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This girl is not less than a Lion ! Look at her confidence… and the way she tries to motivate us up is everything 🤍
No doubt. She is leo which we can definitely see in her personality. 😍😍
No doubt ..her confidence level is just wow...and also she is so attractive😍
My pointless story : once a extrovert has now became the biggest introvert...all thanks to those who constantly reminded me of my imperfections and where I lack....🙂🙂🙂
"No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society"
~Kim Namjoon
My heart actually feels heavy by imagining what people go through without others knowing. I haven't been through such things by God's grace I'm super grateful , still aches my heart that many people around me have been through this. You are very strong !!
Borahae💜
My pointless story : my mom died and I was supposed to go to college in only 7 days as my college's director said to me - IT'S NOT OUR ISSUE. Which I understand, but still I couldn't do anything. Being the eldest sister and first child of my mom's side family I had to be strong! I didn't shed a tear in college, but that went down for me. My classmates said - isko apni maa ke marne ka farak nahi padta itni khush hai ye. I mean, those people didn't even know what I was going through. I cut off from everyone. Two years in college and I was alone. Today, I have no friends except one best friend and I am lucky to have him. Watching you and Anindita makes me feel good. If you will see this comment, I love you and I look up to you and you give me motivation 🤗
U r a strong gal god bless you i wish lot and lots of succcess in life ... Your mother will definitely proud of u 🌞🌻
@@himi13791 thank you for such a sweet comment 😢❤️
@@aashnachhatwal3563 never get sad keep smiling ... M only motive is jst to spread positivity 🌻 be happy
That him! Thank god you're in a right path
Most of gf are not that good
You are really strong❤️ Much love to you
you're unpacking childhood trauma
I'm in therapy for 4 years, but even at 29 the school bullying has left it's impact on me in significant ways, so it's not pointless to bring any of this up. only better self awareness.
My Pointless Story: when I was in 3rd standard I got admission in a new school.I was bullied because of my low weight. I used to be very thin and tiny and the seniors used to make fun calling me stick , skeleton etc. I used to be so scared that I didn't wanted to go to that school again.I used get nightmares thinking about morning and getting ready for school. It was affecting my mental health too. Oneday my mom found out this and she immediately complained to the principal. The senior's parents were called and they apologized and got warning too. I was so relieved. Thanks to mom❤️ she's been my constant support since then❤️ now I'm 20 strong and healthy to face anything. Be your own reason to smile❤️
@@sayantikaghosh4240 kya jawab diya jae aese logo ko just a week later my junior said ur neck shoulders should be filled and i said it's beuty bone and she said it looks like u need mantika in neck and your necklace is set
My pointless story :
I have been bullied for being a dark-skinned girl, everybody literally everyone bullied me for this, my relatives used to give me DIY remedies for a fair skin, my parents never compared me with others but my friends, relatives, neighbours and everyone out there used to call me ‘Kali' which was very painful for me. Once I wore a black shirt with black jeans and one of my neighbour taunted me that “kapre or skin ka colour toh same hi hai, samajh nahi aarha muh konsa hai", it broke me so miserably I cried a lot, I used to ask God that why did you give ME this skin tone. Then my mom explained me that this is what makes you an extraordinary person and makes you look good from others because if everyone would be fair then no one will be able to find the true beauty in it, you need to be the odd one to stand out and this line motivated me. Also my boyfriend is very supportive and he literally made me overcome my insecurity. I am very thankful for them 💖
Amazing di
@@priyanshighosh124 thanks for reading this, much love to you
This shows how strong you are
@@kavitajain7334 thank you ❤️
Story of my life.. I guess every other dark skin girl in India must've gone through this problem. I was also never selected for any cultural activities in my school, dance, plays toh door ki baat h but touchwood I made awesome friends in my school life, they always supported me ..even they used to refer my name for interschool competitions as bcoz I was good in art but bhai relatives k toh kya hi khne..they treat me like villain mtlb whi mentality ki insaan kala h toh villain and fair h toh fairy .. 😂 but I'm totally okay bcoz mere parents and friends bhut ache h baki jinki mentality aisi hoti h.. i toh just delete them...smjhane ka bhi koi fayda ni..itni age pr ni smjhe hmare bolne se kya hi sudhar jaenge
"You've to own your flaws and achievements like badges" hits differently. You're such an inspiration to me. Be well and prosper.💜🌺
When she speaks, u feel like she is sitting beside u and explaining u to be confident. Thank u. You have changed my life.
Bullying or targeting someone is very common in every profession or in family..I had faced a lot but over the time I have realized that you can not make happy everyone all the time..now I am grown up to face criticism and I wanna thank you to always bring postiveness with your videos and teaches us to stay happy all the time😘😘♥️
My pointless story is about oppression.
My dad (single parent) is quite conservative and has always restricted me from going to places or enjoying with friends and all because he was always scared for my safety. What he failed to understand was that this situation of fear will be always be there but it doesn’t mean that he can lock me up in the house and expect to be with it. I tried making him understand but it went all in vain. Lack of socialisation led to me having anxiety and feeling depressed at home. I started having suicidal thoughts and was almost on the verge of giving up.
But one day, this spark hit me. I read an article somewhere that said that use the problems in your life as a motivation to conquer this change. Now I work and spend all my time on making my career so that I can become independent and be free from this isolation. Your problems won’t get solved by sulking. They can only change when you work for it.
Same name and same thoughts😂❤️
Even I believe once I get independent my parents won't restrict me then and I've always asked people who experienced same thing
And they said become independent make them believe you are someone who Is now professional they will stop doing this to you ❤️
I feel so bad for everyone who faced such things, including me. But that made me a lot more confident and it's so good to see that you out grew them. Thank you for sharing these stories of yours.And we are so happy that you didn't give up on the thing you loved ❣️
I used to carry a boss babe attitude to guard myself in school so that people won't bully me.
Can definitely relate😂
Matlab fir aap bully karte honge
Just kidding😁
This is so of me
Same
love the fact that you take mental health seriously, and encourage people to put their needs first, it isn't something a lot of us learn growing up, thank you 💜 my pointless story is about how I allowed my academic achievements and failures to define me and be my source of validation when I was younger, it is something I've learnt to outgrow as I've grown older, and I still struggle with it sometimes, but reminding myself that I'm worthy irrespective of how well I do in my exams, especially since I don't judge others by the same yardstick; I think treating yourself the way you treat others is sometimes what you need to start being good to yourself, to ask yourself why, if others deserve it, you don't deserve kindness, too 💜
Last 10 minutes were something every teenager needs to hear. And like always YOU are here to make the things easier for us!
My story was almost similar to yours, literally had tears when you’re talking about how you looked up for validation by focusing on studies. I was an introvert and had no friends at all, I used to invest all my emotions in studies. I was a topper too till 10th but it started eating me as you said. It came to a point where I lost my interest in studies. I was always bullied for being skinny. People used to call me stick, cardboard and what not. I was colour shamed too for being dark. I grew so much as a person because of all the bullying and back stabbing I went through. I’m much more kind than I was before. I am thick skinned and strong 💪🏻 now. Just want to tell everyone don’t let your bullies eat you up mentally. Always remember you are much more stronger than your bullies. You’re way more as a person than the shape of your body, colour of your skin, and your looks. Don’t let anyone define who you are. ❤️💪🏻 Thank you so much for this video Aditi❤️ everything you told at the end was put together and really helpful 🤗
My pointless story: I'm going to enter in 30s soon. Still preparing for the government exams. Alot of people says it's the age of marriage and all. But there is my supportive family and brother behind me which trust me and not the people and society. I know I will make it all worth one day and made them proud.
Get to a place where you can financially support yourself and marry if and when YOU WANT .
Don't be disheartened. I'm preparing for the gov exams too Tho I'm not 30 but I'm 25 and I was going through such a rough time that I couldn't study or do anything. And i got late. But let's not give up. Let's remember that age is just a number. Good luck to you
@@aarzooverma you too..May you achieve what you want in your life ❤️
@@karmjeet9374 Thankyou ❤️ i hope you do too
I wish best for you ☺️
"Aap toxicity ka reply toxicity se nahi kar sakte"- KUDOS TO YOU!
It feels like a friend is saying her experience and giving advices. I learn so much from you. damn you! you truly are a influencer.
You're indeed an elder sister we all need.
Being an introvert who was fat-shamed during her school and early college days, I convinced myself to lose more than 20 kgs during 2019, it was to a point where I looked malnourished. Funnily enough when I lost weight people started commenting on my weight again!!!
It was at this moment I realised I need to learn to love myself for what I am.
I could relate to you to such a great extent.
Your pointless stories help us learn a lot. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kudos to quirky for helping us to validate ourselves for who we are. 💕
Damn girl....you are a queen...trust me...this is something I can't even imagine someone going through....hats off.....I feel really proud of you....of what u went through and what you become...I don't know whether I can express how respectful I feel towards you....but i really respect you....
"I'm more than my looks" Aditi 2021 💜
My pointless story: I had prioritised my friends the most.., I thought they were the most understanding people in my life and I was at a stage in my life where even I couldn't figure out what I was going through and I literally had none of them. After some time I felt that they wouldn't talk to me because I was sharing my problems and I should keep my problems to myself and watching your channel when you share your story on your CZcams I've realised the importance of just letting things out ..., speaking for yourself and if the person in front of you doesn't wanna be with you during your tough times then you don't ever need them . Today I've completely seperated myself from them and I don't regret it a bit.
MY POINTLESS STORY:
i feel really betrayed when my friends go a round my back and bitch about me while the meaning of friendship is quite the opposite. Like you said indirect bullying.
When friends make any plan and don’t invite later you get to know about it through social media is so bad💔 I am so sorry girl you have to go through this. Do remember friends will go and come . You should start the enjoying your own company . Cut out toxic people and if you are lucky enough to have Good people in your life (it can be anyone) Just value them 🥺
Cut them off, you deserve friends not snakes
Y I have suffered it still
It breaks my heart when you said you're proud having a North Eastern features 🥰. I'm from North East and we are being judged by our looks... Why is it that our own people judge!!! Hating on your own people just means that you're painfully insecure!
Today I can proudly say that I'm from North East.
This pointless story is ❤!
My pointless story: is about me failing in life. I am preparing for one of the toughest exams in india, and I am failing in it miserably. I am in my late 20s, still unemployed, having no job and my relatives and people around me, always taunt me for the failure I am.
You are not a failure. best wishes to you
Sab ho jaega yar pareshan mat ho....mehnat kr ...ishwar pr vishwas rakho yrr
Move ahead
It's hard now but things will work out in the end
You are doing CA
Subtract the toxicity.u work hard.we are not living to please everybody.Dont think you are a loser.u will eventually get what u want.
Ilu🤍
Hi Chackro 💗
Love how you guys support each other and are there for each other 💯 love you guys ❤️ such strong women! You guys motivate all the people out there and gives them that confidence it’s commendable 💋🎉🥳💜❤️🔥💯
Ur onekind of friends...💞🥰
Ilut💜🌻
MY POINTLESS STORY:-
Teenage is a very important phase in everyone's life, you make new friends,you experience different things, Basically you start exploring your life But when it comes to my teenage, it wasn't like that. I was short heighted, so everyone used to make fun of me, all of my Rishtedar used to say iske liye ldka kaise milega and all that bullshit. Your body changes during that time and I became very skinny, I have big beautiful eyes and lips but mere gaal thode Pichke hue the toh ppl used to say k agr aisa hi chlta rha toh kuch din mein log terko dekh k darne lg jayege, class mein koi tere sath bhi nhi bethega and all that. All these things affected me very badly,I just lost my confidence in myself, I stopped talking to the boys of my class coz I was afraid that they'll make fun of me at my back. After a period of time I was diagnosed with lung infection and that was the reason behind my lack of growth. I was in hospital for 10 days, on medication for 4 months and after that my glow up began😎 I grew taller, gained weight, it boosted my Morale and now the same ppl who used to say I'm way too thin say that himanshi ab isse jyda moti mt hoiyo nhi toh achi nhi lgegi shaadi k liye ldka nhi milega 😂 but now IDGAF about what other say about me. Or jaise jaise maine unka sunna bnd krr diya h dhere dhere unhone kehna bhi chd diya h 😂
*Moral of the story* :- kuch toh log kahenge, logon ka kaam h kehna, tum bss unki ek kaan se suno dusre se nikalo, or bss apne mnn ki krte rhna ❤️ (aree yeh toh rhyme ho gya 😅)
Actually meri bhi height boht chotti hai daily suffer krti hu logo ko baato se....19 age hogyi hai ab toh height increase bhi nhi hogi and mujhe yeh sb taane ab poori lyf sunne pdenge😭
Hi Himanshi 😭
I'm Himanshi too
I've also faced this height, Moti Vali things.. still facing!
I'm have the same issue but just I'm healthy and same happens with me no one sees the beauty inside me and evn i have very beautiful eyes and lips but still ppl look at my stomach and not other things.. And my height is also good like I'm 13 and my height is 5.3 I think it's fine according to me and I'm 20kgs over weight and I want to change myself but not for them and sometimes I get sooo pissed for ppl saying me this!!
@@kauranmol2761 Don't worry about other ppls opinion....just be confident about yourself 😀❤️
@@VanditaMehta Never ever change yourself for the sake of others. The day you start loving yourself, the world will also admire you. ❤️❤️
That line though "The best reply is no reply" 👏
My pointless story : I was molested by my neighbor uncle when I was about 4-5 years old. And when I realized that I was molested, I turned already a teen. I shared my story to my friends, some of them thought that I was a victim but some of them thought it was meaningless. No one can ever think of how I felt or even feel when I think of those days. I still think that I could have done something about it. But I don't know why I let it go. And years later that person was behind the bars for some other reason, I felt a relief in my heart.
You are very motivational Aditi 💜
Saranghae 💜
My pointless story:
Being in the number school of the city belonging to a middle class family I've been bullied from rich brats for my clothes , bags the way I looked, was not invited to their parties and teachers behaved that way too . It's the worst feeling ever when your so called "friends" call you names also .
i wouldn't shy away from saying that this video acted as a catharasis to me. accepting my emotions and looking at myself, yes, it did that to me. sometimes we don't confront our feelings and looking at how others have felt it and dealt with it, you get some encouragement. i would say your bad experiences has only made you the person you are today, enlightening other's path! brb, crying session!
Pointfull story : I'm a chubby girl right from my schooling years. Everyone used to make fun of my weight. But what used to hurt me more was my own real uncle in the crowd of 30-40 people in the wedding. He told my niece to call me "Jaadi" in front of those people. I was broke, shocked and cried out loudly. And even while writing this I have tears in my eyes.
I m also a chubby girl.....I faced this bullying a lot .....but we are more than that girl ....be strong ....the people who are insecure about themself make fun of others ....you be strong ...
HERE'S MY PATHETIC STORY: Miserabe, hurt, isolated, lonely…
They tried to bring me down by using constant taunting, down putting and making me seem like an alien and that just because of my skin colour which is not fair like theirs.
Most people who outrightly bullied me are girls. They wouldn’t care to isolate me! Situation almost like a hell!!
Hey di! Stay strong and blessed.love you!!❣
It feels comforting to know that every perfect picture has alot of history behind it. I can connect with you because I’ve always been a chubby girl and it just made me think if I did not fit into the society and I was not worth anything because I weighed a bit more than everyone around me. It’s a constant struggle with ourselves and it gets worse when people point that thing out and remind us on a daily basis that I look different :)
The Mongolian face racism is something that i personally have faced it during my school life as well and abhi lagta hai ki mereko farak nahi padta and that proves how much ive grown as a person..giving zero effs is the best solution.
The battles you fought in your childhood,made you a real fighter 🙌🙌🙌
Such a deep video man! Specially for those who are going through it. It mostly happen in school times. I hope all those who are going through it they have that enough self confidence to ignore those shitty things. My whole school life was toxic ,I too get body shamed each and every time even till now... By All the aunties out there, fake friends and relatives and many others inshort almost the whole society...But what I do is just ignore and keep focusing on the things which really matters to me instead of listening to them. If anyone is going through it please remember every human is beautiful and so are you! Please you don't even need to listen to them All I can say is "LET THEM BARK" This is the only thing I have in my mind from starting for those peoples.
Those bullies already disliked the video . Still insecure
I can't even imagine CZcams without Quirky now 🥺🧿
You don't have to❤️
@@ThatQuirkyMiss ❤️
This video takes guts. I'm so proud and inspired at the same time seeing this.
My pointless story is that I've a lot of self doubts and I lack confidence, have a over thinking problem. The pandemic initially made me depressed but later it changed me for the good. My extended family was covid +ve and I'd anxiety but things are fine now.
My pointless story:
All my school life i was bullied for my height at every point.
I was called chutki and all which made me one's feel to stop going to school
But suddenly in 9th i realised and learned self love and today i am in such a happy state of self love
*i request people to stop bullying*
my pointless story: when I was in school, I used to hangout with a toxic group in the school.. they bullied others, always insulted other students.. and even used to smoke n drink.. I personally can't stand the smell of cigarettes but they always make fun of me for that.. but finally I left that group after getting into college n I'm proud of doing that 🙌❤️
This was so inspiring. We all need courage to come and talk about this openly. ❤️
This is so heart to heart.... We all are here for you. I know you're in a better place but I'm feeling really sorry for what you have gone through. Virtual hug....It is not at all pointless rather it's very important to show people that the journey and struggles to live your dream. The last minute took my heart
Yep
Quirky's line..."if you will get to know me you will like me".....completely true...❤❤❤
So much love yrr
My pointless story starts from you quirky: you don't even know how much in life i connect to you. I am in that state of life exactly where you were when you started and you had nothing. It was a luxury to have a camera back then and i so feel you. I have been a chubby girl and on top of that was not so good in studies and i know how it feels to be islolated, or even if people were there with me it never felt like i had true friends. Few months back i broke a friendship that was for more than a decade and it felt like they left me because i was the bad guy their but girl this video of yours made me believe in myself. I was so low but it felt like you are a friend who believes in me. You have grown so much as a person and the way you were so so so precise and crisp in this video took my heart away! Nobody plans such video and i think even you spoke everything from heart but the way you presented this whole thing i was sobbing! May you GET YOUR DREAM HOUSE SOON❤❤❤❤🥺🥺
I have watched all of your pointless stories various times and all i can say is that i am extremely proud of you and have also experienced similar things about my looks just because I don't fit in the society beauty standards. I have also started blocking those toxic people from my life. Thankyou so much ❤️
This is we northeast people face every time in our own country even in our own state... Really hurts a lot😭
Dear Northeast people you are loved and you are Indian as much as much as any indian . Love ❤️❤️
I LOVE U .... U R BEAUTIFUL
Thank u luv u all... We are Indian🙏
It breaks my heart to know how much you've gone through...but it also makes me respect you more for what you've learnt and become now. RESPECT.
My Pointless Story:
In school, I was (and still am) the big, broad, tall girl in my friend's group and hence I always felt that I'm fat and that I'm supposed to lose weight. but when I look back at my pictures and compare my weight now, I feel like I am overweight NOW and was never before, that I never enjoyed my looks, my weight..that I never appreciated myself ever, I always considered myself fat when the thing was that most of my friend's had small build.
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My pointless story:- I was in 10th standard and was followed by a guy everywhere. He used to literally text me, call me from every contact possible. I had warned and told him that I was not interested, but he continued following and harrasing me. He got furious with fhe rejection and with the help of one girl, spreaded a rumor about me saying "I slept with him and he has a footage of us doing things together". The whole school started teasing me and started calling me words like "slut". My whole school experience was ruined because of this. My parents later interfered and the guy was suspended. But this tool a toll on my mental health. I hate that guy and the girl for fucking my mental health at such a young age.
shame on them how can they so this people like this are literally monsters .
My story- I was sexually assaulted when I was 8,9 years old and not only one time but multiple times and none other than my cousins not only one but 3 of them. They took tha advantage when ever I was alone and under the blanket. I felt like crying but till now I don't have confidence to confront them and to tell my family. I am very under confident because of that and some time I feel very bad and pathetic.
I'm so sorry for you..... I feel very sad for you while seeing this message but i just wanted to say just tell your parents what you r going through...... Plzz hopefully your parents take action.... If you tell this to your family you feel a little good because it was the worst nightmare ...... I dont even imagine i bad the situation is for you........ Just tell your parents otherwise you can share with your very special friends or you family member...... Whoever is this....... And please let me know what happened and what step you take... Mu Instagram is iii.poohruurooh.... You can connect me here ♥sending you love and lots of courage ♥
So sorry for you🥺
They are pathetic not you.
Please tell your parents asap.
Go nd confront them.. It's ok to loose nd let go such relations which are toxic
I'm so sorry. Please tell your parents.
Hi Quirky! I've had very similar challenges of bullying, fat shaming, etc. Very recently I've started off with healing and since I've started to feel better, I can see things with a different perspective! For some reason, I have started to see some freshness in you, mentally. Some kind of glow. It's really great! Keep growing! And I can resonate this importance of self love!
MY POINTLESS STORY :
PEOPLE WHOM I USED TO CONSIDER MY FRIENDS , BACK BITCHED ABOUT ME AND I STILL USED TO CONSIDER THEM THE MOST "SPECIAL" PEOPLE EVER UNTIL ONE DAY I HEARD THEM . THEY STILL DIDN'T CARE AND STARTED TELLING ME SUCH A "BAD FREIND" I WAS . THAT TIME I WAS LEFT HEART BROKEN. BUT NOW I FEEL WHATEVER HAPPENED WAS SO GOOD ATLEAST I GOT OUT FROM A TOXIC FRIENDSHIP
Same 🥺😔
That CZcamsr now makes “Body Positivity” fashion content on INSTAGRAM
Somi di you here I am your subscriber since 2-3 years😘😘😘 I have been following you since your Ali Express videos 😍
Who??????
@@garimasmusicchannel9907 yes whoooo
My pointless story :-
So when I m in 7 th class I m suffering from rickets ( a disease where you can't walk and run properly and ur legs slightly bend ...all because of lack of vitamin D ) so that time my classmates bullied me lot of times , they say different things to me ..which hurt me a lot and I used to cry in bathroom and start cursing me ...I totally understand how it feels when someone torture you. ...this video trigger my anxiety for sometime but this video is also relatable and heart touched.ily quirky for giving me strength to say my story online 🙏
Pointless story: i was targeted for being healthy every other person used to tell tips to loose weight….at one point i was soo insecure about myself even if some one looks at me for minute i used to pray inside that don’t insult me infront of anyone and i have constantly been asked about my weight which disturbes me alot
Same sis same🥺🥺
#PointlessStories - I've been called baby elephant by a "friend" while we went out to a bakery with a group of friends.. I was about to eat and he started calling me baby elephant. I was heart broken and angry.. and I walked out of the cafe. And some of my "friends" had the audacity to tell me that I over reacted!!
This kinda thing has happened with me too..
You did it right 👍 Self respect over snakes
Same here.. Small elephant
This happened with me too, still now I face this kind of thing, but now I'm more stronger.❤️
I'm so proud of all of you! I understand how difficult it is to face such situation, but moving past it and emerging as a stronger person is really important!!
People around us feels that it's their right to tell us how we must look and feel.
Your happiness is your responsibility. This quote is making my life much easy..
This pointless story reminds my childhood as being dark in complexion people use to call me tamilian...kali..bhadra kali and many more I use to cry a lot and now I feel that this is my strength that I am dusky...this give me confidence to fight against this racesium
You are a strong girl💖
My pointless story: I have been bullied all my life for being overweight. The guys I liked, my family and everyone in the society have bullied me over the years! But it’s still affects me and breaks me into pieces, I want to be strong like you.. after watching this video it has really motivated me a lot. I will try to face life from a different perspective from today all thanks to you Aditi 😊
When I was 5 year old My dad had suddenly mental illness, I never felt the father's love but I am happy he's with me, and now I'm 25. And my dad used to have Air Conditioning business he used to built Air Conditioning plants, now we live on rented apartments where earlier when my mom gave birth to me my dad really covered me with 3 lacs cash in 1996 and now we are struggling, but I know with the passage of time I will change everything as I'm doing my internship from last 4 years in Delhi High court and in next two months I'll be an Advocate.
When adititi says it's a pointless Stories. "Everything she says has a point" ❤️
Trust me we all needed this.
Thanks for making all of us feel "We are not the only one facing all this."
I’m glad you didn’t get “influenced” from those you-tubers because I love your channel 🙌
These pointless stories has a deep point to it and its so strange to see people disliking such videos ...
A good content always has an objective , its created with an intent and these kind of videos really inspires us to love the flaws we have 💜💜💜
As an northeastern we also face these comments of people calling us chinki and momos ... sometimes people see our IDs to check if we are really indians ...
My pointless story: My relatives always used to compare me with their kids and try to make me feel small and very under confident girl. They always try to get some flaws in me or my work, but now their thoughts doesn't affect me.. I am happy✌🏻
It just breaks my heart to hear the Ravi story, as I’ve similarly felt the same in my childhood.
As my mother is a single mother & when my classmates got to know about this, they asked me everytime why your father is not living with you, what are the issues? Are your parents divorced?
I know how all this feels.
But I love my mommy & now it doesn’t bother me at all.
Love you mommy 💜🌸
This is the most relatable video on the internet today! I'm so glad someone finally brought it up. Kudos Girl! ❤️
proud of that aditi who just cut off those toxic people from her life❤️.... and proud of quarky for sharing this❤️.... we love you
I have watched this video in 3 attempts: got me teary all throughout . It was so painful to hear all of this from you Sweetie!! Brought back some bad experiences, but made me so proud thinking where I am today. Extremely glad to see you grow out of it so amazingly. Thank you for sharing this, more power to you Aditi. So proud to be part of this community.
Pointless story: after 15 long yrs to trying to figure out to help family and friends to resolve their misunderstanding I have realised that the only person one can help is oneself..so rather wasting energy on everyone around focus it all on you so that they see the change in you and take that step...."Be the change you want to see in the world"
Was bullied for my teeth for my body shape...but worked so hard ..now everyone appreciate the change that I m going through 🙂
I really really appreciate you sharing your most personal stories so damn much!!!
My pointless story: So ever since I was young I had a very close family,I was an only child so I was always loved and had very loving and caring parents not in a very pampering or spoiled way in a more gentle and genuine way,but for a few months I've been having a very big fallout with them and we have been fighting constantly,a few.days back (3days before my bday )my dad snapped at me and slapped me thrice and said very very mean things and it was so hurtful not only physically but also emotionally so i havent talked to him ever since and don't think I can ever forgive or forget that ,but at the end of the day he is still my father and I remember you talked about how you had kind of a fallout with your dad too,how did you come out of it??
I don't know if I should just let it go and move on or just hold this grudge forever.....
Hats off to you. Being an introvert I can understand how difficult it is to share anything in front of so many peoples. You are a inspiration for us ❤️. Stay strong 💕 #quirkysquad
I was bullied during my high school, my own teacher call me Chinese in front of entire class and slowly my classmates started calling me Chinese, I was laugh at by my class mate in 11th standard, I'm a cabin crew now but my friend told other friends how did I even got through this job. I'm still try to feel confidence and comfortable with my looks and body.
Dw you’re beautiful inside out girl 💕
@@kiara9694 💗💗
My pointless story:
I've always been treated by my relatives as if my existence doesn't matter and they always poke their nose whenever I do something which I love but the thing I'm happy about is that my parents and my elder sister have always supported me and they've shown me the right path whenever I needed some guidance! And most importantly my parents take a stand for me and they love me that's all that matters!
Sometimes we feel like giving up when people treat us so bad but my mother has always told me to stay positive and karma will hit such people back!
Your pointless story series is so relatable that sometimes I feel that we're not the only one who's going through such things! Hats off to you! And more power to you! ❤
My pointless story : When i was in school i used to get bullied not becoz i am not good enough or anything else but becoz i was more confident than those ppl and always said my heart out very straight forward...They tried to pull me back by making me feel bad about my confidence but that thing always boosted me up to doo more good❤
My pointless story: My parents indirectly compared me academically with one of my relatives...they never felt that they were doing it...finally i confronted them before 12th boards result and explained them that for me marks doesn't matter and having better marks than that cousin doesn't make superior and having less marks doesn't makes me inferior than someone...All it takes is just a little bit of courage to explain something important to your close ones
I regret not being this courageous in front of my parents when they used to compare me to someone else all my school life.
Now I know if I would've done that, my mental health would have been better these days.
@@ritika8237 it's ok Ritika...Comparison is so toxic...it happens in school then in your professional life and then maybe in your house...but trust me it will only affect you if u let it effect...Just start taking steps for yourself....start standing for yourself....and trust me it will be all worth it...* virtual hugs* :)
@@ridhimasharma4251 🥺💓✨
@@ritika8237 🥺💗
My pointless story - when I was in my 12th, I participated for the head girl post in my school. When I did, none of my so called friends supported me and they supported the other girl who just participated for competing with me. I lost all my friends and nobody supported me they told me I don't deserve to win or they would make groups in class talking about me.I would literally beg my old friends to have lunch with me so that I won't be alone. But, gratefully I found 2 people who supported me and are my best friends now. And also, I won that election and became the head girl of my school. Stay strong people❤
I too was bullied a lot during my school days because I am overweight and it really affected me so much I had no girl friends I was alone but now I really don't care about anyone I'm ok with myself and focusing on myself my life and career
Even today also people call me a " kaali" And on a daily basis I face those racism😃
My pointless story- My neighborhood friend apparently which she his not , she use to gaslight my mother that I flirt with boys , I scored less or fail which wasn't even true but actually she was going through all these things and being a jealous person she always used to compare us and also her mother used to do the same and this all happens every time in my absence. It went to the point that my mother started doubting me and behaving weird and also she was getting stressed day by day. So once I confronted her and ask her what is the matter that's bothering her then she discussed with me and I told her the reality and shows the proofs as well . But they keep poking my parents every now and then. But now I am happy that me and my mother shared a strong bond where she trusts me and she ignore or confronts whatever shit they talk about.
I never spoke about it to anyone but your stories gave me courage to write about this . Thanks a lot ❤️
This story of your school has affected me so much it just triggered my memories of my school life which I just wanna forget
The level of bullying I have faced from literally the moment I I got admitted to school is just heartbreaking. I know this comment is about sharing your pointless stories but I don't think I have reached that point where I just can say those things out loud.
I am always looking forward to your Pointless stories series. I just love these videos. So much truth. So honesty. And factsss about life. It's my personal favourite.
Every single word of yours touched me deeply and recalling my old days relative used to bully me a lot for my appearance I started feeling lonely and less of confidence. After few year I started work hard on myself and now those relatives keep appreciating me on my succes.
Well done sister❤️❤️
I also faced the same😢
@@tomarduniabd2713 😢😢😢💖💖💖
@@TaniaIslam-ph8nt thank you
My pointless story:- some of my family members keep comparing me with my cousin in some or other way.... Never praised me for my little bit of success although I still have a lng way to go... I'm about to graduate next year... And you are still comparing me with the one who has been a topper since from school like wtf.... Still, I have people to support and encourage me and Iam blessed to be around with beautiful people.
"I am more than my looks . More than my first impression " ❤️ loveyou di... You are highly inspiring today's generation
Commenting for the first time because your story unlock an old school memory of mine.
My (not so) Pointless Story:
In 8th standard , I had a group of friends..we were friends since 1st standard ..they were always into mocking/insulting other students teachers . I've never done it but I was part of that group and for me they were really close to me.
They introduced my insecurities related to looks, body, relationships 🤷🏻♀️then one incident happened in 8th standard they decided to have some cheap sort of drug thing...and when I denied it to take they indirectly try to bully me and that day I realised how toxic those people are.
It's just the one incident but there were many red flags but I was dumb..umm no I was not spoilt enough to understand those behaviours.
After I left that group they started spreading rumours about me behind my back which was heartbreaking at first but now it's just so funny that they were so obsessed with me and doesn't have a life 😂
And I'm kinda proud of myself that I didn't get influenced by such things at that age I always took stand for me and others.
School time is the most delicate phase of once life . Do not get influenced by others..if you think you are right take a stand, they will laugh,mock to put you down because they're insecure and know that you have more capabilities than them ✨
#samaysbbatadetahai
Being from LGBTQ community I have faced a lot of bullying and looks . Starting from a metro to availing a local transport . People who know me doesn't do this kinda stuff but strangers play the most part of it . It sucks but everyone is changing and evolving. Have a nice day ❤🦁 sending love 🌸💗
more strength to you ❤
All my love and support for LGBTQ community 💕
Sending you love and strength. You have our support 😊💓
more power to youu 🦋
🌈🌈🌈🌈 are cute and sweet....i wish you find yourself someone who loves you....more strength to you..🌈🌈🌈🌈
Bully is something everyone has faced in their life . I also have faced bully in my life . I am short , I am 4 feet 11 inch now . I have always been bullied by everyone in my school even in my family . I don't understand why people have problem with my height . Earlier I always used to feel bad but now I don't give a shi* to it .
@Sunaina Stargirl I can understand , hope you are doing well now
My pointless story would be - I am that person everyone comes to for advice, safety, comfort. I am known for handling everything, taking care of everyone, friends family. But what no one knows it that my mental health has gone downhill since last year to such an extent that I burst into random swings and crying sessions and what not! And unfortunately, I got criticised for that by my own friends. That's when I had to stop being available. I realised I have to work on myself first. It still a work in progress but I am in a better place right now. I am glad I took that step. It was tough to accept being vulnerable when always I had the tough exterior but the realisation of acknowledging feelings and emotions is the first step to work towards a better mental health.
Love your videos, you and thank you for the ray of sunshine in our lives. 💞
It's my humble request to everyone stop bullying people's for there body type skin colour religion etc it really feels terrible and painful...
Hey aditi again, uh motivatee, and inspired me to have confidence in yourself, I was such a depresses girl in my school, my friends used to bullie me that u are dark, kali, etc. It made me soo tensed and demotivated now I don't talk to that friends I m happy in my own zone, I m glad to dump such friends
My pointless story : Being an introvert, i never could/can convey my feelings which left me really alone in my life. Only my family's there. Also i used to get bullied and fatshamed too by my teachers, friends and all. Sometimes I feel they used me as per their convenience and then threw me in the trash. The bouts of sadness returns daily these days and I feel so miserable that i cry for hours.
Relatable.. being a northeastern staying outside northeast, racism has become a part of my day to day life 😀.. it’s so toxic and the worst part is some people, well educated people still think calling someone chinese, momo, chowmein is okay.. ab toh aadat si ho gayi hai 🥲
I wish unn logon mein thoda dimag aa jaye and even if they are educated unn mein humanity aur manners naam ki koi chiz nhi hai ❤️
North Eastern people are really nice and I'm sorry you have to go through this
Thank you 🥺❤️
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@@Peachicedtea123 ❤️
I don't know why people see a girl who looks asian as a non human being or as if it's bad. Even i look asian living in odisha. This is relatable, I've faced racism, bodyshaming etc. This is really sad that looking a certain way and not having that "perfection" everyone wants makes us feel so miserable and lowers our confidence levels to the minimum.
My pointless story :
People who weight more dosen't mean they eat more. There can be other reasons too. I hv been listening these statements myself for such a long time now. Statements like ghar ka rashan toh yehi khatam kr deti hogi types.
My pointless story is that I always get so attached to people that even if they are in the wrong, I see everything they do through rose-coloured glasses. Only recently, I've started to learn that it is important to hold people responsible for their actions, and not overlooking their faults every single time. Its a constant effort, but I am hoping to get there someday❤. More power to you Aditi! You go girl💪❤
Just one feedback these are not point less stories they are 'powergiving' stories....lot of love to you ❤️
On point stories...right
The way you point on the important issues like nobody else does that's the reason I watch your videos