Love Lost In DM's Pt. 1: Diamond Standifer v Malik Johnson
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- čas přidán 17. 11. 2023
- Diamond says her boyfriend is a disrespectful cheater who neglects his duties as a father. She says she’s ready to take back her life and end this toxic relationship for the sake of their daughter.
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“I want to save my relationship, so my daughter grows up in a 2 parent home.” As he stands up there and LIE & prove every reason why she should leave 😂
That's basically the mindset of almost most males. They over value their presence in the home- especially when they're not sh*t in the first place. They cry about women initiating divorces for "no reason."
The main reason y'all wanna leave is because as y'all say, "YOU DONT NEED NO MAN" once y'all get that contract or that seed in you the acting stops, the most high saved me from these traps I'm so thankful 🙏🏿✌🏿
@@motivation-hd7mwMales love to gaslight. The man in this episode is literally disrespectful and yet you still managed to put blame on women. Something is seriously wrong with the male DNA. You weren't saved from any traps, you just run away from responsibility and look for excuses to not level up as a man.
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@@motivation-hd7mw BYE 😴
Women be having all the proof that their man is a cheater and still won’t leave. They get what they deserve if they stay.
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this is what happens when y'all take away the intended role of man and replace it with were "equals" 🤣 loyalty for a man and a woman are two different things but these cycles continue for yall smh, we embrace truth around these parts and my woman will be taken care of.
@@motivation-hd7mw You must be miserable as hell in whatever “lifestyle” you’re trying to promote cause you seem like you have a point to prove here that has nothing to do with the point he’s a lying sneaky cheater. You’re under every comment with foolery. Nobody has to sit back and be a man’s doormat while you feed your fleshly desires because you have 0 discipline & self-control - get over yourself and stick to whomever you CLAIM you have. Any woman with self esteem ain’t going for a broke CHEATER, go cry about it. And plz believe if she’s “allowing” you to creep off…some man is creeping into your spot while you’re gone. Cheers to that. 🥂
@@motivation-hd7mwodd statement as in this case, the man’s part was vacant.
@@Sarahlee358 i was replying to a comment and it's not odd at all, females weren't taught to respect the masculine principle there taught to compete with it, the man in his right mind is the head and the protector and provider for the family, take that away and bring chaos into the society was the goal and it's working
A good dude? The sister is trifling. What good dude misses his baby shower, his daughter's half birthday, lies a lot and is a cheater? Girl bye
Cuz the sister is probably sleeping with him
who the hell celebrates a HALF birthday?🙄
@@d820ma lot of people do with their first child…
@@pcpdee1356 i didn't with either of my three boys...because it just didn't make sense
@@d820m that is totally fine. But the point is he agreed to it - so it doesn’t matter whether you think it’s dumb or not he agreed to it. Let’s not be dense.
SIS you didn't need to be here Judge Toler: "never let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you"
That quote is burned in my head!!!!
He's addicted to DM sliding and her sister will probably be his next victim, why on earth would she be in court as his witness otherwise, that struck me as being very suspect 😮
If she’s not already... Ain’t no way in the world my daughter would be standing with anyone against her sister… especially in a situation like this one.
Exactly...a cheater doesn't care who he targets
Black women mostly choose to be single mothers. have kids first, have an independent mindset, and don't ask for marriage first. Who's fault is that, hers.
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Maybe that's why the sister is there shes been there done that and now saying he's a good man
When a man shows you who he is, believe him! He can say whatever he wants but his actions show that he does not care at all. Ladies you have to start listening with your eyes as well as your ears
“So nobody wants you but me” girl that is not a flex. That should be telling you something. Are you not embarrazzed ? SMH he is such a loser and but she already knew that. Ladies, you have got to do better
That part 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ that is not something to be proud of
"The most beautiful baby girl you ever seen in your life" had GUILTY all over it 😂
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"Don't come to me unless I, send for you, young man "Judge Star come out her bag in beast mode and put him on straight lock down , SHE DON'T PLAY AT ALL
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She says: "Nobody wants you but me." Why the hell!!! He's all about him, and will ALWAYS be all about him!!! If NOTHING ELSE, YOUR DAUGHTER DESERVES LOADS BETTER!!!
We need part 2 ASAP 😂😂
Yes! Where is it!!!
My friends better not invite me to a 6th month birthday party! 😂
Right! 🙄😂😂
That is definitely something just for the family. 😂
In the highlights for Part 2, her sister comes as a defense to this joker and she says he’s a good dude. Usually when the worst character individual, just like Malik, is defended by the young lady’s sister saying he’s a good dude often means that the defendant and his witness,the Plaintiff’s sister, is often an indication that the sister and the defendant is in a relationship with one another. This appears to be a straight betrayal of her sister. I’ll see what Part 2 brings and how everything plays out.
Exactly he and the sister are SMASHING 🤣🤣
@@lalabbyx💯💯💯💯💯
He and the sister GOTTA BE SMASHING...
A 6 month birthday party only requires 1 cupcake with 1 candle and a 4.99 teddy bear. Y’all sing happy birthday, help her blow out her candle, clap with great excitement, peel the paper from around the cup cake, and let her have at it. The baby smearing the cupcake on her face, and most of it ends on her clothes and the floor will bring her instant joy. Afterwards, give her the $4.99 teddy bear while she play with it in her play pen. The entire event lasts about 30 minutes or less and both parents can resume their evening. The baby won’t remember it anyway. Furthermore, the birthday party is actually for the parent(s) anyway.
Sing happy birthday and it's not even the baby's birthday 😮. People do too much for attention.
He could've did that especially since he didn't go to the baby shower🤯🤯🤦🏾♀️
so what do you actually sing at these things? 🎶Happy HALF-birthday to you, Happy HALF-birthday to you, how dumb is this bull-shit, Happy HALF-birthday to you!!!!🎶 🤣🤣🤣
@@beeautifuldreamer2211 men usually don't attend a baby shower, that shit's mostly for the women🤣
So what exactly do you sing at these things...
🎵 happy HALF-birthday to you
Happy HALF-birthday you
These things are such bull-$hit
Happy HALF-BIRTHDAY to you🎵😂😂😂
I think the first sign someone isn’t committed is planning a baby without being married. This guy wants the benefit of being a family without putting in any kind of work.
Can someone explain why you would have a birthday celebration for 6 month old just to turn around and do all of that at 1yr. Just like the gender reveal which is a baby shower with a different name. I want the 90s and early 2000s back
Exactly!! This mess is just for social media and money!!
Preach
Because you love them? And every day they make it is a celebrating?
It’s something new parents do. I asked my mama 😂😂😂😂
For someone who “has some maturity about themselves” at 25 yrs old; he sure has a WAREHOUSE full of excuses/lies/deflections for EVERY allegation! #theaudacity
I am LOVING 🤩 Judge Stars Wardrobe wear in this season. She’s always Looking Beautiful and with a big smile to match always. Keep up the good work 🌹❤
He keep cheating because hes struggling with himself. He doesnt have any goals, no ambition, hasn't accomplished anything and honestly may be in denial about his real sexuality. She needs to let him go.
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Yes, a loser.
So embarrassing pressing on a girl who doesn’t want him
5:44 he didn’t show up but he immediately blames not having money.
He was embarrassed, you know how black women , talk about broke brothers, when they click up in a group
😂😂 AM I LYING
@dwahndenson6385 he was all the way embarrassed but he should've owned in court instead of being passive about it.
Black women mostly choose to be single mothers. have kids first, have an independent mindset, and don't ask for marriage first. Who's fault is that, hers.
@fredericknichols6277 if that's true then Black Men share the responsibility of procreating without accountability. Why plant your seed in soil you don't intend on tilling, nurturing and growing 🤔
Two parents homes are great when it's a healthy relationship, outside of that you're just starting a new generational curse and bad habits
Wigs and lash party 😂😂😂
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One of her lashes must be hurting the right eye. Cuz that right eye look smaller than the other eye
all them red flags and she nearly blind in one eye and cant see out the other 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Booboo the fool😂 great line
🤣🤣🤣 he said I don't want raise my daughter in a broken home..but is doing the exact same thing...blk men 🤣🤣🤣
The home is already broken. The fastest way to lose a man you aren’t married to is to have a baby from him. Marriage INCREASES the CHANCES of a baby living in a two parent household.
exactly 😂😂😂😂
Broken women and men equal broken homes
@cognitivedissonancechristi516 do you think married men don't cheat on their pregnant or postpartum wives?😂😂😂
@@bryanbeeman5256preach 💯💯
I'm trying to figure out why she wants to be with him....Smh.
Most women like her want men like him
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Once he said he apologized for not going to the baby shower they shouldve just moved on from that conversation. They waste too much time on one subject.
Excuses are tools of the incompetent that build monuments to nothingness. Those who excel in themselves and don’t excel in anything else.
Judge Lynn where are you, this young lady is in serious need of the infamous protect your fertility speech, this young couple are no where near ready, to be having children, THEY ARE STILL CHILDREN- VERY CHILDISH EPISODE, SMH 😄😄💯
He so raggedy..... she needs to drop him like a hot potato!!! He lies too much, not emotionally or financially supportive. She needs to wait until the right mature man comes along!!! His behavior and lack of regard for her is only going to get worse!!
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by that time no SANE man will want her or her damn baggage, or her lazy eye🤣🤣🤣
The fact that he said he would have been the only man there sound like he didn’t trust him self around all those other women
Unless he had relations with one of her relatives 😮
I'm guessing the sister was there 🤣 prob didn't want to be around the sister incase some shit went down at the baby shower 🍆🤢
Traditionally before the late 90's men were not in attendance at birth showers My nephew in law loves us all Never been involved with any of us but if he can avoid being the only man present he does
The relationship unfortunately will eventually end… now or later.
6:32 Back when I was pregnant the men didnt come to baby shower, What's the problem ?! 8:58 Six months birthday party is a waste of money !! 11:40 And she is definitely wrong about that , There is always someone out there that will want him. So saying not to him is ignorant. 13:50 Why does she keep saying my daughter, His daughter too , And she chose that.what does being a mother have to do with your sexality ?! Hes clearly not serious about her or the baby !! Hes all talk !
Yup ! Judge dropped the ball on this one
Men should come to the baby shower especially if your together in a relationship & you know it’s important to your partner, it’s called showing support, he’s literally the dad. maybe the dudes around you were trash
This is exactly the comment I was looking for. I just needed to make sure I wasn't crazy or that old school. I kept saying the WHOLE time, men didn't go to the BABY SHOWERS initially. These people now days tripping about minimal things and that's not how it was designed to be, and it's not just the younger generation. You hit it all, what 6 month Birthday party, so now she got another reason to be mad at him. First off yall jump into a living situation way too quick. They young and he definitely not ready, whew!!!
Bahahahahahaha! This man crossed himself up so many times 😂🤣
But she still with him
A 6 month old party is asinine. That money could've gone towards the child's college savings 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Shucks, diapers and food!!!
Judge Star upholding this foolishness. Talking about he could have bought $12 party favors from Party City.. Why??? He’s not a good man and she knew it from the beginning
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I hear Judge Judy in my head: “not basically! I don’t wanna hear basically”😅
IM A MOM OF 4 AND NEVER HAVE I EVER DID A 6 MONTH B'DAY 🤦🏾♀️ GIRL NOW YOU SEE WHY HE PLAYED YOU RIGHT ALONG WITH IT THE OTHER BS HE GOT AWAY WITH.........
She deserved to get played because she wanted to celebrate her daughter? How many baby daddies you got? I know it's more than 2 and you treat your boys better than your girls..... Out of everything that unfolded in this episode THAT'S the problem that stuck out to you?
@@JoBunny87 no DUMB ASS ONLY 1 AND THIS MY COMMENT ABT IT AND I SAID WTF I SAID
@@JoBunny87 well if she stayed, she does deserve to get played🤣🤣🤣
The last couple of seconds though 😮. Mouth on the floor
i Can't wait to see part 2 tomorrow or Monday
smh...a 6 month birthday party...please stop all this nonsense
Please! Don't try to conform people to your life series If that's what a person wants to do oh well What are you going to do about it Please stop this controlling of people foolishness/ nonsense How bout that 😅😅😅Karen😊
@@maskhysteria4056who hurt you?
It's not just about the 6mos birthday..Utsav about making up for that baby shower he missed
@@maskhysteria4056Exactly. People always judging others based on what they do/would do. Everybody has to live their own lives.
just a way to spend money they don’t have
He reminds me of Ray Jay.
Feel like they need to change the name of the show. Most of the people on here aren't even married couples anymore.
The little sister just as goofy
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Girl Ruuuunnnn!!! He deflects and makes excuses for his poor behavior
Sister is a goofy or she’s messing with her man behind her back. As a sister (or outside family member) you have no right to invalidate the FACTS of the sisters feelings in regards to him cheating, lying and manipulating your sister. You’re not in their home or bedroom business 24/7. Suspect as hell. If anything, just stay completely out of their relationship but to advocate for him while your own flesh is saying he’s doing her wrong is weirdo asf. She probably thinks he’s a “good man” cause she wants him for herself. Just leave him AND don’t bring your next man around your sneaky sister. Being cheated on by a BROKE manipulator who gaslights you is the worst trauma you can allow yourself to experience.
She definitely is
@@Sansann84💯💯
THIS!!!!!!! She’s both. A goofy & messing with her sister man!!!!
@@ariamarshall5161 Right!! Talking about im trying to help her relationship "cuz he a good dude"
He's cheating so no sex but you stay in the relationship the school system doesn't teach common sense
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He is lame 😒
So is she. They're perfect together
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Guess she wanted us to all learn new slang today- Curved ( who creates this stuff) , SMH 😮💯
It's not "new slang" you're just old. Language evolves.
Everyone thinks their kid is the most beautiful one in the world, doesn't make it true though 😂
He might not be the father.
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He is definitely a textbook narcissist. People love to throw that word around, but he really fits the profile to a T
I don’t care what is happening. There is no excuse for not showing up for the baby shower especially when he wasn’t working.
Chile I’m so glad I ain’t give none of these men a child.
Lordt the sister thinks he’s a good man 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
She’s probably scr3wing him or wants to. I wouldn’t have the balls to show up in court trying to override what another woman is going through with HER man unless they’re sneaking behind her back.
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OOOUUU THIS BOI HAS A RESPONSE FOR EVERYTHING!!! Yea she right, don’t nobody want him but her 🤦🏾♀️
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It’s like you made a baby with a broke insecure dusty that does not communicate with you. This man will sabotage this relationship because he does not feel good enough for you.
I’m sorry you should walk until he gets himself together mentally and financially. 🤦🏽♀️
THIS ALREADY AIRED ..IM WAITING ON PART 2 ..HER SISTER STANDS UP ON HIS SIDE ....KANSAS CITY MISSOURI..LETS GOOOOOO CHIEFS MONDAY NIGHT
They feed off of each other. They should be together
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Even dollar tree, family dollar, or dollar general, they have decorations party. That’s mean he doesn’t want to do anything.
for a six month party? Who the hell does that?
He’s broke
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Why are we talking about a 6 month party and baby shower… smh meanwhile struggling to meet day to day responsibilities
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800.00 wig 😒 they both a hot mess
Got that right !
No just young , we were all there once 😂
Judge Toler would tell her to RUN!!!!!
I am confused now he's a deadbeat because you thought having his baby will make him marry you? 🤣
NEED PART TWOOOO NOW
Where is parr 2😮😮😮
I think it’s not going to come untill tomorrow
Jesus, I gave up all hope for him when the baby sister walked up 😮he foul!!
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He think he a lawyer.. 🙄
He is a professional liar 🤥
When you have the proof you need but you still need someone to tell you what to do. You not going nowhere
Is it just me or is he basically calling himself too broke to keep up with her well kept lifestyle . . . ? If shes spending money on her and her baby and presents herself and the baby as well as today, then yeah the man gotta put up or shut up.
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heading over to part 2
Those are text messages. He probably wasn't getting curbed, it's just that the girl responding erased her replies
Serve him with child support papers and move the hell on.He doesn’t care about you in the way a man should who bears his child. Show your child how to walk away from a no good male. Be the example to her if not to yourself. Stop it!😮
He is a Narcissist 😮
GATHER HIM JUDGE STAR...
He has excuses. He’s not ready for a family. Both should’ve protected themselves (especially her since the female normally has the baby). He needs to listen to Judge Mathis. He speaks on that subject of maturity a lot.
Neither of them was ready to parent a child. Not financially, not emotionally, not any "ally". And a 6 month party? Waste of money. You don't have to do everything you see on social media....grow up!! Both of you.
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This guy is a jerk. No accountability for his actions at all
Okay, while i think that the 6 month birthday is a waste of time and energy. People in the comments are forgetting the fact of principle of the promise. If he thought that it was dumb he could have just said that, opted for funding her 1st birthday or took them to a nice dinner to make up for it.
Where I do blame her is that after all his actions, i would not be with him. People need to hold themselves to a better standard in their relationships. This is why you protect yourself biologically and not spread your gene's so simply. I will give them this, they are young do they do stupid things. If Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant taught me anything. Do not get pregnant young, broke or unmarried. "BAD INVESTMENT" -Kennie J.D
Exactly! The moment he ain't show up to her baby shower should have been the moment she decided she wasn't gonna give that dude the time of day AGAINNNN
@@lalabbyx💯
Judge Starrrr🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 she’s a beast ! I love how she reads folk !
Part 2 where are you?
Exactly
why did she bother coming to divorce court with everything she already knows 🤦♀
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All ik is she better keep one eye open around that “sister” of hers bc if she isn’t already sleeping w him it’s probably a week away . STAY VIGILANT. YOUR sister defending someone who clearly has no respect for you 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
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side note... the bailiff said he's going to get his thoughts out! 🤣
A six month baby party is for a show, attention, and the mother mostly.
He has most likely hit on the little sister...what yall think?
Most definitely 😂
Duh
@@Sansann84💯💯😄
Alot has happened within a short amount of time. smh
Soror, the definition of excuses. Tell ‘em.
6mnths birthday party?? Now😏
Smash the cup. Stop it
He is always not doing what he says he’s going to do.
Some of these Youngins on Divorce Court will put you up on new Slang because I had never heard of being CURVED
Just another reason for a woman to focus on self.
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A person usually say they don't remember that it's because they have no lie and thats all they can say now
Whatever a baby with someone like him?
WHY!
WHY!!
WHY!!!
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You have to SIT in order to COMMIT! How can you commit if you don’t sit? Sit and learn, sit and pray by yourself, sit and pray with others, sit and read, and sit so you can take root in where God has called you to grow! Don’t run around just sit down! Once you have sat you will stand! Stand and be committed, and stand and not be moved!
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Shes too much .
He's full of pretty words n empty promises n excuses! Talks all over his face but when the opportunity comes to prove his words he fails miserably
Ladies stop putting the cart before the horse..
Yet he says he was ready to be a Father. PLEASE!!
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