How to Flirt with Girls- Lesbian Version!
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To celebrate Brighton Pride today (and our falling in love at Pride two years ago!) here are some tips for flirting lesbian style. PLUS Walter being the most adorable bichon ever!
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sometimes i’m trying to impress a girl and i try to think of what girls like and then i remember that i’m a girl
Annqualise me
I know what you mean, lol
big mood
We just wanna be listened to, empathized and heared. Lol
ME! lol
My girlfriend and I finally kissed after months of flirting. (It wasn't really "flirting" because she was "straight"). It was my birthday and we went walking together and suddenly she just stopped and said "close your eyes" and I did but was kind of laughing and she kissed me and whispered "Happy Birthday". And walked away. We've been together ever since.
That's the cutest first kiss I can ever imagine
Thats so Cute
I want this to be my first kiss too xd
Omg🥺
Replying in case we're updated on this adorable love story 🥺
Telling someone that you have no knickers on must be the number one top flirting tip, you are the flirting queen!😂
Thank you, thank you *takes a bow*
Jessica Kellgren-Hayes love ur accents...
At least, dear, your knickers were not in a twist?
It's also called "going commando" 🙂
"Hey guys, here's how to flirt!"
/8 minutes later/
"Uhh, i think we've kind of forgotten how to flirt"
girl i can't omg
They fell in love. Got married. Are happy. I think some of what they did worked, but clueless as to what and how. They are, too. ha
My gf and I had the most romantic first time we met story... I saw her in the school hallway wearing an anime shirt so I gave her a high five and walked away lol
And I'm sure you gave her direct EYE CONTACT, and a SMILE too ...?
my girlfriend was my best friend for years but the first time we ever spoke she came up to me and asked me to come to girl guides with her because my mum had told her that i didn't really have many friends (I was in third grade so it wasn't that weird but still... weird),,, so you're doing better than me!
Dude that was so cute
The image I just pictured of this is so funny lmaooo, did u literally just walk past her and high five her as you went past without stopping? 😭
You two are so sweet together!! No matter what sex people are attracted to I just think it’s so sweet to see two people so in love. I’ve been with my hubby for 22 years and I still look at him with googely eyes and get butterflies when he kisses me. I see that same love between you and your wife in your videos.
Tricia Smith I saw your comment and thought, yay she cares about gays like me! Thanks!
I ask people if I can kiss them all the time, and it works! Like seriously works, and they usually blush a little bit which is cute
you are too cute
Kale Can I kiss you?
Me too, consent is sexy
I personally hate it and think its a turn off haha
consent is sexy +1
I'm really bad around girls that I find attractive...
This one time a really cute girl walked by me and said "Hi" in the cutest voice ever. Instead of saying "Hi" as well, I squealed... She didn't notice.
Honestly same 😔
I am pretty bad with the gay panic as well, any time a girl shows me attention I freak out and avoid eye contact. Once I saw my crush walking on my way to class and she nodded to me and i froze so then I panicked over seeming like I ignored it and ran ahead until I reached a building just to pop inside and wait for her to walk further past 😭
YOU TWO ARE JUST TOO CUTE!!!!! CONGRATS ON THE ENGAGEMENT!
+Caroline Is Online thank you! We're married now- you can find a video we made about the wedding on my channel 👰👰
There are many factors in get a date by texting and found. One resource I found that succeeds in merging these is the Lynzey text tactic (google it if you're interested) definately the most helpful guide that I've seen. look at all the super information .
Compliments and stroking their hair behind their ear. Works like a charm.
why did I feel butterflies in my stomach jeez
Nicer place to meet than me, I met my partner when we were put in adjoining hospital beds! Not the best place to impress anyone! lol
Ha ha, oh dear! But it obviously worked so you must both be on form in hospital robes 😉
Yes, at least you have seen somebody at their worst that way! lol
claire cheskin that's makes a really great 'how we met' story!
thats amazing
I cannot flirt with girls. I get super nervous and shy. And i feel like no girl would be into me. #foreveralone
christian chimchim sigh man sigh
N. Tonks its hard being a girl who everyone thinks is straight :(
heteronormativity sucks
lots of girls likes shy girls!! there is someone out there for you !
christian chimchim I have the same!! I look no way like a lesbian, but kkk sometimes I talk like a gay man. XD
Tip for the w/w compliment thing: make sure the compliment is directed towards them not just the clothing.
Ex: "Wow, you look amazing tonight, that top is absolutely beautiful on you"
Damn, that's good. Subtle but that's it.
I'm a closeted (at home only) bisexual girl that has a thing for girls that are not into meee! (I always like the openly bi or some shwwit and friendly girl that gives me hints but then tell me that they love me as a friend or just aren't emotionally available)
Be patient. I kind of thought I was bi, or possibly just bi-curious for years. One day, while IMing an online friend, she straight up asked me if I was flirting with her. That started a whole conversation that went on for weeks. Turns out, I am bi, but I am also monogamous, married, and more concerned with my integrity than my desires. We are still close friends, we've since met in person, and when I want to speak openly, I can. But around my family, most of my family that is, I am still closeted. And that's okay. Because I have my chosen family who knows, and their opinions are the ones that matter. I hope that some day you can find your own chosen family where you can be yourself without recriminations. Meanwhile, don't rush yourself. There is no hard set timeline when certain things need to happen in anyone's life.
I DIED at the lip licking part! Claudia, you crack me up! Jess, you clearly are aware of how seductive you (can) look. You both make me smile. Thank you for the laugh out loud on a Saturday morning! ❤️
BAHAHAHA Claudia trying to lick her lips seductively is hilarious 😂😂😂
To be fair, I did it once while TRYING to be seductive and Dan almost snorted his drink out his nose 😂
“You tell me you’re not wearing any knickers” THAT’S A UNIVERSAL THING LOL
Haha said it all. Straight dating is the same. Be yourself, be daring with your beliefs because you don't want to end up in a relationship with someone who doesn't share your values and sense of fun :)
You two are so perfect. It just fills me with happiness.
« I flirted with you by basically making fun of you a lot »
Meeeeee
"You look really familiar" is how my Dad picked up my Mum. Hahahhha.
A guy in my Geometry class said that on the second day of school 😂😂🤦♀️
Girls say "you look really familiar" and years later have a family with you. (Jk, I wish that were me)
I'm a natural flirter. I never mean to, guy, gal and non bionary have at some point been flirted with me....my problem....I'm asexual(or demisexual im still exploring). So if they fall for me I feel horrible because I don't like them that way.
If I do like someone, my flirting side just jumps out the window and I suddenly become very awkward
I like my bff I never thought it was much but I kinda started to ‘like, like’ her. Only yesterday she told me she felt the same way and we had been thinking the exact same thing. We’re still deciding if we ARE lesbian but either way I’m happy.
ALWAYS Always ask! Consent is so much better than second-guessing, esp for poeple like me with autism and sensory input issues.
Claudia is hilarious, I love her personality.
okay i love how flustered jessica was right after the swooping kiss haha and the knickers part? ingenious. i really dont wanna be a twenty something who hits on jessica but goddamn woman can you not be this perfect
A stone lesbian... these terminology had me dying of laughter 😂😂😂
Jessica, Thank goodness to Deaf History Month and CZcams Spotlight or I probably would of missed your channel all together. You two are just plain cute. I have watched several of your videos. Congratulations on your recent Marriage. What really got me to watching and pushing the subscribe button was your beautiful positive attitude. I am deaf and have several disabilities with similar symptoms as you do - however totally different diagnoses. It is always a blessing to run across positive people who make the most out of their challenges and shoot for the stars! Blessing to you Both and may the love you both feel for each other and from each other remain forever strong and healthy.
Thank you so much, I always think positivity is the best way to get through anything! Blessings to you too x
You two are so amazingly ADORABLE. This was so much fun! Thank you for sharing and being your delightful, giggly, wonderful selves!
More videos like this please!! Your chemistry together is so nice to watch ☺️
I like how you actually reply to your viewers/fans comments. It shows genuineness! :)
Your videos...wow. It reminded of how it doesn't matter what gender we fall in love with, that all that matter is that we are loved and that we are with the person we love. Its the simplicity of life. Like, hey, all we need is love! 😄
Wait she's literally amazing ! Sometimes I watch and see how she is not looking at Claudia at all yet still knows what she's saying! How in the how!
this is the exact relationship i want, you guys are so perfect for each other!!!! congrats on getting married!!!!!!!
You guys are so hilarious. I just couldn't stop smiling and giggling at your stories. More please ;)))
😂 Jessica is constantly flirty with the camera!
Best couple I've seen in my whole life
Whoever Andrea is, I relate to her so much😂
Right? It works!
SO WHOLESOME AND THEIR LAUGHS ARE PURE AND THEYRE GOALS OMG
Jessica and Claudia staring straight into the camera liking their lips sensually
Me: My gaYneSs iS EscPing
3:24 well that just went from 0 to 100 real quick. wow. That is so sweet you look so happy together)
Lol Claudia is a tsundere that's kindof adorable. It's really sweet that it worked for you two
How you got together is now more of a mystery than before the video :).
Ha ha ha, apparently our dorkiness attracts each other!
I want to kiss a girl sO BAD-
I have never related to a comment so much
Same- My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, so I can’t wait for the first time I’ll get to hug her, hold hands with her and our first kiss. I love her a lot. 🥰
"You look so familiar . . .." Best pick up line ever. Lol
Claudia licking her lips had me laughing so hard!
Haha Claudia is always accidentally making jokes about other nationalities lol. Last video I watched it was the Welsh; now it's Americans. I don't mind, it's funny and cute 😆
ha ha, she's not great at holding her tongue! 😆
JESSICA'S LIP LICKING I CAN'T I HAD TO PAUSE AND BREATHE
“Stone”= “Pillow Princess” 😂😂😂, That’s the term I’ve always heard...not AT me just y’know..around😁
don't know what I need the most after watching this, a girlfriend or a lovely dog like yours !
My cheeks are so sore! From smiling for 9minutes straight!!!
This is my favourite ever flirting how to video. Also, completely and utterly useless, but you 2 made me laugh so much 😍🤣 Also, I am so tragically single 😅
I remember being at a bar and this bartender was super cute and I desperately wanted to catch her attention. Dirty blond hair, cute ponytail and there I was with my boyfriend! Lololol. No line would have worked for me :( ended up marrying and divorcing him but I'll never forget that girl.
They are so adorable.
The closed captions on this are hilarious!
Good thing ya'll found each other, cause some (some) of those approaches would not only Not work, the person would walk away. lol. The chemistry is there and it shows, that's the best !
I love both of your laughs, my wife gets hit on a lot and I don't necessarily get jealous 😉 but sometimes it's funny to watch someone flirt with my wife and have her shut them down, that might be mean on my part but I don't really feel bad about that.
omg my ex girlfriend was so much like claudia and i didnt know how to kiss her, so i just asked her and she totally forgot that cold side of herself, it was so cute she blushed and everything (also we were 15 and 16 yr so obviously we were a little bit shy on a date than now)
Both of you look so pretty in this!
I adore your outfit so so much!
Is it a dress or skirt top combo? & it's very cheeky, but where from?! I'm trying to update my vintage wardrobe and failing miserably.
not cheeky at all! It's a top and skirt combo: the top is a vintage piece from a fair in Bristol and the skirt is from ChiChi London (love everything they do!) x
Jessica's laugh is hilarious -- one of the best i've ever heard. 😂😍
Claudia trying to lick her lips seductively just made my day lmao
You guys are so adorable and funny, it's so enjoyable to watch!
I'm a guy and i have used a similar line to the "Do you look familiar," it's funny though I only said it because it was true but it works really well in getting a date unexpectedly.
I just came out a few months ago and I’m failing miserably at talking to women 😂
WHY AM I SO BAD AT THIS?! IT’S SO HAAAARD!!!
I love use! I come across earlier and already watched so many videos, ur so nice to listen to! I hope EVERYONE respects u and you are very lucky to have Claudia! X
I dont know how i stumbled on your channel.. but im so glad i did! I find your videos unspiring for sooo mny reasons. 💜 love from a new sub 💜
Well... I'm just a freaking try hard xD. Awesome video and I'm loving all of them. Deffinately won a new sub. Keep at it girls! One day I wish I can find someone that's as much inlesbians with me as you are for one another :3
You are both such lucky girls! What absolute knockouts, the both of you :)
If a Woman would do pushups for me, I'd be woo'd in a sec lmao
I love that tomorrow is New Year's Eve 2020 & this just popped up on my phone. Love you guys.
This is so adorable xD you two a do quirky you mesh together jajaja loved this video
Thank u lesbian moms. I’m bi and my lesbian friend is always making fun of me and saying I have no idea how to flirt with girls. Funnily enough she mentioned some of the same things like licking your lips and reading them quickly. I tend to be more like Claudia and just make fun of someone if I like them lol
OK. But what if you're Australian and you call someone 'mate' on a date? Still no?
You're my otp now.
I'm a trans lesbian, 10 going on 11 months into HRT, and thinking of getting myself out there. Up til now, I've only ever flirted while in boymode. Doing it in girlmode seems like a totally different ballgame.
By stone are you perhaps talking about a "hard butch"? I'm not a butch lady but I am considered a hard butch in exactly the way your lovely partner described.
As a side, you are both so awesome and beautiful i love you guys to pieces and you're such a role model I've learned a lot watching your videos! xx
As a demi girl that would like to have a GF post Covid I needed this video thank you.
1:24
Me waiting for my game to load
So what I have learned is to be really silly? I think you are both FABULOUS!
I need this cause I feel like if I even speak to a boy it’s seen as flirting but when I try to flirt with a girl I feel like I’m just complementing her?
I love the way you dress you’re so pretty
I love your laugh Jessica. I love both of you guys
long fingernails?
1 is straight low-key
2 a bottom
3 likes pain
"I was gamed!"
The best way to get a gf is just to be honest! Ask her on a date and frame it as a date, and she’ll tell you if she’s into the idea or not.
Omg the cutest couple ever
Yes please teach me mommies.
UGH I JUST LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH AND YOU GUYS RE SO COOL AND UGHHHHHHHHHHH
I'm not wearing knickers Hahahahaha! That one works for boys too 😌 😜😜😜
Your so funny together
*always looking for more chips
Okay but now you have to do a video with Andrea, she sounds amazing 😁💪💞
i don't know how to flirt with girls even though i am a girl and i have a girlfriend of 15 months ???
You just have a low self esteem
Do you have a house tour video? Would love to see all your decor ideas and what places look like where you live! Some youtubers don’t like to show their private sides so its understandable
CZcams recommended this for me because she knows I suck at flirting 👏🏼
I found the following problems with this video. It was still entertaining to watch. Just don't use this as a dating guide.
First of all, some girls don't like flowers. Second, I would be terrified if anyone kissed me and I didn't see it coming. Yes, these tips may work for many people, but everyone is different, so getting to know a person is really the only way to find out the best way to flirt with them. If a girl says "I hate taking care of plants" now you know not to buy her flowers.
As for playing hard to get, that can just get people to think one doesn't care, and the date is pointless. Or one will bend over backwards to impress you and then you won't see them as who they really are, just someone who does anything for you.
Essentially, if you want to know how to flirt, skip to 9:50.
I have the shortest nails. And Im totally straight. I work with toddlers and babies, and trust me, when you wipe noses and change diapers all day you dont want long nails. Both because hygiene and to avoid scratching soft baby skin.
I don't think they were implying ALL women with short nails are lesbians. More like, if the nails are long, you might wanna investigate if the person is gay. If they're short, don't assume, but yea, a warning against long nails. *Says the lesbian who constantly wears long nails. There are no hard and fast rules here. We all just make it up as we go along*
When Claudia licks her lips 😂😂 same girl😂
1:26 contemplates life
So I'm watching this in September 2020 and seeing so many people out without masks and super close to each other gives me anxiety. Damn it's really been six months since I haven't seen that...