To all my handsome bros out there. Don't ever let yourself down by your peers trying to make you feel insecure and destroy your social status, follow your path, your goals and karma is gonna do it's job. It's gonna take years but it's all worth it in the end trust me. You're worth it ❤️👍🏼
@@FvckEmWeUp I am not entitled at all...I get invited to parties but it’s always by someone who has more money or status than me...never by someone who thinks I’m better
and theyre CORRECT 100% lmao.....you yourself would NOT invite your gf's crush from high school that is 3 points above you in looks, even if you're good looking, lets say (im making up a scenario to illustrate the point here)- fact is we, as any other animal out there, are in COMPETITION with each other for females, its sad but its the way its always has been :(- just be honest man ;)
I've been called "Mr. Steal your girl" I'm thinking, dude, I 'm not taking your problem. If your girl would leave you for someone a little bit more attractive, than she will also leave me for someone more attractive than me. That's your problem, not mine.
Yeah steal ur girl but I respect your girl more than she respects herself so imma build my confidence an try women that wanna try me not the other way around
I used to do that, but not anymore, because I used to feel so drained afterwards...If you can't keep up and raise your vibration to a positive level you got about 5 to 10 minutes of my time if that.
It don't worth it why suppress who you're for the seek of making someone comfortable who's already uncomfortable solely by your presence!I'm like it's not my issues but theirs if they are not comfortable being around me then that just the universe screaming they are not meant to be in my life
My life story, They try their hardest to kill your confidence, spread lies and rumours to ruin your social status. Envying the unattainable is insatiable.
Its crazy when i weighed 350 pounds i was cool with all my friends. After i loat the weight and put on muscle, most are no where to be found. I also noticed attractive people are nicer to me now then less attractive people.
Coworkers are the worst with this. They give so much negativity and fakeness. I just be working and they look at me every 10 seconds. I'm not doing anything but working.
Even some narcissistic women will hate on you, because they know they can’t have you or they feel insecure around you, they will create situations to try to hurt your confidence
I've always noticed attractive men get it even worse than women. Esp. in industries and elite societies. If you notice, the most powerful men in the world are NEVER really physically attractive for some reason. It's a paradox because they always say beautiful people get it easier in life but at the same time, a lot of "blockage" is being set for them. The human race is so immature and primitive on this issue. Hopefully we can evolve past that.
Bruh, looking at the way society treats celebrities say's it all. All these guys getting assaulted or pressured into sex for gigs, but to the world its hilarious because gay. The ugly truth is alot of people get off to seeing people they think better hurt, especially when it comes to looks.
@@jonasnesfeldt8125 me too at work and they are VERY YOUNG like 10 years younger than me so there is no maturity on they part and wont change anytime soon
@@ElMundoDeSam95 the ones who had the thought to target me are old as f and was at the time I was the most vulnerable and naive, haters who don't stand each other gathered each time to study and plot, I was gazlit, used and abused and then portrayed as the mentally instable antagonistic. Wish me well guys.
@@harounben342 we got to understand that those men who hate us are invisible to women and they are resentful they see us and think "this guy lives the live i dreamed of" thats why they hate us so much and yeah old men and women hate on me also they also i had male coworkers LIE ABOUT THEY LIFE to make them feel above me...
Bro I’m literally going through this now. It’s crazy, rumors, lies, etc. Anytime I come around people, they always act weird and get quiet and make faces. I don’t do shit to anyone, it’s crazy!
Been going through this crap my whole life. That's why I don't like most social gatherings. Dudes always trying to compete with me and it spills over to disrespect. People that don't know you conspiring to rob or jump me because "He thinks he's all that". Unattractive women have shown me the same distain too.
I dont want to come off as arrogant or big headed but ive never had to approach a woman for sex or a relationship in my life and i can resonate with everything this video explains. The hatred I get from men (and some women) especially whilst they are around their girlfriends is overwhelming sometimes and I have found myself having to leave the company of them. Being handsome can be a real curse sometimes. Whats worse is that im 58 now and I get this kind of hatred from people half my age. Another thing what makes it worse is that if you have a great heart, intelligence and personality as well as good looks then people just find you too good to be true. The most beautiful flower blooms in adversity.
It's not arrogance. It's actually for me confusing at first. Then I caught on. I'm 6'2', very muscular and cut, handsome along with those other traits you've mentioned. It's like the world has more of a game plan than just living and meeting people. Awareness is key. Because now you can have your well thought out response to such things. At the end of the day, it's all because people are attracted, mad they aren't like you and/or both. NGL, sometimes I purposely walk arrogantly just to get to them. But not an everyday thing.
@@jessebradford7130 We can all have our opinions but ultimately women will choose who the best looking man is regardless of how much u bench in the gym. I have never had to approach women for sex and like I say its always been them who wanted sex from me and I know its superficial but looks are the first thing women go for, I have experienced this all my life and I feel sorry for the men who were not born with good looks. No amount of gym will sway a woman who is sexually attracted to a mans looks.
I got betrayed by my own sibling and she ain't pretty. She made bad lies to my parents to hate me. Bro thank you for this message, it's time to delete and block some evil family members for life. Please pray for me bruv, the man is struggling.
This is very true....I also experience this a lot. It's because we handsome men are selected and they are not.... they just can't stand it, just stay strong and remember you are selected. Knowing you're selected keeps you strong and makes it less difficult to deal with envious people
Bruv I used to be a chubby fat, so I was good looking but not ‘hot’. People didn’t have a problem with me. I started taking care of myself, loosing weight and I became ‘hot’ - and now it’s non stop attacks
Being handsome has proven to be much more of a curse than a blessing. Didn't even realize I was allegedly handsome forever because of my low self esteem from emotional abuse. But for sure the amazingly insane hatred from nowhere outweighs the benefits I've gotten from women's attention. Decent amount of tail and compliments really don't balance the abuse and tangible real world damage. Really fucked with my head most of my life till I realised about envy.
It comes with being pre select bro. Just embrace it. As long as nobody puts their hands on you ignore them. This is what comes with being a top 10% guy.
literally the only good and right comment about this here i feel a lot of these handsome dudes whining are just too emotional and have mental issues just ignore the haters lol its really that simple
@@user-ec4yw5hj3rthat’s easy for you to say. I wonder how handsome you are. Being a 10 I’ve been jumped and had to fight multiple people because of it. So just ignore it is something a 6 or 7 would say
Same brother, I have been dealing with this my whole life, I never really had close friends for too long. My whole life I have been fighting dudes who start things first when they would see me chilling. In college it was way worse, men would try to compete with me knowing I only came to college to study. I also received evil eyes a couple times when I went out. I'm learning to work on my character now though, the fight isnt over yet!
I can totally relate, and some people think we have it really easy in society because we are good looking, when there are guys that will do anything to Basically bully us because we are "pretty boys"....
The best you can do in these situations is focus on your character. Your character tells it all about who you are, reputation is based off of others. The way you feel about you holds more weight than how others feel about you. You are beautiful and your character is beautiful ❤
I grew up genuinely believing I wasn't shit and something was wrong with me because a lot of other guys started hating on me around 12-13 when puberty kicked in, the only constant that has kept me going is women. Of course I had some great friends, but I had no problem getting girls so that's what I did and not even trying to sound arrogant but I believe that's where a lot of the hate came from growing up. Absolutlely unprovoked needless hate man. Now that I'm older I'm realizing if I was really as worthless some people made me feel I'd have never attracted the women I have and will continue to attract. I take some pride in knowing that.
Not sure what your beliefs are but I am a Christian and once I truly gave my life to Purpose, enemies popped up. I am a regular looking girl (in my eyes), I have flaws that I see in the mirror. Basically, I wouldn’t say I’m a 8+/10, but because I am favored and my blessings are unable to be hidden, people hate on me. I lose friends left and right. They are all nice when they first meet me. I guess I give off the vibe of approachable, not too pretty not ugly, but when they see how I live…they can’t handle it.
Don’t ever change that learn as much as you can and keep God first in all you do and everything will work smoothly. Give no place to Satan because he will try to steal and destroy everything in your life, I know from experience. These demons are ruthless and they want you to give them an open door just to torment you and destroy you.
Your the light. Your enemie is the darkness. Keep fighting don’t give up and trust intuition it will direct u were to go and 🙏 god is with u . Some family and friends turn against us. They can’t stand the 💡 true story
Jealousy and envy destroys people. The truth is that the haters, especially other men, are actually your secret admirers. They will never admit it nor want to accept it. Its always the person projecting their own insecurities onto another who they would swap places with in a heartbeat.
True sometimes beauty is a curse. Envy is an awful negative emotion often seen in narcissistic types, envy and jealousy rule the lives of those who feel inferior. Keep envious ppl away from you.
I have lost count of how many times in my life someone has said to me, “when I first saw you…” What followed would be negative up to the point of saying “I wanted to whoop your ass”. This would be without knowing me or having heard me speak a single word. I learned to make an extra effort to smile, be outgoing, and put people at ease. It helps some, but I still catch hate.
Facts in this bruh👍 jealousy is annoying and very dangerous i can't even go to places i used to without someone trying to test me or some jealous broad trying to set me up, it's ridiculous.
Same thing happened to me evil jealous “family” made me homeless over and over since I was 17 and they kept trying to push me to suicide then claim elderly abuse when there actual demon possessed child abusers who deserve to be laughed at for the true clowns they are. Makes me sick to my stomach I still shake with disgust just being near people that remind me of the people that used me for years and years then tried to gaslight me into thinking I was sone crazy delusional person. This world is a terrible place.
Good luck brother. Just remember God is always by our side if we always remember and cherish him. Look up the story of prophet Yusef AS. He went through alot of stuff that we go through
Same story for me I was wondering why people hated me before they hadn't even met me and they would always put me down and I had no clue why until I noticed It was always unattractive people who would put me down not the good looking people
This is the truth, I have had many situations where the occurrence made zero sense. People assume I’m fucking with them or challenging them just by asking if they’re finished/or can I work in. My friend tells me that none of the stuff that happens to me happens to him and I am about 8.5 9. I’m glad these videos are coming to the surface cause it made no sense to me why certain men challenge me for literally no reason, I give the shit right back however.
True. Beauty privilege is real in part but not enough people talk about the curse of beauty. What really irks them is when they realise that beauty is more than skin deep. They dont want to accept that because it means they have to take responsibility for their own lack of beautiful qualities. *)
If i see someone that is handsome or beautiful i tell them straight out like damm your handsome or hot I think what really matters is the spirit that lives with the meat suit this avatar is temporary beauty fades with time but your soul is everlasting
I've been living with this all my life, other women, colleagues, "friends,"and family members. I can walk into a room, say hello to everyone, and get hated on for no reason. I get envy and competition from other women when I was merely being myself. Envy is a horrible thing.
Bang on Young man! WELL DONE FOR SPEAKING OUT.. and plus you got youth on your side too, i have seen this video three times and the more i watch it the more i can say i deal with same everyday of my life and i turned 40 in feb this year 2023...i wouldnt say i come close to a 6 or 7 or 8 but ive always been told i was attractive or good looking and sometimes we here that and then we think hang on are they being real or they plotting, you never know someones intention or what ever they say is real. peace to you bro good luck
King👑. You spoke nothing but truth. its my life all my life as i asses my past as well as current but i let them go. All of them. You just explained my whole life young blood.🙏🏾🙏🏾🦾🦾🦾🦾
Im a good looking dude with long blonde hair. Ive always had low self esteem even though women call me handsome/gorgeous etc because of the way certain dudes treat me. Once I realized this was their intention, I stopped caring and gained my confidence. Funniest part is dudes who do things like that never make the comments to your face. They will make them about you sneakily while trying to maintain plausible deniability
Same bro. I was a lil bit chubby. I git leaner and built some muscle. I realised that women starting getting attracted to me meanwhile all my friends started getting rude. They started telling me i got fat, i look like a woman etc and being rude for no reason. Now i watched this video and i am understanding that they are just jealous
💯💯💯💯💯 Thanks for your powerful words, I notice that we are not all alone feeling like this 💪💪💪💪💪 we gotta go for our prime always no matter what anyway
LOL! I can see and understand your frustration bruh! I got family in my own house who became one of my biggest enemies! Friend I grew up with that hate my guts and ran a smear campaign against me! I was hated all thru school just like you and always had people coming after me till this day! I’m 48 now bruh n it’s still going on. You see I didn’t believe in jealousy or envy because it didn’t exist in me! How could I understand when my mother use to tell me way back in the day when I was in 6th grade that they were jealous of me ! I thought yeah yeah that’s something people just say! It wasn’t till 2018 I began to realize it was real! It’s written about all over the Bible! The women love me till this day! From 18 year old to 55 year olds! The attraction will never change as long as you keep yourself decent and don’t become bitter, but the hate will always be there too because they want to be you and see you as a threat! It’s the price we got to pay… in other words it’s the balance, can’t have night without the day. I run with dudes who get women like me, surround ya self with your a alikes to find a breathing space but the hating will never end!
I'm in a county that's only 5% black. There aren't many that are 6ft, athletic, white collar, educated etc. The girls like it but most people are mad. I used to be mad, but I realized I can't let strangers dictate my emotions. Even if it's MANY strangers doing it. Now I just rub their noses in it, fight me 😉
Hey man, kudos to you for the courage to make this video. I feel like we handsome men and women are a special group of people that need safe spaces for us, the hate is absolutely insane
Wait until people start turning others against you, management in the gym told members of the gym to not have interaction with you all cos you have a better physique than the personal trainers. When you get your body game up EVEN girls will be disrespectful to you aswel as men, wait till people stop talkin to you cos a girl they couldn't get likes u instead. An people spread rumours about you, but you can't prove it. But you can feel it. But yet after all the hate they're throwing at you, they're still watching you spying on you hoping that you give up an don't progress.
It has nothing to do with looks. I'm short, overweight and not too ugly, but the same reactions I get...weirdness. I do know the difference between ugly reactions and weirdness. I agree on most of what you're saying. I blame social media. Dont get sucked in.
It’s a thing where it for sure has is benefits, but the people don’t have it understand there are also cons. They only see the benefits. Even the opposite sex can have envy. I’d still rather have it this way though 😂 Keeps your game sharp & you know what to look for if you train yourself.
I think it can go multiple ways. I found some girls are drawn to me because I look a certain way and they presume an image of who they think I am. I've been told I'm very masculine looking and I have noticed recently alot of same sex female couples I will get dirty looks from one of them, im presuming the dominant one. Alot of putting the arm around clingy to their partner. I even hear the odd snigger when I'm minding my own business. I've had bitchyness of groups of males also and uncomfortably I've had woman thinking I should feel its a compliment for them to touch me which if it happens to you, its can be awkward and ur unsure how to react. But I have to say it's also worked for me in positive ways in the way some people gave treated me. I think my biggest frustration is from those people who are resentful of life and they focus their negative energy on me, building this picture in their head because I might be attractive that my life is perfect and I gave no worries and u can feel them wishing u bad lol. In all honesty nowadays I don't date, like being on my own and although it's nice to be attractive its not the mist important thing in my life. It can attract the wrong woman who are shallow with no substance. I explained to a guy a couple of guys the other day that I don't date anymore and that I get asked for my number etc but I'm happy on my own and because he can't get a date was like poor u Patrick like its my fault he can't. Anyway I try not to card too much, people always going to say something and it's a liberating feeling not caring and just being u🙏
you probably took that couple home that night; ppl cheat all the time behind closed doors with people that look like you lol; you dont "date' cause you dont have to; just be honest man ;)
@Bp-passport trust me the novelty of just being able to take woman and sleep with them wears off very quickly. The motivations are not always what they seem and can vary. There where times in my life where I had 5 or 6 casual girls, that was after a break up and I was my most insecure. I was looming to feel less empty. It was a false economy it worked for a small amount of time for a while but you end up feeling empty again and you may of hurt few nice girls in the process so no people can change. There's been other time I dated multiple girls around 6 at a time but that was again because I invested time in relationship which went wrong and I felt I didn't have the luxury of time to commit to one and risk going wrong. And if course there were the times I was just a selfish prick. I will say I hit a point where I started being faithful even in situations I didn't have to and it just felt addictive to be able to be respectful to myself and the other person, it raised the standard of that relationship. Nothing worse than a relationship tarnished by skeletons or lies, kinda brings around the demise of the relationship in the end. If you can't trust yourself u start thinking everyone is like that.
@@patrickcostigan2502It's good to see you being honest brother. Not many men and women are that honest nowadays. You very well know your own strengths and flaws. That shows you're a real mature man. And you also seem to be that rare breed that needs no validation from others but themselves. Just keep being you 💪
My personal story is that nobody wanted to hang out with me and i learnt that a lot of lies said behind my back. Also most of them just maked fan of me(infront of girls) and take advantage my introversion to destroy my confidence
The hardest thing to deal woth is when your good looking and a genuinley nice guy, people treat you like sh*t especially in your adult life. Literally being an asshole and stooping doen to their level is what they want
Bro I relate to this there's people even been following me and different kind of shit .Everyone jealous of me for no reason .It's reached the point where I don't even go out anymore .👎🏽
So a friend of mine sent me this video thinking id relate, but quite the opposite, my take: People with victim mentality mindset will find every excuse in the book to justify & blame their shortcomings on others rather than taking accountability for their actions Case and point: my friend who has lots of problems but blames it on being “handsome” which has nothing to do with his problems when i look at the kind of person he is. And ive told this to him many times as well As somebody who has been called handsome by many (hence why i was sent this) i’ve never ever considered this a problem and have never had this issue. I advice y’all look into yourself with honesty and accountability This is only a problem if you’ve spent your time building up your ego and identity into being “handsome and good looking” rather than building up your character and leveling up your life as far as: finances, fitness & social skills
lol nothing people say about you can make you look bad because you look good so most people are either not gonna believe it or just ignore it especially women you guys just make up fake scenarios in your head if youre an ugly guy like me just one dumb rumor is a death sentence and now any chance you had of getting a woman go from zilch to zero percent
I’m not the type that thinks everybody wants me but what he is saying is very true and it could be type scary that’s why staying to your self / minding your business is life or death to certain folks you must stand for something you must be committed to your morals it’s imperative to your everyday life
The why you speaking feels like you been through a lot of shit. I feel you, I’ve grew up and still living with a Covert Narcissist and their family being similar if not the same. It’s sad, it hurts when their once the closest people in your life like parents.
The story of My life, What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, Use it as few to continue to better yourself. Haters will hate there's nothing you can do about it So let them
It’s because average women and average men can’t compete with you … I mean, all things remain the same, are you going to want the pretty girl or the ugly one? Well, everything’s the same except the way they look-I’m taking the prettier one. And the only way an a rage on ugly person can combat that is to slander you to stigmatize you I noticed that too and I just started waking up to it this year. and it’s rooted in peoples insecurities
Bro my own family is against me I dumped my baby mama and they are mad and want to help her outshine me lmao had to cut em all off even her she was always jealous of me and tryin to lower my confidence and put me in competition with other males she was so corny lmao
Your family is mad because you made a family without the intent of making one. Now you have a baby's mama and a baby's mama's kid. You sound like you are competing for attention. Man, family is just helping family. Your family
It’s a lack of self esteem. People are jealous because you’re not attached to this 3D world and have things beyond it. You’re not worried about how u look, if u look good, if u look bad you’re just attractive. Being attractive is really an attitude, not a feature. Women nowadays call it being sassy but that’s just misdirection, it really means you’re bold or true to yourself, a women can’t break your character and that’s a good thing. Women try to emasculate men by making them feel like being true to themselves is “sassy”. It’s quite sad honestly, as a race we should have some more room for improvement but it seems like humans can’t let go of petty differences. That’s why I stay home. I have no interest in gaining new friends or lovers, everyone needs to work on themselves before thinking about making connections, there is too many people out here allowing their underlying mental illnesses get out of hand. It’s been like this since 2022 and I’m tired of it, I have to dip my head down like a horse every time I need someone to understand something it’s exhausting, if they don’t understand get rid of them. You can only set the bar so low
after being hated on for more than 10 years, i have decided to go to a boxing gym do intense training.. and every opponent that is issue im trying to deal with them accordingly... am i bugging or am i on the right path? ive let so much slide for too long.. and now im in my 30s i aint doing it!. im a grown man with things to do.
Good video. I had a similar experience. We have to understand its hard for these people. we only get 1 life and people feel like they got a shit deal. if we looked like them, we might feel the same. All you can do is expect it and also show humility where you can so you don't make people feel bad. Any shows of over-confidence will make them really mad. they think it's too good for you
It’s because people are immature and insecure. There are also clear signs at the beginning.
Yess look for the signs and they tell you the end
To all my handsome bros out there. Don't ever let yourself down by your peers trying to make you feel insecure and destroy your social status, follow your path, your goals and karma is gonna do it's job. It's gonna take years but it's all worth it in the end trust me. You're worth it ❤️👍🏼
I agree, I just stay away from ppl, like that.
Thanks brother
I definately resonate with this...For example, when you're handsome, most mfs won't even invite you to a party because they inecure...its crazy
Doubt its insecurity, who says you have to be invited
@@FvckEmWeUp I am not entitled at all...I get invited to parties but it’s always by someone who has more money or status than me...never by someone who thinks I’m better
Exactly
and theyre CORRECT 100% lmao.....you yourself would NOT invite your gf's crush from high school that is 3 points above you in looks, even if you're good looking, lets say (im making up a scenario to illustrate the point here)- fact is we, as any other animal out there, are in COMPETITION with each other for females, its sad but its the way its always has been :(- just be honest man ;)
Yap, i never understood this phenomenon until i got older
I've been called "Mr. Steal your girl" I'm thinking, dude, I 'm not taking your problem. If your girl would leave you for someone a little bit more attractive, than she will also leave me for someone more attractive than me. That's your problem, not mine.
They are too stupid to see this tho and even if u tell them... doesn't register... nothing there xD
Sadly not everyone has common sense like you
Truth
Yeah steal ur girl but I respect your girl more than she respects herself so imma build my confidence an try women that wanna try me not the other way around
When you are very good looking you have to sometimes dumb your self down or even admit to your faults in life to give people a sense of comfort.
Or kill anyone in their mind if they mess with you
@@hiddenleaf2 I tried and now I’m alone so now what?
@@Godzilla-ct2pp it’s better to be alone than with people who make you feel alone
I used to do that, but not anymore, because I used to feel so drained afterwards...If you can't keep up and raise your vibration to a positive level you got about 5 to 10 minutes of my time if that.
It don't worth it why suppress who you're for the seek of making someone comfortable who's already uncomfortable solely by your presence!I'm like it's not my issues but theirs if they are not comfortable being around me then that just the universe screaming they are not meant to be in my life
My life story, They try their hardest to kill your confidence, spread lies and rumours to ruin your social status. Envying the unattainable is insatiable.
Yes best to avoid people like that
Exactly
Sadly mostly women have tried to do this stuff to me. I don’t know why they are like this
It’s also a huge red flag 🚩 for Pathological Narcissism . Stay away from these demonic creatures.
They will die about you frfr bro I go through ts too
Yeah envious people do what they can to break you down mentally and emotionally. I take it as a compliment. Just smile it makes them more angry 😆
It does lol
That's a very good tip !
And you can’t even talk about this because they’ll label you as narcissistic
Facts 💯
just happened to me recently
My own female boss called me ugly to try to get at my confidence, I just laughed it off. Shit is weird.
Stay strong she probably feels rejected or is Envious of you
Its crazy when i weighed 350 pounds i was cool with all my friends. After i loat the weight and put on muscle, most are no where to be found. I also noticed attractive people are nicer to me now then less attractive people.
That's how it is my brother.
True asf
Coworkers are the worst with this.
They give so much negativity and fakeness.
I just be working and they look at me every 10 seconds.
I'm not doing anything but working.
Oh they hate you more than you can imagine.
Lol bro that's some extreme stuff out there. Can't imagine being you. These envious people are too funny man
@harpersnyder2297 they just too funny and lopsided like a uneven cake tasting funny asf
Even some narcissistic women will hate on you, because they know they can’t have you or they feel insecure around you, they will create situations to try to hurt your confidence
Jealous people are dangerous. People shouldn't be punished for their looks. Be they ugly or beautiful.
Beautiful statement
Very well said.
*Shanquella..... RIP
Well just bc they shouldn't be punished for looks doesn't mean its not happening
Amen 🙏
I've always noticed attractive men get it even worse than women. Esp. in industries and elite societies. If you notice, the most powerful men in the world are NEVER really physically attractive for some reason. It's a paradox because they always say beautiful people get it easier in life but at the same time, a lot of "blockage" is being set for them. The human race is so immature and primitive on this issue. Hopefully we can evolve past that.
The human race is primitive for a lot of things
Bruh, looking at the way society treats celebrities say's it all. All these guys getting assaulted or pressured into sex for gigs, but to the world its hilarious because gay. The ugly truth is alot of people get off to seeing people they think better hurt, especially when it comes to looks.
You cannot just be yourself- you have to fight back and make them regret they messed with you.
Ya, just they are way too many. And immoral. You need a team of some sort tbh
@@hobosapien7735 facts, its happening to me rn its actually killing me
@@jonasnesfeldt8125 me too at work and they are VERY YOUNG like 10 years younger than me so there is no maturity on they part and wont change anytime soon
@@ElMundoDeSam95 the ones who had the thought to target me are old as f and was at the time I was the most vulnerable and naive, haters who don't stand each other gathered each time to study and plot, I was gazlit, used and abused and then portrayed as the mentally instable antagonistic. Wish me well guys.
@@harounben342 we got to understand that those men who hate us are invisible to women and they are resentful they see us and think "this guy lives the live i dreamed of" thats why they hate us so much and yeah old men and women hate on me also they also i had male coworkers LIE ABOUT THEY LIFE to make them feel above me...
Bro I’m literally going through this now. It’s crazy, rumors, lies, etc. Anytime I come around people, they always act weird and get quiet and make faces. I don’t do shit to anyone, it’s crazy!
Atleast you figured it out early. I let them destroy me emotionally. Ignore them. They are not worth your contact.
Bro I thought I had friends who were genuine and literally backstabbed me! This video 100% resonated!
Glad you liked it!!
Been going through this crap my whole life. That's why I don't like most social gatherings. Dudes always trying to compete with me and it spills over to disrespect. People that don't know you conspiring to rob or jump me because "He thinks he's all that". Unattractive women have shown me the same distain too.
Totally
Seriously . Ugly women hate me and fat men especially. they got it out for me
Deal with unattractive woman is even worse
ugly women hate us the most lol
Bro, I always have dudes trying to start shit with me- I thought I was doing something wrong but all of long, they were jealous of my looks
I dont want to come off as arrogant or big headed but ive never had to approach a woman for sex or a relationship in my life and i can resonate with everything this video explains. The hatred I get from men (and some women) especially whilst they are around their girlfriends is overwhelming sometimes and I have found myself having to leave the company of them. Being handsome can be a real curse sometimes. Whats worse is that im 58 now and I get this kind of hatred from people half my age. Another thing what makes it worse is that if you have a great heart, intelligence and personality as well as good looks then people just find you too good to be true. The most beautiful flower blooms in adversity.
You know what your telling the truth
@@MilitantSuspect And telling the truth will also get you hate. You cant win in a backwards world.
Powerful statement
It's not arrogance. It's actually for me confusing at first. Then I caught on. I'm 6'2', very muscular and cut, handsome along with those other traits you've mentioned. It's like the world has more of a game plan than just living and meeting people. Awareness is key. Because now you can have your well thought out response to such things. At the end of the day, it's all because people are attracted, mad they aren't like you and/or both. NGL, sometimes I purposely walk arrogantly just to get to them. But not an everyday thing.
@@jessebradford7130 We can all have our opinions but ultimately women will choose who the best looking man is regardless of how much u bench in the gym. I have never had to approach women for sex and like I say its always been them who wanted sex from me and I know its superficial but looks are the first thing women go for, I have experienced this all my life and I feel sorry for the men who were not born with good looks. No amount of gym will sway a woman who is sexually attracted to a mans looks.
I got betrayed by my own sibling and she ain't pretty. She made bad lies to my parents to hate me. Bro thank you for this message, it's time to delete and block some evil family members for life. Please pray for me bruv, the man is struggling.
She’s just a shame smh
Sorry to hear that these things are common
Jesus has a strong anointed on ur life your like joesouph in the bible.
This is very true....I also experience this a lot. It's because we handsome men are selected and they are not.... they just can't stand it, just stay strong and remember you are selected. Knowing you're selected keeps you strong and makes it less difficult to deal with envious people
haha this is fight with sharp sword
Bruv I used to be a chubby fat, so I was good looking but not ‘hot’. People didn’t have a problem with me. I started taking care of myself, loosing weight and I became ‘hot’ - and now it’s non stop attacks
Yeah, fools hate me. I'm 5'6" and pull women without working hard. All because i'm a handsome man.
They can’t use the height excuse 😂😂😂
Same, exactly the same man smh
Being handsome has proven to be much more of a curse than a blessing. Didn't even realize I was allegedly handsome forever because of my low self esteem from emotional abuse. But for sure the amazingly insane hatred from nowhere outweighs the benefits I've gotten from women's attention. Decent amount of tail and compliments really don't balance the abuse and tangible real world damage. Really fucked with my head most of my life till I realised about envy.
It comes with being pre select bro. Just embrace it. As long as nobody puts their hands on you ignore them.
This is what comes with being a top 10% guy.
That's the best way yet, much respect Bro ✊️ 🙏💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
When they act like that its because your game is to tight ✊️✊️
Big fkn fax 💯
literally the only good and right comment about this here
i feel a lot of these handsome dudes whining are just too emotional and have mental issues
just ignore the haters lol its really that simple
@@user-ec4yw5hj3rthat’s easy for you to say. I wonder how handsome you are. Being a 10 I’ve been jumped and had to fight multiple people because of it. So just ignore it is something a 6 or 7 would say
Same brother, I have been dealing with this my whole life, I never really had close friends for too long. My whole life I have been fighting dudes who start things first when they would see me chilling. In college it was way worse, men would try to compete with me knowing I only came to college to study. I also received evil eyes a couple times when I went out. I'm learning to work on my character now though, the fight isnt over yet!
Cool
I can totally relate, and some people think we have it really easy in society because we are good looking, when there are guys that will do anything to Basically bully us because we are "pretty boys"....
People mean mug me and it's like WTF did I do to jelly.
The best you can do in these situations is focus on your character. Your character tells it all about who you are, reputation is based off of others. The way you feel about you holds more weight than how others feel about you. You are beautiful and your character is beautiful ❤
Thankyou
I grew up genuinely believing I wasn't shit and something was wrong with me because a lot of other guys started hating on me around 12-13 when puberty kicked in, the only constant that has kept me going is women. Of course I had some great friends, but I had no problem getting girls so that's what I did and not even trying to sound arrogant but I believe that's where a lot of the hate came from growing up. Absolutlely unprovoked needless hate man. Now that I'm older I'm realizing if I was really as worthless some people made me feel I'd have never attracted the women I have and will continue to attract. I take some pride in knowing that.
Totally relate. Going to an all boys school didn't help either 👀
Even our family members won't bring their wives around us, and our best friends won't put us in their weddings as a groomsmen 🎯
Chosen ones. Are getting targeted it’s true story the demons are loose on earth
Not sure what your beliefs are but I am a Christian and once I truly gave my life to Purpose, enemies popped up. I am a regular looking girl (in my eyes), I have flaws that I see in the mirror. Basically, I wouldn’t say I’m a 8+/10, but because I am favored and my blessings are unable to be hidden, people hate on me. I lose friends left and right. They are all nice when they first meet me. I guess I give off the vibe of approachable, not too pretty not ugly, but when they see how I live…they can’t handle it.
Don’t ever change that learn as much as you can and keep God first in all you do and everything will work smoothly. Give no place to Satan because he will try to steal and destroy everything in your life, I know from experience. These demons are ruthless and they want you to give them an open door just to torment you and destroy you.
Your the light. Your enemie is the darkness. Keep fighting don’t give up and trust intuition it will direct u were to go and 🙏 god is with u . Some family and friends turn against us. They can’t stand the 💡 true story
Light exposes darkness
Jealousy and envy destroys people. The truth is that the haters, especially other men, are actually your secret admirers. They will never admit it nor want to accept it. Its always the person projecting their own insecurities onto another who they would swap places with in a heartbeat.
True sometimes beauty is a curse. Envy is an awful negative emotion often seen in narcissistic types, envy and jealousy rule the lives of those who feel inferior. Keep envious ppl away from you.
Wow had to explain this to my son who is a pretty boy. School is a testing ground for dealing with envious kids and parents etc.
and staff. My son has an envious staff member
Your own parents ?
I have lost count of how many times in my life someone has said to me, “when I first saw you…” What followed would be negative up to the point of saying “I wanted to whoop your ass”. This would be without knowing me or having heard me speak a single word. I learned to make an extra effort to smile, be outgoing, and put people at ease. It helps some, but I still catch hate.
Facts in this bruh👍 jealousy is annoying and very dangerous i can't even go to places i used to without someone trying to test me or some jealous broad trying to set me up, it's ridiculous.
True beauty /power lies within,
its a gift if you can spot it from the outside.
Same thing happened to me evil jealous “family” made me homeless over and over since I was 17 and they kept trying to push me to suicide then claim elderly abuse when there actual demon possessed child abusers who deserve to be laughed at for the true clowns they are. Makes me sick to my stomach I still shake with disgust just being near people that remind me of the people that used me for years and years then tried to gaslight me into thinking I was sone crazy delusional person. This world is a terrible place.
Sorry bro, I feel you, I’ve been through tough times in life that pushed my to the edge, much love from me 🙏❤️
Bro that's some extreme stuff out there. I'm speechless
Good luck brother. Just remember God is always by our side if we always remember and cherish him. Look up the story of prophet Yusef AS. He went through alot of stuff that we go through
that sucks and i can relate but at least you are handsome im assuming so you can find happiness
Same story for me I was wondering why people hated me before they hadn't even met me and they would always put me down and I had no clue why until I noticed It was always unattractive people who would put me down not the good looking people
Whole comment section: “UGH I RELATE SO MUCH TO THIS!!!”.
This is the truth, I have had many situations where the occurrence made zero sense. People assume I’m fucking with them or challenging them just by asking if they’re finished/or can I work in. My friend tells me that none of the stuff that happens to me happens to him and I am about 8.5 9. I’m glad these videos are coming to the surface cause it made no sense to me why certain men challenge me for literally no reason, I give the shit right back however.
"envy is a trait from hell"
you're life will skyrocket instantly without them
I need you to hate, so I can use you for your energy -50 cent
True. Beauty privilege is real in part but not enough people talk about the curse of beauty. What really irks them is when they realise that beauty is more than skin deep. They dont want to accept that because it means they have to take responsibility for their own lack of beautiful qualities. *)
The Same. Never hide your beauty for the devil’s satisfaction. 🅰️
If i see someone that is handsome or beautiful i tell them straight out like damm your handsome or hot I think what really matters is the spirit that lives with the meat suit this avatar is temporary beauty fades with time but your soul is everlasting
nah some people age well
brad pitt for example
the point is a lot of people gotta deal with getting uglier and uglier
@@user-ec4yw5hj3r what can be considered ugly to some might be perceived as beautiful to others
Speaking facts soon as I got in shape and started building muscles the hate started coming that’s why I stay to myself and move in silence 💯💯
I've been living with this all my life, other women, colleagues, "friends,"and family members. I can walk into a room, say hello to everyone, and get hated on for no reason. I get envy and competition from other women when I was merely being myself. Envy is a horrible thing.
Bang on Young man! WELL DONE FOR SPEAKING OUT.. and plus you got youth on your side too, i have seen this video three times and the more i watch it the more i can say i deal with same everyday of my life and i turned 40 in feb this year 2023...i wouldnt say i come close to a 6 or 7 or 8 but ive always been told i was attractive or good looking and sometimes we here that and then we think hang on are they being real or they plotting, you never know someones intention or what ever they say is real. peace to you bro good luck
Thankyou more videos on envy soon
King👑. You spoke nothing but truth. its my life all my life as i asses my past as well as current but i let them go. All of them. You just explained my whole life young blood.🙏🏾🙏🏾🦾🦾🦾🦾
Thankyou brother
with great power comes great responsibility
Im a good looking dude with long blonde hair. Ive always had low self esteem even though women call me handsome/gorgeous etc because of the way certain dudes treat me. Once I realized this was their intention, I stopped caring and gained my confidence. Funniest part is dudes who do things like that never make the comments to your face. They will make them about you sneakily while trying to maintain plausible deniability
Same bro. I was a lil bit chubby. I git leaner and built some muscle. I realised that women starting getting attracted to me meanwhile all my friends started getting rude. They started telling me i got fat, i look like a woman etc and being rude for no reason. Now i watched this video and i am understanding that they are just jealous
I relate broski , I practice to be quiet and to be silent against haters in my job. Also i made my own gym
💯💯💯💯💯 Thanks for your powerful words, I notice that we are not all alone feeling like this 💪💪💪💪💪 we gotta go for our prime always no matter what anyway
Wow this video came from no where i can relate to this video very much bro👍🏾
LOL! I can see and understand your frustration bruh! I got family in my own house who became one of my biggest enemies! Friend I grew up with that hate my guts and ran a smear campaign against me! I was hated all thru school just like you and always had people coming after me till this day! I’m 48 now bruh n it’s still going on. You see I didn’t believe in jealousy or envy because it didn’t exist in me! How could I understand when my mother use to tell me way back in the day when I was in 6th grade that they were jealous of me ! I thought yeah yeah that’s something people just say! It wasn’t till 2018 I began to realize it was real! It’s written about all over the Bible! The women love me till this day! From 18 year old to 55 year olds! The attraction will never change as long as you keep yourself decent and don’t become bitter, but the hate will always be there too because they want to be you and see you as a threat! It’s the price we got to pay… in other words it’s the balance, can’t have night without the day. I run with dudes who get women like me, surround ya self with your a alikes to find a breathing space but the hating will never end!
Yess
I'm in a county that's only 5% black. There aren't many that are 6ft, athletic, white collar, educated etc. The girls like it but most people are mad. I used to be mad, but I realized I can't let strangers dictate my emotions. Even if it's MANY strangers doing it. Now I just rub their noses in it, fight me 😉
I saw like 300 black people in my life
Lool
Hey man, kudos to you for the courage to make this video. I feel like we handsome men and women are a special group of people that need safe spaces for us, the hate is absolutely insane
I'm going to comment as a woman who has been around a lot of handsome men- Do not dull your shine for anyone. I can also say this , stay handsome
Yes!!
Thanx bro. Aprreciate that
Thankyou
I wish i realized this sooner it ALWAYS happened behind the scenes. envy is how death came into the world as well.
Wait until people start turning others against you, management in the gym told members of the gym to not have interaction with you all cos you have a better physique than the personal trainers. When you get your body game up EVEN girls will be disrespectful to you aswel as men, wait till people stop talkin to you cos a girl they couldn't get likes u instead. An people spread rumours about you, but you can't prove it. But you can feel it. But yet after all the hate they're throwing at you, they're still watching you spying on you hoping that you give up an don't progress.
It has nothing to do with looks. I'm short, overweight and not too ugly, but the same reactions I get...weirdness. I do know the difference between ugly reactions and weirdness. I agree on most of what you're saying. I blame social media. Dont get sucked in.
Hmmm
This dude said not too ugly😂😂😂
Copium 😂
It’s a thing where it for sure has is benefits, but the people don’t have it understand there are also cons. They only see the benefits. Even the opposite sex can have envy. I’d still rather have it this way though 😂 Keeps your game sharp & you know what to look for if you train yourself.
I think it can go multiple ways. I found some girls are drawn to me because I look a certain way and they presume an image of who they think I am. I've been told I'm very masculine looking and I have noticed recently alot of same sex female couples I will get dirty looks from one of them, im presuming the dominant one. Alot of putting the arm around clingy to their partner. I even hear the odd snigger when I'm minding my own business. I've had bitchyness of groups of males also and uncomfortably I've had woman thinking I should feel its a compliment for them to touch me which if it happens to you, its can be awkward and ur unsure how to react. But I have to say it's also worked for me in positive ways in the way some people gave treated me. I think my biggest frustration is from those people who are resentful of life and they focus their negative energy on me, building this picture in their head because I might be attractive that my life is perfect and I gave no worries and u can feel them wishing u bad lol. In all honesty nowadays I don't date, like being on my own and although it's nice to be attractive its not the mist important thing in my life. It can attract the wrong woman who are shallow with no substance. I explained to a guy a couple of guys the other day that I don't date anymore and that I get asked for my number etc but I'm happy on my own and because he can't get a date was like poor u Patrick like its my fault he can't. Anyway I try not to card too much, people always going to say something and it's a liberating feeling not caring and just being u🙏
you probably took that couple home that night; ppl cheat all the time behind closed doors with people that look like you lol; you dont "date' cause you dont have to; just be honest man ;)
@Bp-passport trust me the novelty of just being able to take woman and sleep with them wears off very quickly. The motivations are not always what they seem and can vary. There where times in my life where I had 5 or 6 casual girls, that was after a break up and I was my most insecure. I was looming to feel less empty. It was a false economy it worked for a small amount of time for a while but you end up feeling empty again and you may of hurt few nice girls in the process so no people can change. There's been other time I dated multiple girls around 6 at a time but that was again because I invested time in relationship which went wrong and I felt I didn't have the luxury of time to commit to one and risk going wrong. And if course there were the times I was just a selfish prick. I will say I hit a point where I started being faithful even in situations I didn't have to and it just felt addictive to be able to be respectful to myself and the other person, it raised the standard of that relationship. Nothing worse than a relationship tarnished by skeletons or lies, kinda brings around the demise of the relationship in the end. If you can't trust yourself u start thinking everyone is like that.
@@patrickcostigan2502It's good to see you being honest brother. Not many men and women are that honest nowadays. You very well know your own strengths and flaws. That shows you're a real mature man. And you also seem to be that rare breed that needs no validation from others but themselves. Just keep being you 💪
Bro you're speaking facts, they are evil bro. Can't help themselves. Jealousy is sick
I can identify with this very easily. There is envy even from my Mother in Law, unbelievable!!!!
I always go back to this video it’s your best one and sadly too true
thankyoi
You got a gift bro people just want to be you & they don’t have what you have.
Thankyou
thats what im saying so he should have nothing to complain about
@@user-ec4yw5hj3r lol
My personal story is that nobody wanted to hang out with me and i learnt that a lot of lies said behind my back. Also most of them just maked fan of me(infront of girls) and take advantage my introversion to destroy my confidence
The hardest thing to deal woth is when your good looking and a genuinley nice guy, people treat you like sh*t especially in your adult life. Literally being an asshole and stooping doen to their level is what they want
@@DeedeForede yes they are looking for a reaction rise above it and ignore their existence
This is very true!
Bro I relate to this there's people even been following me and different kind of shit .Everyone jealous of me for no reason .It's reached the point where I don't even go out anymore .👎🏽
That's not good for you either bro but I can relate
This fine gentleman gets it.
So a friend of mine sent me this video thinking id relate, but quite the opposite, my take:
People with victim mentality mindset will find every excuse in the book to justify & blame their shortcomings on others rather than taking accountability for their actions
Case and point: my friend who has lots of problems but blames it on being “handsome” which has nothing to do with his problems when i look at the kind of person he is. And ive told this to him many times as well
As somebody who has been called handsome by many (hence why i was sent this) i’ve never ever considered this a problem and have never had this issue. I advice y’all look into yourself with honesty and accountability
This is only a problem if you’ve spent your time building up your ego and identity into being “handsome and good looking” rather than building up your character and leveling up your life as far as: finances, fitness & social skills
Oh wow I didn't even know my videos were recognised like that
how is being ugly and complaining about it a "shortcoming" ?
im ugly as shit thanks to my parents i am a victim
It’s jealously, I get the vibez more from beautiful women who are single
Really? Women envy men?
@@becomingabetterman1159 yes and vice versa, it’s human nature
@@becomingabetterman1159 so u can gtf with your sarcasm
@@YoungEli9 haven't seen a man who envies a woman because she's pretty
@@becomingabetterman1159 same but Im sure they’re out there
People will do evil stuff to you and never tell you , trust no one
Cowards are only dangerous if you trust them...
lol nothing people say about you can make you look bad because you look good so most people are either not gonna believe it or just ignore it especially women
you guys just make up fake scenarios in your head
if youre an ugly guy like me just one dumb rumor is a death sentence and now any chance you had of getting a woman go from zilch to zero percent
Powerful message 🤝💯🔥
I’m not the type that thinks everybody wants me but what he is saying is very true and it could be type scary that’s why staying to your self / minding your business is life or death to certain folks you must stand for something you must be committed to your morals it’s imperative to your everyday life
Agreed ❤
Yep. It's not easy but somebody has to be those people.
The why you speaking feels like you been through a lot of shit. I feel you, I’ve grew up and still living with a Covert Narcissist and their family being similar if not the same. It’s sad, it hurts when their once the closest people in your life like parents.
The story of My life, What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, Use it as few to continue to better yourself. Haters will hate there's nothing you can do about it So let them
It fukin hurts man it sooo hard to find real friends and the hate is crazy I pray every day 😭
I relate so much to this I thought I was alone
It’s because average women and average men can’t compete with you … I mean, all things remain the same, are you going to want the pretty girl or the ugly one? Well, everything’s the same except the way they look-I’m taking the prettier one.
And the only way an a rage on ugly person can combat that is to slander you to stigmatize you
I noticed that too and I just started waking up to it this year. and it’s rooted in peoples insecurities
Bro my own family is against me I dumped my baby mama and they are mad and want to help her outshine me lmao had to cut em all off even her she was always jealous of me and tryin to lower my confidence and put me in competition with other males she was so corny lmao
@J J not the case I get where you coming from but this was more about putting in her head she don't need me they kinda pushed her to disrespect me
Your family is mad because you made a family without the intent of making one. Now you have a baby's mama and a baby's mama's kid. You sound like you are competing for attention. Man, family is just helping family. Your family
It’s a lack of self esteem. People are jealous because you’re not attached to this 3D world and have things beyond it. You’re not worried about how u look, if u look good, if u look bad you’re just attractive. Being attractive is really an attitude, not a feature. Women nowadays call it being sassy but that’s just misdirection, it really means you’re bold or true to yourself, a women can’t break your character and that’s a good thing. Women try to emasculate men by making them feel like being true to themselves is “sassy”. It’s quite sad honestly, as a race we should have some more room for improvement but it seems like humans can’t let go of petty differences. That’s why I stay home. I have no interest in gaining new friends or lovers, everyone needs to work on themselves before thinking about making connections, there is too many people out here allowing their underlying mental illnesses get out of hand. It’s been like this since 2022 and I’m tired of it, I have to dip my head down like a horse every time I need someone to understand something it’s exhausting, if they don’t understand get rid of them. You can only set the bar so low
woww smart guy
Awesome video brother, straight truth
PREACH BROTHER! SOOO GLAD I FOUND YOUR VIDEO!!!
Thankyou!
Remember guys no homo but when a guy calls u ugly, just think the opposite
Never hate yourself because your skin
at first i thought something was wrong with me, Plus true they want you to be broke for real
2:58 instead of trying to bring themselves up to your level; they try to break you down.
So true! Love Everything about this video. We Chocolate Handsome, Successful brothers stay positive and keep the haters out our lives! Yeah!😆
Bums hate the king
They tried to poison the king 👑
after being hated on for more than 10 years, i have decided to go to a boxing gym do intense training.. and every opponent that is issue im trying to deal with them accordingly... am i bugging or am i on the right path? ive let so much slide for too long.. and now im in my 30s i aint doing it!. im a grown man with things to do.
yeah been a loner for years because of this the harsh reality of being handsome
My bestfriend if 6feet chad type guy the amount of my friends hate him is insane like he is one the good heart bro with no ego .he deserve this 👏❤
U a good one for that u should talk to him and inform him why they doing that in case he doesn’t know
I didnt understand this until I became an adult. People will project their insecurities on you like Hadoukens lol,
I can totally relate to what you are saying bro.
Good video. I had a similar experience. We have to understand its hard for these people. we only get 1 life and people feel like they got a shit deal. if we looked like them, we might feel the same. All you can do is expect it and also show humility where you can so you don't make people feel bad. Any shows of over-confidence will make them really mad. they think it's too good for you
Moat reasonable comment bro 🎉
Only one life is a shit deal. My life is endless i go through metamorphysis but i dont die.