🏆 10 ESSENTIAL ETIQUETTE & MANNERS RULES FOR LADIES. 👗 THAT INSTANTLY SHOWS YOU HAVE CLASS.🍸✨
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Fumi I’m not even a lady but these tips are helpful for everyone, including men. Having good manners is very important from both parties and I thank you for this video! Much love 💙😁
I find it very hot when men have impeccable manners. It shows courtesy and self-awareness.
Absolutely Andrew!
Yea , I am fumi sister tho , we are Nigerians
Andrew thanks for appreciating
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Being a lady, is never out of style.
I was raised to be a Lady, good manners are essentials. My mother even sent me, when I was a teenager, to spend some time during the summer with a very sweet and 'proper Lady". She added to the list of me to learn how to behave like a real Lady. God bless you beautiful Lady.❤️
😂😂😂 Some ladies need to watch this in the morning everyday before stepping out the door. 👜
I’m telling you😂😂😂
Amen!!!!!!!😃😃😃
I agree.
Lol..
I am one of them 😅
Eat before you leave but don’t say you ate before you left lol . Don’t eat something that will make your stomach hurt
1] Self Respect (Self Love)
2] Lateness (Never show up late)
3] Shouting and Being Too Loud
4] Don't Loose Your Composure in Public(No Fighting)
5] Being Drunk in Public (You Look careless & You Open up yourself to danger)
6] Rinsing your mouth with your drink after a meal (Don't Pick your nose, or picking your teeth at a table)
7) Try To Use appropriate terms (Where's the powder room, instead of screaming toilet)
8] Don't Pick your nose or teeth at the table
9] Close your legs under the table
10] Banging Your itchy hair in public
Thanks
Thank you for this
I've worked hard on #2 but I have always apologized for running late
@@isebi7592 uwc
@@TheBlaqueLilly Me Too, I'm constantly working on that as well
Number 7nooooooò
Mother always taught me to eat at home before going out to friends house, a relative, or on a date. It is because you don’t want to look too hungry, to eager.
One thing that is a pet peeve with me but is normalised nowadays - sitting at a table with someone for dinner but spending most of the time on your phone. My sister did that to me once and when I got tired of it I called her out. She was most upset and stalked off - but I felt like she was being rude to me because she could barely hold a conversation, she was on the phone so much. In my opinion if you are out with people you should be present in the moment, at least for the most part. Everyone checks their socials and takes pics, but people nowadays take it to the extreme of bad manners.
Exactly
Am with you there most pleople take there phone every were this days and don't put them no silence in a meeingt,at church,at a feneral and at dinner no a table your phone. I leave at home or with someone to answer my calls or to take the massage so l can give the pleople am with for that time full attention and enjoy what is happening at that time
So true.
It’s called addiction.
My pet hate too!
Fumi's sarcastic laugh makes this video even more hilarious.😁😁
The feminine deportment, how to sit, walk and stand deserves a whole video of its own. With your modeling background am pretty sure you can teach us a thing or two about posture
Please my posture is the worst and I am 5'9
As a young woman raised by women who just didn’t know, I myself became one. Thank you for teaching me the proper way to excel in life👑💕
Same Im learning and im almost 40
How do I correct the wrong i mpression of coming late I have built- in the heart of some people
@@chiomachinonso3666show up on time consistently
It's early in the video, but thank you for mentioning how blatantly rude it is to be late for an appointment. I personally know someone who is always late. This made me look at their overall character towards others. It isn't good.
I am with you on this. I cannot stand lateness.
It is shocking to me how many people have no respect for other people’s time.
@@ckl5590 If you watch them you will notice an overall false sense of self entitlement.
My sister. I just love you.
Such a pity some of these reality stars don't practice these etiquette.💜🇯🇲
Dear Fumi, this is wonderful work for the thousands of your daughters here. Please continue this line of content. We appreciate you!
R lol li
I have shared. It is invaluable
@@doreenonekalit9888 To be very honest.
This information was priceless. You never know who is watching, possibly the person who will interview you for that job! Great tips, thank you sister!
You can’t imagine the effect u have on many girls who actually needed this guidance ❤️❤️
I live by this and I am teaching my kids to do the same. I never leave home with an empty stomach. Be it to a party, wedding or any gathering❤️
This is an African thing ,we don't go anywhere with out eating at home,before we go out for church we cook and eat or any gathering so that when they didn't serve in time or little anything you are full already
Fumi I cannot STAND lateness. I totally agreed lack of respect. I attended a wedding rehearsal dinner, the time say 6pm tell me why the married couple showed up at 8:45pm, I told my mom if you were not with me I would have gotten into an Uber and left. Fumi I could have been at another dinner hanging with friends I have not seen in a long time. I was soooo made.
EDIT: oh by the way the couple did not even apologize for their lateness.
Lol
Thank you
The volcano!!😹 I used to have a problem with being late but as I’ve gotten older, have really made an effort to change this & it’s gotten a lot better. This video really drove that in for me. Love you!💟
And another bad manner is looking at your phone too much while in company, or not letting someone finish their sentence before starting yours… SO rude!
A man of quality will recognize a woman of class it’s how one dresses ,walks , and speaks and keeps her home and car if it’s clean she is clean . You are definitely the real deal not a fake I am 64 and have been to many high scale functions such as luncheons , parties , proms,and dinner parties. I took etiquette classes ,table setting , cooking, ballet tap and modern jazz , the first impressions is the last impression , I wish I saw more young ladies with class these days. You are a treasure trove of vital information these young ladies need desperately thank you Fumi!!!!!🌷🙏🏽🌷
Glad to have come accross your channel!! Haven't met a more humble, happy, empowering, uplifting lady like you. I'm infact running short of superlatives for you! Thank you so much for being there for us! Much love to you 🤍✨
Welcome to FUMINATION, Sunmaiya Shamim. She's our wonderful internet Big Mummy
I hate it when people are late and they don't even pick up the phone to notify you. I always leave.
Lateness is my problem. From today onwards, I am resolved to showing up 30 mins before time anywhere
Thank you Auntie Fumi
Much love from Ghana🥰
Looking beautiful from head to toe Auntie!!! OMG I have broken 3 of the 10 rules of etiquette. I’ll be writing these on my bathroom mirror so that I do not forget when I leave the house.
Aunty Fumi, you have no idea how much this means to me.. not just as a lady but as a mother. I am currently watching this with my 12 year old daughter, 10 year old niece and 10 year old son. These children need this learning.
1. Self respect self love
2 Arriving late
3. Shouting and laughing loud
4. Don't loose your composure in public.
5. Been drunk in public.
6. Use magic words e. g. Excuse me
7. Close your legs.
8. Don't scratch your head.
9. Look pleasant and dress pleasant.
10. Eat at home before going out for the dinner
Fumi, as a mature member of the Fumi Nation, I agree 100% with you, and more so now than ever. Everyone has a phone and can record your actions at any time.
I had to save this to my list of faves. I'm working on polishing myself up as i'm turning 30 soon. This is perfect. Thank you aunty
Lawd have mercy ❤️ This is so lacked now in society. This should be a full master class ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I couldn't agree more. The sad thing is that when a person shows good manners, they tend to stand out as extraordinary. In actual fact good manners in not a big deal, but so many people are lacking in that area. Quite sad actually.
I agree.
Hello Auntie Fumi! I was crying because some of the most “cultured” people have no clue about etiquette. One of the worst things is seeing a lady cut a piece of meat as if they were sawing wood. The other thing is not saying excuse me while passing others. Thank you for keeping it real helping us ladies on our toes and polished! (No pun intended) You are the best!!!
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Am a mid 70s baby & so glad we did our teenage drama before cameras & social media 😁 These days a minute of uncouth behavior & 📸 it becomes a permanent reminder to the public! 😳
I agreed
Hello Fumi! Thank you so so much for yet an insightful video! You mentioned having a safety pin on you at all times while you are out. Could you perhaps make a video addressing the items a woman should never leave the house without, like an emergency kit perhaps, please? Could you show us how you organize your bag, please? Much love from Paris!
I second this. Thanks
Aunty Fumi, we learned a lot of these from home; but sometimes, companies from Varsity, or work, kinda influence people to change. For me, my dating my husband INSTILLED punctuality in me. Oh yes! He left me one day when I was late, and I was horrified. My told me, that I deserved it. Then, she'd relieve me from my house chores to make it early to my dates. My father's family is loud, and I'm STILL working on my voice. I'm very conscious of it, so it's a work in progress.
What I ABSOLUTELY ABHOR is foul language, expletives: they just don't make sense, and most are demeaning to women.
Thank you SO MUCH FOR reiterating these values again. 🙏🙏
I am 58 and I have always eaten before going out especially to weddings and parties mostly because I often do not like to food offered. I am very hot on basic manners, it's really not difficult. I will only wait max' 15 minutes after that I leave! My time is precious. Do not take my consideration and kindness to make a fool out of me. Raise your voice at me and you'll see the back of my head because it's my cue to leave! When you started banging your head, I lost - laugh out loud! Thank you Miss Fumi, fabulous!
Fumi, I’m 52 but when I was 16 I was a Barbizon model student. Besides teaching us how to be a model the curriculum included etiquette. Implemented it always throughout my life. Every thing you discussed. ⭐️💃🏻
SHOW US HOW TO WALK IN HEELS AND HOW TO PUT ON LASHES. PLEASE.
I went to Barbizon way back in the day!
Damn, I feel like I compromised most of my twenties over plates of food 😂😂😜
Even in my 50s, this is very informative. I am guilty of quite a few of these in my years, but will be more aware of my actions from now on. What a lovely lady to set it straight, not only for the younger ladies. Never too late! Thank you!
Great tips! God bless you. When I first saw a female bang her hair because it was itching , I thought she was freaking insane. She just happen to be the cashier at a grocery store. Good hygiene and manners is important for both men and women and knowing that some habits is best left at home with the person and the savior. Pushing your chair in is so important . It drives me crazy to walk in any establishment and see the chair's scattered. We all are a work in progress, none of us are perfect. Thanks for these wonderful videos.
I'm the type who leaves chairs scattered in a hotel but my man never told me that. I feel so ashamed
You are the polished Aunt that many were not fortunate to have. Thank you💋 classy lady.
Feminine class indeed,thanx lots Fumi,blessed to be part of the FumiNation..
Fumi I agree with everything you have said & I must admit I am a true curser! While I feel there is a time and place for cursing I have enough respect to not do it in places that it should not be done or around certain people! I do my work in private, no one will ever be able to say they heard me cursing someone out!
You are so right FUMI table manners are so important ,picked up a few tips to pass on to our daughter. Looking gorgeous as always. One of my pet hates is some poeple still snap their fingers for service, I find this extremly rude. enjoyed the video. x
Fumi you look so beautiful and elegant in this video. I really appreciate how you share so many wonderful things with women. You are truly a jewel.
😆😆😆😆😆😆 the rinsing of the mouth with drink, 😆😆😆the picking of teeth😆😆😆😂 Oh my! 😂 You have such sense of humor even as you share very important tips on outdoor manners. Love you ma'am.💜❤️
F4 FLAWLESS, FABULOUS, FIERCE FUMI!!! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!! You look marvelous darling!
1. SELF RESPECT, SELF LOVE
2. BE ON TIME - BEING LATE IS RUDE. COMMUNICATE IF YOU ARE RUNNING LATE.
3. NO NEED TO SHOUT OR BE LOUD
4. KEEP YOURSELF COMPOSED. DO NOT LOSE YOUR COMPOSURE IN PUBLIC/NO FIGHTING
5. CONSUME ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGES IN MODERATION
6. DO NOT USE YOUR DRINKING WATER TO RINSE YOUR MOUTH
7. USE THE APPROPRIATE TERM - RESTROOM AS OPPOSED TO TOILET
8. DON’T PICK YOUR NOSE OR TEETH AT THE TABLE
9. CLOSE YOUR LEGS UNDER THE TABLE
10. ITCH YOUR SCALP, DON’T BANG/TAP YOUR HEAD
Thank you Fumi! You’re literally my social media mom!
You are so funny 😂😂 I’m so guilty of the second one I never thought about it. When I see my friends I’m excited and tend to laugh loud. Thank you for this video
😅😅😅😅me too Tracey
Such a great video! If you haven't already, could you share a modest "what's in my bag" series to share items you don't leave home without? Like you mentioned the Eye lash glue, safety pins, etc?
Awesome tips 👑Queen Fumi! ….and I’ve never heard it referred to as a volcano 🌋😂
Lovely look, Fumi 😍and thanks for the etiquette lessons!
Thank you, FUMI! I’m 50 and many of these I was fortunate to learned as a young girl in Charm School. Despite what we see on social media these are so on target for today. All the BEST ❤!!!
Ahhh I remember Charm School that my aunties attended. You learned all of that and they passed it to he women in the family. LOVE YOU FUMI!!!
Lovely! We learn everyday, I will send link to my female relatives and friends! Thank you Aunty Fumi ♥️🇺🇸🇳🇬
This content is greatly needed , I appreciate you taking the time to share . Everything you said was on point. Thank you Fumi
You are glowing Fumi!! Thank you for sharing your light✨✨✨
Fumi love thank u for making me luv my 50s,,,,I'm 58. And loving it. U made me appreciate myself more and life now.
Fumi, this is much needed and Thank God I haven't seen or heard many of these things while at dinner.
Yes fumi perfect. Many of the things you mentioned, people do not realize how embarrassing they look. I love your father’s suggestion. I never thought of that, but I always try to eat as little as possible for many reasons. Not to get anything stuck in my teeth, to pay attention to what is going on around me, and most of all to ensure I don’t look as you say hungry.😅
Fumi! You hit it right on the nail! Much love and support always! 🤍
Fumi's dropping gems! 💎
Just pumped into your channel, already liked it because every bit adds value to anyone who's ready to learn and change
I always love your energy and confidence. You give me a reason to smile 😁 and learn at the same time
Absolutely LOVVVVVVE your blouse and skirt!!! And I LOVVVVE YOU!!! Thank you so much for providing so many life tips/advice for us! You’re AHHHHH-MAAAAAZIIIIINNNNGGGGH!!!💜💜💜
Fumi, this was a fabulous episode! Very funny and very educational 😂💓 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!
I just love your mannerisms and the general classy queen energy you bring.
What a wonderful episode... thanks Fumi!!! 💖 The volcano comment... just epic!!! 🤣
Honey you spoke on all the things that women should know. Yes have what you need in your purse as well
just found your channel and I am in love! you are absolutely a mama bear!! I appreciate your existence
Yes, Auntie Fumi! Keep these videos coming.
This was awesome! Thank you and keep them coming please!
youre so right Fumi a lot of women should know that and watch that episode. A lot of love from Montreal, Canada 😘
Fumi, I love this blog. Thank you so much for sharing this. Blessings
I love how you delivered the lessons Auntie Fumi. I also love how you look, the hair is different and gorgeous 😍😍
🙏Thank you Fumi!! Good Manners are everything 🙏💕
You are so funny, Fums. I am glad I was taught well..so up my alley
Thank you so much mama 💓💓❤️💓❤️ . . This is raw gold!!
Good day Fumi I am glad to see this type of content because in today’s society it is very much needed…. I’m the same age as you born in the UK West Indian parents migrated to the US we grew up in a VERY different era but many women can stand to learn a lot of the 💎💎💎you are sharing especially if they’ve never been taught how to conduct themselves as a lady at social gatherings… One of my pet peeves is when I’m at a elegant event and there’s that one woman who takes her shoes off on the dance floor 😱🫣it’s like nails on a chalkboard for me smh… when purchasing shoes ladies learn how to walk in them with confidence it really makes a difference there are all types of tricks available… practice at home if you have to… 😄smh…👠👠👠👡👡
Awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this should be taught in school not everyone has parents with manners you’re amazing GOD Bless You❤‼️📣
Always on point, aunty fumi with the looks, you look stunning as always
Thanks Fumi, I am grateful that I found you and am able to follow all of your tips every day; I am becoming the best of me right now. Continue the good work, God bless you.
Love this video. Was waiting for it.
Omg!!!! Your video was really good. Alot of women need to hear it. So many younger women nowadays are letting themselves down!!!!
If I have a daughter in the future, I'm gonna give her all these tips... you're a life saver ❤️
Love fumi's honesty
All I have to say is.. Yasss Ma'am preach!!!! Love you! Ladies need to know!
I love you Fumi! You are so wise and you look STUNNING today wow! 🤩 Just glowing on my screen! 💓💜💓💜💓
wey wey Aunty Fumi I beg no kill me ooh.....where we go know all dis tins wey we deh come from poor homes. No wonder.......but Shah we dey learn every day.....Greetings to all my African beauties.......I hope wonna don hear weti Aunty Fumi tok
Fabulous Fumi! Love the hair ❤️
What a great topic. I have seen it all the time and it’s a huge turn off even with me as a married person. Thank you ❤️
Loved this video and yes arriving on time is a form of respect. And please do a video on dress code for going out in public. Thank you
Thank you for these tips/reminders. The one about lateness resonates with me
I love her! Her advice, wisdom and experiences makes her a beautiful feminine wise woman.❤❤❤❤
Dear Fumi, I'm a new subscriber. I stumbled upon your channel via the bra hacks. You're giving me motherly advise. Something I never got to experience as an adult woman. I wish I discovered your channel years ago.
I love your video's and I'll look forward to seeing more of your content. Thank you for all the advise. Greetings and lots of love from The Netherlands!
Aunty Funmi, thank you for talking about this list.I feel so convicted didn’t really know I have been acting I’ll mannered at times 😩😩
just discovered your channel a few days ago and i am loving these life tips. you are like the aunty we all need.
Loving the hair aunty Fumi, you look gorgeous.
Awesome 👍, Love you for all you're doing. Thank you so much for always educating us.
I love the way fumispeaks she explain everything so right
Absolutely loved this💕
Fumi, I found u yesterday and you're my most favourite woman in utube already. Your videos are so useful and u r a wonderful person, u made me laugh so often , and u feel comfortable like a mom. Love u ❤️
Lovely content as usual
Thanks so much for sharing