Eighth Grade - Truth or Dare Scene (1080p)
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The Disgusting Scene of Kayla (Elsie Fisher) play Truth or Dare with Olivia's friend in his car scene from the comedy-drama film called "EIGHTH GRADE" Directed by Bo Burnham
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The saddest part is that she knew that what was going on wasn't okay, but she didn't know how to properly stand up for herself. When he touched her shirt, she let out a strong, firm "NO!" which was perfect but then she felt like she was being too mean and immediately backed down and said "Sorry..." which is definitely what most young girls would do and it's heartbreaking.
Well said
i get your point , but im twelve and any girl would back hand him if shewere smart.
i agree i'm in Grade 9 and knowing how this could happen terrifies me since i'm a very shy and quiet person i wouldn't know what to do.
@@TeranHines Same! I live in Ghana, and I'm going to Form 1(aka eighth grade for you guys) in September. I KNOW for a FACT that every single girl my age I know would have smacked him well and good right over the head if he did that, and we're all 11 and 12 years old. We don't tolerate that kind of thing here.
@Galaxy MEow or they should teach their kids not to take advantage of insecure girls 4 years younger than them
Bo Burnham's own thoughts on this scene: "I wanted to portray a moment that, when described after the fact, doesn’t sound like a big deal but actually is when you sit there and experience it with her … That scene takes a turn where her anxieties can’t just be dismissed by an adult as: ‘Oh, you’re in eighth grade. Nothing’s really happening to you.’ Significant things happen that can really traumatize kids.”
When she says "please don't tell Olivia about this" it's heartbreaking, because I think she understands she did nothing wrong, but she doesn't want to risk her new (and probably first) friendship because of this piece of shit.
Also, I saw it as maybe she was scared that she thought it was her fault and didn't want Olivia to think she led one of her friends on.
Something that is especially interesting to me about this scene is the amount of control Riley has at all times. Besides him being older and stronger, he controls nearly aspect of the scene. He controls whether Kayla gets home, among other things. He constantly manipulates the game so that he is the one choosing the dares. He changes the dare that Kayla initially gives him. She initially picks truth, but he changes it to dare. It probably seemed to her that she didn't have a choice in what was happening until she shouted 'no'. She immediately backtracked, realizing he also controlled what the rest of his friend group thought of her afterwards. That's why she asks him to not tell Olivia.
That “ NO” and “ sorry” right after is just it.
God it’s spot on. The fucking apologize is so unreal
Such an unbelievably realistic scene. I wasn’t the usual movie thing were a guy just jumps at it. It was extremely real. The fake humor so as to make it seem like they won’t do anything wrong, Kayla’s need to not appear uncool and then the mentality of blaming herself for it rather than the guy. Holy shit
It’s crazy how similar it is to my situation
I mean to be honest, blaming the guy in these situation could have been more dangerous
I hate to be "that guy" but this scene resurfaced a couple of really bad memories I repressed in middle school. Being young and impressionable, trying to find acceptance in older kids, an older boy trying to convince me to do something like that, the guilt I felt at the time, the feeling like I couldn't tell anyone, it causes me to shake just thinking about this scene. It was so meaningful to see something like that in a movie without watering it down for comfort's sake. It wholly validates the things young people, especially young girls, have had to experience and it's terrifying.
This scene is so important to me. I watched this movie last night and as this scene played out I found myself starting to shake and feel sick. I felt just as terrified and uncomfortable as Kayla did. When she got home and started breaking down in her room I was right there with her and starting sobbing. Major props to the actors, Daniel Zolghadri wonderfully played the creepy and menacing intent he has even before he gets in the backseat and Elsie Fisher perfectly did the switch Kayla has between the comfort and excitement with Olivia to the nervousness, discomfort, and fear with Riley.
I felt so sickened by this scene and started crying. No other movie was so accurate in portraying how I felt at 14. It was with a guy that looked and sounded exactly like the actor in which I felt very uncomfortable, as the only thing that stopped it from going further was that his ride was here. I wanted to throw up. I can't stress how important your consent MATTERS as I half-assed an "okay" because I was scared, impressionable, and thought that was how it worked. If you are uncomfortable in a situation, SAY SO and be ASSERTIVE, and likewise don't be manipulating people into anything, make sure they're COMPLETELY okay with it.
I keep thinking, "She did such a good job, this is so realistic" and then I remember that I'm speaking of experiences from when I was her age. She's no doubt at least pulling from similar fears and anxieties. What a remarkably strong young woman.
this movie is so well written. i think it’s really dope how in the mall they were talking about perverts and this guy laughed, which prompted Aniyah to scold him for that. at first I’m like girl calm down, and then I get to this scene and I’m like okay maybe she was onto something
this scene scared and still scares the shit out of me. it’s a type of violation and manipulation that is never shown seriously in movies or tv shows
I cried so hard at this scene cause I had the impression I was her and got so anxious and stressed I could'nt breathe. I never felt more relieved when it ended
The lighting in this scene adds a such a sinister element to the boy. It's beautifully done.
Love this movie. So much real life drama. I love how this grown up problem and real threat is seemlessly mixed in with all the middle school drama. That feels very real to me for that time of my life. Everything at that time feels so weighty, that it becomes difficult to pick out real problems from day-to-day anxieties.
This scene is scarier than any horror film I've ever seen.
The manipulation in this scene is too much. The first time I watched this scene, I was so uncomfortable. It’s so realistic.
As much as I hate to admit it, this is extremely realistic.
Was anyone else scared he was gonna take advantage of her. Also isn’t he like 18 ew.
I haven't seen many horror films that creep and stress me out as much as this scene
A situation very similar to this happened to me when I was younger. Only it happened twice, it came from someone who was the same age as me and the person who did it was demanding rather than manipulative. But it was the same feeling and the same implied rape attempt through telling someone to remove an item of clothing. And thankfully I did tell people about it (That person did receive some kind of punishment as a result, I think he had to move classrooms), but I'm grateful that a movie finally did represent what it was like.
I know she’s fictional but I’m so incredibly proud that she was able to stand up for herself and say no even if it was timid even if she was scared i wish I would’ve been more like her
I wish younger me had seeen this and understood that I don’t owe anybody anything, I think that would have saved me from alot of situation where I got manipulated. :(
This is such a powerful and convincing scene. You know acting is good when you genuinely start to get anxious and angry for her
being a girl is knowing what was gonna happen as soon as she told her dad she’d get a ride
Both of them are very talented and the girl deserves a lot of praise for her acting but the boy also did an outstanding job In my opinion
props to both of them!! they’re amazing actors and this scene gave me literal chills
This movie is so impotent to anyone kayla’s age it’s so realistic and gives a really strong message about standing up
The scene is so realistic and sad at the same time, but both of them acted so well.
ugh i remember this scene was so awkward to watch especially since my mum was watching it with me lol but they a such great actors
Honestly I just wanna give kayla and big hug after this scene :')
I just kept saying to myself "Get outta there Kayla!"
If it’s uncomfy to watch you know they did a good job
Just watched this movie. This scene was brilliant bc it's all too true how she grapples with her hormones but doesn't know what to do with them yet exactly, but she knows she's afraid yet values acceptance. Brilliant portrayal of the emotional confusion, fear, and turbulence that highlights being a young teenager. Her scene with her dad was both heartbreaking and heartwarming.
I feel like id react the same way as her. I can picture myself in her position
Time to get social skills and some martial arts classes then honey
@@ClivonBarris How would you react then?
@@Someone-lf2si kid, im literally a 90kg Grown man, asking this don't make sense
@@ClivonBarris I didn’t ask for your weight my guy
@@ClivonBarris wowww you sure are a gross human being!!
Outstanding actress
This is the most uncomfortable I've felt watching a film in years
I like how the guy is always in the shadows
Ugh this scene makes my skin crawl
hello, i am here. i feel uncomfortable at this moment why couldn’t he just take here home?? TAKE HER HOME DUDE!! okay thanks, back to the movie. 🍿
This dude was fuckin creeeeepy and this was weird to watch. Great acting and filmmaking.
Shes so good at acting she atchully sounds awkward
I can’t watch this again but I wanted to see what people had to say about it in the comments. This whole thing really frustrated me because it reminds me of a past relationship. No words can describe how much this pisses me off
I feel like this scene needs to be talked about more! This young girl told him no and he did not back off, and instead shamed her! AFAB people are shown from as young as an age as possible that men can do whatever the hell they want to you, and nothing will happen to them because they have a penis! THAT IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT!! I had my first kiss at 17 with a 25 year old man who told me he was also 17, nothing happened because it was his word against mine and I was "close enough to 18". This issue is something that more people need to talk about no matter how uncomfortable it is because its wrong, and those women will grow up with deep set trauma that can never be healed, so this vicious cycle continues. Yet society continues to make it the woman's fault so that men don't receive punishment. This is something i wish more people focused on in this movie, it shows the fear and anxiety that women feel in these situations regardless of their age, that fear of being raped or killed never goes away, and when women get confidence back the world as a way of shutting it down again by having another situation occur. This is what being a teen girl is now days, learning that the world is not safe and to only be in fear.
This made me so uncomfortable
i couldn’t look at any men out in public without thinking about this and it still makes me feel physically sick.
Remember ladies. Say one thing about him and he’ll turn into an insecure little boy. Y’all know what that is. Don’t let him switch it
She deserved an oscar nom for this.
i was planning on watching this the night before my first day of eighth grade (tonight) but a *tornado flash flood hurricane* came so i guess tomorrow after the first day! (hopefully i won’t scare myself off)
My dude got gaslighted..
Wow it’s crazy how well this portrays being a young teenager, especially as a girl
Gah. I feel so bad. This is why I like to bring a pocket knife around.
If god was still alive then why would he put this in my recommended
am i the only one who wanted her to tell olivia?🤷🏻♀️
Kristen M Nope. But she felt too ashamed to want anyone to know
This makes me angry y
He is so creepy...he acts like a regular serb dude.
1:14
CRINGE!!!!
this is the scene everyone freaked out about and called disturbing ...??? lmaooo i’ve seen worse on law and order
This scene is so disturbing but I need to praise two young actor and actress here. They killed this scene, it was so realistic.
No
@@autismos7057 Yes.
The way she keeps apologizing to this creeper is so heartbreaking.
She’s a really great actress. Seriously she sounds hella uncomfortable.
for a young actor to i mean thats good
She probably was
Unicorn Frenzy I doubt it was acting boludo
TROLL KING she’s playing herself in the movie basically
She most likely actually was
The way he starts blaming her. Crazy as fuck. And the scene after where she’s walking to her house the director wanted it to feel scary and it did.
Bo burn ham is the director...but yes he did
This is a very good example of manipulation and grooming on the guy's end. "That's stupid yeah I'm being stupid" (self-pity) "I was trying to help you" "Now you're gonna end up with some guy at a party and he's gonna tell all his friends, you want that?" "This was about you, I was trying to help you" (convincing her that he knows better) "You think I'm comfortable like this?" (even though he's the one that took his shirt off. He's making it seem like it was her fault)
He obviously knew what he was doing and what he was trying to do. Major props to the actor and the writers on this one
It was really good writing. So hard to watch. Poor Kayla.
What's weird is that first time around I did partially believe him. I still saw him as a predator but I thought that maybe he didn't actually understand that what he was doing was wrong. But that's obviously not the case or the point.
Hopingover Leavesinfall me too!! his character was also portrayed as the “outcast” in the friend group kind of.
@@lefttrixx I know, but that's what allowed him to seem unassuming to Kayla and his friends by extension. I would have liked to have seen Olivia's reaction to this.
So all the toxic signs
The way this scene was shot and edited is SO well done. No music, not a ton of cuts, very close angles. We're IN the car with Kayla.
Broken Color Media Directed by Bo Burnham ☺️
And him! C'mon we all hate his character, but c'mon he was such a good actor!
@@RareCandeh praise the editor, dp, and screenwriter too
I also like how his face was kept in relative darkness, it really helps sell the uncomfortablness of the moment
@@ralphmasucci9005 he wrote the script too, but yeah I see what you mean.
It's easy to praise the actress here, and she is damn good. But don't discount that actor. Wow... creepy. Well done.
Dan Williams nah that actor ain’t shit tbh
@@dexter2178 you're just saying that because he played an almost rapist.
TROLL KING umm can I just say ITS A MOVIE!yes stuff like this happens in real life but this scene is not real thank goodness. He is a talented actor ok.
@@joeking6972 yeah, a lot of male actors wouldn't want to do this, because it would make them too uncomfortable
the moment her friend left her in the car alone with him i knew something bad was gonna happen ughh
same, i was like heck no i dont trust this dude he's gonna be a creep. i was so scared for kayla the whole time.
off topic i love your lennon pfp 💀
Women who grew up with warnings from their mother how the world is for us know that it was a potential dangerous situation
@@yonicepaprika7534 yup
Every time she apologizes I want to scream at the screen.
This scene had me scared. Scared me more than any scene in Hereditary damn. The realness in the anxiety and cringeness in this film was just amazing.
Nah! This scene is nothing compared to how terrifying Charlie’s death was... Toni Collette’s wails and screams have left a scar on my soul ever since my first initial viewing!
@@aaronshouting588 FR
This is heartbreaking. Apologizing because she doesn't want to loose a shred of acceptance but still so uncomfortable. I hope a lot of kids see this movie.
I got to see it as it came out right before I went into 8th grade, but unfortunately not that many kids got to see it because it was rated R. Kinda crazy that a lot of 8th graders couldn't see a movie about themselves.
Honestly, out of all the scenes in the movie, this one impacted me the most. Its both uncomfortable and heartwreching.
@@santana-dr7hp You should watch Kes (1969) and Welcome To The Dollhouse (1996), both have themes of anxiety and social commentary like this film. 👍👍
@@Seasonal-Shadow_4674 Yeah but remember she's supposed to be 13, and in s situation like this as an insecure eighth grader trying to find acceptance you're most likely gonna feel as if it was your fault this happened and like you owed it to him also the way he says things making her feel bad about herself even tho she's the victim is another conttibuter, she also asked him not to tell Olivia about what had happened implying she believed it was her fault
@@Seasonal-Shadow_4674 This is a common mentality for most Sa victims
This scene is so important.
omg i love your pfp
Shockwave Sucks - it’s album art from a king krule album lmfao
@@andrea-fj6tt are you though? are you really laughing your ass off from the fact that this person's profile picture happens to be art from an album you like? is it really that funny?
Inkypencil yes
@@Inkypencil22 why do you care sm? why do you feel the need to come and make an unnecessary remark under someone else's comment. Welcome to the internet where people exaggerate their feelings just for fun
“I’m doing it for you” he’s trying to convince himself as much as her, that’s why they get so annoyed when you cry, or say sorry, because until then they can still delude themselves that they’re a good guy.
I'm so glad Bo included this scene, it's important for young people to know about this kind of manipulation. Guys and girls both do this! They say they're trying to help you by sexually harrassing you, and then get mad when you're not into it. It's unacceptable
as someone who has been a teenage girl this hits way too close to home. its genuinely very impressive that an adult man wrote the intricaciesof the experience of young girls so well, especially considering the society we live in.
The magic of giving a shit, doing research and talking to the demographic you're trying to portray. Sia could learn from it lmao
@@greentaigo2552 lol why sia?
@@Tozzie50 Her movie Music was an incredibly offensive portrayal of autistic people and Sia has been awfully open about the fact that she's barely worked with autistic people because she "found it too difficult" (in which case maybe you shouldn't make the movie but hey).
@@greentaigo2552 thats so cringe 💀what an inflated ego will do to a person will never not astound me
@@Tozzie50 she misrepresented autistic people in her film Music the one with maddie ziegler
I was soooooooooooo mad watching this. She was a victim yet she was manipulated into feeling bad and actually apologizing to a predator! The sad thing is that things like this do happen in real life. One of the abused gymnasts said she apologized to Nassar because she reported him to another coach (but they buried it) and he blamed her for getting him into troubles even though he had only wanted to help
madisoned She knew everything he was saying was wrong and that it wasn’t all her fault, she was just going along with it to make him feel less angry.
@@Seasonal-Shadow_4674 she was probably scared to report it
younger girls need to watch and learn they dont owe anybody anything
Olivia :3 Drug money
Not just girls everyone
Anybody else feel angry during this scene?
I was scared tbh
Not really why?
She honestly reminds me of my younger niece in middle school, so it kind of makes you wish you could step in and help her escape from the situation but you gotta just sit there and watch it unfold.
Who wouldn’t
Do you think she did the right thing?
The acting here is phenomenal.
They should show this in school
They showed this in my ELA class XD
I agree.
Hell no. I have never felt so uncomfortable watching a movie....and I’ve watched I spit on your Grave, human Centipede, and A Serbian Film
They showed it in my health class most uncomfortable experience ever😂 especially when I’m seated all around boys😂
Marcel Huchwajda yea, seen all 3 of them and both grave movies. Haven’t heard of Tumbling doll of flesh yet
Elsie Fisher deserves an Oscar nomination. She really does. This scene was so hard to watch.
I think it's sad that this film captures a lot of guys out there who call themselves "nice guys" but they still expect you to put out out at the end of the date. What's even worse is that they don't even think that what they're doing is wrong. We need to call these guys out on their manipulation tactics and this scene is scary and sad by how plausible and relatable and realistic it is. This film is so timeless by being so present because our current problems won't go away any time soon.
It sucks because before I saw this scene in the movie I thought that the guy was cute but uhhhhh why can’t guys ever be cute and good?!?
FrostyBlue3 I thought the same thing
FrostyBlue3 yeah like wth is that about
Stop generalizing guys over a few boys ya dumbass bitch. Im getting tired with females like you being so ignorant. In fact, imma start a new saying called "female ignorance"
Jeanie Mcmahan tell that to the chicken nugget kid
because u should just look for nice guys no matter how they look
1:56 the fact that she apologizes is the most F'ed Up thing about this entire creepy scene.
Awesome acting and writing.
I was in a scarily similar situation when I was in high school, except I got out of it by lying and saying I was sick. Watching this was incredibly stressful and made me want to cry. I wish I had been as brave as Kayla was to firmly say "No".
This scene is sooooo uncomfortable
Bode Welsh Coulda been worse
Bode Welsh it’s realistic though
This scene ALONE explains why eighth grade was so incredibly robbed at the oscars
They BOTH did a really great job in this scene
damn they acc make him look scary
Christian Navarro who the kid?
@@grantwilson696
Well he is the only boy in this scene.
Amazing movie. Perfect director. Perfect actors.
This scene was too painful to watch. Every time she apologized I felt like getting stabbed inside my heart. No girl deserves to experience such a horrible situation and there's NOTHING to feel guilty about saying no.
Ayumi Sasaki I don’t think hardly any of her classmates would be able to understand what she went through here
Literally she doesn’t have to apologize for aNything😖😫😭
that's the scary thing about victim-shaming. They make you feel bad even though they're the ones at fault
This is the scariest scene I've seen from any movie in 2018.
aAaAAAhHhhhHHHHhHH THE AWKWARDNESS IS SEEPING INTO MY BRAIN HELP ME
I always wished in a way Olivia was aware of this because she was like a role model to Kayla & I know for a fact that she would've helped a situation like this.
At first I couldn't stand Trevor & Aniyah at the mall & I thought Riley was going to be a good person but after this scene I would've rather tolerate people likeTrevor & Aniyah everyday than a dude like Riley
this scene is so fucking incredible. everything about this is fucking phenomenonal. so confused on how this didn't get an academy award
So many people are commenting about how this scene makes them mad or how creepy it is or how ridiculous it is that she’s apologizing for saying no, and it is fucked up, but the thing is, this kind of thing is really common. I’m pretty sure most women have been through this at least a couple times in their life.
Naomi Arato Possibly some men, you never know what people will do
I've been through an experience like this. It was incredibly similar, only not in a car, not part of a game and involved another classmate that I actually knew. To put it a bit into context, I live in Britain, was 9-10 at the time and am a male. The attempted perpetrator was also male. So yes, stuff like that is really common.
@@cj5857 stop with this shit im a guy and no only women go through this
this scene is super important, especially in a film with this kind of storyline, learning to be human, to be you, to use your voice when you have to, but I'll be honest, after this scene i had to stop the movie and walk away because it caused me to have a panic attack briefly. However, I'm really glad it was kept in the film. young people (not just the ones who experience this kind of near miss, but the people who commit it) need to know that this kind of behavior isnt ok. gaslighting isn't okay, grooming isn't okay, and trying to convince or coerce someone to have sex or do anything they aren't comfortable doing ISN'T OKAY
stay safe lovelies
This is some scarring stuff to go through especially for an 8th grader
I’m really proud of her. A lot of girls would’ve done it just to fit in. Very wise young lady
This scene gave me so much anxiety, mainly because it hit really close to home, but I can't ignore the fantastic performances here.
Gosh I can’t tell you how upsetting his character made me. He made it seem like it was her fault when it wasn’t.
Edit: he says “do you think I feel comfortable “ when she says she’s not comfortable with it. You came up with the idea what the heck.
Edit: “this was about you” what the hell no it wasn’t