Your FEAR OF BEING SEEN is holding you back | Overcome SELF SABOTAGE and CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

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  • I truly believe you know exactly what you need to do to reinvent yourself and change your life BUT the fear of being seen, being judged, being rejected and failing is holding you back. This is what held me back for so long and this year God helped me overcome this. I hope this video helps you overcome your fears too so 2024 and every year after that can be YOUR YEAR! Love youuuu,
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    Isaiah 41:13 NIV
    13 For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand
    and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
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Komentáře • 458

  • @KishUnleashed
    @KishUnleashed Před 6 měsíci +1937

    "Procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance ", literally took my breath away. 😟I have been checked. thank you

    • @eniumo210
      @eniumo210 Před 5 měsíci +13

      Damnn❤

    • @pateksky1890
      @pateksky1890 Před 5 měsíci +32

      I procrastinate because I believe I don't have another chance, so why try?

    • @eunece88
      @eunece88 Před 5 měsíci +17

      Shook me to my core but it was right on time

    • @keziahmwamba1771
      @keziahmwamba1771 Před 5 měsíci

      yess and the other part that God owes you another chance of what you had the time to do

    • @ColoradoFalls
      @ColoradoFalls Před 5 měsíci

      God didnt even help our ancestors!! Blk people believing in God is the dumbest thing

  • @TheeTreyForbes
    @TheeTreyForbes Před 4 měsíci +208

    “The fear of looking stupid. The fear of being SEEN TRYING” grabbed me by my throat in the first 5 seconds. I’m gonna sit down and listen.

    • @Maksim-rv1qb
      @Maksim-rv1qb Před 3 měsíci +1

      Girl. This video is MAGICAL! ❤❤❤

  • @tiairrascott7993
    @tiairrascott7993 Před 5 měsíci +176

    “How is it failure if you’re not done yet?” Oooooh that was good!!!!

  • @ashley_audacious
    @ashley_audacious Před 6 měsíci +690

    fear is not of God. it’s of the enemy
    2 timothy 1:7
    for God has not given us the spirit of fear , but power, love & a sound mind.

    • @Gina.B
      @Gina.B  Před 6 měsíci +82

      Exactly!!! No wonder the closer I got to God the less I was afraid 💕

    • @user-dy2sv6wm6u
      @user-dy2sv6wm6u Před 4 měsíci +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

  • @georginaasante1671
    @georginaasante1671 Před 6 měsíci +435

    As soon as i saw the title i knew this was for ME!!! im actually terrified of taking risks! Praying to overcome that in 2024 🙏🏾

    • @GROOVEGARDENS002
      @GROOVEGARDENS002 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Same sis❤

    • @feruzkesete9728
      @feruzkesete9728 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Go for it girl, had the same issue, i’m taking it day by day.. I’ve been praying and just allowing myself to get out of my comfort zone and just going for it.. and i’m slowly but surely coming out of my fear !!!

    • @user-fx7og4wh2y
      @user-fx7og4wh2y Před 4 měsíci +2

      Do it baby!

    • @tinukeajidele700
      @tinukeajidele700 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Take baby step, go to spot you've never been before or wear that outfit/hair you've been liking. Just start somewhere please! I'm in my forties now and the risks I wish I had taken in my twenties I regret not taking. However there's still hope for other things as long as I'm living.

    • @georginaasante1671
      @georginaasante1671 Před 4 měsíci

      @@tinukeajidele700 thanks for the advice! That's exactly what I've started doing just stepping out of my comfort zone with different hair styles and clothing

  • @Sonia-it4yh
    @Sonia-it4yh Před 5 měsíci +172

    “Every year is my year because I got God!” 🤧💕

  • @cvrlytops
    @cvrlytops Před 5 měsíci +38

    sometimes perfectionism is just another form of procrastination 🗣️

  • @asyatsow1843
    @asyatsow1843 Před 6 měsíci +331

    As a teenager, I really enjoy your channel and all the advice you give. Keep going it's really inspirational

    • @Gina.B
      @Gina.B  Před 6 měsíci +39

      My heart 🥹 this means so much to me thank you love 💕🫶🏾

  • @VickitaTrivedi
    @VickitaTrivedi Před 5 měsíci +81

    "Procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance" got me writing these CZcams scripts so fast 😤

  • @PrincessTye
    @PrincessTye Před 5 měsíci +82

    “There’s so much more to gain than it is to lose“ 🙏🏾

  • @smiilequeen1256
    @smiilequeen1256 Před 6 měsíci +85

    "procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance" really got me. thabk you Gina, blessings for this year💗 i'm not letting fear amen

  • @samiraaleah
    @samiraaleah Před 5 měsíci +11

    I am already 30 and for real i have not lived. I am trying so hard to move past my fear anxiety and certain challenges related to being neurodivergent.

  • @lisamabombo284
    @lisamabombo284 Před 5 měsíci +9

    14:00-14:09 ohhh my gawd guuurl there you said it. As soon as I started to mind my business more and not look at what other people were doing, that is when I started to have less fear because I was now not worrying what other people were thinking about me. I saw and viewed things In a positive way.

  • @ButterCake-xc8ff
    @ButterCake-xc8ff Před 5 měsíci +8

    The results of procrastination eating at your soul is very accurate…

  • @coletteporee
    @coletteporee Před 5 měsíci +28

    i can’t believe this is on youtube for FREE. this is exactly what i’ve been needing to hear for YEARS. thank you so much❤️

  • @aislinnb5331
    @aislinnb5331 Před měsícem +1

    THIS ACTUALLY HELPED!!! I was scared to tell my friends about my youtube channel but I went ahead and told them and it was LITERALLY fine. thanksss

  • @theajak
    @theajak Před 6 měsíci +71

    Thank you for these videos. I don’t necessarily want to create content but I do want to be a physical therapist and I’m kind of shy but you inspire me to get out my comfort zone when it comes to seeking opportunities 😭😭

    • @Gina.B
      @Gina.B  Před 6 měsíci +12

      You got it love! You can touch so many lives as a physical therapist. Promise you won’t hold your self back anymore 🥹

  • @eniumo210
    @eniumo210 Před 5 měsíci +7

    No way I'm not subscribing after "procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance " ❤😊

  • @skyllee
    @skyllee Před 3 měsíci +4

    "perfectionism is so just another form of procrastination" this line hits me like a truck

  • @OrianeNana
    @OrianeNana Před 5 dny

    I just wanna say you're content has helped me a lot I started the delusional mindset where I decided to embody who I wanted to be instead of just trying to be a better version of myself which always felt like I was role playing. Instead of trying to be a better version of myself I already am and live as such and anytime I fall short I just stop reassess ans start over so thankyou for this amazing content you put out as someone struggling with imposter syndrome

  • @yaelbernal797
    @yaelbernal797 Před 5 měsíci +26

    I was so overwhelmed with fear and anxiety about a video of me speaking, that has been recently uploaded on my work’s Instagram. Then I see this video on CZcams, and I knew it was definitely a sign from God. Thank you for making this video! God bless you❤️

  • @usisiphoqamata
    @usisiphoqamata Před 5 měsíci +5

    So many gems in a single video, a whole million-dollar self-help book in 17 minutes. I wish a lot of people would come across this. Thank you so much!

  • @n.nai.i
    @n.nai.i Před 5 měsíci +11

    i know this is a christian channel, so maybe i don’t belong on here
    but as i muslim, i want to thank you because this whole video spoke to me and i thank you sincerely ❤️
    i pray that soon i’ll be able to take the next step i know i need to do and wear hijab, but of course it’s fear that’s stopping me and why i’m procrastinating
    so thank you again! you put into words what i needed to hear for years

    • @joyeffanga1902
      @joyeffanga1902 Před 5 měsíci +5

      You belong here sis!
      Humanity before religion.

  • @KSTEWARTXO
    @KSTEWARTXO Před 5 měsíci +10

    Whew the “fear of being seeing trying” snatched my wig girl! That’s my issue.

  • @TyraMudiwa
    @TyraMudiwa Před 5 měsíci +5

    The reason why I love Gina so much is that she gives advice from a Christian perspective and that makes it so much more valuable ... love you so much girlllll 🌸💗

  • @ChinazaEze-sf4yh
    @ChinazaEze-sf4yh Před 6 měsíci +93

    This video came just right in time❤Thank you Gina for letting God use you to speak to me 🥹🥹

    • @Gina.B
      @Gina.B  Před 6 měsíci +16

      I been feeling like God was telling me to make this video for a while so I’m so glad it spoke to you 💕

    • @deedeesaidso5910
      @deedeesaidso5910 Před 5 měsíci

      same

    • @Rachel-nb2vn
      @Rachel-nb2vn Před 5 měsíci

      @@Gina.B Same. This video means more than you know to me.

  • @Raaachelsuuu
    @Raaachelsuuu Před 6 měsíci +3

    I plan on making a concrete plan to change my life in 2024 I need to I have to !!!!!!!!

  • @gum_drops3620
    @gum_drops3620 Před 5 měsíci +16

    Failure is not falling down, it’s staying down. Wonderful message for a new yearrrr🔥

  • @qadiram7715
    @qadiram7715 Před 6 měsíci +42

    You are gorgeous❤ this video is so necessary. I started creating content and posted but slowed down so getting back into it. We only get one life.

    • @misozi.
      @misozi. Před 6 měsíci +2

      You can do it! I have just posted my first video and currently have zero subscribers but I have started ❤

    • @Gina.B
      @Gina.B  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Thank you beautiful 💕 You’re so right! We really only get one life, so we can’t let fear rob us of this experience 🫶🏾

    • @Heavenlyssa
      @Heavenlyssa Před 6 měsíci

      Same! You got this ❤️

  • @user-ne5ue8rd5n
    @user-ne5ue8rd5n Před 5 měsíci +18

    I barely comment but I HAD to let you know this was very needed! The fears you addressed were brought to light, and I'm definitely going to make changes to that!

  • @AmberAlani
    @AmberAlani Před 5 měsíci +6

    the way i burst out laughing when you said that if nobody sees your video that theres nothing to be embarrassed about cuz nobody even watched it LMAO you so real for that

  • @BigAfroLucky
    @BigAfroLucky Před měsícem +2

    😭😂that was me but God doesn’t want me to hide myself anymore I’m going to start my posting in November

  • @xiomara_x
    @xiomara_x Před 5 měsíci +4

    Gurl GODS TIMING IS TOO PERFECT cuz I just got done praying to him and feeelng a bit fearful bout certain things
    And this VID FR DOING GODS WORK🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @mayaakinyi3625
    @mayaakinyi3625 Před měsícem +1

    I'm so so so glad I have found your channel before joining college ❤

  • @ellehcim.k5449
    @ellehcim.k5449 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I KNEW this video was for me at 7:25. I used to be SO insecure of my teeth, and though it's not as bad anymore, i'mstill self-consciouss of them and that is a big reason for whyIi don't talk to people (my fear). This video showed up at the right time, God really orchestrates everything well!!

  • @naomikimbokimi9015
    @naomikimbokimi9015 Před 3 měsíci

    Damn you really read me like a book lmfaooo especially the fear of failure, fear of being judged and fear of opening up 😭😭attachment issues 😭literally everything you’ve said has been so true for me

  • @kayliannalopez
    @kayliannalopez Před 5 měsíci +4

    this feels like such a genuinely good teaching moment not in the egotistical influencer sort of way but in a way thats just like a best friend/sister wanting better for u keep doing what u do :)

  • @cinque.mp4
    @cinque.mp4 Před 5 měsíci +1

    15:29 THE NIKE QUOTE FOLLOWED BY THE SPONGEBOB ONE PLS I LOST IT AKSFLAJGALKJG seriously thank u for this video

  • @Godsf4vorite
    @Godsf4vorite Před 5 měsíci +4

    God led me to your video and I’m so glad he did

  • @ginaluv7228
    @ginaluv7228 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is often me , I’ve given up at kindergarten when I was rejected , bullied and afraid to speak up and now as an adult, very grown adult . I feel like I’m trying to make up for lost time but that time is gone and all I can do is focus on what I did do and what I can do .

  • @stephaniewiley3512
    @stephaniewiley3512 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I saw the title and knew I need to click! So glad I did, because I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! This video was a God send. I'm so grateful, because i needed this advice, inspiration, motivation and everything else it contains. Thank you for being real and posting what people like me need to hear!!❤

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 Před 6 měsíci +23

    Girl I love you for this!!
    Im scared asf to put my first dance video on Instagram as a reel but I’m going for it. I booked my dance studio and videographer 😍✨ I hope it does well. I’m ready to take dancing serious

    • @nickiclaire24
      @nickiclaire24 Před 5 měsíci +1

      You can do this. remember dance is for everyone it has no rules or limitations! This is your sign to do it your future self will thank you xxx

  • @ZandiASMR
    @ZandiASMR Před 6 měsíci +2

    WHY YOU ATE ME UP LIKE THIS!!!

  • @jaysouthmusic8230
    @jaysouthmusic8230 Před 4 měsíci

    This is what I needed to hear after having doubts at first with my CZcams channel then all of a sudden I have been gaining more subscribers and views on my channels. Made 4 new videos for my songs and dropping my first one of the year this week and this video gave me more confidence to keep going and creating music and content for my channel

  • @kiralee1614
    @kiralee1614 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Came for advice, subscribed when i heard you bring out a bible verse. We LOVE a woman of God

  • @ivycooper7224
    @ivycooper7224 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks for the inspiration young sister, God Bless you! 🙏

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 Před 6 měsíci +4

    You hit nail on head sometimes it’s self sabotage behavior. I just want success on CZcams. And make money and be feeling akward filming. I have dope topics. And remaining positive and taking accountability and not just talk but have actions. I know what to do. You gave good advice. Spirit and ancestors in me and helping me. I’m gone start making weight loss weight lose vlogs. And topics for black women leveling up. 2024 year is my year. Post even if it’s not perfect. Affirm for more viewers and don’t get discouraged. Rome wasn’t built in day. Thanks for tips❤

  • @sphoenixthegreat
    @sphoenixthegreat Před 6 měsíci +9

    Thank you for this. “There’s more to gain than lose”

  • @BrittanyU-uj4lx
    @BrittanyU-uj4lx Před 6 měsíci +1

    I definitely needed to hear this because procrastination is so real! Thank you!

  • @joywilson5494
    @joywilson5494 Před 5 měsíci

    This is exactly what I needed! Thank you

  • @onslaugh99
    @onslaugh99 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks luv. Really needed this.

  • @sailoranimegirl101
    @sailoranimegirl101 Před 5 měsíci

    This just popped up on my homepage and I really needed this. Thank you ❤

  • @Oh_thats_QUAY
    @Oh_thats_QUAY Před 2 měsíci

    Exactly what I needed!!!!

  • @dede_darling
    @dede_darling Před 6 měsíci +1

    This was very deep, thank you for this ❤️

  • @zekiayasmin
    @zekiayasmin Před 5 měsíci

    you read me. thank you so much for this video! bless!

  • @catherinelewis9078
    @catherinelewis9078 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love this! Thank you Gina❤❤ God was really speaking to me again today through you again. I will not let it happen again!

  • @relaxwithme__
    @relaxwithme__ Před 5 měsíci +1

    Girl you are helping my mindset so much❤

  • @musicJloves
    @musicJloves Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this video. I believe God wanted me to see this. 💕

  • @sharlaamysamuel
    @sharlaamysamuel Před 5 měsíci +1

    I’m so glad that these came up in my feed in the beginning of 2024. Thank you for this encouragement.
    Let’s let go of fear.🙏🏾✨

  • @ggvlogs7777
    @ggvlogs7777 Před 3 měsíci

    girl your so right! I needed to hear this thank your for posting making creating this video thank you for your time

  • @J-pz5cp
    @J-pz5cp Před 3 měsíci

    I needed to hear this today. God bless you ❤

  • @honeyh0e
    @honeyh0e Před 5 měsíci

    youtube read my mind and put this in my recommended. thank you girl x

  • @ChristineIdokogi
    @ChristineIdokogi Před 6 měsíci +5

    I’m on my 30s and you are teaching me girl!! Keep going and doing what you are doing! So many gems!

  • @munequa81
    @munequa81 Před 5 měsíci

    This video lovingly and respectfully dragged me. Thank you for this message! I'll return to this when I need to!

  • @SabrinaChristina111
    @SabrinaChristina111 Před 5 měsíci +1

    ✨💗✨First time seeing you!
    What a beautiful light!
    I love you and god loves you 💎

  • @taneal1
    @taneal1 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you soo much Gina💗

  • @ashleyjaff24
    @ashleyjaff24 Před 5 měsíci +1

    love the spirit you have babes!! such an encouragement! Glory to God ty!!!💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @naoblanco
    @naoblanco Před 6 měsíci

    This is what i need to listen today! Thank you so much

  • @raihana.onfilm
    @raihana.onfilm Před 4 měsíci

    This was the push i needed. literally nobody gives a damn!

  • @Rasberry-ni6hu
    @Rasberry-ni6hu Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤ I really needed to hear this ❤

  • @KaiLovesBeauty
    @KaiLovesBeauty Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yasss, amen! So glad I clicked on this video! Feeling so much more motivated 💪🏽🙌🏽💕💕

  • @ritaamichelle
    @ritaamichelle Před 5 měsíci

    I just subscribed today, I’m literally loving your content. Feel like you’re speaking directly to me. I’ve been trying to be consistent for years. 2024 I’m doing this! I’m really going to do this. Fear is not of God!

  • @breannebirk4801
    @breannebirk4801 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you🙏🏼 This video helped me tremendously. I needed to hear this ❤️

  • @ivyyinmi5935
    @ivyyinmi5935 Před 6 měsíci

    God is definitely using Gina ❤❤

  • @randisamirah1150
    @randisamirah1150 Před 5 měsíci

    How did you know that I needed to hear this! Thank you sis❤

  • @sarinacovarrubias5205
    @sarinacovarrubias5205 Před 5 měsíci

    Gina thank you for being so real for US! You got me thinking!

  • @rowenafortuin7918
    @rowenafortuin7918 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you very much for making this video. Your light shines through the screen❤ This is exactly what I needed to hear. God bless you.

  • @monavibes9688
    @monavibes9688 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hey, I don’t speak English but I will try to do it because I want to thank you for that video. God talk to me through you. I was searching a sister in Christ and I found your chanel. I encourage you to continue what you do, because your words are very uplifting. Be blessed ❤️

  • @InspoOra
    @InspoOra Před 5 měsíci +2

    NEEDED THIS exact video, just started my channel and I’m shaking in my boots 🏃‍♀️💕

  • @intelligent429
    @intelligent429 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you 🙏🏾… I’m so glad I came across your video. Officially a new subscriber!!! I needed this confirmation. Thank you

  • @sagittariusbeauty
    @sagittariusbeauty Před 3 měsíci +1

    Super late, but very much needed and appreciated. Thanks!

  • @stephaniewiley3512
    @stephaniewiley3512 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Listening to this video and pulling out my crafts that I need to complete. Thankyou sister!!!❤

  • @thehealtrix
    @thehealtrix Před 5 měsíci

    U truly ate with this one it’s literally EVERYTHING I needed to hear & more! God is defenitly using you in a mighty way! 2024 & beyond is my year to shine… thank you for this reminder✨

  • @legasola5510
    @legasola5510 Před 5 měsíci

    This was such a great video, you're killing it!! Thank you for making this.

  • @emmanuellefaithzoe
    @emmanuellefaithzoe Před 5 měsíci

    Girl I needed this! Thank you for your yes

  • @kaiyndealeyo
    @kaiyndealeyo Před 4 měsíci

    Whewwww that procrastination quote got me 😅😅😅 thank you for this!! I really needed this today

  • @MinuteWithMaria
    @MinuteWithMaria Před 5 měsíci

    You are amazing girl! I have been holding myslef back for 10 years. U have inspired me more than anyone and you hit key points. 😘

  • @Arislior
    @Arislior Před 6 měsíci +4

    Your energy, style & mindset is everything! I absolutely LOVE your videos & the way you edit!💜 This video just gave me the inspiration to keep up my momentum…keep goin queen I wish u nothing but the best✨

  • @Sophie-mark
    @Sophie-mark Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you Ginna ❤ i love you
    created my first content after watching your video
    and so far im loving itt.Got massive supports from family and friends ....and i got 31 new subscribers
    Not much but i love the progress

  • @mariechristinasartcafe
    @mariechristinasartcafe Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you! This has helped me post my art more often and somehow it makes me invest more time into improving it ❤ better days are coming!

  • @javameeks
    @javameeks Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you girly I needed to hear this 🥺

  • @gaby_xo907
    @gaby_xo907 Před 5 měsíci

    I NEEDED THIS. Will listen every Monday this really got me motivated af and not scared

  • @Michelles_Creatives
    @Michelles_Creatives Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks Gina for this video! I can't keep holding back my God-given potential. I gotta get on my zoom !

  • @ItsKninti
    @ItsKninti Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is why I'm going ahead and posting my first video even tho my angles were strange and I didn't get enough photos

  • @FreeBright
    @FreeBright Před 5 měsíci

    Girl, your voice just makes me feel so good. The energy and vibe it just feels so soothing and warming. Talking about friends, yeah I feel like we are friends. I'll keep coming back here. Thanks for all yr words! Be blessed ❤

  • @gabbylucas
    @gabbylucas Před 5 měsíci +2

    Girlyyy your inspiring keep doing your thing🙏🏽❤️

  • @victorfenille
    @victorfenille Před 5 měsíci

    I was needing that! Thank you so much!

  • @shanicekoita8806
    @shanicekoita8806 Před 5 měsíci

    This video was made for me 😢.thank you for allowing God to speak through you .he knew that there are or who need to hear this and spark something

  • @audreyestelle687
    @audreyestelle687 Před 5 měsíci

    Oh boy! You speaking straight to me! I took a faith step and I quit my job to be a sahw/m. I was so afraid of what people would think and after that starting my channel which is something that was definitely out of my comfort zone! Thanks for this encouragement! God bless!❤

  • @Pretty_Cupid
    @Pretty_Cupid Před 5 měsíci

    I really needed it, guys let make progress!!!