My HIV Story

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  • čas přidán 18. 12. 2019
  • It's time to tell my story.
    I'm here to help you along this journey. If you have any questions or would just like to talk. Feel free to connect with me in the comments or on my social media. Remember you're bold, you're beautiful and you're LIVING!
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  • @rubyjackson128
    @rubyjackson128 Před 4 lety +1131

    What people don't understand is no one is safe from HIV. Even in marriage you can be exposed. I salute everyone who can accept and live in your truth.

    • @raquel4677
      @raquel4677 Před 4 lety +27

      Yes. I encourage people(even married) to be tested every 2-3 months(4-6 times a year). Even if you are infected and catch it early as opposed to not getting tested at all, YOU AND GOD can make all the difference of your outcome! You>ANY DISEASE

    • @ASMRR3N33
      @ASMRR3N33 Před 4 lety +42

      Yes Honey those are facts 💯 my Husband was cheating on me I had no idea. Thank God I'm still free of all diseases

    • @gemarmckinney2927
      @gemarmckinney2927 Před 4 lety +1

      Um I'm sure people understand that

    • @raquel4677
      @raquel4677 Před 4 lety +19

      @gemar McKinney people understand it, but they get comfortable and don’t think it will ever happen to them. It’s like a child would never think their mother or a loved one would harm them because of their relationship and that’s how things should be, but we don’t live in an ideal world.

    • @gemarmckinney2927
      @gemarmckinney2927 Před 4 lety +5

      @@raquel4677 Amen to that sister

  • @soyicasweet99
    @soyicasweet99 Před 10 měsíci +119

    My brother was diagnosed in 1999 at 24 1/2 and I was right there with him that day. Back then I worked in the HIV unit in the hospital in the city we were in. He had so many symptoms and lost over 50 pounds in a month and I encouraged him to get tested. He cried so much that day. It was August 24th, 1999. He did not take meds for 10 years and I made him get on meds for fear of him dying. He is now almost 49 and it's 24 years later and he's undetectable and healthy.

    • @ValenciaRose.
      @ValenciaRose. Před 3 měsíci

      Did he get it from a woman? Many people don't believe that women can spread hiv.

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania Před 3 měsíci +1

      What was the reason he chose not to take meds? Was it depression preventing him?

    • @soyicasweet99
      @soyicasweet99 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@sensimania back then they told him that his T-cell count was still high so he didn’t have to take meds.He was still in denial though about his diagnosis and kept retesting only to get the same result. 10 years later his T-cell count dropped below 200. But it took 10 years. My aunt has had it for 32 years and her T-cell count dropped 5 years in. She is now undetectable also. She had a child born with it because she didn’t know she had it. That child is now 30 and undetectable with an 8 year old that is HIV negative

    • @prettyyoungthingpyt5015
      @prettyyoungthingpyt5015 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Amazing! No meds for 10 years! Wow. Thank God for the medications.

    • @soyicasweet99
      @soyicasweet99 Před 2 měsíci

      @@prettyyoungthingpyt5015 yes

  • @jrstz1330
    @jrstz1330 Před 4 lety +963

    This just allowed me to recount all the times I had unprotected sex recklessly. In the heat of the moment not considering the circumstances. I thank God when I got tested I was negative. This is not a game I will not role the dice anymore

  • @atlienbratt4098
    @atlienbratt4098 Před 4 lety +419

    My auntie was married to her husband for 25 years they had 3 kids together,he cheated on her n bought back HIV,my aunt died and 2008 REST IN PEACE Auntie love always n forvever

    • @atlienbratt4098
      @atlienbratt4098 Před 4 lety +29

      @Jamaia Mcallister thanks it just goes to show you have to be careful even with ur spouse sometimes.

    • @runthomas
      @runthomas Před 4 lety +11

      thing is, if she knew ...she would still be alive today probably , apparently just pop a single pill a day and you are as good as cured.

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 Před 4 lety +21

      Glory to god.. I’ll never understand this life.. you can’t Trust ANYONE

    • @deleahwilliams1557
      @deleahwilliams1557 Před 3 lety +8

      Sorry to hear that God bless sweetie.😔🙏

    • @deleahwilliams1557
      @deleahwilliams1557 Před 3 lety

      @@sheambitious29lachelle17 true.

  • @mamakalami
    @mamakalami Před 4 lety +361

    We need to stop trusting others with our lives. I am responsible for my own protection. I treated every potential partner as having HIV until we test.

    • @socalbarbie1040
      @socalbarbie1040 Před 2 lety +32

      Most women get this while in a relationship.

    • @Dollsfromlondon
      @Dollsfromlondon Před 2 lety +11

      @@socalbarbie1040 and after testing.

    • @marcelynxxx
      @marcelynxxx Před rokem +16

      @@socalbarbie1040 even in a relationship / marriage people should still be testing.

    • @cre8v_power
      @cre8v_power Před rokem +5

      Easier said than done.

    • @mamakalami
      @mamakalami Před rokem +13

      @@cre8v_power protection against STDs is crucial... HIV is not the only STI that can cause devastation in our bodies. Refrain or be responsible

  • @brandynikole6276
    @brandynikole6276 Před 4 lety +411

    my friends sister caught HIV when she was 17 too in 1992. Very scary back then but now she has 5 kids and lives her life fully.

    • @verapaige7915
      @verapaige7915 Před 4 lety +11

      Beautiful

    • @shawnahoskins427
      @shawnahoskins427 Před 4 lety +25

      Now that's a blessing and a true story and had kids behind that now in day's u can't get anybody to sleep with u and u tell them u HIV positive that man must of really love her so much he gave her 5 bless kids God bless u and your family in Jesus name we pray Amen❤💚💜💙👣👣👣🙏🙏

    • @Pokemonrasta1998
      @Pokemonrasta1998 Před 4 lety +7

      That's amazing. That's really amazing!

    • @Queensofafrica8
      @Queensofafrica8 Před 4 lety +14

      Amazing....my biggest fear not finding someone to love me

    • @jacquelynreneee
      @jacquelynreneee Před 4 lety +1

      So all 5 of the kids have HIV too ?

  • @Focusandseek
    @Focusandseek Před 3 lety +229

    Thank you for sharing your story. My mom died from AIDS. If she could’ve heard your words I believe it would’ve given her hope. She kept it to herself. Anyone who is dealing with a silent battle in here to say. You are not alone and do not take on Shame.

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕....

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 Před 2 lety +4

      Hey. So she never took her medication ?

    • @princessvaeh7018
      @princessvaeh7018 Před rokem +2

      amen sister or brother

    • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
      @TheFriendlyPsychopath Před rokem +6

      My mother died of Aids too and so did my uncle.

    • @lookatyou5809
      @lookatyou5809 Před rokem +4

      @@TheFriendlyPsychopath so sorry for your loss, its so hard losing a parent to AIDS. I lost my dad to it 24 years ago today and my little brother when he was 12. May you find peace 🙏🏽

  • @edo7131
    @edo7131 Před 2 lety +91

    My friend just contracted hiv, he feels now like a walking disease, a walking corpse, he lost all his self-esteem. I hope one day he can feel worthy and human.

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 2 lety +19

      I pray he can as well. If you can share my video and have him message me. I would love to connect him with support in his area if possible. There are a lot of online support platforms as well if he is out of the US.

    • @ewutrygetsense9851
      @ewutrygetsense9851 Před rokem

      did he tell you that's he feels like a walking corpse or your d one making up shit in your head

    • @theinsightfulvisionary0197
      @theinsightfulvisionary0197 Před rokem +6

      Omg!!! That's terrible!!! but regardless of his status, he still deserves to be loved and treated with treated with dignity & respect!!!

    • @BS-wd7do
      @BS-wd7do Před 8 měsíci

      Who’d he get it from?

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kiaj.d.5855
    @kiaj.d.5855 Před rokem +125

    About 11 years ago I had an inconclusive HIV test. I didn’t even know until I came back months later for birth control. I had the longest week of my life waiting for my updated results. I was negative but it surely gave me a different outlook on life 🙏🏽

    • @technogamertg1063
      @technogamertg1063 Před rokem +1

      Did yours say indeterminate?

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 Před rokem +2

      @@technogamertg1063 I think it said inconclusive. Someone was supposed to contact me to retest, but they did not contact me.

    • @princesspeet
      @princesspeet Před rokem

      @@kiaj.d.5855why does it say that if you negative

    • @user-xk4lq3ll8l
      @user-xk4lq3ll8l Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@kiaj.d.5855You should definitely get retested.

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @Ugandangirl
    @Ugandangirl Před 4 lety +204

    That lipstick is perfect for that dress

  • @blakaeg
    @blakaeg Před 4 lety +267

    HIV does not define you!! You are wonderful to share this. You will probably live longer than someone who hasn't got HIV. That's what people do not understand. Thank you.

    • @karencas7174
      @karencas7174 Před 3 lety +4

      thanks so much! it's a lonely walk but in my opinion, its my only true choice. Gods best!

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Před 2 lety +2

      Very true!

    • @cre8v_power
      @cre8v_power Před rokem +6

      @@karencas7174 you're never alone. God loves you! I love you. Always remember that beautiful soul.

    • @user-xk4lq3ll8l
      @user-xk4lq3ll8l Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@karencas7174So you have HIV?

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @shan_7714
    @shan_7714 Před 4 lety +210

    17 is such a young age. I would have been crying if i was the doctor too.

    • @ericalevene3125
      @ericalevene3125 Před 4 lety +40

      That is young. I mean at any age a diagnosis like that is hard but 17. No words!
      She looks beautiful.

    • @lashaundahigh1101
      @lashaundahigh1101 Před 3 lety +5

      @@ericalevene3125 did I miss the part on how she got it

    • @abdulganinur3593
      @abdulganinur3593 Před 2 lety

      she couldnt keep her leg closed thats why she got it

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 Před 2 lety

      But she never said how she got it, these younger kids have group sex, " 0RGIES". 🙄

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 Před 2 lety +7

      @@lashaundahigh1101 SHE NEVER SAID... 🙄 THAT MEANS SHE WAS " GETTING AROUND" LIKE TUPAC SAID.

  • @sheesez8035
    @sheesez8035 Před 4 lety +120

    All: Abstinence will prevent transmission of STDs and soul ties.

    • @rubyjackson128
      @rubyjackson128 Před 4 lety +6

      @Jimmy Bufferz it's the sexual partner's you've had. Their souls are tied to you.

    • @kylemohoney9048
      @kylemohoney9048 Před 4 lety +4

      No such thing as a soul tie I use to fuck the shit out of this girl and we haven’t seen each other in years

    • @kylemohoney9048
      @kylemohoney9048 Před 4 lety +1

      Regina Patrice no but we was both virgins I don’t know if that’s is related to anything lol

    • @sherettamoss4156
      @sherettamoss4156 Před 4 lety +1

      You can be soul tied to an individual without having intercourse with them but contracting any STD isn't the case.

    • @starlove712
      @starlove712 Před 4 lety +7

      That's very insensitive to say because some people are raped !

  • @HotGACPA
    @HotGACPA Před 4 lety +167

    You favor Keisha Knight Polluim from the Cosby show. Thanks for sharing your story. Wishing you many blessings.

  • @1goldenshell
    @1goldenshell Před 4 lety +125

    No one is exempt from contracting HIV; if a person engages in unprotected sex. I admire your strength; and maturity.

    • @theinsightfulvisionary0197
      @theinsightfulvisionary0197 Před rokem +5

      They sure aren't!!! It's dangerous these days to engage in careless and reckless behavior!!!

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @crysblac4944
    @crysblac4944 Před 4 lety +117

    You're not alone, I'm positive as well. I found out in my 4th month of pregnancy. Approaching 6 years later, my beautiful and vivacious daughter I doing great. I have been undetected, although I do have complications from that diagnosis. About a year ago, I found out that my HIV meds brought on my drug-induced Lupus. I have a lot to be thankful for and consider myself blessed. We need to stop being complacent about HIV and talk about it as you are. God bless you and hope you continue to find joy in your journey!!!

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you so much for your courage! I am excited to hear that you and your little one are doing well. Continue to live your best life and remember you matter! We will End the Epidemic!

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Před 2 lety +10

      Wow induced lupus, these things most don't talk about. Thanks for sharing, healing vibes sent your way

    • @abhaysinghkanwar6354
      @abhaysinghkanwar6354 Před rokem +1

      Try ayurvedic remedies too you won't get side affecfs

    • @uchieface7489
      @uchieface7489 Před rokem +5

      Same thing happened to the rapper trick daddy he got diagnosed and also contracted lupus after as well lots of face swelling you guys still have souls don’t be upset or get yourself down

    • @user-xk4lq3ll8l
      @user-xk4lq3ll8l Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@iamshadawnmccantsYou're so Beautiful 😻!!! I'm sorry some LOSER infected you! Hopefully you're doing better now.

  • @jacquelynjones2932
    @jacquelynjones2932 Před 9 měsíci +18

    So glad 40 years in no sexual partners, no disease, no drama. Thank God he has delivered me from my wild life of many years ago. You are beautiful and bold and I am glad you know how to get medical help and medications living a fuller more safer and prosperous life. God bless.

    • @johnwick666
      @johnwick666 Před 5 měsíci

      give us some tips to follow, i cant stop having unprotecting sex with women, i cant think clearly at the moment...

    • @user-gf8nz7hg1f
      @user-gf8nz7hg1f Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@johnwick666
      Let me give you some tips to follow. Especially a woman like me living without having sex with men for years upon years.

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @joesphmccants6545
    @joesphmccants6545 Před 3 lety +60

    4 years ago on March 01,2017 I lost my baby sister to hiv, and I miss her soooooo much. I would do anything to just to see my sister again.

    • @nesq4104
      @nesq4104 Před 2 lety +2

      So sad. How long was she infected? I thought new medications are helping?

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕

    • @antwaanhemisphere7956
      @antwaanhemisphere7956 Před 2 lety +1

      Sorry for your loss fam and I understand ✅

    • @inariknicks9291
      @inariknicks9291 Před rokem +1

      I’m sorry to hear about your sister. But you can’t die from HIV. You only die from what immune disease takes you out. And that is NOT HIV. Again, sorry about your lost. I only commented to educate others reading.

    • @rashaunacobb3297
      @rashaunacobb3297 Před rokem +1

      The new meds wasn’t helping her?how did she die from not taking them cause my dad has it has had it for 25 yrs on his meds

  • @anthonyword6914
    @anthonyword6914 Před 4 lety +100

    This is not a race, gender or sexuality disease. No one is exception to the this disease. I wish we all could be more educated about this disease.

    • @tennesseeminnissi2445
      @tennesseeminnissi2445 Před 3 lety +5

      While that is true, promiscuity and dangerous sexual practices will expose one to a greater risk of contraction.

    • @socalbarbie1040
      @socalbarbie1040 Před 2 lety

      It’s definitely a race and sexuality disease these says. 1 in 2 Black MSM will get it. Stop the nonsense.

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕........

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @seanjohn6932
    @seanjohn6932 Před 4 lety +102

    You seems so confident, you're beautiful, articulate, I love your spirit.
    Hiv/aids is no joke, it's not a life sentence because death itself is inevitable, we all will die someday. What HIV/aids brings, is awareness to life, we have to live a much healthier, God fearing life, be more loving and serve our purpose. God have given us choices, we need to chosen wisely. I love you girl, you're inspiring, change lives.

  • @jpayne173
    @jpayne173 Před 4 lety +18

    I salute you for your testimony. It takes courage and strength to tell your story. Thanks for living in your truth. You’re going to save so many lives. Thank you!

  • @shabauraperryman4973
    @shabauraperryman4973 Před 4 lety +20

    I am so proud of you and so honored to be part of your jouney! Bravo Shadawn!

  • @alstreetrapbeatprofessiona4659

    She looks so beautiful!

    • @lucysamsonow4963
      @lucysamsonow4963 Před 4 lety

      Not „she looks so beautiful“You are beautiful Sweetheart „

    • @AMaroney32
      @AMaroney32 Před 4 lety

      she is beautiful 💜

  • @alisonsmith77
    @alisonsmith77 Před 4 lety +14

    Your story is your ministry! Keep being a beautiful light in this dark world.

  • @lolosunshine2756
    @lolosunshine2756 Před 4 lety +19

    I am so Proud to call you my friend! You go girl! Keep speaking your truth!!

  • @dontcarebear3227
    @dontcarebear3227 Před 3 lety +8

    thank you so much for your courage. thank you for sharing your story and your journey. you are such a bright light and i’m so happy you didn’t let your diagnosis slow you down. you are a testament to the fact that your diagnosis was just another hardship that you overcame. so much wisdom and love that i can hear in your voice! you have a great heart.

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕....

  • @rajbhavan5265
    @rajbhavan5265 Před 4 lety +84

    God help us get rid of this deadly disease n god bless this speaker v r proud of u

    • @danielchukwu4212
      @danielchukwu4212 Před 4 lety +4

      Raj Bhavan God has already provided a way out of some of these unpleasant life experiences but most people today ignore him and his moral values. We can’t escape the universal truth that a person will always reap what he/she sows

    • @rajbhavan5265
      @rajbhavan5265 Před 3 lety +1

      God is grateful to us

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      Raj Bhavan
      I was able to get rid of my hiv with the help of a Dr. I met here online..
      email him at
      Dr.idowuherbalhome@gmail.com

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      Raj Bhavan yes
      Am cured totally from hiv
      By dr.idowu
      WhatsApp him +2348052789941

    • @thelegendoflife7392
      @thelegendoflife7392 Před 3 lety

      Bahut achcha 🥰🙌🏾

  • @elijahmairura5585
    @elijahmairura5585 Před rokem +6

    I pray one day we live in a HIV free world. Before you think of unprotected sex, test first and use protection when need arises. HIV will be something of the past. No easy living with HIV. Let's all take care of ourselves.

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @jackiedorman2188
    @jackiedorman2188 Před 4 lety +57

    I'm glad they have better drugs to help. Unfortunately my brother in law caught it early when the drugs were just starting. He told all his friends his family didn't love him, when we found out he was dying we were by his side day and night for three days. His friends new his family did care. I was the last person he talked to. He said he loved me. It was So hard for him to talk. That made me feel so special. I miss him.

  • @michellejackson8547
    @michellejackson8547 Před 3 lety +17

    I want to set up a house for black women living with HIV. I have a friend who has HIV and she calls me every time she goes through an illness. She's thriving and her numbers are good...but she has taught me so much...and I thank God that she did.

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Před 2 lety +1

      I want to do the same

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @kayt7059
    @kayt7059 Před 4 lety +46

    You are truly amazing. At 17? Wow. Your 17 year old self had to be really strong, determined and persistent. Unfortunately, the stigma is still there. Even I gave into it admittedly; judging people with it. Listening to stories like yours on CZcams has really helped me out of that mind set. I really hope others in similar situations can draw strength from this video and videos like this.

  • @jazmina3738
    @jazmina3738 Před 4 lety +73

    Thank you for being this brave. You spread this message so eloquently. I was like your mother and the doctor who originally diagnosed you. I cried for several days after finding out a younger sibling of mines was positive. I still worry about him because he’s not yet ready to get himself together. Thru videos like yours and research I know he can still live a full life with no consequences. So I thank you so much for advocating for those who haven’t come to the light yet and their families. I pray the stigma dies.

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 4 lety +5

      Jazmin A I will continue to advocate for him and others who aren’t ready to share their stories. But Its was my goal to make sure they get and stay into treatment. I pray he meets someone like me to encourage and empower him to take charge of his HEALTH AND HIV!

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      i finally got rid of my long term hiv virus that I have been suffering from for one year. I'm so excited today that I am cured. Thank you dr.idowu for your herbs,,,, you may need his contact information Dr.idowuherbalhome@gmail.com Or WhatsApp via at +2348052789941

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 Před 2 lety

      @@iamshadawnmccants I need your advice don't know what else to do. Here's my story..I had something stuck into my back on a bus in NYC November 2020. Im almost certain the guy seated behind me did it. This is where I screwed up my life because I didn't go to the hospital. When I finally did go to the hospital it was days later when I started feeling sick. it was too late stop whatever it was, and I really sick eight months later. During all this time I have tested negative for HIV. However I had Hep A antibody, so eight I got the vaccine or I was exposed to it. Think is was coinfected and that's why with all my HIV symptoms I am still showing negative seventeen months later. I don't know what else to do and I'm getting sicker everyday. Could you just respond even though I know this might be too much for you to answer.

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕........

    • @amoahfaustina1335
      @amoahfaustina1335 Před rokem

      @@iamshadawnmccants please can We get your other social media handles like Facebook,instagram,WhatsApp or Twitter

  • @lashjamir9252
    @lashjamir9252 Před 4 lety +5

    So strong revealing your truth and living happily..! It's really sad in my place they hide away from society and pass on to others... You are an inspirational person ❤

  • @deebo5475
    @deebo5475 Před 4 lety +7

    You are truly courageous and I thank you for sharing your story. I wish you continued great health and the power to empower those affected with this disease. You are truly beautiful and love that dress girl...💖

  • @raquel4677
    @raquel4677 Před 4 lety +11

    So strong to have sunshine( your smile), amongst rain( your mom and physician’s tears). That spoke volumes. God bless you😘 This video was very refreshing, I might never be able to fully empathize, but this was well-spoken.

  • @KHayes-jz7tt
    @KHayes-jz7tt Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’m from Cincinnati and graduated in 1995, so your story amazes me even more. God Bless you!

  • @samanthahenville9604
    @samanthahenville9604 Před 3 lety +6

    Your lipstick & dress is banging on you, especially with your beautiful complexion. Continue spreading the message. God bless u 🙏🏾

  • @jocelyndavis5687
    @jocelyndavis5687 Před 4 lety +11

    Hello Queen 💕❤....thank you for sharing your story! To be that young and to have that diagnosis, had to be so hard for you. But you thrived and "chose to live" as you said. You're beyond AMAZING!🌻....God bless.

  • @CoachAryi
    @CoachAryi Před rokem +7

    My goodness my goodness and u are a soldier! 17 my goodness I graduated from HS in 1996 so we are a year apart. That means that you are 45 about to be 46 now. You are an amazing woman. Thank u for sharing your story with us!

    • @fadrepatrick6824
      @fadrepatrick6824 Před rokem

      Telling that woman age!! DANG 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @garydouglas6328
    @garydouglas6328 Před 3 lety +10

    Right On Shadwan,,, you are not only a role model for the black community! But for humanity....

  • @thegodsentministry3328
    @thegodsentministry3328 Před 4 lety +10

    I needed this. Thank you for letting God use you! ❤️😪

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 Před 4 lety +12

    Beautiful inside out & so courageous. Glad that you use your experience to educate & reach out to many. Your story should be shown in every secondary / high school starting from age 12/13... it could save lives & heartache for others, who may not be as courageous as you have been.
    Stories like this one are the reason I am & will remain team single & celibate.

  • @teresamarks8212
    @teresamarks8212 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you Shadawn for dusting your story... it blessed me!!!

  • @wendyfyi33
    @wendyfyi33 Před 4 lety +3

    Beautiful soul!!! Well stated, I’m sure you touched many souls w/your story beloved.. may your lord continue to give you life so you can help uplift others

  • @ladyandrews9371
    @ladyandrews9371 Před rokem +3

    God bless you❤️ He uses you to break down ignorance and shatter stigmas about people with HIV. Keep your journey and truth it looks amazing in you.

  • @letsbefruitful5457
    @letsbefruitful5457 Před 2 lety +13

    I’m glad you shared your story! I decided to be abstinence for the past 2 years ,but I think about all the times I made some risky choices and could have ended up with this something!You are very motivating and also a beautiful person 🌹 continue to spread the message ,🌺and shining your light God bless you and God keep you

    • @ladyleo944
      @ladyleo944 Před rokem

      I've been In Long term relationships for the majority of my dating years one 18 years,That was with my daughters dad and being that I suffer with asthma and allergies im very health conscious. So even then I always got tested ,even tho we were together so long, I had to be sure We also went together why not i have nothing to hide and neither should he,then i was in a 7 year relationship/ then engagment,found out he cheated but he also stop having sex with me which was a good thing i still immediately ,actually the next day went and got tested again.it came back negative that was 2017 I've been celibate ever since i just not the type to sleep around,have no intrest in stuff like that. I keep all my test result in my medical files at home And if i even dated again. You absolutley have to show me a updated std & HIV test result...and I'll do the same why not ....

    • @MJ-jo8sy
      @MJ-jo8sy Před rokem +2

      Same! My ex husband cheated so much that the stress of this happening was overwhelming. I left. At peace being celibate

    • @user-xk4lq3ll8l
      @user-xk4lq3ll8l Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@MJ-jo8syDid you catch any other STDS?

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @bluebutterfly5602
    @bluebutterfly5602 Před 4 lety +8

    Bless you for being a strong woman and speaking out!!

  • @jessenigum16
    @jessenigum16 Před 4 lety +19

    Really amazing story my Sister!...You basically touched my soul with every word you spoke. Thank you very much for being a light in a truely dark place....This video is worth the watch..🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @iamblackbeauty5553
    @iamblackbeauty5553 Před 4 lety +56

    I CAME ACCROSS YOUR CHANNEL BY A ACCIDENT. BUT IT TOUCHED ME&I WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY!..BC PEOPLE THINK THAT THEY ARE INVINCIBLE!& THIS COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE! JUST LIKE THAT!!@

    • @shawnahoskins427
      @shawnahoskins427 Před 4 lety +3

      Yea that's so true now in day's ppl don't even tell u when they got it 😰😰😰
      and the saddest part of all this mess is when u find out later on down the road that u been effective and sometimes ppl can catch in time and sometimes it be to late😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰
      God bless us all in Jesus name we pray Amen🌹🙏🎉🎉🎉

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      i finally got rid of my long term hiv virus that I have been suffering from for one year. I'm so excited today that I am cured. Thank you dr.idowu for your herbs,,,, you may need his contact information Dr.idowuherbalhome@gmail.com Or WhatsApp via at +2348052789941

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Před 2 lety

      What's her channel

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      @@shawnahoskins427 It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @Im_A_Vibe1029
    @Im_A_Vibe1029 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for following where God has led you. Our stories and testimonies are for others, and we are to pass it on. May God continue to bless your life. Stay encouraged and journey well💕

  • @MelD88
    @MelD88 Před 4 lety +1

    You are amazing!!!! You have inspired me to spread the message. Thankyou for being the open, beautiful, and courageous woman that you are! God bless!

  • @onewithgod8738
    @onewithgod8738 Před 4 lety +15

    Your story can be any one else story and we all fight different wars in our lives therefore I’ve learned to encourage people in whatever situation they are going through in life without judging them like most people do because life is a real journey.....be blessed my queen!

  • @msgates2596
    @msgates2596 Před 4 lety +10

    Thank you for your testimony I know you have inspired someone living with this disease I had a family member with a similar experience to you she contracted the virus at the same age as you in the late 90s unfortunately she didn't make it and it is very hard leaving behind 2 boys I believe you have found your calling and I'm grateful for you bringing awareness and doing God's work

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you for you kind words

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      Hi, One of my friend told me to try herbal medicine to get rid of my hiv. I tried this treatment and I got great results...So I am recommending this product to all of you guys.. this is the doctor’s email for an assistance dr.idowuherbalhome@gmail.comor WhatsApp him +2348052789941...

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @StellaRaeVon
    @StellaRaeVon Před 4 lety +18

    You ARE a beautiful black woman! Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story so that another person (even one) might be encouraged and given hope. HIV is not a death sentence. The STIGMA is the most dangerous facet of the disease anymore, and your story is one more step towards erasing that. 💜💛

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕........

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @audreycathcart3685
    @audreycathcart3685 Před 4 lety +2

    Such a beautiful woman and a beautiful commentary given about your life. God is love and I see it in you. Shine on!💜

  • @susieroberts8457
    @susieroberts8457 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Proud of you strong black smart woman. God bless you was touch by your story..I prayed that everyone who is suffering with this disease will find the same courage . My bro died a few years ago from it up to today it still hurt me

  • @msccross76
    @msccross76 Před 4 lety +9

    So proud of you Ms. Lady!! So glad you kept me as a friend! Mannn, I love you girlfriend! You’re so awesome!!!~ Chantal

  • @renettegordley3493
    @renettegordley3493 Před rokem +8

    Congrats on getting through hard days & times. Congrats on not being ashamed to tell your diagnosis. That can hard for some people. You are brave. God bless you in Jesus name.

  • @georgia1191
    @georgia1191 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Your energy and relationship with the Lord blessed me. Thank you for being strong even amidst hardship. You are remarkable Shadawn.

  • @TiffTiff-qz3zg
    @TiffTiff-qz3zg Před 7 měsíci +2

    Man these videos just made me open up my eyes I just recently went through this scar tactic....Thank God I dodged that bullet... Never again.

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you for sharing. We are together in this journey which is a rough terrain with sarcastic suspicious people ALL the time around.Bless you.

  • @MsKRAZOR
    @MsKRAZOR Před 2 lety +4

    You got me when you started talking about God. 🙏🏿 He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Thank you, Father.

  • @LatishaLittle-ov2fy
    @LatishaLittle-ov2fy Před 25 dny +1

    I'm glad you are very vocal! As a black woman living with HIV, you are giving hope to other women and teenage girls living with HIV. Your courage to be open about your diagnosis will save so many lives! Thank you.

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 25 dny

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I don’t plan to stop. It’s my should assignment. ❤️

  • @ashLen868
    @ashLen868 Před 4 lety +72

    This made me cry😢 thank God for giving you the strength and courage to even tell your story bc I know how hard it is! I’m not HIV positive but I’m around people who have HIV and their stories alone are sooo heartbreaking! Nobody deserves this! Protection is key! To my young ladies and men out there always be careful! Also, what about your partner? Did you tell him? I really hope he’s not out here spreading it😔

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @nikisavage8270
    @nikisavage8270 Před 3 lety +4

    May god bless your soul !! You have such a beautiful heart and keep on being open about this. Many will appreciate your honesty and bring peace to many who can relate. God bless you 💕

  • @Relationship-advice1805
    @Relationship-advice1805 Před 3 lety +3

    I appreciate people who tell people the truth how hard it is to be positive and not make it as if it's ok

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕

  • @mermaidbabe2122
    @mermaidbabe2122 Před 2 lety +1

    You’re beautiful, brave, and resilient. May God continue to bless you.

  • @bevans4822
    @bevans4822 Před 4 lety +4

    Your story was beautifully deep. Thanks for sharing Queen. Praying for all🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @divinelyblessedkb
    @divinelyblessedkb Před 4 lety +4

    You are an awesome woman!! Love you and abundance of blessings to you my sister!!! 🙌✨✝️♥️

  • @simplicityismymotto
    @simplicityismymotto Před 4 lety +8

    I admire your strength. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @adriennel3480
    @adriennel3480 Před 4 lety +2

    ❤️❤️Your Story Will definitely help others!! ❤️❤️You Are A Beautiful Soul we can see it through this!!!

  • @mikedriawilliams4311
    @mikedriawilliams4311 Před 4 lety +77

    My aunt worked in an AIDS house in the early 1980-1990s. Unfortunately, the medication was not as advanced as today. Also, she received them at their last and terminal stage. People from all walks of life was there. Primarily, sexually transmitted was the most common way accounting for 75- 80 percent. Blood from IV was second accounting for 15 to 20 percent.
    They lived a life of isolation and total rejection! For the ones who visited them, they could not have ANY infections, open wounds etc. People were secretive then because of the stigma. No one really talked about it. People were ignorant and did not want to help them but she did. She took them to doctors visits and got their medications. She didn't fear people with this disease. She feared the outside world because she didn't know what they had. Sadly, she got disabled. The news was bitter sweet. No HIV but a heart defect. That was a story all in it's own. Since it was not an on the job injury from exposure to HIV or AIDS, she was somewhat isololated like them and left with medication. She was not stigmatized because heart patients were viewed differently.

    • @iamshadawnmccants
      @iamshadawnmccants  Před 4 lety +8

      Thank you for sharing and having such a great aunt. I pray she's well.

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Před 2 lety

      @@iamshadawnmccants her aunt passed, if you read it

    • @Jomensnoshje
      @Jomensnoshje Před 5 měsíci

      the very first time I started seeing testimonies about you Dr Abiola, I had that full confidence in you that I even purchased your medicine, my HIV test was tested negative, now I'm so happy that I could finally say thank you so much #DRABIOLA for your hard work care & encouragement you really are a God sent and i appreciate you🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @nikki1234588
    @nikki1234588 Před 4 lety +55

    Stay blessed your healing is coming 🇯🇲🇬🇧💖🌹

  • @keyias.1605
    @keyias.1605 Před 4 lety +4

    May God continue to use your story to bless others. Your last name drew me to your video as my paternal family’s last name is McCants. ❤️

  • @chantelbrown4752
    @chantelbrown4752 Před 4 lety +17

    That must have been devastating for a young lady but I’m glad you’re doing ok, strong and beautiful

  • @iamwinningrightnow
    @iamwinningrightnow Před 4 lety +1

    The best to you Shadawn! Thanks for sharing with the world.

  • @oolongteaforjoyluck17
    @oolongteaforjoyluck17 Před 4 lety +39

    That lipstick and dress look so great on you. God Bless!

  • @johnfields1206
    @johnfields1206 Před rokem +5

    Your story is very inspiring and I admire your courage for speaking out to others.

  • @larayaporcherporcher3594
    @larayaporcherporcher3594 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful story and your a beautiful strong black woman! I love how strong you are! God bless you!

  • @sharonoliver2020
    @sharonoliver2020 Před 3 lety +1

    You are beautiful and this was a message that was so powerful! Thank God for you showing us what the beautiful hand of God looks like in the flesh .

  • @bellamonroe7322
    @bellamonroe7322 Před 2 lety +5

    Every time these stories pop up I get a HIV test god bless this beautiful woman

    • @veraperi9382
      @veraperi9382 Před 2 lety

      I recommend Dr Abiola on CZcams he cured my mother with his herbal tea in 20 days #DRABIOLA 💕💕

  • @laurasquire6852
    @laurasquire6852 Před 4 lety +33

    Strong woman thank you for sharing your story.

  • @sharonsanders8208
    @sharonsanders8208 Před rokem +3

    They can never say they didn't know because she came public and I think that's really nice of you to share your story

  • @brittneyakabeezus260
    @brittneyakabeezus260 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I wish you wellness since this is a old video, you are a good-looking woman & I am glad you are speaking out on this topic. I come across several videos that are clickbait which angers me since the topic is close to my heart.

  • @angelpeace
    @angelpeace Před rokem +3

    This video was powerful, thank you so much for sharing your story. Peace and Blessings 🙏🏽☮️💜

  • @malikahlovingumore4894
    @malikahlovingumore4894 Před 4 lety +162

    I respect those who are brave HIV can happen to me u anyone if u have unprotected sex it can happen thank you for sharing 💜

    • @highandmightyqueen79
      @highandmightyqueen79 Před 3 lety +2

      @@sophiaisabellaeva6004 just stop it man

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…

  • @antwaanhemisphere7956
    @antwaanhemisphere7956 Před 2 lety +2

    This story is very touching…I lost some very close love ones to hiv / aids situation..they all passed at very young age and I still feel down over losing them to this very day…glad u are ok and strong…and u look great…thanks for sharing your story peace ✅

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @reggiemiller7671
    @reggiemiller7671 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for your courage and education- And many blessings to you my sister I needed this to be more vigilant 🌹

  • @tamikopalmer8479
    @tamikopalmer8479 Před 4 lety +25

    Shadawn your testimony was beautiful. I'm so glad we became friends year ago. Love ya
    To know is to live!!!!

    • @donellarfergus5039
      @donellarfergus5039 Před 4 lety

      yes

    • @sophiaisabellaeva6004
      @sophiaisabellaeva6004 Před 3 lety

      Hi, One of my friend told me to try herbal medicine to get rid of my hiv. I tried this treatment and I got great results...So I am recommending this product to all of you guys.. this is the doctor’s email for an assistance dr.idowuherbalhome@gmail.comor WhatsApp him +2348052789941...

  • @gailelizabethphillips6727

    God Bless you my Sistah’ God ain’t done with you yet!😇😇😇🥰🥰🥰

  • @ruthkungade9791
    @ruthkungade9791 Před rokem +2

    It takes a strong person to share the story of their life.... you are strong woman ....I salute you... still looking pretty than someone negative

  • @rameshjagaswaren8928
    @rameshjagaswaren8928 Před 7 měsíci

    Bless you for being strong and advocating about hiv. It's definitely not a death sentence anymore.

  • @ttaammiikkaa
    @ttaammiikkaa Před 4 lety +21

    God bless. Thanks for sharing as a reminder to everyone to be careful. Continue to share.

  • @MorenaAzucar
    @MorenaAzucar Před 4 lety +10

    Your testimony is awesome. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @coffeewithcarline9171
    @coffeewithcarline9171 Před rokem +2

    Bless you Queen❤ so happy you held your head up high and thrive.

  • @jodygreen1518
    @jodygreen1518 Před 4 lety +2

    Any body who knows you love you. I am so glad you told your story. I know it's part of your testimony but li e is great. I have type 2 diabetes and have for a long time. But I take my medications and doing fine. So I know. But we tell our story to educate. Much love to you and the greatness of beautiful lady. God always choose the beautiful one that who we are. Take care peace n blessings

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @jearogers
    @jearogers Před rokem +3

    Awesome story. I dont know what its like to live with hiv. But i get what shes saying about stigma and shame snd guilt. Having any health issue is so hard to say outloud im dealing with an invisible disease or illness (fibroids, mental health, spinal stenosis etc) definitely needed. So strong to speak up especially as a black woman. Awesome and encouraging msg

    • @Alexan-jc4jo
      @Alexan-jc4jo Před 2 měsíci

      It was a great privilege to know Dr Abiola on CZcams, he cure me permanently from Hiv with his herbal medicine #drabiola ☺️❤…😊

  • @ertadumond4120
    @ertadumond4120 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for sharing your story! Education is key. People are living longer and healthier when undetectable. May God continue to help you guide and educate those who need guidance and love.

  • @millions2nette
    @millions2nette Před 4 lety +3

    Whatta beautiful lady. Just as beautiful as that name: Shadawn! Wow! That confidence is Fiya!

  • @tracyanngarveyfray887
    @tracyanngarveyfray887 Před 4 lety +6

    You're are an inspiration to many...Continue to be the voice..