Women Can't Control a Disciplined Man
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Women are led by their insecurities and the more disciplined you are, the more her insecurities come out. Control is about a lack of confidence. Most women are only confident in looking cute and being sexual, and nothing more.
@ageofbogyo hell yah. i have always said one of the things a man MUST EVERY MAN work on is his physique.
Man yeah. and looks for MOST women fade over time. hence THE WALL.
Yeah I had a woman tell me she never felt insecure till she got with me, and I said that’s, because by your own words every man before me was captivated by your looks and I’m not. I think you sexy, but I care more about your heart and what’s in your head than your looks. I can find many women who look good, but what’s going on in that head is what’s important.
"if they're great leaders, why they're kids in jail?" hit em' where it hurts uncle rom.
GOOB THA DON That's the quintessential question right there. One they can never answer.
@@NkrumahTure I will say this. I have 6 younger brothers. different mothers. same dad, for my mother's sake, even though she realized my dad wasn't squat running the streets in jail etc.. me and my brothers came out to solid young men no records speak properly etc. if it accounts for leadership idk but she tried.
Rasul Daniels so tru
Women can either be in control or get a quality man; can't have both.
4 things Rom stated that stood out.....1) Men having options is a major key;2) Having discipline is a major key;3) Having a plan is a major key and 4) Teaching your sons to make their own $ is major key. Peace.
If a women thinks she can control you and tries to, she assumes that you are weak. It is up to you to prove her right or wrong.
She assumes your weak...just move on...proving anything to her only gives her the strings to control and manipulate you....walking away shows strength...let her go find what she thinks she's looking for.
@@yameil here's the thing, by moving on let's her know that you don't have time for her bs. By not giving her a chance, you proved her wrong because she can't manipulate you. By trying to prove her wrong, you actually proved her right. I think you misread me. But I agree.
@@RobsterCWell I was piggy backing off your sentiment.
I'll prove her wrong and ghost her.
A man with a discipline mind will over ride a weak heart.
Financial discipline is a big deal. My last girl was a huge spender, even though neither of us were in the phase of our lives to be doing that. When I tried to enforce more financial discipline, she didn't like it. Broke up with me. Was a godsend, though.
Most women aren't disciplined and if you aren't man enough to stand up, they will run your finances into the ground and can take you off course. It's up to us to impose discipline on ourselves.
yes sir!
All true. My dad goes through it with his wife. I went through it with my ex wife spending money we didn't have on stupid shit. One of the reasons I had to let her go. Countless men have told me the same story. Now my finances go EXACTLY as I planned months ahead.
I couldn’t have said it better Rom. A disciplined man is a successful man. He may have to endure irrational scrutiny from women and other men because they don’t understand his purpose. However, despite the criticism, he will stand firm in his belief system and pursue his goals. This is the type of man that I want to lead my family.
I get you luv.
I wrote an essay once entitled "A Player is nothing but a woman with a Dick".
I agree. Women want a fvckboy
Rom i see why im single and im man i wont break for no woman and nowadays it seems like woman cant handle a serious man whit discipline or a good head on his shoulders
Facts bro they get intimidated
Always remember your the prize you don't need them they need you be discipline be smart with the decsions u make especially with women and money
@Dj Andrews : Respectfully, this is actually an extremely feminine attitude.
@@amasion2882 how ?
@Dj Andrews : I’m speaking my frank opinion and mean no insult.
It’s a GENTLEMAN’S DUTY to notice and offer courtship to his chosen lady (assuming he has the lady’s interest and when appropriate the good wishes of both their families.)
Ladies actually don’t “need” men. Most partnership oriented ladies would LIKE to enjoy a happy, mutually loving and respectful relationship with a compatible, like minded gentleman. They would like to provide and receive support and comfort in the relationship, keep one another happy, productive, and stimulated. Enhance one another’s lives for the better and grow both individually and with each other.
Ladies have other options, though. It is possible for them to live comfortable, positive, and happy lives without gentlemen.
Ladies don’t “chase” gentlemen. They laugh at the very suggestion. Gentlemen don’t like being chased and find it unbecoming in ladies because the lady is assuming a MASCULINE role when she chases him. In turn, the gentleman must assume a FEMININE role as the “prize,” or “elusive object of desire,” etc. He must retreat, remain passive and receiving instead of operating the courtship process. No red-blooded man desires this.
Conquerors are predominately male for a reason. Do you aspire to be a conqueror or a courtesan?
Relationships are a “luxury item” in the modern world. They are optional, not required. The real prize is genuine happiness, whether alone or with others.
@@amasion2882 technically a man should be on his purpose if he is on his grind technically he doesn't have 2 approach because the women see his hustle getting 2 kno him is a plus especially if hes a mystery 2 them uncle rom says it best women choose the men its the mans job 2 pick up on it now if u see something unlike by all means approach especially if u feel like your not going 2 see her again i stopped approaching because of 2 reasons 1 if u constantly approach theyre gonna think you don't get women because word with women always gets around and 2 because when your not focusing on them they literally come 2 u and it works as far as men being the prize men should look at themself like that i see 2 many guys butt hurt over a chick where is the pride and self esteem plus keep into consideration that women are very different now that 10 or 15 years ago men are the prize she can't do shit wothout u marrige, kids etc stop going by her lead and set the narrative yourself they want u 2 lead anyway i consider myself a conqueror and im still conquering right now got a girl coming over 2nite and no diss this is jus good convo bro
Dj Andrews: The “prize” concept is beneficial to the extent that all individuals should respect and value THEMSELVES. Beyond that, everything you described in your “attraction strategy” ... it’s all extremely passive and feminine in character. In fact, some of it sounds suspiciously like a reworded version of “The Rules,” a famous series of self-help books advising post-feminism women on regaining their femininity and successfully attracting good men as husbands.
Example: the book advises women to be “a creature unlike any other” (AKA “a prize”). Also instructs women to be “mysterious” and keep relationships “light.” It also reminds women to stay busy, not make themselves too available to a man to increase his interest, and prevent him taking her for granted and so on.
It sounds you are adopting an extremely passive, traditionally feminine role and attracting women willing to accept the masculine role (until they meet up with a masculine male who activates their femininity).
Women don’t “need” men. Men don’t “need” women. ANY person desiring a solid, traditional marriage and family needs the best quality mate s/he can attract into a committed relationship. Just because you are male doesn’t automatically mean you’re a quality male fit to marry/breed with in the eyes of desirable females. That doesn’t mean they won’t play the male and enjoy you for the moment if you allow it.
You say you consider yourself yourself a conqueror. Alexander the Great didn’t rule most of the civilized world by chilling out at home and letting others “choose” him. He never would’ve met his wife if he hadn’t conquered her country.
If these feminine strategies work for you and you’re satisfied that’s fine. Just be aware you’re probably missing out on the best women and even if they are willing to drive to you for sex that doesn’t mean they want more from you than that. It might backfire when you find someone you feel serious about.
Good hunting.
Only successfully-married man I know (the rest are simps) explained: "She used to take credit when things go well 'I GOT this' but panics when they don't 'Daddy DO something!' THAT'S why now I'm 'Daddy' ALL the time."
I'm so disciplined and my lady can't stand that shit. She always complaining and Im always solving the problem. Real talk Mr. Rom. Thanks!
Lol 3 years later... Y'all still together lol 😆😂😂
@@christopherjameswright9614 Hey mane she dont wanna leave me. 😁
That's why I've always had problems in relationships with women who arent used to a man who was taught to lead. I grew up around a natural leader (my father) and just took on his traits. It has kept me out of alot of unwanted trouble that most guys normally fall victim to.
Good message uncle Rom. And I like what you said at the end... “Never compromise your manhood”. And may I add to that...Fellas, never allow a woman of any stature to move you off of your square. Women are emotional creatures, so therefore...there will be times when she goes into an emotional whirlwind. But, it’s your job as a man to stir the ship from that whirlwind. Stay calm, cool, collective. Don’t feed into her energy. Stay in your masculine frame. Because if you allow her to make you equally emotional with her, then that will turn her off. And if she can control you, then she has you wrapped around her finger and can play you like a puppeteer plays hers puppet. And also, it puts you into a feminine state. Real men get things handled. You just have to put God First. Believe in yourself. Stay humble, and be a man of great temperance. Never allow a woman to determine your worth. Have her to chase your validation, instead of you chasing hers. You are the man with the plan. You’re the leader. Be good, but not nice. A woman is only closed minded and “structured around a weak man, until she finds a man that she is attracted to. And she will break that “structure” only for a man that she is attracted to and that she respects. No job, family, friends, kids, etc will stop her from breaking it. High interest is everything. Never chase, but lead. Stay on your purpose.
me Each one teach one my brotha
God bless you
mdivane ndlovu God Bless You Too!
#GoldComment
Ive seen this, ive lived it. This is true, a woman will break all for the one she is attracted to.
Thanks again brother Rom for this very imperative message. I'm 48 and single because I have never compromised my manhood. As a man you will get no credibility from a woman in doing so.
This is why. I do not do relationships
skinfan jay
PREACH!
Mental and sexual discipline goes a long way. I have paid for both in my youth smdh what happens when we don’t have strong male role models in the house or neighborhoods
@@Force100able that;s the key. to control that urge. to control the stimulation. like when a sexy women is out in publc. only weak men gawk and stare at her. a disciplined man can see her and apprectiate it but will not have to stare. he can control the urge. they love that
Often times ,women know who to control and they avoid guys they can't control
No they cannot, and the hate that man for that.
All men need this talk with a mentor or a father figure. One of my favs as of lately!
That's bcuz a disciplined man want step outside of his frame & step off his ⬛ square (morals,principles,boundaries & self-respect) to bow down & please any woman ...
Your not cocky or arrogant OG your just straight up about everything you do & say 💯💯👊💯💯
Mr. Rom, most black women are raised from birth to believe that the woman is in charge , especially in a house hold with the father being absent.. The young men are conditioned by the female( head of household) to obey and be controlled.. On the onset of pubety you will start to see this somewhat hatred attitude towards women in the form of abuse and acting out.. The rabbit hole goes very deep.." Stop trying to act like my Mother"? Is one among many phases. A Woman can't control any man.. He bends to her will because that is something he wants to do...no coercion here. Ghanaian Symbol...
"Youre not my mother. You're not fucking, financing, or feeding me" that should end 120% of ALL arguments between men and women who arent related or dating.
That's right fellas if you're disciplined a woman's feminine charms will not phase you.
Damn straight fam
I always wondered why I can’t stay in relationships... could be me or could be that I’m too disciplined... 🤔
I didn't realize this was such a repellent to black women. This is how a real man functions in life so I thought they would flock to this mentality and behavior since they claim all the time that they want a real man. Found out the hard way that they don't. Not saying all black women but the ones who want this type of man are in the minority of the minority. I swear when I was younger this is how I saw black men functioning.
They don't want a real man because that would mean they had to fall in line...they want the men they complain about because it mask their inefficiency by always shining a light on his perceived short comings.
And that brother IS the end game for them. NOT marriage, family, legacy, children or building. Control, control, control of EVERYTHING in and about your life. Like they know :30 seconds after meeting you if they will sleep with you, the same can be said if they know they can control you. A couple of shit tests and they know.
After my eyes were opened a number of years ago I also noticed that all women try to control as well. It’s based on their need to manipulate.
Love it!!! Ladies need to hear this. The body is not cash, collateral, stock, bonds or bitcoins nor real estate. Someone put that thing on a pedestal too many times and a lot of women believe that’s all they need to get a man is a nice box and great head game. A disciplined man can see through these stunts. They will play with the prey until they tire go in for the kill when ready and walk away never losing sleep nor looking back. Women need to realize it’s so much more than sex and sensuality. Thanks Rom keep on killing it👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes Ma'am
I've seen when I'm on my nofap and focused on my purpose women lose all influence over me.
Sexual mastery makes you outcome independent no doubt, it’s a women’s only currency to control a man.
You'll hear women say in frustration about a brother who is focused. Realize the good ones sized you up and respect your grind. Don't think because they admire your work ethic doesn't mean they won't try you still. They're never consistent, a good self-gratifying feeling for the moment can veer away their focus.
What's up Big Rom,A man with discipline he's only going to deal with a woman that's understanding of his life before she came into his life because what ever she like about him and what he has will be respected and honored.
"I am teaching men how to have options with women"... this is ultimately the whole point of Rom's lessons.. it is about having options in life in general.. to many guys want to have specific things and not the option to have/ not have them... keep preaching brother
Yep! My Ex tried to do so,and found herself husband less and damn near homeless. She does not define your reality ever!
Four year old gem I'm on a throw back binge
i grow up without my father around, he was there when i was younger between 1-8 yrs sometimes but still. i had to learn on my own how to act. Had to look somewhere i see people with fathers fucking up sometimes
Woman dont like hereing the truth
Im 23 and just figuring this message now needed to hear og this 💯💯👍👍
I had a chick that tried to control me in a situationship! Tried to force me to put up with her and her 4 dogs that she allowed to sleep in the bed!! I was like FUCK THAT and I just use to roll out. Some chicks are nasty as hell too. If you know you are having company that is going to spend the night why the hell wouldn't you wash your sheets and comforter?? It was smelling like straight dog!!! FOH
You got to use discernment to see the honey traps.
This is great brother. I have my mission, I want to secure that bag and start my own business. A woman can come along or get out of the way.
"Why are so many of their [women] kids in Jail?!" 🎯🎯🎯🎯💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
That one thumb down is definitely from a broad who hate the truth that you're sharing lol
Every thumbs down means I hit the target.
@@RomWills now its 3 lol smh
It says in the holy Quran, he controls his lower half can conquer all.... Big ups Rom 👊
Damn brother mashallah I need to revisit that akhi! Thank you for the wisdom.
Say that s*** Uncle Rom!!!!
Damn you’re deep as hell im sending my little brother to your channel you sound like my father 🤣
Disciplined brothers scare-TF-outta sistahs. They've gotten so used to leading dumb jock/thugs by the nose since JHS (+ they fear abandonment) that's the only type they feel 'safe' with.
Talk that Talk Uncle Rom!!!! This is something every man must Understand & Do!! It will forever change their life!! Since understanding this concept straight out of high school, life has been nothing but growth & leveling up!!
Real as hell! Thanks, Uncle Rom! I’m following you!! Peace and blessings!
Pay attention to her household she grew up in .. If the mother is running the show In house & father or the stepfather has his tale between his legs That's all she know she will try to control you. Specially if you a Strong minded man You guys will eventually break up!! Because she can't control you Where the mother or aunties Will come between your relationship Cause that's one's usually thats giving her the advice.
I just got out if a 3 year relationship like this. Her dad is a beta, her mom abused her dad growing up. Parents divorced, dad remarries another masculine abusive woman. Mom remarries an even more beta man. So she was raised "not to need a man" by all her parents. Long story short soon as I became self employed and uncontrollable, she left me for a broke beta male 10 years younger than her that she can control like her mom did her dad. They engaged now. Big learning experience for me, if her dad was a simp she will expect you to be.
exactly !!!!!!! I agree 100000% ! Woman only go as far as you let them !!!!!! Keep your standards High brothers !!!!!
Well if a man doesn't want to be controlled then he won't. If they have complaints, oh well. But it is imperative that he controls himself. This also takes away excuses. Don't control one area and let lose some where else. Go ahead, Rom, teach about options and control. I'm tired of black men being assaulted by these other race women. It's one thing to choose him, but to automatically make a beeline to him based on assumption is wrong. Notice them when you can as they hunt for other black men. Choose: Don't float. I've had to accept shaming language just to turn it back on the shamer too.
Great video. You and ARC are pretty humble, because you both interact with your subscribers a lot by liking and responding to comments. A lot of CZcamsrs with the same or more popularity are arrogant and don't do that.
I wish I had the time to give a written response to every comment. I still read every single comment.
@@RomWills That's dope. I'm glad you DO respond to comments. You have inspired me soooo much to be better. Thanks again!!💯
I preach the same principles about leadership and dealing with women to my sons. When things are not right, they are going to look at you so you may as well lead from the beginning and be accountable for your own plan. You can delegate certain things, but you still need to be the leader and make sure everything is in order. Along with sexual and financial discipline, these are keys to being successful. Great video!
Ron for President👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Old women like to control. I dated one before. Try to control me. She crosses my boundaries. I have to dumped her. She told me how she used to control her x boyfriend. The guy was living with her all that SHIT. Her daughter told me that the guy was gay. :(
Rom Wills: TEACHING EXCELLENCE! Much, much respect. MUCH RESPECT!
See this is why you pull my cards out every fucking time. I was telling someone the other day. We learn words growing up but studying words etymologically is like every word is a new language. Never had anyone break down sub-mission like that. I felt slow but liberated by this simple compound explaination where most dictionaries have made it more confusing. Now when I look up submission with the etymology broken down the definition and understanding is far reaching now. So if you submit anything to someone you are already in the sub-mission-ed mindset seeking someone elses approval or rejection if they so choose. I got more from this but damn. This entire video was literally empowing because I have been feeling like how you explained we should hold ourselves as Kings mentally. Now it makes sense. Independence, Freedom, Power. These are the true marks of Manhood today on a fundamental level. Raw.... Real.....Always....100% I'm on this shit!
I heard it said that “ whatever you compromise to get or keep, you will eventually loose !! “Don’t compromise your manhood!” Great word U.R.✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿.
This video is nothing but knowledge. Thank you.
Brothers we can look.. Adam, Samson, King David and King Solomon.. They all fell because of women..Yes the woman is essential and valuable.. however - proverbs 31:3 do not give thy strength unto a woman.
I appreciate you for being consistent with your message and always keeping it real Rom.
These archives are refreshing…thx for the message Rom I’m just a testament your reach is gravitating the youth like myself indefinitely
Great message, great leaders need to be above reproach
Lol you know it's real when that hand on the knee.
Poignant Title Bro!!
They truly don't like the Disciplined Man. It becomes a game to them, a competition, resistance.
Sugafut bunbun, our competition is out there!
Fantastic title & Info Man!
I'm gonna start call u rom💯wills. Because u be telling the truth. All men in general we must stand for something. The thing is to sit back and relax and be patient!!💯💪🏾😎✊🏾
Bro, I’m thankful for this. Right message, right time.
Damn, I gotta make a playlist about this guy teaching.
Funny u mention plan I told my boy wife these relationships are business and that’s how I look at it now and she said that’s why u single I said I’m good with that
This honesty is what the world needs more of. Thanks A lot for this upload. A lot to take care of but nothing that can’t be done. ✅🙏
Thank you for this message Rom. Great Video. Time to look in the mirror you are never too old to make a change and improve.
This man is the truth he’s giving away a million dollar worth of game.
Loved the message on this one. Our women need to heal themselves... It's unnatural....
You are SO spot on with the "house in the suburbs" part @11:20 when it comes to plans. Had to listen to this one again.
Just over the weekend, I was at an event with a friend. Sometime in I noticed a lady speaking to him. When she noticed me she asked me if I was a pastor coz she noticed I had a bold voice. 😂 a few hours later after speaking to another individual about job ideas, I was about to head inside, then I noticed the same lady was sitting just a few inches away from the person I spoke to. She then asked me if I helped people out with job ideas, (keep in mind, the entire time, I had no idea she was there and that she was eavesdropping). I said no but I know someone, then asked her name. She said it twice but couldn’t hear, then asked her to “please speak up, I can’t hear you”. This lady literally gave a fake ass line: “I can’t sorry, I’m sick”. I was confused as hell 😓. I said ok then went inside. At the end of the program, when I was on the balcony, you-know-who came out, her head glued to her phone, was walking towards my direction, then outta no where bumped into me before heading to the stairs behind me. That was no accident;there was plenty of space and time to know where to walk. Dunno what she was trying to pull, but I was told by an elderly person that she wanted to “try” me, but saw that I was disciplined enough to stand ground against her “game”. Lol
I've taken a couple months break from dating, mainly because I wasn't liking the results and I wanted to re-evaluate how I go about dating again. Listening to you and ARC, I am taking into account on a women following my program and trumping the pussy card. Videos like this help getting me back on track.
For those bossy black women, put the fear of God into them without being violent. That presence of hard discipline energy is nothing to fuck wit. If a bossy sista is attracted to you, she will either submit or walk away.
This is why women like pookie and ray ray.. men that dont have shit.. their easy to control ie kick out thr house etc.
This is facts I’m a discipline men
I’m glad I’m not a “dusty beta male”. I gotta have my dignity. Seriously.
Thank god for this space 💪🏻
You Went Straight Into OVERDRIVE On This One, Uncle. 💯💯💯💯💯
This is power O.G. The force is in you
One thing she will have to do is have a fitness routine cause that is my discipline.
Alot of women use Accountability and responsibility as shaming language to get us to take Blame/ Clean up their Fuck ups , on some Scapegoat shit. i've NEVER heard or seen a woman Ginuwinely Apologize and Correct behavior.
This an automatic like Unc, ain’t even watched it yet.
These are the kind of women who grow up to have bad relationships with their mothers.
Keep dropping this Red Pill Wisdom brother Rom !
Love your videos brother. Are you putting out new videos soon?
SALUTE ROM... OG GAME 4
THE MASSES!
Thanks fam.
Nothing but truth bombs in this video.
In that order!! Tell it like it is
Brother ROM them gains man dem gainzz. 💪💪
Stand on your Square Say what u mean and mean what u say. Stay logical and never lose control. Learn how to meditate and sexual discipline is key to being the Master of the Universe.
Uncle Rom dropping Some heat. I have a mentor business. I got to have my young students listen to this. You hit all points
That's an honor.
Unk I always had women you just gave me better instructions on how to deal with them
The video quality is looking a lot better now a days brother ‼️
Great Content -
Two different cameras. My car videos are filmed on my smartphone. This camera I use for my other sites.
Rom Wills
Nothing but respect Rom , Stay Strong ‼️
Faxts seen this fine girl post on insta and she was like all you gotta do to be happy with me is do what i say i knew right there she masculine amd try to run shit
Idd they can't control us. I love it.❤
I needed to hear this 🔥🔥
Damn..... Just when I thought I've heard it all... The content is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥... Especially if it's applied.. 🐐🐐