A Change in Perspective: What We’ve Learned from Hitting Rock Bottom

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024

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  • @theoneandonly0099
    @theoneandonly0099 Před 2 lety +1855

    Say what you want about Jeannie but don't knock her mental strength. She has overcome so much yet she never acts like she's a victim. It's so empowering to see, this is how she stays so humble and down to earth.

  • @kendracosey
    @kendracosey Před 2 lety +1307

    I moved from my hometown to Atlanta with nothing but what could fit in my car. I worked 2 waitressing jobs and slept on the floor for 2 years. I graduated school, gave my life to Jesus, built a business, graduated grad school, got married and together we’re successful entrepreneurs still building for the Kingdom. ☝🏽

  • @BexandAiden1111
    @BexandAiden1111 Před 2 lety +499

    “I can’t hate a man that my kids love so much”

    • @melissalitus8879
      @melissalitus8879 Před 2 lety +24

      A whole word 🎯

    • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
      @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Před 2 lety +26

      That's exactly how I felt about my ex so I made a point not to be negative about him. Regardless of his [insert list of horrible things that 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 did to me, here], he is still the person who helped to create the miracles that are our sons.

    • @henowillson934
      @henowillson934 Před 2 lety +15

      @@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 it takes a strong person to do that ❤

    • @ICONICPARIS
      @ICONICPARIS Před 2 lety +3

      @@henowillson934 real strong

    • @paigecammack5445
      @paigecammack5445 Před 2 lety +2

      That Part

  • @irakayeestrada5077
    @irakayeestrada5077 Před 2 lety +634

    I need Jeannie to write a book

  • @demitran8058
    @demitran8058 Před 2 lety +672

    All these woman in this panel have really lived life and it’s so inspiring how resilient they are

  • @jada5330
    @jada5330 Před 2 lety +567

    I’m so happy for Jeannie, she really deserves all the happiness she has now

  • @benjaminreyes3624
    @benjaminreyes3624 Před 2 lety +99

    When you hit rock bottom. There's no where else to go but up

  • @Lsa238
    @Lsa238 Před 2 lety +250

    I don’t know who’s in charge of the topics this season but bravo you UNDERSTOOD the assignment 👏👏

    • @joshandabradford8749
      @joshandabradford8749 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes!

    • @FariahHyatali
      @FariahHyatali Před 2 lety +6

      Something is different this season. Yes, the topics are deep and soul searching. I really love Garcelle too. This show is on fire! 🔥

  • @adamsey_mame9043
    @adamsey_mame9043 Před 2 lety +615

    I swear this show and their topics this season is wilding me out, it's so much better Garcelle as a mother and her divorce experience on this show by far is helping me and leading me to somewhere better in my life........Thank you so much guy🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @kimgyz6758
      @kimgyz6758 Před 2 lety +7

      Something always comes along to help us through our difficult moments.
      All will pass and will be behind you. That I am sure of.
      Thank God for that.

    • @devin3955
      @devin3955 Před 2 lety

      Wilding me out? Lol

    • @deestevens2883
      @deestevens2883 Před 2 lety

      Therapy 1:1!!

  • @sunrises8760
    @sunrises8760 Před 2 lety +412

    Adrienne story really touched me cause i guess i grew up on the cheetah girls. Wow that must've been horrible

  • @eeikochan
    @eeikochan Před 2 lety +231

    I never even knew Adrienne had pics leaked until she mentioned it on the show.

    • @jordiem8059
      @jordiem8059 Před 2 lety +21

      YES! OMG I remember that so clearly!

    • @aquarius-woman5364
      @aquarius-woman5364 Před 2 lety +11

      She played herself, tried to get a Kim K./Paris H career.
      They investigated how the photos came out and it turned out that she had leaked them herself and the show got cancelled because of that. I felt sorry for the other girls.
      In the end I'm glad things turned out well for Adrienne. She was young, made a terrible mistake and she's alway been a hard worker.

    • @47058
      @47058 Před 2 lety +56

      @@aquarius-woman5364 these fabrications ☠️ she weren’t on no show. Cheetah Girls was a movie franchise, which they made more of even AFTER the scandal so this comment is null

    • @aquarius-woman5364
      @aquarius-woman5364 Před 2 lety +3

      @@47058 The times were different back then. This is what most of them did to get Disney out of their clean cut image. Britney, Miley, Christina and many more.
      Adrienne just went to far because it had worked for Kim K and Paris H. Disney let her go once they realized that she might have done this on purpose. Just look it up, no need to argue about facts and it worked out fine for her in the end so it doesn't matter today.
      I don't know if another network picked them up. It wouldn't have been such a scandal today.

    • @Dallas3212
      @Dallas3212 Před 2 lety +2

      @@aquarius-woman5364 so she lied then?

  • @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy
    @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy Před 2 lety +386

    It really is all about maintaining a stubbornly positive perspective on life. It is never as bad as our imagination suggests. ❤️

    • @biancao7631
      @biancao7631 Před 2 lety +15

      This is so beautifully said!

    • @faratiya6706
      @faratiya6706 Před 2 lety +7

      Exactly!!!

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Před 2 lety +23

      Some things are just as bad as our imagination suggests but I still do believe in maintaining a stubbornly positive perspective in order to make it out

    • @alanisc9439
      @alanisc9439 Před 2 lety +12

      I like that “ stubbornly positive “ I’m going to remember this

    • @davidoll9701
      @davidoll9701 Před 2 lety +2

      Mines is

  • @gloriaemon6624
    @gloriaemon6624 Před 2 lety +94

    Thiss show helped me during my rock bottom, now I’m in law school with internships with central London law firms, I’m killing it in school, romanticising my life and living my life like it’s golden 🥺🥺😭💖
    This show really helped me I can’t even explain, there testimonies and promotion of God was a constant reminder to keep pushing and want more for myself when im serious I really couldn’t. God is good guys! Just stick with it and keep your energy forward-facing and full of love❤️

    • @iammilorex
      @iammilorex Před 2 lety +5

      Yaaas! 😩You better get those lawyer pounds!

  • @jirahlawrence5178
    @jirahlawrence5178 Před 2 lety +160

    Jeannie has been through some of everything, so grateful for her always telling us about it

  • @BlessedtoSOAR
    @BlessedtoSOAR Před 2 lety +18

    I left my abusive ex husband while he was at work. I took what could fit in my Corolla and never looked back!!!! I'm thankful I got out and I am living & building the life I always dreamed of. I thank God everyday 🙏🏾 🙌🏾

  • @PanAfricanist
    @PanAfricanist Před 2 lety +53

    This is the BEST panel The Real has had. I love how they gel. I think they deserve another Emmy but this time with Garcelle.

  • @Anas-rx1he
    @Anas-rx1he Před 2 lety +249

    I really want to hear more about Adrienne’s childhood acting career. I know Tam did Sister Sister but Ade did 3 Cheetah girls films as well as That’s So Raven alongside going on tour with 3LW & Cheetah girls. Luckily Tia and Tam had each other but imagine doing all of that alone

    • @lizzymillymizzy2680
      @lizzymillymizzy2680 Před 2 lety +16

      And she guest started on multiple occasions like "Taina", "Coach Carter", etc 😊💖💖

    • @ceeceedior21
      @ceeceedior21 Před 2 lety +2

      She talked about it years ago

    • @lyriewaze4489
      @lyriewaze4489 Před 2 lety +2

      Ooooooh I never thought of that 🙏🏼

  • @dom4211
    @dom4211 Před 2 lety +186

    Hope Loni heals from the whole Tamar situation. She's clearly still hurt...

    • @MJ-tk4tc
      @MJ-tk4tc Před 2 lety +4

      What happen????

    • @selfrespectingfemale6811
      @selfrespectingfemale6811 Před 2 lety +21

      @@MJ-tk4tc When Tamar was let go, Tamar assumed one of the girls set her up to be fired, because Vince had alluded to that. THEN someone who worked personally with Loni came forward and said Loni encouraged the producers to fire Tamar.
      So all the fans of the show blamed Loni and sent her horrible messages. Loni has stated she didn't have anything to do with Tamar being fired because she doesn't have that much power on who stays or leaves the show.

    • @DreamsAreForWeaving
      @DreamsAreForWeaving Před 2 lety +12

      @@selfrespectingfemale6811 I think Tamar even believe it moreso and one of Lonis close associates told her it was loni. Tamar also didn't realise Vince was a snake

    • @annisaarthur-castro6227
      @annisaarthur-castro6227 Před 2 lety +10

      But Tamar did come out last year or earlier this year and said that she now realizes that it was the network that produced her family's show or The Real big wigs that messed up her The Real situation because they basically had complete control of her and had to give her permission to do other gigs etc. When they realized that she was spreading herself thin they messed up The Real for her and then just sat back and watched the blame game unfold.

    • @melissalitus8879
      @melissalitus8879 Před 2 lety +2

      Yea she was speaking about the fired rumors but Adrienne gave her input and she didn't elaborate. Yea I can tell it still bothers her, Tamar is cool with the other ladies. I don't think she'll ever be cool with Loni 🤔 hopefully one day they'll make up and put this bs behind them

  • @kakikarei
    @kakikarei Před 2 lety +214

    Loni really must have been totally affected by folks accusing her of getting Tamar fired. She keeps bringing it up so much!

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 Před 2 lety +99

      Their segment about it a few seasons back where she said “AND I DIDNT DO IT” talking about being the one who got her axed, her voice was shaking and she looked like she was tearing up. I think it hurt her really bad too.

    • @ssmith3812
      @ssmith3812 Před 2 lety +43

      I wish Tamar would go on there for a resolution ..

    • @chrison1604
      @chrison1604 Před 2 lety +64

      Can you imagine so many people on the Internet lying on you? That could shake anyone’s World 😕

    • @Pampy93
      @Pampy93 Před 2 lety +61

      Of course she is! And people still on her neck for no reason. I really wish her the best because she's always the 1st to defend other people, especially her co-hosts, but when she was accused the other were very silent. I guess this is strong black woman stuggle, who else relate?

    • @sattasana7753
      @sattasana7753 Před 2 lety +38

      @@Pampy93 correct. Loni always tried to get so tight with her sisters and sometimes they unnecessarily snob her ie Tam and even Garcelle but Tamar went too far . What's more hurtful is even after this her "rebirth" she has tried to connect with everyone except Loni, that's really must be painful.

  • @zenhabx
    @zenhabx Před 2 lety +30

    I really want Jeannie to write a book. About her life, about her experiences, she is so inspiring and empowering. That book would be worth every penny

  • @BaboNation
    @BaboNation Před 2 lety +150

    They provided a whole ministry with this clip!🙌

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn Před 2 lety +122

    I think Jeannie had said it best over the years “ go through what you go through “ ! Some of the things you go through that may feel like hell and the end of the world when you’re past it u realize that it was meant to mold you and turn you into the damn good person you are meant to be with or without that person or situation affecting you In The future !

    • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
      @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Před 2 lety +1

      *"ALL things work together for the good of those who love the Lord and are the called according to HIS purpose." That ain't just a Bible verse; it's a way of life. And Jeannie is sho nuff a good example of that resilience.* 🤗🥰🙌🏽

    • @jillianetuk5189
      @jillianetuk5189 Před 2 lety

      @@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 amen 😊🙏

    • @yessumyessum6624
      @yessumyessum6624 Před 2 lety

      @@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
      Easy verse to quote, but extremely difficult to digest and live by.

  • @bridgetmavhimira6817
    @bridgetmavhimira6817 Před 2 lety +4

    Adrienne I can relate about never wanting to disappoint one's mom...its a lot of pressure because she always has your best interest

  • @kiaraatkinson890
    @kiaraatkinson890 Před 2 lety +131

    Needed to see this going through it rn 😫

    • @Scorpionic_
      @Scorpionic_ Před 2 lety +21

      You can do it girl 💗 you'll have a breakthrough soon. Stay blessed

    • @niasmith8769
      @niasmith8769 Před 2 lety +5

      Yesss!

    • @ishas6071
      @ishas6071 Před 2 lety +7

      Hang in there girl u will come on top

    • @dizzwatts9017
      @dizzwatts9017 Před 2 lety +6

      Same girl! Its been a year, sending you blessings.

    • @kiaraatkinson890
      @kiaraatkinson890 Před 2 lety +7

      Thank y’all 💕💕 for your encouraging words they mean the world ❤️❤️❤️I pray you guys get through your situations too ❤️❤️❤️❤️ much love 💕

  • @HangDoSomething
    @HangDoSomething Před 2 lety +110

    I love these deep motivating topics from the ladies! I need this segment to be a whole segment!!! 30 minutes! An hour! ❤❤❤👌 Love you ladies!!!

  • @astoldbymiche1099
    @astoldbymiche1099 Před 2 lety +30

    As a young 22 yr old woman, I appreciate this soooo much🥺 I appreciate the transparency from them. It gives me hope for my future. Thank you for this segment 💟

  • @mangosandtea
    @mangosandtea Před 2 lety +74

    I stopped watching this show last season, I would watch here and there but over all I was just over it and I thought the show had just lost it’s spark …butttt this season is just 🔥 👏 the ladies look amazing , the spark is there, and the topics are interesting 🤭🥰
    We just want long clips like this more often , that is all, I’m from Australia so I can’t catch it on tv xxx

    • @Lovebrix99
      @Lovebrix99 Před 2 lety +3

      Me too! I think it was the fact that they were doing the show over zoom that was making it feel different

    • @PSALMSOFSONGS
      @PSALMSOFSONGS Před 2 lety +5

      Same here. I stopped watching before Amanda Seales took apart panel. But whoever decided to cast Garcelle......SPOT ON! I LOVE IT ❤

  • @VideoZion
    @VideoZion Před 2 lety +27

    I remember at just 20 years old, trying a harder drug in college that messed me up so much, it changed me forever. It brought on anxiety, and health problems. I fell out of my friend group, I broke up with my boyfriend, and in the fall I was diagnosed with crohn's disease. I felt like my life was over. How could I be gay and have this disease and ever date or feel love again, who would want to carry my burden? I was riddled with anxiety and pain from running to the bathroom constantly, losing weight and energy. A doctor at the time said I may never be able to hold a full time job, and that I would have to stay on medication for the rest of my life. I was so fed up with my situation, being confined to my bed and the bathroom in my last year of college, that the only thing I could do was research how to get better. I did everything doctors told me not to do. I started seeing a naturopathic doctor. I focused on changing my diet, I supplemented with herbs and natural things the earth makes, not drugs that just mask pain or mask the problem. It took a while, but I started seeing results to the point where I felt like I could go out with people again, I didn't have to be afraid of where the closest bathroom was and what not. And now, a decade later, I've worked in the #1 entertainment market for TV production, I can enjoy the junk foods I like on a day off from the gym and I have an incredible body with lean muscle mass. I NEVER just blindly accept what others tell me, I question everything and do my own research. That's why when I look around right now and see an incredibly sad state this country has gotten to where people have neglected their health for so long, now they're in a position to be begging for an antidote. It's not everyone's fault though, as the way our food system works is so incredibly messed up. But if I can go from rock bottom in my health, so can you.

    • @gigial2659
      @gigial2659 Před 2 lety +3

      I appreciate your story love ❤️

    • @h3artands0uLL
      @h3artands0uLL Před 2 lety

      Thank you for sharing that. Powerful story. Can I ask what the drug was? For warning prospective college students of possible consequences in the future

  • @jasi7313
    @jasi7313 Před 2 lety +10

    Ade's story gave me goosebumps. That was real.

  • @stwaters1147
    @stwaters1147 Před 2 lety +12

    That's the thing. This is why I'm single at 37 and loving it. I already have enough problems in my life I don't need relationship drama. I would never let a man put me in a position where I have to suffer that kind of heartache. EVER

  • @miamaya4620
    @miamaya4620 Před 2 lety +26

    Its these types of conversations they should be having. All of them are so successful now that you sometimes forget where they come from and what they have been through. So incredibly inspiring!

  • @juliac62
    @juliac62 Před 2 lety +86

    love these topics so much. wish they shared more stories about their past

  • @patienttarwo9345
    @patienttarwo9345 Před 2 lety +28

    Well Adrienne, if it makes you feel any better I didn’t even know about that til today.

  • @jaz1elise
    @jaz1elise Před 2 lety +18

    I watched this because I knew I needed it. I'm in my rock bottom now, and I feel horrible.

    • @thiagobailon
      @thiagobailon Před 2 lety +6

      Things are going to get better 🙏🏽

    • @jaz1elise
      @jaz1elise Před 2 lety +1

      @@thiagobailon Thanks!

    • @Anas-rx1he
      @Anas-rx1he Před 2 lety +1

      I can relate. I have heard ‘once you’re at rock bottom, the only way is up’ so try keeping that in mind. Sending good vibes your way!

    • @MsSoaringstar18
      @MsSoaringstar18 Před 2 lety +2

      You got this girl!!!

  • @twentysvn
    @twentysvn Před 2 lety +53

    I remember how sad I was when those pics of Adrienne leaked I’m glad she and Vanessa Hudgens both overcame that. That’s terrible and shouldn’t happen to anyone.

    • @michaelamitchell1603
      @michaelamitchell1603 Před 2 lety

      Wait what happened?

    • @hakunaaaaamatataaa9564
      @hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 Před 2 lety +4

      @@michaelamitchell1603 vanessa sent a picture to her boyfriend at the time zac effron ( its why she was in there less in the 3rd film high school musical

    • @michaelamitchell1603
      @michaelamitchell1603 Před 2 lety

      @@hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 Thank you for explaining. I didn't know that

    • @hakunaaaaamatataaa9564
      @hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 Před 2 lety

      @@michaelamitchell1603 you're welcome x

    • @h3artands0uLL
      @h3artands0uLL Před 2 lety

      @@hakunaaaaamatataaa9564 wait do Disney put her in that movie for less time bc of that?

  • @kristinxox
    @kristinxox Před 2 lety +25

    Garcelle just made me love her even more! I can’t hate a man that my kids love … just when I thought garcelle couldn’t get any damn better!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @britbritnicole
    @britbritnicole Před 2 lety +147

    Even tho tamar eventually explained on her podcast how manipulated she was, it’s good she knows the truth. But Loni is definitely still hurt. But rightfully so, that situation made people look down on her and some people still believe it. And I remember that happening to Adrienne too, wow 🥺.

    • @ke4112
      @ke4112 Před 2 lety +2

      What episode in her podcast did she say that??

    • @britbritnicole
      @britbritnicole Před 2 lety +4

      @@ke4112 It was back in March

    • @kgomes1126
      @kgomes1126 Před 2 lety +45

      Yep I remember people were so nasty and cruel to Loni especially. Saying she was the reason Tamar was fired and she was jealous. At least Tamar cleared it up but I still understand Lonis hurt.

    • @britbritnicole
      @britbritnicole Před 2 lety +4

      @@kgomes1126 yep it was terrible

    • @michaelamitchell1603
      @michaelamitchell1603 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kgomes1126 I remember that smh

  • @gloriaemon6624
    @gloriaemon6624 Před 2 lety +11

    THIS is why I love this show. Right here. The ultimate inspiration. They hands down helped me during my depression and that sounds extremely extra I know😭 but I remember I was DEPRESSED and this show always promoted God, I was only 18-20 years old so it was a good way for me to remember strong bad bitches pray to the Lord and keep going. I’m not joking Adrienne love for Paris got me to save my money and drag myself on my bday to Paris for even just a day ( I’m from London) when I was moving anti-social.
    Now I’m 100,000% better and flourishing in ways I never thought I could I can’t even believe it’s my testimony😭 i hope one day I can see a live tapping of the real or meet these girls to be able to tell them they are soo inspirational for young girls like me

  • @deem132
    @deem132 Před 2 lety +14

    Jeannie’s life story/ testimony remains one of the most inspirational. Forever waiting on that book that will eventually become a biopic/movie 🎬

  • @johnnydepp745
    @johnnydepp745 Před 2 lety +26

    Jeanie Mai should write a book seriously now!!🔥🔥

  • @laurennloraezzz
    @laurennloraezzz Před 2 lety +10

    This is why I love Jeannie. She has been through it. I'm going through it now and it's nice to hear that cause look at her now! Gives me hope you know? And I'm also glad Ade told that story. You never know what people are going through.

  • @aaaxcity
    @aaaxcity Před 2 lety +31

    I loved Jeannie’s advice, so damn relatable!!!

  • @jazmunjones3467
    @jazmunjones3467 Před 2 lety +16

    I really needed this on tonight. I’m going through something that I feel like I can’t come out of. But you all gave me hope. I’m going to keep going. Mark my words. Ima be back to update the comment with a praise report 🙌🏽

    • @RR-xm9iu
      @RR-xm9iu Před 2 lety

      Youve got this jazmun! Im also going through hard times but im going to remember its the struggle that makes you!

    • @melonnize
      @melonnize Před 2 lety

      you got this!!! wish you all the best

    • @nikag8666
      @nikag8666 Před 2 lety +1

      Let me comment because queen I wanna stand with you when I read the praise report!!! You got this and you’re gonna be ah okay!!! Believing with you and holding you up when it gets hard!!! Love and light 🙏🏿💕

  • @lovelynora1838
    @lovelynora1838 Před 2 lety +15

    This is my absolute favourite episode. This is real.

  • @RealTakerslady
    @RealTakerslady Před 2 lety +10

    So glad Adrienne finally addressed that!!

  • @fatmaayan5104
    @fatmaayan5104 Před 2 lety +6

    I currently in my rock bottom… I really hope I’ll get out of it 😭😭😭😭

    • @QueenKeyy
      @QueenKeyy Před 2 lety +2

      You will. Keep taking things a day at a time

  • @paprika7930
    @paprika7930 Před 2 lety +2

    Sigh ~ I'm currently at rock bottom. This couldn't have come at a better time for me. It does feel like it'll never end, but I'm hopeful that I'll slowly rise up and out of it.

  • @shaedavis53
    @shaedavis53 Před 2 lety +7

    I've had the displeasure of hitting rock bottom and it turned me into a hustler!! I make it my mission everyday to never be without again. That's why I currently have 3 streams of income and Im working on more. I'm determined to make it out here 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Traveler-rf8ye
    @Traveler-rf8ye Před 2 lety +23

    I wouldn't say that I've hit rockbottom, but I feel restless and stressed, because of my current life situation. It's 02:00 I cannot sleep, I feel restless and I currently have heartburn because of it. I feel like I want more and to improve my life, but I can't seem to find the energy nor motivation right now to work on it. I just need time...

    • @maame6224
      @maame6224 Před 2 lety +1

      🙏🙏😔

    • @latricedavis7102
      @latricedavis7102 Před 2 lety +3

      Take it one day in a time, you’re stronger than you think. Hang in there!! 🙏🏾

    • @alejandrajoanna
      @alejandrajoanna Před 2 lety +2

      Every day do a little more than the day before. The smallest task or thing to improve your life even if it is one minute of your day.. and then tomorrow add one more minute, and keep adding a little bit more every day. Wether it be a walk, writing, taking a bath, eating one healthy meal.. etc. You got this! 💕

    • @jemimajanvier4706
      @jemimajanvier4706 Před 2 lety +2

      Its hard for us to change ourselves when we have no support. I think you should consider outside help, for me it is Jesus and a therapist that I recently found. But I'm praying that God sees you through this and that He will give you strength. 💕

  • @denisedarcell7124
    @denisedarcell7124 Před 2 lety +17

    I love when Jennie share her story

  • @Angxlitoz
    @Angxlitoz Před 2 lety +4

    I hit rock bottom last year . This year doing better ✨🔥

  • @geordanranger3107
    @geordanranger3107 Před 2 lety +7

    These convos on the real have been extremely insitiful this season....proud of these ladies n I real hope these convos are touching at least one life...hardship is real and perseverance is key

  • @joshandabradford8749
    @joshandabradford8749 Před 2 lety +2

    Jeanie's whole LOOK🔥💜❤

  • @mariamatthews2352
    @mariamatthews2352 Před 2 lety +5

    This has been such a hard year for me. I had a terrible relationship that caused me to lose literally everything. This passed two months I’ve lost my grandma and a cousin I was very close to both. I’ve gained so much weight battling this depression. Now I’m starting a new job working for the state, got a new apartment for my son and I & I’m really taking my weight loss journey very serious. It won’t be easy but I’m excited for a fresh beginning. Although I am still sad about my losses I’m grateful I havetwo extra angels watching over me

  • @wendyfan8071
    @wendyfan8071 Před 2 lety +4

    Now this is "the real" that I remember & loved😃

  • @Blair.Houston90
    @Blair.Houston90 Před 2 lety +2

    I love all of the ladies. This show has grown so much and this season feels the most authentic consistently as all of the ladies are being vulnerable and honest, which brings us as viewers in closer. We all recognise and feel real energy and stories vs. the not so real! Thank you, as vulnerability truly is a super power!
    I began watching this show at 22. I'm about to be 31! I've grown so much from you all, not to mention been thoroughly entertained! My generation of 90's born babies need this show. Thank you 🤍.
    P.S - Mrs Jeannie Mai Jenkins, the people called and they said we need that memoir! Mama you have lived. Your life is a testimony.

  • @reneea44
    @reneea44 Před 2 lety +9

    Adrienne if it makes you feel any better, Chanel was my fave character, i saw yall in concert when i was in like middle school & I never knew anything about leaked pics

  • @majchy100
    @majchy100 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for sharing girls, you are all inspirational. 🙌😊♥️

  • @commetoutlemondepod
    @commetoutlemondepod Před 2 lety +3

    y'all are big sis and aunties, i love you deerly

  • @Nikita-cx6sd
    @Nikita-cx6sd Před 2 lety +1

    Mkay I have to say, I didn’t love Garcelle in the beginning and I missed Tam. But she’s really grown on me. She seems classy, smart and strong.

  • @jasmainjasmain2906
    @jasmainjasmain2906 Před 2 lety +2

    This was so needed. It's so hard but you have to keep fighting no matter what.

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 Před 2 lety +1

    All of their stories are so relatable and intriguing..I need a book from all of them.

  • @tiffanychestnut6513
    @tiffanychestnut6513 Před 2 lety +3

    I have to get Loni’s book. I love to hear all the ladies life experiences. You ladies are awesome. 💕

  • @withfatiimatou1519
    @withfatiimatou1519 Před 2 lety +2

    Adrienne always explain things point by point and still ask if it make sense 🤣 and I am like yessss gurlll it make sense !

  • @tiarawashington5952
    @tiarawashington5952 Před 2 lety +3

    True... Rock bottom might not lead you to the Top... However try, try, And Try again!!! Bad relationships are always the worst!!!!! But keep trying and you will Recover💖💞💋

  • @Nmomo8691
    @Nmomo8691 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank u all ladies for being honest and sharing your vulnerability. I appreciate it.

  • @Keepbe
    @Keepbe Před 2 lety +3

    I love this new set up on the real. The topics are also a lot more juicy and “real” I love it!

  • @AREED44980
    @AREED44980 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you Loni Love for being being who you are !!! You have a fan in me !!!👍🎀

  • @Errast-pp8sr
    @Errast-pp8sr Před 2 lety +3

    💚 💚 💚
    Thank You Ladies for sharing 🙏🏽. I really REALLY needed to hear this!

  • @Beebeebee111
    @Beebeebee111 Před 2 lety +1

    Needed this 🤍 love and light to all of you 🤍

  • @leamar3906
    @leamar3906 Před 2 lety +4

    The Real is keeping it real... Excellent topic and great insight from the ladies...👌👍

  • @liveinspirewithlivemulumba

    These ladies experiences are very helpful testimonies. God bless you all fabulous women for being vulnerable and so inspirational.🙏🏽❤️✨

  • @WiiRFAM
    @WiiRFAM Před 2 lety +1

    When I go through things, I always tell myself that it's not the end of the world but just the end of the day.

  • @itsonlyjulian
    @itsonlyjulian Před 2 lety +11

    “But you can’t fall off the Floor, so up is the only way ” - “Break out this Box” Cheetah Girls

  • @marykay7878
    @marykay7878 Před 2 lety +2

    what a perfect panel, made out of vulnerable women. i love to see it. the real housewives should watch this to see how to act around garcelle instead of gaslighting her

  • @shmo_de
    @shmo_de Před 2 lety +1

    This is such an inspiration for me, right now 🥲

  • @danieljosephpena6322
    @danieljosephpena6322 Před 2 lety +7

    I remember the Adrienne scandal lol and I remember she wasn't allowed to be in the Macy's thanksgiving day parade for it I was so mad lol the cheetah girls were not there but in the end I got to meet Adrienne in future and it was amazing !

  • @m.j2444
    @m.j2444 Před 2 lety +3

    I recently ran away from home cos of my narcissistic abusive mum, have no contact with my family, and living in a refuge. I have friends but they can’t really help much cos they still live with their families. The first few months after leaving i went on a huuuge spending spree to try make myself feel better but i ended up doing was wasting all my savings.
    I feel like im at my rock bottom now and i really hope i can have a day like these women where I’m happy, have good relationships and am financially stable 😢

    • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
      @dancinginthepurplereign4126 Před 2 lety

      Sorry about that!
      I hope you get through it. I stayed the whole month with very little food. I have no friends or family.
      But I made it out of that hunger situation and I am starting a new career.
      Things get better.

    • @m.j2444
      @m.j2444 Před 2 lety

      @@dancinginthepurplereign4126 thank you❤️ im glad you’re in a better position🥰

    • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
      @dancinginthepurplereign4126 Před 2 lety

      @@m.j2444 I forgot to mention I also went No Contact with my narcissistic family as the scapegoat.

    • @m.j2444
      @m.j2444 Před 2 lety

      @@dancinginthepurplereign4126 aw yh i was in the same position. I really hope things have gotten better for you 🥺❤️

  • @mayab.1633
    @mayab.1633 Před 2 lety +4

    This segment helped me so much 🥺❤️

  • @raventhissel
    @raventhissel Před 2 lety +1

    This right here. Needed this so much today.

  • @Alyssa-un7jr
    @Alyssa-un7jr Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you Jeannie for sharing that was really helpful to know how you went through that

  • @awandezwane1500
    @awandezwane1500 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow the ladies are preaching to me!

  • @AriVirtual
    @AriVirtual Před 2 lety +2

    So much deep love for these girls. THANK YOU for your honesty, its doing so much more than you know loves.

  • @hannahhan03
    @hannahhan03 Před 2 lety +2

    I am impatiently waiting for a time where everything I am going through is in the past. Just to get passed the financial worries will be the best thing that will happen to me. Thank you for the real where strong women keep it a 100

  • @lujainmustafa20
    @lujainmustafa20 Před 2 lety +1

    The topics this season are giving me life ❤️

  • @VeeWiz-knowledgeoflife907

    i love Loni’s book btw !! read every page !! and yes ladies !! love you learned from each situation!! ❤️

  • @placesminds6816
    @placesminds6816 Před 2 lety +1

    Yep did the same thing as Jeannie. During my studies, I decided to move from Liverpool to London because of a toxic relationship... sometimes you need to do complete 180 in order to get your life back and heal.

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 Před 2 lety +6

    I understand we’re garcelle is coming from because I went through a divorce also and our daughter was 7 at the time and even though it was hard and I wanted to give I didn’t because my daughter needed me it was a transition for us both but I can honestly you never no how strong u have to be until it the only choice you have !!!!!

  • @naye1045
    @naye1045 Před 2 lety +1

    Loni plugging her book lowkey…makes me chuckle 😂😂😂

  • @limonade0
    @limonade0 Před 2 lety

    This talk really helped me. I usually just listen for entertainment, but this is the first time I felt connected and that the talk was therapeutic.

  • @AnnOsman
    @AnnOsman Před 2 lety +1

    It is especially hard when ur used to being successful then something bad happened and u think, "omg this is the end of it.. i'm better off dead.."
    Just try ur best to make it better.. i find changing my perspectives help.. also if u have a big problem, try to divide it into smaller problems and solve the ones that u can first.. u will eventually be able to solve all of them later..

  • @racheljamieson6617
    @racheljamieson6617 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm hitting rock bottom right now. I was in a bad relationship for 6 years then met the love of my life 2 months later but got sick a year in. Now we're 2 1/2 years together + living together and he's just told me he's had a hard time seeing us with a future and doesn't think he loves me anymore. I'm still not better and can't work full time and am going to have to move out of our place with no money and I'm just about to turn 30

  • @apmerfetyro7250
    @apmerfetyro7250 Před 2 lety +3

    So so much wisdom and truth !!!
    True and so good 🙌🏽

  • @stephenchristian3636
    @stephenchristian3636 Před 2 lety +11

    This is so empowering to see right now‼️ I’ve been in a very dark place lately an recovering ❤️‍🩹/healing from this injury. I am a Sexual Abuse/Physical abuse survivor an also battle with Clinical Depression/Anxiety I was contemplating suicide a couple nights ago. I had looked at My Gun an looked at some pills 💊 I had written a note 📝 an was gonna go through with it so glad I didn’t do it. Nothing but God that came & rescued me .

    • @cooky75015
      @cooky75015 Před 2 lety +1

      Hope you are in a better place now. Sending love and hugs your way 💗💗💗

    • @keilagomesborges5889
      @keilagomesborges5889 Před 2 lety +1

      I’ve been contemplating the same and a survivor of the same. God continues to show me why I should still be here and I’m glad he showed you also. Hope you’re doing well🙏🏾

    • @stephenchristian3636
      @stephenchristian3636 Před 2 lety

      @@keilagomesborges5889 Yes Queen I’m glad you’re still here love ❤️!! God definitely has a divine plan for your life … I’ll be praying for you an sending you love 💕, light , peace , blessings & favor.

  • @lamarshalewis5380
    @lamarshalewis5380 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you ladies for sharing your stories! Loni Love, I love you!
    Jeannie, I love you, and your humbleness!

  • @hillaryr6396
    @hillaryr6396 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! This is some of the best advice I've truly ever heard

  • @teresasoriano8483
    @teresasoriano8483 Před 2 lety

    “TAKING US TO BREAK!” 😂😂😂😂 Adrianne, I adore you queen. We all need an Adrienne in our lives she’s amazing

  • @lookhowshegobbledthat
    @lookhowshegobbledthat Před 2 lety +1

    These hosts just gel so well and the lack of audience feels more intimate and makes the convo flow better. And I really need a book from Jeannie. She has gone through so much. And Tamar, Vince and the Tamartians did Loni so dirty, they deserve nothing but HELL.

  • @marklanger7965
    @marklanger7965 Před 2 lety +1

    I just got dumped from my bf where we planned to marry next year and have kids. I am in LDR due to Nursing school and he could care less when he broke up with my in the middle of my midterms. But i refused to let him bother me and be in a victim mentality (i am hurt and crying every night) but i am putting that anger, resentment towards my career as a nurse studying.

  • @siamorego
    @siamorego Před 2 lety +1

    Breakthrough is always near! Keep going!