Why You Keep FALLING IN LOVE with the WRONG PEOPLE
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I agree with his wife saying that a woman has to be secure in herself in order to provide a comfortable environment for husband to be vulnerable ☝🏾 but before she can be secure with herself, she must first be secure in God and his character, and take on his character, in order to execute being a good understanding wife
Wow , that’s powerful ❤
I love it too!!! A person can only provide what they have. If a woman is secure in God and in herself- that means being comfortable with and accepting ALL parts of herself, the good, bad, ugly- she can provide that security to her partner.
This page has really been helping me in my marriage to not be selfish. I’m 25 and my wife and I have been married for 3 years and I’ve learned so much watching all of y’alls podcasts. Keep up the great work Fellas!💯
Wow u married so young! That's rare these days. Congrats and may God bless your union.
Wonderful!!! You are a young man in a new marriage and I pray that God continues to smile on your union as you learn and grow together in love. ❤❤
7 years of celibacy is admirable and respectable. I applaud you for that!
Love builds u up
Lust tears you down
Love heals
Lust hurt
Love gives
Lust takes
The way the guest described sex was so beautiful it brought me to tears. I'm starting to see why God made it for marriage only. It's so beautiful 😢❤
Self mastery is the key 🔑 to discipline and discipline is the key 🔑 to purpose
This man of God kept it real and he was very transparent. This is great dialogue and is much needed in our churches.
Exactly! I'm so impressed tbh. It was a shame-free wholesome discussion.
Man, I love you both and the guests you bring on are EXCEPTIONAL. It is great to see BLACK men striving with Black Women. This is a force to reckon with. Thanks for the information you'll provide daily.
40:55 😂😂Pastor said “I’m not a doctor…so I don’t know…” I love how he’s transparent about what he doesn’t know…
These days, I HIGHLY respect anyone willing to say, “I don’t know” because people really have a problem saying that.
This man is teaching MOST men the truth. Although I'm celibate in this season, his information status needs an award! I've wondered why men think that they just know what THAT woman likes. Truthfully, men I've encountered didn't have a clue of pleasing me.
Please have on both Tim Ross and his wife, Jermone Glenn and his wife on together please!! Love your podcast!!
Man these to couples would be a good panel
Agree
This man is preaching !!! #Facts
Lust starts in the mind. You can be attracted, not approach and still lust after someone.
scriptures say men are like dogs no restraining spirit and no self control suffering from the lust of the eyes you see if you like it lust of the flesh feed me feed me so like the dog you have no respect for what belongs to others and you are a thief lust is greed or uncontrollable hunger for flesh they don't have a covenant with eyes not to look upon a female and desire her YAH told cain sin lays at the door it desires you you must master it for most people sin is their master and the are in debt to the flesh obeying it desires looking at a women according to her body is adultery in your heart you go from the flesh to witchcraft manipulation and seduction casting spells from jezebel next the devil takes over destroying your life the pretty flower is ruined and pissed on by the dog
Having an ejection is a waste of your seed is sin and is the sin of adultery a sin that after a while is nothing your conscience is seared with a hot iron
I love how you guys bring a spiritual aspect to most of the conversations with your guests.It's very important for us to tap into our spirituality because we are living in some crazy times.I love your versatility.🙏
I hate that sexual discipline and abstinence is frowned upon when trying to date certain people
Jermone was the TRUTH!!!!! Loved it!!! Thank you again guys for another great conversation!!!!
As DJ Khaled would say……And Another One!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Another one💪🏾
Being a seasoned 60year young cutie, you gotta know some things, and you can be a curious pro!😂
Pastor Jermone & his wife were excellent. It was so good to hear him speak with honesty & what we should be striving for. Please have him & his wife back!
EXCELLENT CONVERSATION!!!!! THANK YOU!!!
I appreciate a man who respects his body and DO NOT allow all different types of women to ride his pole. Men and women must respect our bodies so when you meet the greater one that GOD has for you. It will be the best. You will be able to learn each other and please each other.❤❤❤
Man… y’all got Pastor Glenn .. our Chi-town people. Whewwww! Notepads unite
Lust is an unhealthy desire.
This is fantastic!!! Regarding the partner's sexual skill, I love a skilled man BUT I'd much rather have a partner who wants to LEARN MY body and what riles me up. Nothing sucks more than being with a man, whether he's experienced or inexperienced, who does not listen or pay attention to me, my body, my reactions. Either way leads to dissatisfaction.
As a wife for over a decade with my great black husband.
Our vow /marriage stays stronger because before we became one we told everything ; both our deepest darkest secrets, bad habits ,addictions..etc..
Just be transparent and we both do not believe in divorce even if my husband went through one before.
As a tradwife a best wife means , 100% submission to my husband, let him lead, let him do his role as a man and husband, I give peace, warm meals, clean house, take care our son, give massage and warm smile every time he comes back home from work.
Love this ❤️ we need more like you
He is sooo wise! Thank you for sharing the Truth! Real talk! Only mature grown ups will get this! Discipline! Self mastery!
Feeling badly after inappropriate sexual behaviors outside of marriage will always make you uncomfortable because it's not right in the sight of God.
Big ups to my Executive Pastor and first lady. He is definitely knowledgeable, transparent and I love learning life through his messages. It is a gift to be taught on a regular basis by him. Maybe one day he can give me and my husband to be premarital counseling. This by far was one of the best! Keep bringing the heat HI!
Very self controlled man God is good.
Executive Pastor Glenn, this is AWESOME! So proud of you and 1st Lady Erica Glenn. Thankful you have opportunities to share with the world the same teaching that you provide to us every week. YOUR NAME HAS BEEN CALLED!!! We are grateful to see you lead and love your family. Great conversation Pastor. If y'all think this is good, follow him, weekly teaching, preaching, educating, and mentoring. Awesome conversation, we love you Pastor Jermone and Erica Glenn. Remember, whatever you starve gets weaker and whatever you feed gets stronger.
Pastor Jermone 🔥
“ Hardly Intiated “ Is the Best Podcast I’ve seen in years!!!!! This man was on Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥(( Tysean and Ryan you guys are doing a great job.., Luv the transparency on your show!
I would prefer a more curious man than a more experienced man…. Because that would make me feel that he is catering the experience more to my body/mind instead of pulling from previous experiences he had
His wife locked that answer down!! please bring her back
I’m harnessing and holding my power🙌🏼. The world didn’t give it and the can’t take it away
Pastor Glenn is theeeeeee TRUTH !!!! LITERALLY !!!!
This brother Jermone is spittin'!!! 🔥
Amazing! Master class
I absolutely loved this conversation ❤
This is so on point! On so many levels! I 🎉 how his wife explains how our nurturing role can make a difference in our man's life. How to have him feel safe with you.
Applying this in all aspects of family life.
Yes! Please have him and his wife back again! ❤
Lust takes....Love gives🤔🤔🤔🤯🤯🤯🔥🔥🔥
Yes Guys please have Dr Jermone and Miss Glenn back, the information was deep and power packed. Question: Why good guys love to be in a relationship, but won't take the next step Marriage?
Bring HIM & WIFEE back, plzzzzzz.
A man that is too experienced is so intimidating for me because I know he’s experienced things from girls that I probably can’t do & id feel like I’m bad at pleasing him
Girl right!!!!!
Wow! I
Found this to be very interesting and enjoyable ! I am a divorced woman, and you all talked about some very interesting things that I will definitely keep in mind when I do remarry. This opened up different ways to look at certain issues if they ever came up or come up in my future marriage.. thank you too everyone involved in this discussion for being transparent and truly it seems that you all were very honest.
I think the guilt he’s referring to is conviction. I do think masturbation is a sin. Bc what comes with it the lusting ,desires, and imagination. I also did hear doing that invites unclean spirits( spirit spouses)
This is so refreshing to listen to. Love this all.
Yes! Bring him and his wife back!
love this conversation so much and @jermoneGlenn delivered it with so much perspective. i didn't want his wife to stop speaking when she came on sis blessed us greatly with her wisdom ... thank you all sm❤
Favorite episode so far, and that means a lot because I've enjoyed them ALL. This one really resonates though. Great conversations and learnings.
I prefer my man/husband to be curious about exploring me and I with him. A need and desire…love.
Tysean and Ryan are some crazy dudes! I stay laughing at y'all. Thank you Pastor Jermone. Awesome Teaching!!!
I totally agree with pastor about wanting a man to be curious.
Different breed, spiritual ✨️ I love when he comes on, and his wife is definitely a bonus!!
Personally, and in the context of marriage, I believe that having more or less experience is not a top top priority for me as affirming me, making me feel safe and desirable, and being curious is (to Jermone’s point).
Like, yeah you can have a lot of experience or little to no experience at all, but no matter the situation, are you mindful of me, are you willing to figure out and explore with me, or are you selfishly trying to fulfill your own agenda, desires, stroke your ego, etc.?
So for me, it’s not about the knowledge/experience or the lack thereof you may have, it’s more about how is your circumstance (i.e. more experience or little to no experience) impacting your heart and your actions in how you are treating and handling me in those intimate moments that we should mutually be enjoying. If that makes sense? 🤔
🎯🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾💯🙌🏾🥰🙌🏾 Eloquently stated 😊
It makes perfect sense 💯🤎
Great episode ❤
This stream was excellent 👏🏾👏🏾. Pastor Jerome Glenn insight and wisdom is valuable and appreciated. His Wife's input at the end of the stream was classic wisdom for Wife's, future Wife's and women in relationship need to take heed. Great job, Hardly Initiated.
Please have him and his wife back. What she said was powerful. I would find it hard to forgive my husband for infidelity when he didn't have to do it. Her teachings on forgiving and moving forward would be a great benefit.
🤭 Pastor Glenn got puns allllday!
"My wife gone join in HANDS DOWN " 😂
This was such a great episode it made me go buy Jermone's book. Thanks again fellas for this platform and to Mr &Mrs Glenn for dropping 💎💎
Wow the wife is a game changer.. you guys are blessed! Being vulnerable is really beautiful
This was so.. good, educational and spiritual!
Pastor Jerome love his teachings glad I was able to catch this one it's been the shortest one in a while.
Wow powerful truth
JESUS🙌🏽 whewwwww!!!! I don’t even know where to begin!! Thank you 😂!!! God created SEX..it’s better under the BOUNDARIES that he has set!!! TRUTH!! 🙏🏽I’m Thankful to be abstinent from sexual immorality…can I get a AMEN🙌🏽💪🏽💃🏽
Bring him back for the third time . 3 peat 💯🙏🏾
44:05 you can lead with experience but get to know ME
Wow! Great Show!
He saying exactly what I've been trying to get men to see. (About the experience)
Top 2 interviews ever!
One of Best episode ! I’m here for it ❤👏🏾🔥
Yoooooo!! This Kat is dope! I ordered his books from the last round table ya'll had with him. Thank you for bringing him back. Absolutely! I'm so here for it!
Can yall get Tony Gaskins on??
Trying to. Send him a message for us!
He’s been on
Fantastic podcast!! Please invite them back on !
I prefer someone experienced but open and curious about developing our sex life together.
The wisdom 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾
I’m catching the replay! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I was hesitant to watch this but I’m glad I did. Very insightful! ❤
Very !
Need them back asap!
Learn each other...love it!
Yhew this was good! Not even finished and mind blown!
Yessss! Bring them both back! I'd love to her from her.
This will be a good one, topics just keep coming love it❤
Great convo 🙌🙌
Don’t let the hand win!!!!!😂😂😂
Awesome session. Thank u
This was great. I would like to hear from the both of them. Communication is a key in any relationship…something that I can come up in.
It is a blessing too a wonderful couple of God
GREAT ONE AGAIN!!!!
This was really good !!!!
Wow just wow this was a great sit down
Best podcast !!! I love this !!
That's my pastor we so blessed at New Life.
❤ Indeed
Also, on the topic of pornography and masturbation, and whether or not it is sin/wrong, I would offer to consider looking at them from this perspective. And this is coming from personal experience, repentance and deliverance from God.
Regarding pornography, no matter what context you are observing it in (independently or with a partner/spouse), they are essentially watching people participate in sexually immoral behaviors/activities (which is sin) to bring pleasure to themselves. There may be no book/chapter/verse that will clearly say “Pornography is a sin/wrong,” but it is, in principle, sexually immoral.
Also, consider the fact that some of these people are potentially victims of human trafficking, or also just thinking of the mere fact that these people are someone’s daughter, mother, father, son, etc. Or put yourself in a position that considers whether you would want someone seeing your child or any loved one in a pornographic setting? But without even considering the source or putting yourself in that position so to speak, pornography is in principle sexually immoral, thus making it sin and should be stayed swayed from.
Regarding masturbation, Ryan and Jerome made points that should be considered. Ryan said he experiences guilt afterward to which Jerome challenged by saying “I wonder why that is?” From my experience and the conviction God gave me in participating in that behavior, it is what the Bible says is the result of sexual immorality, “sinning against one’s own body” (1 Corinthians 6:18). And to Jermone’s point, it is almost as if your soul instantly knows that that experience and rush or pleasure is supposed to be had with another person.
When the Bible says that in marriage, the two shall become one flesh, it is not just spiritually, but also physically. In fact, the physical is just an external representation of what is happening spiritually. But how can that beautiful and sacred God-blessed and ordained union take place with masturbation?
This is what I have learned from the Lord and reflected on over the years. I would humbly invite anyone to consider the perspectives I’ve offered and would equally invite anyone to pray and seek God on the topics of masturbation and pornography. 🙏🏾
I think masterbation is a personal choice. I've also had a long distance relationship where we talked about it a few times. It was better that we do that than cheat. There's different reasons why people do it and if it's not causing a problem, I think it's ok.
Great show!
My 4 year abstinence was not really hard to maintain because I am on a God mission, and honestly, I've grown in celibacy to feel that the thought of casual sex is repulsive. I have no desire to share my essence any other person; my goodness is for my future husband
Mark My Words One Day I’ll Be On Your Podcast Yall Are Real Brothers And I Got A Story To Tell, Love Y’all Keep Going 🙏🙏🙏
the man is rappinggg
Thanks!
Let’s goooo 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Pastor Glen!!!! NewLife Covenant Southeast
CHI-TOWN STAND UP!!!!!
This is brilliant