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*Me, a girl with short hair*
"omg she's a lesbian"
*My brother with long hair*
"omg he's a creep"
Girls with short hair are adorable, guys with long hair are majestic.
They call George Washington a creep in the process
@@israelwood2926 that was back in the day when wigs were in fashion along with slavery
Edward Elric would like to have a word with the people who call males with long hair creeps.
Wow. I did not even knew that was a stereotype!
I was looking after two children once, both boys, they were basically beating each other to a pulp. I told them it was not ok to hit each other and one of them responded that their parents told them it was not okay to hit a girl, but that they didn’t say anything about boys. Please teach your children not to hit anyone in general unless it’s in self defence.
We are still trapped in the past, where men beat the shit out of their wives pretty often. So I understand people saying "don't hit girls" but more things have some to light, that girls can be bullies too, so they need to know they same rules. Also, there is nothing wrong with kids rough housing playfully.
Ri Ri There’s playful fighting and then there’s what they were doing. They were arguing and then they decided to solve it with their fists, I was only trying to prevent them from getting hurt. It’s the fact that they were using it to justify beating each other to a pulp. I’m aware that abuse is still an occurrence in modern society, however if we’re teaching children not to hit one gender then we should teach them to not hit the other. When they’re adults they won’t be able to solve every issue by punching someone in the face.
WHY WHY WHY WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO BE SO STUPID WE ARE ALL PEOPLE AND ALL ON EARTH SO WHO CARES BOY OR GIRL WE ARE STILL PEOPLE
Right! It just never really made sense to me. For real though, if youre getting hit and it hurts, why cant you hit back? The moment you do, however, is the moment you get ridiculed for hitting a women. It just doesn't make sense at all. It's like people dont understand that men having feelings too and they can get hurt and abused.
Erik Plumlee We’ve constantly been living by stereotypes and these fabricated ideas of how we should act which was degrading to women and put genders against each other.
Woman Gets Abused: "He's a monster!"
Man Gets Abused: "Well, somehow he deserves it."
People like that need to tap dance on a bear trap.
Is it ok if I use that insult?
@@MichaelNunya-iu6kw Go Ahead.
@@horrorfan888 thanks
What they're tap dancing skills are on point and the bear trap is too slow?
@@tiffanybazemore4050 Then they will do it again, blindfolded.
"what gender double-standard makes you angry?"
all of them
One more like, c’mon
Stolen comment
lol same
not kazuma
if u wanna see the real kazuma, look for a comment by "sato kazuma"
When I was 16 I was in the mall in my town with my little sister, who's 6 years younger than me, carrying her since she was tired from a long day out and about, and some random woman ran up to us and tries to drag my little sister away from me, all whilst yelling that I'm a pedophile and telling a random person to call the cops. Luckily the cops in my country are more friendly and asked my little sister first what had happened. The woman ended up charged with attempted kidnapping of a minor and assault of a minor. She got 2 months in jail for it since it was all on the security cameras.
Question: What gendered double standards makes you angry?
Me: All of them.
Same.
Same.
So true
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS😠😠😠💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢😡😡😡😡😡😡
Yep, pretty much
No, Susan and Karen, Nurse isn't the word for a female doctor.
Edit: to all of you people named Susan: Im sure your great. And no like a Karen.
Cadence Hillier
that one boggled my brain a lot. a nurse is a dr’s assistant, a dr is a dr. why do a lot of people see that having to do with gender?
The Living Liver This also kinda ties up with the sexism, because woman are perceived as more emotional, they are expected to care more and become a nurse than those _big, strong men_ . People think men is much more likely to be logical, so they automatically think men should be doctors and women should just be nurses.
(Disclaimer: I don't hate any gender. I'm a male and I cried when Adventure Time ended.)
Khôi Phan
great, i hate sexism so much it makes me want to commit murder
This is really huge problem in my country ... Because we call "nurse" here " zdravotní sestra" = that basically means "health sister"... So when there is a man in this position, it's really difficult for him. (Btw in some hospitals are using words "zdravotní bratr" that means "health brother"... So the issue is partially solved. But as I am saying, only in some hospitals)
@@eliskahruskova7768 Same in germany
It pisses me off when boys make fun of each other for crying like you’re not macho you’re clinically depressed
Crying is literally something everyone does idk why people get bashed for it.
My younger brother cries a lot and my mom always says “Are you a boy or a girl cause boys don’t cry”
Uh hu
I will break your Nico Nico knee caps what your parents are doing is child abuse not being sexist if you’re ever in danger call or go to the local fire department (not the emergency hotline) cps and the police will not take you seriously and won’t care it’ll just make the situation worse firefighters are extremely kind good luck
oof my parents dont mean any harm but theyre from a sexist country so i just kinda ignore it
“Male baby sitters don’t exist”
This is actually kinda sad. That he was accused of kidnapping a child.
It is. Like I can kind of get that if you see some dude picking up a kid in a park, and that kid starts crying, that you'd be suspicious, but after it's cleared up you don't need to be rude about it.
This even happens to fathers!
I personally Would be concerned if any child Is picked up by anyone, and they start crying and screaming bloody murder. But kids are kids
"I play saxophone mostly, as you might assume from my name"
Name: [Deleted]
Ah yes, [Deleted], the famous sax player
I bet he likes jazz
Tarskybull Beme she but yeah 😂😂😂
His name is probable alex or something
10,000 subs with no content ? Her
YA PLAYA HATERS YOU SHOULD LOVE YOURSELF BRR yea
"you did so well *for a girl* " - my dad
this has been said to me on multiple occasions and it *really* pisses me off
Some idoit had the balls to pull that on me when I whipped him years in a ssbb tournament. Each of my sisters and friends challenged him and he still lost. He did so well... for a loser.
Gamer girl Lucy Scooter YEESSSSS
@@catcat8297 people tend to not realize gamer girls can be just as strong if not better then guys. Just the idoits girls get recognized though.
Gamer girl Lucy Scooter I 100% agree! I myself am not a gamer, but quite a lot of my female friends are and I’ve heard a lot of stories about how these guys keep assuming they’re not anywhere as good as the guys just because they’re female. That’s another double standard that I hate :/
@@catcat8297 my gaming has 12 leaders 8 are female. I only wish MasaeAnela got more recognition then the fake Pokiemaine.
In elementary school on the bus, a girl takes out her keys and tries to stab and scratch me because she thinks it's funny and has a crush on me. I defend myself by punching her in the arm three times. She doesn't even have a bruise and I am left bleeding.
Guess who was called to the principal's office the next day? I'll give you a hint: it wasn't her.
i would have gave the girl a tombstone piledriver
In that situation, I would have told the truth and denied responsibility for any punishment.
edit: when i say "told the truth" im not saying u didn't
@ANDON HOWARD rest in pieces morelike.
Hint: file a lawsuit.
@@randomcake1435 over something so trivial? Grow up.
"Men can't clean, that's a woman's job"
**Silent frantic gesturing at Levi**
I guess I’m a woman now
Im a boy and my youngest sister never cleans she’s in 3rd grade so guess she’s a man and I’m a women now
I always clean
@@midnightbeans8694 A good habit to have.
i guess janitors are women now lol
One of my male friends told me he was molested and no one believed him because he was a boy so he refused to get help. This was in middle school and i have gone threw something similar so i talked to a close teacher. She reached out to the proper authorities and his stepfather got custody.
Poor kid
@@chipsamsung2903 yeah i haven't talked to him in a few months but last time i did you could tell there was something off. I guess he just doesn't seem as happy as he used to be
Welcome to another episode of
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@@gerrit8480 I wouldn't say that. It's that most of the time, certain groups act similarly. Just like there are way more female nurses and male engineers, so when you're toward the edges of the bell curve, other people who have seen in 9 times one way and 1 the other, it takes a bit for them to comprehend it.
@@djjazzyjeff1232 i have absolutely no idea as to what that's supposed to mean and I kinda don't wanna know
People used to laugh when I said my Dad is a nurse, and corrected me saying "He's a doctor, men can't be nurses". *Angry sigh*
Correct them back -
I fucking hate that. Like...
Umemfkekfkef.
One of the nurses, best ones I've come across. Was a man, and former army medic.
Which surprised me, mostly because he had shared that he had been in combat.
But I was proud that he continued to help people. Especially in something as crazy as the ER
I hated this stereotype when I was little I was taught that's guys can only be doctors by my dad and it was annoying
@@GarbageHomo"guys can only only be doctors"
Now I don't know if he was saying that girls couldn't be doctors or if he was saying that being a doctor was the only valid profession for males.
@@mparagames oh sorry I didn't give enough information,
He also said girls can only be nurses. Sorry for you misunderstanding.
When a dad takes care of his kids people call it “baby sitting”
It’s not baby sitting if it’s your own goddamn kids.
Baby sitters get paid. Parents dont
@@_rileyweaver_637 parents get paid (in germany i dont know if it is in other countrys) its called translated child money yeah the parents get every month (i think) money
@_RileyWeaver _
Parents in Poland get paid.
It's called 500+.
You just monthly get 500zł.
@@segonx9817 that's about $1,500 a year in USD, which is kinda a lot. The average full-time working adult in America gets about $45,000 (edit: apparently $33,000) a year, but that much more could be a big boost for parents with kids here. btw, does the amount parents in Poland get paid monthly depend on how much kids they have, or just if they have kids?
@@jonos1497 I Think it Depends on how much kids you have. Like, when you have two, you get double 500zł, or when you have three kids, you get 3x 500zł, but I'm not sure. But all kids must be underage, cause if you have 2 underage kids and 1 kid that already is 18+, it counts like you have 2 kids, and you only get money for these 2 kids.
*MEN 👏 HAVE 👏 EMOTIONS 👏 TOO."
"WOMEN 👏 CAN 👏 ASSULT 👏 PEOPLE 👏 TOO."
"STOP 👏 TREATING 👏 WOMEN 👏 AND 👏MEN 👏 DIFFERENTLY."
PERIODT NO RESPECT NO PEACE
Preach
There basically the same. Just men don't have udders on their chests and have a sausage instead of a baked potato in between their legs.
@@13_cmi no truer sentence has been spoken
@@benmemon my hair is getting caught on the bricks on my house but have a great day
I’m bisexual. (yes this is important to the story) My mother doesn’t like me to have guys over when nobody else is home but she sees no problem with me having girls over alone all the time. Yes, I am out. She knows. I don’t want to sleep with him I just want to play Mario Kart?????
My guess? Pregnancy.
I'm guessing shes worried about you getting pregnant. But honestly she's worried about that wrong things. If a kid is attracted to anyone regardless of gender, it's up to the parents to educate the kid and keep them safe so nothing sus goes on
Lol what if she walks in on you and a girl, (from Rslash) Passionately hugging
That sounds annoying.
I think she's worried about pregnancy, not sex
I’m not a boy, but if I see that my guy friend was being abused/assaulted by a girl...oh honey, blood will be shed, and it won’t be mine....
SAME! A girl hit my best friend (A guy, like always) when we were like in 2nd grade, and she was teasing him, saying "You can't hit me back, I'm a girrrrrrrl" So I stepped in, and punched her. Apparently none of the teachers saw.
@Tom Zampiga yesssssssssss. If somebody threatening one of my friends, and then saying he can't defend himself cuz she's a GiRl, you best believe I'm bout to kill someone.
I commend you :)
Bow down to me you inferior human.
Sry i was just repeating what the iphones say to me as a samsung but just replace hu- yea you get the point
Ksksksk god you made me laugh really hard
Question: What gender double standards make you angry?
Me: All of them.
Yes
Yes
Cat Whisperer Local neighborhood enby calling in to say YES
Same
Other local neighbourhood enby calling in to say yes
I feel like a large amount of women like myself really appreciate good fathers, paternal figures, cooks, tailors etc. Guys can be fantastic.
True. Most of my friends don't for instance, want kids, except for two of them. And guess what, they're both men. Also the cooking thing always struck me as odd, seeing as most famous chefs are men. I think I know only 1 famous female chef.
tbh i love my dad more than my bs of a mom
Used to play air-soft with neighbors 18 -20 year olds. At one point they started bringing their younger siblings, then those siblings started bringing their friends.
One day same very little kids who I did not know come knocking on my door asking to play. I walk them home and try to ask their parents why they are walking to my house unsupervised. They freak and accuse me of all sorts of things.
When kids are involved, a man is always assumed to be a villain.
That's freaking stupid, do you think a kidnapper would take the kids back home?
Like " hey, here's your son/daughter, i had fun raping him/her"
I hate the stupidity of all those parents!
Double standard: Guys can’t be abused, and girls can’t be abusers.
No matter your gender, go get freaking help.
THIS! use common sense people. I don't like how my self-defense teacher said guys can be sexually assaulted and stalked too but since the majority of you are female i am talking to you. I felt like she was being dismissive but since I was ready to fall asleep, her statement just made me feel baffled instead of angry.
If there was a place that took men being abused seriously maybe they will...
Currently it's either non existent or the questions go along the lines of "what did you do to deserve it"
Tenpin Plays that’s awful. Why would someone want to tell you why, you know what I mean? No one deserves abuse. Abuse can come in any form from any person. I hope one day there are more safe houses for male victims. It seems wrong to help female victims but disregard the male victims.
I hate the fact then when a man gets abused it's he's fault! NO IT IS NOT! ABUSE IS ABUSE AND IT SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY WHETHER IT BE A MAN OR A WOMAN!
Yeah, agreed
But....ngl if you’re pretty good at fighting, being a girl is an awesome cover because people way underestimate girls lol. Oh well.
Any sort of gendered standards annoy me. We're all the same species and should be treated as such.
@@user-eo5en5tm6h Eaxctly, I got called sexist cause I pointed out that star wars was being sexist by implying men can't pick up on things quickly. come on luke, the name Obi-Wan was going by was so similar to his original name, he knows all about the force, and seems to recognize you. use your brain, don't you think it is a little weird? yeah, luke connect the coincidences. I was pointing out that men aren't slow but that star wars was portraying luke that way. got called sexist 😒, it wasn't a discussion at that point it was just them yelling at me. did I say I believed that? no. I said it was sexist for guys to be stereotyped as slow to pick up on things. I never said I agreed with the stereotype, I said the exact opposite.
@@lizaharris5930 It's actually a fact that men are slower to pick up on things, smart or not. That's why men usually don't notice when a woman is angry unless she directly tells him. Just because one character was a bit slow or having trouble connecting something obvious then I really don't think that's sexism. (but I've never seen the star wars movies so I don't have much of an opinion xx)
But all of that aside, I really think it's awful that someone called YOU sexist for believing that. There's really nothing sexist about it at all. I expressed my issue with the crappy way men are portrayed on Disney Channel and I got slammed and people claimed I wanted Disney to be male dominated which is not what I meant at all. I'm a feminist and I care about women AND men and people don't seem to get that concept somehow.
@@xtonibx5770 exactly, it wasn't fun. like jeez I wanted to move on and dicuss the other details that our teacher had asked us to address. But nope! I am curious what you mean though about Disney Channel. I don't watch it anymore.
@@lizaharris5930 Not a lot of people know that Disney Channel is a female-dominated corporation. That doesn't necessarily mean that the most high-level employees are only women but it does cater a lot more to girls than boys. I'm not saying it's *never* sexist towards girls but I can hardly name a male Disney character that I would want my future sons to look up to. Booker from Ravens Home is a rare, decent, sweet, and cool male character but he's not smart. His little brother Levi is insanely smart but he's kind of a loser. Their sister Nia is.. perfect. She may have some minor character flaws but she is incredibly smart, sweet, environmentally conscious, stylish, charismatic, driven, independent, etc.
On Sydney To The Max, Sydney isn't perfect but she has no major character flaws. She's kind, smart, creative, loving, considerate, etc. Her dad, Max, is nice and everything but he's kind of stupid and he's that "goofy" dad.
On Hannah Montana, Jackson is rude, smelly, idiotic, and a slob (i like him don't get me wrong) and Oliver is goofy and stupid. They're both "losers" whereas the female characters are smart and sweet. Miley can be a bit selfish but she always realizes when she's being that way and tries to fix it. People can argue that Lily was stupid but she got into Harvard which was weird but whatever.
K.C. undercover too. The female characters are almost perfect whereas the brother and dad are either goofy or losers.
All I'm saying is that Disney doesn't seem like they can put strong female characters in their shows or movies without making the male characters either gross, stupid, rude, or all.
Also, the only disney shows I can name where there the main character is male (without a female co-main character) is Corey In The House and Suite Life Of Zach and Cody. There's a rule or something that says if a male is a main character of a Disney show, a female also has to be a main character of the same show.
@@lizaharris5930 I'm sorry that was an instanely long comment. You could skip to the last paragraph or two to get what I meant.
When a girl dumps a guy she’s seen as “strong” or “independent” but when a man does it he’s “a womanizer” or “a user”
The hell does "womanizer" mean?
@@snowyvoidproductionsxx Sort of like a player
@@jesuschrist6688 Thanks Jesus!!
FR
It actually depends on the context.
The dress code tho 🙄
No one is gonna look at an exposed shoulder and say “Daaaaang that’s a fiiiine shoulder”
... you don't know much about human sexuality, do you?
@@talltroll7092 wdym?
@@talltroll7092 No one gets attracted or horny over a shoulder lmao literally no one cares about a shoulder
@@talltroll7092 I have never looked at a girl and gone 'DAMN THAT IS A GOOD SHOULDER I CANNOT COMPREHEND THIS ENGLISH WITH SUCH A GOOD LOOKING SHOULDER IN THIS CLASS'
@@talltroll7092 sexuality is being attracted to a specific gender, not shoulders, what kind of creatures are you, you creep lmaoo
When you spend a lot of time with someone of the same gender, you just get along “so well.” But if you want to spent time with your friends of the opposite gender, you probably “have a little crush on them”. No, I don’t. End of story.
Simple fix, dont have friends at all and just play games all day... works for me
Preach that! I am a girl in a high school class mostly consisting of girls, and I get along pretty well with one of my only three male classmates. He’s smart and fun and we share memes, so it’s nice to talk to him, although we aren’t as close as friends, he’s more like a friendly acquaintance. However, for some reason, most of my classmates (and even my teachers) think that because I talk to him sooo often I must have a crush on him, which is made more frustrating by the fact that I’m actually a closeted lesbian. But sexuality doesn’t matter here; even if I _was_ straight, what’s stopping me from having male friends? Why does every positive male/female interaction have to be romantic or sexual in nature?
I've honestly grown to despise that kind of thinking
i really want to become friends with the opposite gender so someone can say "she has a crush on him", and then i tell them im aromantic _teehee_
@@Hyenaaman omg same. Hello fellow aromantic
Two women: *are literally getting married* Look at how close these best friends are, so cute!
Two men: *literally just hugging each other* Wow, they’re so gay!
yeah thats basically the general population now
edit: thx for the likes
Girl and boy accidentally kiss in movie
Movie: They are going to get married
Two boys accidentally kiss in movie
Movie: Ew, that's weird. Boys can't be romantic. Now laugh
@@Lucien_M Girl and Girl kiss in the movie
Movie: Look at these besties! Just gals being pals.
@@frauleinzuckerguss1906 also movie: Nice representation. I support the LGBTQ+ community
@@frauleinzuckerguss1906 Or in a rare case:
Movie: Wow look at this LGBTQ+ Representation!
**Literally a scene later, one of those two die.**
"I don't mind dating a guy shorter than me."
As a girl who's had MULTIPLE crushes shorter than me, (I have a crush shorter - I think - than me right now, and he's Japanese) I approve of this. There are girls who don't just look for crazily tall guys, ya know? XD
Asian people are short
I’m pretty sure that’s racist bud
@@WolfPup-ms8nt I'm asian.
@@WolfPup-ms8nt no it's not.
Honestly i can relate in a way, ok im one of the tallest girl in my grade, and i had a crush on this guy, he was like shorter then me but it didn't bother me too much but i still had a crush on him, either way. Until i found out he was homophobic.....im pans so thats a big NO. Height should not matter as well as looks, but personality and how they act or say, should
The fact that most men’s bathrooms don’t have changing tables
@hayhay055 I've seen quite a bit in my area, only really in Walmarts though
@@Synnabelle big shopping places always seem to have them, since on average women prefer to shop more, so the man can give her time to shop while he changes. Stupid logic, even if it is sometimes true.
@hayhay055 Trans dude here, never really in my area, apparently single dad's don't exist, lmao. Probably only at grocery stores or certain places with a lot of kids things
I saw a changing table in a men restroom like three weeks ago and I was actually shocked when I realized it was the first time I had seen one there.
Also three weeks ago I saw for the first time ever another men’s restroom‘s sign with also the baby icon.
Sam Fielder that seems bizzare. Maybe they forget dads can raise kids too.
My parents hate the idea of me dating, but when I express that I never want children, suddenly it's "oh you'll change your mind when you find the right guy!"
I'm in a similar situation, my parents hated the idea of me dating, which was chill because I was never interested in romance. But after years of me staying single, and saying that I don't want kids, they're getting really worried. They'll talk about how it's ok if I never date, marry, or have kids and then do a 180°and talk about how lonely I'll be and how I need to get married. It's getting real tiring...
With my family its kind of the opposite, which is an awful lot of bullshit
My parents want grandchildren, I'm 16,my brother is 30, he's going to get married at the end of this month and a few weeks ago I found out I was asexual,even if I ever have someone I just hate kids,so that's a no from me to my parents
@rashad wilsonsame,but everytime i say that i have a guy friend my parents are like: aRe YoU tWo DaTiNg????
Omg, that sounds exactly like my parents. Like, I don't want children. It's not that I hate them, it's that the job I select will be too busy for having kids!!
A girl sleeps in a giant clam then she’s a goddess. If I do it then I’m drunk and no longer allowed at the aquarium.
The worst of them all. Keep fighting. #endinequality2020 #mensrights
Lmaooo.
Lamo what? true story?
😂😂
...is there an origin story to this or...?
"Your sad?"
"Yes"
"Why?"
"My friends dad died"
"But your a man, you cant be sad"
"WTF????"
BuT yOuR a mAn, yOU cAn'T bE SaD!
No. That's a caricature and an exaggeration.
Real answers I've gotten:
So? Man up.
Just deal with it.
Suck it up.
Real men don't cry.
Are you gay (my female progenitor said this one)
Others had it worse, so deal with it.
I had it worse, so deal with it.
Solve it.
*As a girl, I get infuriated when people say stuff along the lines like :*
*“ If a girl breaks up with you, you’re bad. And if you break up with a girl, you’re the worst human alive - IF yOur A mAn “*
*It’s jusT- w h y ?*
yeah sometimes it just doesn't work out.
*why do you type like this*
Maulidan Muhammad
*because i can*
I date females and very feminine males and when people ask why my boyfriend Is so feminine I always have to explain that it's his personal preference and if they had a problem with it they could kick rocks.
What if a girl breaks up with a girl?
Wait, if only girls can be nurses, does that mean my dad’s a girl? 😳
According to these dumbasses
So it would make your parents gay and that would mean you’re adopted ! 😱
*biggest anime plot twist in history*
Nakirin-Kotoka lol
Yeah 😳
Short guy dates short woman: okay
Tall guy dates short woman: cuteee
Tall guy dates tall woman: well okay
Short guy dates tall woman: "Is she your older sister??"
My question is how the heck do short girls date tall guys?
Like wouldn’t it be awkward to kiss or something? I would rather have someone my height
@@socialanxiety9153 Yeah, theres a girl in my class (maybe 1,60m or under) who is dating a 1,90m guy. I really don't know how that works...
@@lunawolff4358 bruh
@@lunawolff4358 That guy probably broke his back just trying to get to her level.
A lot of famous men, such as Rod Stewart and Mick Jagger date and even marry taller women, and the women often wear high heels. From the man's view - think where eye-level is when they stand up! Anyway - couples are much the same size lying down!
Girl: Hey, I'm a gamer!
Gaming community: [X] for doubt
Guy: Hey, I'm a gamer!
Gaming community: Welcome to the family, son.
Sigh
Thats mainly because of the fake "gamer grils"
@@askreddit2431 True. If I could wish for anything, I'd wish for everyone is treated equally, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, etc.
If ur a so called "gamer" and play garbage games then ur not a gamer at all and ur not welcome to the family lmao
@@abovethelaw4417 There are no garbage games. (Maybe except EA tho...) I welcome all gamers, young or old, whichever game you plays, you are welcomed here.
Teacher: Who'd like to join the band? We need more females
My female friend: me
Teacher; ill sign you to sing
My female friend: I cant sin-
Teacher: then ill put you as violin
My female friend: I play guitar and drums.
Teacher: Then I'm taking someone else.
Like wtf I just stood there and my friend felt so hurt because she likes playing in a band
Ouch, I actually felt that one
Being one who loves to cook and sow but apparently home economics class is "only for girls"
I think these kind of people shoud be terminated.
@@kristofladanyi3671 he did the same to me but i play violin and piano more than guitar and ukele cuz i have short hair
I swear i was so moody after that
@@mulberryman1305 thats dumb, do what you love to do.
@@mulberryman1305: Yeah. I asked about that in high school, because I wanted to improve my skills (my mother had taught me some) and they all looked at me in shock, and told me that only girls could be in that class. They did, the next year, start offering cooking classes that boys were allowed in, but even then, many of the girls acted like the few boys should be elsewhere.
When it's okay to judge guys about the way they look but it's bullying or insensitive if you do it to the opposite gender
Bro what country do you live in? The culture must be very different, because here judging anyone is a smart way to get yourself hated by everyone.
@@sparksfly6149 r/whoosh
SupReme_brain if you’re gonna whoooosh someone maybe do it right? Also there was no joke.
SupReme_brain that Wasn’t even a joke...
Where is Just Some Random Dude With a mustache?
"Men cannot use paper towels, Woman always does the cleaning"
Captain Levi: "Hold my ODM gear"
Literally me. In my English class, I sit next to this other weeb. I start cleaning the table because ya know, CORONA. She then says. “ Woah, you’re like Levi!” Best compliment I’ve ever received in my damn life.
@@bananagaryoak1772 wow imagine being similarised to levi
@@problemistas i was also very surprised too! it also made my day as well!
lol
Or that cillit bang guy
Since my mom still sees me as female, she expects me to some day have kids. I've told her countless times I do not have the patience for children and I just don't see myself as a parent but all she says is "You'll change your mind in the future." or "But having children is great." No thanks mom I really don't want to end up having three kids and a dead end job like you.
(Different tangent below)
It's also funny that she's says being a mother is amazing while also never being there for her children. I'm still underage (17 soon to be 18) and I see her maybe once a week if I'm lucky, she doesn't have a job that keeps her away she just likes the bar more. She's been doing this for years and I have two younger brothers whom she should be there for. Both parents should be in their kids life but unfortunately I don't have any parents in my life.
im sorry for you
In my experience (forties) 'changing your mind' is actually the birth control not working. Obviously you don't want to tell a kid they're unwanted, but the fake smiles are awkward to witness.
Female isn’t a gender, even if you follow gender ideology
me: hey mum I don't want kids but I'll get married to a man someday.
my mum: why don't you want kids? What's the point of getting married if you do not want kids?? nobody will ever love you if you if you don't wanna be a parent.
also my mum: marriage and kids ruined my life. men bad, they use you. never get married and just live with me forever!
That women are allowed to be as verbally or physically abusive towards a man as they want due to the societal assumption he did something to deserve it yet if the man so much as does something minor such as as shoving the woman to defend himself he’s a monster.
Forget shoving, if she tried to do something that could hurt me, I'm punching her across the face
Gordon Ramsay you’ll probably get arrested even if you didn’t start it
Noah Hing and that’s why I’m getting cameras
@@kensai7703 Doesn't matter if you have cameras.
@@kensai7703 you will get arrested before they look at the cameras. Have fun staying in jail for 2-3 days before they actually look at the cameras.
Question : what double standard makes you angry
Me : the fact that it exists
Question: what double standards do you hate the most?
Me: Yes
*Y E S*
Two women: *hug*
People: Meh
Two Men: *hug*
People: ARE YOU GAY
Hey guys were going to assume your sexuality based on affection levels for your gender..
Solution: "No homo"
More like:
Two women: Get married and make out.
Society: Such good friends!!
Two men: are less than 10 feet apart
Society: GAY LOL
A girl and a guy hug: "YOU ARE A COUPLE"
Me to these people: for fucks sake, you know i'm a Lesbian jeezus christ
I remember this happened to me one time and I yelled NAH BITCH I JUST HUG ALOT YOU WANT YOU SAD BITCH
Men can’t be emotional
Men can’t be abused
Men can’t be sexually harassed or assaulted
All of these are untrue, men can be sexually assaulted and abused, and as a male, I find it very infuriating to hear someone say “Be a man” when I am sad
yes
It is to womans detriment as well - we are too emotionally to be logical thus we will be a poor leader/ possibly considered stupid and only good to be with kids and we are more likely to be assaulted- so from the beginning we are not allowed to play and be out like the boys because girls are obviously the only ones that get abducted.. then if we do get hurt - well dumb ass we told you to be on your guard - it's your fault you got assaulted because you should've known better ..we are sad or angry - must be that time of the month. -.- I personally don't like showing my emotions but I am not so heartless as to dismiss a mans vulnerability and sadness.. I feel like that's other mens fault though .. I agree that guys need to surround themselves with better people that are not afraid to give them a hug when they feel upset - instead of man up . Not to insult you - but I don't agree with how society treats people in general.. I am pregnant and I was told I can lift and exercise by my doctor- I was gonna move a ladder and a man proceeded to scream at me for doing so - making a scene and he said I'll get over it .. i aparantly was suppose to be ok with him embarrassing me because he had the baby in mind .. and hes not the only one that has done it and not only when I'm pregnant- being asked if I need help - I say no and then just takes it out of my hands mostly from older guys , I don't expect it and half the time have lost my balance because I positioned the item in such away so I can carry it easier .. even was questioned by a woman because I had a drill in hand and she felt that she was paying for the best service and it was assumed it was gonna be bad . I try to brush alot of it off but to be honest I've had enough.
Johnny Depp for example. He was abused by Amber Heard and once the false allegations about Depp were out, hardly anyone backed up Depp when he said otherwise.
I also for me, it’s “act ladylike” I hate it
@@abbynichols194 *laughs in non-binary* I don’t do ladylike 😈
That Gibby can go topless but Carly can't wear a turtleneck.
Best comment 2020
Goddamn injustice!
They do that even with little kids, it didn't used to be that way. I never have understood why people get so uppity about that.
Wait, what?
@@Heroshii15 iCarly reference
Reminds me of a story I heard. Wouldn't be surprised if it actually happened.
So a group of actors decided to test a theory about sexism in a public restaurant. Two couples, man and woman, and a waiter were actors. None of the patrons in the Restaurant had any idea.
First couple, the man starts arguing and yelling at his wife over something. The worst he did was hold her arm, he never insulted her. He just held her menacingly. Everyone in the Restaurant tried to stop him and telling him that he shouldn't be doing these things. Eventually he did stop.
Moments later, the other couple did the same thing, but in reverse, the woman started beating him with her bag, swearing, calling him all sorts of insulting stuff and he did nothing but take the "abuse" of the situation... Not a single person got up.
The waiter, after both displays, asked each table why they came to help the woman, but not the man in both abuse situations.
They all said that the woman was probably innocent in the matter. But the man probably "deserved it".
@Blue Forever What?
@Blue Forever Must had been it, I just heard it in a post online. Wasn't sure if fake or not even.
Wtf
This is where I call the police, because these are the type of people to look the other way if a woman were to shoot up a mall.
Imagine if something like that actually happened there.
Those people in the other tables needs to go back to primary school.
Apparently wearing a skirt or crop top is "asking for it". Dumbest thing I've ever heard.
yes agree.
Yes like no one is asking to be sexually asaulted
Who the fucked said that cuz
I'm tryna kill em for saying it
apparently if you wear baggy clothing or long skirts it's like "UNDRESSING ME WITH YOUR EYES"
I've yet to actually meet a guy who genuinely thinks that, but the day I do I have a few choice words (And maybe hands) that I want to share with them. A real man knows what boundaries are, neither me nor any of my guy friends take rape and sexual harassment lightly, no matter how much we may joke about it
Me remembering that one Percabeth meme. Where they get a letter for an event addressed to "Dr. and Mrs.Jackson", so Percy spends the entire night introducing himself as Mrs.Jackson.
I haven’t even seen the meme and I can picture it clearly.
Hello Fellow Percy Jackson reader
When men act like their sons are great for having multiple girlfriends but their daughters need their approval to date anyone.
I know right? If I had a son and I found out his girlfriend's father threatened him his girlfriend would no longer have a father.
You're subbed to buzzfeed aren't you.
@@gamergirllucyjohnson7149 lol
@Raghav Varma yeah my husband's ex crushed him pretty hard. At least my kids aren't old enough
@Raghav Varma not too much around my area.
My dad once got severely injured playing on the playground with us. He slipped and fell through one of the diagonal ladders. He broke his shoulder and there was a huge gash down his back. I'd never seen my dad that close to tears before. It was horrible to watch. We tried to get help, we were by a road, so we screamed at the cars waving our arms and pointing to our dad. Mothers with their kids were going to the playground, but when they saw my dad bleeding and me and me sisters screaming, they just ushered their kids away and drove home. Dad gave us his keys to go get his phone from his car. Mom was working, so he called a family friend. Thank goodness she got there, I was scared my dad was going to die. But since it was treated so late, he's always in immense pain now. If it was our mom who got hurt, or me, maybe someone would have tried to help right away. But just cuz it was a 41 year old bald man with a stubble he forgot to shave that got hurt, no one helped in fear of their children getting harmed. Now my dad has to live in agony for the rest of his life.
A Dumbo Octopus that's horrible
This is why I hate stereotypes and people's reliance on normalised and expected behaviour
I hope your dad will recover bit by bit.
@@craftgames1882 sadly, he never will. His shoulder's not broken anymore, but it healed in such a way that he's always in pain.
Damn that sucks
...... TAKE MY SUBSCRIPTION DAMN YOU!
To be honest, any parents are “stay at home parents” at this point.
You got me to laugh, good job.
Lmao corona check
[1970s laugh track]
Excuse me.
*distant screaming*
Actually, day cares are still open and busy as ever, at least in Texas. I live near a few and it would seem that despite being home parents are still dumping their kids elsewhere all day so they don't have to care for them.
*Imagine a metronome*
“Dads are never there for their kids!”
“Why don’t you work? Do you even care about your kids?”
"All men, are KINGS!"
"If he breathes, he's a SIIIIIIIIMP"
Finally someone addressed the damn thing
this is beautyful
What meme is this?
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
naw man its
"IF SHE BREATHES SHE'S A THOT"
"IF HE EXISTS HES A SIMP"
if it's not in here: When dads watch their kids at a playground and people accuse them of being pedophiles
Tessa Author I would like your comment but based on the number of likes it has nowwwww
@Essential Twerker what about the fact that a very large portions of kidnappers are women? Ever heard of the countless stories of female nurses stealing babies from the maternity ward? Simple point is, just because a dude wants to be nice to a kid, doesnt make him a goddamn chomo. I used to do puppets for kids and used to watch the young kids at the church I was raised in. I love entertaining kids and teaching them stuff. God forbid a straight, single, working man try to make a kid smile.
@@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 why can't you like it?
Tessa Author It had 69 likes when I first saw it and I was being edgy.
It is now 169 like
Men need to register for the draft to be allowed to vote, women do not.
I tried to join the military but could not because of health reasons, i said " then take me off the draft" they said "no, if we need people bad enough, we will waive medical disqualifications"
Think about that, they will take medically unfit men before they will draft women.
the geth yeah! I’m as much feminist as one can be! But i think there should either no draft or that female are included
Hey, remember Mulan?
@@Lucien_M just fucking watched it like 5 minutes ago this is too perfect man
The draft shouldn’t exist at all, and it’s pretty awful that you have to sign up to be able to vote since voting is a human right
Men are considered expendable
When a teenage girl likes ANYTHING besides baking cleaning and children she is treated as either
-cringy
-way to obsessed
-faking it
Or all of the above. It’s really dumb.
@@arandomuser9459 dude fr.
My stepdad literally looked at me like I had three noses when I showed him the baking book I got with the money my mother gave to me. My mother asked me to leave and I heard a short argument between them, which went somewhat like:
"what is wrong with him learning to cook?"
"he is a man!"
Despite what my stepdad thinks, as a male, I do not want to beat the crap out of people for the fun of it, nor am I at all interested in sports. I'd rather just spend a peaceful afternoon listening to pretty music and baking a cake.
there is nothing us teenage girls can like without grown ass man making fun of us. its sad tbh
So real😔😔😔 I'm not a girl but I'm afab and I'm not out so I can really relate to this and it sucks
"What gender double standards anger you?"
Yes
same.
they all bother me
You summarized it perfectly. Hats off to you!
Edit: in matter of fact, have a sub just for having a good opinion!
@@NickKnackisB4ck oh thank you dude! I really appreciate it!!
@DR G BLICKY *Every last one*
Me, a male: Begins talking to a female and being nice
Female: I have a boyfriend
Me, a male: Yeah, so do I. So anyways...
You seem like exactly the type of person i could vibe with. Funniest comment ive read in awhile.
Thanks
Lol I don’t ever say that unless it’s OBVIOUS they’re flirting or if they ask me out. What’s so wrong with having guy friends AND a bf? You seem cool
AHAHAHAHAHAHA AMAZING
@@nicoleavalon936 wait do u say that even when ur single?
1."Female Teacher Sleeps with Adolescent Student" "Man R**** Young Girl."
2. Men in commercials being stupid.
3. It seems a lot of media has group of characters and STILL has the obligatory girl, but with no personality instead of just a personality of "girl". Trading one gender stereotype for another. I imagine that would be insulting to a lot of girls.
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 Wow.
Also girls cartoons being about magic (and not cool magic, i mean rainbows and bright lights and FRieNdsHIp) while boys cartoons are about cool magic and technology and stuff. Also girls cartoons have to have 70% of the screen be pink at one time where bright colors are forbidden in boys cartoons.
@lex mota yeah
Girls on YA books have zero personality and the guys are stalkers
@@Dressup_Doll Well let's show some sympathy to females in YA novels, after all there is no job more dangerous, more life threatening than being a young female side character in a YA novel; especially in a dystopian/revolution story. If you're female and not a main character you better just show up wearing a Star Trek red shirt. You breath on these girls and they die like dogs; and it will be anything from a stray bullet to torn apart by a giant monster. Than again it may just be the stuff I've been reading.
Since I was a child, I've ingrained in myself that I have to "prove" myself in the presence of men. I can play their games, I can lift heavy, I can be "one of the boys". I don't like to be seen as weak, or a damsel in distress. So, while having masculine traits is now part of who I am, I still have that urge to prove myself that I'm "strong and capable".
Gosh same. I love my feminine side and all, but I hate how that is suddenly misinterpreted as a weakness despite the fact that I am just as strong as most other guys my age
I’m a black woman and I do something similar but the opposite and think I have to be “delicate” and “polite” so I’m not seen as “ghetto” and “dangerous” or “easy”
@@holoangie9106 It really sucks that we have to be aware of how society percieves us. Although it's ideal that we care less of what others think of us, it affects our interactions and relationships. But I believe we're slowly stepping away from stereotyping! Much love to you ❤️
Most of the time, men are stronger than women. It’s just biology.
@@Jumpyman_thegamerYT Yes, I am well aware and I don't deny that. But I don't see how your comment is relevant to our main point.
I'm a girl with mostly guy friends and we like to walk around a lot at night. Every time I'm hanging out with one guy (usually my bf) I'm asked if I need help. But when I hang out with a group of guys I get called a whore.
Who called you this, I'd like to introduce them to mah hands
@@wafflebean9828 this was cringe in so many levels
It is a red flag for a reason.
"I'm asked if I need help"...
WTF??
--Thats kayaydays lie, isnt it?--
@@olouwi probably because people think she is with them against her will.
"As you can assume from my name"
*[DELETED]*
Me: ah yes, the most feminine name I can imagine.
Yes, I could definitely tell *[DELETED]* was a saxophone player.
Woman McFemmeGirl
If I have a daughter, I'm naming her Deleted.
As much as feminine as mine
I was guessing that it was about a saxophone not some feminist user but okkkkk if that’s how you interpret it
Women: **getting married**
"Aww how cute besties!!"
Men: **look at eachother**
"Hah, gay!"
Omg this is true, my parents refer to women who are together as ‘special friends’ but say any man who is slightly flamboyant is gay. Both are a problem.
shelbrique It’s a ‘joke’ rooted in men being taught that they aren’t allowed to show affection for each other and ‘gay’ being made out to be a joke or to make people uncomfortable. It’s not great to do it.
@@Laurap01 well gay people are jokes tho, I've seen plenty of Pride parades that are cringrworthy displays.
Cara r u serious dude, I was holding my friends hand and walking towards a bench and a guy in our grade just looked at us with a disgusted look and asked ‘are y’all dating’ and we immediately looked at our hands and let go and plus with my other friend we would do the same thing but worse, she would sit in my lap all the time and I would wrap my arms around her waist cuz me and my two best friends aren’t scared of skinship or showing our love (as friends) but all year long for two years straight people would ask if we were dating , no matter how many times I said no, I do get it, sitting in someone’s lap isn’t exactly something that friends do but there was no need for the disgust and multiple questions on end
I call everyone a big gay
Female here, the only double standard that bothers but still follow is the “ladies first” one. Its very confusing for someone is socially anxious. I always feel like im in the way instead of just going along my day.
A little late note about that "women first" (and about the "man should open the door for a woman and let her go first")...these were incorporated later in the Galateum, but actually were born during the middle ages, when women were seen as something less...since you never knew if there was some enemies along the way or beyond the door, you let the woman go first, so while she was captured or killed you could take your arm (sword, bow or axe) and get ready to strike...so, not really a pleasant one, even historically speaking.
(The source is my boyfriend who is a historical reenactor and studies all such medieval things. I don't know if you are aware of another version, still it's something interesting to know)
are u sure you are? women dont call themselves female. it sounds weird.
@@soulcollector969 stupid ones don't
Was once called out by a girl in high school because I had audacity to walk through the door to the computer lab before her the door opened outward and i was standing slightly closer when the teacher opened it and stepped aside. She was like " excuse me!" In a I can't believe you just did that kind of way. I didn't say anything I had work to do, I knew I had broken some societal rule but it was early, I'm queer, and I don't care for you heteronormative bureaucracy I've got shit to do.
The nurse/doctor story really pissed me off
lucas miamiam Yeah she was quite ignorant, in my 19 years of life I've had 3 different doctors all of them female
My doctor is currently a female.
lucas miamiam
It’s didn’t sound very realistic. No matter how sexist you are, if a kid says “My mom is working call my dad” you don’t call the mom anyway.
apparently lots of people dont know the definition of a nurse. A DOCTORS ASSISTANT, regardless of gender
Kate Starnes
it was a while ago, so nowadays its less likely, but back then it is
Guy: "Sorry. I cant go because of my girlfriend"
Everyone: "Okay."
Girl: "Sorry. I cant go because of my boyfriend"
Everyone: "Omg. Whats wrong? Is he being abusive?"
That is very true
I find both of these abusive but really depends on the context
Honestly, this shit annoys me. Lmao
@Yowatsapp 05 that's really nice of you to say. Thank you for taking the time to tell me. :)
*Literally this*
Whenever my fiancé refuses to hang out with her friends because she chooses to spend time with me she had to spend 10 minutes convincing them she's not being abused and that I'm not "making her say that"
Meanwhile if I refuse to go hang out with my friends cause I'd rather spend time with my fiancé I get accused of being "p ssy whipped"
That kid: My mom is a doc...
School nurse: *NO*
Edit: i really like that my comment is 3 months old and yet i got answers from an hour ago.
"my mom is a doct-"
"-no"
"I said my mom is-"
"-no"
"My mom-"
"-no"
Isn't that a meme, where the guy is looking at a butterfly?
@@cartoonmaster2401 nope bro
Why am i picturing the biggs bunny meme
I don't get why teachers/school nurses/etc allways tell kids their wrong about their own lives. Yes, they're children, but it's THEIR lives not yours. You'd think they would know their own lives better than a stranger would know them. If a kid says that their mom is a doctor, they're probably a doctor.
It's like when I was little, my teacher tried to help me use my asthma inhaler (it was one of the tubes so I needed help at the time) , but she misread the directions and thought she needed to give me three times my proper dosage. I tried to explain to her multiple times exactly what she misunderstood and exactly what she needed to do, but she ignored me every single time. In the end, she did in fact end up giving me three times my dosage.
(This story is a little bit different because I was very little, but I think it's still fitting)
My *Black* mother was about to play for her groceries when the cashier just hits the button for food stamps
And this also happens to all of the other black members of my family
Feels good to be gestured as a poor person because of your race 🙃
Wow. This insane i am sorry.
That's so horrible. I'm Caucasian and I'm not embarrassed to say that most if not all of the African-American households on our street make more money than we do.
The whole “stranger women with children are okay but men are not” is so dangerous too because most cases of kidnaping are actually done by woman. This literally happened to my family last month when my mom and my 6 year old brother went to Walmart, he was standing right next to her and she turned for a second to pick up some rice when she suddenly heard my brother scream for her and she spun around and he was gone. She ran out of the isle and found him standing alone in the next isle and a woman running down the isle away from him.
I would’ve bitten her, I have some sharp teeth, and then scream. Your brother did good by making noise
That sounds so terrifying! Good on your brother for being able to scream.
When I was a toddler and my sisters weren't even a month old my mom was at the store she had her back turned for just a moment when I screamed
not happy not angry full blown terror scream she spun around to see a small woman in a long brown coat turning away from the cart I was still shrieking and pointing at her then my mom saw one of my sisters was missing
She didn't even remember moving one second she was next to the cart the next she was across the aisle grabbing that woman's shoulder so hard she thought she broke her collar bone as she spun her around and in this tone she didn't recognize said "Give me her" The lady didn't even have a chance to pretend to be angry she had the absolute fear of god in her eyes yanking the woman's coat open to find she had a small sling on her side with my sister still asleep tucked in there my mom let go of the lady to be able to grab her daughter and the lady used that small window to run for her life my mom was in such a state of shock she didn't finish shopping and when she got home she cried for a couple hours in horrified disbelief that she almost lost one of her kids in less then a second
This, this is why we need to break down double standards ...
I was in a home supply store to buy curtain hooks. I was going up to the counter when I saw a young boy, probably 1.5-2 years old, playing with some switches hanging on a display thing. He was having fun flicking them on and off, so me feeling that urge to be a kid again as a lot of men have when seeing a kid playing with something, having fun, decided it would be a good idea to join in and play with him. I would flick the switches he flicked on, off, until his parent/guardian came for him. I played with the kid for like 5 minutes and he asked me what my name was i said "I'm Matthew" and held out my hand, he shook it and said "My name's James" at the point he shook my hand, his mother came hurtling across the store assuming I was trying to kidnap her son and started screaming at me to leave him alone. She literally said "What the hell do you think you're doing?! Trying to take my boy? Men like you should be locked up!" The kid tried to explain that we were playing together and the mother said "What did I tell you about staying away from strange men?" Not people, men. The bitch slapped me in the face and stormed out. Taking the kid, who is now in tears at being dragged away from his new friend and being snapped at, with her. What a cunt. It's not as if I grabbed the kid and made a run for the door with him kicking and screaming in my arms. I was kneeling down playing with the wee lad, and shook his hand with a smile on my face. But no, apparently I'm sick, child abducting, pedophilic rapist who deserves to rot in prison.
My husband is a househusband. He does 80-90% of the housework. He hates working and likes housework - I hate housework and need to work or I'll go stir crazy.
🤷♀️ We're just playing to our strengths.
Good that you two can do what you like
Would you say he's a... Houseband?
@@idoh9915 how has that word not been used more often?
CheckPointZ Your profile picture compliments the joke
That's the exact same thing me and my boyfriend do he has had an apron made with the term trophy househusband on the front of it was pretty funny
Girl: Plays with trucks, cars and other forms of 'boy' toys
Everyone: Aw she's a tomboy
Boy: Plays with dolls
Everyone: Oh so he's gay
*double standard*
the fact that dolls are "girl" toys and truck/cars are "boy" toys annoys the crap out of me
Im a gay guy and when I was a kid I loved legos and dinosaurs and dolls. I remember my sister had a ton of doll based stuff and I was so jealous so when she wasn't around I would sneak playing with her stuff (cause she's very selfish even to this day) and my sis would get mad and m ask my parents/grandparents to get me some of my own and I asked as well but these were ignored and my interest in legos was encouraged.
yeah but like- being called a tomboy isn't too good either lmao
but yeah I agree, toys don't define anything in a kid
I had a colletion of car toys when i was little
@Kali Evelynn no (:
girls being afraid of blood...you do know what we go through yes-?
edit: this is not saying you can't be afraid of blood im just saying its a weird sterotype
edit two: yeah so turns out im trans. period cramps still suck
It’s naturally used as comic relief in shitty ass shows now, glad to see that double standard going.
Yeah, once I started it I sat there wondering why this was a thing, like how I was taught to not be scared of spiders and snakes and yet I don't know ANY other girl that won't scream at the TINIEST spider and dart away from the window they open for me to put it outside from. ¬_¬
So yeah, being scared of blood when we see it monthly is as stupid as being scared of harmless critters me. I know it's different in American and Australia but....! It's just something we have to deal with.
Putting it into media just teaches us to react stupidly like that.
I passed out from seeing a video of a man being operated and dissected.
And nearly fainted again when I got my finger pricked.
tbh im into gorey stuff even tho my assigned gender at birth was female ;-;
@@VeryNotSober {insert fainting character}
On that female in the band one. My band director is a female, which is almost unheard of during her time. When she was conducting a marching band, one of the officers walked up to her and told her to tell her band director that they were ready. When she said that she *was* the director, the officer just laughed and said “No, you’re not, just go to tell your director that we’re ready.” So she turned around, said “Alright everyone let’s go!” And the whole band stood at attention. She turned around and smirked at the officer. The officer looked embarrassed and quietly said “I’m so sorry” and walked away.
OMG! That's such a good story but so sad at the same time.
And everybody clapped too right? Lmfao sure man r/thathappened. Post this there too!
Skylingale I’m just recalling what my band director said. Pretty believable if you ask me. She’s the only female band director I’ve ever seen or heard of. And I’ve met a *lot* of band directors. If you’ve ever been in band, you know that female directors are very uncommon. At least here in Mississippi.
Had something similar to that when high school bands were competing for state titles in their respective groupings. Another band director at another school is a young (compared to most other band directors) female band director, who had some random guy pull that with her. I was handing out water since the bands were coming back. The school wasn’t more than 4 miles away from us so they stayed to shoot the shit as I handed out water. Even helped when I started needing a break to rehydrate. A parent comes up demanding to see the band director (for whatever dumb reason) and is told that she is the band director.
The parent was an absolute nob head, so she told everyone to pack it up and get back in line. I feel bad they didn’t get to stay longer, ankle crusher hill is a bitch with instruments..
Skylingale Wow, is it so unbelievable for something like that to happen? Things happen in life. Not everything is a lie.
I don't have a girlfriend at the age of thirteen, I'm still a fridget, I must be gay. I hate when my schoolmates call me gay for not wanting to go and kiss a random girl in a disco that I will never see again. Your first kiss is meant to be special, even if you date someone and it doesn't last at least you had something special with her.
I'm 17 and unkissed bruh
Good on you for having standards, any kiss should be special.
Had my first kiss at around 15. It was really sweet.
Relationship never stood a chance though.
Just take your time, man. Sure, it's special, but the thing I realised after that ship sailed was that it wasn't anywhere near as special as the person you're with. Next relationship was near perfect. Didn't even break up of our own volition. Still have minor hopes of possibly being able to continue it later, though I'm not holding out too hard.
Just take your time with this stuff. You've got the right idea.
I'm 16 and still have never dated anyone, my parents seem kinda pissed that I don't want to date anyone but tbh, I'm focusing on school now and anyways the relationship wouldn't last for more than a couple of years
agree and i am not even a guy. just recognize it as a stupid double standard.
Guy cheats on a girl: He's trash
Girl cheats on a guy: The guy didn't do enough to keep her.
Both trash in my eyes.
Exactly! You ain't better for doing the thing you condemned in him, sweety, you're both shit people.
I hate cheaters of any form and I’m a girl. Like I would literally disown my bff or sister if they cheated on their BF
Yes exactly! However in my country its the opposite like if a guy cheats its bc the woman couldn't keep him happy enough.. FUCK SEXISM
Yeah like the man doesn’t have to be a simp
One thing I never understood.
The: "if a woman sleeps with multiple people shes a slut, but if a guy does it hes a player" no they're both sluts. I actively call my dad the biggest slut in my state and he agrees.
i dont really know if this is one, but when i'm talking to my parents/a person older than me, and i have some male friends, and when I talk about me and my friend hanging out or when we do something fun together, all of a sudden the person i'm talking with is all like: "so you have a boyfriend now?" or "is that your boyfriend? no? are you SURE?" like dude, i'm just trying to tell you something i did with one of my friends, you don't have to do that.
girls: *Literally kiss in front of everyone*
"wow they're such good friends"
Guys: *look at eachother for 1 second*
"he's gay" "yes"
Ah yes. Kazuma, the king of gender equality
That's fandoms in a nutshell. For both genders. Fandoms pretty much go out of their way to eradicate friendships, brotherhood, and sisterhood because they want the characters to be gay despite canon evidence.
@@25Erix especially MHA fandom-
@@25Erix "ayo this dude aint gay, it's confir-"
Fandoms: So you've chosen.... death
Well, for me that's not inaccurate, took too long to realize when I was a kid and made things confusing, but I am deffinitly the Gay, or Pan to be specific lol
"When you have children.."
"You'll change your mind!"
Uhm no. I don't like children nor do I find babies cute. Will never have kids and that's final. Just because i'm a female it doesn't mean I have to love kids. People automatically assume I'm gonna be pregnant one day.
Omg yes! I find baby’s and small children really uncomfortable to be around and all my family talk about is “when they will get grandkids” or that I’ll “change my mind when I’m older” or even “what if you S/O wants kids?” Then clearly we’re not meant for each other
Not gonna lie i do want to be a parent, but yeah forcing someone into beign a parent is stupif
exactly, but maybe I want to adopt. Why would I want to endure pain for hours? i don't know about you but labour sounds painful and exhausting. I don't want to hold babies cause I don't know how to and i don't want them pooping on me.
THANK YOU! I DON'T WANT KIDS! End of.
OMG YES SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT!!! I have nothing against kids, but I don't think I want my own. I want to live my life, and while I do appreciate that my parents gave me life, it shouldn't mean I am entitled to giving them grandchildren
If a woman says she is glad to be a woman or even glad she isn't a man people say "right on sister, right on!" but if a man simply says he is happy being a man people say "how dare you say such a thing!"
does anyone really say this? Where are you from? Why would a guy get scrutinized for saying he doesnt want to be a girl wtf
what's so wrong in saying you're happy being a man? Has anyone ever actually said that??
@@sanjanar6218 That happened to Rush Limbaugh once. People jumped all over him for saying that.
@@johnalanelson That's pretty stupid. I bet those people are also transphobic...
Dot32 So true lol
When pajamas are gendered.
The little girls get watermelons, princesses, and pink.
The boys get the superheroes, Pokémon, Goku, and Dragonball.
I will always end up getting weird looks from strangers when I run to the boy's section of the store to find a new pair of Iron Man pajamas in my size.
Every time i go to the girls isle the clothes always show “Princess Power!” Or “Sksksk 🥺”
I always have to go to the adult section or the mens.
@@jackcough8580 Like, some girls don't always want to be wearing a shirt saying "GIRL POWER!" Some girls, you know, just want an anime shirt but do we get that? Noooooo. We get the stupid fucking Elsa shirts
I see the other things as stereotypically gendered attire. But girls and watermelons!?
@@jiraffe9600 Because fruit has to be gendered now /s
@@kohakukamei621 I’m a guy and I waltz into the feminine clothes section
The biggest one that aggravates me:
Men have relatively easy access to surgery to make them infertile, yet unmarried women (especially ages 18-30) are often refused because they might “change their mind.” Even if they’re married or older, their body still isn’t even treated as theirs.
To add to that, I especially hate the social stigma surrounding children, that women are made to take care of and want children while men are not.
Never understood this, even if they do change their mind adoption exists and is an incredibly helpful thing to do for everyone involved.
how was your circumcision? Boys are born not having a right to their own body. Then later men have to be obligated to sign our lives away to have the right to vote, which women have no restrictions. I havent had a visectomy but i hear they ask the same questions for guys.
I love Angelique, yes that’s perfectly fine! A lot of people do. But some people don’t want them, and some of them don’t even want a chance of accidentally getting pregnant. That’s why they go to doctors to get their tubes tied, or have the lining of their uterus burned, or whatever surgery to prevent them from having children (there are multiple).
But the problem is that it’s scarily common for some doctors to refuse women the surgery because they “might regret it later,” or they might tell them to “get your husband’s approval,” even if they might not have a husband. It’s especially harder for adult women up to 30 to have these surgeries. Society treats it as if your womb isn’t yours, and it’s a woman’s duty to have children.
But again, some women don’t want children. Some have never wanted children. It’s just ridiculous that this bias still exists in 2020.
@@ICEBUNNo I sort of agree with Jesse about the circumcision part, although that's not relevant to what you said. Frankly, informed consent should just be standard procedure when it comes to sterilization. It's ridiculous that it's so easier for men in comparison, It's just based on outdated thinking that needs to go.
@@Sabartio how is it not relevant? Almost all circumcisions are done without conscent. Its like we dont own our bodies.
I'm a girl,and I also feel extremely offended when men's feelings aren't taken into consideration. I mean, they're people too! They have emotions!
Hugs to all boys/men here,you deserve to be respected as much as we (women) do. I wish genders wouldn't matter that much and we could be seen in the same light
Um why do you have to include that you’re a girl if gender doesn’t matter? Just asking...
@@rad-ishradish9665 it's just the normal for me,i guess. since the topic is men,and i'm not, i thought i must clarify that even tho i'm not male, i support. plus,doesn't everyone do the same?
This. Yes. This is the way God intended it. No races, there's one: humans. Gender doesn't matter, social status doesn't matter. There's God, and everyone else.
@@Kinda_SUS Yeah, sorry I understand didn’t mean to come off as too sensitive or annoying.
@@rad-ishradish9665 don't worry,i didn't take it that way,it's okay to ask when curious
I hate when parents don't let their daughters date but let their sons.
Its so dumb.
And it's "I must protect my daughter but I don't care if someone else's daughter isn't protected."
I’m a bit my parent don’t let me but let my sisters
@@parirkr3376 that must be rough. I'm sorry to hear it :(
"risk" taking behavior (sliding slides, swinging swings ect.) being discouraged in Girls from infancy is likely worse than one arbitrary teen version of it by the time both were experienced.
Yea ik that’s dumb
That a female smacking your butt is meant to be seen as a compliment/good thing, but a female getting her butt smacked by a guy is seen as assault, molestation, pervy, creepy.
Stop smacking peoples asses that you don’t know. I myself felt belittled, offended, and made vulnerable when I as a male had it happen to me.
You don’t hear people telling a woman to woman up but a man who’s depressed should man up like why
i think its because for the longest time we were seen as dominant and brave strong warriors
@@GreenGreen-bo5qe yeah lol
The closest we hear is "Put your big girl pants on"
Lol have you seen Big Hero 6?
Because nobody sees women as superior or top notch. It’s a double edged sword.
9:13 I hate it when people say that a guy telling someone about being abused its always like "dude, just man the f*** up and take it." Like, when a man hits a woman, the man gets punished. But, if a woman attacks the man, and the man defends himself, the woman can just lay down crying and IMMEDIATELY be acknowledged as the victim. Seriously, I know that a lot of men can be abusive, and those men have made a mark on history because of the stereotype that men are stronger than women. But, a lot of men get punished because they defended themselves against a woman. I have nothing against women, but this just sucks. I have to live every day knowing that if I ever hurt a woman, EVEN in self defense, I can and most likely will get punished for it.
tl/dr: men stop making a bad name for other men, women try to see us a little differently.
I know right it's bullshit and sometimes other females have the aiudacity to call us mysoginist and anti women just because we want to talk about some issues that men face like increased suicide rates, rigged divorce courts, and increased prison time for the same crimes.
IKR, I hate when people see it that way! My mom was really abusive towards my dad, and I would always try to get between them to protect him, but everyone around us treated it as a joke. It made me so angry because my dad would sometimes try to hold her hands so she stoped and she would say "You're hurting me, you piece of"$·/&/", my dad would immediately stop because he was worried, but I knew she was pretending. I can't even remember when was the moment I started to record their fights because I thought that way I would have prove to help my dad.
Everything is better now, but I can't believe there is still family members who shame me over not being on my mom's side. Like WTF! men should be able to defend themselves without being fearful of the consequences, and they should be able to talk about being abused without it being treated as a joke!
If you want your voice to be heard join the Men's Rights Activism. Its literally the only hope of light in this darkness of inequality.
Every sitcom family
Mom: is the true brains of the house
Dad: is literally nothing more than a dimwitted gift dispenser that occasionally has to be coerced into doing the "logical" or "right" thing with sex or "being allowed" to hang out with his friends or make a decision.
Ironically, caused by patriarchy.
Strong women in sitcoms
Strong woman: is a massively, irredeemable, verbally and emotionally abusive, manipulative, loose moral having, irrational, superiority complex having, child and pet hating, former town slut with a penchant for vandalism, theft and assault
Any stupid "tough" guy, dumb enough to date her because they lowkey have an abuse kink: she's just a bit strong willed, you'll warm up to her
@@Outlaw7263 tbh, those are my favorite kind of women.
Old shows didn't used to be like that.
@@jasonmartin4775
*feminism
In my kindergarten a couple years ago a bunch of kids put colours in “gender groups”. That being every colour but purple and pink were “boy colours”. I really hated it and though it was super dumb, even as a kid.
Agreed. I like, pink, and everyone instantly goes like "but you're a boy"? My standard rebuttal for that is "There is no gender assigned to a frequency of an em ray"
That makes no sense, colors are colors
Same. As kids, both me and my brother’s favorite color was purple. We both hated pink, and other than purple I preferred blue and it’s shades and he preferred red. But of course he always received blue gifts and I always received pink ones. Even when people knew he loved purple.
I remember reading about when I was younger about a boy who liked the color pink and a girl who liked the color yellow, the boy was bullied often and the girl stood up for them. They became best friends.
good kid's book
“Girls should like shopping”
“Young ladies should wear dresses/skirts/weird shirt thingy”
I despise shopping.
I despise formal clothing.
I enjoy shopping for specific thing but not clothes so Idk if that counts. E.g. games, electronics.
MysticalAmber actually technically shopping for these like those does count as shopping.
I’ll tell you a story. I was shopping for an SAO figure (go figure I have shit anime taste). I went to box lunch to see if they have one. I noticed guys went in there and the staff don’t bug them. But when I go in. They start asking tons of questions “Anything interesting? Are you looking for something specific.” I don’t know if it’s because I’m a girl or if I’m 14. However I think I stumped them good after correcting them calling Eugeo Yugioh (da fuq) and telling them all the girls in Jesus Kun’s harem (I was looking for an Asuna figure but all they had was Eugeo and the last stock)
Why did I read that in such a deep dark evil voice
I hate dresses and skirts I can barely do everyday things in them
I despise formal clothing too.
6:55 when I was little,my mom would always tell me,that if I get lost,I should ask a women for help,but not a men! When I asked why,she said,that men sometimes kidnap little girls and I was like,but what if that nice looking lady is the real kidnapper and the creepy looking dude is the nicest guy in Earth?!
She was especially careful of me not running away after that
Ur moms dumb asl
My Mom always said not to go with strangers no matter the gender.
But tbh 95% of child abducters are male, so you're Mom most definetly isn't "stupid" or much of a "sexist" if she simply warned you to never go seek help from men in a young age.
The possibility that it could be dangerous is pretty high.
AGAIN men AND women alike are able to be kidnappers.
In my country, People aren't madsheight rotaredid about kidnapping, Guy = might try to kidnap you, Woman = Might also try to kidnap you, Why you say? Cause in my country in the 21st there's still witch craft happening
Most child abductions are by family members though, not by strangers.
TDS seventy-five
Same for my country tho.
Stranger Danger is for everybody, and if you get lost you shouldn‘t go to some random dude/dudette, but to a person of authority (or a person I know. I knew many people from anywhere as a kid)
I once got lost in a supermarket and instead asking some random stranger, I went through the whole fucking supermarket to find a cashier or any worker, so they could help.
The dress code for girls is UNBEILEABLELY DUMB (sometimes) like NO ONE is gonna be starring at my shoulders and being like “woah that’s a very cool shoulder!” Like it’s not distracting anyone. And no Mrs.Smith I am not sorry for wearing ruffles on my socks🙄 And I am not sorry for showing up in a hoodie on a test day👁👄👁
yeah agreed, and that whole "boys cant control themselves" thing is just plain bullshit. Like do you think were some kind of untamed animal??
We werent allowed to wear leggings but a boy literally took his shirt off and no teacher really told him to put his shirt back on, he did it on his own accord
kookaine teachers think like.boys: sees shoulder. boys: GONNA SMACK OFF TO THAT
I break my school rules every. Single. Day. Now because our new head teacher changed the dress code so that either you wear trousers or a skirt. His EXACT words were "i have seen some girls in leggings and THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH" i was really pissed and made sure to wear leggings for the next three weeks. I might have maybe also stabbed him in the ankles with my spoiky boots as well but he doesn't need to know it was on purpose. I fucking hate skirts.
I don't know man, shoulders do be pretty hot
Dress. Codes. I'm a plus-size, well-endowed lady, and I'm SO GLAD I was homeschooled. My pencil-thin sister had to buy a lot of new clothes that wouldn't break the dress codes. There would be NO WAY that I could make it through a semester without being told to go home to change.
Dress code is always bad for ladies, it is probably because these old ladies are angry because they don't have as good as bodies as the students
“I’m plus size” yea no your fat, stop lying and admit the truth.
I want to see an anime where a girl walks in on the guy, and the GUY yells "Pervert!" and slaps the girl.
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This has happened in my school.
I hate how when a teen girl gets pregnant, everyone shames her like she got pregnant on her own or something
MOM I GOT MYSELF PREGNANT AGAIN HELP
They are either the same age or someone has some explaining to do.
Particularly if it’s rape
Right, because there’s never a man involved in getting a girl pregnant right?
Well girls are the one that are gatekeepers to sex. So its 90% their fault.
That men don't have depression
I guess it really isn't that they don't think men are _capable_ of having depression, it's just that it doesn't appear to them at all until someone points it out
Or they die.
I'm actually sorry about how most of my gender acts. I hope they gain a sense of logic one day.
Go ahead and put me under r/nOtLiKEoTHErgiRLs, but I'm just saying what I think.
It's a problem with a lot of ppl really.
mAN uP
@@senkuplushie most women dont think that though
As a woman in the military, married to a short, stay-at-home-dad/househusband who is good with and likes kids and also cooks/cleans/will be perfectly fine while I'm on deployment, I agree with all of this!
One thing I do, just to break standards was instead of getting a blue hoodie, my favorite color, i got the brightest pink i could. (I'm a guy) I got mistaken for a girl a few times in the next few days. Now i got myself a hibiscus hair clip i wear because i love hibiscus. Do I care if it's "manly"? No, because I dont worry about my masculinity. Most men do. I think I've become stronger for it, and I wish for others to join me. Do what you want, who cares if others judge you? The best you can be is yourself, so dont try and hide any part of it.
Y-E-S! I don't understand all these weird standards we have anyway. Like the heck- Pink is a color. I don't remember it being a gender, now do I? Blue is also a color. Not a gender.
Like, I was at a store once, and I had a pink hoodie that I wanted in another color, because I saw the had like blacks and stuff on the webiste. I go and ask, and they lead me to the other shades of pink. I asked for black. I remember these words very clearly: "Those aren't for you. Those are for the boys." Looked the helper right in her eyes and said, "I don't believe hoodies have genders. I believe that they are pieces of clothing. Please take me to the other colors." She was so stunned and just walked away. Rude.
@pissedpookie If they have lower expectations because I don't "DrEsS lIkE mY gEnDeR" then I don't want to assicoate myself with them anyway.
@pissedpookie Yes, and I agree! However, in this type of situation, think of it like this. If you were going to a job interview, most people would expect a man to appear in a suit, and a woman in a dress or skirt. Simply switching it around a bit would not, most likely, do anything for your status. Or, if wearing a suit, wearing a light pink one, that wasn't too obnoxioius, and looked perfectly normal. Something like that. Sitll abiding by social rules, but not by the gender ones.
@pissedpookie And that's why corporate culture is utter trash.
@@shreyaraman6664 Where did that even happen? Even in my country with very traditional values no one would even dare say that (lest they lose a customer). I myself always dressed in guys' clothes and was mistaken for a boy when I had short hair... Ah, I wish every piece of clothing was considered gender neutral...
Every double standard infuriates me to no end. And I mean every double standard.
William Winder
finally im not the only one who needs balance that is nonexistent in this world
Yeah
Girl: "I'm bi."
Guy Friends: _(pants get tight)_ Tell me more. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Me: "I'm bi."
Guy Friends: _(snickers and desperately holds back laughter)_
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Yep sounds about right
all bi women are straights looking for attention.
all bi men are gays that are not brave enough to come out.
and last but not least:
cis homosexual people are transphobic if they reject you because you have the parts they don't like.
and this stigmas are true even in LGBT circles
Khaleb that’s not true, bi people exist
@@Khaleb_0 I all bi men are just gay men, then I'm the straightest gay man on earth.
Gotta love these. And by love I mean hate. Few things piss me off as much as bigotry and double standards. A few of my own:
1. I teach children. I'm told I'm great with the kids. I only ever even got into the field in the last few years because, while teaching is a passion of mine, my parents and everyone I talked to thought I would be a terrible teacher, partly because I'm a guy.
2. Used to work in a Lowe's. It was so depressing to see all the customers coming in come straight to me, even on my first week on the job, for help, straight past my multiple years experienced female coworker who is standing at the counter looking directly at them. And then I would immediately say "Oh, I'm not sure, you should ask my coworker, who's been working here like 20 years."
3. Crazy girls throughout my youth thinking they can beat up on me with no recourse because "it's not okay to hit a girl" but they'd never heard any saying about hitting a guy.
EDIT: Almost forgot a super relevant one:
4. "Girls can't be platonic friends with guys." Excuse me? Some of my best friends are of the female persuasion. No we have not had sex, and no we are not planning on it. Some of my friends have husbands/boyfriends who might not appreciate that. Besides, I'm bi, yet there's no assumption I'm just trying to have sex with any male I hang out with. It's ridiculous how often I have to fend this question off.