How to add TONE to your voice

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  • čas přidán 25. 07. 2022
  • Most people speak with a monotone voice - this lacks FEELING and therefore makes it harder to connect with others. Adding tonality to your voice will enrich your relationships because you're able to convey how you feel through your words, not just words itself!
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Komentáře • 189

  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  Před rokem +128

    My 3 Part Communication Skills Course:
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    • @click_image_for_designs
      @click_image_for_designs Před 8 měsíci +3

      Links doesn't work

    • @kikrim1
      @kikrim1 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@click_image_for_designsIt worked for me just now.

    • @3vltk
      @3vltk Před 7 měsíci +2

      Thank you very much for share this knowledge with us , I’m Spanish and I move to the UK because my girlfriend at the time , she speak Spanish so never have the need to learn English till I move here and my pronunciation is atrocious, just hope that this communication skill course can guide me to a better way to use my mouth and body when I speak , again thank you very much for this opportunity

    • @anganaalyssadewan514
      @anganaalyssadewan514 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I'm unable to click on the link

    • @JESUSTTT
      @JESUSTTT Před 2 měsíci

      Thx

  • @epicyad
    @epicyad Před rokem +1226

    Most people don't realize how important the tone is while talking

    • @WhatsIQ
      @WhatsIQ Před rokem +47

      I'm autistic so I've always been super monotone with just 0 tone

    • @MrBlinggs
      @MrBlinggs Před rokem +22

      ​@@WhatsIQ as a fellow autistic, I don't even know how to comprehend talking to people

    • @Jimmy-yf3yp
      @Jimmy-yf3yp Před 11 měsíci

      Yeah being autistic really gives you the short end of the stick when assholes like this exist that emphasize how important not being autistic is to being successful.

    • @grapzyke6334
      @grapzyke6334 Před 11 měsíci +14

      It takes a lot of confidence though and I'm not great at talking to people anyway

    • @GeoX242
      @GeoX242 Před 10 měsíci +27

      Fr. Tone can make a disrespectful sentence into a joke or a respectful sentence into an offensive one.

  • @BLITSFRAPPS
    @BLITSFRAPPS Před 11 měsíci +163

    Dayum he was demonstrating his teachings while he was speaking them out. Esecially the eelongation, and throwing the words away part. Spectacular orator of modern times.

  • @shkelzennokaj5194
    @shkelzennokaj5194 Před rokem +1335

    When i become rich, i will send 1 million dolllars to this guy.

    • @freeloaderuser6793
      @freeloaderuser6793 Před rokem +33

      Same man

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  Před rokem +1026

      There's no need to send me 1 million dollars - help those around you in your family and your community

    • @wtfgebeurdmij2991
      @wtfgebeurdmij2991 Před rokem +197

      ​@@askvinh oh oops, can you send it back then?

    • @madhavdua1246
      @madhavdua1246 Před rokem +43

      ​@@wtfgebeurdmij2991 😂😂😂

    • @marcrow9114
      @marcrow9114 Před rokem +5

      ​@@wtfgebeurdmij2991lol leuke gebruikersnaam

  • @Somebodyuprobsknow
    @Somebodyuprobsknow Před rokem +298

    Step 1: Have an exotic accent
    Step 2: Have a iconic hairstyle

    • @Kpoping727official
      @Kpoping727official Před 10 měsíci +12

      He just has the tom Scott accent

    • @schwarzmann1
      @schwarzmann1 Před 9 měsíci +9

      It’s just a regular Aussie accent to be fair

    • @desmonddaly6538
      @desmonddaly6538 Před 9 měsíci +3

      And make sure to button your shirt up ( with out a tie ) to the top button for no reason

    • @vaughanheussenstamm6483
      @vaughanheussenstamm6483 Před 2 měsíci

      he is a master of nonverbal communication

    • @WRLDconquer
      @WRLDconquer Před 2 měsíci

      Step 3: Use emphasis when speaking

  • @santiagoalonso1281
    @santiagoalonso1281 Před 6 měsíci +38

    It’s so pleasant to hear this guy, so much presence, I wanna sound like him

  • @Aaron-gf7mo
    @Aaron-gf7mo Před rokem +221

    So this is why every elementary school teacher is so captivating.

  • @ryanhenson5259
    @ryanhenson5259 Před 11 měsíci +16

    I like the way you said "throw them all away" quickly, as if you are literally throwing the words away

  • @ThePowerInYourVoiceWithDrCindy
    @ThePowerInYourVoiceWithDrCindy Před 6 měsíci +11

    You are so right about throwing words away! Using inflection to connect with others is so important. Love this!

  • @trumanray6626
    @trumanray6626 Před 11 měsíci +36

    I think tonality is vibeing and trying to resonate your feelings and emotions into the words

  • @AdrianMark
    @AdrianMark Před měsícem +5

    Just watching you speak as you elucidate your point is a masterclass.

    • @AdrianMark
      @AdrianMark Před měsícem

      That cadence while talking about throwing the words away. Brilliant. Truly grateful for your channel.

  • @romeblanchard3419
    @romeblanchard3419 Před rokem +74

    My monotone voice could never

    • @ImogenShade
      @ImogenShade Před rokem +11

      I love mono tone voices, I find them very soothing & relaxing!☺️

    • @Whoareyou2024
      @Whoareyou2024 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Exactly I find my monotone voice calm and relaxing.
      When I was a child I used to have great tone as I am growing my tone is going away, now I don’t have a tone is there some kind of reason behind it.

    • @ajasilikonreffkmimmon
      @ajasilikonreffkmimmon Před měsícem

      I don't know. My bully would mock me in a monotone voice, which makes me question if life worths living.

  • @Doyenn
    @Doyenn Před 26 dny +3

    That suit with the brown shoes and the blonde hair is a nice combination

  • @vzgsxr
    @vzgsxr Před 3 dny +1

    Tonality Ferguson: "Hold on I'm feeling brother"

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you Vinh.

  • @vaughanheussenstamm6483
    @vaughanheussenstamm6483 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Wow! This is also very important when we speak a foreign language. Excellent!!

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh Před rokem +19

    Nice. I see the benefit in this in the social service field, and with communicating in general. God's Love and Blessings.

  • @Ben-id3op
    @Ben-id3op Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is how i learnt to sing. I went from nails on a chalkboard to Walter Coel in a year by projecting my voice and feeling the song im singing. It helps to find songs that resinate with your life and emotions. ❤

  • @rmcklen7091
    @rmcklen7091 Před rokem +8

    2pac was a master at that , I invite you all to listen to Tupac if you like this subject that way you can see how he does it poetical wise

  • @yonkothree3616
    @yonkothree3616 Před 8 měsíci

    Thats how your words have power fasho ive felt it when i acknowledged it

  • @swagmuffin1612
    @swagmuffin1612 Před rokem

    I love the cleverness of this guys teaching. How he speaks fast when he says we throw all the words away. Bruh perfecto

  • @omarjamal161
    @omarjamal161 Před rokem +6

    In my language Somali words are not just words they also carrie emotions and expression. That's why some languages have rhythm and feeling to it like the latin language and some other languages words are matter fact and pricise and robotic.

  • @CasLee
    @CasLee Před rokem +9

    he's so handsome i wanna die

  • @keidronmiller7273
    @keidronmiller7273 Před rokem +88

    Most African-Americans tend to be gifted in this.

    • @Prod.Pumpkin
      @Prod.Pumpkin Před 8 měsíci +5

      They’re gifted at everything these days 😂

    • @ready2learn304
      @ready2learn304 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I was just about to say that. It's a natural part of our speech. And we are very conscious of it because we don't just listen to the words but also tone. Because tone can tell its own story of the intent or true feelings of the speaker. And we grow up getting corrected on our tone if it comes across rude or disrespectful etc. But we are the soul/sol people so there's always layers to everything 🥰

    • @ComeAlongKay
      @ComeAlongKay Před 7 měsíci

      Yeah I feel like white southern people also have this and probably others but only black people are allowed to brag about stuff.

    • @ComeAlongKay
      @ComeAlongKay Před 7 měsíci

      @@Prod.Pumpkinwhat’s so weird is if you said that about white people people get upset. I see Asian people brag all the time as well. I mean white people invented most of the modern world and a huge amount of music from Classical to country to punk rock to folk to doomwop (which people think wad black but it was inspired by white barbershop quartets and the doowop cord progression was first seen in the jazz album made by a white artist called Blue Moon. Though if you want to say jazz was black so that’s black the cord progression was also present in classical music to some degree.) But just classical music alone covers most soundtracks for every movie ever. Now is country music and classical and so on not full of soul?

    • @ComeAlongKay
      @ComeAlongKay Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@ready2learn304pretty sure all races use tone. I mean people use tone with animals, when being sarcastic, when surprised. That’s a human thing. Clearly there’s no one race that uses tone while talking.

  • @ChinenyeMba-me3dj
    @ChinenyeMba-me3dj Před 4 měsíci

    Gosh! This is impactful

  • @michaelsummers9884
    @michaelsummers9884 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Dude!!!! I just came online to share this with you: Please read Seduction by Robert greene. You are right. The greatest people in history or most influential had great control over their voice. You gonna love it!! Anyway, not done reading. Good luck!

  • @architech_the_engineer
    @architech_the_engineer Před rokem +9

    In this very video he used not only the tone, but also a legato-staccato rule, and the adjusting speed rule. The more I watch this guy speaking, the more I enjoy discovering his rules to be so much functional. Big respect Vinh!

  • @MrBadpixel
    @MrBadpixel Před rokem +1

    Thanks for these videos, really helps me articulate the lessons I teach my team. especially in our sector where story telling is a crucial aspect.

  • @HaiTharImDavid
    @HaiTharImDavid Před 10 měsíci +1

    Not me reading all the comments normally and then again with more tonality lol great advice mr Vinh!

  • @merlion6613
    @merlion6613 Před rokem

    Every video is like revision of earlier lessons. I love them. Succinct, practical, amazing lessons. Thank you ❤

  • @user-ql9mg7fu5o
    @user-ql9mg7fu5o Před 3 měsíci

    Ye that first in this video is what i need ty (sometimes they want to speak without feeling it or i make bad attention when i have feel in sound but i see that people just want me to be worst in everything without tellinf me directly but being distractions to me)

  • @fredfrancium
    @fredfrancium Před 11 měsíci +1

    It is stupid, but it worked you can change your voice, between my first video and last one there is a huge difference.

  • @AmirMohammed-go5ss
    @AmirMohammed-go5ss Před 12 dny

    Noticed it when you said "elongate the vowel"

  • @blindsey8234
    @blindsey8234 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I tuuuuune out and dismisssss anyone who speaks this waaayy. Emotion in speech like that means you're listening to an unstable person in my expeeeeeriehhhnce.

  • @timjtryniecki2339
    @timjtryniecki2339 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @32189djsddk
    @32189djsddk Před rokem +6

    Fantastic Vinh. Can you cover adjusting nasality?

  • @Wavvyy_07
    @Wavvyy_07 Před měsícem

    I love this

  • @thefacelessquestion3333
    @thefacelessquestion3333 Před rokem +3

    This is one reason I don't enjoy communicating via text. No way to inject tonality and some things can be taken the wrong way.

  • @theprestige_publicspeaking

    Your an amazing teacher 👏 vinh

  • @cbrooks0905
    @cbrooks0905 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Some of us are autistic, Brodie. I’m good at this for a short period of time or if I’m in company I’m comfortable with, but beyond that all that inflection wears me out.

  • @brandoscollectibles2927
    @brandoscollectibles2927 Před měsícem

    Thanks 🎉🎉

  • @dean43669
    @dean43669 Před 9 měsíci

    Well this is no problem for me. As I always speak with feelings and tonality. 👍

  • @Phenomenalsam
    @Phenomenalsam Před rokem

    I love this guy

  • @sharoncensale384
    @sharoncensale384 Před 11 měsíci

    I like your style

  • @farah_di_ipoh1968
    @farah_di_ipoh1968 Před 2 měsíci

    Feeling when speaking. OK 👌

  • @SportsHottestYoungin
    @SportsHottestYoungin Před 6 měsíci

    Also using hand gestures and body movements help as well

  • @ritakunnunmal4226
    @ritakunnunmal4226 Před 9 měsíci

    Working on feeling my words ...inject bit of emotions tonality

  • @mohabatullahmoheb390
    @mohabatullahmoheb390 Před rokem

    Thanks for the video 🎉🎉🎉
    You are a star

  • @aishakemi8839
    @aishakemi8839 Před 11 měsíci

    Absolutely true❤

  • @creativevlogs2709
    @creativevlogs2709 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes

  • @mynameisjoeo
    @mynameisjoeo Před 7 měsíci

    Ohhhh I geeet it nowwww!

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Před rokem

    GREAT MESSEGE!!!😮😮

  • @barasasun361
    @barasasun361 Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @Spractral
    @Spractral Před 4 měsíci

    Geeeeeeeezuus

  • @abuhanif2867
    @abuhanif2867 Před 5 měsíci

    Awesome

  • @LeonLindProductions
    @LeonLindProductions Před 6 měsíci +1

    I can't shake the feeling that this is just lying. I naturally inject tone like that when I'm very passionate/interested in what I'm talking about, or emotional. If I spoke like that all the time it would sound like I'm always passionate/interested/emotional about everything I'm talking about, even mundane things, which would just be dishonest. Like I'm giving a speech constantly. Mediatrained people sound so fake to me. Like I can't even take The rock seriously or trust anything he says because he's such a great mediatrained speaker and actor. Same with everyone in Hollywood. If they're having a bad day you would never know. THAT is what makes it hard for me to connect with them, and easier for me to connect with someone like Destiny who just "throws all the words away".

  • @tonguewarrior5020
    @tonguewarrior5020 Před rokem +2

    Our words and body language DEPENDS on 👇
    *The "intensity" of our emotions we feel*
    And the emotions we feel originates from THOUGHTS
    So How to become Master of communication skills ??
    By getting CLARITY in your thoughts !!!
    More clear your thoughts are, the more stronger shall be your communication skills

  • @banderas2000
    @banderas2000 Před 28 dny

    I think part of this also at least in American society is that everyone is programmed to have a fake polite face and voice to go with it. If you feel differently or speak your true mind your labeled "cocky, rude ect" everyone uses that monotone "how are you, have a good day crap lol. So we are all walking around bs ing each other. But when someone is just themselves it's refreshing and is how ppl truly connect. So let's all strive to make a difference and be our true selves even if it's not the most attractive.

  • @acetaminophetus
    @acetaminophetus Před 8 měsíci

    Speaking and singing: two words for the same act

  • @dr.talonflame9460
    @dr.talonflame9460 Před rokem +4

    Full video?

  • @Lovewalktv
    @Lovewalktv Před rokem

    that's right

  • @ShhhListenFool
    @ShhhListenFool Před rokem +1

    I don't really remember be taught tonality in school.

  • @edemneuman3379
    @edemneuman3379 Před 10 měsíci

  • @bl4ckw1z4rd3
    @bl4ckw1z4rd3 Před 9 měsíci

    🙏🙌

  • @Scipio-Nigerianus
    @Scipio-Nigerianus Před 6 měsíci

    Dan Carlin style.

  • @A_Skeptic
    @A_Skeptic Před 2 měsíci

    We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voi5in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.
    - Friedrich Nietzsche

  • @Annabelle99356
    @Annabelle99356 Před 8 měsíci

    I learned so much from you in this past year. Thank you.

  • @562LA2THEBAY
    @562LA2THEBAY Před 9 měsíci

    When im pissed off i fosho got that tonality

  • @tejasdiware1184
    @tejasdiware1184 Před rokem +1

    Can you tell more examples of same

  • @LukeLawrence-bw2en
    @LukeLawrence-bw2en Před rokem

    Ok, i have seen a few of your videos around and i have recently realised i need help with my voice. Is there a seminar i can watch or audio book or something that will get me started?

  • @amlanmihir4985
    @amlanmihir4985 Před 4 měsíci

    can someone send the link to the full lecture ?

  • @Crowsinger
    @Crowsinger Před 7 měsíci

    "Tonality" and "tone" are terms from music theory which refer to things that are very different from what you described. In order to avoid confusion, maybe you could call what you referred to "expressiveness" or something else?

  • @hassanbutt6004
    @hassanbutt6004 Před rokem

    I wanna buy the book you write!
    Is there any?

  • @naterhythm
    @naterhythm Před 8 měsíci

    why does he look like cg5 for some reason lol

  • @KP-qk6ld
    @KP-qk6ld Před 9 měsíci

    This guy is like an anime character who helps the people timid schoolboy become the youngest Prime Minister of Japan by the end of the first season. 😅

  • @UrMate0_0
    @UrMate0_0 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Is this a Ted presentation? lol

  • @radhikabakshi450
    @radhikabakshi450 Před rokem +11

    Can you elaborate more on how can we do so or any exercise to improve tonality

    • @ArmadilloJohn
      @ArmadilloJohn Před rokem +13

      Basically, turn on caps lock in real life when you speak.

    • @shuutendoji
      @shuutendoji Před rokem +4

      @@ArmadilloJohn ngl, caps lock is so versatile to show emotions

    • @ArmadilloJohn
      @ArmadilloJohn Před rokem +2

      @@shuutendoji Yeah.

    • @yashrawat1232
      @yashrawat1232 Před rokem +2

      @@ArmadilloJohn yah but i think shift + main word

    • @ArmadilloJohn
      @ArmadilloJohn Před rokem +1

      @@yashrawat1232 Shift's for losers, I use caps lock and turn it off in a split second.

  • @BiseshAnima
    @BiseshAnima Před 2 měsíci

    You sound like Madera uchiha

  • @brick532
    @brick532 Před 3 měsíci

    So basically you’re putting emphasis on a word or words.

  • @jessicaokechukwu2442
    @jessicaokechukwu2442 Před 8 měsíci

    Please how can I be audible when speaking because my voice is usually low when I'm speaking publicly

  • @ArtLeeG
    @ArtLeeG Před 7 měsíci

    But what if I don't have any feelings 😅🙃

  • @user-gm9ik9yw5m
    @user-gm9ik9yw5m Před 2 měsíci

    Plz how can we feel our word

  • @johnboh6382
    @johnboh6382 Před 11 měsíci

    Cool, now I just need the accent

  • @floofbunny7998
    @floofbunny7998 Před 7 měsíci

    But everyone I meet pays more attention to my words rather than my tone.. My tone gets higher when I'm happy or confused and most people forget or ignore that and focus on my wording instead.. It sucks because I'm a teenager who grew up around fowl words and tones so I'm not used to hearing what words are considered to sound nicer together so I often upset people, not because of my tone but because my words aren't big words or words that make sense or literally anything.. I put some words together or rush words and somehow the person things I'm trying to guilt trip them into feeling bad and thinking they rushed me and made me upset even when I'm using my high happy tone of voice.. They believe my tone means nothing to my wording when in reality my wording means nothing to my tone

  • @qp4367
    @qp4367 Před 19 dny

    Then is it a reading or word comprehension issue?

  • @abhishek-gu6qt
    @abhishek-gu6qt Před rokem

    i iiii cannnnnnnnnn feeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllll

  • @Isascarybeeboo
    @Isascarybeeboo Před rokem

    Okay but how can I practice removing tonality from my voice? How do I remove emotion from my voice so that I’m not making other people upset or uncomfortable bc they don’t like the tone in my voice?

  • @bigmama752
    @bigmama752 Před 7 měsíci

    I heard someone doing an instructional video. Every sentence started off high pitched and ended low pitched. It was noticeable to me and I'm a novice. Is that way of speaking 'a thing'? I have a very recognizable voice (many people say) but I've had a woman say she doesn't like my voice. My way of speaking is naturally me. It is not effected.

  • @desmonddaly6538
    @desmonddaly6538 Před 9 měsíci

    Just annunciate

  • @ArthurMorgan.....
    @ArthurMorgan..... Před 3 měsíci

    why does bro look like pagan min

  • @NiB1-nl1cq
    @NiB1-nl1cq Před 5 měsíci

    Dont you think this sometimes might feel too much?
    Like it's nice when you are on a stage in room of 100 people but if you are I a meeting with 4 or 5 people doesn't that feel weirdly awkward and exaggerated .
    I want to sound better in room of 5. How to?

  • @chinonsooragwam8833
    @chinonsooragwam8833 Před 10 měsíci

    neil degrasse tyson does this alot

  • @shalem8536
    @shalem8536 Před 2 měsíci

    Hii I’m looking for the video where you were talking about uhms and uhhs in speech but I’m finding it hard to find it .
    Could you direct me please

  • @spdnoobgaming2539
    @spdnoobgaming2539 Před 7 měsíci

    Where are i can watch this full video

  • @maruthimacha1847
    @maruthimacha1847 Před 11 měsíci +1

    1.rate
    2.volume
    3.pitch
    4.tonality
    5.

  • @BVSISofficial
    @BVSISofficial Před 3 měsíci

    This isn't Tonality you are explaining. It's called Cadence. Look up tone.

  • @AD-xn7pt
    @AD-xn7pt Před rokem

    My deep voice plus my monotone is a bad combo

  • @bonosa1
    @bonosa1 Před rokem +3

    What about Elon Musk? In the CZcams videos he’s very even cadenced.

  • @S.Benimaru
    @S.Benimaru Před 9 měsíci

    Can you help me out im very poor at communication i can't properly communicate or put my words on the table for others. Help out

  • @lebethmanguilimotan66

    Hi, i have a problem with maintaining my energy with long talks..