My family had a house fire when I was young. Lost it all, even my brother. I promise you, in the grander scheme of things, people are more important than things. What do we miss most from the fire loss: my brother, NOT the stuff. I'm sure my parents thought they'd rather replace every single item of important papers than their child. Less serious note: My man had his laptop crash. Lost it all. Every picture of the first 2 years of our kids life. If you think about it, you WILL live without all that stuff. You can actualy LIVE without it. You really need very very little. Sometimes even if you give up all those old photos of people you never get to see again, it's ok. You can live this life to the fullest, which is probably what those who are gone would want you to do.
I am so sorry about the loss of your brother. Your point is very valid. We can live without this stuff and "live this life to the fullest, which is probably what those who are gone would want you to do." I need to ponder and act upon this. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We had our house burn down almost a year ago and lost everything but each other. My husband was in a coma for 2 weeks because he didn’t know the kids and I were out and he ran back into the house to find us. Not a day goes by that I don’t remember how close we came to losing each other. And you’re so correct, in the face of that kind of loss, the material things are so unimportant! ❤️
I feel the takeaway about the computer crash is the issue of having digital vs developed film. Something you can hold on your hand and keep and pass down for generations vs. Sonething thats gone when you drop or loose your phone or computer dying. My mother warned me to print out my photos and whole generation mmmmay miss out on photos from childhood.
On the issue of keeping cards: birthday, anniversary, Christmas, etc. The best tip I have heard and what I now do is to keep the most recent card from each person (that really matters to me). My 91-year-old father passed away almost one year ago, but he had lost the ability to write his own cards two or three years ago. I kept (and will keep forever) the last Christmas card he sent me that he signed himself. My partner's half-sister passed away a few years ago, and we have the last Christmas card she sent us as well. Those final cards overshadow all the rest, and you never know which will be the final card.
Kate Yare yes!!! I keep some cards for that reason also! I also save some voicemails for that reason! Also, I have about 3 voicemails on my phone to this day from my step-dad who passed 7 yrs ago! He has left a msg for our anniversary and also for my bday, told me he loved me. So very special to me! My husband made a video of photos with his voicemails in the background... priceless!!
I just cannot throw away cards from my kids .....from every Mother’s Day and birthday and Xmas they’ve ever sent me - and they’re now 19 and 16 😬. I’m thinking I might photograph them and the writing inside and then upload a photo book with them in.
Tip: For Christmas cards, I cut the front off and keep them to use as gift tags the following year. No need to buy bag tags. Works if people do not write on the back of the pretty part when they send to you.
I have done this for years - as did my mother she used "pinking shears" to cut the "tags" out. Whenever I prep my tags, or use one on a gift, it makes me think of my mom
I love your husband! He keeps bringing the humor into the situation! I have ADHD and even your system was probably more than I would do (if I am honest). First of all, I went paperless with all bills and got rid of every magazine, catalog and newspaper subscription (I found a 6-month-old stack of ones I had never read and that was that.) I haven't missed one of them! Second: Everything gets opened AT THE FRONT DOOR. My professional organizer came up with a "3 Bin System" that works for me (if anyone else is interested): Bin #1 is a shredder by the place where the mail comes in, and it sits on top of a large wastebasket. All envelopes and non-necessary papers get immediately shredded as does all junk mail (so it doesn't come into the house at all). Bin #2 is on my desk: this is everything that needs to be "dealt" with in some way. And box #3 hides behind my couch: Everything else goes in that box. Bin #1 goes out every other week with the recycling, Bin #2 has to be done ASAP, but I try to keep it always empty by the end of the week, and Bin #3 I go through every six months, and I set a timer to keep me on track. Anything I haven't needed or used in Box #3, gets shredded and all tax stuff goes into a large manila envelope at the bottom of the box that says "Tax Stuff" which is usually all that I end up keeping by the end of the year. Hope this helps someone!
"If it's a bill they'll send you a new one!"😂😂😂 This is so my husband. I love how practical and compassionate your videos are!! I sent the last paper clutter one to my Mom and she loved it. Thank you so much Dawn!!
There is one piece of paper I will almost always leave laying around, even if everything else is gotten rid of or organized into files. My younger brother and I lived between houses while we were younger (parents divorced). Even when we were living in the same house at the same time, our schedules didn't always connect. One day, one of us started doing a crossword puzzle from the local newspaper and left it sitting on the kitchen table to head off to school (probably me). The other one came along and filled in some of the answers, and we continued switching off like this until the puzzle was completely filled in. We kept doing this over the years until we both moved to college. While I moved back home for what was supposed to be a temporary move, my brother stayed in the city his college was located in when he graduated. I still set out a puzzle of some sort on the table when I can (though we don't get the newspaper anymore). I pass through the room here and there and fill it out like we did way back when. During my brother's infrequent visits now, we both revert back to doing a puzzle if we have one out (it's a little harder to find a worthy puzzle now compared to back then). This will be the only paper that sits out in the public areas of the house on a consistent basis. It's a way to connect with our family and do an activity together when our schedules and living conditions prevent anything more; even more to the point, it's a great memory that allows us to keep close despite all that life has thrown at us over the years.
Progress over protection! For the perfectionist minded we can micro organize our paper but for those who need progress tossing in a designated box is a great tip! So many times people don’t even start a project because they feel the pressure to make it look pretty or Pinterest worth. Just getting it done even if it’s not pretty is better than closing the door on it! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Wonderful perspective!!! A lot my hoarded clutter was also an avoidance because it took sooooo much time to go through all of that!! I wanted to use my time and energy to go on little adventures with my boys!! I wanted to do things with them and ignored the clutter. But I now realize that wasn’t good either!! So I take baby steps to Declutter the mess and make sure I’m still taking that precious time with my children!! FYI: Paper is my Goliath!!!! Lol thank you for the visual of decluttering them!!
Paper clutter is my Goliath as well! I ALWAYS get so hung up on this.. it makes me so discouraged because I do t know what to keep or throw away! So frustrating, this video helps. I can get rid of stuff… but the paper clutter is so overwhelming!
When my mom moved out of her home of 40 years, we had 43 years of tax returns. We started by shredding them, but it was going to take too long. A taxes bonfire was the answer! We felt like big rebels burning tax returns.
K Gibbs when I cleaned out my Mom’s house while moving her to assisted living, I found two bank boxes of paystubs my Dad had saved from 1972 through 2004. Along with all the tax returns there was over seventy pounds to be shredded. Would have burned them but no fire pit in her yard and was trying to sell the house also.
I love how you’re like, just put it in a box with a date and move on - move forward. I have several boxes of papers I just dumped papers into and I have felt bad about not organizing them but they are years old at this point and I’m just like, I don’t want to spend my time that way! Also, Tom - “just burn it, if its a bill, they will send you another one.” Hahaha!!!!! Paper clutter is the VERY worst kind of clutter by far!!!
1. The starting over aspect is legit. I have grown leaps and bounds in this regard. Whether it be papers or the book I'm reading, that i do not have to finish it and no book police have come for me yet! In all seriousness, it reveals our thinking and what we have been beholden to and when we start asking WHY?!, things change... and completion doesn't look only one way. We get to evaluate and determine the worth and value of our time and how it's spent and if something is serving us or not. 2. Shockingly, i just purged my greeting card supply. It became a stressor, like books, where I finally admitted I can't use them all, even if on a desert island i wouldn't read them AND i/my home is NOT a storage unit. Someone else can use them instead of storing them here and feeling stress/pressure/anxiety/guilt. 3. And now it's fun and part of the process to take my books or magazines to a local free library and leave them for someone else to find ☺
I shred all of my personal information including addresses. I rip or cut the information off of the envelope, catalog or magazine. I enjoy your tips! Thanks!
Fantastic! I always strived to be a Micro organizer but I am finally accepting the fact that I am a Macro organizer. Took me 50 years to accept what really works for me, not what I wanted to be like.
A big thank you to my mom for helping us collect paper for this video! ;) You can find a link to the game mentioned in the description as well as some guidelines for how long to keep things and a few of our favorite paper system products! THANK YOU for watching- we appreciate you!!!! - Dawn
Thanks so much for this video, I'm currently working on my paper monster that is seriously years over due! Just a side note, I appreciate seeing examples of the categories to sort through the pile, but for me if it doesn't need to be shredded or saved for later then why not recycle it instead of putting it the regular trash. Just a thought💙 by the way I really love your channel and have been binge watching for a while now 😀
@Eric Parker If it doesnt need to be saved for later/ filed or shredded then all paper waste flyers envelopes advertisements - recycle it, no need to put it in the garbage. For my family If it has ANY personal information that I do not need to save such as statements or credit card offers atm receipts any papers or documents with personal information of any kind. medical record numbers from appointment reminders or balance reminders. Even student ID #'s (just to be safe) I shred or do a bon fire. My city has 3 free shred days a year. Its Secure and its Free! So I plan to take my boxes to the next one they have. Hope that helps.
@@melodie-1977 Good question! I think the sign got covered by the paper, we recycled everything that could be and only threw stuff that had plastic or something else in or on it that wasn't recyclable!
@Eric Parker Good question! We put anything with personal info in the shred pile, anything that could be recycled in that pile, and things that had plastic in or on it or anything else that made it non-recyclable in the garbage pile (our 10 year old went on a field trip to the recycling center last year and came home with detailed instructions of what can and can't be recycled in our area ;)
My husband and I both make an effort to sort the mail in the car so we can recycle anything on the way into the house that doesn't need to be opened. I also try to go through everything as it comes into the house, saving only the things that need to be filed, saved or responded to.
My husband and I keep really important documents. (SS security cards, birth certificates, passports and mortgage docs)in a fireproof box. It's not too big, so we can't over stuff it. We always no where it is and in case of emergency we could retrieve it quickly. Paper clutter is the bane of my existence! I have 2 kids at home, but also 3 college recent grads. Dealing with their mail is awful. And now I am responsible for my elderly mother's affairs~ more paper - and a ebusiness that requires keeping lots of receipts~ You've inspired me to try to make a fresh start. Dawn, I wish you had been around when I had little kids. You are the best!
Your videos and ideas are so freeing. You give us permission that some of us (me!) never realized we had. You’ll never know how much weight that you’ve lifted from my shoulders. ❤️
Motivated through your eye-opening and practical videos, I set myself a goal last week-end: to declutter 5 to 15 minutes on each week day - putting the emphasis on paper. Today it was already my bedtime when I would have had time for it. I decided to stick to it. The 5 minutes became more than 15, and I am EXCITED to continue tomorrow! Thanks! 🙏 🔝
Good job Dawn! I can so relate!! My husband has not been well for the last 2-1/2 years. I took over our finances a few months prior to this time. He has continued to try to “help” (control)!! As of the last 6-12 months he has been unable to “guide” me as he would like. A new start has arisen for 2020!!!!!! I bought a cardboard “mail sorter” for the new year. All 2020 item will be given their home within this new device. Non recuring will live in MISCELLANEOUS. Non-Profit contributions will all be under that one head. I plan to slowly go through my previous filing system and shred the unnecessary item!! Thanks for the encouragement and keep up the good work, Judy in Virginia Beach
Dawn, you inspired me so much with your last video that I I went through 6 years of older tax returns and got rid of all the supporting documentation, only keeping the actual returns. Plan to scan those onto a USB drive and put that in safe and then likely shred the actual paper returns. I also discovered my school report cards for grades 1-12 and shredded those too. All my nursing continuing education certificates, gone. Don't need them since I'm retired. All the paper that's left now fits into half of a filing cabinet drawer. For the last year or so, I've been dealing with mail as soon as it comes into the house rather than letting it pile up. So much easier!
I know someone with a desk next to her bed, of all places. It is covered with years of dusty paper clutter and never gets cleared completely. I want to sweep my arm across it, dump all that stuff in a box, and then remove that desk and vacuum behind it! It takes away so much of her peace and probably contributes to her allergies; it’s not fair.
the “fresh start” concept is so powerful. the “fresh start” / “reset button makes it so much easier than just trying to figure out what new pile to add some old thing to. great vid!
I love the idea of “fresh start”. I’ll give it a try on some of my clutter; I have no idea why I feel my paperwork piles are so sacred. I love my local newspaper but sometimes am way to busy to read them daily and they stack up. A couple years ago I decided that each paper would be recycled by that evening, read or not. It pained me at first to recycle something unread but I quickly adjusted to the freedom it gave me.
Yes! That is what i have been saying to myself the most: "sometimes we just need a fresh start!" & it has helped decluttering a lot through the whole house! Thank you for encouraging us who are overwhelmed with it all!😀👍
Thank you so much for this fresh perspective on paper clutter!!! What helps me the most is the specific mental tips you provide us like, "do I need to archive everything from the past?" These are the most helpful things for me because the emotions of keeping things often take center stage such as guilt for getting rid of a card or sentimental item, anxiety over letting go of something you may need, etc. Changing from an emotional to mental perspective makes this so much easier. I have a huge paper sorting project that is awaiting just this kind of advice. I'll be tackling it this weekend thanks to your help!! I have allowed the embarrassing paper stack to keep my son from having friends over, etc. Papers are not more important than people and the memories we make with them! This will be defended in my house from now on. Thank you soooooo much for empowering me to do this!
Yes! This mindset is so good for me! I have so much decision anxiety that I end up keeping too much! Having a bin I put in the attic then just toss after 2 years solves my problem!
It might also be fun to jot down the name of the game(s) played on the calendar each day. You will quickly see the family favorites, which will make clearing out unloved games easier.
Thank you so much for the paper clutter videos. I have a love/hate relationship with paper. I hate all the business paper. However, I am an artist, so I love paper, too! This is my most difficult thing to deal with!
I would like to add something to the things you are throwing away or putting in recycling. Even though we live in a small rural town in northeastern California, before throwing out anything with our name and address on it, we tear or cut it off and shred this information. In this day and age, we do not want anyone going through trash and finding our info. There are people out there looking for ways to steal your identity, etc. Just passing this on as a way we handle or mail. Ugh. There is always so much. I love watching you and your husband and sister. Great job. Blessing to all of you.
I find it easier to walk right to the recycle bin as I come in the door with the mail... I so enjoy your videos Dawn.. You are so wise to know what's truly important & that's spending time with your babies. They will be in college before you know it. Keep up the great videos.💟😊
I know this is an older video, but I’m catching up. In our family, we have books where we write notes to each other throughout the year and on holidays that take the place of cards. It’s saved so much space and mind space and is sooo much more special!
Excellent video! You really keep the decluttering process in perspective by returning to your underlying goal of connection with your children. Love your decluttering approach. Also so appreciate that you didn’t say “welcome to my channel”!!!
Oh Dawn thank you so much for these videos you just about saved my life from drowning in paper clutter😄👍 Like you I dont do micro filing Theres more to life than that🤣 these videos have giving me a system to put in place that I think even I can follow so thank you so much😀😘
Love that idea and your hubby's too. 🤣 I decided the first of the year to do something similar with my computer files of whatever was on my computer I put in a folder titled "2019
I’m still rocking the paper system from your original video 😅 I come back to watch these just to hangout with you !! Haha HAPPY DECLUTTERING EVERYONE!!
I really like that this video displayed more than just the perfect approach to handle these items, it also gave a quick realistic way to improve. My words for 2020 are “intentionality, awareness and gratitude “
Great idea on just quickly storing what u need in one spot just to get through the back log. You can always go back and subdivide later if you choose too.
I have started this process several times. I'm in the middle of paper right now. I have boxes from years ago and boxes I don't even remember what's in them. Health issues and a series of moves and dragging it with us. I actually did take a paper box I wanted to get rid of and made it the trash box and started sorting and putting in the trash box while putting things I'm not sure of in other boxes. I have a couple boxes going. I have papers wrapped in a towel sitting next to me that I need to get motivated to go through and trash or throw in another box. I need to watch some more and get motivated to whittle down decades of paper. I have this thing where I'm saving things to write a book but have lots of other nonsense mixed in.
I just tackled our memorabilia. My husband saves everything, along with envelopes, and even duplicates. I’m really not a fan, it makes me nostalgic and kind of sad. But I organized it and got rid of envelopes, and by neatening and categorizing , it takes up less space. I feel better now. Going forward I will have separate bins for the things that I consider worthy of saving, like graduation programs and cards, not movie stubs. He can have his version though.
I'd like to give this video a million thumbs up. Thank you, thank you!! Paperwork has been overwhelming me and the fresh start idea is huge. I love how you explained your thought process while sorting. This has been super helpful.
Recipe books! I had 20-30 at one point plus lots of loose papers and card. Finally, two weeks ago bought a 3-ring binder and page protectors and went thru the stacks of paper. Used dividers for meats, desserts, etc. and got rid of every recipe I wouldn't use or didn't like. Made a stack of things to try or throw out within the month. Donated all the books except the two I use recipes from.. It was SO refreshing to have a manageable binder and recipes! It took up a whole cabinet before!! Now I can fit everything in the very small cabinet over the microwave and still have room for the kids candy making supplies.
That's what I'm going to do as soon as I can sit down. I have so many bookmarked on my phone that I have made several times. Good part is, I'll have the ingredients with me but then I have to search all those recipes bookmarked.
❤️ I wish I could make a bonfire with my paper clutter too Tom lol. It does feel really overwhelming. P.s. Rummikub is super fun!!! It's really cool that you guys are making the time to play as a family everyday👍
I done the bonfire 2x in the last 10 yrs. My bestfriends mom passed away & she was keeping every thing & I mean every single thing.. I said... no way.... Then when my mother passed, my brother & I done the bonfire with her so called filing system lol lol It was amazing.... 😁
I needed this video SO badly! I am in desperate need of a fresh start!! I have piles and bins and boxes full of paperwork (from the 4 years I had a direct sales business). I am a perfectionist so the lumingness (yup, just made that word up!) of it all has scared me into avoidance mode. I don’t know what to keep, how to store it or file it- so it sits. BUT you are so right, it’s ok to not know what to do with some of it, the “might need it” box will be my saving grace and your videos Dawn, will be my encouragement and motivation for getting my home back!! Thank you!❤️
Hi Dawn, I really like your videos and it gives me loads of motivation. Nevertheless, I must say that lately the videos are just a bit too long for me. I try to follow my personal 10 min rule - when the youtube video is longer than that, I think hard before I watch it. I find 7-8 mins as an ideal length and I believe that you would be able to share the same content in that limited time. Keep up the good work and thank you for all the ideas, positive energy and thought you share. :-)
It's ironic how you said some people might be horrified at just sticking it all in a bin, yet that is actually genius. At least it's in one place, safe and clean, not scattered along other random stuff in piles all over the house. I used to have pulled all over and it feels so good not to anymore! I LOVE the choice questions you recommend to help us make decisions! Brilliant!
Thank you for this new perspective on where I want to spend my time when it comes to the piles of old papers. Setting up a new system and moving forward with it. And permission for the old paper system not to have to be perfect. So freeing and encouraging! Thank you!
❤️❤️❤️ yes ...so motivational ..I finally have a fresh start . Just current papers in my file cabinet and the rest in a rubber maid . Lol we have 4 boxes to burn ...
Congratulate me I am down to just dealing with photos and memorabilia only keeping what will go in albums. Last year I set my sights on downsizing minimalizing my goal was to move from a 3-bedroom apartment to a one-bedroom apartment, by September I moved love the minimalist life now. As for the photos and memorabilia I'm using this winter season to get it done. Love your Channel on minimalist family living and your faith video with your sister. Love bekah
I have had health issues for decades and so I have an entire box of dr files and reports. I have gone through it once and I decluttered tons but I still may be 'holding on' to too much...more out of a sentimental reason then necessity. It tells an important part of my life story...like a journal. And I do still think 'what if' I need it. And surprisingly when I asked for a copy of my CT scan ( showing my stage 4 cancer, NHL, grapefruit size tumours) I want to keep because it reminds me of what I have survived, lived through. ( I have no detectable cancer now for several years). When I asked I thought they would give me a digital form a memory stick or even a disc but they sent it to me in paper format....it is a 3 inch thick stack of paper. I think I will try again and see if I can get it digital now. Any advice on how to declutter medical papers would be helpful.
Thank you so much for letting me know I don't have to keep anything that isn't important ;) New year, new me = no more clutter, no more chaos! Thanks again!
Amen Dawn!!! People over managing inventory. These are great suggestions and I'm so glad you are giving us all permission to break through the overwhelm!
No one has an excuse to not deal with their paper clutter with this approach. Thanks for reminding us that we can get stuff done even if it isn't perfect. ;)
Thank you!! I'm watching this while I shred my own docs and so many others I inherited from my parents that date back to over 25 years ago! You have given me hope for a way to end this madness.
What??? Do you mean I don't have to file the sewer, electricity, water, gas, garbage, phone, cable, car insurance, mortgage, bank statement, health insurance statement, and 3 credit card bills into 14 different color-coded file folders each month and keep them for years just in case...? I really did do that, and more, until I started watching your videos. I simplified my filing system a LOT last summer (and purged massively), but this video has shown me that I can simplify it even more and never lose or miss something that's really important. Thanks so much for the inspiration and encouragement.
Hello Dawn, thank you for channel - I love how real you are, how positive and inspiring; I was at the point where I had made peace (sort of, for the sake of moving on) with the fact that this is just me, I will never get the simple living thing down - but you seriously have me thinking that maybe I can! One tip I have that gave me incredible freedom with kids’ artwork, and memorabilia in general, is, I would take a photo of it (like birthday cards) and keep a memorabilia album (mine is digital, but it could be a physical album); my kids are grown up now, but I used to get them to pick their favorite artworks and talk about them on video (my son had a vivid imagination and his pictures were usually stories or inventions😉) ... then you ditch the physical paper and it doesn’t take space anymore. I hope that helps someone. Again, thank you so much - please don’t stop. Blessings from Pretoria, South Africa
Love the video. Just purged most of my files and my husband did too. Only keeping the bare minimum of papers...it feels so refreshing. I’m also simplified my files. Thanks Dawn, less is more.
Hi I have been watching you and Erica Lucas videos. I have donated bags and bags. I found bags and bags of trash to get rid of. My apartment looks so much better. It makes me feel happy to get rid of this stuff. Thank you for all your help.
My family had a house fire when I was young. Lost it all, even my brother. I promise you, in the grander scheme of things, people are more important than things. What do we miss most from the fire loss: my brother, NOT the stuff. I'm sure my parents thought they'd rather replace every single item of important papers than their child.
Less serious note: My man had his laptop crash. Lost it all. Every picture of the first 2 years of our kids life.
If you think about it, you WILL live without all that stuff. You can actualy LIVE without it. You really need very very little. Sometimes even if you give up all those old photos of people you never get to see again, it's ok. You can live this life to the fullest, which is probably what those who are gone would want you to do.
I am so sorry about the loss of your brother. Your point is very valid. We can live without this stuff and "live this life to the fullest, which is probably what those who are gone would want you to do." I need to ponder and act upon this. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We had our house burn down almost a year ago and lost everything but each other. My husband was in a coma for 2 weeks because he didn’t know the kids and I were out and he ran back into the house to find us. Not a day goes by that I don’t remember how close we came to losing each other. And you’re so correct, in the face of that kind of loss, the material things are so unimportant! ❤️
Wow! Such good words of wisdom! Deep!
I feel the takeaway about the computer crash is the issue of having digital vs developed film. Something you can hold on your hand and keep and pass down for generations vs. Sonething thats gone when you drop or loose your phone or computer dying. My mother warned me to print out my photos and whole generation mmmmay miss out on photos from childhood.
On the issue of keeping cards: birthday, anniversary, Christmas, etc. The best tip I have heard and what I now do is to keep the most recent card from each person (that really matters to me). My 91-year-old father passed away almost one year ago, but he had lost the ability to write his own cards two or three years ago. I kept (and will keep forever) the last Christmas card he sent me that he signed himself. My partner's half-sister passed away a few years ago, and we have the last Christmas card she sent us as well. Those final cards overshadow all the rest, and you never know which will be the final card.
Kate Yare yes!!! I keep some cards for that reason also! I also save some voicemails for that reason! Also, I have about 3 voicemails on my phone to this day from my step-dad who passed 7 yrs ago! He has left a msg for our anniversary and also for my bday, told me he loved me. So very special to me! My husband made a video of photos with his voicemails in the background... priceless!!
I do this too xx
I do the same thing. I keep the last card and if there was a really heartfelt earlier card I may keep those as well
Definitely keep ones that are important to you!
I just cannot throw away cards from my kids .....from every Mother’s Day and birthday and Xmas they’ve ever sent me - and they’re now 19 and 16 😬. I’m thinking I might photograph them and the writing inside and then upload a photo book with them in.
“If it’s a bill, they’ll send you another one.” 😂😂
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Well, in a way he’s right. Probably not a bad approach . . . unless it says final notice!!!! :-)
he's not wrong lol
Tip: For Christmas cards, I cut the front off and keep them to use as gift tags the following year. No need to buy bag tags. Works if people do not write on the back of the pretty part when they send to you.
I would totally do this if I didn't already have a CRAP TON of little tags to use up...ugh...
I have done this for years - as did my mother she used "pinking shears" to cut the "tags" out. Whenever I prep my tags, or use one on a gift, it makes me think of my mom
Google for the charities that accept used Cmas cards. You can write off the postage.
“Let’s spend time together and not try to be always archiving things from the past.” Truth. Thank you, Dawn!
I love your husband! He keeps bringing the humor into the situation! I have ADHD and even your system was probably more than I would do (if I am honest). First of all, I went paperless with all bills and got rid of every magazine, catalog and newspaper subscription (I found a 6-month-old stack of ones I had never read and that was that.) I haven't missed one of them! Second: Everything gets opened AT THE FRONT DOOR. My professional organizer came up with a "3 Bin System" that works for me (if anyone else is interested):
Bin #1 is a shredder by the place where the mail comes in, and it sits on top of a large wastebasket. All envelopes and non-necessary papers get immediately shredded as does all junk mail (so it doesn't come into the house at all).
Bin #2 is on my desk: this is everything that needs to be "dealt" with in some way. And box #3 hides behind my couch: Everything else goes in that box. Bin #1 goes out every other week with the recycling, Bin #2 has to be done ASAP, but I try to keep it always empty by the end of the week, and
Bin #3 I go through every six months, and I set a timer to keep me on track. Anything I haven't needed or used in Box #3, gets shredded and all tax stuff goes into a large manila envelope at the bottom of the box that says "Tax Stuff" which is usually all that I end up keeping by the end of the year. Hope this helps someone!
"If it's a bill they'll send you a new one!"😂😂😂 This is so my husband. I love how practical and compassionate your videos are!! I sent the last paper clutter one to my Mom and she loved it. Thank you so much Dawn!!
So glad to hear! THANK YOU!!!
My mom totally needs it, but if I sent it to her, she'd feel attacked.
There is one piece of paper I will almost always leave laying around, even if everything else is gotten rid of or organized into files.
My younger brother and I lived between houses while we were younger (parents divorced). Even when we were living in the same house at the same time, our schedules didn't always connect. One day, one of us started doing a crossword puzzle from the local newspaper and left it sitting on the kitchen table to head off to school (probably me). The other one came along and filled in some of the answers, and we continued switching off like this until the puzzle was completely filled in. We kept doing this over the years until we both moved to college. While I moved back home for what was supposed to be a temporary move, my brother stayed in the city his college was located in when he graduated. I still set out a puzzle of some sort on the table when I can (though we don't get the newspaper anymore). I pass through the room here and there and fill it out like we did way back when. During my brother's infrequent visits now, we both revert back to doing a puzzle if we have one out (it's a little harder to find a worthy puzzle now compared to back then). This will be the only paper that sits out in the public areas of the house on a consistent basis. It's a way to connect with our family and do an activity together when our schedules and living conditions prevent anything more; even more to the point, it's a great memory that allows us to keep close despite all that life has thrown at us over the years.
I love this idea!!!! 😊😊😊😊😊
Awwwww this is so sweet ❤
This was so beautiful thank you for sharing!!!
Beautiful. Your story reminded me of the Korean? movie The Lake House.
I love this idea. It is simply brilliant. Will try it at home and spread it to our other family members and friends. Thank you
My husband literally said to me the other day, “let’s just burn it all” as he was looking at our office paper clutter 🤣
LOL! ;)
I used to burn my sheddable paper clutter but we have had complete fire ban for the past few year so I had to buy a shredder
Mine too! 🤣
Progress over protection! For the perfectionist minded we can micro organize our paper but for those who need progress tossing in a designated box is a great tip! So many times people don’t even start a project because they feel the pressure to make it look pretty or Pinterest worth. Just getting it done even if it’s not pretty is better than closing the door on it! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Wonderful perspective!!! A lot my hoarded clutter was also an avoidance because it took sooooo much time to go through all of that!! I wanted to use my time and energy to go on little adventures with my boys!! I wanted to do things with them and ignored the clutter. But I now realize that wasn’t good either!! So I take baby steps to Declutter the mess and make sure I’m still taking that precious time with my children!!
FYI: Paper is my Goliath!!!! Lol thank you for the visual of decluttering them!!
Paper clutter is my Goliath as well! I ALWAYS get so hung up on this.. it makes me so discouraged because I do t know what to keep or throw away! So frustrating, this video helps. I can get rid of stuff… but the paper clutter is so overwhelming!
Mine too 😂 ¹¹⁷⅔
When my mom moved out of her home of 40 years, we had 43 years of tax returns. We started by shredding them, but it was going to take too long. A taxes bonfire was the answer! We felt like big rebels burning tax returns.
K Gibbs when I cleaned out my Mom’s house while moving her to assisted living, I found two bank boxes of paystubs my Dad had saved from 1972 through 2004. Along with all the tax returns there was over seventy pounds to be shredded.
Would have burned them but no fire pit in her yard and was trying to sell the house also.
I love how you’re like, just put it in a box with a date and move on - move forward. I have several boxes of papers I just dumped papers into and I have felt bad about not organizing them but they are years old at this point and I’m just like, I don’t want to spend my time that way!
Also, Tom - “just burn it, if its a bill, they will send you another one.” Hahaha!!!!!
Paper clutter is the VERY worst kind of clutter by far!!!
Best one of these "organize your life" videos I've seen for a while. Nice and light!
I totally love the 'fresh start' or 'random paper box' method! This is a wonderful way to get rid of old piles quickly and start a new system.
1. The starting over aspect is legit. I have grown leaps and bounds in this regard. Whether it be papers or the book I'm reading, that i do not have to finish it and no book police have come for me yet! In all seriousness, it reveals our thinking and what we have been beholden to and when we start asking WHY?!, things change... and completion doesn't look only one way. We get to evaluate and determine the worth and value of our time and how it's spent and if something is serving us or not.
2. Shockingly, i just purged my greeting card supply. It became a stressor, like books, where I finally admitted I can't use them all, even if on a desert island i wouldn't read them AND i/my home is NOT a storage unit. Someone else can use them instead of storing them here and feeling stress/pressure/anxiety/guilt.
3. And now it's fun and part of the process to take my books or magazines to a local free library and leave them for someone else to find ☺
Thanks Dawn! I would love a future video on organizing or weeding through digital photos.
Ooh me too!
And me! X
I definitely need it
ME TOO
Me to
I shred all of my personal information including addresses. I rip or cut the information off of the envelope, catalog or magazine. I enjoy your tips! Thanks!
Fantastic! I always strived to be a Micro organizer but I am finally accepting the fact that I am a Macro organizer. Took me 50 years to accept what really works for me, not what I wanted to be like.
A big thank you to my mom for helping us collect paper for this video! ;) You can find a link to the game mentioned in the description as well as some guidelines for how long to keep things and a few of our favorite paper system products! THANK YOU for watching- we appreciate you!!!! - Dawn
Thanks so much for this video, I'm currently working on my paper monster that is seriously years over due! Just a side note, I appreciate seeing examples of the categories to sort through the pile, but for me if it doesn't need to be shredded or saved for later then why not recycle it instead of putting it the regular trash. Just a thought💙 by the way I really love your channel and have been binge watching for a while now 😀
@Eric Parker
If it doesnt need to be saved for later/ filed or shredded then all paper waste flyers envelopes advertisements - recycle it, no need to put it in the garbage. For my family If it has ANY personal information that I do not need to save such as statements or credit card offers atm receipts any papers or documents with personal information of any kind. medical record numbers from appointment reminders or balance reminders. Even student ID #'s (just to be safe) I shred or do a bon fire. My city has 3 free shred days a year. Its Secure and its Free! So I plan to take my boxes to the next one they have. Hope that helps.
@@melodie-1977 Good question! I think the sign got covered by the paper, we recycled everything that could be and only threw stuff that had plastic or something else in or on it that wasn't recyclable!
@Eric Parker Good question! We put anything with personal info in the shred pile, anything that could be recycled in that pile, and things that had plastic in or on it or anything else that made it non-recyclable in the garbage pile (our 10 year old went on a field trip to the recycling center last year and came home with detailed instructions of what can and can't be recycled in our area ;)
@@TheMinimalMom
That's a great explanation.
My husband and I both make an effort to sort the mail in the car so we can recycle anything on the way into the house that doesn't need to be opened. I also try to go through everything as it comes into the house, saving only the things that need to be filed, saved or responded to.
My husband and I keep really important documents. (SS security cards, birth certificates, passports and mortgage docs)in a fireproof box. It's not too big, so we can't over stuff it. We always no where it is and in case of emergency we could retrieve it quickly. Paper clutter is the bane of my existence! I have 2 kids at home, but also 3 college recent grads. Dealing with their mail is awful. And now I am responsible for my elderly mother's affairs~ more paper - and a ebusiness that requires keeping lots of receipts~ You've inspired me to try to make a fresh start. Dawn, I wish you had been around when I had little kids. You are the best!
Your videos and ideas are so freeing. You give us permission that some of us (me!) never realized we had. You’ll never know how much weight that you’ve lifted from my shoulders. ❤️
Motivated through your eye-opening and practical videos, I set myself a goal last week-end: to declutter 5 to 15 minutes on each week day - putting the emphasis on paper. Today it was already my bedtime when I would have had time for it. I decided to stick to it. The 5 minutes became more than 15, and I am EXCITED to continue tomorrow! Thanks! 🙏 🔝
Good job Dawn! I can so relate!! My husband has not been well for the last 2-1/2 years. I took over our finances a few months prior to this time. He has continued to try to “help” (control)!! As of the last 6-12 months he has been unable to “guide” me as he would like. A new start has arisen for 2020!!!!!!
I bought a cardboard “mail sorter” for the new year. All 2020 item will be given their home within this new device. Non recuring will live in MISCELLANEOUS. Non-Profit contributions will all be under that one head.
I plan to slowly go through my previous filing system and shred the unnecessary item!!
Thanks for the encouragement and keep up the good work,
Judy in Virginia Beach
Judy, sorry to hear your husband is ill. I will pray for both of you. God Bless
Thanks for the motivation Dawn! Paper clutter is my demon....I save too much and it becomes so overwhelming!
Dawn, you inspired me so much with your last video that I I went through 6 years of older tax returns and got rid of all the supporting documentation, only keeping the actual returns. Plan to scan those onto a USB drive and put that in safe and then likely shred the actual paper returns. I also discovered my school report cards for grades 1-12 and shredded those too. All my nursing continuing education certificates, gone. Don't need them since I'm retired. All the paper that's left now fits into half of a filing cabinet drawer. For the last year or so, I've been dealing with mail as soon as it comes into the house rather than letting it pile up. So much easier!
I love the humor - like your husband- so many of us just want to burn the paper but wonder if we would burn something important
I know someone with a desk next to her bed, of all places. It is covered with years of dusty paper clutter and never gets cleared completely. I want to sweep my arm across it, dump all that stuff in a box, and then remove that desk and vacuum behind it! It takes away so much of her peace and probably contributes to her allergies; it’s not fair.
the “fresh start” concept is so powerful. the “fresh start” / “reset button makes it so much easier than just trying to figure out what new pile to add some old thing to. great vid!
I love the idea of “fresh start”. I’ll give it a try on some of my clutter; I have no idea why I feel my paperwork piles are so sacred. I love my local newspaper but sometimes am way to busy to read them daily and they stack up. A couple years ago I decided that each paper would be recycled by that evening, read or not. It pained me at first to recycle something unread but I quickly adjusted to the freedom it gave me.
Oh my, Mary... Me too! That's cause I view reading as a friend
I like the idea too 🙋♀️ ¹¹⁷⅔
We love playing games and doing puzzles as a family. Paper clutter is my kryptonite!!! It's the worst. Thanks for your videos!!
As soon as I hear Dawn's laugh...I'm happy as a clam!
"you sorted it, right?" "Nope." Lol.
Everyone in my family LOVES Rummikub except my husband. It drives him crazy when we all play!
I like the “no guilt” part....we can move forward in a simpler way this year. Thanks for your help. Great video!
Yes! That is what i have been saying to myself the most: "sometimes we just need a fresh start!" & it has helped decluttering a lot through the whole house! Thank you for encouraging us who are overwhelmed with it all!😀👍
Thank you so much for this fresh perspective on paper clutter!!! What helps me the most is the specific mental tips you provide us like, "do I need to archive everything from the past?" These are the most helpful things for me because the emotions of keeping things often take center stage such as guilt for getting rid of a card or sentimental item, anxiety over letting go of something you may need, etc. Changing from an emotional to mental perspective makes this so much easier. I have a huge paper sorting project that is awaiting just this kind of advice. I'll be tackling it this weekend thanks to your help!! I have allowed the embarrassing paper stack to keep my son from having friends over, etc. Papers are not more important than people and the memories we make with them! This will be defended in my house from now on. Thank you soooooo much for empowering me to do this!
Yes! This mindset is so good for me! I have so much decision anxiety that I end up keeping too much! Having a bin I put in the attic then just toss after 2 years solves my problem!
I had a great idea while watching..turning one of my kitchen cabinets into my mail center! Love the videos Dawn!
Great series! My parents, who are in their 80s, play Rummicub almost every night. I just bought a set for my husband and myself. It is great fun!
cards that i love, i use as book markers and then if i get bored with it, then i recycle or i take a picture and download to my flash drive.
It might also be fun to jot down the name of the game(s) played on the calendar each day. You will quickly see the family favorites, which will make clearing out unloved games easier.
I’m loving this paper clutter series!!!!💗💗💗 thank you and blessings to your sweet family💕⛄️
Thank you Andrea!!
Thank you so much for the paper clutter videos. I have a love/hate relationship with paper. I hate all the business paper. However, I am an artist, so I love paper, too! This is my most difficult thing to deal with!
I would like to add something to the things you are throwing away or putting in recycling.
Even though we live in a small rural town in northeastern California, before throwing out anything with our name and address on it, we tear or cut it off and shred this information. In this day and age, we do not want anyone going through trash and finding our info. There are people out there looking for ways to steal your identity, etc. Just passing this on as a way we handle or mail. Ugh. There is always so much. I love watching you and your husband and sister. Great job. Blessing to all of you.
I find it easier to walk right to the recycle bin as I come in the door with the mail...
I so enjoy your videos Dawn..
You are so wise to know what's truly important & that's spending time with your babies.
They will be in college before you know it.
Keep up the great videos.💟😊
My favorite family to follow on youtube. Thank you so much for being real, realistic, sweet, loving and funny.
I know this is an older video, but I’m catching up. In our family, we have books where we write notes to each other throughout the year and on holidays that take the place of cards. It’s saved so much space and mind space and is sooo much more special!
Excellent video! You really keep the decluttering process in perspective by returning to your underlying goal of connection with your children. Love your decluttering approach. Also so appreciate that you didn’t say “welcome to my channel”!!!
Even your starting pile looks organized
You are awesome! I got up from your video and went to my kitchen table and immediately dealt with my mountain of papers. Thank you so much!
Your Misc papers to keep bin is life changing for me!! I always get hung up on that gray area stuff. Thank you!! ❤️
Oh Dawn thank you so much for these videos you just about saved my life from drowning in paper clutter😄👍 Like you I dont do micro filing Theres more to life than that🤣 these videos have giving me a system to put in place that I think even I can follow so thank you so much😀😘
Love that idea and your hubby's too. 🤣 I decided the first of the year to do something similar with my computer files of whatever was on my computer I put in a folder titled "2019
I’m still rocking the paper system from your original video 😅 I come back to watch these just to hangout with you !! Haha HAPPY DECLUTTERING EVERYONE!!
Great suggestions, Dawn! Love your 'realistic minimalism' ideas!!! The opening and closing with Tom and the burning torch was funny...:-)
I really like that this video displayed more than just the perfect approach to handle these items, it also gave a quick realistic way to improve. My words for 2020 are “intentionality, awareness and gratitude “
Do we have paper clutter. Oh my goodness. And yes, it’s overwhelming. I definitely could us4 a fresh start.
Very true & helpful! Sometimes just the thought of everything having to be filed is enough to drive me nuts. Thanks!
Great idea on just quickly storing what u need in one spot just to get through the back log. You can always go back and subdivide later if you choose too.
I have started this process several times. I'm in the middle of paper right now. I have boxes from years ago and boxes I don't even remember what's in them. Health issues and a series of moves and dragging it with us. I actually did take a paper box I wanted to get rid of and made it the trash box and started sorting and putting in the trash box while putting things I'm not sure of in other boxes. I have a couple boxes going. I have papers wrapped in a towel sitting next to me that I need to get motivated to go through and trash or throw in another box. I need to watch some more and get motivated to whittle down decades of paper. I have this thing where I'm saving things to write a book but have lots of other nonsense mixed in.
Thank God for THE BOX to just give us a fresh start. I love it!!!
At last! Permission to toss cards, magazines, catalogs, and start fresh! Thank you.
Thank you! I need this now. I have a room with a floor full of papers. That "Random Box" will do me good! My goal is before spring toss that thing.
I love Rummikub , a lot of good memories connected to that game~ And , as an Israeli, i am proud to say we invented it ;-)
I just tackled our memorabilia. My husband saves everything, along with envelopes, and even duplicates. I’m really not a fan, it makes me nostalgic and kind of sad. But I organized it and got rid of envelopes, and by neatening and categorizing , it takes up less space. I feel better now. Going forward I will have separate bins for the things that I consider worthy of saving, like graduation programs and cards, not movie stubs. He can have his version though.
Great video Dawn! I've really enjoyed talking to you at church:) You are such a blessing to so many people.
I'd like to give this video a million thumbs up. Thank you, thank you!! Paperwork has been overwhelming me and the fresh start idea is huge. I love how you explained your thought process while sorting. This has been super helpful.
I do almost the same! Due to several unfortunate circumstances, I have gotten behind in my filing.Thanks for the encouragement to tackle it! 💜
Recipe books! I had 20-30 at one point plus lots of loose papers and card. Finally, two weeks ago bought a 3-ring binder and page protectors and went thru the stacks of paper. Used dividers for meats, desserts, etc. and got rid of every recipe I wouldn't use or didn't like. Made a stack of things to try or throw out within the month. Donated all the books except the two I use recipes from.. It was SO refreshing to have a manageable binder and recipes! It took up a whole cabinet before!! Now I can fit everything in the very small cabinet over the microwave and still have room for the kids candy making supplies.
Congratulations!
Sounds wonderful!
That's what I'm going to do as soon as I can sit down. I have so many bookmarked on my phone that I have made several times. Good part is, I'll have the ingredients with me but then I have to search all those recipes bookmarked.
I just LOVE you!! Thank you, Thank you, for the paper DEclutter video!!
❤️ I wish I could make a bonfire with my paper clutter too Tom lol. It does feel really overwhelming. P.s. Rummikub is super fun!!! It's really cool that you guys are making the time to play as a family everyday👍
I done the bonfire 2x in the last 10 yrs. My bestfriends mom passed away & she was keeping every thing & I mean every single thing.. I said... no way....
Then when my mother passed, my brother & I done the bonfire with her so called filing system lol lol
It was amazing.... 😁
We have a wood stove and I throw lots of papers in the fire started box. It helps a lot
I needed this video SO badly! I am in desperate need of a fresh start!! I have piles and bins and boxes full of paperwork (from the 4 years I had a direct sales business). I am a perfectionist so the lumingness (yup, just made that word up!) of it all has scared me into avoidance mode. I don’t know what to keep, how to store it or file it- so it sits. BUT you are so right, it’s ok to not know what to do with some of it, the “might need it” box will be my saving grace and your videos Dawn, will be my encouragement and motivation for getting my home back!! Thank you!❤️
Hi Dawn, I really like your videos and it gives me loads of motivation. Nevertheless, I must say that lately the videos are just a bit too long for me. I try to follow my personal 10 min rule - when the youtube video is longer than that, I think hard before I watch it. I find 7-8 mins as an ideal length and I believe that you would be able to share the same content in that limited time. Keep up the good work and thank you for all the ideas, positive energy and thought you share. :-)
We love that game!! Thank you so much for all your videos!! My house gets better everyday!
SO awesome to hear!!
My hubby and I get very competitive when it comes to Rummikub. We love it! ❤️
It's ironic how you said some people might be horrified at just sticking it all in a bin, yet that is actually genius. At least it's in one place, safe and clean, not scattered along other random stuff in piles all over the house. I used to have pulled all over and it feels so good not to anymore! I LOVE the choice questions you recommend to help us make decisions! Brilliant!
❤️ So needed this! No perfect system, all purpose box, focus on the things that ARE important. Thank you!
Yes, I need a fresh start. I’m tackling the piles tomorrow!
Thank you for this new perspective on where I want to spend my time when it comes to the piles of old papers. Setting up a new system and moving forward with it. And permission for the old paper system not to have to be perfect. So freeing and encouraging! Thank you!
❤️❤️❤️ yes ...so motivational ..I finally have a fresh start . Just current papers in my file cabinet and the rest in a rubber maid . Lol we have 4 boxes to burn ...
Congratulate me I am down to just dealing with photos and memorabilia only keeping what will go in albums. Last year I set my sights on downsizing minimalizing my goal was to move from a 3-bedroom apartment to a one-bedroom apartment, by September I moved love the minimalist life now. As for the photos and memorabilia I'm using this winter season to get it done. Love your Channel on minimalist family living and your faith video with your sister. Love bekah
I have had health issues for decades and so I have an entire box of dr files and reports. I have gone through it once and I decluttered tons but I still may be 'holding on' to too much...more out of a sentimental reason then necessity. It tells an important part of my life story...like a journal. And I do still think 'what if' I need it. And surprisingly when I asked for a copy of my CT scan ( showing my stage 4 cancer, NHL, grapefruit size tumours) I want to keep because it reminds me of what I have survived, lived through. ( I have no detectable cancer now for several years). When I asked I thought they would give me a digital form a memory stick or even a disc but they sent it to me in paper format....it is a 3 inch thick stack of paper. I think I will try again and see if I can get it digital now. Any advice on how to declutter medical papers would be helpful.
Very good ideas and encouragement to just GIVE YOURSELF A FRESH START!!!
Thank you so much for letting me know I don't have to keep anything that isn't important ;) New year, new me = no more clutter, no more chaos! Thanks again!
Watching at 3 am. zLOVE IT. love how you use perspective. SO motivated to JUST DO IT🙏
Amen Dawn!!! People over managing inventory. These are great suggestions and I'm so glad you are giving us all permission to break through the overwhelm!
No one has an excuse to not deal with their paper clutter with this approach. Thanks for reminding us that we can get stuff done even if it isn't perfect. ;)
Thank you!! I'm watching this while I shred my own docs and so many others I inherited from my parents that date back to over 25 years ago! You have given me hope for a way to end this madness.
What??? Do you mean I don't have to file the sewer, electricity, water, gas, garbage, phone, cable, car insurance, mortgage, bank statement, health insurance statement, and 3 credit card bills into 14 different color-coded file folders each month and keep them for years just in case...? I really did do that, and more, until I started watching your videos. I simplified my filing system a LOT last summer (and purged massively), but this video has shown me that I can simplify it even more and never lose or miss something that's really important. Thanks so much for the inspiration and encouragement.
Hello Dawn, thank you for channel - I love how real you are, how positive and inspiring; I was at the point where I had made peace (sort of, for the sake of moving on) with the fact that this is just me, I will never get the simple living thing down - but you seriously have me thinking that maybe I can! One tip I have that gave me incredible freedom with kids’ artwork, and memorabilia in general, is, I would take a photo of it (like birthday cards) and keep a memorabilia album (mine is digital, but it could be a physical album); my kids are grown up now, but I used to get them to pick their favorite artworks and talk about them on video (my son had a vivid imagination and his pictures were usually stories or inventions😉) ... then you ditch the physical paper and it doesn’t take space anymore. I hope that helps someone. Again, thank you so much - please don’t stop. Blessings from Pretoria, South Africa
I wish I had video taped my kids describing their creations. What a fantastic idea!
Love Rummikub! Favorite game ever, used to play with my grandparents when they visited.♡
Thank you so much..that video in the first place "decluttered" my mind !! And now I can have a fresh start
Thank you. I will attack the stack of papers on my bedroom floor now and get of the stress it’s causing me.
Love the video. Just purged most of my files and my husband did too. Only keeping the bare minimum of papers...it feels so refreshing. I’m also simplified my files. Thanks Dawn, less is more.
Hi I have been watching you and Erica Lucas videos. I have donated bags and bags. I found bags and bags of trash to get rid of. My apartment looks so much better. It makes me feel happy to get rid of this stuff. Thank you for all your help.
Thank You for a doing a video on paper clutter. This is the hardest thing for me.
Just did this in a big messy drawer a few weeks ago! Perfect system for me!
haha I like your husbands approach and humor.