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  • čas přidán 31. 03. 2022
  • Welsh groom Ben is arranging a valley wedding for his bride-to-be Sarah. The two small-town sweethearts are head over heels for one another, but that doesn't mean Ben's solo attempts to plan their dream wedding will go swimmingly. With his meddling Mum muscling in, will Ben be able to impress Sarah with his £12k wedding?
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    From: Don't Tell The Bride S6 Ep1
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Komentáře • 228

  • @catladyfromky4142
    @catladyfromky4142 Před rokem +65

    This is the prettiest wedding in this series I have seen . He did it all by himself. He should be so proud.

  • @debbieherrera1605
    @debbieherrera1605 Před rokem +58

    I think she had a temper tantrum not because there was anything wrong with the dress and stuff but because she didn’t get to control everything. I truly feel bad for the groom.

  • @miles2419
    @miles2419 Před 2 lety +150

    She's got so many red flags. The poor guy. His money going into her account and her refusing to give it to him is so gross and filled me with dread

    • @sngray11
      @sngray11 Před rokem +22

      It is the definition of economic abuse.

    • @Jack-jg4jy
      @Jack-jg4jy Před rokem +25

      Honestly the whole intro of the dynamic between him and the women in his life made me kinda sick to my stomach. Nothing here is healthy.

    • @staypheliz
      @staypheliz Před rokem +13

      She disgusted me. I kept saying “she needs therapy”.

    • @melchantz
      @melchantz Před rokem +13

      Omg begging for your own money.. not sure about their history but omg.. he need to learn and its his money.. im speechless..

    • @SigningWithTheByrds
      @SigningWithTheByrds Před rokem +7

      He worked and then he has to beg for a penny? Oh no. She's like my ex DIL. Red flags!!

  • @Salomeii
    @Salomeii Před 2 lety +96

    So glad her groom knows what is classy. He is a wedding planner extraordinaire. Beautiful wedding!

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Před rokem +1

      i don't understand why all the bridesmaids and the bride's bouquet are coral and he & his groomsmen are in baby pink?

  • @sharronwaterhouse5864
    @sharronwaterhouse5864 Před rokem +48

    He’s an absolute hero! I hope she appreciates him … her behavior was a huge red flag

  • @aly5664
    @aly5664 Před rokem +33

    She doesn't deserve him. I hope he realizes that he can do so much better.

  • @butterflyr9342
    @butterflyr9342 Před 2 lety +37

    In my culture, we believe rain on your wedding day, brings good luck, Sarah.

  • @vickiboyd2752
    @vickiboyd2752 Před 2 lety +42

    I wonder if the bride regretted all her ugly words about church weddings after they told why us was important to his family.

  • @narshanovaazalea
    @narshanovaazalea Před 2 lety +51

    Fussy bride with tacky style. The groom did great.

  • @Sunshine-kn6or
    @Sunshine-kn6or Před 2 lety +69

    Wow. Her behavior is disgusting

  • @MRAustismCFEpilepsy
    @MRAustismCFEpilepsy Před 2 lety +49

    24 minutes in, I like his taste in Bride’s Dresses better than hers. He’s a good guy. Nice mom… I love the color scheme!

  • @jt5733
    @jt5733 Před 2 lety +88

    "They're absolutely disgusting" who says that to a store employee?! And the dress was more flattering on her figure than the ones she tried on herself

    • @enibeni2071
      @enibeni2071 Před 2 lety +7

      Insecurities are shown on eventos like these.
      When you don't love yourself you think people won't love you.

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 Před 2 lety +3

      its not about what you like...but what the bride likes...

    • @rolandoesteban9514
      @rolandoesteban9514 Před rokem

      Ben's choice of wedding dress is far more superior than Sarah's and her supporters. I pity Ben putting up with delusional women, whose tacky tastes they mistake for class.

  • @Lily_of_the_Forest
    @Lily_of_the_Forest Před 2 lety +23

    As much as I’d love a helpful man, this makes me sad for Ben. I wish his bride would be more supportive of him.

  • @peter897deville6
    @peter897deville6 Před rokem +17

    What a great guy. Not so obsessed with money. More about creation and happiness. Can see his gonna be a great dad.

  • @sandrap6321
    @sandrap6321 Před 2 lety +79

    Lots of American gals dream about this type of wedding. We don't have old churches & castles right out of fairy tale books. Well done.

    • @nicolette1598
      @nicolette1598 Před rokem +2

      Someone hasn’t been to their local putt putt range clearly lol…because many of those do indeed have fake castles but “castles” nonetheless 😂

    • @sassytbc7923
      @sassytbc7923 Před rokem +2

      As an American who went to the UK to have my Princess wedding in a castle.. it’s sooo worth it!!!

    • @carolannpacificadam1944
      @carolannpacificadam1944 Před 8 měsíci

      Putt putt
      Rotfflmfao o now that's class!!

  • @chickentendie146
    @chickentendie146 Před 2 lety +33

    This bride is appaling, I hope he left her

  • @karingiles1546
    @karingiles1546 Před 2 lety +20

    Stop trying to make “lush” happen. It’s not going to happen.

    • @robineller1797
      @robineller1797 Před 2 lety +3

      I was like how many times are they gonna say "lush" when looking at stuff...

  • @butwhythough
    @butwhythough Před 2 lety +92

    No one is talking about the fact that she controls his money?! That’s literally the definition of financial abuse!! Wtf…

    • @silence-is-bliss
      @silence-is-bliss Před 2 lety +7

      It seems that he allows her to do that and doesn't trust himself to responsibly manage his own money. I agree it's not the best idea but he does seem to prefer it being that way and there may be something more going on.

    • @butwhythough
      @butwhythough Před 2 lety +6

      @@silence-is-bliss it’s been a while since I’ve seen the video, and I’ll definitely rewatch to make sure. From what I remember though, he went from his mom doing it to his fiancée. It honestly sounded to me like he was brought up in that cycle of abuse and it continued. Again, I’ll rewatch to make sure. I don’t totally remember since it says one month ago on my original comment 😂

    • @silence-is-bliss
      @silence-is-bliss Před 2 lety +10

      @@butwhythough ngl when he described his mom and girlfriend the first thought that came to mind is he's marrying his mother.

    • @sweetdragntoons
      @sweetdragntoons Před rokem +6

      Exactly 😔 if the roles were reversed the world would be screaming

    • @sweetdragntoons
      @sweetdragntoons Před rokem +2

      @@silence-is-bliss Reverse the roles then say this

  • @beccaandcharliesworld5571

    Why in the world does he want to marry someone as controlling as his mother?

    • @edwinamarshan4143
      @edwinamarshan4143 Před rokem +1

      He doesn't know any other way!! Hopefully after this he will have more faith in himself 🤞

  • @karolmiller6984
    @karolmiller6984 Před 2 lety +40

    Beautiful wedding for a controlling bride. Groom did well.

  • @robyndeddens6658
    @robyndeddens6658 Před 2 lety +29

    I liked the dress he picked out, I didn’t like the one she wants. I don’t feel sorry for her.

  • @pamelaflirtyskunk7698
    @pamelaflirtyskunk7698 Před rokem +23

    She's definitely demanding. I've NEVER heard anyone say "lush" so many times in my life! She made the word mean absolutely nothing by the end. She's definitely absolutely obsessed with appearances and seems extremely narcissistic

    • @victrola2007
      @victrola2007 Před 7 měsíci

      She's definition of a vulgar chav

  • @marias6113
    @marias6113 Před 2 lety +23

    I’ve watched so many of these “Don’t tell the Bride” and this one is the very best. Well done!

  • @cherylc6504
    @cherylc6504 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I hope she remembers her behavior and learns from it.

  • @paulatacheny1353
    @paulatacheny1353 Před rokem +4

    Omgosh if they said LUSH one more time😂

  • @warriorprincessharmony
    @warriorprincessharmony Před 2 lety +19

    What on Earth is she crying about?
    I'm starting to think that the more of a diva you are the better the guy you get. Otherwise if you are your normal appallingly boring and nice girl self, guys think you are low class and stupid and treat you accordingly.

    • @cocomo3141
      @cocomo3141 Před 2 lety +4

      👀... 🏃🏾‍♀️...let me go try this tactic...🤣

  • @WillbeSingin
    @WillbeSingin Před rokem +4

    He said, "no green leaves"... She did it anyways😂😂😂

  • @kawaiikawaiianimegirl4144

    Honestly by half way I was like say I don't at the altar my dude

  • @melindiekruger206
    @melindiekruger206 Před rokem +11

    So good to see a wedding where it works out in the end :-) A very responsible groom! Well done!

  • @heavenlymermaid4595
    @heavenlymermaid4595 Před 2 lety +28

    As an American I dream of a princess wedding like this! Well done 🌟

  • @karenleemallonee684
    @karenleemallonee684 Před 2 lety +26

    I don't know him, but I am proud of him too!!! Hopefully she lets him step up and take his place as the head of the home!!! 🌼

    • @LifeInPink999
      @LifeInPink999 Před rokem +1

      They both work so if something to have an equal power in the decisions. The head of the house (if someone wants to use such an antiquate terminology) is the one who brings money.

    • @karenleemallonee684
      @karenleemallonee684 Před rokem

      @@LifeInPink999
      That's why I used that terminology, because I wanted to! Yes, Im old fashioned and proud of it!!! 🌼

  • @Debbie56
    @Debbie56 Před rokem +6

    There is nothing classy about this woman. Something wrong when a bride in a beautiful gown curses and swears.

  • @maryamalfayed223
    @maryamalfayed223 Před 2 lety +17

    How absolutely ungrateful!!! ... If Princess Diana could do it she could get in the coach as well! ... I hope that this Groom has finally found his backbone because no one needs to be walking around with someone controlling every move you make in life! ... I really don't see this lasting unless things change! ... Good Luck 🤔🌹😟

  • @neuroticnation144
    @neuroticnation144 Před 6 měsíci +2

    With as much whining as she did, I was really proud of the way she accepted everything in the end and praised him.

  • @marietjievanderwesthuizen3244

    Having the brides fitting wedding dresses she'd liked is probably the cruellest thing this show is doing.

    • @cocomo3141
      @cocomo3141 Před 2 lety +1

      It is!!!!! They terrible knowing the groom picks nothing like they want. 🤣

    • @dancingfirefly7761
      @dancingfirefly7761 Před rokem

      I totally agree!

  • @mariachambers7477
    @mariachambers7477 Před 2 lety +11

    I got fed up hereimg the word lush he needs to grow a pair and she needs to stop being controlling outherwise that marriage won't last long

    • @robineller1797
      @robineller1797 Před 2 lety +1

      I now hate the words "it's lush" as much as I hate the words "on fleek"...

    • @staypheliz
      @staypheliz Před rokem

      She wouldn’t stop complaining.

  • @leavirgin6872
    @leavirgin6872 Před rokem +9

    Give me a break--The dress is beautiful, and she is acting so dumb about it!

  • @eringemini7091
    @eringemini7091 Před 2 lety +12

    Bens Mom is a very talented Baker! 🎂Gorgeous 💒 cake!

  • @christinewhitfeld7939
    @christinewhitfeld7939 Před 2 lety +13

    That bride can't use a knife and fork properly. So glad the groom planned it!

  • @LeslieisLED
    @LeslieisLED Před 2 lety +7

    She looks double his age and has an awful personality. I have no idea why this guy is with her. Run.

  • @sydneyjane9222
    @sydneyjane9222 Před 2 lety +21

    Laser tag is a win. (I love bringing female friends who never have done it, because after like 10 minutes they are usually more into it than you would expect.) And a combined bachorlette/bachorler party is cool.
    And his mom is really good at making cakes.

  • @rolandoesteban9514
    @rolandoesteban9514 Před rokem +5

    I cannot imagine how shameless Sarah could be before the wedding dress consultant at the shop. She has body issues, and she's throwing her tantrums around the fitting room. She insists on her mistaken notion of class and elegance. She is evil, always trying to control things even when she is under contract, bereft of any decision-making powers in the process. She should learn to respect Ben and set a good example to their children or she will produce monsters with male image issues. She is very tacky, immature, and controlling.

  • @dineo8341
    @dineo8341 Před rokem +8

    18:36 im glad the groom had the chance to show he can do this. i hope his wife and mom start to trust him more. sounds like there’s so much under the surface that we didn’t see on this episode and a lot of the judgement in the comments is harsh, but, the production was successful in getting y’all to talk!

  • @mama.danni.bell17
    @mama.danni.bell17 Před rokem +5

    I would love to do this. I would love to know what my husband would do. Lol. We never had a wedding. My dad was sick and wanted him there, so a quick court house wedding B4 he passed. ❤

  • @saraferguson9430
    @saraferguson9430 Před rokem +3

    He says she's so pretty but.. where?

  • @kayramclauchlan7962
    @kayramclauchlan7962 Před rokem +5

    A lot of comments about the complaining on her part and how she's controlling which I get, but there should be some acknowledgement that she quickly admitted when things surprised her and openly said she was proud of him and would trust him more.

  • @sweetdragntoons
    @sweetdragntoons Před rokem +3

    He's wages go into her bank account??? That's abusive
    Did she seriously not allow him he's own wages and refuse him money for food?

  • @lucillemongin3643
    @lucillemongin3643 Před 4 měsíci +1

    the entire time she was calling the dress disgusting, all i could think was "honestly, you're disgusting." the way she talks to and treats him is so toxic, i feel bad for him

  • @ginaandseason2774
    @ginaandseason2774 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Ben you absolutely smashed it!!! Her dress was stunning. ❤ you can see the love they have and i wish them a lifetime of happiness

  • @Lily_of_the_Forest
    @Lily_of_the_Forest Před 2 lety +5

    A wise man would ask his future wife’s friends and family lots of questions about her likes & dislikes for the dress & decorations then picking a location that they both like.

  • @heatherbarker6217
    @heatherbarker6217 Před 2 lety +10

    He did so good i cried

  • @ruthieaay4264
    @ruthieaay4264 Před 2 lety +5

    Am kinda really happy that the groom has this chance coz if it was otherwise he still could have his voice

  • @SLIMGRIMS
    @SLIMGRIMS Před 2 lety +16

    Fantastic. Never seen a duo stag/hen on these, more like this should happen, but more crazy. Lovely and simple reception, loved the men's suits. Cracked up over her face when trying on the tiara. Hope they upload that next one, haven't seen that either.
    give ma rap opera some lovee

    • @RealLoveDocs
      @RealLoveDocs  Před 2 lety

      Glad you enjoyed it! Next one out this week

  • @silence-is-bliss
    @silence-is-bliss Před 2 lety +12

    He did well. The women in his life need to trust him more.

  • @AS-yz2iz
    @AS-yz2iz Před 11 měsíci +3

    His mom was awful! I'd never treat my sons like that. Smh.
    And devils always hate churches.

  • @lavettemcfeeters6216
    @lavettemcfeeters6216 Před rokem +4

    Im just seeing this and wow! That bride has issues! Controlling isnt even the word! She keeps using the word "disgusting" for the shoes,the dress ..
    Her attitude is disgusting. That man needs to run as fast and as far away as he can. Her managing every tiny part of his life....including HIS money???Not to mention the ogre of a mother!

  • @Ebbbb131
    @Ebbbb131 Před 2 lety +4

    With that bleach and those nails I’m surprised she doesn’t want bling on her dress and wants to be “classy” 😂😂😂 the irony, poor guy.

  • @janicefarmer2387
    @janicefarmer2387 Před 7 měsíci +2

    She's abusive and controlling. Absolutely discussing behavior. No one needs to be as controlled as this guy. I wish him luck in his life.
    She'll never give up control, no matter how well he did.

  • @rayleenharris922
    @rayleenharris922 Před 2 lety +12

    I so enjoy this show as well as the one the mothers become in charge

    • @annh2316
      @annh2316 Před 2 lety +1

      What's that one called again?

    • @evem7779
      @evem7779 Před 2 lety

      Wedding wars

    • @RealLoveDocs
      @RealLoveDocs  Před 2 lety +2

      In Law Wedding Wars, it's on our page!

  • @Toxicgossiptrain_
    @Toxicgossiptrain_ Před 2 lety +7

    Yikes the way she’s over controlling. Even with this money 🚩

  • @naowright9308
    @naowright9308 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Several girls wanted a church wedding and couldn't get it due to the shortness of time or the fact that the groom didn't want it. Several also wanted a castle, but the men preferred pubs or gambling joints.

  • @GoddesssAphrodite
    @GoddesssAphrodite Před 2 lety +5

    He is too good for her.. horrible personality

  • @joanna400
    @joanna400 Před 7 měsíci +2

    7:00 - "he's never had this much responsibility in his whole life". - As he does all her chores/ironing, does her hair, works, rubs her feet, shaves her legs... What exactly does this brat do that is responsibility? She doesn't even take care of her own hair by herself!

  • @juliestrickland7754
    @juliestrickland7754 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Daaang dude! He's marrying his mom ×10. Good luck, sweetie!!

  • @pixie7435
    @pixie7435 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Now that's a thoughtful man . What a good husband he'd be... she . Well. She needs to be taken down a notch

  • @nappingwithkitties8069
    @nappingwithkitties8069 Před rokem +3

    This show makes me glad to be single.

  • @ChelseaAnn94
    @ChelseaAnn94 Před rokem +2

    The bride literally irks my soul!! That poor groom lbs.

  • @parker6739
    @parker6739 Před rokem +3

    If I hear her say Lush again 🤯

  • @Heatherban300
    @Heatherban300 Před rokem +1

    He's marrying his mother...but worse .....RUN, BEN, RUN!!!!!

  • @kiki29073
    @kiki29073 Před rokem +1

    It's supposed to be good luck for it to rain the morning of your wedding.

  • @jeanthomas7055
    @jeanthomas7055 Před 9 měsíci +3

    awesome church and castle. nice couple.

  • @evelyneliaz
    @evelyneliaz Před 2 lety +3

    The bridesmaids could have placed a half slip under the first bridesmaid dresses, as they were lovely.

  • @jt5733
    @jt5733 Před 2 lety +7

    The whole manly/girly thing of the narrator feels forced and heavily outdated

  • @Soapartisan875
    @Soapartisan875 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful wedding ❤ the groom is an amazing young man.

  • @robyndeddens6658
    @robyndeddens6658 Před rokem +2

    She was horrible when it came to her dress! It was so much better in this dress than the one she picked out. I thought she looked beautiful. If she wanted the wedding of her dreams than she should have saved planned it herself.

  • @lbearjowett5983
    @lbearjowett5983 Před 2 lety +2

    what i do not get is why in every one of these epsodes why is the bride looking at locations and trying on dresses when she has no say

  • @roshni2366
    @roshni2366 Před 2 lety +5

    Beautiful planning by groom.

  • @doradedham9162
    @doradedham9162 Před 2 lety +2

    I appreciate Ben wanting to marry at his church home, but the minister shouldn't have gone along with having the ceremony there with the bride not knowing. It's a sacred occasion and both people should be on board with the idea. Other than that, Ben planned a lovely day.

  • @kiki29073
    @kiki29073 Před rokem +2

    I want an update on these people.

  • @neuroticnation144
    @neuroticnation144 Před 6 měsíci +1

    To be fair, in a way, he’s marrying his mum.

  • @lynn9496
    @lynn9496 Před 2 lety +20

    Not long in and I'm thinking how conceited she is without reason.

  • @CC-zf4yv
    @CC-zf4yv Před 2 lety +2

    Can see why a lot of shops blindfold the bride before she tries the dress on!

  • @mirandacoffey3569
    @mirandacoffey3569 Před 2 lety +2

    She is controlling this is not right poor man

  • @nickyshaw7677
    @nickyshaw7677 Před rokem +4

    I think all those terrible bleach jobs affected her brain 🧠

  • @kmissoni6451
    @kmissoni6451 Před 16 dny

    A couple minutes in tells me this bride has no clue what classy is. 😂

  • @justso4509
    @justso4509 Před 2 lety +1

    wait, wait, don't tell me.... that's _"LUSH"....._ 🤪

  • @user-ds5yp2hy3v
    @user-ds5yp2hy3v Před rokem +1

    That girl is crazy- she talk bad about Church, she dot respect God, no church- God, forgive her. Glory to God, he is allpowerful!

    • @AS-yz2iz
      @AS-yz2iz Před 11 měsíci

      Unfortunately she'll have a rude awakening some day.

  • @ViktoriaGt95
    @ViktoriaGt95 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I don't know... Is it lush enough?

  • @Horrormoviesgirl
    @Horrormoviesgirl Před 6 měsíci

    He had a controlling mom.. so he picked a controlling wife... basically, he married his mom

  • @lauramcinerney1559
    @lauramcinerney1559 Před 2 lety +3

    I am about to puke if I hear "lush" one more time. Find a new wordy blondy.

  • @rosevanwyk2002
    @rosevanwyk2002 Před 2 lety +5

    What a AH. Why do a son always just expect from a mother to do everything for them. And they can't do anything for themselves. Because a mom love them so much, and they cant do FA for themselves. What give you the right to treat a mother like that.

  • @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb
    @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb Před 7 měsíci +1

    He said NO LEAVES 😮

    • @suzzylouloudougherty5237
      @suzzylouloudougherty5237 Před 3 měsíci

      I thought the same thing but it looked beautiful at the end.I didn't see much green at all

  • @cynthiajacklyn6639
    @cynthiajacklyn6639 Před rokem +1

    The bride is a control freak which is a huge flaw in her character. He should not have to ask for money!! She is totally out of line telling him what to do and how to do it. He should have NEVER , EVER spoke to his mother that way and certainly NOT in front of other people in a store! Shame on both of them! They both have a lot to learn. I would not be surprised to find out that by year 5 they are no longer married !

  • @bindushrestha1775
    @bindushrestha1775 Před 3 měsíci

    Can she not make her own omelette? Feel sorry for him but if he puts up with it…it’s his fault.

  • @neuroticnation144
    @neuroticnation144 Před 6 měsíci

    The dresses she picked don’t suit her. It would be near impossible to pick a dress for someone so self conscious about her body.

  • @glendaohrt5690
    @glendaohrt5690 Před 6 měsíci

    I have never seen a bride so negative about everything. He should turn around and run.

  • @rosiebridgeman7913
    @rosiebridgeman7913 Před měsícem

    Hates tattoos but has them 😂

  • @BlueMoodey
    @BlueMoodey Před 3 měsíci

    Fantastic Ben!!

  • @tbush9180
    @tbush9180 Před 2 lety +5

    Well done Ben! Sarah needs to let Ben lead sometimes, he has awesome skills.

  • @juliestrickland7754
    @juliestrickland7754 Před 6 měsíci

    Quit trying to make Lush happen, Gretchen!!