Bontle Modiselle on Upside of Failure with Relebogile Mabotja

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  • čas přidán 30. 08. 2023
  • Relebogile Mabotja speaks to South African actress, television presenter, radio personality, dancer, choreographer, singer and model Bontle Modiselle-Moloi about the failures she has experienced in her life and how she continues to persevere.
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Komentáře • 115

  • @sanelezulu4407
    @sanelezulu4407 Před 10 měsíci +18

    Relebogile you were called for what you do, Bontle We Love You.

  • @mmachauke
    @mmachauke Před 10 měsíci +63

    God bless the Modiselle sisters. Bontle, thank you for courageously telling your honest account of what you thought “failure” was. In sharing your story, you have touched so many people’s lives. I pray that God continues blessing you with the beauty and grace that you are. That message from one of the 702 listeners: You are the hero that everyone needs, daily.

  • @neom645
    @neom645 Před 10 měsíci +14

    I feel like you've cut Bontle so many times thle. Cant they extend your time 😢.
    Strength to you Bontle, i understand how you feel about the death of your dad. The “if onlys“, they cut very deep. Receive your healing sis

  • @rosiewilliams4595
    @rosiewilliams4595 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Guys u never what people are going through so just be kind at all times 🙏🏽❤

  • @mownas_lifestory30
    @mownas_lifestory30 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I’m only 18, but the way Bontle engages and how responsive she is is EXTREMELY POWERFUL ❤️

  • @platt690
    @platt690 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I struggle with mental health and have thoughts of ending it all, and hearing this story has been hard because my biggest fear is leaving my family in so much pain... Sometimes when you're in that moment you can't think of anything else, except for ending it all, somehow you're convinced that everyone will be better off without you...
    I'm really sorry that you all had to go through that.. and I'm sorry for everyone who suffers from horrible thoughts... 😔 🙏🏽

  • @Bazet465
    @Bazet465 Před 10 měsíci +17

    🫂😍love you Bontle you’re an Angel and you didn’t take your Dad away from your family it’s was Gods timing❤️….

  • @tshiditr9362
    @tshiditr9362 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I didn't know that Bontle went through so much and it is so kind of her to share.

  • @nosiphongubo9487
    @nosiphongubo9487 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I didn't know about her dad's loss. The power of true vulnerability it allows people to see you and relate with you. ❤ Duduzeka sisi

  • @nikiwejentu9565
    @nikiwejentu9565 Před 6 měsíci +5

    she articulates herself so well.

  • @patrickphahlamohlaka5850
    @patrickphahlamohlaka5850 Před 10 měsíci +13

    Woooow 🎉 she carries light I mean u can tell that she's gifted

  • @Smart-LearnerThandi
    @Smart-LearnerThandi Před 10 měsíci +15

    It’s this side of you Bontle that just revealed the amazing person in you. It takes strength …. May peace be with you.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před 10 měsíci +7

    Oh bathong Bontle got me bawling 😭 . Askies mama. Jo! I cannot imagine! It’s incredible how that impacted what amazing women you have all turned out to be. Kudos to mum head a family in the aftermath. We serve a miracle working God!

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I have heard her tell this story before and it is always so emotional for her, I can feel your pain Bontle❤

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 Před 10 měsíci +12

    I absolutely love Bontle. So sorry she had to go through it.

  • @charlottelisewilliams
    @charlottelisewilliams Před 10 měsíci +6

    Didn't know this about their father wow...may God heal them amen!❤

  • @tsholofelomatlala8105
    @tsholofelomatlala8105 Před 10 měsíci +12

    My favorite segment, this was so triggering but it's the truth and reality that needs to be told.
    Strength to you Bontle 🙏🏾❤️🕯️

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Bontle,your daughter is super cute 😍.I'm so sorry sbt yr dad sis😢.

  • @nqobilemncube9123
    @nqobilemncube9123 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Thank you for being so vulnerable with us ❤ sending you lots of love. This was worth it. You've spoken to the soul. May God continue blessing you with all your heart desires ❤

  • @thndythemedtech2143
    @thndythemedtech2143 Před 10 měsíci +36

    My brother committed suicide last year. First thought that I had was regret and feeling like I failed him. Fortunately for me I was able to come into terms with the reality very quickly and I thank God for that
    Now I’m in a better space
    I feel like I have over come that situation
    Only God can carry you through that

    • @graciousmkhonto9349
      @graciousmkhonto9349 Před 10 měsíci +2

      My brother committed suicide last year as well. I have accepted that life doesn't always go our way and loss is one thing guaranteed in this lifetime 💔

    • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
      @dancinginthepurplereign4126 Před 10 měsíci +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My cousin brother committed suicide last year. Around the same week as Ricky Rick.
      He was a kind man and didn't deserve to die alone. It is still very shocking. I just wish I could do something about it.
      😊

  • @connieramontsho7022
    @connieramontsho7022 Před 10 měsíci +4

    What an inspirational woman❤. Did I mention the welling I did as I was watching. Blessings to you Bontle

  • @phumie2byn907
    @phumie2byn907 Před 10 měsíci +5

    She has such a beautiful voice❤

  • @thandekamdlovu5212
    @thandekamdlovu5212 Před 9 měsíci +3

    She is such a warrior,may God bless her.

  • @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn
    @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn Před 9 měsíci +2

    What a beautiful woman Bontle is❤️. I love her voice 😍👌🏾

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele Před 10 měsíci +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Sending Bontle so much love and light

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele Před 10 měsíci +21

    This was a really beautiful interview, it made me view Bontle in a different light. She is so much power. ❤
    In addition, can Relebogile please allow the guests to finish their lines, there were so many times when Bontle had something to say and Relebogile jumped in then the topic changed. This is coming from a good place as I am a huge fan of this segment.

    • @pearlbontsi6949
      @pearlbontsi6949 Před 10 měsíci +4

      😢😢true Relebogile would chip in and share her experience rather than allowing the guest to finish their lines and then she'd change the subject. That pained me😂

  • @YolaGolimpi
    @YolaGolimpi Před 9 měsíci +15

    Don't disturb the guest, allow them to finish speak and share their story! It's really annoying

  • @botlemooa8502
    @botlemooa8502 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Oh Bontle, i am so so sorry ausi. Your tears, your pain, your family's pain...i hope you all completely heal. Sending lots of hugs to you sisi.

  • @esterasheela
    @esterasheela Před 6 měsíci +3

    Love you Bontle ❤

  • @SuperNomathamsanqa
    @SuperNomathamsanqa Před 10 měsíci +12

    Bontle triggered me after having lost my daughter In Utero when she did a dance mob in Sandton in 2019. I have never cried like I did, the incapability she speaks of is something I have had to carry for the rest of my life. My uncle subsequently also committed suicide. All the things being discussed on this episode are gut wrenching. I am alive and thankful for therapy. I am so happy things worked out for her.

    • @thandekamdlovu5212
      @thandekamdlovu5212 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I’m so sorry to hear about all the painful experience that you had to go through Thami, may God continue to comfort you.

    • @selaeloshadi4653
      @selaeloshadi4653 Před 9 měsíci +1

      😢😢 really sorry

  • @Ngoanana21
    @Ngoanana21 Před 10 měsíci +11

    " I don't want to perform myself..." that is so powerful and relatable to me as a mom.

  • @zuzilezungu5899
    @zuzilezungu5899 Před 2 dny

    Hugs and love to you, Nana❤❤

  • @dudunkuna7439
    @dudunkuna7439 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Can relate in so many ways. The ppd and blaming one’s self for your parents death. Thank you Bontle

  • @siwemayongo8124
    @siwemayongo8124 Před 9 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤what a beautiful soul, thank you Bontle for sharing

  • @nalediebiditse8015
    @nalediebiditse8015 Před 10 měsíci +6

    It was really hard to watch this🥲
    Sending you hugs and may God sooth you where it hurts the most ❤️

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork Před 10 měsíci +12

    Relebogile, please don’t cut off guests hle. Allow them to complete their answers.😢

  • @nonkumonkoe
    @nonkumonkoe Před 9 měsíci +2

    This was so beautiful love Bontle ❤️

  • @_ruddie
    @_ruddie Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love and Light to you Bontle and your Sisters❤

  • @zimasancoliwe
    @zimasancoliwe Před 10 měsíci +4

    I am so sorry she had experienced it. ❤It was never your fault Bontle. You saw it and it was never your fault❤❤

  • @user-tp4gj2rg3d
    @user-tp4gj2rg3d Před 9 měsíci

    beautifull ladies in the studio, I love you both very much. To you Bontle keep rising and shining like the bright star you are and nothing can stop you. I love your content very much. Thank you Relebogile for always given Us your best,keep it up.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před 10 měsíci +4

    Please have Bontle on unpacked!

  • @fhaturamaswiela3438
    @fhaturamaswiela3438 Před 10 měsíci +4

    - Oh she’s so Smart

  • @user-tg6qv9yr3o
    @user-tg6qv9yr3o Před 6 měsíci

    She is true reflection of her name. Thank you for sharing yourself with us

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu
    @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu Před 10 měsíci +1

    Loving you so much. Bontle❤❤❤

  • @milicentsiba
    @milicentsiba Před 6 měsíci +3

    Yho I just listened & I can really resonate with her so much my father did the same & my mom also was the one that found him, I don't wanna lie, I don't think uu ever heal from losing a loved one to suicide there's just always a big WHY what went wrong! (to those who don't leave letters) You really learn to live w the pain!

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe Před 10 měsíci +1

    Sending you Bontle all my love, strength to you nana ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 Před 9 měsíci

    Im in tears.....

  • @thuliradebe8461
    @thuliradebe8461 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love you Bontle ❤

  • @dineomhlari1038
    @dineomhlari1038 Před 5 měsíci

    oh how i love this lady❤

  • @doremi131
    @doremi131 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Relebogile Mabotja, you are glowing girl. wow

  • @liseboleahtaeli4665
    @liseboleahtaeli4665 Před 9 měsíci

    How i love this beautiful soul Mamoloi

  • @lufunomphaphuli
    @lufunomphaphuli Před 10 měsíci +1

    Sending love and light❤

  • @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh
    @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh Před 9 měsíci

    Blew my mind wow

  • @mbalizondi869
    @mbalizondi869 Před 5 měsíci

    💔💔💔It's so sad. So sorry Bontle that you had to go through such a trauma at such a young age!

  • @RonealTjiane
    @RonealTjiane Před 9 měsíci +1

    She’s just humble which is a bonus🥹🥹❤️

  • @life_asthepooh8804
    @life_asthepooh8804 Před 9 měsíci

    I love you bontle ❤️❤️

  • @hazelmabuza806
    @hazelmabuza806 Před 10 měsíci +4

    She is one of my favorite 😍

  • @boitshepodiketane1351
    @boitshepodiketane1351 Před 9 měsíci

    I love Bontle man❤❤❤

  • @lindokuhlemolefe471
    @lindokuhlemolefe471 Před 10 měsíci

    we love you bontle ❤

  • @Amogelang_matjila
    @Amogelang_matjila Před 6 měsíci

    May the Lord God bless you bontle and your family and also help you to pass through this situation and heal from it I love you so much

  • @vfabach2874
    @vfabach2874 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Ohhh Bontle ❤

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe Před 10 měsíci +4

    Her father was sooo cruel for doing this to her kids especially after what she shared with them, wounding her forever 😭😭💔💔💔

  • @xihlamarisomayimele5164
    @xihlamarisomayimele5164 Před 9 měsíci

    I love you Bontle❤❤

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This really became about Relebogile.. so many amazing moments were lost😏😥.

  • @simplyjaja3087
    @simplyjaja3087 Před 9 měsíci +2

    No child deserves that, that sight nor such guilt ❤ God help those who are triggered ❤

  • @dikgalevictoria3016
    @dikgalevictoria3016 Před 9 měsíci +1

    When she was about to cry and then cried, and said "guys im so sorry"..felt like i could get inside the screen and hug her😢❤
    She's so sweet and real. A beautiful soul indeed

  • @EugenMazinyani
    @EugenMazinyani Před 9 měsíci +2

    Hugs my love and it's not your fault....I am sorry u had to witness all that

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Just want to hug her.

  • @olivialivv5566
    @olivialivv5566 Před 2 měsíci

    love you Bontle

  • @janemore657
    @janemore657 Před 6 měsíci

    I love both these beautiful women.

  • @techitheemperor2583
    @techitheemperor2583 Před 9 měsíci

    Bontle is gorgeous and talent.

  • @thandonm
    @thandonm Před 6 měsíci

    The time is ALWAYS so short 😢 aaaah Bontle 😢😢😢

  • @amandanxala2580
    @amandanxala2580 Před 10 měsíci +1

    😢Bontle❤

  • @nomvulaloverson572
    @nomvulaloverson572 Před 9 měsíci

    Sorry love made me cry u been through alot

  • @MitchellMolala-wv3iy
    @MitchellMolala-wv3iy Před 9 měsíci +1

    Very painful 😭😭😭😭

  • @selaeloshadi4653
    @selaeloshadi4653 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is painful I can't 😢

  • @janempete7771
    @janempete7771 Před 10 měsíci

    Bontle❤🤗

  • @lebopeku6940
    @lebopeku6940 Před 10 měsíci

    Ke morate thata Bontle❤

  • @sandagcadinja8045
    @sandagcadinja8045 Před 2 měsíci

    Bontle ❤

  • @11071991tawanda
    @11071991tawanda Před 9 měsíci

    Word is From 27:54 to the End. I have always loved this Woman.....

  • @busisiwemdluli439
    @busisiwemdluli439 Před 10 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @IAmChosen9925
    @IAmChosen9925 Před 9 měsíci

    Relebogile is my hero haikabi 🥺❤️

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay Před 9 měsíci

    @Riri .. You look so gorgeous with make up ..❤

  • @kemmonyemakoma7406
    @kemmonyemakoma7406 Před 10 měsíci

    😢yooh Bontle

  • @karaboteffo6676
    @karaboteffo6676 Před 10 měsíci

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mayleencray1597
    @mayleencray1597 Před 10 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali15 Před 9 měsíci

    Bontle... The moment, ngavele ngakhala.

  • @mahlodinorah487
    @mahlodinorah487 Před 9 měsíci

    The afternoon I cut my seven years dradlocks, I cried like smbody died. It's not just smthing that one will do n just say I did it. It's like a part of you been ripped off even when cutting them off was not a must, I choose to cut them off bcos I just needed o see a changed me. But it wasn't easy

  • @boitumelobuthelezi8960
    @boitumelobuthelezi8960 Před 9 měsíci

    Yoh😢 this has triggered me so much 😢

  • @sedzaninemudivhiso1906
    @sedzaninemudivhiso1906 Před 10 měsíci

    ❤❤❤😢

  • @goitseonebodumele3270
    @goitseonebodumele3270 Před 6 měsíci

    I wanted to hear talk about her struggle with motherhood you cut her short😢😢

  • @kwenamabye7871
    @kwenamabye7871 Před 9 měsíci

  • @goodnessmosehla8362
    @goodnessmosehla8362 Před 10 měsíci +2

    "Bathong ba modimo"😂😂😂😂

  • @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz

    This triggered me so much my dad also took his liffe infront of me

  • @princessmaphalla6195
    @princessmaphalla6195 Před 6 měsíci

    Askies mama😢

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe Před 10 měsíci +12

    Refiloe keeps interrupting her guests and telling long stories before asking questions. Immediately when she tries to talk, she interupts. We want to hear her tell her story not the interviewer.

  • @masechabamdaka785
    @masechabamdaka785 Před 10 měsíci

    🫂🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽Bontle🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💔

  • @blaqbee03
    @blaqbee03 Před 10 měsíci +9

    The interruptions are so cringe from Relebogile. Let the guest tell her story instead of telling us about you hawu..

  • @brokecreole
    @brokecreole Před 10 měsíci +3

    this is so difficult to listen to.