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Life before and After Marriage | The 11th Hour | Episode 8
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- čas přidán 16. 08. 2024
- Intro 00:00 - 0:48
Maturity 0:49 -5:52
Selection of Spouse 5:53 - 30:32
Qualities 30:33 - 38:42
Personality 38:43 - 43:39
Sharing Feelings 43:50-51:28
Topics to Discuss Before Marriage 51:29 - 1:02:43
Don't discuss Mistakes of Spouses 1:02:44 - 1:07:50
Slight Efforts 1:07:51 - 1:18:27
Qualities 1:18:28 - 1:23:46
Cause of Divorce 1:23:47 - 1:25:14
Wducation 1:25:15 - 1:37:00
Advice 1:37:01-1:45:13
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The female speaker is so mature, such an amazing personality, Allah huma barik❤
Indeed She is, Name (Respected Mam: Sara Asif)
@@AdnanHassan1995is she Ex Liberal ?
Any professor or speaker ?
Cause she isn't a random lady....(the way she deliver message without disruption isn't possible for non-speakers)
The female speaker is really awesome.❤
@@MR.FlyingMonkeyshe is a speaker at youth club you can find more of her videos on yt
@@missmateen ok sister
Still unmarried, honestly this topics make me kind of blush 😅
May Allah swt grant us all a righteous and beautiful spouse, ameen ❤
Ameen
May Allah bless you with the best spouse. Ameen
@@muhammadjawwad4863 jazakallah brother 🙏💯
Ameen
Marriage fav topic of unmarried people 🌚😂
😂
😂
No❎
Es Intention se nhi aate bhn podcast ko sunne hum 🙂
😂😂❤
Qk shadi society ka satoon hy Isley it's very important to get knowledge about it.
She's soooooooo intelligent, I'm amazed. ماشاءاللہ
Umarried People may like my comment to show solidarity 👍, Hope we all get Nikkahfied soon😃, InshaAllah. 💞
InshahAllah ❤
Always use the word In Sha Allah...it will be beneficial for you 😊
@@zainabtahreem1118InshaALLAH
May Allah bless you with the best spouse.
@@zainabtahreem1118 InshaAllah.
Thank you for inviting Sara Asif!
Missed her words of wisdom so much. Jazak Allah khair
im 16 and im trying my best to get back on deen and feel the love of Allah not just praying to Allah out of fear, i like someone and i told my parents they liked her too but they said im not financially stable enough i tried to convince them alot but they didnt listen and the girl is also scared to talk to her parents cuz they're against early marriages so we decided not to talk to each other for the next 2 years until then i have to try my best to become financially stable in order to get her, even if the nikkah doesnt happen then i know Allah has something way better planned for me. ( a message for the teens who like someone )
Mashallah may Allah make it easy for you Ameen
Sara asif ne ek lecture diya tha aj se 3 saal pehle hamare madarse main woh alfaz aj tak mjhe yad meri beti us time 6 years k thi aur use bhi aj tak yad hain aur tb se bhot hijab karne ka shoq paida hoa Alhamdulilah love to see har
Kia bat thi wo kindly mention
Following
What's the words?
Where
The female instructor is MashAllah very Mature and intellectual. The way she is justifying the rights of both male and female is best
Allhumaa bariq Laha
Best podcats
sister Sarah Asif
رمضان میں روزانہ کی بنیاد پر ان اقساط کو دیکھنا بہت اچھا ہے، اس سے اسلام کے بارے میں ہمارے علم میں اضافہ ہوتا ہے۔ ۔ جزاک اللہ یوتھ کلب اس کو ہمارے ساتھ شیئر کرنے کے لیے۔
Im in germany from last 9 years and still trying hard to found a religious wife and in pakistan people have very big expectations 😢Allah helps me to find my wife which make my life in dunya best and easy jannah
Maybe your Expectations are Unreal and Maybe you are Expecting a Perfect Wife. You should see a religious woman but there might be some comprise
@aunabbasx35 No one is perfect, brother, and I have only one expectation just simply religious and I think every Muslim like that 🤔
@@rashidmehmood1298try to find in India as well
Salam...... Bilkul hum b AK acha lrka dhund rahy hain apni sis k Liye to agr ap waqy e serious Hain to bat agy barha sakty hain
یا رحمت للعالمین صلی اللہ علیک وسلم حضور نظر کرم فرمائے مجھ پر
روزانہ 1000 times
Vote for : how to focus and concentrate in taraweeh podcast 😢😢
If you agree with me 🤝🤝🤝
So hit the the like button
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Brother i think it is a simple question and we don't want to waste precious time in this topic...
The answer is that you should know the tarjuma(translation) of Quran it is the only thing that makes you focused in taraweeh.
Brother listen translation of Quran jb Allah k importance smj ati jaegu tb khusho barhta jaega namaz me may Allah help you and me also watching raja bhai tafseer helps a lot on youth club chanle
🤣🤣🤣 simple....
Repeat the recitation in your mind.
Also try to choose a good Hafiz who has a beautiful Recitation.
@@userx74bvx43vxbro we shouldnt think of these things either atleast we can try to listen the recitation so that we can understand some words or ayats of Quran.
ap taraweeh kisi majburi k tehet parh rahy ho ya naiki kamany k liye ? taraweh na to fard hai na sunnat hai to agar ap sachy dil sy parh skty ho to ap parhlo
I just got married 3 months ago and I'm facing all the problems that have been discussed in the podcast..May ALLAH help me and all other married women and girls❤
May Allah make it easy for you
Try praying tahajjud 🤍
Ameen
Seek ALLAS HELP
How are things now?
@@AnnaQ-cm9vl
I invite everyone to listen holy Quran & Islamic speech from the India🇮🇳❤😊😅😅😅
this female wallah her talking style and give us advices like amazing thank you so much for this video.. litterly we need this
It's so good to see these episodes on daily basis , it increase our knowledge about Islam .my fav thing in ramadan . JAZAK ALLAH YOUTH club for sharing this with us .
What a session. I think Allah just directly guided me to this session because I am currently suffering from these issues. Jazak’ALLAH to YouthClub!
The women speaker is talking about realities of marriage.
She is speaking out on behalf of thousands of women.
Women is leaving everything for the sake of marriage. People should understand her plight and don't give her tough time.
May Allah guide all women folk in right direction.
Aameen
true brother. Culture has done so dirty to a women's role in society. It has almost demolished islamic rights of her and made it so difficult to live peacefully.
Yeh ek Naya hi trend shuru hogaya hai 10-15 saal se ki women is leaving everything for the family kya yeh 15 saal pehle nahi hota tha kya jab toh women nahi bolti thi yeh sab kyunki unko pata hai har ladki ko independent hone ki zarurat nahi hai warne family system hi khatam ho jayega jaise Aaj ho raha hai with this so called education jisko Deen sikhne se zyada importance Diya ja raha hai...
@@Jamesbond_00775 asl islamic system mai,mard bhi apne maa baap ke ghar se apna ghar banata tha, donun independenly nayi zindagi start krte the,
Nowadays,people get a maid in the name of "wife" and keep her in the feet of his mother to serve her, IT'S NOT HER BLOODY JOB,HOW UNEMPATHETIC MEN CAN BE
I DON'T CARE OR ANY ONE RIGHT NOW DOESN'T CARE 10-15 SAAL PEHLE KYA HOTA THA,JO BHI HOTA THA, DOESN'T MEAN SAHI HOTA THA,1400 SAAL WOMEN WERE BURRIED ALIVE, DOESN'T MEAN TAB B HOTA THA TO AB BHI HONA CHAHIE
EDUCATION DOESN'T DESTROY FAMILY SYSTEM RATHER FEMINISM DOES,SIMILARLY MISOGYNY DOES,FEMINISM WAS THE RESULT OF YEARS OF MISOGYNY
SO STOP THIS NONSENSE AND BE A LITTLE EMPATHETIC
At first I thought the female speaker is a teenager😅but then after few minutes I get that she has kids😅mashallah tabarakallah❤
😂😂 same
Me too 😂
Me too 😂
And her kids are also married😂
Salam ALLAH PAK name in capital wrds
What an absolute gem Sarah Baji is. She has a solution for all the problems MashaAllah. Around 1 hour 7mins, brother Muhammad Ali asked such a legit question that should a wife leave a husband who is irresponsible and her answer just blew my mind! Thank you so much for this lecture. JazakaAllah khair kaseeran to the entire team.
Marriage is a sacred bond between two individuals, a union of hearts and souls. A wedding is a celebration of love, a joyous occasion where families and friends come together to witness the unity of two people. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with love, commitment, and shared dreams.
Unmarried still watching.🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
I think more than 50% of us are single😂
@@naughtynotes474 true..... true 💯😅
Abba nhi man Raha 😢😅
@@pocketrocket1019 to bhag k shadi kar
Yes 😅
Assalamualaikum
For the first time in my life, I have seen a girl talking in such a balanced manner.
Allah jaza e khair ata kare ...
I'm practicing Muslim and praying for my pious spouse from last two Ramazan in every salah ...May Allah accept my dua
Ameen
I am a teenager and was living in delusions but this podcast changes me. It motivates me to work on my character and habits before getting married. Jazakallah ✨,May Allah give you its reward 💖
Best session ever! Much needed jazak Allah
The lady is new to me but she is 💯
What a podcast mannn hats offf. Giving practical solutions n advices. Every married and unmarried person should watch it
Female speaker is absolutely right. First and foremost point level of maturity
Alhamdulillah got engaged to protect my eman and planning to get married as simple as I can, May Allah give me himat to go against the norm
1) Mother (Maa should not feel insecured even though u married). You have to express yourself self
2) What I am supposed to give to the better half? My Contribution in a relationship is also very important
👏🏼
Having the perspective of such an intelligent woman on the podcast was a very good addition ❤
الحمد للہ
I just want to thank ALLAAH ALMIGHTY for giving us such people.
جزاکم اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا
It was a long podcast but every second was worth listening to.
It encompassed majority of the issues prevailed in our society today.
Loved the approach of "Sara apa", she is filled with wisdom and grace, tabarak Allah.
Jazak'Allah khair.
May Allah bless you all.
And may Allah give us the ability to raise righteous sons and daughters who will be an asset for the ummah.
Lot's of love From MEWAT HARYANA (India)🇮🇳🇮🇳 Mera dream bhi yhi inshaallah ek din main bhi aesa hi banuga
please a podcast on “ways to stop wanting everyone to know how pious i am”
Build self esteem it will stop u wanting it
Yes wallahi
It was really valuable and worthy of alot of appreciation podcast. Really inspired by the lady MaashaaAllah. She's very balanced matured and graceful and very nice speaker.
The way they raising both man and women standard.......
May Allah give us good spouse ❤
Aameen
May Allah, Al Qadeer, bless us with a man who stands on our Standards. May we fulfil the halal and right standards of our future spouse as well.
اللّٰہ پاک ہم سب کی جائز دعائیں قبول فرمائے اور ہمارے گناہ معاف فرمائے ❤
The woman speaker is so well spoken and balanced. Totally enjoyed her thoughts and input
The way I saw Sara apa and got excited is beyond explaining... But once again what an amazing session "Maza agaya" I was just thinking about why don't people make podcasts on these topics and this came ❤❤❤❤
Please tell me her full name
@@laiba9559her name is Sara Asif... she delivers lectures at all ilm institute in Karachi.
@@laiba9559 her full name is sara Asif.
Sara Asif @@laiba9559
Sara mam ki awaz etni methi hai k dil kerta hai sunty jao subhanAllah MashAllah love u sara mam ❤❤❤❤
Bhai , please just focus on the content only . I know you respect Mam , but we should not appreciate opposite genders beauty or anything that is naturally attractive ( like voice) to man.
Thanku tauha bhai jaan apke wajah se ajj maine haram relationship Allah ke liye chhor diya 😥😥 ya Allah meri sari gunahe maaf kr dena 😭😭
May Allah forgive you and bless you with the best spouse.
@@sawerakhalid6853 haa bro Allah paak se tauba krte rahenge wo bhot meharban hai tauba ko bhot pasand krta h ekdin to tauba kubul kar hi lega
@@muhammadjawwad4863 ameen 😪
Whoever leaves something for the sake of Allah SWT, Allah will replace it with something better.
@@zamilpasha haa bro bas mai yahi soch ke Allah swt par twakkul kr ke ye sab chhora may Allah blessed me
InshaAllah Apni future k sath beth kr apki ye video dekhuga... ;)
I think an unmarried persona should write these questions.
Even I think I will repeat this lecture and write a full conversation.
It's really an important lecture.
Abu saaad and Muhammed.E is major missing for me 😭
muhammad ali is a gentlemen he only talks to the point
Kya hua un koi?
SubhanAllah...by seeing the thumbnail i really got excited 😂😂 #shaadi ...🎉❤
Same❤😂
Me too fav topic teenager 😅
😂
@@Trenddy.treasures 😂
What a brilliant lady. I usually don't impress with anyone but she made me her fan. MashaaAllah May Allah bless her.
That was a really nice and informative podcast
JazakAllah Tuaha Ibn Jalil Muhammad Ali and Sara Asif 🤍❤💙
Unmarried Like karo
Ham unmarried hi ye lecs dekhtay rhtay hain 😅or soochtay hain ky ham spouse ky sath acha karin gye but jin married logon ko sunana chahiye wo suntay nhi ye lecs 😢😅
Thank you ap ka bohot bohot sukriya meri Life bohot badalgi hai apki vajah se
Notes:
Qualities to look for in women
1. Obedience
2. When you look at her she gives you peace.
Qualities to look for in men
1. Attitude
2. Financial status
Religion is character.
1. Maafi mangne ki zimedari or karne ki zimedari (Zarf hona chahiiye)
2. Achi baat karna
3. Apne kaam se kaam rakhna
4. Tanhaiyan achi hona
A person should have good akhlaq (Respect / Strong personality )
Make efforts for each other.
Amazing lecture again,🪄
You are the ray of hope for youth in the darkness of world.
jazakAllah 💚
Sara asif mam
first i didnt recognized her without spectacles..😂
But lit i quit my haram relationship because of her one video platonic relationship in 2021.alhamdulillah
May allah swt give u ajr ❤
After You Read
BENEFITS OF ÄYAT AL-KURSI
You will never miss to recite
1. Recite after fard salah, and the only thing that separates you from Paradise is death.
2. Recite while leaving your house, and a group of angels will protect you.
3. Recite on entering your house, and poverty will not enter your home.
4. Recite in the morning, and you will be protected until the evening.
5. Recite in the evening and you will be protected until the morning.
6. The thief does not approach its reciter.
Make Habit reading in RAMADAN on daily basis
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Female speaker is brilliant mashallah. Pls put English subtitles on .u will reach a greater audience
Duas for your channel from uk
I am married and I am very happy with my spouse .I am not an angel 😇 but according to this podcast i think that i am handling all the maters in good way and i always try my best .
Now after listening this i improve my self . MashAllah TbarakAllah.
Whenever Ali bhai smile or laugh I feel like laughing too😊. Allah humma Barik
Mohammad Ali bhai is a gem. 🤌🏻 May Allah swt bless him with all the happiness ✨ loads of duas 🇮🇳
I shared personal experienced still now that 5 to 6 persons as (rishty wali aunty) said ap logon k liye achy rishty nahi mil rahy, and opposite side is totally different. But we have a strong believe that Allah Tala give us the best one for us. ان شا اللّٰہ عزوجل
Wat a beautiful topic Mashallah....., plz invite dr waseem khan too..... baki Abu saad, Raja zia ul haq, Ali E, Muhammad Ali offcourse r already here M.A 🎉🎉
A real man will offer you marriage ❤
A loser will offer you Zina 💔
subhanallah dilemma of society ...
Islam made the marriage the easiest thing to do and we made it the hardest.
Very informative with so much basic knowledge about our daily family life. Jzaak Allah Khair 👍🏻
Wonderful podcast MashAllah I listen her (SARA APPA)first time but I learnt alot from this podcast inshallah I will apply these advices in my life where needed.❤
Whattaa Podcast Ma Sha Allah
Mashallah mai kb se sara asif ke lecture ka wait kr rhi thi finally aa gyi
48:00 When he said don't be vulnerable in front of anyone. At first i agreed with the idea as it gave validation to my idea, but after contemplating for few minutes over this, my thought went to the relationship of Sayyida Khadija r.a and Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
It depends on the level of intellect your spouse have.
SUGGESTIONS FOR FUTURE VIDEOS:
Huqooq of spouses in each other's and on their in laws
What is a niqah nama and what is actually written in it.
What should one do in moments of Ultimate confusion be it marriage or studies or job etc (beside istekhara ofcourse) there are some matter that you need instant decisions on...
This topic is moreee important for youth !
Mostly unmarried person
Wallah Amazed to see her. That's really a paradigm shift the most mature women i have seen Ma Sha ALLAH.
Sara asif takes my heart today. Mash Allah ma'am i truly respect & appreciate
Sara asif mam
"Being her" k bad barakallahu feek. U back again. Truly imacptable peraonality ua. i love you❤❤. U influenced me alot. #Youthclub
Mn aik online marriage bureau mn as a manager kam kr rha hu Allahu Akbar log aisi aisi demands krty hn jesy k sorry to say furniture khreedny aye hn aur shadi ko itna difficult bna dia h . Allah hamari islah farmaye
Sahi kaha aapne mi meri beti k lie ladka dhund re to kaese kaese masle pesh are Allah hi raham kare
Ma sha Allah answered all my questions which I used to think about. Very very thought provoking talk. Enjoyed a lot. Keep doing the good work👍
Really appreciate sister Sara on the platform since long. Looking forward for more. She have such a impactful voice.
سکن کے لیے وضو کا پانی
جگر کے لیے قرآن کی تلاوت
صحت کے لیے نماز
اور خوش رہنے کے لیے اللہ کا ذکر کیا کرو
اچھی بات پھیلانا صدقہ جاریہ ہے
Can u Type in English
Dua for those who want to be nikkahfied like me
Jab tak pasand nh hogi hum shadi nahe krege ! Best lines MUHAMMAD ALI BHAI💔(14:45)
We want more podcasts like this. It’s help lots of people ❤ 😊
Read darood pak and type done ❤
Done ❤
Done
Please sir make a podcast on Islam / sunnah and culture people are fallowing culture more than Deen which had destroyed so many lives like in case of marriage in case of rights of men and women in case of responsibilities after marriage.
1:24:00 excellent point
Mam me apka fan ho gya
Me kb se yehi point keh raha hn we don't want women to be miserable but baat kafi agey nikal gayi hai education is just a way to differentiate between Halal and Haram
Jzak Allah kher ❤ itni khubsurat baten ki MashaAllah Allah pak apko jzà den or hmen amal krny ki tofeeq Ameen Suma ameen
Subhanallah... Starting is amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤...
Main content!!!!!!!!
وَخَلَقْنَاكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا ﴿۸﴾
And We created you in pairs.
Quran [78:8]
V important Topic
Jazakh Allah Khair Tuaha Beta
May Allah bless you 🤲🏻
Let's watch this and be aware before marriage 😂
Sahil adeem sir defined clearly about marriage concepts ❤
Masha'Allah,so nice to see Sara asif appi after long time❤hope she would be coming back on Youthclub..her motivational lectures are missed..
So true👍
Much needed podcast… jazakAllah u khair May Allah bless you for this much needed much
Ya Allah please let my future husband be a man that will always increase my deen / iman .😢
I'm in germany and have the same thoughts 😊 but very hard to find in germany 😢
Just make dua and leave it in the hands of Allah. In'sha'allah you will found your best spouse. 😊
@rahmat975 Thank you, JzakAllah
BTW what you want in your spouse?
@rahmat975 very religious ,respectful to her husband, that's all nothing else😊
تمام ديكهنے اور سننے والوں کی اللہ پرشانیاں دور فرماے
First time sune rahi Sara mam ko mashaAllah please keep educate us!
Wow what a wonderful session Allahumma Barik, Allah Amal krne ki toufeq de aur ap se qabool faramaye 🤲🏼❤️
May Allah bless us with pious wives and children....😅
Bhai please age gap marriages par b baat karain . Q k islam main age matter nai karti . Jab k society main isse taboo samja jata hai
Assalamualaikum everyone recite this after every Salah/نماز
⬇️⬇️👇👇
Take screenshot
Subhan Allah 33 times
Alhamdulillah 33 times
Allaho Akbar 34 times
Surah ikhlas 3 times
Surah falaq 3 times
Surah naas 3 times
Surah kafiroon 3 times
Ayatul kursi 3 times
Surah fatiha 1 time
Durood e Ibrahim 3 times
May Allah guide all of us Ameen
mashaAllah mashaAllah..the podcast was literallly superb.! the female speaker justified everything so clearly
This is place where India, Pakistan and Bangladesh are together ❤❤
#YouthClub❤❤
In one more thing we are together that is islam 🔥🔥🔥
It is permisiable to podcaste with a women?
After the aya of parda came any Sahabi (rh.) Seen (Aiyasha ra.) ?
not at all , free mixing is haram , its only allowed with proper segregation or a barrier between them.
You can see in podcast they are not even lowering their gazes , Tuaha bhai constantly looking at that lady , and that lady is constantly looking at brothers. This will happen if there are no barrier or segregation between both genders it will make it difficult to lower their gazes , more than that they are showing it to public , we already have so much fitnah of zina in our society due to this laanat of free mixing in school clg uni and here they are presenting free mixing in islamic way as well, People will use Islam to allow this too even when its not necessary. interacting with na mehram is only allowed when necessary, in this podcast it wasnt, These type of topics have been discussed since years . Also that lady is also wearing a beautified version of Pardah which is literally a dress , not the Jalbab which is supposed to wear on top of your dress , you can see the examples of those covering from ladies like Dr Farhat Hashmi and her sisters.
Islam is strict towards gender discipline and this podcast will cause so much fitnah between genders as they will see their fav people on internet they will get influenced and those brothers and sisters who are close to deen might start normalizing this sugar coated free mixing. We should stop the fitnah/sin from its roots
I love to listen saraasif i have an honour to listen het live as well and m.ali bhai and tauha bhai u always give. Words of wisdom may Allah bless u all .
3:15, 14:00, 24:00, 36:00, 41:00, 48:15, 1:2:00, 1:12:00, 1:44:00