way in this world and we need more of it.

  • @4footedshadow
    @4footedshadow Před 3 lety +10

    On point- thank you for your insight on this issue. Your humanity and love that you extend to people in this situation has done more good than judgment ever did.

  • @xkristixx
    @xkristixx Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for fighting mental health stigma. ❤️
    Because hoarding (of any type) is a mental health issue.
    You also handled this situation purrfectly! 😺

  • @ericawalsh6251
    @ericawalsh6251 Před 3 lety +8

    I got a calico now, she's 7 months old now, we found her in a road behind our house, with her sister who is not a calico, the little calico is like baguette, she is very long, and enjoys sleeping, the orange and white one, enjoys playing.

  • @shoshanakitty
    @shoshanakitty Před rokem

    I wish more people could show this much empathy for people who just need help, but don't know how to ask for or accept it. Thank you for being such a shining example of compassion and non-judgement.

  • @Dolphingirl-qg3ux
    @Dolphingirl-qg3ux Před 3 lety +25

    Omg beautiful calico! I love calicos, so sweet!

  • @Raven_Blackrose
    @Raven_Blackrose Před 3 lety

    I appreciate that you make videos explaining situations like this. People don’t always understand why others do things such as hoard cats or put out “free cats” signs.That in turn ends up causing them to villainize people that are doing things such as that. I think that bringing others into these types of lives and educating others is a very noble thing for you to do! You inspire me and so many others to keep doing these kinds of work, I actually have (ever since I was young and before I ever saw your yt channel or heard of you) wanted to become a rescue veterinarian/ a vet that works alongside rescue organizations. So thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart!!

  • @KM-nq7ez
    @KM-nq7ez Před 3 lety +8

    Agree....Although Hoarding can result in “ cruelty” issues... I truly believe that the Hoarders are not themselves Cruel. Big difference between a person feeding and trying to love many cats and a person overtly being cruel to a cat. Thanks for your compassion.❤️

  • @haleymiller3586
    @haleymiller3586 Před 2 lety

    I am crying like a snotty nosed kindergartener. You're heart is huge and it shows. Thanks for your compassion.