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  • Each chooses to be victor or victim, says Ben, who lives with a cranial face disorder. In this video, Ben tells his life story that includes being called a monster. He concludes that God delivers.
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Komentáře • 655

  • @jdl0812
    @jdl0812 Před 3 lety +367

    I am not part of the LDS Church ( I hope I said that right and apologies if I did not) and I'm not sure how this popped up on my home page but this is the most beautiful and uplifting story. I really needed this today. Thank you for sharing this. ♥

    • @churchofjesuschrist
      @churchofjesuschrist  Před 3 lety +19

      Thanks for your comment, Jessica! We're glad you enjoyed the video. We hope you'll tune in for other uplifting comment on our channel or at comeuntochrist.org!

    • @jdl0812
      @jdl0812 Před 3 lety +36

      @@churchofjesuschrist I most definitely subscribed 🥰 I look forward to seeing so much more

    • @Carolina-wt6be
      @Carolina-wt6be Před 3 lety +6

      💗💗💗

    • @PascalDupont561
      @PascalDupont561 Před 3 lety +5

      Thx for your thoughts . Loved it

    • @Noblesquire
      @Noblesquire Před 3 lety +5

      Jessica, just remember to think for yourself and don't listen to negative people. Life is full of all sorts of beauty and it's not all appearance. So many beautiful people are just good humble people who don't realize they are beautifully created by a loving Heavenly Father. God bless you on your journey in life.

  • @williamfindspeople4341
    @williamfindspeople4341 Před 3 lety +361

    I'm just like you brother, children where afraid of me. I'm a giant man, I been feared almost all my life, until I joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Found that Jesus Christ loved me, that's all that counts.

  • @chaselee777
    @chaselee777 Před 3 lety +349

    "He may not always come on your timing but He always comes on time."

  • @lukkash
    @lukkash Před 3 lety +151

    I came here (as a catholic) cos I really liked Mormons definition of faith and its essence.

    • @infodude84
      @infodude84 Před 3 lety +12

      Our faith is in Jesus Christ as is yours and we are unified in it and in Him. God Bless!

    • @bekspesquera6593
      @bekspesquera6593 Před 3 lety +4

      You are welcome here.

    • @seanwalton6208
      @seanwalton6208 Před 3 lety +2

      I grew up in Connecticut. There, I learned the simple elegance of faith from Catholics. Thank you!

  • @hs489242
    @hs489242 Před 3 lety +7

    Ben’s parents are THE sweetest and kindest people you would ever meet and instilled this into all of their kids

  • @haj98
    @haj98 Před 3 lety +262

    “Victim or victor.” Powerful wording.

    • @cassiebrooke2490
      @cassiebrooke2490 Před 3 lety +5

      So true!!!!!!!!!

    • @tamiorchard2752
      @tamiorchard2752 Před 3 lety +4

      Amazing story of hope! Thank you!

    • @choevel4095
      @choevel4095 Před 3 lety

      Thank you!! Powerful message

    • @deannasmith1575
      @deannasmith1575 Před 3 lety +3

      When you started talking and sharing your story I honestly didn't see with my eyes your physical deformity. Even as I listened because sometimes things like that are not so obvious at first sight. I have things happen in my life that I just wish that people who I think truly love me end up using me and leaving me. And I'm left feeling like there's something outwardly about me that says "use me". When all I wish for is to know a complete love.

  • @matthewholland1388
    @matthewholland1388 Před 3 lety +60

    I was so proud to know Ben and cheer him on when he was our star wrestler at UVU. I am even prouder of him for his faith, testimony and moral character. He is a remarkable man and a great personal hero.

  • @victoriagledhill5872
    @victoriagledhill5872 Před 3 lety +75

    "If you think my hands are full....you should see my heart" I love it

  • @heritaqecabinets
    @heritaqecabinets Před 3 lety +138

    I just came across this video...and was shocked as I recalled last fall when I met Ben, and his sweet wife on an airport shuttle bus.
    We began a conversation, and, as he was traveling with a young child we discussed the challenges of traveling with a toddler, and he shared with me that he had TWINS at home. He was so positive, and engaging to visit with! I left feeling edified for having had the experience to visit with them, and was so happy to hear of others- that feel like I do, that it is a astounding privilege to be parents.
    I had NO IDEA of his full story... what a remarkable family!
    *Honestly! There are so many GOOD people in the world! What a privilege that our paths crossed...
    #miracleshapppeneveryday

  • @Gathoklea
    @Gathoklea Před 3 lety +143

    I’m glad they didn’t add background music to this. His testimony is perfect just the way it is.

  • @lucio7331
    @lucio7331 Před 3 lety +193

    I don't care what you look like...
    I just need a friend like you..
    God bless 💟

  • @theskypriest
    @theskypriest Před 3 lety +2

    God loves you. I love you. We love you.

  • @davidandmattstump9881
    @davidandmattstump9881 Před 3 lety +69

    I met this guy at a conference before, he is a very kind, genuine person who has inspired me to be a greater force for good

  • @dannyboy6815
    @dannyboy6815 Před 3 lety +19

    I love this man. He was one of my wrestling trainers back when I was in High School. Great motivational speaker, an even better man.

  • @wheels636
    @wheels636 Před 3 lety +104

    I've had similar experiences in my life. I was in an accident 30 year's ago that left me paralyzed from the waist down.
    It's hard to explain pain I first experienced when people stare or little children ask their parents what's wrong with him?
    I've since learned to smile at them and tell them I broke my back, if I get a chance. I've learned that if you treat the children and people with respect next time they see someone else who is in a wheelchair they will think about the person who took a minute to talk to them and realize we are all God's children.

    • @bryanburrows8292
      @bryanburrows8292 Před 3 lety +8

      This is a great way to stay positive and help others gain a greater perspective. Thanks for sharing.

  • @leonardomatiastrejo2759
    @leonardomatiastrejo2759 Před 3 lety +91

    My wife an I, have 2 little boys and the second was born with Crouson Syndrom and we feel eternaly grateful with the Savior, His Church, His Gospel and His attonement for such great blessings as this. Watching the man in the vídeo talking about his experiences with this different kind of life felt more hope, faith, love and gratitude, I felt the tender mercys of the Lord.

    • @leonardomatiastrejo2759
      @leonardomatiastrejo2759 Před 3 lety +3

      I would like to meet the man of the video if someone know how I can contact him I will appreciate very much. Thanks!

    • @katbos4995
      @katbos4995 Před 3 lety +1

      Leonardo Matias Trejo : Make this hidden comment as a new, main comment...so it is more visible. I’m sure he’d love to meet you guys, he has such a pure spirit.

    • @katbos4995
      @katbos4995 Před 3 lety +2

      Google “Ben Kjar”...he has a FB page, you could PM him.

  • @alyssavincentstephens7981
    @alyssavincentstephens7981 Před 3 lety +10

    I can’t tell you how many time I’ve watched this- currently struggling with infertility and this video comforts me every time I lose hope. Thank you Ben (and your wife!) for sharing your story. 🤍

  • @jpteerlink
    @jpteerlink Před 3 lety +75

    "Faith means trusting God in good times and bad, even if that includes some suffering until we see His arm revealed in our behalf."
    Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
    October 2020

  • @libertyordeath3874
    @libertyordeath3874 Před 3 lety +68

    I'm so blessed to have seen this story. Thank you Heavenly Father.

  • @_deut6.9
    @_deut6.9 Před 3 lety +1

    Faith and hope is alive and it is a live today and it works. AMEN!!!

  • @sydneycarlson8291
    @sydneycarlson8291 Před 3 lety +25

    He went to my high school. He was a great guy then and sounds like he's still doing great things with his life. Thanks for being an inspiration and reminding us we have a choice, victim or a victor.

  • @BenHillyard
    @BenHillyard Před 3 lety +40

    I grew up being best friends with two of Ben's cousins and having the opportunity to watch Ben and look up to him. As a wrestler, he was one of the best the world has ever seen, but as a cousin, a man, a brother I have always been impressed by him. Watching this, however, my admiration, love, and respect for Ben have grown even more. Thank you Ben for your testimony, and the strength, which you have never lacked, in sharing this message with the world. The gospel brings such hope and peace.

  • @brendawoodhouse8339
    @brendawoodhouse8339 Před 3 lety +3

    Beautiful

  • @davidscott5903
    @davidscott5903 Před 3 lety +54

    This is like a letter from our future selves telling us that everything will work out for the best.

  • @Starannify
    @Starannify Před 3 lety +78

    "...and she wasn't fast enough, I caught her!" That made me laugh! I also chuckled and was very happy for your family when you rather suddenly got three children, like God was saying, "You wanted children, CATCH!"
    Stay strong and help others to stay strong. It can be so hard for all of us sometimes to see through the tears, but we have to remember they will be wiped away.

  • @thebombdiggitycom
    @thebombdiggitycom Před 2 lety +2

    Ben came to my school! He talked to us, and boy, it was one of the best guest speakers. His talk wasn't just about our church. But the spirit, was there. With a great presense. I was having a horrible day. And so I was closed off. Quiet. But afterword I felt better. I wasn't all of the sudden perfectly fine and dandy. But it's because of him that that wasn't the worst day of my life. Thank you, because I know it's hard to put yourself out there. Especially when you have chraniam facial condition. I thought that Ben was a member of the church. And when he showed the beuatiful picture of him and his wonderful wife I knew that he was member of this church. And I knew he had a strong connection with the holy ghost. Thank you

  • @ethc2867
    @ethc2867 Před 3 lety +1

    What a beautiful sharing and a beautiful family. Yes, our Heavenly Father knows us and wants us to be happy. He is always there for us, no matter how large or small we think our problems are. We just need to trust him. May you and your family always be blessed. You truly look happy. What a blessing.

  • @makennaferrell2538
    @makennaferrell2538 Před 3 lety +22

    “God always comes on time” -so powerful

  • @MeganRoseanne
    @MeganRoseanne Před 3 lety +11

    The spirit told me twice to go back and watch this. I needed it so much. Thank you

  • @robertdecker9648
    @robertdecker9648 Před 3 lety +14

    Brother, you are no monster. You are awesome. I love you and your message

  • @bestill365
    @bestill365 Před 3 lety +16

    "She wasn't fast enough, cuz I caught her!" Love!

  • @kathyknepp9883
    @kathyknepp9883 Před 3 lety +61

    Honestly when I first saw your picture at the beginning of your video I thought "What a handsome man". You are beautiful not only inside but outside too.
    When I was four years old I was in a car accident that left my chin scared. Then as an adult I was in another car accident that not only left my right temple and halfway back the top of my head with scars. Lost a portion of my hair not knowing if it'd come back. That was one of three times I lost my hair.
    I cried and said " not my face again".
    I felt attitude was what was needed. A hospital nurse told me attitude makes the difference. You Sir have the right attitude.
    You are amazing & so is your lovely family.

    • @natbc9301
      @natbc9301 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too! Handsome guy, even better looking after listening to his testimony.

    • @liahonagirl
      @liahonagirl Před 3 lety +2

      Yes! Very handsome guy . . . I'm pretty sure it's the absolute joy and hope in Christ that shines out of his eyes, and his very soul!

  • @tatjanabaker3521
    @tatjanabaker3521 Před 2 lety +3

    I’m in tears and can barely see, as I write. Your beautiful testimony was so powerful and relevant! Faith and hope is alive today! God bless you, your wife and your miracle babies. So beautiful!

  • @charityntuzela8492
    @charityntuzela8492 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Ben for your story. To be a Victor and not a victim

  • @vernapike580
    @vernapike580 Před 3 lety +6

    My heart is full after watching this. These precious spirits are in a very loving home. Amen.

  • @stevebrown6215
    @stevebrown6215 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for your inspirational story! Thank you! AMEN !

  • @michiganabigail
    @michiganabigail Před 3 lety +90

    “[God] may not come on your timing, but He always comes on time.”
    Thank you. I really appreciate that this morning.

  • @joshhanks8844
    @joshhanks8844 Před 3 lety +20

    This is pure food for the soul! Thanks Ben for sharing your inspiring perspective and experience. My gratitude is full just hearing your story. This is what the world needs today.

  • @wallacecosta1620
    @wallacecosta1620 Před 3 lety +1

    I named my son Liam exactly for the same special meaning, he'll be a protector. In fact, he already is, because before he was born we were having a lot of problems in our family, but after he was born we found happiness, and our family is protected from being separated. I'm grateful for this message.

  • @cariroundy7814
    @cariroundy7814 Před 3 lety +1

    Such a BEAUTIFUL story! ❤️

  • @berengerdahakpoin1227
    @berengerdahakpoin1227 Před 3 lety +72

    I don't know what to say.
    This another message from my heavenly father, telling me that, he is watching other me. Thank you Lord.

    • @defenderoftorah519
      @defenderoftorah519 Před 3 lety

      Did you know that "the LORD" means ha Ba'AL aka Sha'Tan?
      At Brown Driver Briggs Hebrew Lexicon entry for "the LORD" means ha Ba'AL - 01168 Ba'AL

    • @heidimisfeldt5685
      @heidimisfeldt5685 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes He is watching over you, no doubt about that.

    • @curtclapier435
      @curtclapier435 Před 3 lety

      Amen. May God bless you.

  • @jenniejennie3884
    @jenniejennie3884 Před 3 lety +1

    ❤️🙏 He saves us.

  • @rinatema911
    @rinatema911 Před 3 lety +1

    Love your story ❤️❤️❤️ Faith and Hope is real🙏🙏🙏

  • @ladyveracity
    @ladyveracity Před 3 lety +31

    The struggles I had as a young woman prepared me for the struggles I’d face in adulthood. And yes, when the Lord comes through for you, he comes with his arms full. ❤️

  • @karenfitzpatrick2061
    @karenfitzpatrick2061 Před 3 lety +1

    This guy is handsome, brave and inspiring. Their story is beautiful and shows with courage and determination we can achieve what we want in life. These children could not have been adopted by more perfect and loving parents. God bless and keep you all safe

  • @scottperkins2637
    @scottperkins2637 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Ben!! Your faith inspired me!

  • @jennismoot4000
    @jennismoot4000 Před 3 lety +11

    You're amazing, Ben!! Seriously, such an inspiration to everyone. So grateful to call you cousin! Love you guys!!

  • @sarabernpaintner4704
    @sarabernpaintner4704 Před rokem

    There are so many strong people in this world. This guy’s one of them!
    Never forget that God loves you. He doesn’t care about what you look like. It’s what’s on the inside that counts!

  • @sherisnell8852
    @sherisnell8852 Před 3 lety +23

    So beautiful & so true! Thank you for sharing! I’m victorious when I choose to be Victorious when our daughter was hit by a neighbor & passed away! They were in active and heavenly father filled our hearts with love for them and the gift 🎁 of
    choosing hope, peace, Comfort and love through this sweet/pain! Our hearts were filled with compassion for this man and their family came back into the church and were sealed in the temple. Through all this, I’ve learned to know my father in heaven knowing He was & is always beside me and that my Savior through His atonement brought hope beyond my understanding! We knew we would see her and have her again and learned lessons of our saviors love and all that, that has meant to us!
    Thank you for choosing victory and thank you to your mother for teaching you to stay in truth😌

    • @1secondago707
      @1secondago707 Před 2 lety +1

      You're amazing..I admire you & your example..❤

  • @maureencook4412
    @maureencook4412 Před 3 lety +1

    Wonderful message!!! Thanks Ben, you and your family are an inspiration to so many!!

  • @c3e3d3
    @c3e3d3 Před 3 lety +14

    Powerful testimony of Christ: “Hope works when you work.” Thanks to the merits and grace of Christ everything good is a choice.

  • @katiemathis2671
    @katiemathis2671 Před 3 lety +1

    So cute! I love this story. Just be your self!!!

  • @samlewis6314
    @samlewis6314 Před 3 lety +12

    Fantastic message! Thank you so much Ben. Keep up with those beautiful angels.

  • @discoverlian1
    @discoverlian1 Před 3 lety +1

    I loved this video so much and what a beautiful reassurance that God does deliver at his time. God will always surprises us to enjoy his blessings

  • @lexonous
    @lexonous Před 3 lety +1

    This guy touched my heart😢😥❤

  • @scenecompany9577
    @scenecompany9577 Před 3 lety +7

    One of the most beautiful stories I've ever heard. D&C 111:11, God orders all things for our good, as fast as we are able to receive them.

  • @stephenallred8629
    @stephenallred8629 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you, sincerely, thank you, for sharing your story and for the force for good you and your family are.

  • @dawnchristiansen3487
    @dawnchristiansen3487 Před 3 lety +1

    what an amazing example of faith and hope and love! you and your family are beautiful! You have touched my heart...and strengthened my knowledge that God will keep his promises and that he watches over us! Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @scottschulte9613
    @scottschulte9613 Před 3 lety +1

    We Schultes love you Kjars and Smoots. Thanks for this video.

  • @danielbennion80
    @danielbennion80 Před 3 lety

    Ben, it's people like you who I'd be proud to be seen anytime, any place with. In my book you're a hero. Don't ever stop believing in yourself and your potential. Hang in there!

  • @missa4621
    @missa4621 Před 3 lety +9

    That was the most beautiful story on hope. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story and faith!

  • @arnonallred6307
    @arnonallred6307 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Ben for your story, the faith, the hope, and the love. Thank you.

  • @princesstelimena2887
    @princesstelimena2887 Před 3 lety +11

    This message is AMAZING!!! Such a beautiful story. Thank you so much for this! This was seriously exactly what I needed to hear right now.

  • @briandockery7426
    @briandockery7426 Před rokem +1

    Brian here and I have Parkinsons In my 40's and I was a slow learner in school elementary to high school and it's always a struggle. I put things in God's hands

  • @Boostwithbritt
    @Boostwithbritt Před 3 lety +45

    Kjar Family.... you guys are definitely an amazing family and amazing speakers! ❤️ Ben, you are awesome and we love you!

  • @dianemcfarlin364
    @dianemcfarlin364 Před 3 lety +9

    What a beautiful and touching story. A very good reminder to each of us to remember to stay positive, even among hard times.

  • @JeniferDreis
    @JeniferDreis Před 3 lety +1

    You are truly inspirational. Thank you!

  • @1secondago707
    @1secondago707 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow!!!!
    You're awesome brother! I love this & I love your mum! So happy for you, your sweetheart & your beautiful babies🙏Praise the Lord❤

  • @Horsehead147
    @Horsehead147 Před 3 lety +1

    How could anyone give this a thumbs down? This is amazing and inspiring!

  • @TheJoesWorld
    @TheJoesWorld Před 2 lety +1

    That was amazing!!! 🥲 Just what I needed to watch. God bless your family 🙏❤️

  • @keepnupcorp
    @keepnupcorp Před 3 lety +1

    I just saw this for the first time,..wow it came just as I needed it most. Thanks for that story Ben and thank you for being a victor and showing the world how it's done.

  • @tmadsam
    @tmadsam Před 2 měsíci

    What a wonderful story! You can't help but be touched by the enormous faith this man has! Congratulations to his family! I'm trying so hard to be a victor and stop being a victim. This story profoundly affected me!

  • @aydenwalker6468
    @aydenwalker6468 Před 3 lety +17

    There is always light at the end of a tunnel 👍🏻 Awesome message 👍🏻

  • @manilynmacabanting7818
    @manilynmacabanting7818 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. You were blessed because you choose to be a victor and not a victime. And have chosen hope than fear, doubt and worry. I learn a lot from your story. How inspiring it was.

  • @bravespice6926
    @bravespice6926 Před 3 lety +2

    That was incredible.. love being a victor and not a victim. Thank you for sharing your message Ben.

  • @lindamontague327
    @lindamontague327 Před 3 lety

    Amazing child of God! Thanks for sharing your story with us!

  • @CameronMClark
    @CameronMClark Před 3 lety +2

    This is truly an amazing story. I'm glad the Lord has come through so powerfully for you and your beautiful family, Ben.

  • @rickeybillings9229
    @rickeybillings9229 Před 2 lety

    What a family god made !!!!

  • @mchen1333
    @mchen1333 Před 3 lety +33

    What a beautiful story and testimony! ❤️

  • @asenapelenise9407
    @asenapelenise9407 Před 3 lety

    What a beautiful soul, the world need more victors like you and your beautiful wife. Thank you for sharing. It's so uplifting!

  • @wickerd92
    @wickerd92 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you to all of you! Thank you for sharing your peace and joy!

  • @stevennelson8146
    @stevennelson8146 Před 3 lety

    Wow! Thank you for your strength faith, courage, hope and listening to your wonderful Mother and becoming the victor you are! But most of all! Thanks be to the God of Heaven for the gift of His Son Jesus Christ the King of Kings, Savior, Mediator, Deliverer and Mighty God of Miracles!!!

  • @23aether
    @23aether Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing this amazing journey of faith and hope.

  • @BetinEliHndz915
    @BetinEliHndz915 Před 3 lety

    God Knows Best!!! Amen!! 🙏❤️

  • @marin2173
    @marin2173 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you. I needed this.

  • @Operamoms
    @Operamoms Před 3 lety +1

    This man is an instrument in God's hands. I am so inspired after watching this.

  • @sadiegirl1243
    @sadiegirl1243 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm suppose to be preparing my Gospel Doctrine lesson, but my word...I came across this and couldn't stop listening. Thank you. You've got me in tears. Thank you, this is so good.

  • @Goobicon4507
    @Goobicon4507 Před 3 lety +11

    Not gonna lie, I didn't want to listen to this one. But it put a smile on my face - something that doesn't happen often these days - and I'm going to try and keep up hope by making a daily effort.

  • @brandonhenderson3186
    @brandonhenderson3186 Před 3 lety

    You are a great example for us all Ben. Much love to you. You aren't a monster... you are a stud.

  • @rosemaryfifita4540
    @rosemaryfifita4540 Před 3 lety +13

    What a beautiful family! Thank you for reminding us to continue to endure to the end in this life. I love, love, loved your story! I choose to be a Victor and not a Victim! God Speed! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @jaimebingbing1637
    @jaimebingbing1637 Před 3 lety

    congratulations. I know God want His children to be happy.

  • @vilituitavake2988
    @vilituitavake2988 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful family brother. You and your wife deserves every bit of blessing. Thank you for uplifting me with your story.

  • @garthmitton1857
    @garthmitton1857 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. You are a beautiful person and child of God. I needed to see this. Such a great reminder!❤️

  • @chvid2009
    @chvid2009 Před 3 lety +7

    What an awesome story of hope and triumph!!! So happy for you and your beautiful family!!!!

  • @sillysauce55
    @sillysauce55 Před 3 lety +3

    Faith and hope is alive, and it's alive today.

  • @marcimichelson4499
    @marcimichelson4499 Před 3 lety +16

    There's nothing wrong w/his face! He looks beautiful

  • @StillThinkingAboutIt
    @StillThinkingAboutIt Před 3 lety +1

    Wow, Awesome. This video needs 6 Billion Views

  • @victoriafuller9745
    @victoriafuller9745 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful story. Hope works when we work.

  • @bartb21
    @bartb21 Před 5 měsíci

    This is amazing! Loved watching Ben wrestle, what a great example and human!

  • @bobbq8380
    @bobbq8380 Před 3 lety +1

    You got much stronger spirit than me brother. Congrats on your family. Thank God always for his timing. 🙏🙏