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  • čas přidán 21. 04. 2019
  • **In case you don't know Ice Boy's story, check out the original video: • Extreme poverty in Chi...
    *And sadly Ice Boy's life didn't necessarily get easier after he became famous: • Update: China's 'Ice B...
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    Wang Fuman became famous when a photo showing the Chinese boy with frozen hair went viral on Chinese social media in 2018. His family could not afford to buy him a hat to cover his head on his daily hour-long trek to school. Stories about the “ice boy” touched the hearts of people around the world, and many sent donations to help Wang and his family. A year after first meeting him, South China Morning Post video producer Tom Wang caught up with the “ice boy” and found out that while the young student and his family have a new home, they still struggle to make ends meet.
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Komentáře • 10K

  • @bellamy1923
    @bellamy1923 Před 5 lety +6610

    „I dont think its so different from the old House“
    „Why?“
    „Behause in either house, we sleep comfortably“
    Truely a kind Soul.

    • @sonyahao7814
      @sonyahao7814 Před 5 lety +134

      He has got a heart of gold.

    • @ahmedd5644
      @ahmedd5644 Před 5 lety +98

      M. Emre that line was so powerful, hope this kid succeeds in life.

    • @Donlosae
      @Donlosae Před 5 lety +4

      1k liker

    • @poonpolchitra-dhara8490
      @poonpolchitra-dhara8490 Před 5 lety +7

      Profound.😊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤💙💚💛💖💟

    • @samoh6084
      @samoh6084 Před 5 lety +24

      Ur right but its just a matter of simple truth. Some people cant sleep in a million dollar worth apartment because they might have insomnia

  • @kimkim9838
    @kimkim9838 Před 5 lety +5127

    Their daughter more mature than the mother 😩😩

    • @Allinmyworld
      @Allinmyworld Před 5 lety +148

      kim kim that’s the same thing I was thinking. Their daughter is very mature

    • @kimkim9838
      @kimkim9838 Před 5 lety +23

      Sad to see

    • @DestineesGuiltyPleasuresASMR
      @DestineesGuiltyPleasuresASMR Před 5 lety +81

      The son is more mature than the mother

    • @bytecy
      @bytecy Před 5 lety +67

      Tho I dislike the mother.. but she's still their mother. No matter how immature she is ..the probability that she will leave the family after the fame and opportunities that comes from the son fades. Sad but to put ourselves in her shoe.. most likely she had it more rough when growing up in such conditions. We cannot judge others without judging ourselves for what we have or had during our childhood. Just my two cents.
      Ps.. looking at this videos will make me weep.. as I feel guilty for what I have and the appreciation I didn't felt. Let's us all smell the roses by the pathway (there's no roses but the trees might do it ☺)

    • @kimkim9838
      @kimkim9838 Před 5 lety +5

      cheryl tan chill I’m just pointing out facts here. I didn’t say anything bad about her.

  • @clod8
    @clod8 Před 2 lety +1872

    The daughter is wise. She knows her mom is off. Glad the rest of the family helps each other. Grandma and young uncle need help, too.

    • @andychung7922
      @andychung7922 Před 2 lety +1

      The mother is a brat

    • @itaqilaah6607
      @itaqilaah6607 Před 2 lety +32

      Right
      I mean the girl is so understanding for a little age, she is smart

    • @gyllenspetzfamily7993
      @gyllenspetzfamily7993 Před rokem +4

      Her mother might have been trafficked. For her there is no going home. Note her lack of family and her fear.

    • @samuraikyokkan
      @samuraikyokkan Před rokem +5

      @@gyllenspetzfamily7993 dont make up stories without evdience. many women are just very very selfish.

    • @bennyteo6165
      @bennyteo6165 Před rokem +6

      @@samuraikyokkan dont make up stories without evidence

  • @nimmi7047
    @nimmi7047 Před 3 lety +1004

    That mother is awful. The boy said how she use to beat him in a previous video. She left because they were poor and only came back now because they built a new house.

    • @Kevin-qy6qt
      @Kevin-qy6qt Před 3 lety +26

      Beatings is common in parts of China for discipline although idk the context of the video u watched. I was beat as a child when I did something bad. It's not a great way of teaching your kids as we grow up to respect you out of fear and not actual love and respect. In fact you can get hit with a ruler on your palm in some school's in China. It is part of our culture but we are slowly changing and it is becoming less common. However population of china is pretty big so unoo it prob take a while

    • @pirateclick1d169
      @pirateclick1d169 Před 3 lety +108

      @@Kevin-qy6qt The kid said "she used to like beating me". The environment is bad for everyone.

    • @pratriciadewan7396
      @pratriciadewan7396 Před 3 lety +74

      @Kevin. Not every parent beats their children to teach them discipline but they do it to take out their own frustrations. Studies have shown beating kids doesn't lead to great grades but high suicide rates. Parents can't beat strangers because it can lead to prison, but their kids will tolerate the abuse. Culture is a weak argument for abuse. One child policy in China led to female feticide. And abusers will say that's also part of our culture. Only an abuser would say that's ok.

    • @Kevin-qy6qt
      @Kevin-qy6qt Před 3 lety +11

      @@pratriciadewan7396 exactly. Thanks for understanding. I just finished watching a show called Darling in the Franxx and it made me realize how much I wasted my life. Instead of living my life and enjoying my childhood while I had it, I spent it living up to expectations. 17 years of age and has not had a single close relationship with a girl never mind a kiss

    • @name3869
      @name3869 Před 2 lety

      @@pratriciadewan7396 Exactly.

  • @direinfluence3603
    @direinfluence3603 Před 5 lety +7668

    The wife is talking about how she is leaving the husband because he is poor and has no skills.
    She can’t read or write and is also poor.
    The husband has an outstanding work ethic. Never quits. A lot of Respect for him

    • @marvinlin5907
      @marvinlin5907 Před 5 lety +261

      Yea... leaves because she thinks she can make more money, comes back cuz shes tired.

    • @abluetale1016
      @abluetale1016 Před 5 lety +13

      Ya but she still left

    • @laureli988
      @laureli988 Před 5 lety +189

      I'm sure she had an idea of what his finances were before marriage. The way she looks down on him and his family is ridiculous.

    • @JustinZero0
      @JustinZero0 Před 5 lety +74

      i get the impression that wealth and status matter much more in Asian cultures much more than the West

    • @kanduyog1182
      @kanduyog1182 Před 5 lety +102

      @@JustinZero0 O I'll tell you, it does. But she should've known before they got married, she's really short sighted for saying those stuff against him when she can't even read or write.

  • @trish8321
    @trish8321 Před 5 lety +1866

    "She resents me for being poor"
    Broke my heart y'all

    • @skylights694
      @skylights694 Před 5 lety +16

      Trish same felt that :( so so so sad

    • @mrhow22
      @mrhow22 Před 5 lety +3

      Y'all broke too???

    • @godfirst7452
      @godfirst7452 Před 5 lety +4

      Deeply saddening 😭

    • @pakliv3243
      @pakliv3243 Před 4 lety +1

      @ninja jin LoL hahahahahaha she will stick after u pay for her date n movie's .. C y'all later

    • @samuraibushido7077
      @samuraibushido7077 Před 4 měsíci

      Why can't we work together and try to get in some organizations like "Save The Children" or UNICEF to send help to these families? We can do this!!

  • @GomuGome
    @GomuGome Před 3 lety +2165

    It sadden me the uncle was holding back the tears. I hope for a better life to him and the grandma.

    • @aminathamaanath9371
      @aminathamaanath9371 Před 3 lety +12

      😭😭😭

    • @uruha7341
      @uruha7341 Před 3 lety +83

      i'm so sad he had to drop school and give up on his education... for most people that's important for our future but poor people have to drop school because they can't afford it and it's easier for them to get a job with a bad payment. i feel so sorry for taking my education for granted and complaining a lot about it

    • @Kevin-qy6qt
      @Kevin-qy6qt Před 3 lety +40

      It's the cycle of poverty :( i hope he did not give it up and continue with his education. It is his only hope to get a chance of becoming successful although I know it may not be possible. It's a cruel world we live in

    • @linostoe
      @linostoe Před rokem +2

      I feel sorry for the uncle so so much 😭

  • @RoastofRump
    @RoastofRump Před 2 lety +1070

    Mom wears a leather jacket and gold necklace while grandmother who raised her kids lives on potatoes.

    • @airbornetortilla9489
      @airbornetortilla9489 Před 2 lety +201

      Prolly fake gold. But still understand your point. Funny how she is back in their lives when the boy gets famous and noticed...

    • @tylerrodgers43
      @tylerrodgers43 Před 2 lety +62

      Did u see the iPhone at the end too?

    • @kuywasaamazikeen8048
      @kuywasaamazikeen8048 Před 2 lety +30

      I could care less about judging. For all we know someone gave them to her when she was looking for work in the city. All that matters to me is that the kids are happier because they have their mom with them again.

    • @tojislefttoe7505
      @tojislefttoe7505 Před 2 lety +35

      @@kuywasaamazikeen8048 she used to beat her kids.. that woman is insane

    • @JSt3pz
      @JSt3pz Před 2 lety +48

      @@tojislefttoe7505 Don’t forget that she didn’t let the grandma and uncle live in the house too

  • @yelkayap8316
    @yelkayap8316 Před 5 lety +3868

    “she still resents me for being poor”
    man, that’s not love. i pity the father

    • @rhinochino
      @rhinochino Před 5 lety +110

      yk kael , many marriage are arranged. She probably had no say in getting married. So don’t blame for leaving. Grandma usually responsible for raising the kids even if mom is living in the home. It’s the culture.

    • @I.luv.my.choppa
      @I.luv.my.choppa Před 5 lety +63

      @messiah rapture ˢᵗⁱˡˡ ⁿᵒᵗ ʳⁱᵍʰᵗ

    • @thalmoragent9344
      @thalmoragent9344 Před 5 lety +70

      messiah rapture
      She had no say in getting married?
      If he was that poor when they first knew him, her parents would have never agreed to her marrying him in the first place.
      I doubt it was arranged, cause if it was she’d be living with some other dude with some more money to his name.
      She’s mad he isn’t able to make enough money but they decided to have kids, and don’t even have the decency to give the kid up for adoption or something.
      It’s not only the man’s responsibility to take care of everything, especially if the wife isn’t being grateful for anything.

    • @yelkayap8316
      @yelkayap8316 Před 5 lety +46

      messiah rapture
      but even so, she should’ve stayed and took care of her OWN kids. her mother is aging and her kids needed a mom. even the daughter knew so well what her mom did

    • @yelkayap8316
      @yelkayap8316 Před 5 lety

      big pimpin ikr!

  • @evasjo1690
    @evasjo1690 Před 5 lety +5517

    the sister is so mature and aware, and he is so motivating and driven, i wish them both the most happiness

    • @EternalResonance
      @EternalResonance Před 5 lety +85

      yet somewhere in America there are ungrateful kids complaining about their birthday party not being perfect or their sweet 16😑 they should send their kids here to learn to be grateful

    • @user-mk000
      @user-mk000 Před 5 lety +101

      @King Delevingne At least they're better person than you despite of living in poverty.

    • @MintBunny9
      @MintBunny9 Před 5 lety +83

      King Delevingne what is wrong with you? Her face not being clean is what stuck out as being important enough to comment on?

    • @MrChrist741
      @MrChrist741 Před 5 lety +69

      King Delevingne try cooking with charcoal for food they tend the livestock, Without the the luxury of expensive equipment.

    • @petrichor4753
      @petrichor4753 Před 5 lety +87

      King Delevingne That’s not dirt on her face! It’s the Red Plateau caused by long-term insolation since the ultraviolet radiation in the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau is extremely strong! Even if it was dirt, it’s none of your business! Just save your breath and leave her alone!

  • @nesbygalvan2088
    @nesbygalvan2088 Před 2 lety +548

    Congrats to the person who managed to profit off of this because the donations clearly didn’t make their way to this family.

    • @kuywasaamazikeen8048
      @kuywasaamazikeen8048 Před 2 lety +85

      At least someone gets it. Everyone else is too busy arguing in their priviledge about the family's should'ves when that (what you mentioned) is the obvious take away from it. Ffs

    • @beauty.fromashes
      @beauty.fromashes Před 2 lety +9

      That's so sad

    • @barney2159
      @barney2159 Před 2 lety +95

      For real, if they simply just got the ad revenue from this video alone they'd be out of this rut immediately. On the other hand, given the level of education thry have, if they got a ton of money out of nowhere, I don't think it will last a lot. Still a better alternative to how they're living.

    • @nojud3547
      @nojud3547 Před 2 lety +20

      this comment needs more attention

    • @thyme4achange307
      @thyme4achange307 Před 2 lety +22

      There is definitely a fine line between helping and exploiting someone.

  • @antarctica0061
    @antarctica0061 Před 3 lety +315

    I'm kind of annoyed that the mother was complaining for a whole minute straight about her "struggles" when she put her son in much humiliation after she left... Why did she even come back??

    • @indrit66
      @indrit66 Před 2 lety +13

      she said she worked in resturant for 14 hours a day only to stay alive after leaving her family where she lived in horrible conditions give her a break man you have no idea what shes through this is not a reality show this is real life and in poverty we humans become the animals that we really are.

    • @Charmegrisen
      @Charmegrisen Před 2 lety +60

      ​@@indrit66 She lived in such horrible conditions that she was able to afford an iphone, leather jacket, necklace and more than likely other luxuries to herself.

    • @tc98826
      @tc98826 Před 2 lety +13

      @@indrit66 lots of people work 12+ hour days.

    • @starwolfcyberlight4546
      @starwolfcyberlight4546 Před 2 lety +4

      @@tc98826 Especially Japan's case which is worse

    • @blackpink6478
      @blackpink6478 Před 2 lety +14

      She came back because they got a new home and donation money it's all about the money I feel really bad for those kids and the grandma and uncle

  • @randlepmcmurphy6117
    @randlepmcmurphy6117 Před 4 lety +12574

    The daughter is the smartest out of them all, she knows her mother is at it.

    • @mrsrana79
      @mrsrana79 Před 4 lety +447

      Yes! That's exactly what I've been yelling for about an hour now

    • @David-bc4hh
      @David-bc4hh Před 4 lety +519

      And she's 11! I look at my 11 year old and she's breathing with her mouth open. Count your blessings

    • @pipoipoi
      @pipoipoi Před 4 lety +331

      Yeah and you can just tell shes smart by the way she talks compared to her mum

    • @EX3XEX
      @EX3XEX Před 4 lety +336

      Yup she knows her mom is gold digger

    • @HELEVAI
      @HELEVAI Před 4 lety +106

      I’m glad other people noticed this

  • @prabeshlamichhane1009
    @prabeshlamichhane1009 Před 5 lety +3135

    "In either home we sleep comfortably", boy knows his roots. Very matured.

    • @samuellancaster1305
      @samuellancaster1305 Před 5 lety +5

      A little bit better

    • @cocolebolovesgod2700
      @cocolebolovesgod2700 Před 5 lety +1

      Agreed

    • @lissam956
      @lissam956 Před 5 lety +19

      Content with what he has, and sometimes we in big houses and don’t stop complaining 🙁

    • @npeace312
      @npeace312 Před 5 lety +16

      That really stuck with me. What a sweet boy.

    • @cielo6584
      @cielo6584 Před 5 lety +4

      YoMama Fat yes more mature than his mother

  • @jackiej6233
    @jackiej6233 Před 3 lety +1239

    So odd he'd let that abusive woman back into his childrens' lives while leaving his brother and mother to fend for themselves.

    • @frankierospansygirl
      @frankierospansygirl Před 3 lety +58

      It’s just abuse / fear and potentially love

    • @jck_4283
      @jck_4283 Před 3 lety +122

      That's because no matter what, she's still the kids' mother and he must have loved her. We dont really know about the father's mother and brother. They may have wanted to stay there..

    • @trevorslater2746
      @trevorslater2746 Před 2 lety +45

      Granma is probably better off now without so many jobs to do looking after the whole family, I bet she shares her potatoes with them

    • @nanette3900
      @nanette3900 Před 2 lety +13

      I think he did it for the kids to have their mom. But it’s not right nor fair.

    • @Vxtn
      @Vxtn Před 2 lety +2

      That roast beef must be salty

  • @jennahrashed3819
    @jennahrashed3819 Před 3 lety +392

    The grandmother is so kind. She doesnt want to burden her son because she knows and understands he is trying his best for his family, unlike the wife. They really deserve help.

  • @legacy574
    @legacy574 Před 4 lety +5581

    “In either house we sleep comfortably”
    wow, forgive me Lord if I ever complain

    • @PatienceMarie88
      @PatienceMarie88 Před 4 lety +184

      I know. When he said that I could see how full and pure his little heart is. Reminds me to give thanks for the small things so easily taken for granted.

    • @matejsk5770
      @matejsk5770 Před 4 lety +11

      There is no lord !. but still its realy heartmelting

    • @beeb7988
      @beeb7988 Před 4 lety +120

      @@matejsk5770 you have your beliefs, and we have ours .

    • @kingj521
      @kingj521 Před 4 lety +1

      Turn that if to when.

    • @am0804
      @am0804 Před 4 lety +4

      Maťo čopjan yes there is 100% no lord I so agree with u, I don’t know why I’m agreeing it’s straight facts nothing else

  • @kagokadae
    @kagokadae Před 5 lety +7804

    Money donated better don't go to the mom. Save it for raising the kids.

    • @2ossy
      @2ossy Před 5 lety +646

      90% of the money was "lost" before it arrived at the family

    • @izdabombz
      @izdabombz Před 5 lety +56

      She has her parents to consider too

    • @lisasmith8007
      @lisasmith8007 Před 5 lety +5

      Yes

    • @lisasmith8007
      @lisasmith8007 Před 5 lety +65

      @@2ossy i didn't think about that. You're right. He had to take loans to build

    • @Hussein_Nur
      @Hussein_Nur Před 5 lety +35

      @@2ossy where did u get that number from

  • @printerink697
    @printerink697 Před 2 lety +149

    tbh I can't understand the dad.. the woman is abusive to the children and the children obviously don't like her
    she's manipulative and an opportunist, she abandoned her children and the father, why would he let her back?? isn't it kind of selfish towards the children, the young uncle and the grandma? I know everyone has their own circumstances I will never understand blah blah but like??
    The poor uncle he's only kid.. :(

    • @borgerchainsaw1016
      @borgerchainsaw1016 Před 2 lety +10

      Maybe he hopes the presence of the mother will make the children happier, or he's just really in love

    • @letsgobrandon8154
      @letsgobrandon8154 Před 2 lety +2

      @@borgerchainsaw1016 love

  • @duane7996
    @duane7996 Před 2 lety +149

    That's a very intelligent 11 year old. She probably sees through her mother.

  • @AllHustleNoLuck8Gaming
    @AllHustleNoLuck8Gaming Před 4 lety +4162

    We are just going to act like the boy didnt say, the only memory he had of his mom was of her beating him 😤😡.
    That so called woman is a phony

    • @anythingatall7670
      @anythingatall7670 Před 4 lety +74

      David Soto
      It makes me furious just thinking about how someone can be so vile

    • @xmartinez2888
      @xmartinez2888 Před 4 lety +17

      He meant beating him at the game I thought the same

    • @lollijellypop3783
      @lollijellypop3783 Před 4 lety +13

      Typical abusive asian parent

    • @humblenoob7631
      @humblenoob7631 Před 4 lety +44

      Asian parenting! Asian moms usually get less strict as the son gets older. My mom used to beat me, but then now she hardly gets mad at me.

    • @zak3172
      @zak3172 Před 4 lety +23

      @@humblenoob7631 all kids get more discipline when they're younger than when they're older becuz they mature
      Obviously types of discipline range from family to family, some get beat (which I'm not supporting) and some communicate...that's just the way it is...it's different for all cultures

  • @boyninja1966
    @boyninja1966 Před 5 lety +19221

    Uncle and Grandma deserve to live in the new house more than the Mother. They work so hard.
    The Mother deserted the family and only came back when it suited her.

    • @fahiiima2905
      @fahiiima2905 Před 5 lety +933

      BoyNinja I know right it broke my heart when I found out they were still living in that house and the grandma was still working and sometimes she only ate potatoes to help her son on his studies they deserve to live in that house just as much as the mum but she went out to work for them but I hate how she wanted a divorce from her husband just because she was poor she probably knew the conditions he was going through but if you look at it from her side she was an only women trying to provide for her family and the living expense for her were very short that’s why they kept having fights I’m sad that the uncle will give up with study’s but it understandable because he’s caring and wants to help his mum I wish the uncle and grandma move in at some point though and they all have a better life

    • @hayabusa2774
      @hayabusa2774 Před 5 lety +286

      GOLD DIGGEar

    • @jennyleung92
      @jennyleung92 Před 5 lety +319

      Why is the grandma and ubcle still staying there they should be with the famy

    • @fahiiima2905
      @fahiiima2905 Před 5 lety +77

      jleung12292 yeh but i think it’s because where the grandma and uncle are there is more work available there so they stay there so they can provide for the family

    • @melize7035
      @melize7035 Před 5 lety +232

      You talk as if she went on vacation while the whole time she was toiling as well. SMH you don't know poverty so it's easy for you to type away nonsense.

  • @Herrera_70
    @Herrera_70 Před rokem +28

    The grandma is breaking my heart, "I won't bother them anymore, no matter who difficult it is" she doesn't want to be a burden, but she needs help. I can't believe she was left behind in that house.

  • @marielcastillo6025
    @marielcastillo6025 Před 3 lety +66

    Feel sad for the grandmother and uncle. Breaks my heart. The girl is so right about her mother. She returned because of the house but still is not enough for her...

  • @parksaranglee7951
    @parksaranglee7951 Před 5 lety +27242

    Is it only me or did the mom returned when the family got famous and got many support and donations from many peoples and she fights with her 'husband' when she didn't got the money? I smell something fishy and toxic about this situation. Sorry if I'm wrong.

    • @pancake9621
      @pancake9621 Před 5 lety +1568

      I noticed that too. I mean i guess I don't really have the right to judge but it's not bad to look out and feel a bit suspicious. I just really hope nothing wrong happens. The family has already gone through so much.

    • @heavenlhq
      @heavenlhq Před 5 lety +474

      Life is so so so hard for the family, even especially for her. Maybe you could not know more about situations where they have been living and their feelings. please do not judge her.
      祝福 ice boy & family & mom

    • @KG-kq7kn
      @KG-kq7kn Před 5 lety +656

      Welcome to Asia, the culture is different and yes people will straight up tell you to your face they are leaving you because of your job. Sad reality

    • @zaramuzaffar2524
      @zaramuzaffar2524 Před 5 lety +46

      Park sarang Lee u r so right. ....I feel the same

    • @MNcoquicoqui
      @MNcoquicoqui Před 5 lety +462

      I don't see any remorse from the mom for leaving her family, none whatsoever. The only person genuinely happy is the boy.

  • @Bree548
    @Bree548 Před 5 lety +5716

    “My goal is to study hard and not disappoint the people that care about me.”
    MY HEART 😭

    • @traceybear
      @traceybear Před 5 lety +25

      😭😭😭 i teared up when he said that

    • @littlebubbles2751
      @littlebubbles2751 Před 5 lety +41

      Funds to build notre dame were collected in a week. Can't we do something for these kinds of families instead of building buildings?

    • @rlz5460
      @rlz5460 Před 5 lety +13

      Emmm.. what he said is a common sense in China...

    • @user-kp3mc7gf6s
      @user-kp3mc7gf6s Před 5 lety +4

      @@rlz5460 我差点哭了,直到看到你这句话😂

    • @rlz5460
      @rlz5460 Před 5 lety +3

      @@user-kp3mc7gf6s 看到外国人这么惊讶我反而很惊讶😅

  • @Salma-px5un
    @Salma-px5un Před 2 lety +52

    I feel like the mother threatened the dad that she would leave if the granny and the uncle live in the new house with them. I am absolutely disgusted that she left for money.

  • @yourunfinishedcake8591
    @yourunfinishedcake8591 Před 3 lety +67

    the boy is so grateful for little things people already have. Granny is also so hardworking and is an inspiration to all

  • @pink2211
    @pink2211 Před 5 lety +3232

    Mom is a gold digger and Uncle is out there in need of actual help while grandma is a true legend.

    • @8KenzaMusic8
      @8KenzaMusic8 Před 5 lety +109

      Dude they are still extremely poor, where do you see the gold??? What even can she dig?? Would you prefer her to never return to her kids?

    • @xuankremer3695
      @xuankremer3695 Před 5 lety +38

      @@8KenzaMusic8 maybe she thought there was gold. It just seems very shady especially with the time

    • @nasratadebago893
      @nasratadebago893 Před 5 lety +30

      I think the uncle needs the help most now

    • @8KenzaMusic8
      @8KenzaMusic8 Před 5 lety +8

      @@xuankremer3695 maybe but its better than if she would have stayed away, the kids have a mom now

    • @Heather145
      @Heather145 Před 5 lety +9

      @@8KenzaMusic8 sometimes it's better for the mom or dad to not be around depending on how they treat their family

  • @Strawberrynovacane
    @Strawberrynovacane Před 4 lety +9390

    When he said “she still resents me for being poor” that broke my heart.

  • @SkraLord
    @SkraLord Před 2 lety +48

    Shame on the parents honestly for leaving the mother and uncle behind

  • @irenefelicia673
    @irenefelicia673 Před 3 lety +233

    Telling the husband "has no skill" meanwhile herself can't even read/write but hoping for a better life

  • @Eddie-cs4qy
    @Eddie-cs4qy Před 5 lety +1830

    " Because in either house, we sleep comfortably ".
    .
    .
    . Such a pure heart...

    • @godfirst7452
      @godfirst7452 Před 5 lety +7

      That was awesome!

    • @cocopun
      @cocopun Před 5 lety +1

      Probably scripted to avoid mommy’s punishment LOl

    • @unusualme8072
      @unusualme8072 Před 5 lety +4

      "To the pure, all things are pure"

    • @Eddie-cs4qy
      @Eddie-cs4qy Před 5 lety

      @@unusualme8072 you know what i meant, you dont know what its like to struggle, do you?

    • @triplej3j839
      @triplej3j839 Před 5 lety

      That is why they do not need a bigger, better house. all they need is job! For living. I have lived in a house that has a toilet, no bedrooms. Our house was like 14 sqm. And that includes, toilet, sink, and the place where we sleep in and yes! Dining area all in one. We just need job, to make ourselves slowly prosfer.

  • @jamie-1011
    @jamie-1011 Před 4 lety +5986

    i noticed that the mom kept complaining about how tough things are for her.... things are so much harder for the father but never did he complain once 😢

    • @tracy_5577
      @tracy_5577 Před 3 lety +357

      also did you see how she had an iphone, the father worked really hard, and she spends it on an extra expensive phone

    • @shiikae7787
      @shiikae7787 Před 3 lety +140

      Tracy _ yeah she could’ve spent it on an android instead. if she wanted a phone, they’re less expensive.

    • @fifth5106
      @fifth5106 Před 3 lety +184

      @@shiikae7787 or better yet, a super old flip phone. Still gets the job done

    • @shiikae7787
      @shiikae7787 Před 3 lety +12

      Wazeen Hoq yeah, that too.

    • @coraline9867
      @coraline9867 Před 3 lety +68

      @@fifth5106 Yep my mom has a flip phone even if she does have money, it's still the same as a working phone.

  • @blitzcrank4840
    @blitzcrank4840 Před 2 lety +24

    "I won't bother them anymore no matter how difficult it is we will take things slowly" hits very hard and saddens me very much. She feels like she is being a burden to the family when as a matter of fact she was the one with the most responsibility taking care of the kids while tending to their potato farm.

  • @rosejoseph815
    @rosejoseph815 Před 2 lety +28

    The grandmother and uncle also deserve the help. There is something fishy with the mom.. 😔

  • @cardagain1759
    @cardagain1759 Před 5 lety +3171

    Dads a warrior. Much respect for him

    • @cindihowell6672
      @cindihowell6672 Před 5 lety +115

      And very handsome. He could find a much better wife .

    • @animerocks2468
      @animerocks2468 Před 5 lety +90

      @@cindihowell6672 Even from a guy's point of view, the father and the 17 year old uncle are obviously handsome. They should try to brush up on their speaking skills, then pick up a sales job in the city, assuming that they can read and write.

    • @olymolly3637
      @olymolly3637 Před 5 lety +3

      And hero

    • @thomasli8209
      @thomasli8209 Před 5 lety +6

      Mr T Although what you said is true, it doesn’t really refute what Joshua said. I don’t see why you felt the need to claim that he “clearly has no idea of the poverty in rural China”, since he wasn’t at all claiming to be an expert. If the mom can supposedly obtain an entry permit to a city to work in restaurants, then why can’t the father and uncle? It was even stated that the father worked in construction. Your comment is extremely pointless and doesn’t bring anything to the conversation.

    • @_Llamaaa
      @_Llamaaa Před 5 lety +20

      @Ichigo Red sis the dad was working in the city did u watch the vid

  • @zakdemon
    @zakdemon Před 3 lety +7308

    The grandma is clearly the MVP. She takes care of the kids when both parents aren’t there. She grows crops to feed them, works the fields day and night. Dad complains about being useless, mom hates dad for bring poor. Grandma has no drama and deserves the award ⭐️

  • @ellie7763
    @ellie7763 Před 3 lety +10

    i can’t even express how upset i am with the fact that they left behind the grandma and uncle.

  • @andresbarrera6156
    @andresbarrera6156 Před 4 lety +6717

    Get the divorce kick the mom out and bring the grandma and uncle to live with you and find a better wife.

    • @My-love_islife3
      @My-love_islife3 Před 4 lety +195

      Yep! I support that. This is indeed the right thing to do.👍

    • @Sifat_Rashid
      @Sifat_Rashid Před 4 lety +29

      Yesss

    • @dio-chu
      @dio-chu Před 4 lety +29

      Preach! Genuinely a great idea.

    • @sabrinalim5746
      @sabrinalim5746 Před 4 lety +7

      True! I support you😂

    • @KN-cs8dp
      @KN-cs8dp Před 4 lety +98

      The children wants their mum not some other woman

  • @angskeet
    @angskeet Před 5 lety +4813

    I'm glad the dad and the children are happy, but the mom seems selfish. All she wants is money. Why else would she return after they got a new house? Even the daughter isn't sure of her mom's intentions.

    • @hotgirlslistentoenhypen8287
      @hotgirlslistentoenhypen8287 Před 5 lety +256

      That's what I thought. As soon as she heard they got a new house she came back, and when she came back she only asked for money and wanted to divorce him, even though he's giving her the money. I do understand her hardships but it doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.

    • @ZenYorkfield
      @ZenYorkfield Před 5 lety +17

      To save face, what are you gonna so with a big house if you don't have money.

    • @izdabombz
      @izdabombz Před 5 lety +37

      She has her parents to take care of too and the parents are sooooo young. The guy is like 26-27 so they probably has kids at 19-20. Really have no moment to mature

    • @king.kthebest6158
      @king.kthebest6158 Před 5 lety +18

      She's a woman, what did you expect?

    • @takemypainaway9517
      @takemypainaway9517 Před 5 lety +24

      What if her husband abused her and she's just not saying anything??

  • @RAW10_1
    @RAW10_1 Před 2 lety +9

    What a terrible mother. She leaves them, comes back, and smiles the whole time she talks about her abandoning them like it's some kind of joke. I hope these kids find a better life one day. They deserve happiness

  • @brianmiles698
    @brianmiles698 Před rokem +9

    You can clearly see the confidence that boy has gained through the love of others

  • @kelslyy
    @kelslyy Před 4 lety +3291

    The grandma and uncle deserves so much more than the mom :(

    • @almond1865
      @almond1865 Před 4 lety +85

      every family has their problems. we can’t judge the family based of this 10 minute video and suddenly assume that we know their situations. what we are seeing is only the surface and not even their true selfs as they are in front of a camera. what they deserve is not something we can decide. we don’t know their history or their situation to judge how much they deserve.

    • @v.dargain1678
      @v.dargain1678 Před 4 lety +6

      They are taught not to think for themselves under communism , because big brother got your back . And this is what happens when "big brother" moves away .

    • @almond1865
      @almond1865 Před 4 lety +36

      V. Dargain it’s got nothing to do with communism. this happens to people everywhere because of poverty. stop blaming everything that is wrong with a country on a political ideology. there is so much more than that.

    • @wendanth1256
      @wendanth1256 Před 4 lety

      @Joyce Salocha this might be a bot

    • @keno8125
      @keno8125 Před 4 lety +2

      So true

  • @amirtamang4210
    @amirtamang4210 Před 4 lety +2345

    Protect the daughter. She is the smartest one here and she can raise them all if given the better opportunitie.

    • @emelialartey2973
      @emelialartey2973 Před 4 lety +67

      I was about to say the same thing. She is smart

    • @benchen123
      @benchen123 Před 4 lety +52

      Yes the daughter speaks well.

    • @joez3706
      @joez3706 Před 4 lety +19

      I wonder if she goes to school?

    • @deidara8243
      @deidara8243 Před 4 lety +79

      Correction protect the daughter AND the son. they both have potential!

    • @yun-pg8cr
      @yun-pg8cr Před 4 lety +26

      She shouldn’t have to raise them, she’s the daughter, putting such a big responsibility on her back isn’t fair to her. They could do better even without the mother. I hope they get lots of money and are able to sustain it, i hope the grandma and uncle stays healthy, stability and that he is able to keep going to school and complete highschool at least

  • @jen732
    @jen732 Před 3 lety +16

    A "mother" should be an angle for her daugther and son . But in this case Grandma is the real "mother" for the boy & the girl than his REAL MOM .

  • @nekomimi7434
    @nekomimi7434 Před 3 lety +15

    I hope the uncle and grandma will also receive help😢

  • @vlad.a14_84
    @vlad.a14_84 Před 5 lety +884

    When he is 60 he will tell his grandkids that he had to walk through miles of snow and ice on a mountain and it's true

  • @noobmaster-zq9su
    @noobmaster-zq9su Před 5 lety +5763

    She left when they didnt have enough and now that they have a better house all of a sudden she came back😑

    • @user-ym1nf6el9m
      @user-ym1nf6el9m Před 5 lety +303

      Coincidence? I think not

    • @samanthaleezz8490
      @samanthaleezz8490 Před 5 lety +92

      Rain yup it’s kinda weird

    • @deussivenatura5805
      @deussivenatura5805 Před 5 lety +76

      Sounds like my dad

    • @noobmaster-zq9su
      @noobmaster-zq9su Před 5 lety +82

      @@deussivenatura5805i hope your family is all well

    • @dibyadhariwal6229
      @dibyadhariwal6229 Před 5 lety +293

      When you're that poor and you literally fight everyday to live and fend for yourself and provide for basic necessities, you become cold....itsnot to buy an expensive car or house..its to buy food, her basic desire, maybe to buy a soap for taking a bath....easier said then done...Stop being so judgemental.

  • @homework3558
    @homework3558 Před 2 lety +14

    Although this small family lives in poverty, it seems that their lives are blessed.
    But why weren't his grandmother and uncle invited to live in a new house? Really wicked.

  • @deniseedit.
    @deniseedit. Před 5 lety +1999

    I am guessing the mother is going to leave again. I feel so sorry for the little boy as he seems so happy when he talks about his mother. His grandmother is an amazing woman.

    • @AnimeLovaFoeva
      @AnimeLovaFoeva Před 5 lety +25

      she going to the leave the first chance she has if the father trusts her with a large sum of money

    • @danielheng501
      @danielheng501 Před 5 lety +16

      She wants a divorce so she can share part of the wealth. Maybe the house.

    • @cckk1357
      @cckk1357 Před 5 lety +2

      Yeah..😭

    • @darrenguelas5096
      @darrenguelas5096 Před 5 lety +5

      She already found a new boyfriend

    • @KCsFunHouse
      @KCsFunHouse Před 5 lety +4

      I feel like she heard about the donations and came running back. That was my initial thought. I love the little boys attitude, what a sweet kid so full of positivity. I’m curious why the mother and his brother are still living in the old house, they could have their own floor in the new one. I really hope the dads brother doesn’t drop out and finishes his education. I can’t imagine what this family goes through, it makes me very appreciative for what I have in my own life.

  • @Lilka20061990
    @Lilka20061990 Před 5 lety +1975

    People donated sooooo much money to them but they barely saw any of it. Whoever took care of it, the city or whoever took most of it. If someone is able to help them and is willing they need to go and help them in person. Don’t trust these agencies.

    • @foofy3
      @foofy3 Před 5 lety +181

      this is why I don't donate to charities and will definitely help in person instead

    • @Lizzytrixx
      @Lizzytrixx Před 5 lety +74

      Yessss!! All those funds are not being used by the people who actually need them.

    • @dalicassini8725
      @dalicassini8725 Před 5 lety +95

      i too have donated 100€ last year where tf my money went????

    • @sdmdjkdjejw9930
      @sdmdjkdjejw9930 Před 5 lety +32

      @@crazyhorse4246 that's messed up

    • @mellow1395
      @mellow1395 Před 5 lety +123

      @@dalicassini8725 ask the Chinese government they raised 300k USD and the family only recieved 900 this some bs

  • @foodiesworldUSA
    @foodiesworldUSA Před 2 lety +10

    This 2nd part is even more heartbreaking with abandoning of poor old grandmother and uncle

  • @Ivan.80p
    @Ivan.80p Před 2 lety +10

    I want to be mad at the mom but I can't. They're all struggling but in a better place than they used to be. I wish the entire family nothing but the best. Sending positive vibes to them.

  • @karenmwehp1206
    @karenmwehp1206 Před 5 lety +1458

    His grandmother.. she’s really amazing.. 60 with an aching back.. just to provide for their family. I salute to you maam..

    • @kirkjohnson9353
      @kirkjohnson9353 Před 5 lety +34

      She gets just over one hundred dollars a year and gives it to the boy to go school. Incredible. I hope things get better for this family.

    • @nocent6134
      @nocent6134 Před 5 lety +10

      Kirk Johnson for real dude. Wish I could donate at least something

    • @HugoBrown
      @HugoBrown Před 5 lety +2

      Would be great to see if they got relocated as part of the Poverty Alleviation program it mentions at the end of video it said most of the residents are being relocated to new housing.

    • @kloud9805
      @kloud9805 Před 5 lety +3

      She truly is amazing. There are many grandmothers like her (including my own) who worked so hard to help their grandchildren and family. It breaks my heart to see that the mother does less work than the grandmother, who really should have been retired by now.

    • @itsjussjerry
      @itsjussjerry Před 5 lety +1

      Wonder if there's any way we could help

  • @Prakesh990
    @Prakesh990 Před 5 lety +3943

    The wife came back but she wants to divorce because the dad still being poor ?! I mean c'mon What would she expected ? I'm pretty sad about the dad, nobody cares about him (mostly the wife) but he tries so hard to afford a better life for his family...

    • @ThatBoldStatement
      @ThatBoldStatement Před 5 lety +299

      She heard the story of 56000 pounds being donated to the kid which is what her husband would make in like 10 years of work. She didn't get the memo that the charity only gave them 900 and kept the rest "for other children in need". So she wanted a piece of that windfall. But upon realising she didn't have the full story and she couldn't simply freeload and spend it all she realised she made the wrong choice. Hence wanting to divorce. Best part is she blames him for all the issues and being poor. It's like it completely goes over her head she is a human being and can work and try to be successful to... But nope, better blame everyone else.

    • @tommo9176
      @tommo9176 Před 5 lety +16

      @@ThatBoldStatement beat me to it

    • @SwaggerDeluxe
      @SwaggerDeluxe Před 5 lety +163

      @@ThatBoldStatement The sad part is, that she didnt even care about her own children and just come back for the money. What kind of mother is that?

    • @littlebeanze8210
      @littlebeanze8210 Před 5 lety +37

      Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana it’s not exclusive to parents, when a person gets a large amount of money or fame, relatives will come to get a piece of that pie

    • @BuddhasMiddleFinger
      @BuddhasMiddleFinger Před 5 lety +6

      Female Hypergamy at work. Why am I not surprised? AWALT

  • @satansleftnut666
    @satansleftnut666 Před 2 lety +10

    “Because in either house we sleep comfortably”

  • @krisb8727
    @krisb8727 Před 2 lety +8

    That mother is horrible! Didn’t the boy say in the last video that he could remember her beating him? What a POS

  • @iwanttobelieve5970
    @iwanttobelieve5970 Před 5 lety +3616

    I was not expecting that. Seems like the mother came back probably out of being embarrassment for leaving her kids because his story went global. And it's sad that the grandmother was forced to continue to live there. I watched a documentary about the new settlements they are making them move into. They're apartments mostly. Hopefully, she'll have a better life.

    • @marielosjauregui9065
      @marielosjauregui9065 Před 5 lety +175

      i dont think she was sending them money...she just came back for the new house...she is a bad woman...hope that there is some love in her heart for her children...but even the daughter said we dont know what my mom is thinking....hope the dad can find a better job

    • @slehcyo8223
      @slehcyo8223 Před 5 lety +32

      @@marielosjauregui9065 ah my bad just seen she didn't send it back. Tbh I still don't judge her. I don't judge people living in extreme poverty. I'm glad she went back home though.

    • @BubblegumFunk
      @BubblegumFunk Před 5 lety +14

      But to leave your child in the first place 😩

    • @ChaunceyDos
      @ChaunceyDos Před 5 lety +13

      @Erinne Cat Yeah, I cut the mother some slack. I don't know what her life while growing up was like, how old she is, how she got pregnant... She simply seems unwilling to resign herself to the life she's been handed.

    • @SkyBlue-ft5ou
      @SkyBlue-ft5ou Před 5 lety +15

      You can not imagine how hard the life is of living in northwest China

  • @arisbarocio6303
    @arisbarocio6303 Před 5 lety +2616

    I will personally go visit this family and give them the donation because it’s obvious someone isn’t doing it properly. I’ll also fight the mom.

    • @greenamagasin4855
      @greenamagasin4855 Před 5 lety +117

      Okay I’m coming w you. Haha

    • @internettroll7497
      @internettroll7497 Před 5 lety +58

      Yeah .you fight the mom. Girl fight. Payper view event. Cash pours in . The family gets rich. ...... noice.

    • @aisyahsasuke7563
      @aisyahsasuke7563 Před 5 lety +6

      @@greenamagasin4855 me too

    • @NgocNguyen-hr2rj
      @NgocNguyen-hr2rj Před 5 lety +80

      Aris Barocio Well Just Saying But The Government Robbed The Kids Money And Out of The 300,000 United States Dollars, He Only Got 900

    • @teasis1212
      @teasis1212 Před 5 lety +17

      i'm coming with you, get the cash and knives ready

  • @kakaisingsit9808
    @kakaisingsit9808 Před 2 lety +5

    Thanks to all noble hearts who have made the life of this adorable boy and his family better.

  • @lliamjurdom9505
    @lliamjurdom9505 Před 2 lety +6

    How sad for grandma and young uncle … hope it works out for them all …

  • @Xaol
    @Xaol Před 5 lety +2435

    Why can't the grandma and uncle live with the family? There is still space to put a bed or couch for the grandmother and uncle to sleep. I feel so sorry for them 😭

    • @micozhou9665
      @micozhou9665 Před 5 lety +157

      Perhaps it is because of the boy's mother, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is very subtle

    • @jungkookscoconuthairline
      @jungkookscoconuthairline Před 4 lety +40

      They can’t even pay for their own family, it will be even more hard to pay for two more people in your household

    • @Xaol
      @Xaol Před 4 lety +6

      Jungkooks Coconut hairline oh okay

    • @mizerbrise
      @mizerbrise Před 4 lety +53

      Jungkooks Coconut hairline well the mom could’ve stayed gone and they could’ve moved in with them

    • @raishmamaraj9019
      @raishmamaraj9019 Před 4 lety +86

      Heartbreaking! His mum and uncle stood by him when miss opportunist left her 2 young children and abandoned them.

  • @kateli1880
    @kateli1880 Před 5 lety +1251

    The son & daughter walks and talks more mature than her.

    • @kirinhayami6329
      @kirinhayami6329 Před 5 lety +1

      so true

    • @faker3033
      @faker3033 Před 5 lety +23

      She has no education and is very immature but that often happens especially if u can't read and can't write.... school is so important ... i think she knows herself that she should have learnt how to read and stuff but maybe she was so poor she didn't have the chance who knows

    • @wahooooh
      @wahooooh Před 5 lety +3

      Well the mom said she can't read or write so she probably didn't go to school like her kids
      Oh everyone already said it lol

    • @Kindat_heart
      @Kindat_heart Před 5 lety +1

      the children have had an education, so it's to be expected..

    • @vintage1950
      @vintage1950 Před 5 lety

      Kate Li education is the key

  • @truthseeker1681
    @truthseeker1681 Před 3 lety +4

    His beautiful and warming eyes... A little angel inside....

  • @_sayan_roy_
    @_sayan_roy_ Před 3 lety +2

    Son seems to be innocent and gullible. He got his father's genes. The daughter understands her mother. Proud of her.

  • @Marshall-se9zs
    @Marshall-se9zs Před 3 lety +3917

    So....she's worried about him being poor and not having skills, when she can't read or write herself? :| she has the same skill level as her husband. She doesn't deserve a man that's so much more humble than she is

    • @mariahgutierrez4481
      @mariahgutierrez4481 Před 3 lety +237

      Also why did she come back if she still was not going to help the family? They said she just sits at home, still wanting a divorce, but asks for money.
      I would tell her she's just another mouth to feed 😂 she wants to be single so bad she can provide for herself.

    • @blurryface_1589
      @blurryface_1589 Před 3 lety +44

      @@mariahgutierrez4481 thats true, she is just so toxic...

    • @rebecacolin6281
      @rebecacolin6281 Před 3 lety +6

      Es injusto porque se vive además en una cultura machista, dónde al hombre se le ve como proveedor y es una exigencia, con lo cual no estoy de acuerdo, ella debe madurar.

    • @blurryface_1589
      @blurryface_1589 Před 3 lety +1

      @@rebecacolin6281 Y tantoo pfff pero esk china para igualdad de genero aún le queda. Se ve mucho allí que el hombre tiene q mantener a la mujer, de hecho antes había mercados en el que te ponían que ganaba el hombre, de que trabajaba, una foto y las madres preparaban las citas con sus hijas. Por suerte creo q eso ya no se hace o se esta reduciendo poco a poco pero les queda camino.

    • @ihalicia7494
      @ihalicia7494 Před 3 lety +19

      Her life isn't easy either so ofc she's not gonna be an angel

  • @canadian4oodie115
    @canadian4oodie115 Před 5 lety +982

    At such a young age the children are very wise and mature. All the hardship they endured made them very strong.

    • @shadowmod3
      @shadowmod3 Před 5 lety +4

      East Asians you see in the west works hard because they understand hardship. Those which have been there for generations tend to take life for granted.

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt Před 5 lety

      @@shadowmod3 well yeah, but the really rich in Asia don't have any desire to move.

    • @ChibiQilin
      @ChibiQilin Před 5 lety

      We need to put all children through this sort of hardship so we can build a better future through a stronger generation!

    • @braxtonshrianandan2438
      @braxtonshrianandan2438 Před 5 lety +1

      NAH ...They are JUST smart anyway..and such hard working people..!

    • @microRiZu
      @microRiZu Před 5 lety +1

      The person my sister is married to because of my father is living in a house made out of dirt bricks with dirst layers. she has 4 kids and the husband is doing no work the husband's father and mother grow spicies/potatoes/tomatoes/onions on their farm land and that's what they eat whole year i wish to help them after i complete my education! and i hate that person for making my sister and her kids starve

  • @eveningknight409
    @eveningknight409 Před rokem +5

    The father has a huge heart.he accepted the woman just for the sake of his children. I would have never accepted the woman back even for my children, cause my ego is big enough to give the woman a second chance.

  • @evangeline6
    @evangeline6 Před 2 lety

    Please provide information so others may help grandma. She deserves respect. May she always be blessed for her determination & steadfastness

  • @alphabet8411
    @alphabet8411 Před 4 lety +5722

    When the young uncle was talking about the potatoes in the old house you can see the pain in his eyes. He is holding back so much pain. I feel like the grandma and the young uncle deserve a better life. He needs an education. This is so sad.

    • @violetap3004
      @violetap3004 Před 4 lety +124

      It was like he was holding back his tears 😭

    • @skrepoop
      @skrepoop Před 4 lety +45

      i agree
      they need a better life.

    • @Radzio2006
      @Radzio2006 Před 4 lety +9

      @@violetap3004 exactly, i see the same.

    • @rondass62
      @rondass62 Před 4 lety

      Lol...you guys are so so soft...let your emotions get in the way...don't believe bthe chowpees

    • @fuego5350
      @fuego5350 Před 4 lety +65

      @@rondass62 what?

  • @questionmark1152
    @questionmark1152 Před 3 lety +2958

    Mom comes back as soon as the kid is famous, they have a house, and some money.
    Seems pretty legit. She just "missed" the kids a lot.

    • @pulchritudinousentity3129
      @pulchritudinousentity3129 Před 2 lety +206

      Right, she must of "read" somewhere, that her kids and husband had them dolla signs comin in.

    • @rosariacatanese5384
      @rosariacatanese5384 Před 2 lety +9

      È troppo comodo!

    • @John1873--
      @John1873-- Před 2 lety +39

      Uhhhh, I don't think you truly understand what poverty is.
      It isnt having your mobile cut-off for a week or running out of milk. It requires difficult decisions and sacrifices if its to be overcome.

    • @joschmo4497
      @joschmo4497 Před 2 lety +81

      @@John1873-- Lol ok bruv, you mean sacrifice your kids? Pathetic, don't justify the witch.

    • @tojislefttoe7505
      @tojislefttoe7505 Před 2 lety +199

      @@John1873-- she used to beat her kids, and literally abandoned her kids. There are still thousands of parents who still care for their kids even when they're in severe poverty.

  • @strcs_
    @strcs_ Před 2 lety +2

    Grandma is an amazing person, she deserves some help too!

  • @mariajanellepastrana9031
    @mariajanellepastrana9031 Před 2 lety +17

    Mom be like: “lema back to them and take the money hehe😜” what a clown

  • @minx.toesies2037
    @minx.toesies2037 Před 3 lety +5178

    the daughter seems like a very smart girl, especially considering her situation. i hope she can find a job and happiness in the future.

    • @zaradkytlico8737
      @zaradkytlico8737 Před 3 lety +19

      Same

    • @bryonycoates3
      @bryonycoates3 Před 3 lety +31

      Yes she's a wise soul. Hope things work out for her and her brother ❤

    • @AleQuintana-lq5vo
      @AleQuintana-lq5vo Před 3 lety +40

      She have a better nutritionals condición. The grand mother give that. Here the hero is the grand mother. She stay far and whit the same condition. For her should be the care.

    • @keishaaulia7545
      @keishaaulia7545 Před 3 lety +2

      Yess

    • @Kunalalal
      @Kunalalal Před 3 lety +16

      Please stop ruining someone’s life more... who are you people to pass such mean comments and make such cheap judgements. It’s their life, their problems. Every individual does not have the same emotional and psychological strength as the society expects from him or her. Everyone has their own emotional struggle, you guys have no right to comment on anyone from this family. If you can offer help than do so if not than don’t share your unnecessary unanalysed judgements. They need help, that kid does not want people to judge his mother

  • @Eeluon
    @Eeluon Před 5 lety +1097

    She came back for the donated money, only to find out he's still poor and now she wants a divorce smh

    • @irondolphin1559
      @irondolphin1559 Před 5 lety +13

      @Anonymous agreed

    • @AlexAnder-rv1gu
      @AlexAnder-rv1gu Před 5 lety +45

      She originally left because the family was SO poor -- Not poor-in-America poor -- and because she and her husband were fighting all the time (BECAUSE they were poor). She didn't come back "for the money", she came back hoping things could work themselves out.

    • @user-zi6fb3sb3g
      @user-zi6fb3sb3g Před 5 lety +22

      @@AlexAnder-rv1gu whatever you say

    • @elcheapo572
      @elcheapo572 Před 5 lety +8

      @@AlexAnder-rv1gu Simp

    • @whatisthat7874
      @whatisthat7874 Před 5 lety +22

      Eeluon idk what would i be like in her situation, I probably would left too, the future seems to be way too thin, you can’t just judge people in this hard situation, i know it’s cruel to just left her borns but come on now

  • @charlesdang2557
    @charlesdang2557 Před 3 lety +6

    It is no wonder that the elderly are given such respect in Chinese society. In the case of the grandmother, it is truly earned. I hope she lives long enough to see the second generation become successful. The daughter is quite smart. I hope she is given the same opportunities as her brother. She will one day become the woman that her mother failed to be.

  • @leekarylle4896
    @leekarylle4896 Před 2 lety

    Glad to see this post and know what happened to this boy and his family. All the best 💙

  • @JohnDoe-iu5xi
    @JohnDoe-iu5xi Před 5 lety +2183

    No ones talking about how they robbed this kids donation money? From 300k USD in donations to being given only 900USD. Wow.

  • @AM69999
    @AM69999 Před 3 lety +3785

    The grandma and young uncle should receive donations too, he still in middle school and she's an older woman they can't keep living like that 😥

    • @rainbowkitten8990
      @rainbowkitten8990 Před 3 lety +75

      With $130 a year, it must be so so hard. We spend that every few weeks-

    • @jimx3603
      @jimx3603 Před 3 lety +9

      @@rainbowkitten8990 yes. fortunately they have lands and can plant for food.

    • @seh-lavee2749
      @seh-lavee2749 Před 3 lety

      Agreed.

    • @regalshot.2423
      @regalshot.2423 Před 3 lety +19

      I know! That poor old lady will probably have to just keep doing the manual labor

    • @jenniferv618
      @jenniferv618 Před 3 lety +33

      @@jimx3603 did you not see on the 1st video that the government planted trees & only left them with a few places to grow crops? He said what they left him didnt supply enough so he had to look for work. Its all in the first video.

  • @sandog916
    @sandog916 Před 2 lety +1

    Is there a go fund me for this family my heart dropped seeing the grandparents, I love my grandparents so much 😭❤️

  • @edojamasu660
    @edojamasu660 Před 2 lety +1

    His so cute, strong man and full of spirit. I can learn from him ❤

  • @glazelalbite2481
    @glazelalbite2481 Před 5 lety +1983

    The uncle and grandma too pls help them too :(

    • @ABCD-po1od
      @ABCD-po1od Před 5 lety

      A 4 Year Orphan Showing His Incredible Kungfu Skill 四岁孤儿 河南寺院内向众人展示武术czcams.com/video/tH20dAM5nsA/video.html

    • @vimoo9783
      @vimoo9783 Před 5 lety +38

      Yeah... They should also live in the new house not the mom

    • @kelslyy
      @kelslyy Před 4 lety +5

      Yeah they deserve a better life :(

    • @vickyjadhav6829
      @vickyjadhav6829 Před 4 lety

      It’s so easy to sit there and comment.

    • @bakedmac306
      @bakedmac306 Před 4 lety

      Yes pls

  • @awkwardlyfe6493
    @awkwardlyfe6493 Před 4 lety +2584

    Ice Boy 2018: "I don't have many memories of my mother, but I remember she liked to beat me..."

    • @paulius279
      @paulius279 Před 4 lety +15

      LOL

    • @jjwilliams410
      @jjwilliams410 Před 4 lety +380

      @@paulius279 This isn't funny

    • @paulius279
      @paulius279 Před 4 lety +11

      @@jjwilliams410 it is

    • @dmontpelier
      @dmontpelier Před 4 lety +292

      Paulius Miliauskas
      Ah yes being abused is funny to you?

    • @paulius279
      @paulius279 Před 4 lety +34

      @@dmontpelier that his mom beats him isnt funny, only the comment

  • @AndiniKissesGoodbye
    @AndiniKissesGoodbye Před 2 lety +1

    The uncle is still a child, he still needs so much support. It's so sad.

  • @carlosa2540
    @carlosa2540 Před 3 lety +30

    That scene at the end shows a lot. She has a touchscreen cellphone on her hand. She wants money to pay for the phone bill. And since she still wants to divorce, she's probably talking to someone else through it. Not to mention the better clothes she has, she wants the extra things in life than to just have what someone will need

    • @jessn.3851
      @jessn.3851 Před 2 lety

      Phone bills are extremely cheap in China. Did you know you can get 60 GB of data a month for 8 or 9 dollars in Vietnam? It's similar in China. The phone is probably less than 100 dollars but easy to break. Clothing is also very cheap in China.

    • @marilu19918
      @marilu19918 Před 2 lety

      She can't read... and a 'touchscreen' cellphone is nothing in China. I don't see how she has better clothes... All of their clothes look cheap and old...

  • @KS-ck8ht
    @KS-ck8ht Před 5 lety +484

    You can see how the father glances at his wife at the beginning when the son introduces her. That look says it all.
    I wish he would find someone who would love him for real. That father went through a lot.

    • @CoolBadger
      @CoolBadger Před 5 lety +9

      Agreed! Exactly what I was thinking too.

  • @glassify
    @glassify Před 5 lety +2476

    When your son becomes famous so you finally decide to come back to the family to farm some of that clout

    • @The_Noblesse
      @The_Noblesse Před 5 lety +27

      The son asked the mom to come back through a video after he went viral

    • @minhaaa7222
      @minhaaa7222 Před 5 lety +9

      BuT thAt mOm aiN a mOM ??

    • @dcoing1907
      @dcoing1907 Před 5 lety +25

      Licht Von Edelweiss if my mom left me for over two years I’d want her back too but the difference is some parents leave their kids life it’s not like they never want them back. It’s messed up to remove yourself from your children and when that kid asked her if she can come back they have fame now the kid obviously told her everything that’s happening so she’s like count me back into your life when they had nothing she gave him nothing and gave up on being a mother.

    • @levinhale8584
      @levinhale8584 Před 5 lety +20

      It is not that simple. This family has no income at all, the mom left to find job and work.

    • @glassify
      @glassify Před 5 lety +13

      roca moka lol but she came back when he became famous 🤔

  • @mr.nobody7785
    @mr.nobody7785 Před 3 lety

    what a great ma. when things are hard, she is the first to leave. any small windfall, she's the first to come back. feel sorry for her husband and kids

  • @nicholasclintace6436
    @nicholasclintace6436 Před 2 lety +3

    "If you can't be with me at my worst then you don't deserve to be at my best" the father deserves a better woman to be a mother for those children and a better wife for him even when life is tough so together they can achieve something

  • @mamtarai1471
    @mamtarai1471 Před 5 lety +1585

    Their grandmother and uncle should also stay with them in the new home...

    • @kat465k3
      @kat465k3 Před 5 lety +260

      mamta rai I think it’s because their grandmother doesn’t like the mother, maybe she resents the mother for leaving the family, and therefore refuses to live with them? Or maybe their grandmother is simply used to the old house. The situation seems very complicated and messed up...their grandmother and uncle deserves to live with them though!

    • @mamtarai1471
      @mamtarai1471 Před 5 lety +13

      @@kat465k3 It may be what you said... but i hope they live together like before in the new one as well😔☹🙁

    • @darkwebgirl
      @darkwebgirl Před 5 lety +58

      @@kat465k3 the grandmother said "it's fine, we won't bother them anymore. We will make it work and we will work slowly" of course I can't know because I'm not there but it sure sounds and looks like they really wanted to go with them, and the mother or whoever told them they weren't welcome.

    • @letyg1526
      @letyg1526 Před 5 lety +13

      @@darkwebgirl it's a possibility, so I hope the mom leaves again so the grandma and uncle can move in to the new house.

    • @neviennaguib3021
      @neviennaguib3021 Před 5 lety +5

      mamta rai they are in China. There's a lot of people that live with them and also that means they might have to share money and food and they are still very poor and can't afford to do that. In situations like this it's better to live in small families or else you go poor because you need to care for so many people. And they are already poor.

  • @vieamusante5836
    @vieamusante5836 Před 4 lety +987

    Why can’t the grandmother and uncle live in the new house? there’s enough room and they deserve it more than the mom

    • @octogirl2046
      @octogirl2046 Před 4 lety +45

      The wife left because there were too many people living in the house. I think one of her conditions for coming home and living in the new house was no extra family. I am positive they don’t all get along.

    • @sarahkostkova6613
      @sarahkostkova6613 Před 4 lety +7

      Maybe they need the fields near the old house

    • @yousif_almashhadani
      @yousif_almashhadani Před 4 lety

      1000th

  • @kiiludida
    @kiiludida Před 3 lety +2

    I know that each person has a way to face difficulties, but look at the grandmother still fighting for her family

  • @anasuzypereira2673
    @anasuzypereira2673 Před rokem +2

    this father's love for his children is something very great

  • @mariafoteini
    @mariafoteini Před 5 lety +739

    This mother is not a real mother. The daughter understands.

    • @rosenjuguini2482
      @rosenjuguini2482 Před 5 lety +23

      What one says is; there are parents and then there are just people with kids.

    • @jenniferray8569
      @jenniferray8569 Před 5 lety +13

      Bruv she went away trying to find work because they didn't have enough, she worked 13 hours every day making pennies ..

    • @cherylmedeiros6287
      @cherylmedeiros6287 Před 5 lety +9

      @@jenniferray8569 but she could've stayed home and helped with the kids and farming. I'm sure granny is getting too old to be digging up potatoes on a daily basis. She should have a little garden, a chicken coup, a pig or two. She probably sits on her iPhone all day talking to some man she met while she was away!

    • @alexanderchristopher6237
      @alexanderchristopher6237 Před 5 lety

      @@cherylmedeiros6287 assumptions, assumptions, assumptions. Perhaps you should go there yourself to prove the truth. Otherwise, that's a possible slander.

    • @cherylmedeiros6287
      @cherylmedeiros6287 Před 5 lety

      @@alexanderchristopher6237 so sue me!

  • @willowcupcakes1835
    @willowcupcakes1835 Před 5 lety +651

    "I wanna tell mom ,to not leave us again"
    Such a pure,innocent heart that knows nothing

    • @tamaraoka5152
      @tamaraoka5152 Před 5 lety +3

      cupcake chim with all the bts ff’s you watched?

    • @AAAAAA-cq7rc
      @AAAAAA-cq7rc Před 5 lety +4

      Yeshua is Lord. She means “knows nothing” as knows nothing about the evil inside of the mom

  • @cellsubs6352
    @cellsubs6352 Před 9 měsíci

    I appreciate your videos. When is the next one coming out? 🙌

  • @Dheerajvasireddy
    @Dheerajvasireddy Před 2 lety

    I am very happy for them... 😊 Thank you for helping them...you know I would 🙏🏻

  • @NareshMallya
    @NareshMallya Před 5 lety +1299

    "Because in either houses, we sleep comfortably". That got me. He truly knows how to live in content with his life and surroundings. 🙂

    • @TomboiTravels
      @TomboiTravels Před 4 lety +3

      Yes, he does 💛.

    • @tieiatalks
      @tieiatalks Před 4 lety +11

      Naresh M he and his sister had more sense than the mom. She wants to live great and yet she’s doing nothing to make things better other than leaving.

    • @earldranrebb.sabellina4851
      @earldranrebb.sabellina4851 Před 4 lety +1

      mah hart mah soul 💛

    • @Tyrfingr
      @Tyrfingr Před 4 lety +7

      The little guy could teach people in our spoilt society what the value of contentment means, we all know we need such lessons.

    • @planetjupiter1170
      @planetjupiter1170 Před 4 lety

      same thoughts, naresh.

  • @menaarmanious9711
    @menaarmanious9711 Před 5 lety +876

    the mom probably heard that her kids were famous and came back to see if they had any money

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh Před 5 lety +1

      Exactly!

    • @Richard-dd3mm
      @Richard-dd3mm Před 5 lety +3

      PreWant how do u know it?dont make it up

    • @gregjr.8268
      @gregjr.8268 Před 5 lety +1

      She maybe saw them on her phone

    • @kelly1195
      @kelly1195 Před 5 lety

      That’s true bro

    • @nasratadebago893
      @nasratadebago893 Před 5 lety +1

      I think she came across the viral video last year and came to enjoy the money with them and left grandma with uncle taking care of the kids while both away