Partners of Psychopaths often end up completely ruined and with a horrible resume. I heard from such people changing their resume because no one would believe them...so be careful to judge people on that...it's not that simple it's a very complex topic but I agree with most of it. Good work! And thanks for spreading awareness
Psychopaths mess with your head, no doubt about that. I have a couple of fat queers living upstairs from me. They were all charm and light at first. During Covid I asked them if they were going to put carpet down on the floor as I could hear them walking across the floor right above my flat. They promised that they were going to do this, and claimed that they had made plans to get someone in to rectify the problem. They never did anything. Then one day, one of them told me that he wanted me to move my car as I was parking in his spot. He said that it was important that I park elsewhere because he owned that spot and he was putting an electric car charger in his spot. No such effort was made. He still has the same ICE car and it is a year since that conversation took place. Then the nicer of the two once confronted me on the steps and reassured me that the two of them weren't as bad as all that (I had once told them that I had not got on with a neighbour who had lied about me and whose father had tried to illegally evict me so I was wary of people). He then explained that they had no money and were not able to fulfil what they said they were going to do about the carpet and the car. I almost believed him. The other has a very good job, no doubt very highly paid. I remained circumspect about trusting what he said was true. I was so used to their casual lying it was normal for me to disbelieve them by now. Then one day I came home one day and noticed a lot of rejected mail I had put on the bottom shelf to be chucked out, had been returned to my mail box. So I took it out and placed it on the bottom shelf again. The same thing happened, I dittoed the same response. It happened a third time - third time dittoed, only this time I was fed up about it. I knocked on their door, instinctively believing they were doing this and the not so nice one said that I should not accuse them of doing this - what made me think it was them? Turning themselves into the victim. I didn't say much just told them to leave the post on the bottom shelf as I didn't need it. It could be chucked out with the rest of the rejected mail. The next thing, the same person then knocked on my door and angrily told me to throw my own old post out. Why would he do this if he hadn't been responsible for doing what he denied doing earlier? I told him that in this house - comprising five flats - that everyone had a task to perform; it was just how things were done here. He then remonstrated with me about having to 'follow my rules' and why did he need to do this? He disregarded the fact that I often cleaned the communal carpet, another owner took the bins out, and someone cleared the post - but not me. Plus I never made the rules, yet he wanted to assume it was me making them for my benefit, when in fact I didn't make them and they aren't just for my benefit but the benefit of all of us. It had been like that for years and throwing my discarded post out with mail that had arrived from junk mailers and other occupants that he since left took no more trouble at all. So why did he think he was exempt from our house traditions when he and his partner were the newbies here? Now, for the past four weeks he has not spoken to me at all; he just blanks me. Am I surprised? No, not at all. Both of these chubsters have lied to me from the start and all that has happened is that they have dropped their fake 'charm' ball to expose what was evident to me by the inaction all along only they are not bothering to hide it with words now. As it is, i haven't seen the nicer of the two for a few weeks either. Perhaps they have split up. Clearly, they want to paint me out to be the liar, the awkward one when in fact I am the longest living occupant there and just want to live in peace and get on with everyone. This is what psychopaths do: they generate situations that seem so unbelievable for them to appear the culprit just to tarnish someone's reputation and to weaken their sense of personal stability and peace of mind. Yes, psychopaths casually lie all the time. They appear so believable, which makes them so dangerous. They are not all serial killers. Just casual liars with no sense of morality and no respect or loyalty toward anyone or anything. That is what characterises many of them.
Best I have seen on this topic.
Excellent presentation. Many a potential top employee applicant for a company has been turned down as they ‘didn’t sell themselves’
Partners of Psychopaths often end up completely ruined and with a horrible resume. I heard from such people changing their resume because no one would believe them...so be careful to judge people on that...it's not that simple it's a very complex topic but I agree with most of it. Good work! And thanks for spreading awareness
Psychopaths and vulnerable narcissists tend to attract each other.
@@Lahng_Blackduke I just know that they team up against a target.
Very good insights.some new to me
A remorseless liar who appears honest. Gen. 3
Psychopaths mess with your head, no doubt about that. I have a couple of fat queers living upstairs from me. They were all charm and light at first. During Covid I asked them if they were going to put carpet down on the floor as I could hear them walking across the floor right above my flat. They promised that they were going to do this, and claimed that they had made plans to get someone in to rectify the problem. They never did anything. Then one day, one of them told me that he wanted me to move my car as I was parking in his spot. He said that it was important that I park elsewhere because he owned that spot and he was putting an electric car charger in his spot. No such effort was made. He still has the same ICE car and it is a year since that conversation took place. Then the nicer of the two once confronted me on the steps and reassured me that the two of them weren't as bad as all that (I had once told them that I had not got on with a neighbour who had lied about me and whose father had tried to illegally evict me so I was wary of people). He then explained that they had no money and were not able to fulfil what they said they were going to do about the carpet and the car. I almost believed him. The other has a very good job, no doubt very highly paid. I remained circumspect about trusting what he said was true. I was so used to their casual lying it was normal for me to disbelieve them by now.
Then one day I came home one day and noticed a lot of rejected mail I had put on the bottom shelf to be chucked out, had been returned to my mail box. So I took it out and placed it on the bottom shelf again. The same thing happened, I dittoed the same response. It happened a third time - third time dittoed, only this time I was fed up about it. I knocked on their door, instinctively believing they were doing this and the not so nice one said that I should not accuse them of doing this - what made me think it was them? Turning themselves into the victim. I didn't say much just told them to leave the post on the bottom shelf as I didn't need it. It could be chucked out with the rest of the rejected mail.
The next thing, the same person then knocked on my door and angrily told me to throw my own old post out. Why would he do this if he hadn't been responsible for doing what he denied doing earlier? I told him that in this house - comprising five flats - that everyone had a task to perform; it was just how things were done here. He then remonstrated with me about having to 'follow my rules' and why did he need to do this? He disregarded the fact that I often cleaned the communal carpet, another owner took the bins out, and someone cleared the post - but not me. Plus I never made the rules, yet he wanted to assume it was me making them for my benefit, when in fact I didn't make them and they aren't just for my benefit but the benefit of all of us. It had been like that for years and throwing my discarded post out with mail that had arrived from junk mailers and other occupants that he since left took no more trouble at all. So why did he think he was exempt from our house traditions when he and his partner were the newbies here?
Now, for the past four weeks he has not spoken to me at all; he just blanks me. Am I surprised? No, not at all. Both of these chubsters have lied to me from the start and all that has happened is that they have dropped their fake 'charm' ball to expose what was evident to me by the inaction all along only they are not bothering to hide it with words now. As it is, i haven't seen the nicer of the two for a few weeks either. Perhaps they have split up. Clearly, they want to paint me out to be the liar, the awkward one when in fact I am the longest living occupant there and just want to live in peace and get on with everyone.
This is what psychopaths do: they generate situations that seem so unbelievable for them to appear the culprit just to tarnish someone's reputation and to weaken their sense of personal stability and peace of mind.
Yes, psychopaths casually lie all the time. They appear so believable, which makes them so dangerous. They are not all serial killers. Just casual liars with no sense of morality and no respect or loyalty toward anyone or anything. That is what characterises many of them.
What is a clinical test for psychopathy look like?
Hare checklist
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