Tank - I Can't Make You Love Me (Official Video)
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- The official video of "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Tank from the album 'Now or Never'.
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I just became aware of this song, & I would listen 2 it @ any time!!!
Ninja Kidz
Nice kids
Who is here in 2024? ❤❤
Here, and I won't stop
Loving this song.
Bonnie did it better.
And Hornsby.
Me
We here
I found a letter my husband wrote to me after his passing & I’ll never forget this statement... “There will be many men who want you, but one man will DESERVE you”!!!!!!! That took me out!!! 😭😢🕊❤️💋
So sorry for your loss, wow powerful words💗🌹
Tameeka Harris Thank you Doll! 💖
@@GODSPRINZES2 yw💗
So so sorry for your loss oh the pain is just 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
stephanie parsons Thank you Sis! It’s really been hard. But he wanted me to live my life. I miss my husband daily. He was everything I could’ve asked for in a man/husband. 😢😭❤️Be blessed! 🙏🏽
To all the broken hearts...its time to let go and set yourself free. It's not worth holding on if they don't feel the same. Keep your pride, love yourself, know your worth. Things will get better.
It's just so hard😢
@@venus1990able in the beginning its hard but time will grant you the chance to heal. Find your hobbies and enjoy the shit out of it lol. Eventually, you'll find someone compatible. Diamonds are formed through extreme pressure. You got this!
It is unfair tho 😢
Thanks a lot I needed heart this
I've been waiting 20 years for someone (anyone) to love me right 😔😟😢
This song DEFINITELY hits different when you feel a certain way about someone but they don’t feel the same. Feels like a prison
Facts 😢
😢😢😢
💯
😢😢😢
I’m on the opposite side of this I have someone who loves me really hard but I don’t her but I don’t want to hurt her I have tried my best but I can’t 😢😢😢
To the person that loves hard , this song will hit hard but also makes you realize how good of a person you are
What does loving hard have to do with being a good person? One has nothing to do with the other.
Yes. .Stephan Stewart... gotta be there or been there to understand.
Yes!!
I do agree
👍✔
I was in love with someone who didn't love me the way I loved them. I accepted it, allowed God to heal my heart and in return he sent me someone who loved me better than I could have ever imagined.
Nikkie Gooden god is great
Nikkie Gooden wow God is good! I am going through the same thing. I just have to learnt to let go fully.
Nikkie Gooden listen to Curt Green.. it’s more emotion in his version czcams.com/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/video.html
Stacy_HisDaughter you will in time...moving forward didn't happen overnight but I am so happy God got me thru that pain!
Nikkie Gooden Awe
This song always reminds me how important self love is. Love is one of the most painful feeling in this world but one of the best feeling ever to experience. #2022 who is listening with me?
So true‼️‼️
Thank you for reminding me to breath
Yes so me!
I'm here
WOW !!! well said
This song makes me cry everytime. It's hard trying to find that right one, only to end up getting hurt everytime 🥺
Everytime
😪
Me 2
I feel you ❤️
😢
It’s hard to let go. Lord knows I know. Prayers for anyone going thru, may the right person come into your life❤️
Going through this right now
@@monishajefferson4352 I’m sorry you’re going thru it. I still have my days. Sending love & light and healing energy your way. May you grow thru what you’re going thru🤍🤍🤍
It hurts soo bad I have sleepless nights
@@monishajefferson4352 Grief comes in waves feel the feelings. You’re human. The storm won’t last always.
Thank you for the encouragement
The worst hurt is when someone awakens ur love with no intention of loving u back n then leave with no explanation just cut u off like u never meant nothing to them so ur just clueless n hurt
Understand u so well..
@@mariechanel1503 😔😔
💔😩
My current situation 😔
Yes.. its the one thing I didn't see coming falling in love with him. Just all this time I really thought he did only to find out he never had..yet I still stayed hoping for the best...it just takes two. And I wish long ago I was told by him so this pain wouldn't be so hard. 3yrs..I loved him I only wanted his love back..and unsuccessfully didn't..💔
Most underrated singer. If you don’t feel nothing after hearing this something is wrong! This man is definitely talented and gifted.
He definitely has one of the best versions of this song. I love Tank!
Have you heard Bonnie Raitt?
He definitely brought great honor and beauty to Bonnie Raitt's song.
@@SakuraMoonflower She didn't write the song
A broken heart hurts beyond the soul. I pray all broken hearts get healed and meet their soulmate one day. Stay strong and overcome but please love again. Being in love is the greatest feeling ever, that’s why it hurt like it hurts when the love is broken.
❤❤
There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump puddles for you
yesssssss
Dammmm you Hit it right on the Head with that Quote...Thank you
Amen!!
I like that 1
Great quote
It's 2020 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?
Timeless 🤗
Going through it now... With my college sweetheart of 3 years
@Michael Chung wish you all the best with your situation...
Me.
Girl yes!!❤
One of the songs that's helping me get over all the pain, hurt, bull shit and more!! Trying to fight and hold on sometimes it's not even worth it anymore!! Heart Broken 💔 2022!!
Hang in there!
You are not Alone, Keep It Moving, Love will come
This right here!!! I felt ALL of this!!! This song helping me too, "I can't make you Love me, I can't make your heart feel something it won't!!!!" Whooowee them some Powerful words! But I realize it's their loss not mine.
Hope your heart has healed since your post...you deserve to be happy!
You not alone 💔
Misplaced affection is one of the most painful experiences, wishing true love to everyone going through this experience❤️
t's 2021 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?
Yes throwbacks are the best 🙌 timeless!
I'm crying!!!! but I hope you're good and safe
👀
I'm here and crying as Im listening to it. It's a hard pill to swallow but you'll be better in the end.
2021 listening
This shit hit different when you actually feel like this with someone and they don't feel the way you do 😔
You not alone
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@@jeffreywilson7225 nah I'm good on that if someone is not ment to be kept you let them go that person is not for you.
Speak that shit... I keep hearing this song in my head every time I get the urge to text. "I can't make you love me" 😥😥
Damn I felt this
DANG, IT'S 2022 AND THIS SONG STILL HITS LIKE THE 1ST TIME I HEARD IT. AT THE MOMENT, I'M LISTENING TO THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I'M OVER HERE SUFFERING IN SILENCE BCUZ MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS DON'T BELIEVE I'M EVER GOING TO LEAVE. BUT, HONESTLY AND TRUTHFULLY, I'M ASKING YOU LORD GOD TO GIVE ME THE COURAGE TO FINALLY END THIS NIGHTMARE I'M IN. IT STARTED AS A FAIRYTALE AND IS ENDING A NIGHTMARE. I'VE SPENT A DECADE LOVING CATERING AND FOLLOWING THIS MANS LEAD, AND, IDK HOW TO WALK AWAY 'FOR GOOD.' LORD, I PRAY, PLEASE HELP ME. 🙏 GIVE ME THE 💪TO LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW I CANT DO THIS ON MY OWN, SO, I'M CALLING ON YOU. LORD, GIVE ME THE STRENGTH NOT JUST TO LEAVE BUT TO STAY AWAY. EVEN IF I HAVE TO GIVE HIM THE HOUSE AND THE CARS, I'M COOL WITH THAT. AS LONG AS I HAVE MY CHILD, I KNOW I'LL BE OKAY! AMEN
Jesus give her the strength, courage and wisdom to make the right decision.
You have got this. Take time to prepare your exit. Refrain from fights and explanations . Get busy to distract yourself. I have been there. Planning my exit since 2015. I’m leaving in two days. You can do it to. Meditate every day and remind yourself what’s your goal. God is with you
It takes courage and strength and something we are stronger than we know, I'm going through the same thing, I left but relaps a few times but no more will I do that, you can't make ppl love u if they don't no matter what u do. Wish u all the best queen 👸
It's hard to leave and I've been where you are at I promise. 9 years before I left. Planned to leave since 2015. I left June 29, 2021. Heal yourself first. Always have it in the back of your head no matter how good it may seem at the moment. Remember who they are. Play your role.
Lord Jesus hear her cry. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹 I praying for you strength to do what you may think is the unthinkable. I pray for strength and smooth transition. May Lord be bring a PEACE that surpasses ALL understanding. You can do it! LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANY UNHEALTHY SITUATION! ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
You can hear the surrender and the despair linger in his voice as if he’s succumbing to the loss. Such moving lyrics and a such powerful voice. Tank is most certainly underrated. One of my absolute favorites by Tank. Def vocally gifted 👏🏾💐
I think that's the only way through it. To succumb to the loss 💔
@@SharleyPaul❤
Worst feeling ever......when you love someone who doesn't love you back
You damn right... it harts like hell
Brenda Mumbi it hearts. really hurts. bad feeling :(
Brenda Mumbi so true
yes- it is the worst feeling...it. hurts so much it becomes paralyzing! I've had the misfortune of being on both ends....💔
i agree i have been in that position 😭😭😭😭
I'm so tired of crying. God please help me let go of this man that don't want me. Im tired of trying to make it work by myself... 😭
I understand how you feel
💔😞🤔😥👎
Same here right here right now
Did you make it out momma?
Thought i was the only one 💔
It's a hard but necessary lesson to learn that you can't make anyone love you no matter how hard you try. Love Tank's cover of this amazing song.
Who’s the original by?
2022❤ few weeks from 2023 I’ll never let this song die
💓
god says i will always love you no matter what..put your love and trust in christ ...flesh will always let you down but christ will never stop loving you...amen
Soooo True!
Amen
Amen 🙏🏽 so true
Amen
Truth
I learned today to give all my love to God. God is the only man who will not break my heart. Thank you God for loving a sinner like me.
Yes Amen "Beautiful"❤️✨
Amen 🙏
you are delusional god dont love anyone b ut himself
Never understood this statement and probably never will.
@@DreiSkins101 Don't ruin it for them. If it helps them cope with things then let them be(although let's just hope they don't learn about the book of Job).
This is the most beautiful song ever. Before Tank, Bonnie Raitt was a genius. Like it's bigger than pain..this song cleanses the soul.
Bonnie didn't write this song - an NFL player wrote this song 30 years ago - Bonnie was the first to record it
This man doesn’t get the respect he deserves. Top tier music
It's really tough when your feelings are stronger than the other person. Be true to your heart and move on before you end up hurting yourself. When someone loves you, it is the most visible and evident action possible. A simple touch, a smile or a thinking of you text takes no effort when it's true love. No Love Should Ever Hurt or cause you to question yourself!
😭
of
sure does!
so true
Just wait until you find someone who won't take you for granted and appreciate you ♡
It hurts like hell to love someone who dont love you only love what you do for them.
quaqua ellington AMEN SOMEBODY!!!
true..
Fuck yes its hard
😥
Audley Jackson we should just all try to do better
I'm in tears cause I feel my bf don't love me anymore 😔
I love too hard and I'm tired of hurting. Realize maybe I should be by myself.
*The most annoying thing is trying when you know it won’t change anything* 🙁
I feel so alone and sad. I've messed up in the past as have he but I thought we were past all that. We've been together 16 years and now, this past year we are like roommates. We share Bill's and chores but not each other. He doesn't even want to have sex. Heck...he doesn't even sleep In the same room. Idk what's going on and when I ask he makes excuses. I feel like ending it all sometimes. The way he speaks to me is aplorable. He looked my in the eyes today and said "fuck you" over a ball cap. I'm so so sad and lonesome.
🤦🏾♀️
@@djrenee27 you are worth more than what you're accepting sis. Wishing you better in the future. But you've got to claim it for yourself, too.
@@AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural thank you.
@Deanna Bland inbox me if u have FB Messenger... Annie May Bullock
I gave up the fight today. I fell in love with a friend who either wouldn't or couldn't love me back. This man helped me get through such an extremely difficult time in my life and things just happened. I fell hard and unapologetically, but all he could say was how flattered he was. He has every right to not love me, but I have every right to be with someone who can and will love me. This is to all of the tender-hearted people who love exponentially and without regret: your love matters. It might not matter to the person who you want, but it matters. That longing and constant yearning - give that to someone who longs and yearns to be with you. Don't give your love to a person who will not love you back. Preserve your love for that right person - they will come.
I felt your words........
Giving up on love. My heart is broken beyond repair 😢😢💔💔. I feel that real love isn't for me.
Have you found the love you were seeking...because I'm starting and it's kicking my ass already.
@@khandilousw4291 It's going to be cheesy and cliche and we've heard it a million times, but the best relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself. My catharsis helped me heal childhood trauma and brokenheartedness. Then you meet people that are attracted to that energy, that wouldn't do anything to hurt you and help you continue to heal. You want to find someone that pours into you like you pour into them. It's definitely out there!! 💜💜💜
Thanks, For that. 10 yrs Wasted,Jerome
This is a bitter sweet song , sometimes love hurts and you must find the strength to walk away . Love hurts when it's not reciprocated , allow yourself to feel the pain and move on . We are all deserving of love that's felt by both parties don't ever sell yourself short .
Easily the best version/interpretation of this song I've ever heard. Perfect balance of vocals and instruments. Incredible!
Right never knew tank was this good
Me too! ALMOST better than Bonnie..!
It hurts so bad when someone you put first always puts you last.
xp0sh......Sweetheart never make someone your priority when they're making you an option. Know your worth and claim it. When you know your worth and you stand on it, it's harder for others to mistake your value.....
xp0sh sp true
U so right I feel that way
xp0sh girlll I know the feeling
too deep lyrics
Who else listening to this in quarantine 2020?
Me
Timeless
Meee
Hurt is an understatement. Especially during quarantine.
Wow
In tears knowing it’s OVER and this song brings so much PEACE 🤍 I am so glad I have this music 🎵 TANK is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽 if you have lost someone or your heart has been broken and are listening to this today I pray your heart finds the comfort love peace and ease it needs to find strength and healing to feel whole again. ❤
Thanks ❤️
Thank you
The best/worst song ever created, realizing you were never good enough for another human being that you love may be the worst feeling in the world. This shit brings me back to the worst moment in my life but it brings me clarity because it spews reality and the truth that you never see when you're blinded by love.
agree
so true....
your right. the feeling is so awful and dreadful. just a seething burning pain of almost total dark and emptiness. I can't forget it. its a terrible feeling. like labor. its unforgettable.
You're exactly right..I know this type of heartache all too well💔
😢..I feel like I'm living this song and your comment right now.... I'm not perfect but I know I work at it everyday. Although we're still together, Im feeling exhausted from all the energy I've put into our relationship but things just aren't changing and I can't seem to wrap my mind around the fact that my efforts just hasn't paid off as much as I would have liked to see. I can't understand why so many people (females) favor me but the one person I'm in love with doesn't see the qualities others see in me...(Sorry I'm an introvert and this is the closest I've ever come to venting to anyone about my current situation)
Whos gonna be listening to this in 2019. .. #classic
Me
on the 5th day of 2019 to be exact lol
Me for sure
it still speaks
4thWard E just played it ...
Thank you God for healing me helping me understand that I am infinitely Loved by you 💜
Who else has experienced a love LOST and it felt like the biggest blow to your soul. Did and tried everything but it just wasn't meant to be. Knowing now they were the ones that missed out. Even though continuously finding yourself coming back to this song. 2022
Facts
I came across this by accident. To me its such a great analogy to God singing to us. He gives us the free will to love Him. And He can't make us love Him but just like Tank was by that car and saw Keisha Pulliam-Knight coming towards him, God is waiting for our decision to turn back to him...and He is so ready to embrace us. Before I knew the agape love of Christ I didn't understand how to appropriately engage in the other types of love. And now with God I am functional as a wife, mother, and sister.
Love your analogy,it's so on point......
Amen! God's love is unconditional. He loves those who hate him just the same.
That's True
+289dancer This is beautiful.
+289dancer "He gives us free will to love him"....but if you don't you burn in a lake of fire for eternity. Doesn't really sound like much of a choice does it?
I remember when my boyfriend sang this to me...I miss him sooo much rest in heaven honeybun!!!
what happened, if you don't mind me asking
Latisha Lewis
He had stage 4 cancer went through chemo the cancer spread to his brain and it took him 4 months later😭
awwwweee I'm so sorry 🙏
Aaliyah Carter Thank you i appreciate it!!!
Mentally bury them and accept that you cant make anyone feel anything. Lift your head and invest all your love, care and trust in yourself and in your life, its not an easy process but time and self love are you best armor in this battle. LOVE YOURSELF SO MUCH SO THAT YOU WALK AWAK FROM WHAT DOES NOT SERVE YOU.
Thanks. I needed this
❤ I love you for this Epic comment. So true! Amen
@@rere5878You will be okay❤ Promise...
The part where she runs to him and they embrace always chokes me up. Going through a break up and I still love her no matter what 😢
😢😢😢
Loving someone who doesn’t love you.. HURTS. True pain.
Who you telling
The worse pain ever ...
Facts. Me rn
37 years bro
For real
It hurts when u love someone who is damage so bad that they don't know how to love and trust the one person who would do anything for them....it hurts like hell no lie
Amen ....... You spoke a ton of wisdom, when you made this statement.
I understand you clearly
Because it takes time for them to heal...
😢
This is what Malcolm feels trying to love me and I keep pushing him away cause iam so scared of getting hurt my heart been through the ringer and he is trying to love me and I keep pushing I ask God to plz help me cause I didn't know what's real from fake and all Malcolm wanna do is love me.. God plz take the past away
Falling in Love with someone and then realizing they’re a narcissist is so Heart breaking, I gave everything I had and it was never reciprocated yet I kept on loving until I figured I had to love me more and let go🤞🏾
❤😔
Same. N I told him so. What else must I do for u to seee....n the answer was nothing and everything.
I eventually ask him why did u see me and entered my life when I was happy doing me?....
To that person who is unsure and tired. I know it’s hard to accept but move on and forward. Your person will come…
The pain I'm going through right now is unbearable .I needed to hear this..🥺
Imagine a man that talks to God about you
exactly. wolves in sheep clothing..smh
OMG best feeling
FRICK N FRECK POWERFUL!! MANY BLESSINGS TO COME 🙏🙏🙏🙏 PRAISE HIM... GOT AN ANGEL 😇😇😇 UR TRULY BLESSED HONEY 😭😭👋👋🙏🙏
Eh that’s stupid
love that
When you want to cry a good cry from the pain inside... but you have to be strong for your child looking at you...
Yessss I'm there now only God knows.... 🙏
Oh.... Yes. You said it. I cant even cry.. My son all over me. He's 2😣😣😣😣
💯💯🥺🥺
This the one!! Lord I don’t know what to di
So true.
This is the most soul crushing version of a classic... It just hit hard.
This song is definitely for the real queens out there salute to the real one's 🙏🏿✊🏿
Crazy how loving someone can mean absolutely nothing in the end!😢
right
I know what you mean!!
yeah, i know how that is. But I actually don't think it is love i'll take that as infatuation
right
ouch
Why do we fall inlove with people who don’t love us back😭😭
I'm sure it's not intentional...to be perfectly honest I dont believe the choice is ours to make
Mildred Kimberly Dawn Lee WRONG We all have the power to make choices that affect us and others as well. some people are just too selfish to even be in a relationship because all they do is take take take,never giving anything in return.
Mafala lucia because love is blind and we dont know how to love ourselves first and see oyr own worth. we "settle" instead of taking our time to "choose"
Good question
I ask myself that alot
The way Tank sang the stuffing out of this song made my life. I saw him a month ago in Baltimore, MD and the show was amazing. Hands down one of my favorite singers!
Such a beautiful song….
This was my anthem...now it's a memory of someone I let go. I thought I was in love and it was pain and heartbreak. He made me realize all that suffering was to teach me what I didn't want. I was alone a long time after closed off my heart and decided I would ever love gain... then I met my J. He wouldn't let me stay that way. I'm in love and have been for 16 years and he loves me as much as I love him. Equal, trusting and magic...we celebrated our 15th anniversary in September. I am astounded to realize I do love him more and more each day.
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Happy for you 🥰
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💜🇯🇲
❤️
Beautiful 💕💐👏💪 and Happy Anniversary 🌹😊
I give up this fight...
I've reached the point in my life where I do not believe in love. Well I mean don't get me wrong I believe in love towards my children, family, friends but not in that love which we all dream about. Don't believe in the happily ever after, finding you're better half. Noooo that does not exist... society is so mess up now a days. People play with others feelings like nothing. Makes me so sad to see how can you let someone that loves you so much down. Cheating, lying is so normal now a days! :(
Feeling the same way. I wish it was like that.
Angélica Pinto González I so understand how you feel. I use to feel the same way. But I've resolved that just because it has not happened for me the way I would have liked it to, does not mean that it doesn't exist. What I do know is that it is a blessing to have when and if we find it. I've known of some couples that have been together 50+ years, so I know that true love and the longevity of it really does exist. Keep your head up. I pray God send you the love of your life and that he blesses the two of you with the happily ever after :)
ladynastailgic Yeah 50 years ago though. Not nowadays.
whocanitbeifitaintme
With God, all things are possible. And as for nowadays...........yes nowadays. My parents, my brothers and their wives, my sister and her husband and even my son and his wife, have all found longevity in their marriages. There is a common denominator for them all. and that is they chose there mates for other reasons than the ones I've listed below. I'm guilty of choosing the wrong person for the wrong reason, so I am in no-way trying to judge. Unfortunately, as men and women we have a tendency to reach for the shallow (looks, money, image, lust good sex and for some, the fear of being without a mate.) all those things are fleeting because whenever they are weigh against the strength it takes to be committed to a thing, none of those are able to stand the test of time. When we chose wrong we wont have the relationship long. We changed God didn't. Oftentimes our view and feelings about a thing is a result of what we have or have not experienced so it is easier to believe that it no longer exist because the only other option is harder to accept.
ladynastailgic IM LOVING YOUR PROFILE PIC. LONG LIVE BLACK LOVE
Loving myself has been the best love I ever felt 🙌🏽 Searched my whole life for a love like this❤️ Thank you God 😇
Hello, I'm tired of looking.
Not many men are left in the world....TANK is happily married. SMILE
PEACHES 💛 JAMAICA 💛 🇯🇲 HARLEM
2nd day in 2020.. I’m here.. It hurts.. but I’m determined to let go of my situation and NEVER look back! I’m ready to love me like I loved him and never lose that feeling. God give me strength!
keep pushing... remember you always have the next day to start over again. Thats the beauty of going to sleep and waking up refreshed and ready for what the day brings. It will get better
I'm sorry to hear this. Seen ur previous comment!!! And I'm there with you also!!!! Been 4yrs to long!!!
STAY STRONG
I'm sorry that you are hurting, I've been there. When you truly learn to love yourself, you will value you and realize that your love is priceless. Wishing you the best God has to give you.
@@rozelliamatthews8598 You speak the Truth
Sometimes the best thing you can do is find the strength to walk away. As bad as it hurts.
Real talk
Thank you
It is better to walk, than wasting your time being with someone who doesn't want you.
Damn this is so true
Amen
This song speaks to the Soul. If someone doesn’t love you there’s no need to hold on to them. Remember you deserve better
Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
Who listening at this time and reading the comments. Lol
I am wya
🖐🖐 me lol
I am..
Lol me. I do it all the time
Me lmao
I feel this. I am slowly getting out of a situationship and I feel so broken. I tried so hard to make him realized how special I was and to show him that I truly loved and cared for him. But I guess when it's the wrong person, there's NOTHING you can do.
Best wishes to u👏🙏🙏
when it's the right one, you won't have to show him how special you are - he'll just know.
If he doesn't realize on his own how special u are,he doesn't deserve u angel😘
If it's hard then it's not right.
I know what you mean, their loss
Me and my boyfriend of 6 years were going through a really painful separation from him emotionally neglecting and emotionally hurting me the last year or so bad,, but thru the separation I realized how much he loved me when we were happy and first fell in love ❤❤😢and I seen how hard he tried and did change through are separation and I knew how much he loved me and he was the only one for me forever ❤he was willing to do anything to hold on to me and right his wrongs!! That is the definition of True love !!!! Don’t give up if you love them let there true feelings show!!Love will prevail ❤but it has to go both ways!!! Today we stand strong and proudly married for 12 years ❤❤
When I see tears falling from an angel's face, it reminds me of how you never wished a precious soul like hers would go through a tragic past relationship like that again.
Anyone still listening to this in 2018??❤
Edit : how about this year in 2019??
Edit : i'm here 2020 ❤️❤️
Edit : 2021
and always ...
siauz liau yesssss I still listen it's therapy for me
Yesss I am
you posted that in 2017
Yerr❤
siauz liau Still a great song in 2018
If you've never found yourself relating to this song, count yourself lucky and appreciate your partner
Okayyyyy..love tragedies are for real.
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If she's listening to this song today. I want you to know how much I love you. God gave me your heart and I dropped it... I'm so sorry Miko for giving up every fight... Please baby I miss you so much it hurts so bad
Tank is singing so soulful from the depths of his heart "I can't make you love me"!! He is nailing it!! Sing it Tank!!
Loving someone who doesn't love you back is the worst feeling ever. No matter what you do or sacrifice for them, they'll never see it and appreciate your effort.......they'll treat you like shit but you'll keep coming back thinking they'll love you back but you'll get hurt more. Why do we get to fall for people who don't treat us right? very sad
M James That is more true then you will ever know. My heart breaks when listening to this song.
Kayla Carey. And I too 😔 thanks
never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them..cause the people who loves the most are the most vulnerable persons to get hurt
diana bruce That's absolutely true, you've just described me.
M James it so true
I was in a relationship for 2 years when my boyfriend told me he no longer loved me, he loved someone else.. I've never felt pain like it, it killed me on the inside. It took me a very long time to get over him, almost 2 years, i was seeking for answers! his relationship with the new girl failed after 2 months, karma!
2 years later Im doing just fine, i'm really happy and i'm ready to move on and be with someone who can love me. If you're going through a hard break up.. It does get better, you just wasn't meant to be, but some one out there is willing to give you the world and love you beyond words. Have faith guys.
I still ask myself what i did not do for him..He still left😞am tired of loving
Sometimes that’s a sign it wasn’t good for you and it wasn’t meant sb better will come along
At least he left … mine just stayed to torture me
Funny thing is that I use to have this song on repeat practicing my vocals. Until i met the man who wasnt my man. He knew what he wanted with his life, and it didn't include me. Its been 5 months now, and im just starting to get over him. The lyrics finally make sense
He just woke up one morning and decided he didn't love me anymore. That I wasn't worth fighting for anymore. He held on to every negative moment instead of the love that grew from those difficult times. But As a woman you have to be strong and let go....
Shamekia Johnston Hun dont give him that much credit. He didnt just wake up one morning and decided he didnt love. Those were feelings faded over time. The signs were there unfortunately but when we love it truly can be blind. You may be hurting now but you can and you will get through this. Some people arent meant to be in our lives but for a moment. My nanna always said people are a blessing or a lesson. I truly understand that now. You deserve the best and if you will close that door God can open new ones for you. Praying for you
Shamekia Johnston sorry to hear that I'm going through the same I lost my fight as well but gotta move on
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I will not cry. Shamekia I promise I feel you. Felt like that was exactly what he did to me. Peyton, thank you for your response. It gives me perspective even though it's a VERY hard truth to swallow. Praying that we all will receive that man built by God's design, that we are to spend the rest of our lives with.
Sorry to hear that
Finally closing the chapter ...It's been tough I'm letting go.
Congrats on taking the first step towards self reflection and purpose. May the tears of last chapter water the seeds of love, hope, determination, resilience, faith, peace, strength, etc for the next chapter!
siphokazi damana me too
Wish I can let go 😭😭😭💔I’m trying so hard but it really is not easy,there’s nothing left to fix I’ve tried everything dear God
You're brave
@@zikhonamtandana2780 kuzodlula I had to be strong for my kids...after 13years I had to let go...he didn't have feelings for me anymore...he was my first I had to let him go ...tough journey but it gets better everyday ...I'm stronger and I'm learning new things..back on dating it's nice..
I was a loyal wife and that chapter is closed I'm not regretting it if was part of my journey....nyamezela kuzolunga 😘
This song hit different when after 3 years you finally realized the person you were in love with never loved you just only used you
I felt that to my Soul used and Abused me and pretended that he love me whole time he was using me for money I know I lost over 10,000 dollars messing with a damn thug and man how I love this man gave 150% meanwhile it was just some twisted sick plan to break my heart break my soul question who I am as a woman but Love one sided is No love at all and the
Beautiful version of a classic.
This song will have you crying about a situation that never even happened lol
Chenaiya B. 😂😂😂😂
Chenaiya B loll solo funny
Chenaiya B. The power of superb poetry put to song
Chenaiya B. now..I have gone through a situation and it hurt...But THIS COMMENT IS SUPER TRUE...OR have u crying over something SOOOOOOOO old it ain't even relavent...KMSL
Chenaiya B. so true
Just realising after 18 years of relationship that I've been trying to make someone luv me then after been awoke realise that the person is soo damage themself they can never luv you the way we are meant to luv....... It hurts! 😭 But with God's strength, I'll be fine. 👌😊
Be strong. You gave it all! That energy will find its way back to you one day. Best from the Netherlands!
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Trust me when I say it gets better and you'll find happiness again within yourself...
Wow i loved this
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This hits home like no other song. I am healing, but it still hurts like hell!!😢💔
VERY TRUE SONG
FOR *WE CAN NOT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE US IF THEY DON'T"
I listen to this song almost everyday. I was in a ten year relationship and married to her for the last four years. When women get tired, they actually get tired. I just never thought I would go thru so much hurt and didn't kno I would have so much love for a woman because I was HARD, but that changed when she told me she was seeing someone else. It broke my heart and it took over a year to heal. God does things for reasons. Although we hear this a lot and don't wanna accept the fact because of the love we have, but love hurts and it also makes u grow. She's moved on and so have I . She's with another guy and has a baby on the way and that's just fine with me. I'm saying to say this. Us men need to feel, listen and respect our women before it's too late cause a fed up woman is hard to sustain.. God has opened my eyes and the next lady I'm with will be treated like a queen, cause my last one was treated like trash. Thank God for growth...
Good to know. Seems like you have manned up.
Your right.. Finally you got there
Wow! Adrian Jackson, You said a mouthfull and it's good you recognize your mistakes through your pain. When you find her, she will feel more special than a queen!
Fasho
I agree you can't make someone love you if they just don't anymore.
Hardest part of loving is when you have to let go not wanting to but knowing that is the best thing for you to do
Antoine Fernandez I agree 100% it sucks one of the worse feelings in the world
Antoine Fernandez soooo true
Antoine Fernandez so true we realize sometimes they don't love us anymore like they use to but just trying to make it work the texts stop coming in calls outting an so much more but we just love who we love sad but it's life
17 years together...then out of nowhere she gave her heart to somebody else, I never saw it coming...I can only hope she is happy with the choice she made...
just broke up after 14 years and it's hurting so bad.i just cry when I hear this song.i still love her with all my heart but hers is somewer else 💔😭love is so confusing and painful .may god bless anyone who knows this feeling or experiencing it now
I feel you. 16 yrs and sheb left 3 yrs ago. I'm jot gonna lie it still hurts. She's getting married next year I guess. But it's what God's plan was...it's easier to deal with I guess but she still haunts my mind. Stay strong buddy. God bless you.
Who still listen to this in 2018 beside me ? 😍
Aedreanna Lockett I love this and when you been through it some how it becomes soothing ❤️ they really underrated this version he did is the best I’ve herd!
Aedreanna Lockett u not alone
Aye right here 👐🏻
Viwe Bontsa no not alone
Aedreanna Lockett me
This song is truly a heartbreaker, it brings back all the pain you could ever feel from a one sided relationship 😢😢
That's not a real relationship- that's unrequited love. And I'm still going through that shit right now. Hardest part is accepting that I'll never see her bright smile, look into her deep eyes, or hear her infectious giggle, ever again. God help me, I still love her, and I don't know what to do with myself.
And that the key its one sided & you (deserve) more ❤️
Miles Matheson that touch me 😢
SO MANY ARTISTS HAVE COVERED THIS SONG, INCLUDING PRINCE.
😢 Had to choke back the feelings. Beautiful song Tank!
Tank has the most beautiful vocal quality. I've listened to many other renditions. Nobody comes near Tank.
I'm learning this song. I was 22 and found myself with someone l adored. Sorry, no sex unless he gives of himself... The way he looks and touches you shows that he doesn't care.
this song hits different when its actually you in this situation.... "i'll close my eyes and i wont see, the love you don't feel when you're holding me, morning will come and i'll do whats right, just give me till then to give up this fight...and i will giveeeee upppp this fightttt" man that shit hits the soul GOOD GAWD
Antwan Lee what a great message! Must be hard giving up this fight
@@mafalalucia1119 definitely is
@Antwan Lee WOW!, thanks for some of the lyrics, that’s deep...sometimes you like a song so much, you don’t really listen to the lyrics unless you’re going thru something specific...I just liked it because of the melody and the person’s voice (which I love by the original singer, Bonnie Raitt) but if you want to hear a really fantastic cover of this song, check out Rueben Studdard’s rendition of this song...it will make you say, Bonnie who?? 😊
@@sassydiva7821 wow really? never knew Reuben did it too.
Yes
Meeting your soulmate and realizing they don't love you.Or aren't ready to love you.Or don't realize what true love is....is the worst pain I have ever felt.I never got an explanation.My heart was just....butchered.
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Claris-Ann Horn wasn’t him then babe. Just hold on... God is faithful 💓
Truth
Claris-Ann Horn awww huni x
Claris-Ann Horn I know exactly how that feels after 14yrs
The fact that he sang, played and recorded this drunk.... is what's truly amazing