Mary J. Blige - U + Me (Love Lesson) (Official Audio)

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  • čas přidán 15. 02. 2017
  • Mary’s new album Strength Of A Woman is now available everywhere: maryjblige.lnk.to/SOAWYD
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    Music video by Mary J. Blige performing U + Me (Love Lesson). (C) 2016 Capitol Records
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    #MaryJBlige #UPlusMe #Vevo
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  • @neenabrown9652
    @neenabrown9652 Před 7 lety +863

    All real Mary fans are bobbing they head right now and remembering when real R&B like this used to exist🎵🎵🔥🔥

    • @jessejames6747
      @jessejames6747 Před 7 lety +20

      bobbin right now

    • @TheOlefool
      @TheOlefool Před 7 lety +17

      This cut right here is smoovv as fuc if your a stepper

    • @majestywright8339
      @majestywright8339 Před 7 lety +12

      Neena Brown that's exactly what I'm doing reading the comments. Lol!

    • @shryu8582
      @shryu8582 Před 7 lety +13

      bobbing head 하고 있는 사람 여기도 있습니다

    • @pams9690
      @pams9690 Před 7 lety +31

      COME ON MARY I SEE YOU....BRING THAT PAIN

  • @jacquelinecalhoun9138
    @jacquelinecalhoun9138 Před 7 lety +489

    I get chills when I hear this melody. Mary out did herself on this song. Every person that have been in a relationship have felt like U + ME Love Lesson. I know I have felt like this... Go Mary....

    • @ravengibbons1941
      @ravengibbons1941 Před 7 lety +19

      All day Mary j!😘

    • @jariahortiz9209
      @jariahortiz9209 Před 7 lety +37

      yessss. i feel like every female should be able to relate to this song

    • @andreawilliams9101
      @andreawilliams9101 Před 7 lety +37

      U + Me was a love lesson. Mary brought the fire once again no matter how long she stay away from the music she always come back on top from What's the 411?, Breakthrough, and my life my Mary J gone always be the Queen of R&B/Hip Hop

    • @cynthiadarkins4704
      @cynthiadarkins4704 Před 7 lety +16

      some guys so blind....don't know when they have a good thing then go and mess it up.

    • @MariWhitaker
      @MariWhitaker Před 7 lety +5

      Jacqueline Calhoun

  • @zecnehdoe4798
    @zecnehdoe4798 Před 3 lety +1846

    As a man, I can relate to these lyrics. After 12 years and several children, I walked away from a woman I love and still do. Her love of alcohol exceeded that of me and our children. Loving her has made it difficult to seriously move on but as Mary says, “love will return”, some day. For now it’s me and my babies.

    • @dlnrlrosemary7777
      @dlnrlrosemary7777 Před 3 lety +70

      Same exact thing for me with the exception of 22 years and 2 children. I can't do the abusive, alcoholic rollercoaster ride one more day.

    • @zecnehdoe4798
      @zecnehdoe4798 Před 3 lety +58

      Yes, the rollercoaster ride of hell. I’d rather walk, alone as I am now.

    • @celharris437
      @celharris437 Před 2 lety +22

      Salute

    • @ladytrouble6840
      @ladytrouble6840 Před 2 lety +22

      Sorry you had to go threw that drama my heart goes out to you I totally understand where you coming from

    • @cuteypie111
      @cuteypie111 Před 2 lety +16

      ❤❤❤you'll be overly blessed 🙌🏽

  • @janicegooden2609
    @janicegooden2609 Před 4 lety +222

    I was in a bad relationship I was never happy I found myself crying over a man that did not love me the way I loved him I heard this song by Mary and it gave me the strength to pick myself up and walk away thank you Mary you saved my life in more ways than one thank you again and God bless this song is a women's anthem.

  • @OfficialJalenHemphill
    @OfficialJalenHemphill Před 7 lety +1546

    This April, "Share My World" Turns 20, In July, "What's the 411?" Turns 25 and At the End of the Year, "Growing Pains" Turns 10. 25 Years In the Game and She STILL Putting Out Albums and Bangers. Been a Fan Since '96. Can't WAIT For This New Album to Come.
    #THEQUEENOFHIPHOPSOUL 😍👑💯

    • @regisligh6273
      @regisligh6273 Před 7 lety +31

      Jalen Hemphill State them facts baby!!! PREACH!!!

    • @karamelme
      @karamelme Před 7 lety +27

      Jalen Hemphill say no mo'... I'll be getting this album ol' skool way (physical form of the CD) & download lol... push thru Auntie Mary

    • @OfficialJalenHemphill
      @OfficialJalenHemphill Před 7 lety +53

      Demetrius Tabron That's the Way to Do It Bro. I Still Buy CD's. They Last Longer. LOL! 👌🏾💯

    • @jtoney63
      @jtoney63 Před 7 lety

      no they dont

    • @OfficialJalenHemphill
      @OfficialJalenHemphill Před 7 lety +8

      Jason Toney You Can Lose Downloads and Easily Replace Them By Ripping and Uploading the CD to Your Library. Yes, They Do. 👌🏾

  • @MsKatrenaMarie
    @MsKatrenaMarie Před 7 lety +418

    Her best music has been when she has gone through a storm cause it is so relatable. #SheIsWinningRegardless

  • @jaymerritt411
    @jaymerritt411 Před 2 lety +314

    This song helped me thru an end to an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist. When we ended I felt dead inside. But this song made me realize why I went thru that trauma. ❤❤❤

    • @Luminousone_624
      @Luminousone_624 Před 2 lety +7

      Sameeee!!!!!! I played this song out!!

    • @jaymerritt411
      @jaymerritt411 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Luminousone_624 lol yes maam all the way out 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rosegibbs5009
      @rosegibbs5009 Před 2 lety +11

      Congrats sweetie, my husband was abusive but I left before I killed him. Hold your head high!

    • @jaymerritt411
      @jaymerritt411 Před 2 lety +5

      @@rosegibbs5009 I'm so happy you got out my love. Especially before having to kill his butt lol. Blessings beautiful

    • @redbeautiful3492
      @redbeautiful3492 Před 2 lety +6

      I'm so glad you got out as well. Keep moving and pray everyday

  • @esabal1989
    @esabal1989 Před 2 lety +124

    This CD got me through the heartache! She never lied

  • @shantaradouglas8115
    @shantaradouglas8115 Před 4 lety +492

    " you had me should have never questioned"-best line in the song

  • @raenishaogunwuyi7425
    @raenishaogunwuyi7425 Před 4 lety +1082

    None of Mary's songs get old

  • @theofficialvontae
    @theofficialvontae Před rokem +52

    This song deserves a music video! Whew! One of my favorites from Mary!

  • @ksl1033
    @ksl1033 Před rokem +34

    I behaved stupidly mistaking a long term relationship for real love and 6 years ago while driving in the car with my then 2 year old, his child, I heard this song. He hid the birth of his other child from me for a year. Once I learned of the baby, I could do nothing but shed tears. Praise God for healing through the grace of time gives. I'm better for it. Definitely a love lesson.

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Hugs💚many humans suck, for real.
      Only a few will never do this kind of ish.

    • @helenpierce435
      @helenpierce435 Před měsícem +1

      Real facts 💯💯💯

  • @MrThrideye
    @MrThrideye Před 7 lety +2504

    Dammit Mary, I wasn't ready.... Another track is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @TammiAlways100
    @TammiAlways100 Před 7 lety +1453

    I knew she was gone come hard. She's telling all now. Been a fan since day ☝️ . This album gone be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

    • @sharonhorace733
      @sharonhorace733 Před 7 lety +7

      Tammi HatersAreWelcomed ikr, she always does real talk!!!💯

    • @DONTLAUUGH
      @DONTLAUUGH Před 7 lety +7

      +Sharon Horace True Black Woman is Gold

    • @lovebucketvegan6587
      @lovebucketvegan6587 Před 7 lety +5

      Tammi HatersAreWelcomed fire

    • @deonjones7813
      @deonjones7813 Před 7 lety +9

      good stuff

    • @gillespie919
      @gillespie919 Před 7 lety +31

      Tammi HatersAreWelcomed amen, she tells the life, of living and struggling going thru changes from beginning to end. Moral of the story is be appreciated what you have. Cause, when its lost its lost

  • @juicyfruit491
    @juicyfruit491 Před 5 měsíci +16

    When you had me you should have NEVER QUESTIONED❤❤❤❤❤😂😢

  • @curvaceousentertainment6075
    @curvaceousentertainment6075 Před 3 lety +190

    This beautiful sister has NEVER dropped a bad album. #IBelieveInNever She will always Hold the title of Queen of Hip Hop Soul & R&B. The alternative music has never missed a beat! You got this Mary! #Always #CapricornSister♑️

  • @amma_achiaa_asiedu_
    @amma_achiaa_asiedu_ Před 7 lety +451

    Her voice sounds really clear.

  • @derrickdouglas7429
    @derrickdouglas7429 Před 7 lety +461

    Such a freaking beautifully written song. The lyrics are so relatable, vulnerable, and honest. I love the entire song, but I am obsessed with the ending (4:43-5:00). Like, WOW!!!!! "Think of about how valuable you are. Don't let what he put you through cause you to close your heart."

    • @angelaward1573
      @angelaward1573 Před 7 lety +6

      Derrick Douglas well said!

    • @dfk4500
      @dfk4500 Před 7 lety +12

      dude I would marry her tonight!!!!😂😂😂

    • @Wisdomwithandrea
      @Wisdomwithandrea Před 7 lety +13

      Derrick Douglas that ending is bomb!

    • @jaydenhamilton4099
      @jaydenhamilton4099 Před 7 lety +5

      +Andrea Williams 10000000000000% 👏👏👏❤❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯

    • @angelagoffer417
      @angelagoffer417 Před 7 lety +9

      you've done it again. diva always

  • @sexiladi1379
    @sexiladi1379 Před 3 lety +631

    Who's still bumping this in 2020💜

  • @sallysson
    @sallysson Před 3 lety +61

    "You plus Me was a Love Lesson", how much deeper of a sentiment do you need? Damn Mary!

  • @shawneedavis7294
    @shawneedavis7294 Před 4 lety +506

    Man this song is the truth....12 years and 3 kids later. Trust me with every disappointment in life there is a lesson for you to learn. I'm going to focus on the lesson and not the disappointment.

  • @coretserear5336
    @coretserear5336 Před 7 lety +801

    damn I was wondering how she was going top " thick of it" and she did, those low tones notes took me back to the old Mary, we got to support R& B music again y'all.

    • @ayanamiller4083
      @ayanamiller4083 Před 7 lety +17

      coret serear preach.... I can't get through the whole song because that first verse is everything

    • @terrellwilliams2240
      @terrellwilliams2240 Před 7 lety +18

      Ayana Miller Right!!! Thought I was the only one. The first verse strikes a cord in me and takes me back to when I had my own issues.

    • @alphalou
      @alphalou Před 7 lety +10

      coret serear Classic Mary.... Glad she's back!!

    • @nanjacks913
      @nanjacks913 Před 7 lety +12

      coret serear ..i agree, we gotta support R&B

    • @MrRLBProductions
      @MrRLBProductions Před 7 lety +28

      coret serear agree!! that's the old school Mary J. back in the day 411 days

  • @appledelicious29
    @appledelicious29 Před 2 lety +312

    2022 still bumping. Mary knows all the feels! And puts it perfectly for everyone to relate to!

  • @jasminehollins7595
    @jasminehollins7595 Před 6 měsíci +27

    Getting over a narcissist this song here speaks to me in more ways than one. And just relationships that was always one sided and me always getting the short end of the stick. Thank you MJB

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Exactly, even wanna be past friendships where they never saw you, even with eyes wide open. It's like you were never there in their mind but you kept giving your all to them like a fool hoping to one day be cherished and taken seriously.
      So glad those days are done. Friendless life has been more peaceful than I could have ever imagined.

    • @FAAFO_TrIbE
      @FAAFO_TrIbE Před 5 měsíci +2

      What you said!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This song hits differently when healing from a narcissistic relationship.

    • @jasminehollins7595
      @jasminehollins7595 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yes we got this ladies👏🏽💜

  • @diamondzanderstv6475
    @diamondzanderstv6475 Před 6 lety +722

    Who else gets the feels

  • @angelaward1573
    @angelaward1573 Před 7 lety +119

    OH DAMN!!!! I heard this the first time while I was driving home, I had to bypass my house! this shit had me going! I wasn't ready for it!!! I love this Mary J. repeat! sunroof open and mind clear!!!

    • @ChariityVictoria
      @ChariityVictoria Před 7 lety +7

      Angela Ward girl that was me today 😂😂😂 I went the long way home nd everything song on repeat

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb Před 7 lety +7

      Angela Ward I know I heard it coming home from a third shift job early in the morning it was stuck in my head the entire day I was walking through Walmart​ shopping for breakfast food jamming folks looking at me like wth?.😁.

  • @bonitahester491
    @bonitahester491 Před 3 lety +131

    This song really helped me to make the decision to leave a relationship that I was in,they were always telling other people about what going on in our relationship making me feel like fool and I was always the bad one in the relationship,always putting the blame on me always telling me to get out especially after the rent was paid it was the most toxic relationship that I’ve ever gone through but it’s finally over now and now I am free to move on there were times that I never knew when the angry would have gotten physical but I wasn’t going to stick around to see it so I have often heard that some women aren’t so lucky but I am definitely glad I started to see the signs this song truly is amazing thank you Ms.Blige for giving me the courage through your song and words

    • @dajonwoods9324
      @dajonwoods9324 Před 2 lety +1

      All the entries are beautiful 🌹❤️ right on point. God bless you all.

    • @rosettarich6149
      @rosettarich6149 Před 2 lety +1

      You not alone stay blessed family

    • @fay_shing
      @fay_shing Před rokem

      Healing love your way. Hope you are now doing better and realise you are not what they said you were.

  • @gigislowedit7374
    @gigislowedit7374 Před 3 lety +267

    2021 still here. These lessons never get old

  • @queensweetssz
    @queensweetssz Před 6 lety +431

    No need to say anything. This song speaks for itself!..! 🖤

  • @mauricephillips4855
    @mauricephillips4855 Před 7 lety +291

    the reason Mary has been in the game so long she just always different from the rest of the r&b artists, my opinion!

    • @wolfdawg4956
      @wolfdawg4956 Před 7 lety

      Maurice Phillips the same time, and I will be back in jail. the only thing that I,have a friend of mine. I Have to earn a living room. the only way to get around the world. the first time in the morning and evening, but I think I have to earn a living. I have nothing else. I never called me

    • @wolfdawg4956
      @wolfdawg4956 Před 7 lety

      Maurice Phillips .

    • @aswadarif
      @aswadarif Před 7 lety +2

      Maurice Phillips that's a fact.

    • @mildredperez7804
      @mildredperez7804 Před 7 lety +4

      I agree

    • @geraldinhotimoteo526
      @geraldinhotimoteo526 Před 6 lety

      Maurice Phillips .
      mulher pela
      mulher pela das

  • @michaeltines115
    @michaeltines115 Před rokem +41

    Even if you’re not going through it she has this way of making you feel it. ❤

  • @DaBassLadyCovers
    @DaBassLadyCovers Před 3 lety +15

    I live for the “woahhhhhhhh ooooaaaahhhhh” 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lifetime2370
    @lifetime2370 Před 6 lety +1069

    Know your worth walk away if ur partner is playing games. Your happiness is your responsibility

    • @ladymakini
      @ladymakini Před 6 lety +15

      Hey !!!! Preach!!

    • @Stamina35
      @Stamina35 Před 6 lety +8

      life time No doubt!Walked away from her,and never looked back.

    • @LunamyChibaby
      @LunamyChibaby Před 6 lety +3

      👍🏽

    • @HoneyBee1980
      @HoneyBee1980 Před 6 lety +4

      Truth

    • @alluretrena3057
      @alluretrena3057 Před 5 lety +10

      life time *SPEAK ON THE TRUTH NOW!!!!!* *MY FRIEND JUST BURRIED HER SISTER CAUSE SHE DIDN'T KNOW HER WORTH!!!!!* *REALIST COMMENT I DONE CAME ACROSS TODAY!!!!*

  • @quadiequa3692
    @quadiequa3692 Před 6 lety +170

    I saw all the signs but just wouldn't say nothing....that part is so deep.

  • @iranelson7782
    @iranelson7782 Před 7 měsíci +11

    Timeless! Epic material!❤

  • @queengorgo3326
    @queengorgo3326 Před 2 lety +4

    When she sing the Oooooooohhhhh Oooooooohhhhh. I swear that's exactly what it feels like when the person that's suppose to love you most treats you the worst.

  • @thebutterflyexperiencellcj4233

    The song for the victim of a #narcissist ....Good one Mary!

  • @audreybeaty1981
    @audreybeaty1981 Před 5 lety +498

    Who scrolling while listening?💋

  • @torrihood2569
    @torrihood2569 Před 4 lety +66

    Must be crazy to think you love me that's a deep feeling 💪

  • @carolynhartzog7450
    @carolynhartzog7450 Před 2 lety +6

    Everything she say. I really. Been through it. I choose wrong men's in relationships. I had married wrong man. Getting a divorce. In spite all pain & hurt. I been through. God brings me. Through it. In spite. My loneliness. God only understand me.

  • @williepatterson3193
    @williepatterson3193 Před 5 lety +413

    Smh Mary been controlling my emotions for 25 years she sing it I feel it

  • @MegaKrissy16
    @MegaKrissy16 Před 6 lety +404

    This song got me through a horrible heartbreak 💖

    • @rogersoneal8151
      @rogersoneal8151 Před 5 lety +1

      MegaKrissy16

    • @rogersoneal8151
      @rogersoneal8151 Před 5 lety +8

      Yea Mary told it..we men have Heartbreak..

    • @33ladyRAM
      @33ladyRAM Před 5 lety +3

      Me too ;~)

    • @dzero2368
      @dzero2368 Před 5 lety +1

      How do you feel about it now?

    • @pansysgarden
      @pansysgarden Před 5 lety +2

      God bless you. Hope things are better for you. There's always light at the end of a tunnel.

  • @delphinawhitehorse2073
    @delphinawhitehorse2073 Před 2 lety +28

    Must've been crazy to think that you loved me
    I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing
    I did the time across the line for you
    'Cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you
    Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted
    Should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely
    'Cause every time I think of the lies you told to me
    Make it easy for me to leave
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me
    Oh, I was ridin' wherever you going
    At times, I wanted to leave, but didn't wanna be lonely
    Can't deny the fact you were my one and only
    Love that I would do, only love I knew
    And now I gotta turn my back 'cause you didn't realize that, boy
    This was a real thing
    And I just can't deny the fact we don't belong together
    Guess it ain't the real thing
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me
    Gotta keep on pushing and love myself through the hard times
    Gotta keep my patience, still a long way to go now
    There's so much to learn
    When we trust the love that's deep in us, then love will return
    Boy this thing was a love lesson
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me was a love lesson
    In too deep without imperfection
    Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
    You had me, should've never questioned
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me
    You plus me

  • @sherloncloud6816
    @sherloncloud6816 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This song resonates very loud for me as going through it with someone who has poignant addiction struggles. it has impacted my personal and professional lives in a plethora of ways. I hear Mary's saga as well as her trials and tribulations as moments in time. I told ppl years ago if we are not growing then time to get going! Not an easy piece of advice to adhere to however when you keep second guessing movements it is imperative to remove self from the damage done. It is so real out here in these streets. This is my favorite song by MJB after her 30+yrs on the block.🤔📣

  • @waynebarton1633
    @waynebarton1633 Před 6 lety +1384

    M is for Magical Music.
    A is for Angel 👼.
    R is for Rock that tune👌.
    Y is for Your the best singer ever.
    J is for Just sing it.
    B is for Beautifully done.
    L is for 💜 your life.
    I is for Irreplaceable.
    G is for GODDESS 👑 singer.
    E is for Everlasting music.

    • @mrlovelounge84
      @mrlovelounge84 Před 6 lety +10

      Wayne Barton beautifull 😌

    • @waynebarton1633
      @waynebarton1633 Před 6 lety +6

      Ernesto Uiterloo Why thank you 😉.

    • @lindagonzales3358
      @lindagonzales3358 Před 6 lety +12

      Hey Love yor comment let her know how you feel you must do it. I love her so much Our Queen...

    • @waynebarton1633
      @waynebarton1633 Před 6 lety +6

      linda gonzales That's what every real KING needs and should do to his QUEEN and make her feel like she's the one.

    • @n.sue-ann5527
      @n.sue-ann5527 Před 6 lety +7

      Wayne Barton 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 nice

  • @antavich12
    @antavich12 Před 7 lety +154

    This album should've been My Life PT. 2 who else agrees

    • @watchlistenlearnwll6614
      @watchlistenlearnwll6614 Před 7 lety +4

      Antavich Mays makes sense this song is very my life vibes

    • @coretserear5336
      @coretserear5336 Před 7 lety +5

      Antavich Mays she already has a album called my life pt 2

    • @Luvurselffirst
      @Luvurselffirst Před 7 lety +1

      agreed

    • @connied.1134
      @connied.1134 Před 7 lety +6

      Antavich Mays Y'all are killing me in these comments. Beating me to the punch. LOL! Thanks though. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @rotihughes5421
      @rotihughes5421 Před 7 lety +3

      Antavich Mays part 3tho

  • @tcrawley6944
    @tcrawley6944 Před 3 lety +6

    This song makes me cry!!
    Wasted 9 years of my life🥲🥲

  • @Luminousone_624
    @Luminousone_624 Před 2 lety +6

    The bridge🔥🔥🔥 Lord I love Mary's music!!

  • @lavernecrowder5455
    @lavernecrowder5455 Před 6 lety +135

    THIS SONG NEEDS A VIDEO STILL........ 2018

  • @MaryJBligeTheQueen
    @MaryJBligeTheQueen Před 7 lety +177

    The Queen has returned...long live The Queen.

    • @pounk1938
      @pounk1938 Před 7 lety +20

      Man thiß shit slapping in my truck 4/15's ... Mary said I, stand on my feet
      awwwwwwwwww ooooooh 2x. .i love it.

    • @MyNiques
      @MyNiques Před 7 lety +3

      Mary J Blige The Queen yess

    • @franl6700
      @franl6700 Před 7 lety +10

      Mary J Blige The Queen I am loving this!!! 💥💥💥

    • @neeshwoods9004
      @neeshwoods9004 Před 7 lety +2

      right

  • @sharonjackson129
    @sharonjackson129 Před rokem +19

    I can't get enough of this song it's like she saying what I want to say just love 💕 it.

  • @jaSi9
    @jaSi9 Před rokem +16

    You ever have one of those songs that just wakes you up no matter what time it is? This is one of those songs. Love you, Mary. Thank you for your music. 💙🎶

  • @stephaniemartin3961
    @stephaniemartin3961 Před 7 lety +340

    Mary J came back strong, I've listened to this song about 1000 today at work, kept it on repeat. I thought "thick of it" blowed my mind but this one right here tho..........💯

    • @Enevitable
      @Enevitable Před 7 lety +5

      Girl, same here!

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 Před 7 lety +5

      Stephanie Martin Isn't it funny how the songs that are pushed first as singles are NEVER the best of the album? They are just a tease.

    • @stephaniemartin3961
      @stephaniemartin3961 Před 7 lety +3

      yes girl

    • @beverlyriley3852
      @beverlyriley3852 Před 7 lety +9

      This is my Joint!!!

    • @cresha80
      @cresha80 Před 7 lety +21

      U have had to go thru something in life to understand and also real and grown and sexy.... #BeenridinsinceWhatsthe411

  • @etucker434
    @etucker434 Před 7 lety +266

    This song has been on repeat for the last 4 days straight.

  • @designermarket6334
    @designermarket6334 Před 3 lety +7

    2021 STILL HERE!!!!!!

  • @nicorriesanders
    @nicorriesanders Před 2 lety +16

    I can't believe 5 years flew by. These songs just came out and I was blasting the whole album. Mary always delivers

  • @swimkmartinweightlossjourn7080

    Mary was writing this Album through all that pain of her divorce . Where in for a treat come April 28th..cant wait.

    • @swimkmartinweightlossjourn7080
      @swimkmartinweightlossjourn7080 Před 7 lety

      thanks chris

    • @IJoy78
      @IJoy78 Před 7 lety +1

      Kenbeez Ken, I had to get a pre-order after hearing this song on Sirius last week 💰

    • @catrina718
      @catrina718 Před 7 lety +9

      Ignacia J Being able to hear music like this on Heart and Soul is what keeps me paying that Sirius XM bill myself.

    • @IJoy78
      @IJoy78 Před 7 lety +13

      Kenbeez Ken, I know in my JJ Evan's (Good Times) voice, lol

    • @Ladybug9497
      @Ladybug9497 Před 7 lety +14

      I knoooooooooooooow...lol

  • @tommyjames4293
    @tommyjames4293 Před 7 lety +195

    Diz Shit need 100 million fuckn views I mean Dam Ain't no other artist dat can take u there like Mary 25 year z strong #RespectDaQueen

  • @mimisupreme6
    @mimisupreme6 Před 4 lety +18

    She dropped SO MANY JEWELS IN THIS SONG. I LOVE YOU MARY

  • @RobinsReality1
    @RobinsReality1 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Tell me why I just discovered this song because I called the pharmacy at Walgreens and they put me on hold and I was like “oh ok they jamming” lol and then I went to find the song on CZcams and I did ❤

  • @CB-br9jc
    @CB-br9jc Před 6 lety +401

    All of us can relate to the songs this strong woman sings. Never settle down with someone who doesn’t know the meaning of: love for thyself, communication and respect.

  • @sunflowerb5260
    @sunflowerb5260 Před 4 lety +390

    Gotta KEEP PUSHING regardless of heart break 🙏🏻 ALL GAS NO BRAKES!!! 2019’

    • @zecnehdoe4798
      @zecnehdoe4798 Před 3 lety +6

      Very well said!

    • @cocoafemme47
      @cocoafemme47 Před 3 lety +3

      Sunflower B: "All gas, no brakes," causes a WRECK, you realize that don't you? Keep pushing though, BEST advice 👏👏.

    • @stoneyburk9828
      @stoneyburk9828 Před 3 lety

      🚂💨💨💨💨

    • @itrymybest104
      @itrymybest104 Před 3 lety

      🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

    • @Luminousone_624
      @Luminousone_624 Před 2 lety +1

      Facts, this comment makes me wanna have effort to fully get up. I been down bad off and on since 2020 from a bad toxic relationship, it's been so hard, depressing and exhausting.

  • @mr.sherwincherry6501
    @mr.sherwincherry6501 Před rokem +3

    "GOD is LOVE...abide in LOVE" (1 John 4:16)! Man cannot love until he first love JESUS, & man cannot befriend another until he first befriend JESUS!

  • @toshemiaedmonds7815
    @toshemiaedmonds7815 Před 8 měsíci +3

    SOMEWTIMES ❤CONQUERS ALL AND IT ALSO COMES WITH LESSONS💯

  • @greatestmother3047
    @greatestmother3047 Před 6 lety +389

    Song speaking to my soul...15yrs together, 5yrs of marriage with 3kids....the fight is over, just gotta let it go...its time

    • @tiastrayham1043
      @tiastrayham1043 Před 6 lety +15

      I feel y'all ladies 16yrs marriage 3 kids. I'm done too. love lesson 4 sure

    • @yolandathomas8192
      @yolandathomas8192 Před 6 lety +10

      YES I'M GOING THOUGH THE SAME THING LET IT GO AND LIVE WE ARE ONLY HERE ONE TIME MARY HAS GOTTEN ME THROUGH THE WORSE TIMES I'M OK GOD GOT ME HONEY ENJOY LIFE AND YOUR KIDS YOU WILL BE FINE TRUST ME

    • @TH-ue7lj
      @TH-ue7lj Před 5 lety +9

      17 years,two kids one is in heaven and he wants to embrace his "love" child,while the lies keep coming,no thank you

    • @angelapea1246
      @angelapea1246 Před 5 lety +7

      Feel you on that...don't hold on to something that is not holding on to you!...Let go...Love lessons!

    • @shedopesy769
      @shedopesy769 Před 5 lety +8

      11 yrs, 4 kids and I'm over it!! ❤
      #LoveLesson✌👋

  • @lisabonae
    @lisabonae Před 7 lety +193

    Over 25 years in the game and Mary still putting out bangers. People can say what they want to about her vocals but very few females in rnb can fuck with her discography. Facts.

  • @carolynmccoy8049
    @carolynmccoy8049 Před 3 lety +5

    You had me, should of never questioned

  • @kdiang03
    @kdiang03 Před 2 lety +5

    This should've been the lead single from this album.

  • @MrMusickid23
    @MrMusickid23 Před 7 lety +2981

    This dat type of joint when you're in your car, volume up, windows down, head nodding... Mary, you got another one, sis!

    • @khicks630
      @khicks630 Před 7 lety +28

      AJH 723 yep I'm doing that now

    • @Vertiz131
      @Vertiz131 Před 7 lety +17

      That is exactly what I will be doing.

    • @cvc1814
      @cvc1814 Před 7 lety +11

      yup

    • @marvinaparker8556
      @marvinaparker8556 Před 7 lety +22

      AJH 723 or just at home it turned up relaxing and listening can't wait

    • @tyroneshaw5892
      @tyroneshaw5892 Před 7 lety +12

      AJH 723 .right Windows down sunroof open

  • @HeyyyHR
    @HeyyyHR Před 7 lety +3141

    I don't mean anything bad by this, but is it just me or does Mary make AMAZING music when her heart is broken......

    • @cristalwalker2894
      @cristalwalker2894 Před 7 lety +151

      Timeka Green hate to say it but that is when that fire come out I so love Mary sorry that she is going threw this but shit the music that comes out man

    • @tierrawilliams4271
      @tierrawilliams4271 Před 6 lety +35

      Timeka Green I agree

    • @dilliondavis8294
      @dilliondavis8294 Před 6 lety +76

      Timeka Green Any REAL M.J.B fan knows that's when she puts out the bomb ass music!

    • @princeowlman3321
      @princeowlman3321 Před 6 lety +25

      Timeka Green genuine fact!

    • @shandorahammond5831
      @shandorahammond5831 Před 6 lety +92

      Her and Keyshia Cole makes the best music when tbeir hearts broken. Patiently waiting on Keyshia to come back

  • @darkskinss
    @darkskinss Před 2 lety +13

    Sing, Queen Mary. This is everything. Catch the beat and production. It slayed along with Mary's vocal.

  • @EboNCol
    @EboNCol Před 3 lety +11

    Man, let me tell you... I’m HAPPILY married but I’ve had this song on repeat since this morning, it’s now 6:00 in Kansas City, Mo and I’m still Jammin to this bishhhhhhhhhh #u+me

  • @sebrinabrown3141
    @sebrinabrown3141 Před 6 lety +178

    this helps me when I'm hurting

  • @tanyawilliams2902
    @tanyawilliams2902 Před 4 lety +349

    When going thru my break up THIS SONG GAVE ME LIFE!!!!! I play this damn near everyday.... Mary is definitely the QUEEN OF R&B I HAVE BEEN A FAN SINCE REAL LOVE❤️!!!! Her music you can really relate I feel her pain in some of her songs and I pray God brings her happiness peace and love!!!!!!!

  • @diamondsandlipgloss
    @diamondsandlipgloss Před 2 lety +17

    come on Mary!!!! still a bop in 2021

  • @tammiehenderson2505
    @tammiehenderson2505 Před 3 lety +17

    This my girl she puts her heart and soul in her music. MJB missing her at Essence Festival. 2022 comeback girl my fellow Capricorn!

  • @michellcottrell6712
    @michellcottrell6712 Před 7 lety +38

    she's done it again y'all

  • @charityholley2663
    @charityholley2663 Před 6 lety +224

    She beautiful...she represents black well!!😊 go girl!!!!

  • @healingonesmindset
    @healingonesmindset Před 2 lety +13

    This song is giving me strength and power. Thank you Mary.

  • @atkpw1108
    @atkpw1108 Před 3 lety +3

    The power of growth - emotional detox is real. Much love Mary🤗✊🏿🤗
    Proverbs 4:23 More than anything you guard, protect your mind, for life flows from it.

  • @charitydurucd
    @charitydurucd Před 7 lety +298

    The Queen speaks for some of us broken hearted women again..... She is a true motivator, and she delivers the emotions full stop... I love her know and always!

    • @chasityedwards8661
      @chasityedwards8661 Před 7 lety +3

      Charity Hanna real i love her💯💯💯💯😘😘😘😘MaryJBlige

    • @quentinwooten30
      @quentinwooten30 Před 7 lety +3

      Charity Hanna and guys

    • @joegreen9747
      @joegreen9747 Před 7 lety

      Charity Hanna no

    • @roseannabella5904
      @roseannabella5904 Před 7 lety +11

      Yes she definitely speaks to all who are going through something

    • @tayelorjohnson5327
      @tayelorjohnson5327 Před 7 lety +2

      Charity Hanna ....why ya heart broke mommy.....too many good men out here to give you the support you deserve

  • @shandraadams7101
    @shandraadams7101 Před 6 lety +169

    When it speaks to your soul! You cant help but to like it

  • @KhaluvBuck
    @KhaluvBuck Před 3 lety +4

    QUEEN

  • @devindelaine9091
    @devindelaine9091 Před 3 lety +4

    I'm a young man I'm 18 and I love this song I been through some experience in life already

  • @dontdomeboo81
    @dontdomeboo81 Před 6 lety +433

    This is my shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit!!!!

    • @davano1979
      @davano1979 Před 5 lety +5

      Naw naw my shiiiiiiit!

    • @danieldavis7852
      @danieldavis7852 Před 5 lety +1

      Yes suhhhh

    • @olympia007macklin
      @olympia007macklin Před 5 lety +3

      U +mii....♍💜👍🏼🍷

    • @kiskat6775
      @kiskat6775 Před 5 lety +3

      🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹☺☺☺☺☺☺☺🌹☺☺🌹☺☺🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😳😳😘😘😘😘

    • @rayb5247
      @rayb5247 Před 5 lety +1

      Same

  • @chanelbenton9395
    @chanelbenton9395 Před 4 lety +354

    3 kids no ring 12 years off my life and now am done he had me ....

    • @terrybrown7510
      @terrybrown7510 Před 4 lety +14

      God bless you!

    • @pookiepeach9634
      @pookiepeach9634 Před 4 lety +39

      chanel benton 21 years 4 kids. Waste of time but we're better off now. I'm so glad I got out. Stay strong. We empower each other

    • @mkflores5192
      @mkflores5192 Před 4 lety

      Maybe you should hv just called him.... sides Am sure you can hv any n every....clean hands and closed mouths didn't get anyone anywhere....btmAbee wifey4lifey

    • @replicacity92
      @replicacity92 Před 4 lety +10

      You left with hella baggage

    • @dionnewashington4585
      @dionnewashington4585 Před 4 lety +7

      It's Growing Pains- Mary J told us that. Praying for you. Keep your head up!

  • @Keezie27
    @Keezie27 Před 4 lety +16

    Great song! I'm glad it was a hit for Mary. She's still making great music after all this time and staying true to herself. That's my girl.

  • @mesha5924
    @mesha5924 Před 2 lety +11

    Mary will have you viben to her music all day

  • @YBSPEAKSTRUTH
    @YBSPEAKSTRUTH Před 7 lety +174

    M.J.B is undeniably the most consistent artist since the 90s. always giving her fans that something special feel good life lesson vibe.

    • @watchlistenlearnwll6614
      @watchlistenlearnwll6614 Před 7 lety +3

      J.T. M. she is truly special and the truth

    • @msnik9709
      @msnik9709 Před 7 lety +40

      J.T. M. I agree. Her career has outlasted ALL of the Uptown/MCA artists during that time.

    • @pamelacampbell5336
      @pamelacampbell5336 Před 7 lety +25

      Mary Smith loving this song because I'm going through something rite now it's making me think 🎶

    • @nadarmahamud5919
      @nadarmahamud5919 Před 7 lety

      Seneca Williams will

  • @jesaedwards3986
    @jesaedwards3986 Před 7 lety +385

    2 thousand people need there ears checked.. This is some true shit!! I am forever a Mary J Blige fan..😍😍😍😍😍💕💕

    • @lorettalawson4159
      @lorettalawson4159 Před 6 lety +7

      Girl you bought it back strong and on time.I'm loving it.

    • @kimwright6377
      @kimwright6377 Před 6 lety +4

      Jesa Edwards They don't know and they need to go back and listen to her music.We know this ain't for publicity,Thats that new shit.Our girl is old school real since day one!

    • @khloetodd2020
      @khloetodd2020 Před 6 lety

      Jesa Edwards t koi crv ionic

    • @saddiqdaniyan8939
      @saddiqdaniyan8939 Před 6 lety +1

      Jesa Edwards 4 thousand now

    • @peytonhampton5184
      @peytonhampton5184 Před 6 lety +1

      Jesa Edwards ts❤️❤️❤️❤️gbgfcvxzgdfnhz:@

  • @cookfam2509
    @cookfam2509 Před rokem +5

    This is a hit song for ever. Love Mary you are a real woman and you have motivated a lot of woman’s.

  • @daniellefawn
    @daniellefawn Před 9 měsíci +1

    After being in an off and on again situationship with a man I really loved this song was an eye opener. Now months after breaking up with him for once and for all I thank God for my growth. NO bitterness 🙅‍♀️ just forgiveness 💁‍♀️
    I’m going to be better and do better.

  • @uniquejesse2256
    @uniquejesse2256 Před 7 lety +113

    Damn I heard this ONCE and I fell in LOVE!! yas mjb

    • @MyFav77
      @MyFav77 Před 6 lety +5

      Me too... then seeing her in concert a few weeks ago made me like even more , she rocked it!!

    • @AveryAdeife
      @AveryAdeife Před 6 lety +3

      me tooooooooooooo!! she was just astronomically astounding when i saw her in Buffalo a few weeks ago. Gosh Mary man! blew me away

    • @BestMusicWorldwide
      @BestMusicWorldwide Před 6 lety +2

      MyFav77 shes power to the soul in concert. It is an experience'

    • @nanettematthews2264
      @nanettematthews2264 Před 6 lety

      Unique Jesse it woke me up out of my sleep literally. Mary has no idea how many lives she saves.

  • @samanthac410
    @samanthac410 Před 6 lety +113

    Mary baby!! Let's go out and celebrate the final of your divorce!! Its been rough on you this past year! You deserve to be happy !! We love you girl!!

    • @margueritegarth3202
      @margueritegarth3202 Před 6 lety

      I'm just going to keep it real with you all Mary J is not the only one that's going through a whole lot of other singers going through also and so are you you and you she just keeping it 100 everybody playing like they're happy.... We all have ups and downs hell who don't have ups and downs Sing Mary I'm down with you with your ups and
      your downs I know you're not mad get that that money their loss your gain 👀💋💪💯❤️

    • @ninavance3995
      @ninavance3995 Před 6 lety

      Samant

  • @andrewdowdy4315
    @andrewdowdy4315 Před 2 lety +2

    First time ever hearing her use her whistle notes back to back

  • @carolinaplayboi
    @carolinaplayboi Před 2 lety +4

    This just hit a spot……..

  • @jaymckinney5289
    @jaymckinney5289 Před 4 lety +222

    Damn why didn't she make a video to this

    • @MultiSWEETPEA26
      @MultiSWEETPEA26 Před 3 lety +7

      I know right

    • @osenior3670
      @osenior3670 Před 3 lety +6

      Mary is da bomb. She does great music when is broken, but being that she is not going through any drama now in here life she is just laying low until some nigga do her WRONG. N then she ll drop another hit.

    • @AkhenatenTheRedeemed
      @AkhenatenTheRedeemed Před 3 lety +2

      Maybe because Adrian Marcels~pieces he already did he made it first I think. Any way good cover still🙏🏽

    • @da-railsmith8828
      @da-railsmith8828 Před 3 lety +3

      @@AkhenatenTheRedeemed So was "I'm Going Down" a remake but there was a music video and a major hit for Mary!

    • @lakeisharobinson2132
      @lakeisharobinson2132 Před 3 lety +2

      I said the same thing!

  • @torytory8720
    @torytory8720 Před 7 lety +873

    To her husband..Bitch you had it all..But you lost it..now somebody else gone have that good thing...You crazy man....All she wanted was love and lil shit and you couldn't even give her that..Hold your head up Mary..You have this..We behind you 1000

  • @biancabar1982
    @biancabar1982 Před 2 lety +4

    I heard this song while at work. And this song speaks the truth. Love will teach you the biggest lessons in life

  • @nikiabutler899
    @nikiabutler899 Před 2 lety +5

    Don’t no body make hurt, pain and must move forward music like Mary🤦🏽‍♀️💯