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Just want to say how appreciative I am that throughout this whole thing, Sophia has not once mentioned the fact that her and Robin are not even Chinese - not during the encounter nor in the explanations/discussions afterwards. It would have been easy, even instinctual, to fact check him and say "Look man, we're not even Chinese," but this is a reality that all Asian-Americans are facing right now, and I truly believe we need to support and lift each other up instead of pushing "blame"
I didn’t even think of that; but really put things into perspective. Thank you for sharing that and agree that Sophia handled this really well. Sophia, so sorry you had to witness that! ❣️
Yes! As a Chinese woman, I agree with you. I really appreciate that Sophia and her sister did not jump to react that way. I’ve noticed with the pandemic there have been some divisiveness within the Asian community when we should all be standing together. ❤️
this!!!
Thank you for bringing this up!! Shifting the blame to the "other" Asian just perpetuates the racism.
Thank you for speaking out, Sophie. The Black community deals with this on a daily basis so we know how you feel. Your experience isn’t any less than ours. I’m always amazed by the audacity of white folks who really believe that this land belongs to them. Unless you’re Native American, we’re all immigrants. Tickled to know that James Hilbrant lost his job with Prudential. ✊🏾
Honestly, appreciate you for saying that our experience isn't any less than our black friends. It's true that we don't get as much racism as our black friends, but it hurts never the less when we do get it. I've seen so many comments saying stop complaining, ur not black and black people get it worse. Not denying that at all, just sayin, we're all human and even those who get it less hurt too and want ro talk about it and shed light on it. Thank u for your comment ❤️
Just another black women popping in to say ditto. It amazes me how some white folks feel entitled to say or do whatever they please and KNOW they won’t face any consequences. Speaks to how embedded white supremacy is into the fabric of America.
Flowers to show support🌻🌻
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That's justice that he's out of the company! If the motto of Prudential is diversity, helping people, he doesn't belong there!
The power of not staying silent and speaking, is the lesson I learned today, thank you Sophia!
I’m sorry this happened to you, it’s not right! But please don’t stereo type people who support Trump as all being like the man who offended you. We do not all think or behave the same way. Thanks!
Norma Garza I don’t believe that is the message she is trying to convey here.
Valerie Salcedo i understand what her message was and I am truly disappointed and disgusted that people think they can insult us by saying racist comments. However, I am referring to (time stamp 14:30) where she said “ Newport has many Trump supported and they think they are invisible “. I’m just stating that that particular comment is bias. Not all Trump supporters behave in that way nor think they are invisible. The mans behavior is wrong and it needs to stop, but please don’t put all trump supporters in his same group. I hope this explains my comment , I’m not discrediting her feels, I would be livid as well if it happened to me.
Just saw that the person who made those remarks at the restaurant was fired from Prudential. I'm just glad that you have this platform with such a large following so that they can see that this happens to a lot of people on a daily basis. Hadn't been recorded and posted on your social media people would've brushed it off as nothing happened. So. I'm glad luck was on your side.
Where was this post about him being fired? Can you post?
@@trojanfan1960 thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/518028-prudential-fires-man-who-allegedly-told-sophia-chang-go-back-to
Trojan Fan it’s on her Instagram account
WOW. I am completely stunned and sickened to my very core by what Sophia has done. A man said a few flippant, albeit stupid and racist, remarks, and she purposely sought him out, stalked him online, and publicly defamed him as a "villain" -- carrying a torch and essentially asking for his head on a stick -- to thousands of people. WOW. Sophia -- So he slapped you on the face, and you have to turn around and stab him in the gut?? Is that justice to you? Do you truly understand the implications of your actions? For his livelihood, career, his family, and their lives? For Prudential, and what a MESS you inflicted on them? Do you care at all? Or are you just so caught up in your own "victimization" that nothing else matters but lashing out? I thought you were better than this. But I guess when an angry mob cheers you on, you feel justified. 🤦
Erica Chan girl what??? should she not have done anything and just sit there and take it instead? if anything he deserved it. He had it coming tbh for saying that. It would teach him a lesson to not be racist. He should have known that his actions will have consequences and unluckily for him, Sophia is a well-known person with power to bring him down.
Thank you for recognizing that Black people go through this way more often. Having to leave your house always on alert because you never know what racist remark you’ll randomly encounter that day. It’s daunting
agree specially if your kids are with you, I pray that if I encounter similar incident that my kids are not with me. I dont want them learning hate in young age
That is subjectie. I know Blackpeople who have never experienced racism and know many Asians who have many experiences.
S Lee booo! Keep that to yourself
@@stfusylvia AGREED!
@@slee9024 thats not true! But go off😒✌🏽
My mom didn’t know who you were but she heard about your incident at blue water grill and could not believe what happened to you & your sister. Thank you for using your platform to SPEAK on your experience. Nobody should have to go through that 🥺😤 I hope this never happens to me or my loved ones but if it does - I hope I have the same strength you & your sister did to stand up for myself 🤞🏼❤️
thank you Sophia for being so brave
Honestly from my own experience of racism being a lighter skinned black British women. I always used to think of it as "oh it's not that bad because someone has it worse, people are being killed and I'm just being verbally abused", but over time it builds up inside and it's taken me a long time to be ok with saying my experience is valid, my emotions are valid.
Yes!! So agree! And so sorry u had to go through that! Glad you're comfortable with saying how u feel, don't feel guilty! U should never have to go through something like that let alone feel guilty about feeling sad, scared, etc. ❤️
It’s okay to acknowledge both issue at hand. It is true that racism against BP is very common and violent. But don’t forget to validate your own experiences as well.
Sophie, you continue to be a staunch advocate against racism. I applaud you and admire how you can look beyond your own situation and still try to bring awareness that this is something that happens to others with very different outcomes. No one should have to face these types of situations. Thank you and we stand with you just as firmly as you stand with us.
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Period he messed with the wrong sisters proud of you for speaking up ❤️❤️❤️
"We didn't want to give this man power" oof that's a word. I want to remember that for now on if this ever happens to me in the future. Ughhh my blood boiled with y'all. Thanks Sophie and Robin for just being bold and handling it very well.
I also really want to know what ends up happening to the dude if anything
@@kaitseb8053 According to Prudential's IG account, they terminated him.
Thank you for this. I am Korean, and live in nyc, the most diverse city in the country and was subjected to disgusting verbal racism on the subway by a young black girl. I did not speak up at the time and just ignored her but it really haunts to me. Racism is so wrong and it’s not just privileged white people - it’s everyone.. praying for a cure for ignorance..🙏
thank you sophia for speaking up about asian racism even in the US, being singaporean I've faced racism in London specifically, and it's such a shame especially in COUNTRIES within europe, I feel like while BLM has been a topic I've spoken about so much on my own Instagram and talked about BLM and the importance of it, its finally time to stand up about asian racism and ANY RACISM is UNACCEPTABLE, and I've been following your IG about the newport beach incident and I'm so sorry this happened to you and robin, it's absolutely disgusting and thank you for using your platform to stand up against racism.
Europe is not a country
zara H I’m talking about Europe in general. I did say COUNTRIE(S) more than one. I’ve been to European countries before and I know Europe is a continent. Thanks.
I've been in circumstances of racism...sucks that it makes you feel shitty, but you shouldn't feel that way. I feel bad and sorry for folks that think they're entitled to make comments and treat others ill because of their dead soul. I'm disgusted that folks like that exist.
It's so heartbreaking that you had to go through that Sophia - that kind of behavior is never okay. Thank you for using your voice to speak up about this!
I understand why you feel that way. Growing up, I was bullied for being Asian my entire life, in little ways, what I now learned as microagressions. The racism I experienced has negatively impacted my self esteem and self confidence my entire life. I am so proud that you spoke up and and didn’t stay quiet. Until you experience racism, you’ll never understand how it can affect someone. Much love ♥️
Never apologize for "being a downer" because you're not. Thank you for raising awareness and standing up to racism. As an Asian American, this is a constant fear especially during coronavirus and I am so glad there are people like you out there who make me feel so much more confident about being an American citizen and knowing my rights.
I really needed this video Sophia. I just dealt with an older white man trying to be racist to me and my friend while working yesterday. Racism is just a major issue, they really do feel entitled and it just makes me sad how disrespectful the world has gotten.
I am so glad you were able to expose his hate and racism, and that he received real-world consequences. Not in a vengeful way, but to destroy this mindset racists have that they are untouchable and superior because nobody will call out their behavior and that the public will never see it. Its so gross. Thanks for yours and Robins bravery confronting him. Wishing you both peace in your ability to move forward :)
I agree he deserved it but I don't think you can argue that what happened to him wasn't vengeful? Not necessarily what Sophia did but her followers were a mob out for blood on the restaurant and Prudential Instagram pages.
Thank you for sharing
All levels of racism are valid. These "smaller" incidents breeds space for "larger" acts of racism which are as you said of higher magnitude. Glad that you make sense of your personal incident. ♥️
As an Asian myself I truly resonate with tour story so much. I also appreciate you highlighting the layers of privilege too.
Sophia, you ended up on the Korean news as well, idk if you know. But sorry this happened to you. It’s sad to see the world like this.
Can you post the Korean news story?
Trojan Fan czcams.com/video/SyZe8sNrmX4/video.html ; here ya go👍🏼
@@Naty.12.20 thanks. Should have just googled it. There are a bunch of national stories on this. Blew up big time.
do you guys know if the guy eventually got fired? seems liek the place was "investigating" it
i just love binge-watching your vids sophia!!!!
Thank you for sharing what you both went through. Your thoughts and feelings are valid.
Thinking of both of you ❤️
These vlogs bring me a sense of peace even with a lot going on in the world. I cherish these simple vlogs so thank you!!❤️❤️
I appreciate Robin’s and your sense of self where you don’t let negative energy affect you. The negativity is unbalancing but your equilibrium won out. I on the other hand would give back the negativity to them.
The restaurant’s story is still giving me chills omg, I hope people will be more conscious and awaked about this issues. Thank you for sharing this. 💛
I look forward to your videos! They bring me peace.
School and worrying about not getting an internship/applying to internship is driving my anxiety through the roof so this was WELL NEEDED
I actually miss those days. Enjoy college, even the stressful parts. I'll makes you a stronger person and comes in handy when you get a "real job". You'll be find and you will end up where you are supposed to be. 🥰💯😊
Good luck with everything
I’m going through the same thing! I got lucky and found an internship that I love, but now I need to find another placement for next semester 😥 It is stressful, especially with working and taking other classes as well. Idk what field you are in, but I have found that everyone in my human services internship program has reported having very lenient supervisors and profs during these crazy times. Best of luck!!
@@NikD215 This is reassuring but really hard to grasp! Things just seem so hard right now
@@JellyBelly2148 Thank you so much
2:43 when her breakfast is pure aesthetic and she gracefully enjoys it by the counter❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. As Asian Americans we are both marginalized and privileged. We experience racism and our feelings around those experiences are valid. However, as Non Black PoC there are also situations when we benefit from the lightness of our skin. It's our responsibility to understand colorism and break down its complexities. Our experience does not compare to Black folx and being anti-racist is lifelong work both on and off the screen. Thank you for acknowledging that. It is fortunate that you are not hurt and that you can speak about this on social media. Don't put shame on yourself for that, keep using your voice to talk about what's important.
I disagree with your statement! Asian Americans are marginalized every single day, we usually stay quiet about it. We usually try to reason with reason and blame ourselves for being victims of racism. I was born and raised in the U.S. and I can say from experience, that the racism I faced, that my family faced, as Asian Americans has been profound. The institutional racism for all people of color is so real and I have witnessed it all. I don’t think we should compare who had the worst experiences. Racism is disgusting and wrong, period. I have been forever, negatively impacted and traumatized by the racism I experienced and still do to this day. Open you eyes and it’s all around you. #endracismforall!
So proud of you Sophia!! Keep fighting the good fight!
*I look forward to these monthly vlogs all. The. Time.* 😄
I look forward to your vlogs everytime Sophia!!! 💖
your vlogs are not only aesthetic, but they're so soothing and calming. keep it up! these don't go unnoticed.
Yes!!!! Another Sophie vlog! 🥳🥳🥳 I love watching your videos right when I wake up or when I'm eating my breakfast in the morning! Always looking forward to new videos Sophie! ❤️
Don’t feel like u can’t feel the way u do or feel guilty because racism against asians happen every damn day but just not spoken about as much ad blm issues. We shouldn’t feel guilty about talkings about it just because there are bigger issues out there. There will always be bigger issues out there, doesn’t mean we don’t feel hurt, doesn’t mean we don’t face racism. I’m so happy u shed light on racist towards asians. We need more influencers to talk about the asian race. We need other races to step up and help us too. All poc should help each other out, we’re stronger together! So proud of u guys! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing this! It’s so disturbing how some people think they’re so entitled and have such little regard for what it means to treat others fairly. You and your sister handled it well. Your realness and awareness is so appreciated 💕
Aww Michi is so cute! She loves you!! So sweet that Weylie made you breakfast! 🥞 🍳 You guys are bff goals!👯♀️💕
So much love, power, and respect to you and Robin. You couldn't have handled that situation any better than you did. Thank you for your bravery, courage, and for speaking up for the Asian community ❤️
The into was so peaceful.. Living for it❤️
I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s terrible. I’m glad you’re sharing your story! Very brave of you and robin ❤️
It never fails, every time I watch one of Sophia's videos I have to make myself a coffee!!!!
I have a new found appreciation for the usage of social media... Using social media to stand against social issues is necessary... Thank you Sophie... You're amazing! Love 💞
So thankful to have clicked on this video and heard your story. Thank you for sharing your experience as a reminder to acknowledge all cultural backgrounds and experiences. Love to you and your sister!
You treated this incident so well!! I’m honestly so proud that you stood up for yourself 🙏🏼💞
Omgawd you are so calm. I would’ve burst!
Thank you for sharing your experience and for posting about it. At the start of this pandemic I had a person corner me at the grocery store with a Lysol bottle. Sort of related I remember Weylie and Wah posting about a video about them at Home Depot. How some people may see asian people as less threatening and expect us not to react. Since then I have had anxiety about grocery shopping so I def. will be trying out Thrive.
Thank you again for standing up to this bully and I'm so sorry you had to experience that situation.
On a lighter note I love watching your videos they make me feel supported and that I have a voice.
sophia :,) i love ur longer vlogs!!! It really helps me jump start my day and just relax. AND THIS WAS NOT A DOWNER. More so, it was a reminder that even though things seem like they're changing, there is always more to be done.
No one should ever have to go through this. Thanks for sharing.
Good for you for sticking up for yourselves. You're right, nobody deserved to be treated like that. Nobody should be harboring hate like that towards people who are different than them...because in the end, that's all we are, DIFFERENT PEOPLE. And that should be a lesson to all of us, if you are in a position, ESPECIALLY one of privilege, where you see this type of behavior in public, don't be silent...speak up, protect each other ❤️
Always happy to see your new vlog on my feed!
Thank you for speaking up!! As an Asian American, I can’t even imagine how I would be in the same situation. You guys handled it well!
Work has been psycho and this is so calming to watch!!!!!! I definitely needed this today!
I feel so thankful that you stood up and spoke out, as well as brought this up to your platforms. It happened to me in Canada a couple times since the pandemic and I also responded back when people did this to me. We should let these people know that their racism behaviours will bring them serious consequences and they should not attempt again next time to other people.
So sorry that situation has happened. I hope your shared experience inspires people to tolerate or shy away from situations like this and continue to stand up against racism in the various ways it can present.
I’m Japanese and I’m also have same situation 😢I couldn’t say anything because my English is not good enough .thank u for the sharing .
Thanks for standing tall proud, need to stand our right, enough is enough . Go Girl .
I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I cannot believe that people like this still exist. You are such a positive role model, and you handled this negativity so well. Thank you for sharing.
I’m so sorry this happened to you Sophia. Racial incidents like the one you experience can be so emotionally taxing and exhausting. Wishing you and Robyn peaceful minds to help work through that experience
I’m so proud that you used your position to stand up and show that we aren’t stereotypically timid and quiet , it really paid off. Glad your physically safe , mentally hope it makes you stronger after the unpleasantries. Btw , I love your clean , bare-face look , you have beautiful skin . Simple is the best.
Smh. That’s terrible and I’m sorry you had to go through that. But your experience is just as important so don’t feel like you can’t/shouldn’t feel how you feel because others situations have been more in depth. People can be so cruel but we all just have to keep our heads held high.
Hi Sohpia, Thank you for sharing your story. I can understand what you were trying to explain. A truly authentic vlog.
I honestly question the human race on times. How people can be so disturbingly disgusting is horrific. As horrible as the situation is I love how you turned it into a positive by having such an amazing platform to share your story and educate everyone who watched you. It’s so important to speak about these topics and educate educate EDUCATE. I’ve watched you for so many years, you’re amazing. Keep doing what you do ❤️
Started following you a couple days ago and saw this video today, I’m so sorry for what happened at the restaurant. It made me really sad, but I’m glad you spoke out.
Sophia, I’m so glad you were able to record this and have such a large platform to get this across to your supporters and viewers that this is happening to sooo many people all over the world.
In June I had my racist neighbor spit on me and my father (we’re both Korean as well) and I posted it to Instagram. It didn’t get nearly as much exposure as yours did but I hope it helps more and more people stand up for themselves.
My parents are so traditional and don’t know how to stand up for themselves because they feel like they have broken English. Let’s stand up together for those without a voice, and hopefully everyone builds the courage to SPEAK UP and not stay silent. Let’s put these racists in their place.
Obsessed with your vlog, so inspiring! 🤍
I work in hr in ca and I'm hoping that their hr and legal counsel did a full investigation at the workplace to figure out if this man has done similar discriminatory actions towards coworkers. Seeing this brought up would have triggered an investigation at my work and if we found similar behavior with co workers that would suffice as means for termination with no severance as it goes again anti harassment and discrimination policies which are heavily protected in the state of ca. If they laid him off they either didn't find anything or didn't do an investigation and just simply laid him off to appease the public. I wouldn't be surprised if they did that to be honest as there are a ton of dishonest and unethical people in the workplace as seen from my own personal experience working at large and small companies. They also might gave just laid him off instead of termination so he can't retaliate and hire an attorney to sue the company if they don't have an arbitration agreement signed by him. Either ways this is extremely sad and I'm so glad you are using your platform to bring awareness to these issues and I'm glad there is one less racist person working at that company.
joining all these other commenters saying THANK YOU for using your platform to talk about this incident. this brings back so many terrible memories for me and i'm glad you didn't hold back. all those feelings you described are so accurate.
Thanks for sharing your experience at the restaurant -- and kudos to you and Robin for standing up for yourselves. Your experience was valid and just because it was on a "smaller spectrum" doesn't make it less so. I can see how it's easy to think just because you weren't physically hurt or your lives weren't in danger that it doesnt feel as important but we see you, we hear you, and we acknowledge your experience at the restaurant was a difficult one. You guys handled it with much maturity and grace. Sending you n Robin lots of love and healing energy
You helpt me get a better life with your videos and you in general🥺❤️❤️❤️
so sorry this happened to you Sophia! really glad you and your sister spoke up to the man AND the restaurant. all racism is racism and none of it is ok. it all needs to end. it's a dark world and these are dark times. standing with you from London x
Love you Sophia, thank you for this upload!
literally watching this with lunchhhh
Thank you for standing up !!
I am so happy for Asian representatives like you and Robin. You both are truly inspirational. I've been in that similar position where there was so much I wanted to stand for when I was attacked by racism but I felt vulnerable at that time and I couldn't say anything. You and Robin are truly inspiring that you are able to move and conquer what is right.
my friday just got better!!!! love youuuuu such an inspiration
i get so happy when i see an upload
I’m so happy there was a consequence to his actions. And can’t wait to buy that set from series 5 😍
Im so glad you spoke up about the racism issues we are all facing! You mustve been scared but you braved yourself knowing you have a big platform that couldnt simply be bribed through free food or appetizers! Glad im following influencer like you! Loads of love xx
So proud of you for speaking up! You brave girl you. And also, brilliant VLOG as always xo
I’m so sorry that incident happened to you. I can’t imagine how it must have made you feel in that moment.
i love the dress and blazer !!!!
You did the best thing for speaking out! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing it’s important to talk about these things
I’m so sorry this happened to you! But he got what he deserved and I am so proud of you for sharing this information to bring awareness!
your vlogs are always so relaxing and fun to watch 😍 I’m a new youtuber and love your videos cus I learn so much from your filming style!
ok but for real im actually super impressed with the sponsor!!!!! I NEED TO TRY IT! SOUNDS AMAZING!
Another videoo! Yey! I always look forward to seeing you're video ILY! KEEP SAFE 😘❤️
i always feel so happpyyyy when she uploads
love love love your vlogs!!
Just subscribed to your channel - love your videos !!!
Always looking forward to your uploads ❤
thank you so much for posting this... I had something similar happen and I felt so scared and violated. but the man that crossed me just got away and nothing happened to him. you're totally right, the only way is to speak out and vote, so this world can hopefully one day get better. thank you for sharing this.
I love you. Thank you for your video Sophia
Excited to watch ❤️
Your vlogs are so therapeutic 🤍
always makes me feel less anxious and relaxed
I would steer clear of physical exfoliators as they create micro-tears in skin which can cause pre-aging or acne. I would recommend a chemical exfoliator. Something containinh a salicylic acid or glycolic acid.
I saw your video on your Instagram that day and I was so upset about it. I love how you summarized what you learned from the situation such as us having the privilege to be well right now, when sometimes it would escalate into worse situations on others. Crazy how this is the world we live in..
i'm so sorry for the experience you & your sister had. you all handled it MUCH better than i would have. when things like this happen (there are so many awful stories) i always imagine myself jumping in. no one deserves to be disrespected like that, & i'll be DAMNED if that shit happens in my presence. black folks are going thru a lot right now, but i see & hear my asian brothers & sisters while racist scapegoating weighs heavy on them during this pandemic. i'm glad you're both ok & i hope that you never have to go thru anything like that ever again. we love & support you!
I'm so sorry you and your sister had to go through this!!!
Love your vlogs Sophia!!