To all singles watching may U be blessed with a hansom, trusting, hardworking, rich, kind, intelligent pampering good hearted partner with fear of God Amen 🙌🤲💟
Today l just want to thank God for the gift of life 🙏🙏 No complaints,No requests just thankful to be alive 🙏🙏,lf you're true fans of Mr Fredrick and Onyii Alex let us gather here 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Yep so true...been there, done that. Imagine my joy, yes joy when my ex husband presented me with divorce papers. The thought of living with a man I dubbed "know-ah" for the rest of my life was so frustrating I can't even begin to explain the hopeless, empty feelings I dealt with daily.
@@victoriadaniels4239😢 get out if you can hun, it doesn't get better. Not telling you what to do, but I lived that life once upon a time and it saddens me to hear another woman going through it 😢
Marriage is two people - waking up everyday, choosing each other and putting in the effort to make it work. It has to be two people - everytime. There might be times and seasons where one has to be stronger - but both parties must be present and involved. Kudos to the cast and crew! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is a beautiful story. Honestly it’s only someone who wants to change that will change. Many people won’t hear word no matter how loud you are, how much you cry, even when you speak out, when you give them a dose of their own they will still gaslight light you. I hope some will take a lesson from this story to look in the mirror and see how their behavior affects their loved ones.
I can totally relate…my husband disrespected for 5 years and never cared about how I felt, all I did was cry until I decided to give him a test of his own medicine for just 3 months and he almost got heart attack. He’s so scared of the woman I’ve become 😂😂😂
May God bless us with spouses who will always love and respect us, love is sweet when u find someone who truly loves ad values u, always marry your best friend someone u can play or joke with because marriage is not a prison 👌👌👌
This is a nice piece.a clear indication that children learn alot from their parents.Alot bad behaviors inherited and seen as normal.May God help us all..
If u are here for Leonard Frederick gather here let's celebrate him...The way he nails his role ehhh is just second to none..kudos to him and the rest of the cast and crew... everything is perfect... uchenna mbunabo movies or nothing ❣️❣️❣️❣️ thank you sir for this master piece
May everyone watching be blessed in Jesus name, may everything you touch turn to gold. May the faithful Lord meet you at the point of your needs. May you be blessed coming in and going out. May you be the first in your family lineage to break all generational curses. Wherever the devil has put a full stop, may God begin a new sentence❤❤❤ Love, from Swaziland 🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿
I really love this movie because it portrayed the truth. Many men in marriages want to be respected, but in reality, they don't do the same to their wives. Congrats to Fredrick and all the actors. You all did a good job. Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿 ❤
Wow, I have been there for real. Gaslight is so real. I thought it was me, I was told I am a drama queen and I was emotional. Then I was told I need to express my feelings and communicate. I thank God, I have recovered from the heart break and trauma. I have learned so much from my DV experience and I now can pray my ex husband would learn from it too. I am done with unhappiness and falsehood. Lord have mercy on all marriages, break the chains of any bondage and hurts. May there be understanding, respect, forgiveness and healing. Human love is NOT enough, agape love of Jesus rules in all relationships. In Jesus name. Amen
We need more movies like this. To educate ppl on how antagonising ppl can be. This is a true definition of a narcissist. They antagonise you then when you react they act like your the problem. Very educational movie so many mental health ppl in relationships. Not everyone that wears a suite is normal
Alex was a narcissistic maniac. I was happy that Amanda got feed up and started to give him a dose of the same treatment he dished out to her. Mr. Leonard truly understood the assignment. He gave a phenomenal performance. Love the soundtrack song. Great performances by the entire cast. Uchenna Mbunabo…Thanks for bringing us great movies❤🙏🏽
Now I did not want this movie to end. Soooo glad to see Frederick Leonard back on the screen. I loved him and Anthony Woode together in this movie! Two greats! Two other greats: Patience and Onyii. The chemistry between both couples was really good! I hope to see more of them together in one movie. Thanks for the upload!
Fred felt that their parents had a perfect marriage, taking his father as a role model not knowing it was all pretence, he never knew his mother suffered for them to live, thank God for his brother who opened his eyes.Chai women can suffer for the sake of their children mtweeee. Kudos to the producer of this movie. You're watching this movie and this happened to be your experience in life l pray that God Almighty will perfect all that concerns you and put smiles in your faces IJMN.
Best comment so far what people fail to realize is that children live what they learn so as parent we should be honest with our children and let them know doing wrong is not right even when the one that it is done to does not speak.
Narcissist always believed they're right no matter how you tried to tell or show them they're wrong. This movie is down to earth so many lessons to learn.
Fred's brother and the house help have so much chemistry...i need them as main characters or have bigger scenes next movies...would love to see more of them. When they were by his car talking n then lady said she will be spending the nite that scene was excellent.
UCHENNA, you have proven to us that stories are best told in movies because all can relate and lessons are learnt each time you decide to get to work, much love from GH
What i really enjoy about Mr Uchenna's productions is that he takes his time in telling the story...you get to feel the emotions through out the movie and that is how a movie should be...
Alex character depicts the behaviour of a typical African man who believes that a man is the head of the family no matter what, whether wrong or right he call shots without any questions. It gladdens my heart at last because Alex came to realise that he was walking on the wrong path Kudos to the cast and the whole crew.#Uchenna Mbunabo❤❤❤
Enjoyed the storyline. I was dreading from the first scene when Alex grabbed her neck that this would be a physical abuse storyline, I would not have been able to watch. Frederick acting is soo good in gaslighting of his wife and glad she gave him a taste of his own medicine. I loved the relationship between David and Onyi, it felt organic and genuine I was rooting for them. This movie was insightful in showing how your background plays an important role in your values and what is considered normal behaviour. Well done to the cast and crew for this production.
What a fantastic movie. I love the way Amanda gave him a taste of his own medicine. Alex finally felt what she was tolerating from him all this while. My hat is off to her 👍👍
I was watching a movie by the name of As We Are starring FREDERICK LEONARD, ONYII ALEX, PATIENCE UJAH, ANTHONY WOODE. Not knowing what to expect about it, seeing the twist on turns I had to pause several times with aw and what. Thank you to The Writers, The Producers, and The Directors, The Crews, The Actors and Actresses did fabulous job and applaud them for telling this fantastic and poignant story. to be told about a married couple and their relationship during this time between Alex and Amanda, and Amanda's feelings of unhappiness, being disrespected, talking down to as nothing and belittled. Be careful of who you look up to and everything that looks like gloss paint isn’t. Also, this life story of the past affects how the present is, Be aware of a partner and communication, understanding his childhood, and his life in general. Frederick Leonard plays the character Alex married to Amanda played by ONYII ALEX now sees Alex's character displaying narcissistic behaviour of a typical manipulative and controlling attitude towards her. I hope this movie shows you that allowing your partner to give up career and money is also a huge red flag in most cases, Be wise and alert. Never totally lose yourself and what brings you joy, happiness, and uplifting. False promotions bring false promises and false expectations through their lenses. Oyin the maid who looked up to them both social media started to see and felt a sense of shock and horror with disbelief . He believes that a man is the head of the home without any questions? Many people watching this amazing and beautiful movie would able to relate and say yes and yes they won’t hear a word no matter how you are telling him, it seems that you’re the issue when it's him all long, even when you speak out, whether how much you cry dem nuh see nothing wrong, only left individual feeling loss and dismay about their life and relationship. The day when you give them a dose of their own dam medicine bit by bit, dem a wonder what's wrong with you and complain to your parents, etc. In the end, Alex realised and acknowledged that he was wrong and was destroying his marriage on the wrong road losing the love of his life from what seen from a young child affected how happy marriage is supposed to be with your partner and to see in the mirror how their behaviour affects their world around them and loved ones extended families.
I wished the movie never ended 😢... Who ever this Uchenna Mbunabo is trust me you're blessing to the world at large cos ur movies are beyond classic. This is my best movie for this year 2023
These are the kind of roles perfect for Frederick Leonard 😂. I love him manipulative and abusive 🤣🤣. Just 10 minutes into this movie and I'm enjoying it to the fullest.
Guys u see what goes around comes around if u don’t want to be disrespected don’t disrespect ur wife or husband even anybody 😂😂😂😂😂 this movie is wow❤❤❤❤
Many marriages are like that, Fake smiles nd love on social media but at home is fire.. there’s no perfect marriage/relationship every one has a bad side.. Don’t let social media deceive u 😂😂😂😂I’m glad she made him realise his mistakes😂
As a woman, I can understand the feeling of pain Amanda was trying to portray. But when the experience is real, the woman's reactions might render her mentally. The ending is my favourite part it was beautifully done and left me feeling satisfied. 😊I'm glad I took the time to watch this movie
@@LovethArena Hey Bukky. Yes he is from Ghana 4 sure and I agree with you he is definitely way past good. Thanks for your reply Bukky. Your awesome. HAGN 😃
Very interesting movie. So many lessons learnt. This made me want to fall in love seriously😂. Thank you for not potraying the maid as that very naïve girl who needs a man to save her. She was decent and knew exactly what she wanted. I'm happy the wife stood her grounds. Shout out to all the strong ladies out there and to the very supportive gentlemen.
A partner who realizes his/her mistake then apologize and make adjustments is the ideal one in every relationship/marriage.... this movie is an awesome message translator... thank you so much for coming up with such idea @uchenbunnabo
Some of my fav artists in this Phenominal film, cast, directing, story and production! Frederick is an icon actor who always delivers brillant character interpretations on multilevels, this was no exception! Onyi is an amazing artist who totally delivered as the wife in character, it was well portrayed and she got through to her man! They get the couple navigating wahala in marriage award for sure, their assignment was to bring it all together and they did. Love the ending! Patient and Anthony get the onscreen chemistry award in this film because their characters were so into each other at first glance, both were outstanding in their portrayals as supporting artists from different walks! Every film I see Patient in her similaries to Erica Campbell of Mary Mary fame is uncanny in my opinion. Ona is such a great artist in her own right, well done role as the compassionate friend! Sunshine and Isoken played their roles well. Bravo Everyone! Loved the film! Just my opinion, but I’d like to see a part 2 (smile) with twins and marriage, ha! The clothes and music were amazing! Love it! Thanks for sharing your cinematic gifts internationally!
This movie was amazing, Freddie did his thing as usual. Onyii Alex always slays in everything she wears and her outfits are fire! This was a good portrayal of how our childhood and what we observe in our homes can affect our future relationships and marriages!
A man who truly love you will do everything possible to build his home if his home is falling apart. Glad he realized his mistakes and took full responsibility to be a better man plus husband ☺️☺️ Wonderful story and amazing casts and crew's 👏🏻👏🏻
Bravo to the producer of this movie. I have watched this movie over and over and learnt lessons from it. Film lord, you're simply the best. Any role you played so well.
I was in Amanda's soup for six years. I got married at age 24 to a narcissist and it was hell. On the seventh year, I got a job and decided not to mind him anymore and boooom, he couldn't take it. I'm divorced and better now. This movie really got me remembering those times in that hell. Thanks to the whole crew
Thanks to God that you managed to come out of it, praying 4 all those passing thru this that may God intervene in their situation sodat they can come out of it
In my candid opinion, any pain a man/husband gives to his woman/wife...he should get ready to get It In a thousand folds! You don't just expect her to remain like a stature without feelings!
My favorite actor here is the maid,she showed emotional intelligence.imagine her feeling everything her madam was going through.she didn't say but her reactions portrayed everything My next favorite was Frederick,like the way he act his role so effortless is amazing,he was mean in a funny way,i couldnt stop laughing anytime he disrespects her or gets disrespected😂😂
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Absolutely sir,a big thank u too for ur consistancy
Bring ray emody please
Thanks for uploading watching from Uganda 🇺🇬
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We have to cz you never disappoint us absolutely💛love from Kigali Rwanda 🇷🇼
To all singles watching may U be blessed with a hansom, trusting, hardworking, rich, kind, intelligent pampering good hearted partner with fear of God Amen 🙌🤲💟
Ameeeeeeen like a thunder
Amen ooo
Uchenna Mbunabo God bless u
Amen
Amen 🙏
No body is talking about Amanda's sense of fashion, so elegant and classic, nice lesson to learn by both couple ❤️🇺🇬🇺🇬
Today l just want to thank God for the gift of life 🙏🙏 No complaints,No requests just thankful to be alive 🙏🙏,lf you're true fans of Mr Fredrick and Onyii Alex let us gather here 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Amen and Amen 🙏🏽 ❤️
Amen
AMEN
I should also learn to be more thankful 🙏 🙌 God bless you
Amen 🙏
Mr Leonard really played a real definition of how my ex behaves,he doesn't see anything wrong with what he says or does...So interesting
Are we gonna pretend we didn't see how beautiful the maid is? She is a cutie. Very beautiful ❤️
I must tell, she's very very pretty
I was thinking the same thing!! She's a natural beauty
I really love the way she smile ❤❤❤❤❤
So pretty 😍
I love her she's a beauty ❤indeed
Can we take our time to admire the interior decorations of the house... It looks really beautiful
Aaah! I give it up to our Naija brothers. Real estate, interior decor 👌👌
For really so amazing 😍
Indeed so!
Why not
@@sheilaawuor929really amazing
A man who doesn't see anything wrong in what he's doing, will never change
I'm having the same issue
It's very painful living with such people under one roof
I'm having the same issue
It's very painful living with such people under one roof
@@victoriadaniels4239How long did you have to date before marriage 😢
Yep so true...been there, done that. Imagine my joy, yes joy when my ex husband presented me with divorce papers. The thought of living with a man I dubbed "know-ah" for the rest of my life was so frustrating I can't even begin to explain the hopeless, empty feelings I dealt with daily.
@@victoriadaniels4239😢 get out if you can hun, it doesn't get better. Not telling you what to do, but I lived that life once upon a time and it saddens me to hear another woman going through it 😢
The man who played as Alex, is an extremely good actor. This was such a well delivered movie. The lessons here are enormous.
No one is talking about how pretty the maid was and she is my favorite the fact that she brings peace in this family in some silent way
Yh l agree with you
Yeah not some maid uping to take a wounded woman's husband😊
Marriage is two people - waking up everyday, choosing each other and putting in the effort to make it work. It has to be two people - everytime. There might be times and seasons where one has to be stronger - but both parties must be present and involved.
Kudos to the cast and crew! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I gree with u
Truly
Indeed
True
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Those who come from TikTok let's gather here, l enjoyed every bit of the movie 🎥
Me ooh
From TikTok
From TikTok 😂😂😂 and I am here with you
Me oo 😂
Mee
Those from FB who came to see Frederick at it again gather here❤❤
😊
This is a beautiful story. Honestly it’s only someone who wants to change that will change. Many people won’t hear word no matter how loud you are, how much you cry, even when you speak out, when you give them a dose of their own they will still gaslight light you. I hope some will take a lesson from this story to look in the mirror and see how their behavior affects their loved ones.
I can totally relate…my husband disrespected for 5 years and never cared about how I felt, all I did was cry until I decided to give him a test of his own medicine for just 3 months and he almost got heart attack. He’s so scared of the woman I’ve become 😂😂😂
I love that give it him back to back 🤣🤣
Sisterhood are proud of you my dear sister ❤️ 😘
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤ yessss Queen !
I need this courage,
We are proud of you ❤❤sister
It hurt when you marry a man you love but his attitude turns you to become what you're not 😢😢
So painful 🥲
May God bless us with spouses who will always love and respect us, love is sweet when u find someone who truly loves ad values u, always marry your best friend someone u can play or joke with because marriage is not a prison 👌👌👌
Anthony Wood is quickly becoming one of my fav actors. Something sweet but simple about him.❤
You can say that again ❤
He's also good at acting.
Handsome too❤
Me too,his voice adds shine to his acting
He is so cute....I just want to do things with him😋😋
If you come across this comment. Receive Your Financial Breakthrough And Marital Stability In The Name Of Jesus Christ
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Ameen Ameen
Amen 🙏
Amen❤
If you love ONYII ALEX show her some love fans ❤❤ she's a beautiful one honestly and her charisma and onscreen grace are perfecto💯👍
♥️♥️♥️
This is a nice piece.a clear indication that children learn alot from their parents.Alot bad behaviors inherited and seen as normal.May God help us all..
If u are here for Leonard Frederick gather here let's celebrate him...The way he nails his role ehhh is just second to none..kudos to him and the rest of the cast and crew... everything is perfect... uchenna mbunabo movies or nothing ❣️❣️❣️❣️ thank you sir for this master piece
I'm here 🙌🙌💃💃
😂,😂😂😂😂
Am here 🙌🙌🙌🙌
🙌🏾🙌🏾👌🏾👌🏾💪🏽✊🏾🔥💯💖💖🏆🥇🌟👑🎩👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🎥🎥🎥✅✅🕊️🕊️🕊️
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I am here ✋️
I love this lady that played the role of a maid. She's always smiling in all her roles❤
Yes
Oh yeah.. Patience Ujah is underrated, the gal is good 👍
And she is cute too
May everyone watching be blessed in Jesus name, may everything you touch turn to gold. May the faithful Lord meet you at the point of your needs. May you be blessed coming in and going out. May you be the first in your family lineage to break all generational curses. Wherever the devil has put a full stop, may God begin a new sentence❤❤❤
Love, from Swaziland 🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿
Amen
Amen🙏
Amen and amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen
Whenever I see Fredrick what I see in is stubbornness 😂😂😂who agree with me 😂😂😂
I see the same like what ever he wants stands no adjustments no discussion it's final
He is so so rude and am sure he is like that in real life. Pride too full he body.
If ur here for Mr film lord Fredrick let's gather here guys ❤️ thank you so much Mr ucheanna mbunabo for one more banger movie 🔥🙏😘
My king Fred, why u taking these nasty abuse women roles?
Narrate movie ozour
He is the best actor.
@@monicahwambua6050 tell me about it
A real definition of African marriage and women will continue to pretend even though they're sad 😭😢 God strengthen women in marriage ❤
Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen....We need wisdom and patience...the grace of God..
Amen
Amen.🙏
The chemistry between the house help and Anthony , is flawless, ❤
I love it
This woman begs too much for this nonsense of a man msteeew
Is just so so❤❤
It's adorable 🥰
I’ve been searching for this comment ❤
I really love this movie because it portrayed the truth. Many men in marriages want to be respected, but in reality, they don't do the same to their wives. Congrats to Fredrick and all the actors. You all did a good job. Love from Tanzania 🇹🇿 ❤
Indeed
When i give you money you have to respect me I ow you no respect
Wow, I have been there for real. Gaslight is so real. I thought it was me, I was told I am a drama queen and I was emotional. Then I was told I need to express my feelings and communicate. I thank God, I have recovered from the heart break and trauma. I have learned so much from my DV experience and I now can pray my ex husband would learn from it too. I am done with unhappiness and falsehood. Lord have mercy on all marriages, break the chains of any bondage and hurts. May there be understanding, respect, forgiveness and healing. Human love is NOT enough, agape love of Jesus rules in all relationships. In Jesus name. Amen
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Our Parents have no idea how their decisions and indecisions affected us growing up into adulthood. I can currently relate and this is so real✅ Kudos
My dear I hate men who doesn't take care of their kids just like my father even if I haven't listened to other part of the story
Exactly
True
Just like the way, i wouldn't want to marry a man who already have kids 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️.
Exactly our parents family life affects when we grow up and we became bad partners
We need more movies like this. To educate ppl on how antagonising ppl can be. This is a true definition of a narcissist. They antagonise you then when you react they act like your the problem. Very educational movie so many mental health ppl in relationships. Not everyone that wears a suite is normal
"Not everyone that wears suit is ok".
Fact 😢
this is exactly how my ex acted. he would be so calm as he gaslit me over and over.
My experience exactly. They lure you in with niceness then They victimized you then say you are dramatic and playing victim
Not Everyone That Wears A Skirt Is Normal
Those who read comments before watching gather 😂😂
This guy who played the role of Fredrick's brother is also good at his acting skills. I really enjoyed this ❤
Ikr...❤❤
Anthony Woode
@@christianaabubakar2446 yeah
Anthony Woode our very own🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
But he mentioned his name as Daniel instead of David
Alex was a narcissistic maniac. I was happy that Amanda got feed up and started to give him a dose of the same treatment he dished out to her. Mr. Leonard truly understood the assignment. He gave a phenomenal performance. Love the soundtrack song. Great performances by the entire cast. Uchenna Mbunabo…Thanks for bringing us great movies❤🙏🏽
Hello. Glad you love the song. Title is 'THE WAY I WANT' by Michelle Chinonso. It's here on CZcams.
@@michellechinonso1 thank you so much
Now I did not want this movie to end. Soooo glad to see Frederick Leonard back on the screen. I loved him and Anthony Woode together in this movie! Two greats! Two other greats: Patience and Onyii. The chemistry between both couples was really good! I hope to see more of them together in one movie. Thanks for the upload!
We need more of such educative movies on our screens especially now that relationships and marriages are facing so much pressure ❤
Fred felt that their parents had a perfect marriage, taking his father as a role model not knowing it was all pretence, he never knew his mother suffered for them to live, thank God for his brother who opened his eyes.Chai women can suffer for the sake of their children mtweeee. Kudos to the producer of this movie. You're watching this movie and this happened to be your experience in life l pray that God Almighty will perfect all that concerns you and put smiles in your faces IJMN.
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Amina 🙏
@@tracymanengatkayumba31:07
@@ofraser7387 ???
Best comment so far what people fail to realize is that children live what they learn so as parent we should be honest with our children and let them know doing wrong is not right even when the one that it is done to does not speak.
Narcissist always believed they're right no matter how you tried to tell or show them they're wrong. This movie is down to earth so many lessons to learn.
So true
N snobby 😢
That is what you say but when a man is down you will treat him worst I pay the bills you do as I say
Narcissists are boring
I love Amanda’s fashion sense🤩 And I love to see more of David Alex’s brother he's so good🤩 Onyi the maid is pretty 😍
Anthony and the maid were really good in this movie,,, their chemistry was so real and I felt butterflies ❤❤❤
Me too , I love their part in this movie😅❤❤❤
Fred's brother and the house help have so much chemistry...i need them as main characters or have bigger scenes next movies...would love to see more of them. When they were by his car talking n then lady said she will be spending the nite that scene was excellent.
They are great actually ❤
Exactly they look good together
They look good together in this movie ❤❤
UCHENNA, you have proven to us that stories are best told in movies because all can relate and lessons are learnt each time you decide to get to work, much love from GH
The maid is an excellent actress! She killed every act 👏
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And super gorgeous too♥️💕
She is good
and very pretty too
You haven't talked about her Beauty. She's a goddess
I love the part where Amanda started disrespecting her husband😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I died laughing
not you only i died laughing well done for him😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Neva husband disrespect there wife😤
What i really enjoy about Mr Uchenna's productions is that he takes his time in telling the story...you get to feel the emotions through out the movie and that is how a movie should be...
He's simply the best 👍
Exactly
Honestly. He deserves his crown
True
This is true ☺😊
David and Onyi the maid got me glued to the movie😍. Anthony Woods was my favorite character, going to search for his movies💃💃❤️
Anthony woode is A great Actor he should be appreciated and we want him to see more lots of love from Ethiopia
Frederick is unpredictable because you can't determine what he will do after being a romantic and sweet for a moment 😂😂😂
A very funny person 😂😂😂😂
Alex character depicts the behaviour of a typical African man who believes that a man is the head of the family no matter what, whether wrong or right he call shots without any questions. It gladdens my heart at last because Alex came to realise that he was walking on the wrong path Kudos to the cast and the whole crew.#Uchenna Mbunabo❤❤❤
Such men have a saying which says I am the man in this Family ,in case of any mistake remember I am the man
As Alex insulted his wife about her face, what if she insulted ur beard or ur clothes etc. What would that do to his self esteem. 😢
You're right my dear
@@ohgodarise2585God bless you
But is a man not the head of the family?
The head of course calls the shot with the woman's contributions, considerations and input in mind.
If you have a husband that respects you, you don't know what God has done for you. May God bless my hubby and all the good husbands out there 🙏 🙌 ❤️
Hmmmm my experience 😭😭
Even beating on top
@cheflyndra Sending you hugs dear. Hope he has changed?
@@cheflyndraso sorry about that
Guess you are good now
Sending ❤to you dear sister
This is also a lesson to those tapping into peoples marriage as if they are palm wine tappers,without knowing what’s goes on indoors
Tappers association 😊
Na so my sister 🤣
Yes oo,I use 2 envy my friend until I saw wat her husband is doing her,sometime I even compare my marriage wit her
@@preciousshee8166every marriage have their own up and down, but some will only show you what they want you to see……
I'm massaging your comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Patience Ujah fans let's gather here..shes damn beautiful ❤
More beautiful indeed. She must also be given the roles of princesses or happily married women of high social profiles.❤❤🎉🎉🇿🇦🇿🇦
Enjoyed the storyline. I was dreading from the first scene when Alex grabbed her neck that this would be a physical abuse storyline, I would not have been able to watch. Frederick acting is soo good in gaslighting of his wife and glad she gave him a taste of his own medicine. I loved the relationship between David and Onyi, it felt organic and genuine I was rooting for them. This movie was insightful in showing how your background plays an important role in your values and what is considered normal behaviour. Well done to the cast and crew for this production.
Fred removing onyi’s wig was a whole mood 😂. Couldn’t stop myself from laughing 😂😂😂😂.
I swear 😂 I laugh out loud 😅
😂😂😂
😂, 😂😂
😂😂😂 my landlord almost threw me out 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Frederick is a born actor. He never disappoints! Another master piece full of lesson 🎥
Her comebacks were awesome, great acting on both parts and his apology ❤
What a fantastic movie. I love the way Amanda gave him a taste of his own medicine. Alex finally felt what she was tolerating from him all this while. My hat is off to her 👍👍
I was watching a movie by the name of As We Are starring FREDERICK LEONARD, ONYII ALEX, PATIENCE UJAH, ANTHONY WOODE. Not knowing what to expect about it, seeing the twist on turns I had to pause several times with aw and what. Thank you to The Writers, The Producers, and The Directors, The Crews, The Actors and Actresses did fabulous job and applaud them for telling this fantastic and poignant story. to be told about a married couple and their relationship during this time between Alex and Amanda, and Amanda's feelings of unhappiness, being disrespected, talking down to as nothing and belittled. Be careful of who you look up to and everything that looks like gloss paint isn’t. Also, this life story of the past affects how the present is, Be aware of a partner and communication, understanding his childhood, and his life in general. Frederick Leonard plays the character Alex married to Amanda played by ONYII ALEX now sees Alex's character displaying narcissistic behaviour of a typical manipulative and controlling attitude towards her. I hope this movie shows you that allowing your partner to give up career and money is also a huge red flag in most cases, Be wise and alert. Never totally lose yourself and what brings you joy, happiness, and uplifting. False promotions bring false promises and false expectations through their lenses. Oyin the maid who looked up to them both social media started to see and felt a sense of shock and horror with disbelief .
He believes that a man is the head of the home without any questions? Many people watching this amazing and beautiful movie would able to relate and say yes and yes they won’t hear a word no matter how you are telling him, it seems that you’re the issue when it's him all long, even when you speak out, whether how much you cry dem nuh see nothing wrong, only left individual feeling loss and dismay about their life and relationship. The day when you give them a dose of their own dam medicine bit by bit, dem a wonder what's wrong with you and complain to your parents, etc. In the end, Alex realised and acknowledged that he was wrong and was destroying his marriage on the wrong road losing the love of his life from what seen from a young child affected how happy marriage is supposed to be with your partner and to see in the mirror how their behaviour affects their world around them and loved ones extended families.
I'll come back to read😂😂😂. This long
@@nomvelisomabovu5555Loool was abt to say awwww seems to be writing something meaningful but who gonn read alla that
This doesn't make sense 😂😂😂😂
I will come back for this note please notify me to remember
@@princessekanem2473😂😂😂😂😂
I'm watching this movie right now with tears in my eyes. Literally story of my life. Lessons learnt. Much love to Anthony Woode
My love to you dear.
It’s well
Sending hugs🥹🥹😇🙏🕯️Hope you are at a better place now
Onyi is so pretty, I just love her smile and how she kept blushing and giggling 😄
She's really a natural
This was a good watch. I loved how the wife served him a dose of his own medicine. The cast was phenomenal!!!🎉
♥️♥️
U go like violence 😂
@@stariojoe Is not a matter of liking violence but it's a matter of not supporting what is wrong and be able to speak up sometimes
A painkiller is 4500 in Nigeria?
ABSOLUTLY ,
Who else is here for ANTHONY WOODS he is becoming ONE to watch❤❤❤
It's Anthony Nwoode. It's a Ghanaian name.
Am here
@@realebonyqueen7485 it’s Woode.
Woode
Anthony woods is answering 2 names in this movie David and Daniel 😂
I wished the movie never ended 😢... Who ever this Uchenna Mbunabo is trust me you're blessing to the world at large cos ur movies are beyond classic. This is my best movie for this year 2023
The security guard is so composed with etiquette unlike how they're usually portrayed most of the times in movies
Actually the best actors are always gate men in Nigerian movies 😂
Fredrick has left me in stitches...he doesn't see anything wrong in what he does😂
He believes he is a man and they are all right😢
Please its😢Alex ooooo, Frederick is a different person.
was feeling sick all the time
Even tho he is being a twit. I'm cracking up 😂😂😂
@@sharonharding8797 He played his role well
These are the kind of roles perfect for Frederick Leonard 😂. I love him manipulative and abusive 🤣🤣. Just 10 minutes into this movie and I'm enjoying it to the fullest.
My toxic trait too 😭😭😭😂😂😂
I had the same issue... am now free soul
😂😂😂😂 I don’t finish my words 😂😂😂😂 Frederick is not easy
@@aminainnocentnacy3536 😂😂I was like, Frederick don't kill her.
The first 10mins had me in stitches 😂😂😂😂😂
I love onyi
Her sense of fashion is always top notch
Love from Kenya
Guys u see what goes around comes around if u don’t want to be disrespected don’t disrespect ur wife or husband even anybody 😂😂😂😂😂 this movie is wow❤❤❤❤
Many marriages are like that, Fake smiles nd love on social media but at home is fire.. there’s no perfect marriage/relationship every one has a bad side.. Don’t let social media deceive u 😂😂😂😂I’m glad she made him realise his mistakes😂
The dose for Alex was super awesome 😂😂😂Amanda the sisterhood community is proud of you💃💃💃much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪
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We are really proud of her 😂😂😂😂 over dose
This Leonard guy is something, he is such a phenomenal actor. The writers / producers, know the right characters.
Exactly!
He is the best , that's why he is called in Nollywood the film lord..he express different emotions and characters.
Yes 💯
All Men should watch this movie.
Our mothers endured
But this generation don’t see pain as peace. But we speak out.
Yes my hubby needs it but he won't even watch it,he will say it's rubbish I am the man.Jobless me just taking all
@@oluwabunmiadetola1895it's well 💖
@@oluwabunmiadetola1895😂😂😂
@@oluwabunmiadetola1895African men need manners.
@@oluwabunmiadetola1895chaaii babe please be strong and all in all find something doing
I loved this movie with Freddie and cast. I loved the marriage with just Freddie and the wife and no sidechicks or ex's! ❤❤❤❤
As a woman, I can understand the feeling of pain Amanda was trying to portray. But when the experience is real, the woman's reactions might render her mentally. The ending is my favourite part it was beautifully done and left me feeling satisfied. 😊I'm glad I took the time to watch this movie
For this comment, i can now watch to the end, I was about to give up because I was really getting angry
Same here, took me 2 days… was worth it.
@@happydays7025same here
I thought the husband was a narcissist, narcissists never take accountability and see their wrongs
Sure a nice movie❤
Frederick is killing me here every time turning his wife down,,if this is the kind of marriage NO I better remain single with peace 😂😂😂😂
Me too
I don't like stress in my life 😂
ANTHONY WOODE fans gather here for the fastest rising Ghanaian Star ⭐currently doing ACE in Nollywood and becoming Ghana's very own son.
Wow
Didn't know he's a Ghana
He's super good too
@@LovethArena Hey Bukky. Yes he is from Ghana 4 sure and I agree with you he is definitely way past good. Thanks for your reply Bukky. Your awesome. HAGN 😃
❤❤ Much respect ANTHONY! ❤❤
@@PatriciaLevein-kd2hg Absolutely Ms. Pat. Nuff Respect too Ant. Talented actor. HAGN. Thanks for your reply Sis.😃❤
@@LovethArenahe’s a Ghanaian not Ghana
Very interesting movie. So many lessons learnt. This made me want to fall in love seriously😂.
Thank you for not potraying the maid as that very naïve girl who needs a man to save her. She was decent and knew exactly what she wanted.
I'm happy the wife stood her grounds.
Shout out to all the strong ladies out there and to the very supportive gentlemen.
Who agrees Ms. Patience ❤ Ujah is a very beautiful lady and a really relatable, capable actress❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤
You are a beauty yourself 😘
@@patience_ujah Aww ... Ms. Patience you're amazing. ❤🐞🐞❤
I love Her with my full chest❤❤❤
@@patience_ujah Love you from Uganda ❤❤❤
A partner who realizes his/her mistake then apologize and make adjustments is the ideal one in every relationship/marriage.... this movie is an awesome message translator... thank you so much for coming up with such idea @uchenbunnabo
Some of my fav artists in this Phenominal film, cast, directing, story and production! Frederick is an icon actor who always delivers brillant character interpretations on multilevels, this was no exception! Onyi is an amazing artist who totally delivered as the wife in character, it was well portrayed and she got through to her man! They get the couple navigating wahala in marriage award for sure, their assignment was to bring it all together and they did. Love the ending! Patient and Anthony get the onscreen chemistry award in this film because their characters were so into each other at first glance, both were outstanding in their portrayals as supporting artists from different walks! Every film I see Patient in her similaries to Erica Campbell of Mary Mary fame is uncanny in my opinion. Ona is such a great artist in her own right, well done role as the compassionate friend! Sunshine and Isoken played their roles well. Bravo Everyone! Loved the film! Just my opinion, but I’d like to see a part 2 (smile) with twins and marriage, ha! The clothes and music were amazing! Love it! Thanks for sharing your cinematic gifts internationally!
The only thing wrong with this movie is that it ended 😢.. this is an amazing masterpiece , Weldon Leonard. Gud job Oyin Alex ❤
😂😂😂😂seriously
😂😂😂same here really
Who else loved the way the house help acted❤❤
I did love ❤❤❤
She really acts very well
This movie was amazing, Freddie did his thing as usual. Onyii Alex always slays in everything she wears and her outfits are fire! This was a good portrayal of how our childhood and what we observe in our homes can affect our future relationships and marriages!
A man who truly love you will do everything possible to build his home if his home is falling apart.
Glad he realized his mistakes and took full responsibility to be a better man plus husband ☺️☺️
Wonderful story and amazing casts and crew's 👏🏻👏🏻
All fans of the film Lord FEDERICK LEONARD gather here for our handsome icon 💯 who's talent is second to none ❤❤
Fredrick Leonard the absolute best of the rest most handsome actor ❤film lord himself
Please don't close the door I'm coming 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️😂😂😂❤❤❤
Thank you that is how now our Fred always the best ❤❤❤watch this nice movie of my favorite actor wow like this people from South Africa 🇿🇦👌🙏
I'm here representing the land of hospitality 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 ... Please let as welcome our very own bro ... Anthony woode.Akwaba bro
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@@adwoaa7419 😘😘😘
Akwaaba our darling boy ❤❤❤
Bravo to the producer of this movie. I have watched this movie over and over and learnt lessons from it. Film lord, you're simply the best. Any role you played so well.
I was in Amanda's soup for six years. I got married at age 24 to a narcissist and it was hell. On the seventh year, I got a job and decided not to mind him anymore and boooom, he couldn't take it. I'm divorced and better now. This movie really got me remembering those times in that hell. Thanks to the whole crew
Thanks to God that you managed to come out of it, praying 4 all those passing thru this that may God intervene in their situation sodat they can come out of it
Same here
So sorry for that. May God send you a better man
Same here, I left him after 8yrs
Really??????
This maid is just too cute when she smiles ❤❤❤❤
Amanda's friend ejiro, she is absolutely amazing 👏 she killed her character, excellent cast, and storyline 👏
The ambassador for harmattan got me 😂😂😂😂😂
the way Alex is calling Amanda that Madam😂😂this guy is really true definition of African man😂😂
That part got me rolling😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This part was my reason Coming to the comment section 🤣🤣🤣
The way fred removed the wig got me rolling 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
Stopitttt😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
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The gal become someone else😅😅😅😅😅😅 couldn't recognize her
And makeup
In my candid opinion, any pain a man/husband gives to his woman/wife...he should get ready to get It In a thousand folds! You don't just expect her to remain like a stature without feelings!
My favorite actor here is the maid,she showed emotional intelligence.imagine her feeling everything her madam was going through.she didn't say but her reactions portrayed everything
My next favorite was Frederick,like the way he act his role so effortless is amazing,he was mean in a funny way,i couldnt stop laughing anytime he disrespects her or gets disrespected😂😂
Emotional abuse
Physical Abuse are real.
Beautiful story line with real life issue!!! Bravooo to all the cast and crew ❤
I’m here for our brother Anthony Woode ❤❤❤ kudus to the cast
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Thank you Onyi Alex for giving it back to him like a bomb. The anniversary scene was just too cool
The bomb from Onyi Alex🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Seriously I love exactly what's happening at the supermarket so that him will feel the same pain 😂😂