Correct. Woman make absolutely _horrible_ friends. Not only do they not have any hobbies or interests in bettering themselves, they demand you stop yours to spend your time with them.... Any more than 3 minutes spent with a women is a waste of time and energy...!
It's actually a significant generational change. Will mark the beginning of a new epoch or just the beginning of the end. I can say having children is the best thing you can possibly experience though, as long as you invest in them. Most men continue to enable ex wife post divorce or take the easy road and walk away giving her the kids and everything. If it does go pear shaped on you at some point, don't do that. Show your kids you have a pair and that you care about them. Don't abandon them to evil. You are their father.
@@tomaszszupryczynski5453 Nah, we don't have to do any of that. Revenge is worth neither the time nor effort. Instead I choose to simply disengage. Entitled pr!cks will take from you only what you give them. So give them nothing. Besides, winter is coming.
@@dylerturden01 The way I see it, there's a shortcut to the good without the bad - IVF & surrogacy. Why marry a woman when I can hire one to do what I can't? Isn't that how the feminists do it these days? It wouldn't be the family I truly want, but it's one I can have without having my life ruined, so on balance it's probably the best option. It just skips the divorce, so all that money can go to the kids instead of some ungrateful entitled brat. And said kids would grow up to be well-dajusted rational adults rather than the next generation of narcissists.
DiCaprio, Pro-Athletes,Multi-Millionaires/Billionaires ,Wealthy male celebrities and the men working in the banks on Wall street would definitely agree with Chris Rock.
@@kngxn7437source: recorded data from tinder, hinge, bumble, and various other dating sites and apps in 2018. Yes, 2018. The old data says the average 80% of women were chasing the top 20% of men That was pre-covid. My god, just imagine for a solid 60 seconds how much WORSE its gotten.
I've dated ALOT of women and finally at 29 years of age I'm done. I'd rather play music or work on my cars than waste time and money on dates. Most women are genuinely not that interesting. Most want YOU to be their source of entertainment. That's literally all we are to them.
Consider also if a woman is settling with an average man, she often closes her legs as soon as she thinks she has him. Either by having a child or marriage contract it dries up fast and sex is like pulling teeth with them.
I happen to be one myself, passing through. 😂 But my state is most likely gonna be attacked by the evil ones when the eclipse happens. Gotta be ready to protect my state! 🤠 Even if I die! 👍
in the 1970s, 85% of women were virgin on their wedding night, that was before "netflix and chill", now it's a felony to expect a woman to have not destroyed herself before the end of grade school
She probably hasn't been a virgin since age 16 or younger. Look at how many age 18 sex pros there are. They didn't just start on their most recent birthday.
I know a guy at the gym. Multi millionaire, exactly 6ft and a good looking guy. He’s done with dating too for all the same reasons. I figure if he’s done we all should be at this point.
I'm 6'3", 7/10 looks, self-made millionaire. I've been on ONE date in the past 6 years. All I encounter are gold diggers and polyamorous chicks. I'd rather hangout with my bros than deal with that drama.
@@GigaNietzsche Southeast United States. Though my age may be a bigger factor. I'm in my late 40's. The women in my target age bracket want a man to bail them out of their poor life choices (failed marriages / single mothers). I'm not signing up for that. In fact, until the divorce laws change, I'm anti-marriage in general.
@@GigaNietzsche Women in their late 30's are all the same. They've been chasing Chads for 20 years, and now they want a good man to wife them up. Ha! No man with any sense will accept that terrible offer. Or, they're coming out of a failed marriage and now they just want to play the field and sleep around.
its more like 90%, the stats arent taken like that, they dont track individual marriages from day one to day of divorce. They are tracking a huge fish tank, they are counting everybody including boomers, retired, first second third fourth fiftj sixth tenth marriages, the stats are rigged to give u a false sense of security, its actually 90% failure rate for first time young coupled. its over broh. so. so. Over.
most male self deletion is a direct result of dealing with women on women's terms... get a passport, hit the massage parlors. $25 usd for 1/2 hour full service at the mexican massage parlors with full service sex with 100% biological women between the ages of 23 and 32! enjoy life men! get that passport! 100% legal in mexico and almost all non-islamic countries on the planet.
@@natashadickson4819 I wish you were right, and you definitely are right in some scenarios. However, the mere fact that men used to prioritize duty of provision and protection in marriage until very very recently while women have prioritized happiness in marriage screams a lot about why women divorce men. You blame the man for being unable to keep a job, but most men can hold a job, and sometimes he gets unlucky. On top of this, what is the woman building with him exactly? Most of the time she doesn't even cook or clean, and she often makes less and doesn't even provide the ratio of her earnings to the bills. The saying, "her money is her money, but my money is our money" didn't just pop up out of nowhere. In most relationships, the guy is providing and paying the bills even when the women is also making money. When he's down, instead of staying with him to get him back on his feet when he's down, you blame him for being down on his luck, and you leave him at his lowest. You're a victim of the dark female side of hypergamy, and sorry, but your morals are twisted, or your sense of reality is twisted, because there are very few men who cannot hold a job.
The problem with religious people is they aren't religious. They just pick and chose what they want from the Bible and ignore the rest, especially the modern Christian women.
When a woman meets a man, she looks at what she can glean from his lifestyle, from his car to his housing to his ability to be arm candy for a certain audience (Clean cut for parents, or super stylish to make her friends jealous).
Jesus is going to come back and judge the world, do not be deceived. We cannot be justified by our good deeds, we can only be justified by believing in Jesus Christ and that He took our punishment in our place when He died on the cross, that and repenting of our sins. Don't believe because I said so, believe instead because its true!
@@kybercat7 I can pick up on the feminist attitudes subtlety engrained into women these days. My coworkers, cousins, and even family members tend to have this air of superiority for being women. They talk about how independent they are and if they happen to be married, they constantly verbally thrash their husbands.
"Women are raised to know what to expect from a man but not how they should treat him. Men are raised to know how to treat a woman but not what to expect from her."
@@ambrid5837..Not really. If she's attractive and in shape, she's still going to get attention. Your average guy won't though, no matter what his age. It will get worse as he ages out though, unless he's exceptionally attractive. Those guys are outliers though.
@@The_torerothat is not true when it comes to guys, there is a clear pick in "market value" for older guys which is way beyond 35, but you can guess the reason... They tend to have more stable Job and are wealthier...
@@joim3480 Wealthy, truly wealthy guys only make up 1% of the population, so my comment still stands for 99% of men. It's no coincidence that the incel/true forced loneliness movements are becoming more prevalent with men.
@@The_torero that where you are wrong, wealth does not refer to the 1% wealth, so no, you comment is not correct. They value a guy with c good car, a good house, able to go to cool holidays and able to offer all this comfort for no much in return apart from her beauty and sexiness, hence her "market value" picking rather early compared. ok ok a bit of a serotype, I personally had no issue finding nice women in my life, but I do not go for what most men here seem to complain. Regarding market value, instead of listening the crap videos on youtube about these idea of 1% and relying on what is for a big part ideology, search for quality studies studying this social science field.
It's being forced on the majority of men nowadays whether it's for them or not. Also, evangelical Christians take the lead in the divorce rate so the notion that church going types take their vows more seriously than secular types holds no weight. @@rickrussell8382
Whether it's for them or not most will be single regardless of their faith (or lack thereof). Right or wrong - the culture has changed. Best to adapt as much as feasibly possible.@@rickrussell8382
I grew up with 5 sisters. Have had one serious relationship and plenty of dating experience under my belt. If guys truly knew how their partner or woman in general really feel towards them, then you would never bother with them. You can either love them or understand them, it cannot be both. Once you truly understand them you will never love nor pursue a relationship with them. It is what it is
I agree. I grew up with 2 ‘hot’ sisters that all the guys wanted. I knew what my sisters said, their actions, thoughts, and feelings regarding their boyfriends. I heard the truth behind the scenes. Pretty sure that’s why I did not date much at all and didn’t have much interest in dating. Why would I want to get involved with one of those creatures?
My 24 yo nephew has never been interested in girls, or dating. He says they were horrible at school. The women in the family are claiming he's gay, even though there's no evidence that he is, and he's denied being gay thousands of times. He still doesn't date, lives at home, and plays video games.
thats his choice. How about you leave him alone, as long as he is working and doing something its none of your business. The gay accusations don‘t help either
@@blackpillfitness9136 It's the women in the family who are trying to shame him into dating, but it's not working. He's not interested in dating at all, and doesn't care what people think about it. I love my nephew!
Young men- make more male friends, learn new stuff, read and expand your knowledge in your fields of interest, stay away from toxic women, stay away from feminist women.
I am 24 years old, am a loner,, and have not socially talked to a girl outside work place or family in 4 years.. Most would probably think it is sad but I have never been happier. I have lost 45 pounds, fully gave myself to god, got a career job, and get to travel and spend time with family peacefully. I encourage every guy to try to stop socializing with women and see how much peace comes into your life when you do.
Apostle Paul said it's better for a man to remain single unless he is burning with fornication lust, then he must get married. So, if you have sexual self-control, all you need is yourself to be happy.
Young men, listen to an older man. Do not marry and get children! The laws are against you. You can be the best father and husband ever. You will not have a chance. Enjoy your life! It is too short
Yeah, I'm 62, and I often think, "If social media were a thing back when I was a kid, I probably would've been an incel." Not hunkered down in the incel community, but an incel by definition (virgin, unable to get laid or get a girlfriend). I am 5' 7", and when I was younger, I was socially anxious and awkward, kind of nerdy (still am -- the nerdy part, although I call it "intellectual" now, lol). I managed to get laid at 19 and a girlfriend at 23, although it was not easy. No doubt I would've been an incel if I had the modern woman and social media to deal with.
social media isn't the reason for the destruction of family, that's destruction of politics. Though the two topics both have a lot of confirmation bias and cope. What's breaking up the family is the "sexualization" that started in the 60s.
that's 2/3 of younger men. the situation reverses for older men and women. which means that the younger women are dating the older men. that could be in addition to the sharing of men which can occur at any age.
@@ot23234 No, those stats are from ALL ages. Our DNA shows that only 1 in 3 men who ever lived reproduced while 2/3 of women did. That means women share a man with one other woman, historically. On Tinder she shares him with 7 other women.
Well let me tell you - I got married at 25 was married for 23 years - no kids - now 55 years old and don't give shit about even dating -- marriage was a nightmare - not every marriage out there but most ! And you don't end off in a better financial situation ! And I could still date I'm 6'4" 200 lbs have all my brown hair - clean cut - no tats - no piercing - I found out that women just want to argue about nothing . Please guys out there be really careful !
😒 yeah, ive been there Four times in my lifetime, its just not in the cards for most, this kid is delusional about religion and church, even if u are an Elect of God it means nothing, u will not beat the Stats, the meek will inherit the earth but while ur alive all u r is a target for the Reprobate, to b used and tooled. wake up.
we men live in reality, when we watch some tiktok Reels about some other people doing cool shit, we just say "ok cool" meanwhile women tend to think "why is this not our life? i need another men". Social media has ruined logic of society
Same...I'm 55 wife left me for a twice divorced co worker....it's been 10 months and I am starting to enjoy just doing my own thing.....I did date a woman for a couple of months and she was looking to move in.....hell no with that.....I have decided to just concentrate on helping my daughters and making myself the best I can be. Good luck to all who read this.
Dear young men (70 y/o dude here) work on yourself, your career, your health, adventures, your wealth. Women can wait. From what I have seen, most young women are not worth your time.
They call it “ho-flation.” It’s the concept that a young man today has to work 5x harder than his grandfather to attract a woman worth 1/5 of what women in his grandmother’s time were.
Millennial guy here. Yup, women from my generation and gen z are probably the worst generation(s) of females out there. I had my experiences with them, but my priorities (career, experiences, and self-improvement) is far more valuable.
I'm 43. Living in my paid off house on top of a mountain with my dogs. Watching this on my 4090 gtx gaming pc. Only working a few hours a week, business is pretty automated now. Biggest stress is what to play or watch. It's so peaceful ✌️ 😌
She did that to try to make others think you were the bad one (the Cheater), when she was. Narcissists play that game all the time, they accuse you of doing whatever they did to others, so no one will believe your side of the story.
Its not just young men. Im 38 years old, and a year ago my girlfriend left me for another guy and kicked me out of my house. I was homeless for a while but i picked myself up, got a place to live, got a better paid job and after a few months started dating again. Ive gotten involved with two women in the last year. Both of whom i developed feelings for and both of whom suddenly made up excuses not to see me and then ghosted me. Im done. I cant do this anymore. I dont want to waste my time getting to know someone just for them to up and leave. Its either because of a bad ex boyfriend or because they dont know what they want. Regardless, Im out. My advice to younger men is focus on developing yourself, spend time with family and enjoy your hobbies whilst building wealth. Dating is dead
I’m glad you were able to get back up. But yeah I don’t think it’s something anyone should fully give up on. I think you keep doing the same and working on yourself and if you still want to date again you can and then you start leaving or ghosting the women who you know aren’t committed or going to work out
@@outsider669 That's so unfair, I'll honestly never marry, lol as if I'll ever get that option at this day and age to begin with, we're all fucked my friend
I've had a couple of official girlfriends in my history of dating. Each one of them was worse than the last. Some women will spare no expense to completely humiliate you, shame you, demoralize you, and manipulate you. I was a walking wallet and validation generator or someone's cheating fetish. The misery I felt in those times were almost more than I could bear. Who would look at those times and say, "yeah I could go for some more of that"? You would have to be actually insane to want more of that kind of treatment.
It's not for every man. In fact, most men aren't good on their own. It's an avenue if you're honest with yourself and you prefer to be alone. Otherwise, I would steer clear from that life. These days, Mgtow is more akin to feminism in that its the opposite side of the coin. In the old days it was focused on men offering each other advice on how to better their lives. Now it's hyperfocused on why woman are the problem. I did a deep dive for a few years into the community and I frankly didn't like how I started viewing people. It's become cultish.
@natashadickson4819 By choice, you only see an incredibly narrow sliver of the issue, and strawman against a burgeoning community you refuse to understand. Ignore the vast problems that choke away society and civility if you will. It's your downfall.
@@__Shun I wouldn't put much trust in prenups. They are regularly chopped down or thrown out entirely by family court judges, who are notoriously biased against men. Prenups also will not protect you from unfair child support arrangements, which destroy a lot of men. And even the best prenup can be challenged in court, which means tens of thousands in legal fees to defend it, with no guarantee of a good outcome.
@@__Shun It is better to use a prenup contract as toilet paper than as a legal defense in court in a failed attempt to prevent yourself from being forced to pay alimony for an ex-wife. All she has to do is falsely claim that she signed it "under duress" and that contract will be voided and thrown out the window faster than you can blink.
Women cherry pick each desirable trait and expect the next guy to have each exceptional trait of the last guy until she wants 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, the body of Max Fantastic Absfactory, the 12" personality of Tyrone Tyreesius Dickerdown Brown, the status of Baron Oilrigs Goydollar Sr and the millions of dollars of Lord Nigel Pennyworth Bankbalance all rolled in to one Frankenstein GigaChad. 😂
At 20 I was ultra nice to women. At 30 I realized thats a huge mistake because they think you are weak if you are kind. At 40 I said enough is enough, I just dont have it in me to be cruel to women but thats absolutely the only way to gain their respect. Built a nice life for myself since. The level of stress a woman causes a man is a silent killer. You dont realize it until you're free. Happier, healthier and wealthier. Not for everyone but damn sure is for me.
Legit that's part of what creates red pill rage. You see the coding of the matrix I. Regards to evolutionary psychology and you the reality for what it is. Then you come to really see how, when left unchecked, women will destroy everything they infect and infiltrate and you see the only way to stop it is to control them and that is what creates the anger. It's the fact you have to treat them a certain and be cruel and the majority of us are not like that at all. That's what makes me angry.thats what makes me want to head into the woods and live my life left In peace.
I adored, truly loved the women I was with. In the balance she was very good to me. At the end? Last 4 years… Pure soul sucking, goal destroying, life demotivating POISON. Still f##ked me silly until the day she left.
Similar situation for me around that age range, though it took me in my 40s to realize being really kind to women is foolish, especially if those women were in abusive relationships and I wanted to show I was different. I've noticed almost every western woman I've been in a relationship with or at least close friends with have given me drama for the dumbest things. Yet, most of the foreign women I've chatted with from Southeast Asia and Africa didn't give me the problems western women did. It's as though I was free to be myself. They liked me for who I was, rarely complained about things I did that bothered them, almost no drama. With western women, it often seems like you have to be somewhat manipulative to get their attention, to be attractive. It really feels like you can't fully love them.
Nothing silent about it, it’s clear as a bell for anyone to observe in others. Statistics are all published. But that’s what subjugation is, after the short lived shex and the city life and honeymoon. It’s a hell of a price to pay for the rest of one’s life which is a very long way to go, very long relative. Can’t do it over. Tremendous sacrifices will be made though, nothing comes easy that’s worth it.
All my married friends are just a shell and dead inside. Once fun and full of life, now fully whipped, trapped in the bounds of an inescapable miserable contract.
If you're not the Chad she's chasing, leave her alone. If you're not her first choice, you will be used, resented, and mistreated every time. Let her be some other guy's heartbreak and ruin.
I've been single with no friends since 23 years old, I'm 36 right now. Never felt lonely, or like I need someone in my life. Loneliness is a mindset not a status, if you love and respect yourself and enjoy your own company and doing things for yourself, you are never lonely, you are just free. There's nothing to be scared of. Of course it's not for everyone, but it is actually really addictive to be living for yourself and be the sole decision taker in your whole personal life.
Jesus is going to come back and judge the world, do not be deceived. We cannot be justified by our good deeds, we can only be justified by believing in Jesus Christ and that He took our punishment in our place when He died on the cross, that and repenting of our sins. Don't believe because I said so, believe instead because its true!
They're not turning their backs on women. They're just NOT wasting time on a woman who they perceive to NOT be attracted to THEM. They're tired of the mind games. Even if it means not dating AT ALL.
Women aren’t loyal as their feelings change with the wind. And all it takes is one perceived slip up on your part and they will breakup with you no matter the time or investment you’ve put into the relationship.
Don't let a small minority of bad unfaithful Christians warp your mind. In general, Christian values will be better than some liberal unreligious women.
Depends on the Church. The one I grew up in everyone kinda got married around 21 (Except me). I'm 45 now and 95% of them are still married. 20 some years is a pretty long time these days.
Yes a bit of blindness for sure. Just see the story I love on Strong successful male and the Preacher's daughter and she is the carousel rider. 🤔 also, many girls return to church to get the good guy after she been with all the bad guys 🤔 But he thinks in the old way is was the right place. Now I think is more in Asia or like that you will find the girl that stay with you. Still you need ruls and guid her so she doesn't destroy your life. 🤔
🙂 very delusional, u wont beat the stats, but sure you mite be the lucky 1% but for most kids its over, its been over for a long time now. We are way past Peak Oil.
The problem is that the risk versus the reward is not worth it. 80% of women divorce men with more than 50 percent rate of divorce!!! Women love relationships free food and gifts without give anything. If sex is the only thing she offers stay single invest in yourself.
Are you trying to say that women arent amazing nurturers and bringers of love and warmth? Those women that want all those things do that because of men That didn’t hold them to certain standards . The human instinct is to get your needs met and get as much as you can. Some men will manipulate and use women for their needs without giving much back either IF the woman allows this! Too many guys have spoiled women rotten and bought them everything so now they expect that from all men .. blame men for modern women’s entitlement. Btw no one is saying you must marry these women - you can still date them casually and just have fun. Just go out and give it a shot - just be sensible
Euh … nowadays young women are higher educated and earn more than men … so “the taking half of my stuff” meme … is explained by the woman taking her own stuff and letting some behind 😂
I had bad experiences dating in my early 20s when I was broke but I'm glad it happened. Because now I'm 35 happy on my own with lots of money and I do what I want while my married friends are always miserable.
Fewer self-deletions through divorce, that's for sure. (Men's self-deletion rate after divorce doubles from it's already 4x, making it 8x women's rate.)
Reverse this for marriage, dating or being "in a relationship" is the interview process for women, and for men it is about evaluating her worth to the company.
And why shouldn't a woman be sure he's the right guy? Women can be very choosy these days, unlike in the past when everyone expected them to be married by a certain age. We don't need to be married anymore, we have our own homes, bank accounts and can get bank credit without a man's signature now. We are independent at last.
@@VMM34 Because 1.- You don't make wise decisions, you only care for looks and money (in spite of being "independent") yet complain when these guys dump you that all men are the same. Literal childish mentality 2.- You are not as "happy" as you preach, you think having a cat and a wine collection is the sole purpose in life yet according to statistics you are the number one consumers of antidepressants. Makes you think that such liberty is not also your poison
Have been single for 25yrs now 76 and lost 1/2 my net worth twice. Trust me single guys you wont be lonely if you chose good friends. Better to be single and alone than married and miserable. Being single = PEACE and no drama. Remember the definition of a bachelor - a man who has cheated some woman out of a divorce!
I'm through with the dating game. I am age 60 and I could be a hundred thousand dollars richer if I didn't chase and date women from age 18 to age 50. Wasted my time and money when I should have invested 90% my time in making money and my financial security. One thing, I am fortunate I never got married!
@@khhv1900 Homosexuality is natural in many animals, and they fill an important purpose in group dynamics among social animals like humans. The issue is not gay guys, the issue is heterosexuals not getting any kids anymore.
@@wpizdets2640 That was the one who divorce graped him. I remember a pastor (in a divorce-not-ok church) who got divorced, he had to change jobs. Also...what if Luke doesn't want to marry a single mom? 'Thanks congregation, but no thanks'.
Yup, it's very unfair towards men when it comes to relationships with women. That is why my heart turned colder towards women than the event horizon of a black hole. I don't care about being without one and haven't for over two decades now. Women harshly rejected me one time too many, now I reject them.
One explanation is clear enough. Women in many cases are now making more than men, and they aren't sharing. And in many areas they now have more job opportunity. In todays U.S. Federal administration for instance as was proudly stated, 70% of all appointments to the landed gubmt jobs with bennies were women. And thanks to the financial aid systems that favor them, most college grads now are women too. Whenever a man doesn't get the job in the U.S., its celebrated in the media. Why should men continue to pick up the tabs, hold the doors, and pay to support women when women increasingly now also have all the opportunity and money too?
The answer is a trade, especially one that leads to one's own business, like Electrician or Plumber. Women hate to do these jobs, they pay well, and eventually you can work for yourself slowly by taking on clients on the side until you have enough to work F/T for yourself...
I did want a wife & kids, but I'm simply not attractive. I'm too old now. And I've come to terms with it. There's lots of good to do in the world. A man alone, without dependents, can be a powerful constructive force in society.
After all we built all of this ... As worker be did our Job .... and what does Qi be do? Well We Shielded them and its Too Comfortable , inevitably forget that IT TAKES 2 IN ANYTHING TO ACHIEVE
Hi! You are never to old and ugly. I was thinking that way to I land in Phuket, Thailand the girls was amazing and they didn't care I was fat or a nice guy. I had 100 of girls that wanted to stay with me. Sure they think I had money is life. But if you look around and look for redflags you can find a good girl. Best is to go to Thailand and have a holiday trip and have fun. You don't need friends with you. You will find people around you and get new friends. Don't get crazy in love. Study a bit and go there with a open mind. Is my advice or some other country you like.
That has always been the case. Monogamy was invented by poor average males. Back in the day, the average male did not reproduce and lived short, miserable lifes with no purpose.
I can speak as a 41 year old male. I'm not married. Life can be boring sometimes, but I'm free and live in peace with my choice. Many of my friends are starting to get divorced. I was reluctant to get involved with women since young age, because my uncle was one of the first men to be ruined by divorce around here. Totally ruined. No, thanks.
Please be there for your buddies. I know they might not have been there for you, but they were in a Love Cult that was brainwashing them. We're all human.
Explain how future generations are going to be created without people finding partners? We have to play the game, otherwise the human race might go extinct and while it does the world will rapidly become more troublesome to navigate through.
I call this, 'The Abandonment'. Weak men opened the door to this disaster, modern women picked at the wound until it festered into the rotten corpse we call modern dating. And so reasoned man, by the millions, have walked away from the rigged game.
My dad is a multi millionaire he told me that he loves being single he has freedom no woman drama he can get any girl he wants but he don't wanna deal with law suits and losing all his money over sex.
Social media and dating apps have made dating awful for the average man. Even an average looking woman can easily find Chad on the internet, now. Chad pumps and dumps, knowing there’s another woman waiting in line. Even dudes in relationships are affected. Rub your woman the wrong way, she may walk, knowing a “better dude” is out there.
Dude, let her walk... then thank her. The worst that could happen is she ends up staying with you and you get trapped! Women aren't worth 'having'... only worth using like they do to men. Wake up ya'll!
Nah most guys who struggle just aren’t putting in much effort. People like me who are only attracted to 1% (if that) of women and don’t find people that interesting are a minority
@@CountChokcula it won't its all going to plan of satan's government...... as satan runs ALL government romans 13: 1 is kind crap UNLESS understand the estoerical of law of SEA (man) vs law of LAND (God) MUCH prefere matthew 4 8 that says DISOBEY government they want you to worship say10!
$1,500,000 That's what my divorce cost me. Plus 2.5 years to get it done and $90,000 in lawyer fees. You guys sure you want to sign up for that? Through our marriage my formerly super fit wife put on 90 lbs. and s*x was rare. Ask the question; what does State sanctioned legal marriage provide that men can't already get without it?
Bro! Not gay here...but I read this and I just sincerely want to give you a hug 😂 Seriously, this is awful and should be required reading for all single males.
I'm so sorry dude. @clovers-zi5fe said "No homo" and I agree, but maybe the women were right to say that maybe we need to start hanging out more with each other and give a fucking bro hug from time to time because this shit is horrible man. I don't think it's healthy for any man to go through losing 1.5 million and just expect him to "be okay." I do think guys might need to start making bro nights and live like how we actually wanted to live just minus the women.
+90 lbs. The classic bait and switch when the female pretends to be very interested in her fitness and weight but pulls the pin on the fat grenade the second she lands a provider.
"Do you really want to spend the next 60 years of your life alone". Want? No. Am I willing to instead of dealing with entitled princesses with nothing to offer? Absolutely yes.
While I do not prefer to be alone, it is far better than fantasizing about sewer slide which happened more than once in some of the more nightmarish relationships I've been in. Honestly, this is the least bad option
Trust me you rather not married an entitled person no matter how lonely. Because you still can have friends and loneliness is a state of mind. Rather pray for one that is made just for you. It works you know, at least it worked for me ... and I am not special at all.
Happily Ever After: "Once upon a time, a prince asked a beautiful princess "Will you marry me?" The princess said NO!, and the prince lived happily ever after. And he rode motorcycles and fucked cute skinny girls and hunted and raced cars and went to naked bars, and dated women half his age, and drank beer, Jack Daniel's and Captain Morgan, and drank the milk from the box, and never heard bitching, and never paid child support or alimony. And kept his house and guns, and never got cheated on while he was at work, and all his friends and family thought he was fucking cool as hell, and he had tons of money, and he left the toilet seat up. The End"
@@EK-tl6es Feels like even the women who are too old to bath in affection, they're still playing games, manipulate and shame or threaten him on an emotional level. I know there are exceptions, but I don't see many of these.
Gen 2:18,22-24 "18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. 23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
probably denominational churches such as catholicism, anglicanism etc, not Biblical churches of God that actually preach, obey and honour God's Holy Word.
Because stepping into a Church does not make you a Christian. It's not the place that you step into that make you the follower of Christ, it's the heart , it's the love for God's word, it's the desire to understand what the bible is trying to say that make a discipleship a genuine one. If you are looking at statistics ... you got it wrong, because obeying God is not an easy task but once you get it right, life is a breeze. Not everyone who attend church on Sunday or anyday is a Christian.
its because its unfair. Everyone women i dated ALL had other men after them, i literally had just her in my DMs. It made it seem like i had up my game and could never just be myself i had to "prove myself" while she just turns up and looks pretty. I started become this fake 'better version' of myself but i was never happy, just damn door mat to my gf.
My 22 year old son makes $60k and works 50 hrs a week then plays video games . I asked him this question. He said he just doesn’t want to deal with the women and he plays games online with his friends
very smart kid, take a trip together to the family court house, watch the guys after they come out of the courtrooms, take a good long look. dont b that sucker
A lawyer specializing in divorce declared with a lot of knowledge that no one should get married, it is not worth the trouble, especially for men, marriage is a contract that punishes the man if he breaks it and rewards the woman if he breaks it, all laws favor women, right now several States are in the process of approving laws of concubinage and cohabitation so that if a man and a woman live under the same roof for a certain time, the couple will be a de Facto marriage and the separation will be exactly like a divorce.
@@OfSoulAndSinVery true. Women for some reason love punishing you for whatever grievances they have against their exes and project their exes issues onto you. One of the most toxic experiences ever
It is a much better bet to be single and well off and low stress than lonely in a sexless marriage where there's always the threat of having your house, kids and half your income and investments confiscated. Being single doesn't equal being lonely. I have friends and housemate(s) who aren't my legal superiors positioned to take my house and income.
Umm , I have been married 28 years . As for being stuck in a sexless marriage, well something is wrong with us because me and my lovely wife are at it alot😊. Yeah there are low times and wild times. Now it's wild good . We raised 7 children. And God is the centre of our life. The key is our love for each other is not enough, it's God's love in our relationship that keeps the fire burning. Point is don't live in fear. Cease the day while you can.
I have met very few married men that say they have a satisfying sex life. Congratulations on beating the odds. I’ve starved my entire married life except for the first year.
The facts are a man can rebuild his life at almost any age but a woman has a Ltd time to have a family so men don’t need to rush in at all it’s the women who have the time problem not men
@@brianmeen2158 I'm in a similar boat, it just never happened and I missed out. I have no interest in women my age and it is creepy to date younger. Guess I am just going to stay single for the rest of my life.
@@hocuspocus9713 It's not creepy if you keep fit and healthy. My ex who i dated for 3 years was 15 years younger than me (she 18 me 33 when we started dating)
Some of us are called to a single life. Paul did say that he wished that all could be as him , which was single. Because single people are focused on pleasing the Lord while married people are focused of pleasing their partners. I've been single 3 years and I'm at peace and happy.
Truest true. I grew up around Christians and I went to school with them and all of those popular "exemplary Christian" parents are now divorced, because they all cheated on each other including cheating with the school counselor. Christianity is not a golden goose when it comes to relationships, nor is culture with import wives. I will remain single until the court system is fixed. By the way giving up on women is the most freeing feeling in the world, not having the responsibility to save a lot of money so they can waste it all, for which you need to work thrice as hard due to inflation. I have all the time and money now to travel and focus on my creative pursuits or just fuck about and play videogames. Men are better off because we need less in life to be happy. I'd like to see those social media addicted, careerslave, unhappily unmarried millennial women try lol
Short version: Dating is not fun and women are not kind to be around..
Older men seem to disagree.
@@natashadickson4819Of course, because they're the one getting all the women. Higher or lower value doesn't matter.
Unless you look like a chiseled jaw Chad ofc
Correct. Woman make absolutely _horrible_ friends. Not only do they not have any hobbies or interests in bettering themselves, they demand you stop yours to spend your time with them.... Any more than 3 minutes spent with a women is a waste of time and energy...!
@@natashadickson4819not the ones I’ve talked to
It's always been an unfair game. The only difference is that we're no longer blind to it.
😒 once u see it u cant unsee it, going to Church and getting religious is not going to help, you know tooo much, u will never b the same again
and now its time to make them pay for it
It's actually a significant generational change. Will mark the beginning of a new epoch or just the beginning of the end. I can say having children is the best thing you can possibly experience though, as long as you invest in them. Most men continue to enable ex wife post divorce or take the easy road and walk away giving her the kids and everything. If it does go pear shaped on you at some point, don't do that. Show your kids you have a pair and that you care about them. Don't abandon them to evil. You are their father.
@@tomaszszupryczynski5453 Nah, we don't have to do any of that. Revenge is worth neither the time nor effort. Instead I choose to simply disengage. Entitled pr!cks will take from you only what you give them. So give them nothing.
Besides, winter is coming.
@@dylerturden01 The way I see it, there's a shortcut to the good without the bad - IVF & surrogacy. Why marry a woman when I can hire one to do what I can't? Isn't that how the feminists do it these days?
It wouldn't be the family I truly want, but it's one I can have without having my life ruined, so on balance it's probably the best option. It just skips the divorce, so all that money can go to the kids instead of some ungrateful entitled brat. And said kids would grow up to be well-dajusted rational adults rather than the next generation of narcissists.
I’ll always remember what Chris Rock once said. “90% of woman are all too busy fighting over the same .0005% of men.”
Source: trust me bro 🤓
DiCaprio, Pro-Athletes,Multi-Millionaires/Billionaires ,Wealthy male celebrities and the men working in the banks on Wall street would definitely agree with Chris Rock.
@@kngxn7437source: recorded data from tinder, hinge, bumble, and various other dating sites and apps in 2018.
Yes, 2018. The old data says the average 80% of women were chasing the top 20% of men
That was pre-covid. My god, just imagine for a solid 60 seconds how much WORSE its gotten.
@@kngxn7437 these dating apps all release data , its in that but its more like 50% of women are sleeping with 5% of men
Exactly they would rather share a high value man than settle for a beta male with hardly any options fuck fee mail nature
I've dated ALOT of women and finally at 29 years of age I'm done.
I'd rather play music or work on my cars than waste time and money on dates. Most women are genuinely not that interesting. Most want YOU to be their source of entertainment. That's literally all we are to them.
All I ever gotten was lies and games.. I throw in the towel
Ow boo what a miserable life you've lived
@@at1the1beginning And just like that you've contributed nothing to the conversation.
@@broom673she contributed proof that supports the original comment
What they don't tell you is finding the right woman is rare. They call marriage 'settling' for a reason
As a wise man once said “take sex off the table and what does a woman have to offer?”
Also said: "If it weren't for their snatch, would you really even what to be around them?"
@@jkmarshall3553 good point
True, and they know that too , and use sex to manipulate.
Consider also if a woman is settling with an average man, she often closes her legs as soon as she thinks she has him. Either by having a child or marriage contract it dries up fast and sex is like pulling teeth with them.
Companionship i guess, im still tryna find it out myself.... i guess also she could bare your children, and be your best friend? 😂
Promise me men, that you don’t commit to any of these women when they become 30 year old single moms looking for a back-up man.
It's already happening that's why if you go to some popular channels you'll see that the 30 and over women aren't getting married
I promise...
I just porn railed those women no way I would marry them.
I promise
I promise. o7
He said “Hopefully she’s a virgin” and suddenly I was gasping for air in laughter. Gave up on that dream a long time ago my guy.
its crazy we are at a place in life where the idea of being of a virgin woman is like folklore legend
I happen to be one myself, passing through. 😂 But my state is most likely gonna be attacked by the evil ones when the eclipse happens. Gotta be ready to protect my state!
🤠 Even if I die! 👍
in the 1970s, 85% of women were virgin on their wedding night, that was before "netflix and chill", now it's a felony to expect a woman to have not destroyed herself before the end of grade school
"or has 1 or 2 bodies" XD
She probably hasn't been a virgin since age 16 or younger. Look at how many age 18 sex pros there are. They didn't just start on their most recent birthday.
I know a guy at the gym. Multi millionaire, exactly 6ft and a good looking guy. He’s done with dating too for all the same reasons. I figure if he’s done we all should be at this point.
I'm 6'3", 7/10 looks, self-made millionaire. I've been on ONE date in the past 6 years. All I encounter are gold diggers and polyamorous chicks. I'd rather hangout with my bros than deal with that drama.
@@gordongekko2781Im curious, what is the general area you live in?
@@GigaNietzsche Southeast United States. Though my age may be a bigger factor. I'm in my late 40's. The women in my target age bracket want a man to bail them out of their poor life choices (failed marriages / single mothers). I'm not signing up for that. In fact, until the divorce laws change, I'm anti-marriage in general.
@@gordongekko2781 I was going to assume miami metro region so I wasn't too far off I guess
@@GigaNietzsche Women in their late 30's are all the same. They've been chasing Chads for 20 years, and now they want a good man to wife them up. Ha! No man with any sense will accept that terrible offer. Or, they're coming out of a failed marriage and now they just want to play the field and sleep around.
Half of the men who marry end up in divorce court. The unlucky half are given a life sentence.
its more like 90%, the stats arent taken like that, they dont track individual marriages from day one to day of divorce. They are tracking a huge fish tank, they are counting everybody including boomers, retired, first second third fourth fiftj sixth tenth marriages, the stats are rigged to give u a false sense of security, its actually 90% failure rate for first time young coupled. its over broh. so. so. Over.
Bingo -- they are living with sub standard scenarios
Living with a woman is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them certainly takes the fear out of dying
Why is divorce so expensive? CAUSE ITS WOETH EVWRY PENNY!!!
most male self deletion is a direct result of dealing with women on women's terms... get a passport, hit the massage parlors. $25 usd for 1/2 hour full service at the mexican massage parlors with full service sex with 100% biological women between the ages of 23 and 32! enjoy life men! get that passport! 100% legal in mexico and almost all non-islamic countries on the planet.
Christian women divorce their husbands and take half his stuff too.
Half of what she gave to him. Sometimes, he was the one who couldn't keep a job.
@@natashadickson4819 I wish you were right, and you definitely are right in some scenarios. However, the mere fact that men used to prioritize duty of provision and protection in marriage until very very recently while women have prioritized happiness in marriage screams a lot about why women divorce men. You blame the man for being unable to keep a job, but most men can hold a job, and sometimes he gets unlucky. On top of this, what is the woman building with him exactly? Most of the time she doesn't even cook or clean, and she often makes less and doesn't even provide the ratio of her earnings to the bills. The saying, "her money is her money, but my money is our money" didn't just pop up out of nowhere. In most relationships, the guy is providing and paying the bills even when the women is also making money. When he's down, instead of staying with him to get him back on his feet when he's down, you blame him for being down on his luck, and you leave him at his lowest. You're a victim of the dark female side of hypergamy, and sorry, but your morals are twisted, or your sense of reality is twisted, because there are very few men who cannot hold a job.
@@natashadickson4819 Sometimes? Men pay over 90% of alimony and child support. But don’t let facts interfere with your delusions.
The problem with religious people is they aren't religious. They just pick and chose what they want from the Bible and ignore the rest, especially the modern Christian women.
@@natashadickson4819lol she didn’t build anything
I’m starting to get fed up with modern life as a whole tbh
Hang in there dude.
Pssst.....filipinas...filipina pea. Look her up youtube.
its becoming very meaningless and demoralizing
Same. It can't keep on the way it has hang tight and make sure you got popcorn.
Bring popcorn for the destruction of society? Pass
From the moment you enter a relationship with a Woman, that Woman is already thinking of what she will take from you.
When a woman meets a man, she looks at what she can glean from his lifestyle, from his car to his housing to his ability to be arm candy for a certain audience (Clean cut for parents, or super stylish to make her friends jealous).
True
Before
That is sexism
@@robertcastel1565 hhhhhjh😂🤣 stupid
Even Tom Brady got cheated on by his ex wife. What kind of chance do you stand? 🤣
Jeff Bezos, one of the richest men in the world, couldn’t provide for his ex wife, McKenzie.
What chance do you have ?
just because a billionaire with probably shallow values was cheated on, doesn’t mean you don’t have a chance. Lock in.
Giselle picked her gym trainer to cheat on Tom and the gym trainer makes peanuts compared to Tom.
Jesus is going to come back and judge the world, do not be deceived. We cannot be justified by our good deeds, we can only be justified by believing in Jesus Christ and that He took our punishment in our place when He died on the cross, that and repenting of our sins. Don't believe because I said so, believe instead because its true!
@@aidanmeans5344lock in? Lock in??? I ain’t tryna lock in on any goddamn relationship I’m spending that energy on getting my life together
Why would men try to deal with people who hate them? We're not stupid.
because people are individuals not statistics. Yes theres loads of horrible women who do hate you know how to avoid em and keep living.
@@kybercat7The problem is, most of them despise us, but they've evolved to hide that until you marry one and then it's too late. You're screwed.
@@kybercat7 I can pick up on the feminist attitudes subtlety engrained into women these days. My coworkers, cousins, and even family members tend to have this air of superiority for being women. They talk about how independent they are and if they happen to be married, they constantly verbally thrash their husbands.
Exactly
@@kybercat7 sorry not sorry but the majority act so I don't not care for the minority that still eats up stuff stolen from hard working men
"Women are raised to know what to expect from a man but not how they should treat him. Men are raised to know how to treat a woman but not what to expect from her."
🎯
Maybe because males need to be taught things like how to treat human beings lol.
"Men are held to standards of 1954, while women are told to do whatever they want, it's 2024.
Expect nothing. That's all you can expect.
You said it perfectly. 👏👏👏
Most women get tons of attention everywhere. Most men don't.
Until she hits 35
@@ambrid5837..Not really. If she's attractive and in shape, she's still going to get attention. Your average guy won't though, no matter what his age. It will get worse as he ages out though, unless he's exceptionally attractive. Those guys are outliers though.
@@The_torerothat is not true when it comes to guys, there is a clear pick in "market value" for older guys which is way beyond 35, but you can guess the reason... They tend to have more stable Job and are wealthier...
@@joim3480 Wealthy, truly wealthy guys only make up 1% of the population, so my comment still stands for 99% of men. It's no coincidence that the incel/true forced loneliness movements are becoming more prevalent with men.
@@The_torero that where you are wrong, wealth does not refer to the 1% wealth, so no, you comment is not correct. They value a guy with c good car, a good house, able to go to cool holidays and able to offer all this comfort for no much in return apart from her beauty and sexiness, hence her "market value" picking rather early compared. ok ok a bit of a serotype, I personally had no issue finding nice women in my life, but I do not go for what most men here seem to complain.
Regarding market value, instead of listening the crap videos on youtube about these idea of 1% and relying on what is for a big part ideology, search for quality studies studying this social science field.
Dating modern women ... is auditioning ... for your own future bankruptcy. Comport yourself ... young dudes .... accordingly.
Have fun and stay single
ye, daz why im gamepilled.
Guys there is such a thing as dating casually . You don’t have to marry them lol
@@brianmeen2158 and risk of creating more modern broad mindset? jesus christ dude, look around you.
@@brianmeen2158L advice
Being a single man living alone is so damn cool, and it gets better with age.
I'm 38, divorced, no kids, completely alone, and I'm miserable AF
@me8751 Sounds like a you problem. You're not comfortable and content with yourself. A woman and kids aren't going to fix that.
Got divorced at 31. Had a few girl friends but have lived alone for 38 years. It is not for every one but I have a calm life.
It's being forced on the majority of men nowadays whether it's for them or not. Also, evangelical Christians take the lead in the divorce rate so the notion that church going types take their vows more seriously than secular types holds no weight. @@rickrussell8382
Whether it's for them or not most will be single regardless of their faith (or lack thereof). Right or wrong - the culture has changed. Best to adapt as much as feasibly possible.@@rickrussell8382
"I don't cook, I don't clean, but let me tell you how I got this ring." - WAP
Kid: because you hid your evil side before you got married
Feminism, hypergamy and lack of societal shame is what happened bud.
I grew up with 5 sisters. Have had one serious relationship and plenty of dating experience under my belt. If guys truly knew how their partner or woman in general really feel towards them, then you would never bother with them. You can either love them or understand them, it cannot be both. Once you truly understand them you will never love nor pursue a relationship with them. It is what it is
sadly true!
Understands women, proceeds to go into a gay sexless marriage afterwards lol
I agree. I grew up with 2 ‘hot’ sisters that all the guys wanted. I knew what my sisters said, their actions, thoughts, and feelings regarding their boyfriends. I heard the truth behind the scenes. Pretty sure that’s why I did not date much at all and didn’t have much interest in dating. Why would I want to get involved with one of those creatures?
there is reason why I like tomboyish women. A lot feminine persointily types just do not make good wives.
I have 2 sisters and they are rude and so stuck up
My 24 yo nephew has never been interested in girls, or dating. He says they were horrible at school. The women in the family are claiming he's gay, even though there's no evidence that he is, and he's denied being gay thousands of times. He still doesn't date, lives at home, and plays video games.
thats his choice. How about you leave him alone, as long as he is working and doing something its none of your business. The gay accusations don‘t help either
@@michael10613 Shut your stupidass mouth you fuckin twit, and learn reading comprehension idiot!
Stress free life 😂 they don’t understand that.
Its not gay to not want horrible people in your life.
@@blackpillfitness9136 It's the women in the family who are trying to shame him into dating, but it's not working. He's not interested in dating at all, and doesn't care what people think about it. I love my nephew!
Young men- make more male friends, learn new stuff, read and expand your knowledge in your fields of interest, stay away from toxic women, stay away from feminist women.
I am 24 years old, am a loner,, and have not socially talked to a girl outside work place or family in 4 years.. Most would probably think it is sad but I have never been happier. I have lost 45 pounds, fully gave myself to god, got a career job, and get to travel and spend time with family peacefully. I encourage every guy to try to stop socializing with women and see how much peace comes into your life when you do.
Apostle Paul said it's better for a man to remain single unless he is burning with fornication lust, then he must get married. So, if you have sexual self-control, all you need is yourself to be happy.
I'm 28, been 8 years so far.
Young men, listen to an older man. Do not marry and get children! The laws are against you. You can be the best father and husband ever. You will not have a chance. Enjoy your life! It is too short
This is one hundred percent true.
jfl just be chad
Real talk, approve this msg.
@@swashbuckler8589and if you’re not Chad, get a hooker. 😂
@@swashbuckler8589 (jfl just be chad)
Right!... and get an STD that she got from another chad, lol
The truth is if women had social media back in the 90s, most of your dads would've been in Sells
boomers would all have been divorced too
at least we wouldn't have to deal with it, we would just be at the end of it to get to the solution fast.
Yeah, I'm 62, and I often think, "If social media were a thing back when I was a kid, I probably would've been an incel." Not hunkered down in the incel community, but an incel by definition (virgin, unable to get laid or get a girlfriend). I am 5' 7", and when I was younger, I was socially anxious and awkward, kind of nerdy (still am -- the nerdy part, although I call it "intellectual" now, lol). I managed to get laid at 19 and a girlfriend at 23, although it was not easy. No doubt I would've been an incel if I had the modern woman and social media to deal with.
And the 1950s too. There’s no religion, ideology, or political movement that can correct f/em/ale nature.
social media isn't the reason for the destruction of family, that's destruction of politics. Though the two topics both have a lot of confirmation bias and cope. What's breaking up the family is the "sexualization" that started in the 60s.
If 2/3 men are single and only 1/3 women are single, that means 2/3 of women are sharing 1/3 of men.
Either case we won't have enough kids to replace us with. That's the real issue.
that's 2/3 of younger men. the situation reverses for older men and women. which means that the younger women are dating the older men. that could be in addition to the sharing of men which can occur at any age.
Those stats are from a younger age cohort. Some of those women are dating older men.
Don't be surprised if these women invent new STDs because of it. 😂
@@ot23234 No, those stats are from ALL ages. Our DNA shows that only 1 in 3 men who ever lived reproduced while 2/3 of women did. That means women share a man with one other woman, historically. On Tinder she shares him with 7 other women.
When it comes to some games, the only way to win is not to play.
amen to that
💯
Well let me tell you - I got married at 25 was married for 23 years - no kids - now 55 years old and don't give shit about even dating -- marriage was a nightmare - not every marriage out there but most ! And you don't end off in a better financial situation ! And I could still date I'm 6'4" 200 lbs have all my brown hair - clean cut - no tats - no piercing - I found out that women just want to argue about nothing . Please guys out there be really careful !
They're addicted to drama and are more interested in what other women "have". F that!!!
😒 yeah, ive been there Four times in my lifetime, its just not in the cards for most, this kid is delusional about religion and church, even if u are an Elect of God it means nothing, u will not beat the Stats, the meek will inherit the earth but while ur alive all u r is a target for the Reprobate, to b used and tooled. wake up.
we men live in reality, when we watch some tiktok Reels about some other people doing cool shit, we just say "ok cool" meanwhile women tend to think "why is this not our life? i need another men". Social media has ruined logic of society
Same...I'm 55 wife left me for a twice divorced co worker....it's been 10 months and I am starting to enjoy just doing my own thing.....I did date a woman for a couple of months and she was looking to move in.....hell no with that.....I have decided to just concentrate on helping my daughters and making myself the best I can be. Good luck to all who read this.
@@digidrum2003 😏 dam, u dodged a bullet, the Vultures didnt waste any time trying to lock u in
Dear young men (70 y/o dude here) work on yourself, your career, your health, adventures, your wealth. Women can wait. From what I have seen, most young women are not worth your time.
They call it “ho-flation.” It’s the concept that a young man today has to work 5x harder than his grandfather to attract a woman worth 1/5 of what women in his grandmother’s time were.
Work on myself so she can cuck me, got it.
Millennial guy here. Yup, women from my generation and gen z are probably the worst generation(s) of females out there. I had my experiences with them, but my priorities (career, experiences, and self-improvement) is far more valuable.
what men are offered to marry or date to date today is appalling, marriage is the only contract where one party gets rewarded for breaking it
62 year old man here. Stay away from women!
I'm one of them. The key to forgetting girls is to never get bored. Start a business, try to master a skill, etc.
Thank you
I'm 43. Living in my paid off house on top of a mountain with my dogs. Watching this on my 4090 gtx gaming pc. Only working a few hours a week, business is pretty automated now. Biggest stress is what to play or watch. It's so peaceful ✌️ 😌
Start playing chess 😊
Very cool, could I ask what business you have? You don't need to be too specific, I'm 25 and that sounds like a boss life to me.
@@jo18533 Sounds like a reddit larp to me. This guy is so happy hes watching videos about men being single. Yeah ok
First girl I’ve ever dated I met in Christian camp. She cheated on me. I broke up with her. She somehow turn the youth pastors against me
women are women. different software, same hardware. take care.
Judgment day will not be fun for her
@@jessesdomain444doubt, seems like God is lenient towards women more, look at how nature works.
She is a sinner
She did that to try to make others think you were the bad one (the Cheater), when she was. Narcissists play that game all the time, they accuse you of doing whatever they did to others, so no one will believe your side of the story.
Social media absolutely destroyed women
it just exposed their true nature
@@hardtarget8 true
It’s just nature trying to gain equilibrium nothing crazy.
It just showed us what they are. Selfish.
And divorce destroyed men.
Its not just young men. Im 38 years old, and a year ago my girlfriend left me for another guy and kicked me out of my house. I was homeless for a while but i picked myself up, got a place to live, got a better paid job and after a few months started dating again. Ive gotten involved with two women in the last year. Both of whom i developed feelings for and both of whom suddenly made up excuses not to see me and then ghosted me.
Im done. I cant do this anymore. I dont want to waste my time getting to know someone just for them to up and leave. Its either because of a bad ex boyfriend or because they dont know what they want. Regardless, Im out.
My advice to younger men is focus on developing yourself, spend time with family and enjoy your hobbies whilst building wealth.
Dating is dead
I’m glad you were able to get back up. But yeah I don’t think it’s something anyone should fully give up on. I think you keep doing the same and working on yourself and if you still want to date again you can and then you start leaving or ghosting the women who you know aren’t committed or going to work out
You mean you lost your fcking house?
@@alexjulius69 yeah. My house, my dog, 3 grand I'd put into a holiday and a lot more
@@outsider669 That's so unfair, I'll honestly never marry, lol as if I'll ever get that option at this day and age to begin with, we're all fucked my friend
I've had a couple of official girlfriends in my history of dating. Each one of them was worse than the last. Some women will spare no expense to completely humiliate you, shame you, demoralize you, and manipulate you. I was a walking wallet and validation generator or someone's cheating fetish. The misery I felt in those times were almost more than I could bear. Who would look at those times and say, "yeah I could go for some more of that"? You would have to be actually insane to want more of that kind of treatment.
Sixty seven years-old guy, still single and childfree.
66 here and loving it. Was able to retire early, no drama or sharing of resources.
Wining
The level of peace, accomplishment and disposable income that you have must be amazing.
55, no children never married. Retired in my 40s. Couldn't be happier!
My Hero 😏👍
Men build. Women occupy.
they take and leav u holding the bag
Now men don't have wives or any incentive to build anymore. Hence the reason they're bringing in illegals to take over in America.
@@MrSamadolfonah these days , they just leave your ass empty handed n take the bag too
@@andrewevans7992 😏 yeah ur rite broh, gotta get my bag and run! 😄
Males build the nest for the female and her offsprings.
the consequences of modern feminism.
The only way not to lose, is not to play the game. Take it from me, 38 year old divorcee. Being a lone wolf, is a wonderful life.
MGTOW is the best thing that has happened to men in the last 1,000 years. Freedom from financial pred ators.
It's not for every man. In fact, most men aren't good on their own. It's an avenue if you're honest with yourself and you prefer to be alone. Otherwise, I would steer clear from that life. These days, Mgtow is more akin to feminism in that its the opposite side of the coin. In the old days it was focused on men offering each other advice on how to better their lives. Now it's hyperfocused on why woman are the problem. I did a deep dive for a few years into the community and I frankly didn't like how I started viewing people. It's become cultish.
Complaining that the modern wife earns a paycheck?
@@natashadickson48192 talking ovaries
@@thedude8526 So, stay out of the cult. Go your own way. You can be MGTOW, red pill whatever without following the crowd.
@natashadickson4819
By choice, you only see an incredibly narrow sliver of the issue, and strawman against a burgeoning community you refuse to understand.
Ignore the vast problems that choke away society and civility if you will. It's your downfall.
A lot of men only stay married because a divorce would leave them penniless. She would get the house, the kids, the alimony. It's a bad deal.
"Cheaper to keep her," as they say.
PRENUP ALWAYS
And be prepared to have that pre-nup chopped down or thrown out by the judge. Happens all the time. @@__Shun
@@__Shun I wouldn't put much trust in prenups. They are regularly chopped down or thrown out entirely by family court judges, who are notoriously biased against men. Prenups also will not protect you from unfair child support arrangements, which destroy a lot of men. And even the best prenup can be challenged in court, which means tens of thousands in legal fees to defend it, with no guarantee of a good outcome.
@@__Shun It is better to use a prenup contract as toilet paper than as a legal defense in court in a failed attempt to prevent yourself from being forced to pay alimony for an ex-wife. All she has to do is falsely claim that she signed it "under duress" and that contract will be voided and thrown out the window faster than you can blink.
Why bother. Their greed is extreme and their expectations are so unrealistic. Social media has destroyed realism.
feminism destroyed it
Young men ? Most men , of all ages …
Women cherry pick each desirable trait and expect the next guy to have each exceptional trait of the last guy until she wants 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, the body of Max Fantastic Absfactory, the 12" personality of Tyrone Tyreesius Dickerdown Brown, the status of Baron Oilrigs Goydollar Sr and the millions of dollars of Lord Nigel Pennyworth Bankbalance all rolled in to one Frankenstein GigaChad. 😂
😏 LOL , that was a goof one kid 👍
😂😂😂😂
u won the internet today🍻
good one
Absolutely died reading this, I am now taking a photo and sending this to my friends.
@@LawDescendant Glad to have given you a chuckle.
At 20 I was ultra nice to women. At 30 I realized thats a huge mistake because they think you are weak if you are kind. At 40 I said enough is enough, I just dont have it in me to be cruel to women but thats absolutely the only way to gain their respect. Built a nice life for myself since. The level of stress a woman causes a man is a silent killer. You dont realize it until you're free. Happier, healthier and wealthier. Not for everyone but damn sure is for me.
Legit that's part of what creates red pill rage.
You see the coding of the matrix I. Regards to evolutionary psychology and you the reality for what it is. Then you come to really see how, when left unchecked, women will destroy everything they infect and infiltrate and you see the only way to stop it is to control them and that is what creates the anger. It's the fact you have to treat them a certain and be cruel and the majority of us are not like that at all.
That's what makes me angry.thats what makes me want to head into the woods and live my life left In peace.
Did the same thing ;
Nice = used.
Demanding/borderline psycho = they bend over backwards - literally AND figuratively -
I adored, truly loved the women I was with. In the balance she was very good to me. At the end? Last 4 years… Pure soul sucking, goal destroying, life demotivating POISON. Still f##ked me silly until the day she left.
Similar situation for me around that age range, though it took me in my 40s to realize being really kind to women is foolish, especially if those women were in abusive relationships and I wanted to show I was different. I've noticed almost every western woman I've been in a relationship with or at least close friends with have given me drama for the dumbest things. Yet, most of the foreign women I've chatted with from Southeast Asia and Africa didn't give me the problems western women did. It's as though I was free to be myself. They liked me for who I was, rarely complained about things I did that bothered them, almost no drama.
With western women, it often seems like you have to be somewhat manipulative to get their attention, to be attractive. It really feels like you can't fully love them.
Nothing silent about it, it’s clear as a bell for anyone to observe in others. Statistics are all published. But that’s what subjugation is, after the short lived shex and the city life and honeymoon. It’s a hell of a price to pay for the rest of one’s life which is a very long way to go, very long relative. Can’t do it over. Tremendous sacrifices will be made though, nothing comes easy that’s worth it.
All my married friends are just a shell and dead inside.
Once fun and full of life, now fully whipped, trapped in the bounds of an inescapable miserable contract.
The sad life of an oofy doofy betabux
Ecclesiastes 7:28 '
while I was still searching but not finding- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.'
Should be top comment. Even the bible and whoever wrote it knew this shit
@@user-2Hteyasizyc goes to show. Women have been women since the biblical times
Social media hasn't improved life at all.
true
eh idk I call knowing how the government acts and lies an improvement to the fact most trusted it before blindly
True
It made it anti social
Only the lives of females
If you're not the Chad she's chasing, leave her alone. If you're not her first choice, you will be used, resented, and mistreated every time. Let her be some other guy's heartbreak and ruin.
I've been single with no friends since 23 years old, I'm 36 right now. Never felt lonely, or like I need someone in my life. Loneliness is a mindset not a status, if you love and respect yourself and enjoy your own company and doing things for yourself, you are never lonely, you are just free. There's nothing to be scared of. Of course it's not for everyone, but it is actually really addictive to be living for yourself and be the sole decision taker in your whole personal life.
The only winning move is to not play until the laws and culture change
its all u can do, wether u like it or not
@@MrSamadolfonot really but yeah
Toiletmannd. You're correct.
@@jurassicthunder What other option is there? Genuinely curious
Jesus is going to come back and judge the world, do not be deceived. We cannot be justified by our good deeds, we can only be justified by believing in Jesus Christ and that He took our punishment in our place when He died on the cross, that and repenting of our sins. Don't believe because I said so, believe instead because its true!
They're not turning their backs on women.
They're just NOT wasting time on a woman who they perceive to NOT be attracted to THEM. They're tired of the mind games. Even if it means not dating AT ALL.
Facts. We're no longer entertaining the chic playing "hard to get".
She didn't do that shit with the one night stands she took part in 😊
Well said, the sooner you realize this the better off you will be
which is pretty much every girl. 80% of women find men unnatractive so have fun. they only want to use u and men are most def turning their backs
They're tired of being rejected, and told that their desire for a mate is evil, unnatural and sick, just because they're not "Chad."
@@jamesowen4938 or pookie n rayray
As a man life is too short for the games of females. Can't say sex was any big deal. Being single is so much better. No hassles or games.
Women aren’t loyal as their feelings change with the wind. And all it takes is one perceived slip up on your part and they will breakup with you no matter the time or investment you’ve put into the relationship.
Can’t take this guy seriously after he said Christian women respect their vows.
The research says otherwise
Don't let a small minority of bad unfaithful Christians warp your mind. In general, Christian values will be better than some liberal unreligious women.
Depends on the Church. The one I grew up in everyone kinda got married around 21 (Except me). I'm 45 now and 95% of them are still married. 20 some years is a pretty long time these days.
Yes a bit of blindness for sure. Just see the story I love on Strong successful male and the Preacher's daughter and she is the carousel rider. 🤔 also, many girls return to church to get the good guy after she been with all the bad guys 🤔 But he thinks in the old way is was the right place. Now I think is more in Asia or like that you will find the girl that stay with you. Still you need ruls and guid her so she doesn't destroy your life. 🤔
After he said “God … “ I turned it off … 😂
🙂 very delusional, u wont beat the stats, but sure you mite be the lucky 1% but for most kids its over, its been over for a long time now. We are way past Peak Oil.
The problem is that the risk versus the reward is not worth it. 80% of women divorce men with more than 50 percent rate of divorce!!! Women love relationships free food and gifts without give anything. If sex is the only thing she offers stay single invest in yourself.
Are you trying to say that women arent amazing nurturers and bringers of love and warmth? Those women that want all those things do that because of men
That didn’t hold them to certain standards . The human instinct is to get your needs met and get as much as you can. Some men will manipulate and use women for their needs without giving much back either IF the woman allows this! Too many guys have spoiled women rotten and bought them everything so now they expect that from all men .. blame men for modern women’s entitlement.
Btw no one is saying you must marry these women - you can still date them casually and just have fun. Just go out and give it a shot - just be sensible
@@brianmeen2158 but social norms allow women to do so an men not
True. They only see men as a retirement plan, as a resource to be mined and extracted
@@brianmeen2158 No, men are only half of the problem.
Euh … nowadays young women are higher educated and earn more than men … so “the taking half of my stuff” meme … is explained by the woman taking her own stuff and letting some behind 😂
No thanks, the single life is much more attractive to me for now.
I had bad experiences dating in my early 20s when I was broke but I'm glad it happened. Because now I'm 35 happy on my own with lots of money and I do what I want while my married friends are always miserable.
With so many men staying single I wonder if men will now live longer?
They will live longer if they eat vegetables, clean and go to the doctor more than they used to
If they practice semen retention yeah.
They will
I will
Fewer self-deletions through divorce, that's for sure. (Men's self-deletion rate after divorce doubles from it's already 4x, making it 8x women's rate.)
For men dating is a job interview for women it’s window shopping.
Reverse this for marriage, dating or being "in a relationship" is the interview process for women, and for men it is about evaluating her worth to the company.
Which is ridiculous since statistically speaking there are more females than males in the world
@@matthewdancz9152oh gosh
And why shouldn't a woman be sure he's the right guy? Women can be very choosy these days, unlike in the past when everyone expected them to be married by a certain age. We don't need to be married anymore, we have our own homes, bank accounts and can get bank credit without a man's signature now. We are independent at last.
@@VMM34 Because
1.- You don't make wise decisions, you only care for looks and money (in spite of being "independent") yet complain when these guys dump you that all men are the same.
Literal childish mentality
2.- You are not as "happy" as you preach, you think having a cat and a wine collection is the sole purpose in life yet according to statistics you are the number one consumers of antidepressants.
Makes you think that such liberty is not also your poison
Have been single for 25yrs now 76 and lost 1/2 my net worth twice. Trust me single guys you wont be lonely if you chose good friends. Better to be single and alone than married and miserable. Being single = PEACE and no drama. Remember the definition of a bachelor - a man who has cheated some woman out of a divorce!
I'm through with the dating game. I am age 60 and I could be a hundred thousand dollars richer if I didn't chase and date women from age 18 to age 50. Wasted my time and money when I should have invested 90% my time in making money and my financial security. One thing, I am fortunate I never got married!
Gay dudes right now:
“We got ‘em right where we want ‘em boys”
🤣
That's plain disgusting, the higher ups calculated all this to either force isolation and depression or males to become depraved.
@@khhv1900 they created a demographic crisis/population collapse and they're doing everything to make it worse
@@khhv1900 Homosexuality is natural in many animals, and they fill an important purpose in group dynamics among social animals like humans. The issue is not gay guys, the issue is heterosexuals not getting any kids anymore.
@@khhv1900 nah, it's more unintended consequences from social media.
But if Luke gets divorced graped in family court, no church is going to help him.
They'll try to hook him up with one of the single moms in the congregation
@@wpizdets2640 That was the one who divorce graped him. I remember a pastor (in a divorce-not-ok church) who got divorced, he had to change jobs. Also...what if Luke doesn't want to marry a single mom? 'Thanks congregation, but no thanks'.
Yeah churches want people to get married but they are not there when the woman divorces the husband.
exactly, church will blame it all on the man, even thought the bible is all about woman being the weak link
Yup, it's very unfair towards men when it comes to relationships with women. That is why my heart turned colder towards women than the event horizon of a black hole. I don't care about being without one and haven't for over two decades now. Women harshly rejected me one time too many, now I reject them.
I think and do the same as you!! Had a girl reject me one time years later she tried speaking to me gave her the silent treatment
One explanation is clear enough. Women in many cases are now making more than men, and they aren't sharing.
And in many areas they now have more job opportunity. In todays U.S. Federal administration for instance as was proudly stated, 70% of all appointments to the landed gubmt jobs with bennies were women. And thanks to the financial aid systems that favor them, most college grads now are women too.
Whenever a man doesn't get the job in the U.S., its celebrated in the media. Why should men continue to pick up the tabs, hold the doors, and pay to support women when women increasingly now also have all the opportunity and money too?
The answer is a trade, especially one that leads to one's own business, like Electrician or Plumber. Women hate to do these jobs, they pay well, and eventually you can work for yourself slowly by taking on clients on the side until you have enough to work F/T for yourself...
There’s def an economic factor
I did want a wife & kids, but I'm simply not attractive. I'm too old now. And I've come to terms with it. There's lots of good to do in the world. A man alone, without dependents, can be a powerful constructive force in society.
Great perspective, though I appreciate the pain. Well done, and go do good. Even do great. Be a blessing.
pussy is bait, thank almighty women didnt want you.
After all we built all of this ...
As worker be did our Job .... and what does Qi be do?
Well We Shielded them and its Too Comfortable , inevitably forget that IT TAKES 2 IN ANYTHING TO ACHIEVE
Great Philosophy!!
Hi! You are never to old and ugly. I was thinking that way to I land in Phuket, Thailand the girls was amazing and they didn't care I was fat or a nice guy. I had 100 of girls that wanted to stay with me. Sure they think I had money is life. But if you look around and look for redflags you can find a good girl. Best is to go to Thailand and have a holiday trip and have fun. You don't need friends with you. You will find people around you and get new friends. Don't get crazy in love. Study a bit and go there with a open mind. Is my advice or some other country you like.
Appears modern women would rather share a top 10% man than date the remaining 90%
And time goes by and they have no one .
@@recabitejehonadab2654 LOL - And they will blame men for their loneliness
they would rather have 1 day with the top 10% than have a consistent person there for them for a month
That has always been the case. Monogamy was invented by poor average males. Back in the day, the average male did not reproduce and lived short, miserable lifes with no purpose.
@@teoleno4019 no since grape was a thing
I can speak as a 41 year old male. I'm not married. Life can be boring sometimes, but I'm free and live in peace with my choice. Many of my friends are starting to get divorced. I was reluctant to get involved with women since young age, because my uncle was one of the first men to be ruined by divorce around here. Totally ruined. No, thanks.
Be there for your buddies is all I can say
Please be there for your buddies. I know they might not have been there for you, but they were in a Love Cult that was brainwashing them. We're all human.
Loyalty and appreciation are dead thus my enthusiasm for seeking a Woman is also dead.
The best way to win is not to play the game.
The Joshua Option in other words 😏
If I wanna play games I got my PlayStation
@@slapshotjack9806 same here dude no cap I'm getting out my PS5 😏😎
true no cap fr
Explain how future generations are going to be created without people finding partners? We have to play the game, otherwise the human race might go extinct and while it does the world will rapidly become more troublesome to navigate through.
I call this, 'The Abandonment'. Weak men opened the door to this disaster, modern women picked at the wound until it festered into the rotten corpse we call modern dating. And so reasoned man, by the millions, have walked away from the rigged game.
Better to b in the willderness than to live Walking on Eggshells.
boomers. that's who allowed this to happen. boomers. hippies and the silent majority.
boomers. that's who you're talking about opening this door.
smarter men got passports!
@@jurassicthunderand is millennials
So if more women are in relationships and most men are single these ladies are legit sharing the same 5 dudes thinking they are exclusive.
My dad is a multi millionaire he told me that he loves being single he has freedom no woman drama he can get any girl he wants but he don't wanna deal with law suits and losing all his money over sex.
Social media and dating apps have made dating awful for the average man.
Even an average looking woman can easily find Chad on the internet, now.
Chad pumps and dumps, knowing there’s another woman waiting in line.
Even dudes in relationships are affected.
Rub your woman the wrong way, she may walk, knowing a “better dude” is out there.
Your so right I'm a alright looking dude and I have been rejected a lot I'm done. Even the real ugly women can get sex way before I can.
@@theone7216 average isn't enough.. must be chad
it's all over
Dude, let her walk... then thank her. The worst that could happen is she ends up staying with you and you get trapped! Women aren't worth 'having'... only worth using like they do to men. Wake up ya'll!
Nah most guys who struggle just aren’t putting in much effort. People like me who are only attracted to 1% (if that) of women and don’t find people that interesting are a minority
Wake up. The game is rigged. Even when you meet the three 6’s (6 pack, 6 feet tall, 6 figure salary), they will try to find someone better.
If she gets prince charming, she wants the king. Its the hypergamy instinct on display within females to ALWAYS be looking for the better deal.
@@yoyo762 hypergamy isnt real or an instinct it was created by uncle sam.its real as in dating up,but that biological nature BS? no
not if you settle for someone who is short, fat and ugly.
"ring a ding ding baby. The game was rigged from the start."
There’s a reason they love the 6-6-6 rule. Stay away from such superficial women
In my country, 96percent of men between 18 and 35 are single. I’ve chosen the same path. Zero contact for the last decade.
Same here
Which country you are from?
what country is this? how the hell will the society even survive?
@@CountChokcula it won't its all going to plan of satan's government...... as satan runs ALL government romans 13: 1 is kind crap UNLESS understand the estoerical of law of SEA (man) vs law of LAND (God) MUCH prefere matthew 4 8 that says DISOBEY government they want you to worship say10!
@@CountChokcula you are naive to think that govs care about its people. Govs simply gonna open the doors for immigration, that's it.
Its simple. Men finally realized that women arent the prize they claim to be.
$1,500,000
That's what my divorce cost me. Plus 2.5 years to get it done and $90,000 in lawyer fees. You guys sure you want to sign up for that?
Through our marriage my formerly super fit wife put on 90 lbs. and s*x was rare.
Ask the question; what does State sanctioned legal marriage provide that men can't already get without it?
Ouch!
Bro! Not gay here...but I read this and I just sincerely want to give you a hug 😂 Seriously, this is awful and should be required reading for all single males.
Get this@@clovers-zi5fe, even my former in-laws feel bad for me. And thanks for your kindness. I appreciate it.
I'm so sorry dude. @clovers-zi5fe said "No homo" and I agree, but maybe the women were right to say that maybe we need to start hanging out more with each other and give a fucking bro hug from time to time because this shit is horrible man. I don't think it's healthy for any man to go through losing 1.5 million and just expect him to "be okay." I do think guys might need to start making bro nights and live like how we actually wanted to live just minus the women.
+90 lbs. The classic bait and switch when the female pretends to be very interested in her fitness and weight but pulls the pin on the fat grenade the second she lands a provider.
"Do you really want to spend the next 60 years of your life alone". Want? No. Am I willing to instead of dealing with entitled princesses with nothing to offer? Absolutely yes.
While I do not prefer to be alone, it is far better than fantasizing about sewer slide which happened more than once in some of the more nightmarish relationships I've been in. Honestly, this is the least bad option
Feeling lonely a couple hours a week is better than playing games 24/7 with a woman who has 6 other men on rotation
Trust me you rather not married an entitled person no matter how lonely. Because you still can have friends and loneliness is a state of mind. Rather pray for one that is made just for you. It works you know, at least it worked for me ... and I am not special at all.
Happily Ever After:
"Once upon a time, a prince asked a beautiful princess "Will you marry me?" The princess said NO!, and the prince lived happily ever after. And he rode motorcycles and fucked cute skinny girls and hunted and raced cars and went to naked bars, and dated women half his age, and drank beer, Jack Daniel's and Captain Morgan, and drank the milk from the box, and never heard bitching, and never paid child support or alimony. And kept his house and guns, and never got cheated on while he was at work, and all his friends and family thought he was fucking cool as hell, and he had tons of money, and he left the toilet seat up.
The End"
@@EK-tl6es Feels like even the women who are too old to bath in affection, they're still playing games, manipulate and shame or threaten him on an emotional level. I know there are exceptions, but I don't see many of these.
Woke women is the problem.
No woman I really wanted ever rejected me, I'm still done with them. THAT'S how bad it is. The problem isn't men, it's women.
preachhh.
Yup
Damn
this is what non-accountability sounds like...
Gen 2:18,22-24
"18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
The divorce rate in these Churches is almost the same as outside these churches.
probably denominational churches such as catholicism, anglicanism etc, not Biblical churches of God that actually preach, obey and honour God's Holy Word.
Jehovah witnesses are 1% but Will probably get a little bit higher
Jehovah witnesses are like 1% but Will probably get higher considering the world enviroment like feminism, Netflix and other stuff around
Because stepping into a Church does not make you a Christian. It's not the place that you step into that make you the follower of Christ, it's the heart , it's the love for God's word, it's the desire to understand what the bible is trying to say that make a discipleship a genuine one. If you are looking at statistics ... you got it wrong, because obeying God is not an easy task but once you get it right, life is a breeze. Not everyone who attend church on Sunday or anyday is a Christian.
@@hillarysudeikis2264Oh please cut the crap. You non denominationals are hippies with a cross. Your divorce are slightly higher than the papists.
its because its unfair. Everyone women i dated ALL had other men after them, i literally had just her in my DMs. It made it seem like i had up my game and could never just be myself i had to "prove myself" while she just turns up and looks pretty. I started become this fake 'better version' of myself but i was never happy, just damn door mat to my gf.
Relatable
Simply put - the juice ain't worth the squeeze
it's like squeezing out apple juice really, its wonderful but like, nope
My 22 year old son makes $60k and works 50 hrs a week then plays video games . I asked him this question. He said he just doesn’t want to deal with the women and he plays games online with his friends
Your son is very wise for his age! Congrats.
very smart kid, take a trip together to the family court house, watch the guys after they come out of the courtrooms, take a good long look. dont b that sucker
He is poor in today's woman's standards because he need to make 100k+ for most of the woman's here in occident...😅
@@manueldelcaribe 100K+ 7 foot tall, chad looking, have humor, and do everything for her anytime...😂
That's awesome! Your son seems for be doing very well for most people his age. Heck I wish I had his mentality when I was 22😅.
We are taking it from behind from the government, women, life, taxes, mental health and as this guy's behind said, we're in our bussy era
😭😭
Harder 😩
IMA BRING DA LUBE
Uncle Sam goes HAM for some bussy.
what a bunch of losers here, we need to stop this defeatist mindset and start demanding equality from the govy.
A lawyer specializing in divorce declared with a lot of knowledge that no one should get married, it is not worth the trouble, especially for men, marriage is a contract that punishes the man if he breaks it and rewards the woman if he breaks it, all laws favor women, right now several States are in the process of approving laws of concubinage and cohabitation so that if a man and a woman live under the same roof for a certain time, the couple will be a de Facto marriage and the separation will be exactly like a divorce.
So happy I'm single.. social media ruined everything..
feminism runied everything
They are not looking for a bf but someone who can do things for them.
Like pay the bills and pay for other men’s mistakes. Sad but true.
in other words, a slave
They just want to use guys. And will dump you when they find the 6ft. Six pack. Wealthy Chad. Stay single guys.
@@OfSoulAndSinVery true. Women for some reason love punishing you for whatever grievances they have against their exes and project their exes issues onto you. One of the most toxic experiences ever
smells like waman's are a super fire dumpster of a bad investment at best lmfao no cap
It is a much better bet to be single and well off and low stress than lonely in a sexless marriage where there's always the threat of having your house, kids and half your income and investments confiscated. Being single doesn't equal being lonely. I have friends and housemate(s) who aren't my legal superiors positioned to take my house and income.
Umm , I have been married 28 years . As for being stuck in a sexless marriage, well something is wrong with us because me and my lovely wife are at it alot😊. Yeah there are low times and wild times. Now it's wild good . We raised 7 children. And God is the centre of our life. The key is our love for each other is not enough, it's God's love in our relationship that keeps the fire burning. Point is don't live in fear. Cease the day while you can.
@matthewashman1406 There are plenty of people who believe in God and still are single bro.
Also God doesn't work that way either.
@@matthewashman1406not enough men like you. You sir, are a rare breed of man
I have met very few married men that say they have a satisfying sex life. Congratulations on beating the odds. I’ve starved my entire married life except for the first year.
@@matthewashman1406i respect this
A very wise young man. Work on yourself-get a lot of education, workout a lot, and forget women.
The facts are a man can rebuild his life at almost any age but a woman has a Ltd time to have a family so men don’t need to rush in at all it’s the women who have the time problem not men
Im 38 it never even began
40. Same.
You never tried dating at all? Why not?
@@brianmeen2158 I'm in a similar boat, it just never happened and I missed out. I have no interest in women my age and it is creepy to date younger. Guess I am just going to stay single for the rest of my life.
Go to Thailand and get your feet wet. But seriously, use a condom because STDs are annoying and you don't want to knock up a hoe.
@@hocuspocus9713 It's not creepy if you keep fit and healthy. My ex who i dated for 3 years was 15 years younger than me (she 18 me 33 when we started dating)
GIVE UP! Dating is over. Unless you want to be disrespected and cheated on
correct, i just let women approach me now, if it works out, great, but i am not going to pursue or chase
Some of us are called to a single life. Paul did say that he wished that all could be as him , which was single.
Because single people are focused on pleasing the Lord while married people are focused of pleasing their partners.
I've been single 3 years and I'm at peace and happy.
Im a 6ft4 male with an athletic body but every relationship i had my partner would back stab me I gave up
Its because she wanted 6'5
You are naive dude. Lots of divorcees identify as strong Christians. The laws are not on your side. Not even a prenup can save you.
Truest true. I grew up around Christians and I went to school with them and all of those popular "exemplary Christian" parents are now divorced, because they all cheated on each other including cheating with the school counselor. Christianity is not a golden goose when it comes to relationships, nor is culture with import wives. I will remain single until the court system is fixed. By the way giving up on women is the most freeing feeling in the world, not having the responsibility to save a lot of money so they can waste it all, for which you need to work thrice as hard due to inflation. I have all the time and money now to travel and focus on my creative pursuits or just fuck about and play videogames. Men are better off because we need less in life to be happy. I'd like to see those social media addicted, careerslave, unhappily unmarried millennial women try lol
2023 I tried
2024 I quit
Men want to try and be with women, but get rejected for a long list of reasons. Women want to avoid men and choose to be single.
I quit 2014 no regrets
40 now
Married at 27
Divorced at 39
I thought I was the last generation that had a chance to make it.
I was wrong.
I have no desire for W anymore
true ... @@CommandoMaster
You dated for one year and decided to quit? You should give it more of a chance