Arranged Marriage & Expectations | Ft. Hina Azad
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- čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
- Written & Directed By : Shravan Kharat
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Hina Azad : Mansi
Jeetu Valmiki : Varun
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This video touches core of husband wife relationship,,very nicely presented, hats off
@@buddha2845 Thanks a lot
Instead I want to thank you for putting some unique points, which are key to success of a married life,my marriage duration is almost 30 years,and we fought over several issues, and some were very serious,, which could lead to divorce, infact,we still have many difference of opinions at this stage,but most of the time मैने उसका हाथ पकड़ रखा था क्योंकि मुझे शुरू से पता था कि वो थोड़ी बेवकूफ, नादान,जिद्दी स्वभाव की थी,पर थोड़ी सी समजाइस से पटरी पर आ जाती है, इसलिए दोनों में से एक को समझदारी दिखाना जरूरी है, यही बात आपकी वीडियो में मुझे पसंद आई👍👍👍
One thing....Just try to find your better half ; whose mentality & expectations match with your's. If not possible then compromise with yourself and stay single for the whole life.
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Exactly yr
Absolutely correct ur thinking
Then find your love , don't do arrange marriage
Actually That's the problem ...
Because usually mentality doesn't matches most of the time you will see that husband and wife are complimentary to each other ...
Comment box mein 80% log Ladka ke baare mein kuch nahin bolte bas ladki ko dosh de rahe hai. But a Virgin girl deserves virgin boy. We pure girls don't deserve to be a plan B. Govt should make a law about it.
Absolutely right.Virgin deserves a virgin whether it is boy or a girl.
Exactly......Virgin Desreves Virgin...👍👍
Virgin deserves virgin .both
Ye sab jo boys upar comment kar rhe h or girls ko galat bol rhe h harami h sab
Right
Good content but a small correction, I got the idea behind her words of 'Parvathi jaisi patni chahiye toh pehle Shiv jaisa pati bano' but let me tell you that Parvathi was not anything that he described or expected as. Parvathi always did what she wanted to do, as much as she dedicated herself to Shiva she also strongly preserved her individuality. Parvathi is the epitome of womanhood, not only because she served her husband greatly but she managed the marital life while handling her individual responsibilities.
And please don't compare anyone to Shiv-Shakti, their consciousness is crystal clear while ours is covered with myths and dust.
Very well said Kavya and Thanks a lot for detailed information. You may like part 2.
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actually that was Sati, Parvati in previous life
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Chahe ladki ho ya ladka single life is better life ,free life
शायद जो इंसान प्यार बाँटना जानता है वो हैप्पी रहता है । हर हाल मै
I am single or mai Khush huu
@@shilpaverma8684 india mein ho parents ek time mein shaadi karwa hi denge single rehne nhi denge !!
dekh lena coz yeh indian society h and indian parents h!!
Virginity is not just for women. Its for men also.
If a guy expects his wife to be a virgin, then he must also be one.
As a man in early 30s, I agree with you 100%. not married yet, Lived in foreign countries for years, But always stayed away from girls in this matter. I hope god will never disappoint me.
Ya thats true....but also guys who r virgin r also made fun of ....not only by boys.....also by girls who have actually lost their virginity and thinks thats cool and sign of manliness or it looks cool...
In my opinion.....anyone can easily lose virginity before marriage.....if they can wait till that.....its mature thinking....not like he/she couldnt do anything
@Aj mast jawab
A man have a testosterone Harmon ,man have a natural rights ,to satisfy him self.
If a girl want to fuck , she is called prostitute
Non-virgin boys expecting to get a virgin wife😂😂 The girl said the right thing " Parvati chahiye to khud shiv bano"...
Mai agr shiv bn jaunga to vo kya parwati bn jayegi
@@ajaysingh-tg8eg mast bola dosst ..hehehe
@@ajaysingh-tg8eg nahi iska jawab ni milega kuinki vo hypocite hai
Yes look at himself first sin is sin for both men and women
boys ka chhoro pehle ye batao larki kai ghar kai log jaise ki bhai, baap ya maa ko pta chale to kya wo virgin nahi hai to kya bardast karengai wo nahi na to fir bhi larka to anjan log hai or agar larka virgin ho to kya larki virginity ki gurienty deti hai
hameaha apnai side sai sochna akalmandhi nahi hai
be single because everyone else is selfish be it boy or girl take care of ur family that's it
Mujhe ghar ke sare kaam aate h.. Job wali ladki chaiye😂😂
are Bhai bhai bhai 😂😂😂😂
Ghada khahika
@ankita rawat tumhare soch bhi sahi nahi hai kyu ki ladka faka hua use karna bala bastu ko nahi uthata jo ladki ladko ko saman nahi karti asha ladki se sadhi nahi karni chahiye kyu ki ladki me ladka se adhik kamvasna paisa ki bhukhi laccha ghamand hota apane ghamand ka samana khud ko bahut pada samajata hai ladkia purush se adhik charitraheen hai asha ladki sadhi nahi karni chahiye kyu ki ya ladki pati ka samana nahi karega khud par unka ghamand adhik raha ga ya ladki ya ghar todaga samaja jo stri apane pati ka samana nahi karti parivar ka saman nahi karta apna baccha ko nahi samajhti khud ko heroin manta hai asha ladki se sadhi nahi karna chahiye kyu aisha ladki se sadhi karna matlab apane purushta tum ladki ladko se jada ayyashi karti hai jo apane pati ke control me nahi hai aisha ladki khush bhi karati hai aisha ladki se sadhi karna tumhare keshi ladki se sadhi karna jivan barbad karna hai ma hama in ladkiyon se sadhi nahi karni hai
@ankita rawat me manta hu vargin ladki acchi hai asha ladki se sadhi karna jivan barbad karna hai hama aisha ladki ki jarurat nahi hai ladka jitna bhi kara yo ladka upar depend raha hai ladkiyon ki ajadi desh ki barbadi hai
@ankita rawat kyu hamare sanskriti me jo likha hai isha ladki se shadi karna chahiye hai yo ladki hamare liya tumhare jeshi ladki se sadhi karka hama kya milage
It's true that there is no one pure here... So don't love or have affection with anyone... Don't try to find happiness in someone else's life for you.... Stay happy within yourself
The meaning of marriage is lost … our culture is lost … everything is a transaction. No one has patience or good virtues.
Please Dont bring Lord Shiva and Devi Parvati in Between😠😠😠😠😠.........no One can Ever Love like Shiv-Shakti in This World🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good 👍 bro
Yes ❤❤
True
Aa gya dharmik keeda
All boys are not same,,they support their girl and understand
When we know that there are equal number of men and women in this world, how we can expect women to be virgin before marriage when most of the men have lost their virginity in young age?
Maybe... But, some women are too busy building their career than sleeping around so... It depends.
@@jahnavirainlover I just mentioned about on a average.. there are always exceptions..
@@kavisiddu Yes :)
Kudos to her thought process and her parents who taught her to be finacially independant...
Harsh reality of India dad tells you don't speak to strangers but he tells you to marry a stranger
True
But they will check there background
@@saiprasad751 kahe ka background jo har time pe jhoot bolte h and shaadi ke baad sab paata chalta h!!
jiske saath aap long time spend karte ho ussi se shaadi karo kam se kam shaadi se pehle hi sab samjh aa jata h and agar kuch galat nikla tho break up kar sakte ho but shaadi ke baad india mein divorce lene se achha zeher khana easy h!!
Best dialogue 'Agar tumhe parvati jesi patni chahiye toh pehle khud shiv jese pati bano'
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Khud k sis p bt aai tb smjh aata h ldko Ko
true af
BAS YAHI TOH BOYS SOCHTE HAI KI KHUD KUCH BHI KAR LEKIN LADKI SAAF HO
KAI BAAR LADKI BHI GALT HOTI HAI AUR LADKIYA SOCHTI HAI KYA FARK PARTA HAI "WO LADKA KONSA SHARIF HOGA "
BEFORE MARRIAGE PLS AVOID SEXUAL ACTIVITY
APNI AUR APNE MAA BAAP KI IJAAT KA DHYAN RAKHO
Hm ram jaise hi hai quinki hm apne career pe focus karte hai lekin hamara point of view rakha hi nhi jata hm kuch puche to choti soch lekin salary ke basis ladke se minle jaye to modern vichar waa
Ladkiyon ka astitva uski virginity me hai.. Agar wo non virgin hai to wo modern, fashionable, ambitious, carrier oriented, intelligent, smart or 21st century girl hai.. Strong & bold hai, feminism supporter and women empowerment idol hai..
Agar wo virgin hai to weak, non ambitious, old fashioned, darri-sehmi si bewakoof ladki hai.. Jiska koi future ni.. Na wo apne liye stand kar sakti hai women empowerment idol ban sakti hai.. Family values ka matlab saas-bahu ka jhamela pati k bacche sambhalna keval..
Women empowerment+feminisms= illogical anger argues+having sex with one or multiple boyfriends who never married you.. (Obviously never intended to anyway)... This video teaches us a great lesson..
Equal opportunities for women also..
stereotype indian mentality vibes from the guy
Promoting feminism that’s all,,, today’s 90% men are not like that......
Watch part 2 here
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Clap 👏 for the girl who realise him that girl is not a non payment servent, Girls ki bhi kuch expectations hoti h aur agar boys khud glt h to unhe bhi koi hk nhi girls ko blame krne ka . Possitive thinking for girls be independent for self 🙂
Ek gana yaad a gaya... Mai ram nahi hu fir kyu ummeed karu sita ki.. Kyu insano me dhunde pawanta ganga ki..
Whats the problem of expecting a virgin wife if the guy is also virgin and he never had any previous relationships...modern society has made it ok for girls to be sexually liberating if she has slept with anyone and guy a fattu if he has not and problem is only when a virgin guy expect the same level of stuff from the other person... this is seriously not fair!!
Correct
Dam correct man 👍
The whole concept of virginity is baseless and bullshit . Why would u want your spouse to b a virgin? A person's virginity doesn't represent anything.
@@navyapatil5055 If gf/ bf is legal then what is the purpose of marriage.? If human lives like animals then marriage should be overrate
@@navyapatil5055 it's personal choice, and you have no right to question it, virgin deserves virgin.
Beat solution of this problem is - Everyone shud earn n no man shud ever marry any unemployed or meagerly earning woman
Tum he parvati jse patni chye to phela khud shiv bano nice line 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
Shukriya Ji
@@ashayeinfilms Ghatia channel
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Yes I am a virgin and I Expect a virgin and I hate modern and I believe in simplicity. And I know there are very little girls who will agree with me. But you know what it doesn't matter for me now. And iLove to be single 😂😂. But girls have no right to say that every man is same.
Nhi milegi virgin Guarantee deta hu 😂
Definitely you should deserve a virgin if you are a virgin guy.....and you can ask for it there is no shame, this nonsense CZcams channels are promoting non-virginity see the producer or the director of this video or people related to them are non virgin may be...
Same bhai☺
@@Ashishsah69 Not everyone is like your sisters and female family members 🥵
@@Ashishsah69 sabko apne ghar ki aurton jaisa samjha h kya
what she said is right... Agar Parvathi chahiye, tho phir khud shiv bano....
u dont understand the reality of life. Why pay more respect to mother in our culture than father ? there is a reason. u r not educated about how a mother is important in rearing the next generation of humanity. U r only trained to compete with men and u developed ur masculinity. Its a disgrace for lifetime u have not understood the soft power of felinity.
Hum toh Shiv ke bhakt shiv jaise hi hai...par kya parvati jaisi ladkiyan bacchi hai kahi sansar mein.... ladkiyan Virgin kyu nahi hai...bcoz woh unki marzi thi shaadi se pehle virginity lose karna pasand hai...koi unka raoe nahi karta.
Waisi ladkiya ab ki generation mein hai hi nahi ki joh shaadi tak intajar kare ye sab karne keliye. Apne pati aur saas sasur ko izaat de...ghar sambhalkar job bhi kare...agar pati ko uski job se problem ho toh job bhi chode de....aise ladkiya bacchi kaha hai...
Agar simple si ghar sambhalne ki expectations rakho..toh bhi new generations hai duniya badal gayi kheke ..tumhari family...tumhara ghar...tumhare bacche kehke mein tumhari kam kiyu karu...mein existence hai ki nahi bolti hai.
Means jab children pe haq jamana hota hai toh mere bacche ..mera ghar....mera pati...aur jab kam aaya toh sab tumhara/pati ka..👏👏
Hypocrisy ki had hoti hai
Aur jaha tak rah sawal maa ke ghar mein kam karne ka toh woh toh ladki ki maa bhi karti hai...toh woh kya phir kamwali hui...aur aagar ladki apne maa-baap ke ghar maa ko help karti hai ...toh same help apni saas ko kare....waha uske Pati se kam nahi karwana chahiye....aur jab woh patni koi ladki ko janam degi...toh phir usi ladki se kam karwana chahiye. Ladka kiyu ghar ka kam kare. "Soch purani hai...galat soch hai " yeh sab kehna bas iseliye ki ek ladkiyon ki generation ne keh diya ki woh ab ghar ka kaam nahi karna chahte.🤣🤷
Aise hai toh ladko ki generation ne bhi shaadi nahi karni chahiye...aur live in relationship ko support karna chahiye.✌🏻 Bcoz agar ladki "Patni" jaise nahi rehna chahti aur "feminist modern world" ke jaise nakre mein rehna chahti hai..
toh Pati kiyu aise ladki ke sath shaadi karke unake nahkre jhelta rahe. Woh bhi free rahe alag alsg ladki se relationship rakhe keliye ..
Ladki ki asset unki beauty hoti hai....🥰
Ladke ka asset unki property💸💰 or relationship status...agar single hai toh ladke ki demand high hai warna nahi.
Toh ladki ko freedom hai apni beauty show off karne ki koi bhi kapde pehen ke.💃...toh ladke ko freedom kiyu nahi apne maan ke hisab se ek je jada ladkiyon se shaadi karne ka.🎉🥰
Phele ek adami ki 2,3 patiniya rehti thi legally allowed tha polygamy...toh tab ladkon ko kitna demand tha ...sab ladkiya chup chap shaadi ke bad apne pati ki har baat manti thi...unko dar tha ki pati dusri patni ke pass nah chala jaye.
Toh yeh ladkon ka freedom kiyu china gaya...unki life unki marzi....ladkon ki koi existence hai ki nahi🤨🤨🤨😉
Agar in ladkiyon ko thodi si freedom or Equality kya dedi... yeh ladkiya ab sab law and democracy ke seer pe bhet chuki hai ...ab lagta hai inko hila ke nichee girana hoga.
Ladkiyon jaise yehsaan phramosh log kahi aur nahi hote .
Hum shiv hai aur Hume parvati hi chahiye
Hum sab me mahadev baste he...aur Mata Parvati prakrati he...unko Mera sat sat pranam...
Parvati yadi prakriti hai, toh Mahadev bhi param Satya hai...aur Prakriti ko anta mein Param Satya mein hi vilin hona hai...ek hona hai...
Yadi Stri swayam ko Prakriti ka roop manti hai. toh use Prakriti ki tarah komal, dayalu aur Agyakari hona chahiye....Aur usee bhoolna nahi chahiye ki har Purush bhi us Shiv ki tarah hona chahiye jiske sath hamesha Satya ho.
Sab moh maya he,jai bholenath
System pad dayange jai baba ki 😂😂
Agar tumhe Parvati jaisi patni chahiye,toh pehle khudh shiv bano🙏😁
Yes that's right. I am virgin and need virgin girl only or I will marry with rape victim.
@@AdityaRaj-gj4dl dude better to marry a gal with pure soul.. is that one hymen is so imp. For u.. and being virgin is or not is Ur choice and Ur decision .. jab sab Kuch hi update kr rhe ho toh dimag bhi update kr lo. And we r humans not shiv and Parvati so plz don't compare with them. Unse hum bane Hain. Hum kbhi wo Nahi BN skte..
@@priyayadav1548 saaf saaf bol na ki tu non virgin hai
Yas you are right 👍🏻
@@priyayadav1548 I have no interest in sex before marriage. There I said it.
i am virgin and for me it does not matter a girl is virgin or not..past doesn't matter. i want her future, trust,love,support for entire life.. and no problem with his ambition..my sister works in the same my wife can also work..things can be managed..😊
Nice one bro ..well said.. similar of ny thinking 😀
Toh kya tere jaise so called modern ladke baan kar randi se shaadi kaare.. Ha par woh girls clothes n work se stop nahi karna cahiye.. par characterless ko modern hona nahi hota..
Good Man....
Saale jab infection hoga na tab pta chalega
Nice 👍 may god give you a non virgin girl god bless you😊🙏🏻
Don't spread wrong message to the society.
Just because 'your own sister did something wrong', doesn't mean it suddenly becomes right. If my sister did something like that, even she would have to suffer consequences. I would definitely sympathise with her but that doesn't mean that what she did was right!!
Stop fooling young people.
We are not fooling anyone. Its an individual choice
@@ashayeinfilms This so-called "Individual choice" has turned today's women into many BS delusional Feminist! In the name of this so-called "Individual choice" they scoring body count after body count, end up becoming pregnant, and lastly their husbands needs to take care of those children! C'mon, are you just supporting these women! Not only in today's women don't even hesitate to abort/kill their unborn babies! Just look at the USA's women. It's all because of your so-called "Individual choice"!!!
May happen billions of lifestyles in the society, but i'm the one who follow my culture, simplicity, respect to elders,parents,teachers, and i'm honest to my soul, i love myself to carry same culture throughout my breath.
Bagwan ka shukar hai muje asia nahi banaya kisi ladki ke zindagi khrab nahi kiya maine I m proud of us
Pehly stories me society ko ayse messages diye jatey thy jin me ksi gunah ko highlight kr k usy khatam krny ki seek milti thi..
Ajki stories me ye message diye jatey hn k society is highlighted gunah ko accept kr le or isy sudhaarny k bajaey is k sath jeeney lagey..
is hi liye eastern societies tezi se apni reeti riwaaj khoti ja rahi hn or ajaadi k naam pr har gunah azaadi se hona ahista ahista brh rhy hn
Seriously its 2021 and Indian parents are still expecting their children to marry strangers. Just seeing each other. And he is asking about her clothes and her working. She is right. And he is out dated for 2021.Why is looking for a girl in a city he should go to a village. Good Karma for him when it happened to his sister.
जिसको सीता चाहिए उन जैसा आदमियों को राम बनना पड़ेगा नहीं तो चुपचाप जहां मां-बाप शादी करा रहे हैं वही करें जो लड़कियां इतनी पढ़ ली जाती है हाउसवाइफ बंद कर रहना नहीं चाहती है जस्ट लाइक फॉर मी मेरी भी दो बेटियां हैं engineering kar chuki hai service kar rahi hai Ek Doctor Ki padhaai kar rahi hai इतने हर एजुकेटेड होने के बाद कौन लड़की है उससे बनना चाहती है Chahe arrange marriage aur love marriage Ek dusre ko Samman Dena padta hai यह 21वीं सदी क्रश कर रहा है
madhuri nice Bhjan midla ji dono agar kam hi krnge to ghar ka kam kam kon karega aur bacche to whats app pe ho bada ho jainge
इतनी पर जाने के बाद कोई लड़की हाउसवाइफ बनना नहीं चाहेंगी घर भी संभालो पति को भी संभालो औरत तेरी यही कहानी है करो तो मरो ना करो तो भी मरो
@@ravibhushan8590 to khali bachhe aurat ke hi hai kya adami ke nahi hai kya . Aur jo adami ko aurat se ghar ka kaam karana hai padhi likhi job wali ladkiyo se shadi karte hi kyu hai jake houswife type se hi kare na . Working woman ki life kyu waste karte hai aur ghar ke kaam na 2 log mil kar bhi kar sakte sath me . Par tum jaise ko housewife ke kharche uthane bhi takleef ( unpaid maid chahiye bas) aur working woman ki ke sath ghar ke kaam karne par bhi . Fir ladaki gold digger n tum jaise raam ke avtar
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सोच बदनी चाहिये. पर मॉर्डन होणे के चक्कर मे अजके युथ हमारे संस्कार भुलाने लगी हे. Sad bt true 🙂
The society really need a change.Virginity doesn't matter at all. The only thing which matters is trust for a healthy relationship
The discussion between Varun and girl is impressive and both have discussed on valid points. Boys serch vergin girls for marriage but they're not, why. Boys, who serch virgin girls, must think. Only those boys deserved virgin girls who himself is virgin. Excellent.
Thank You
@@ashayeinfilms Thank you very much that you liked my comments. It gives me pleasure and motivation.
@@ashayeinfilms many thanks.
Thank you very much that you liked my comments. It gives me pleasure and motivation.❤️
Yeah. I'm a virgin boy myself. I have no interest in sex before marriage. I know I'll have arranged marriage so I will tell the girl that I'm virgin and I expect her to be virgin. If she's not then I will leave. It's just gender equality
Bring more such type of short films...👍👍vry nyc message....Male’s don’t have any right to question a female’s virginity if he is not virgin....she is not ur property so behave carefully
Yea we will. Please share with everyone
What happen if he is a virgin then fit kya uss non vergin laski ka face kala karke donkey pe batake ghumana chahiye.
Kyuki ek gandi fish pure pond ko ganda karti hai.😡😡😡
Not your property what the hell, then why the hell is marriage both of them have to be open and kind towards each, lady get back to your senses!!
Virgin boy can demand virgin girl .. not the one who is not. Other way round too holds good
SHADI SE PEHLE HAR BAATH CLEAR KARLO WARNA SOCHTE REHJAOGE.
THIS IS MY FAVOURITE VEDEO😁
It's the bestest video i have ever seen in my life giving the best message to all those foolish & selfish boys, to all those "chhoti soch wale log".
Thank You so much. Please share with everyone 🙏
😂😂😂😂really u need to clear ur mindset.....also theres no word called bestest........well i can judge u frm ur language.....u really need to grow .....😂😂😂 literally u made me smile
@@bucky3967 Bro ye virgin nhi hai 😂
@@Ashishsah69 ab ku6 kahenge to gender discrimination.......universal truth to ye log ne banaya hai ki ladke virgin nahi hote.......
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@@bucky3967 😂 kalyug hai bhai
It has a strong message
If one is a virgin and expects life partner to be a virgin then I think it's okay but having had sex himself/herself and expecting a virgin life partner is hypocrisy.
It doesn't matter who is asking about virginity, a girl or a boy, it's right to know about past of the one you're gonna marry and accept the other person the way they are. It's completely one's priority and requirement to prefer or want a virgin life partner but the person needs to be virgin while placing such demand.
There's one more thing most guys would argue upon, living separately with wife after marriage. Privacy and personal space is an individual's requirement to grow. But in our society, it's not considered much of an importance for a lady to get space after marriage. No judgements, no restrictions, no pretending of being the perfect person to show in-laws. Just being the way you are with your life partner and accepting each others flaws are the basic expectations of a wife from her husband.
well you have written a paragraph and with such good quality of language thats great
However i agree to your thought
I agree you all but not in one case.Just tell me if a girl or boy marries for what so that they can live together or to get some personal space😂.It's true that personal space is important for everyone in the life but for the personal space separating from one another(whether for long or shory period)without any cause it's ridiculous.i will give you my own family example my uncle is DM and he always gets transfer.So he decided that his wife and son would live in his hometown inspite of living with him.So that his study is not affected due to the transfer.Dont take it otherwise. I have told this because your sense of saying wasn't appropriate.After marriage the life becomes hectic not only for women but also or I belive more for men.Because you have to care and see your family.
Women can work after marriage her choice
This movie needs a big appreciation. The team has done such a wonderful job in showcasing this whole issue of 'being a virgin', movies like this brings awakening in the society in true manner. Brilliantly depicted the whole concept of 'until and unless it doesn't happen with you, you won't understand'. The actors very powerfully did their respective parts, it looked very natural and captivating. Kudos to the team, marvellous work and you have raised the bar for the entire short film industry. Long way to go 👌👍
Thanks a ton for such a wonderful comment.
Boys bank balance also does not matter....make film about that also....
pyar krte he to sexual experience lena jaruri nahi he...pyar ke naam pr sb galt ho rha he...tabhi to ye sb vergin jase issue aa rhe he..
YES SOON WE WILL BE LIKE THE WEST
😂 .... virginity just means no sexual experience.....not intact hymen 😂
This is 2020; where people are mostly glued to their android phones doing their social media stuff.Even before such a proposal would even be considered; the girl's parents are supposed to inform the in-laws that their daughter is career oriented, and not a stay at home maid.
I have read comments below... modernization, independent is a good thing but it must not effect others life I mn the partners life....girls use to think they will get boy like their own wish but without sacrifice no body can live with anyone
Tradition is a two-edged sword.
1 baat hai maine khud ka experience bata raha hu....ladke naa bhot hi zada single hote hai
aur girls aksar relationship me hote hai aur aksar unka relationship koi tapori se hota hai...pata nhi Q hum jaise seedhe boys unko pasand nhi aate !!!!
True
Sahi bola vai..
Isko 21 topo ki salami do re..... ekdam sahi bola...... ladke na..... bahut jyada single ... bahut jyada sach bol gaya bhai
Bhai sahi bola. Last me ladko ka hi band bajti hai.
I think that both men and women should be virgin till marriage!!!
#JustThoughts....
Ghapa ghap kaun karega
@@sugandhgaurav21 shaadi k baad karlengay....😉😉
@@sugandhgaurav21 he is saying till marriage not till death so chill
Yes correct bro, but these nonsense CZcams channels will promote non-virginity every time,
And they will show it such a way that if you are a virgin then you are kind of a fool, and who are Jon virgin they are similar to some kind of hero or something
सच में बहुत स्वार्थी होते हैं हम मर्द लोग... 😔 एक और कडवा सच...
Hum nahi be tu hai swarthi agar me ram hu toh mujhe bhi sita milni chaiye a
Bhut hi cheap bnda tha.....virgin ldka agr virgin ldki expect kre to smj me aata h.....but jinka apni virginity ka pta nhi ....vo virginity expect kre to vo aadmi hypocrite h...or usse shadi na hi krna shi h
Ya hypocrisy pasand hai
Ha... hum aisi hi ladki se sadi karege jo life me mere kadam se kadam mila kr chal ske uske past me kya hua usse fark nhi padta uski bhool kr bas ek life suru kare... rhi bat job ki to job bhi kr skti h but faimly tabhi puri hoti h jab dono sath rhe
Very good think.
Bt Sirf show kr rhe ho ya sch me aishi soch h b jnab.
Show nhi kr rha ji yhi sach yha tak ki jab bhi mai kisi se sadi kruga to usse uski parsanol life k bare ne nhi puchuga bas itna kruga ki aaj se mere partnar ban jao aur life hum khud banayege
विवाह एक वैधानिक वेश्यावृत्ति है ।
- साईमन द बुआ ( radical feminist)
Boys and girls are equal please please respect girls if girls are not here boys are also not in this world we are souls one day we go in heaven place human beings are made from God girl made by God is a lovely creature so always respect girls
To hell with this mentality... Guys have some shame on your thought process.. 😠😠😠
ladiya kisi aurr ke sath kand karke ulta pati ko attitude dikhaye vo sahi hai ek toh chori upper se sina jori
@@AnjaliSingh-wz2es apni soch sudharo pehle ladke kare to kuch nhi !
@@Devrajsingh7575 apni soch sudhar pehle
@@vaibhavijaiswal6754 behen dono ke lie hai dono ka characters acha hona zaruri hai society ka choro khudpe bharosa hona chiye hi hum sahi kadam uthaye hain crime is crime crime ka koi gender nhi hota
@@surjapradhan1448 okay bro😁✌👏👏👏
The time u said dulha and chulha I hit like amazing one.
Thank You
Matlab tu b wahi he .. nukri ke chakkar me kuch or hena..😂
9:52 If some guy spoke to me like this, I'd walk out of there and never see him again in my life 🤣
Even my dad wouldn't entertain something like this! Leave the job after struggling and studying for so many years??! No WAY. I would never give up on my self-respect like that.
That guy must be living in 18th century
Means sex before marriage is right. I am totally against it
What's wrong with it? Konse jamane me ji rahe hai?
@@sweetshalima18used, second hand. Garbage kind 😂
See it's not about gender virgin deserves virgin
Agar aisha hai to girlfriend banana chod do,like this guy.
Hats off to all women who have guts to say the truth
Hey people im so depressed. Please pray for me
What happened?
Hi
This guy is a jerk in this short film .Women should have independence and we should respect Thier choices . Betiyaan betonse Kam Nahi Hoti pata Nahi ye log kab samjhenge .
agr aadmi shiv ho to use parvati hi chaiye agr na ho to use koi hak nahi banta virgin patni dhundne ka end of debate
@Åbbe Šaale 😂😂😂 Aise kisne bola ki hame milti nahi, bhai mere female friends bhot he lekin me in jhamelo me padna nahi chahta mera education aur mera career mera top priority hai samje
@Åbbe Šaale ofc me expect kar sakta hu, har ek insan ke expectations hote he ladkiya khud 5 ft se chote height wale ladko ko khula reject karti he kyu ? Usme kya kharabi he ? Kya voh acha insan nahi ? Kya voh pyar deserve nahi karta ? Lekin hum kya bole ye to unka preference he, similarly hamari bhi kuch preferences hoti hi hai, bas hypocrite mat bano
Love and understanding is the biggest thing anything else is nothing
Ladki sahi hai 👍👍,ladke log apni gf ko touch krna chahta hai likin wife pure chaiye wahh
❣️
Rande mard dhanda chhalta h en jese bf ka g*nd chhude hua or ladki chhahiye vargin ..
Achai ya burai gender dekh kr nahi aati jaruri nahi ldki h to wo achi hi hogi or sb ldke characterless hi hoge..ye sb depend krta h apke sanskar kaise h..or bhai rahi bt virgon hone k agr koi loyal h or virgen h to usko pura hk h wo b apne liye loyal hi dekhe..fr koi b ho usme cahaye.
I really like it bcz it's very relatable to society humour...
And thoughts
Actually i am married i dont have any restrictions in life my husband is broad minded.he says me wear modern clothes he doesnt like sarees .and even he doesnt bother about past life virgin or not
You are lucky to have such a liberal and broad minded husband. In fact this is how one should be. Good luck.
@@MrDebapriyaRoy correct bro and even mine is arrange marriage. How are u are u married
@@beautifulkp760 actually I am male even though my name confuses many. I am doing good sister. I am actually searching for matrimonial alliance. Wish you and your husband good luck for your married life. Stay blessed
@@MrDebapriyaRoy ok bro thanks
So being a virgin before marriage is bullshit for you? Sleep around as much as you can without parents' knowledge but marry as per parent's choice. Enjoying best of both worlds. Congratulations!
Dear Modern Girls
कृपया शादी तक खुद को संभाल के रखो , ऐसे बहुत लड़के भी हैं जो शादी से पहले virgin रहते हैं अपना career बनाते हैं । आपका boyfriend कितना भी कहे उसे शादी तक wait करने के लिए कहें , उसका असली चेहरा सामने आ जायेगा । आवारा लोगो को अपनी हवस की प्यास ना बुझाने दें एक अच्छा इंसान बिना sex के भी प्यार कर सकता है और शादी का wait कर सकता है । शादी की पवित्रता को बनाये रखें ।
prasoon pathak right
@@samriddhisharma2436hmmm only girl can protect herself no one else
prasoon pathak ha wo to h koi v bf jabrdasti to nhi krta aur jabrdasti krta h too use chor do
Kashh aap jaisi soch sabki ho to sabka character safe rahega boys n girls both
Agar ldke Sadi se phle virgin nhi h to ladkiyon ko b Mana kr Deni chahiye shadi k liye
It is so weird. I dont live in India but I am stunned by the fact that people there are still talkig about issues which should have been resolved in 1950s
Its not 100% true, we r not living in 1950s this is just an act not real life.
Arrange marriages are just gambling between families
Hahaha what about love marriages?? Let me tell u, love marriages has more divorce ratio and do u know why ?? Because there was no love but rather Lust.. you live in fake relationship first but then you got married and introduce her to family and don't get adjusted.. battle start balancing life between family and wife or husband...
Now a days new concept also came in market in love marriage which is Love in relationship.. in lay language it's called Taste it before use it, like it keep it.. don't like it leave it...
Love is not blind and lover is not blind as well... You love someone because they look good per you.. not because you understand well...
@@hanudarji1344 not everyone bro. Also u said that every love marriages will end in divorce . That's when we get married upon infactuation. Also one more thing is there that in arrange marriages if the relationship is worse or broken u can't go for divorce parents will force u to stay with the same person forever. Also u can't understand a person just within 5-6 months. Majority of ppl are doing it just to convince their parents. I have seen that a lot of ppl are still in touch with their ex even after marriages(arrange). The prblm is we don't have any role to know or understand the partner
@@hanudarji1344 there is high divorce rate because that happens because of compability issues but in arranged marraige they are froged together and if they divorce then they will be bad mouthed by our indian society sothat is why.
@@Kitsu9ee_ hahaha if divorce is bad mouthed in Indian culture it would also have happen in Love marriages as well. Because you choose your own and you still fail. I think that is an embrassement as well. There is no love my friend, it’s a list. If your girlfriend will tell u she has an HIV and she will not have sex with you forever, would it be possible for you to live with her forever ?? How many can that bf or gf who has HIV or AIDS ??
Dude, come out of that mindset, there is no love.
Marriage is a bond between not only one family person but rather bond between entire family, society and friends.. unfortunately in lust marriages most of them fail.
Because when you are bf or gf, you dedicate time to them but when you tie knot in marriages, you can’t find that time more often and that leads to differences as well.
Well, you r free to choose your own but that’s my opinion lust marriage is no good.
@@hanudarji1344 i meant that they are forced to live together
Well in my opinion....
She can work
She can dress the way she want.....
But
If she couldnt hold her virginity for a life long lasting person.....she is a doubt at her maturity.....
As a boy....if i can wait and be a virgin till marriage....y dont i expect a girl to be that mature....🤷🤷
Well saif👍
Exactly
And then they say people judge them ......y not....
Yes sir u r right
Hats off to that girl ☺️
Agar ladka Shareef hai aur Shareef parivaar se hai to wo hamesha virgin girl se hi shaadi karna chahega.
It's India and we have different cities and different lifestyle as per city and profession for both boys and girls but when it's about arrange marriage then virginity of a girls will always be a factor.
U need to grow up both physically and mentally.
Good bro, well said, but fake feminists will never understand this.
@@SJ-lc4ip first have guts to comment from your real account, then come here to debate.
@@chitranshshrivas8752Dude, with ur pea sized brain and absurd mindset u live happily. This is my real account.
It's really shameful for any female to argue with a shitty person like u. Let me enlighten u a bit, testing virginity is one of the worst sign of patriarchal society, where women are treated as an object. A female as a teenager can loose it while playing, running or can never loose it even after having sexual intercourse. Male with dirty mindset check all these and define a girl's character depending upon this. A girl can loose it while growing up without having sex, or a girl might suffer with physical abuse with someone known or can be raped. Virginity is nothing which defines anyone's character. Most of the male marry a girl and they themselves have several relationship outside, they can leave her to suffer or can bully her in the name of virginity. Every human, every gender has equal right to live his/her life respectfully. At the end , it's the honesty, loyalty and respectfulness makes a marriage happy.
Bhai video bna kar dikhane se sudhar nhi hona, aaj log Valentine's day celebrate karte hai, lekin uske piche ki story nhi janate, mahan bhartiya shanskirit ko old samjh kar modern ban kar Western culture ko follow karne ka natija hai....
Aur bahan ji jo kewal ladko ko bura btati hai unke bap bhi ladke hote hai, bure dono hote hai, fark sanskaro ka hota hai, bhartiyta ko apnaye bahut samridh sanskriti hai yekin maniye........
Bro💯🙏🏻
Varun is ridiculous his thinking is cheap and whatever happened to him is his karma.
What you do comes back in different ways
Great content 👏
Thanks
The boy is absolutely wrong..Girls also should have their freedom 🤗
Right
@@Kaveriverma44633 absolutely yrr
@@satyam1223 Everyone has freedom to choose their life not only girls ,note it 😉
Dulha aur chulha 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes virginity is criteria for both male and female if u do that thing one and marry other how any body is expected that u don't do it in future
I don't support the man who say working is bad bothare equally important but
Simply copying all this from West is not good
First examine that is good or bad than inherit in your life
100 me se 70 ladke vergin hote h 100 mese 90 ladkiya Andaz se vergin il
If you don't understand point and you want to see only girls point of view then ok
70% ladke virgin hote hai??
Kisne bol diya bahi tujhe,ladke kam hote hai kya is mamle me 😂😂😂
@@digvijayrana7559 ladke 40 percent ladkiya 60 percent kyuki jyadatar ladko ko gf nhi milti aur jyadatar ladkiyo ko gf wale bande pasand aate h
A virginity is not just a state of body, it's the height of love. A sex is not just a physical connection of satisfying cheap desires. It's the height of love. A boy or a girl who is a virgin, wants not because to have the first sex but because she or he doesn't want to share his or her love with any other third person. A spouse is a person who cannot be shared with anyone. A mere thought of loosing your long loved spouse can give you bitter nightmares.
Don't let anyone to use ur body ,emotions and time whether boy or girl
Great...🙏🙏
Nice vedio, ye hamesha ka rule hai ki expectations sirf ladkon Ko hai, ladkiyon Ko kuch value nahi, unka expectations Ko bhi kuch value nahi
Ji ye video real story par base nhi madam ji
Acha ladki expectations nhi rakhti Kia? Rich husband bungalow ye saab expection nhi h Kia? To ladka virgin ladki expect karta h to galat Kia h USS m. Zadatar girls koi middle class admi se Shadi Karke uski struggle m uska sath nhi dena jathi. Choti height Vali ladki ko back height Vala ladka chaiye. And choti height and middle class vale ladke ko uhi reject kar deti h kiyu Bhai?
Karma comes back . 💯💯💯
This one is amazing. Sheeraf khandaan ka mtlb virginity nhi hota.
People with so called khandani background are also non virgins.
Arey virginity is even not a barometer for marriage. Trust, humanity kindness , understanding is. but this is a cruel world with bacterial thinking people.
A Very Good Social Message Indeed. Excellent direction, good casting, great acting, and realistic. From my corner in the USA I give this Short film a Thumbs up and Wish Aashayein Films Much Success - Well Done!!
Thank You Thank You so much. Your comment has made my day.
Aisi story aap laate kahan se hain,, bahut acchi lgi hume,,,
Iska mtlb tum virgin nhi ho
@@Dailylifestudentwork 😂 😂 nhi hogi
Aaj kal koi ladki virgin nhi hoti bhai ise liye
bar jaao maje karo Main bhi jab 20 ka
thaa main kuch galat kaam nhi karta thaa
phir mere dosto ne jeevan ke rahasya bataya Abhi poora maja karta hu.
Doston ke saath bhai.
career pe dhyaan do
pyaar mein kuch nhi rakha hai
maine ye nahi kaha
Means you are non-virgin
Yahan par toh dono ladka aur ladki hi galat hai ....yeh log lust ko love samajhte hai .....ye ladkiyan samajhti kyun nahin ki jo ladka unko shadi se pehle sex karne ke liye force kar rahin hai kya wo sach mein unko sachha pyar karta hai ???pyar mein understanding rehna chahiye .....bss jismon se moh nahin ....aur hum ladkiyon ko in ladkon se naa kehna sikhna chahiye ......akhir hum apne papa ki pariyan jo hai ...hummein shaadi se pehle ambituos hona aur career per focus karna hai sex life ke prati nahin 😊😊😊😊
Is there anyone who is expecting arrange marriage in future, like it then😉
A woman does not need ANYONEs "ALLOWANCE" to do anything, it doesn't matter where you are or what you believe in. Woman and man are the same, we are equal and no one needs an allowance from anyone
Shiv mil jayenge pr ab parvati milna mushkil hai😄
You must watch this one too
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Parvati shiv ke saath hi milti h
Gnga jsi pvitr nari jinko chia kya unki shiv k jse sr pe sjane ki okat h
Sahi kaha bhai 😀
The more eduated the girl, the more characteless.
I loved the girl's points, they were all true and very strong.
But I was just wondering..what if the guy had said that he never had a girlfriend before, and never had 'done that' before...what would the girl's response or ending points be?
They just want to say virginity is a trivial issue without giving another scenario where guy was virgin.
Interesting observation.
Na galti ladke ki h na girl ki yaha galti hai opinions ki Jo ki dono logo ke alag h bahut kuch aisi girls h Jo shadi ke bad apna pura time apni family and house ko deti h and bahut sai aise boys h Jo chate h ki after marriage unki wife money earn kare to dono ki expectations alag h aur dono ke raste bhi not suitable for each other.
Ab bat karte h verginity ki to bhaiya agar koi Insan vergin h to vo apna partner bhi vergin hi chahega ye Kon chahega ki humara partner already kisi ke sath intimate ho Chuka ho aur agar ko khud hi vergin nahi h to he or she would drop the expectations to have a vergin partner infact agar koi non vergin hoga to vo apko truth nahi batayega apne bare Mai many less chances. 😁😁😂😂😂
here i m living like shiv and hopes wife like parvati. same karma would give same result.lord siva is there to regulate karma.but here boys are shown mischievous nd girls innocent.sometimes situation is nt same
Virginity does not matter but afther shaddi both should be loyal for each other's...
Shaadi ke pehle kyu nahi....kya hum khudse loyal nahi reh sakte kya.....sabko pata hai shaadi hogi aage jake....sex bhi milega.......tb tk wait nahi kar sakte kya!!.....if u cant hold on that much...u dont even deserve one who can do that