How Many Suits I Own, Why Dressing Well Is Important, And More - Q&A 24 | Kirby Allison

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  • @augustemaquet1295
    @augustemaquet1295 Před 4 lety +32

    I like the sound of this club. Ties and socks mandatory is my kind of place. It's a shame there aren't more clubs around.

  • @jamxtube
    @jamxtube Před 5 lety +15

    Over the years, I've developed an understanding as to exactly why I am treated better in public corresponding with the way I dress and speak. These two go far to convey our attitude. When we are out in the public, we are essentially sharing space. I believe people's better treatment of me when I am well spoken and dressed to be their expression of appreciation for my having contributed something positive to this shared space.
    Having said this, I must admit, I often wear suits without socks. lol. Allow me to explain. I live in Los Angeles. We really only have two seasons; namely, fall and good weather. Fall is only three months. Wearing a tropical wool, khaki, seersucker or linen suit without socks during the other nine months just feels light and breezy and connected to the good weather. But I absolutely take Mr. Allison's point. I am not a member of any private club. Still, I would never go without socks to someone's wedding, funeral or a dinner party at someone's home. Again, I always try to contribute something positive to a shared space.

  • @richardnash1079
    @richardnash1079 Před 2 lety +3

    "How well you dress and how well you speak."
    Yes, indeed, you do speak well. I am a public speaking coach and have noticed the elegance of your speaking. Your pacing, diction, tone, volume, inflection, etc. make you a pleasure to listen to. Some time in the future you may want to share how you studied to become such a superb presenter of your ideas.
    With all best wishes,
    -Richard
    San Antonio, Texas

  • @mikesperanza6794
    @mikesperanza6794 Před 2 lety +3

    I ran across a video,”101 ways your life changes when you dress up”. It really has had a positive affect on my life! Thank you Kirby and all who produce similar videos!

  • @oldwest517
    @oldwest517 Před 5 lety +12

    Thanks for helping educate the world about proper dress. Wear socks. Please. The universe will reward you. I used to wear a suit and tie while traveling as a college student--not only did I enjoy dressing up to travel (when I was a little kid, everybody did, and I remembered that), but back in those days it was also a sure way not to get carded in airport bars and on the airplane. But I also discovered that I frequently got 1st class upgrades for free just by asking. Probably wouldn't happen today, though, since upgrades are so formalized and highly coveted. And airport bars now card me even though I'm starting to show some gray in my hair...

  • @alejandromalave6781
    @alejandromalave6781 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm really glad to find you in this platform, me and as I imagine the rest of us, see you as a guide in our elegant, cultural and gentleman path 🎩🌹

  • @AlexK-vy3tt
    @AlexK-vy3tt Před 5 lety +5

    I can't imagine to leave my house without socks. In my personal opinion, it's not some decorative element of dressing but a necessity, except for the beach or something like that. I don't speak of an extremely cold russian winter, but in summer when the weather is very hot, good silk socks make your legs feel less tired.
    And I've noticed an interesting thing about a tie. In late fall/early winter a simple tie is a good protection from cold, better then even a scarf weared without a tie. Traditional men's suite developed in centuries is above all practical.

    • @kirbyallison
      @kirbyallison  Před 5 lety +5

      Alex K You make some very interesting and thoughtful comments here. You are absolutely 100% correct that PROPER socks actually keep one cooler in the summer, even if they are over the calf. It is only when one wears poorly-knit, thick cotton socks that they become more uncomfortable in the summer. Silk socks are exceptional in the summer! As are linen socks.
      Conversely, wool or cashmere socks in the wintertime serve as an additional layer and protection against the elements (as do dress boots). Men are, above all else, practical. And there is no question that the genesis of many elements of classic style were at first pragmatic.

    • @AlexK-vy3tt
      @AlexK-vy3tt Před 5 lety

      My first education was a technologist, so I always try to ask yourself the question: why? And in your videos you always explain why you are doing this and not otherwise. I like it and it makes me think deeper.
      Unfortunately I've never weared a linen socks. I will try it if I could find it here. As for silk, it seems to me that it works like a fleece fabric or something like this. It takes a moisture away of the feet. Although, probably, on the contrary: the fleece developers found that idea of silkworms:D.
      In wintertime I use a thin socks knitted from cashmere and silk mix, because of its better durability. They keep my feet warm up to -4 F. Such frosts in winter are not uncommon. The main thing is to wear shoes with sufficiently thick soles. Some English shoemakers make classic shoes with fur lining, but they need a very long time to dry.

  • @SOLENOID4
    @SOLENOID4 Před 5 lety +6

    Thanks man for fighting to preserve the details who every man must have and use ❗

  • @DaInsano
    @DaInsano Před 5 lety +27

    I was wondering - could you maybe share some more information on the clubs you were talking about or maybe you are even planning to do a video on this topic, seeing as they appear to be an integral part of british and western culture.

    • @jeffbrogan6147
      @jeffbrogan6147 Před 5 lety +2

      Was just going to ask this question. Would be very interested to know of the clubs, especially NY

    • @russ9921
      @russ9921 Před 4 lety +4

      DaInsano There’s a good book called ‘The Gentlemen’s Clubs of London’ by Anthony Lejeune which will tell you all you need to know. There are also a couple of good Wikipedia articles under ‘Gentlemen’s Clubs’. These are exclusive places where you have to be proposed and seconded for membership and have absolutely nothing to do with nightclub type places. They keep themselves very discreet (most do not even have a nameplate on the door) and I doubt Kirby would be able to breach that discretion by doing a video on them. Most are in beautiful old buildings and some (like the Reform Club and the Travellers Club) have been used as film sets (Harry Potter and James Bond).

    • @couldntthinkofagoodnamesoi8357
      @couldntthinkofagoodnamesoi8357 Před 4 lety +6

      The first rule of Gentlemen's Club is you DO NOT talk about Gentlemen's Club

  • @davidlevin5361
    @davidlevin5361 Před 4 lety +5

    Hi Kirby, I’m retread was, but WOW, I could have use you 40 years ago when I was in sales. I always bought the best clothing and shoes I could afford. At one time I had 12 pair of Allen Edmonds that I bought at their store in Wisconsin. I always bought my clothing at Nordstrom’s. Even now, living in Mid Michigan in the woods, I just bought a custom made blue blazer and another suit jacket. I firmly believe every Man should have a $1,200.00 blue blazer. Now though I wear boots and 511 brand pants. I hope you continue to do well. Have you ever thought off having a series of videos aimed at high school seniors? Thanks for all your work. I really enjoy watching them. I pass some on to young friends of mine.

  • @kana4114
    @kana4114 Před 2 lety +1

    I often comment to my wife when I come home from even a simple trip to the grocery store that I was treated differently, in a better way, because I was in a suit and tie.

  • @mikejessable
    @mikejessable Před 5 lety +4

    Thanks Kirby, great Q&A.

  • @stevenjohnsrud4655
    @stevenjohnsrud4655 Před 5 lety +11

    You can go without socks in a suit. But you should be holding them and your shoes in your hand as you walk on the beach.

  • @hulubuku3053
    @hulubuku3053 Před 5 lety +3

    Your outfit and office look so nice in this video!

  • @markbrailsford2849
    @markbrailsford2849 Před 5 lety +3

    Love your videos Kirby this was one of my favourites. Thankyou

  • @josephespinosa6125
    @josephespinosa6125 Před 5 lety +7

    Hi Kirby, I have a question about something you said in this video. You said your first suit was a charcoal herringbone and that you suggest a charcoal or navy suit for someones first suit. My question is, as a guy looking to buy his first suit, is a charcoal birdseye to bold? I feel like the birdseye stands out a bit more than the herringbone. I really like the birdseye but want to make sure it will be as versatile. Thanks

  • @russdrummond7292
    @russdrummond7292 Před 5 lety +2

    Another great video. Thanks.

  • @MrThreescoops
    @MrThreescoops Před 4 lety +2

    That suit you have on is really beautiful.

  • @user-ub1gz8lx8c
    @user-ub1gz8lx8c Před 2 lety +1

    Great advice Kirby!

  • @lullemans72
    @lullemans72 Před 5 lety +6

    i have a new question about these clubs you mentioned in this and previous videos, kirby. what are they, how does one become a member, and what type of activities take place there?

  • @dylantran2319
    @dylantran2319 Před 5 lety +5

    Good evening, I was wondering about many of the background songs that you use in your videos. They sound fantastic, perhaps you would be kind enough to provide us, viewers, with said songs?

  • @pintthereof4598
    @pintthereof4598 Před 3 lety +1

    Any tips for dry cleaning ties? I find when I do it they come back flattened and shiny.

  • @MrJamescord
    @MrJamescord Před 5 lety +1

    Hi Kirby, why do you have an hour glass on your desk? Is it just decorative or do you use it for a special reason- like getting up from the desk to stretch or to remind yourself to drink more water? Thanks, James

  • @Philo68
    @Philo68 Před 5 lety +1

    Spare sock in the briefcase - NOTED!

  • @porkorosso7885
    @porkorosso7885 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for these great videos which I find very helpful. Can you please comment on the recent trend for slim fit jackets and trousers. Personally, I just don’t like tight fitting clothes. Thanks.

  • @mnj8311
    @mnj8311 Před 5 lety +1

    I agree that the sock-less look is unsightly. Can you talk about the clubs you belong to in NYC with a strict code? I find that there is no restaurant, no matter how fine that enforces dress code anymore (they should). I am glad to hear there are still places with standards

    • @yobolion
      @yobolion Před 5 lety

      Nick Mariano it’s ok sockless just not with a suit and tie! In summer with a linen suit perhaps! Always using no show socks!

  • @justinsong514
    @justinsong514 Před 5 lety +1

    Hey Kirby, thanks for another great video. Can you tell us how to take care of the shoe lining? I've seen many videos and posts about upper, but haven't seen any for the lining.

  • @TheGalo97
    @TheGalo97 Před 5 lety +4

    Hi Kirby, what type of suit do you think is the most appropriate for a university graduation event? I want to be dressed formal but not over the top. Thanks

    • @isaiahtrofimenko1739
      @isaiahtrofimenko1739 Před 5 lety +3

      A navy blazer with chinos, and a slim tie, perhaps? This will make you look elegant, yet not overdressed. Just my two cents. :)

    • @kirbyallison
      @kirbyallison  Před 5 lety +3

      Isaiah Trofimenko 💯 Great recommendation!

  • @boogiefrights
    @boogiefrights Před 5 lety +22

    collab with reviewbrah when?

    • @vladislav2471
      @vladislav2471 Před 5 lety

      No

    • @c.w.9615
      @c.w.9615 Před 5 lety +7

      Unfortunately, Reviewbrah does not care a single ounce about classic aesthetics (from what I can tell by my experience viewing his videos). Reviewbrah is working on a different level in which he satisfies his personal dress goals without the need to have anybody agree with his style in a historical sense or a modern sense. Kirby would have as much in common with a gutter punk as with Reviewbrah. But I do agree; a collab between these two youtube greats would be monumental!

    • @HowTheyWeep
      @HowTheyWeep Před 4 lety +3

      My excitment would be inmeasurable, and my day would be great.

    • @mdummy
      @mdummy Před 4 lety

      C. W. Damn bro, I completely agree with everything you said. I love reviewbruh.

  • @glenngray6859
    @glenngray6859 Před 5 lety +9

    Kirby what do you do for a living other than the hanger project to be able to afford these nice clothes ?

  • @SF_Curious
    @SF_Curious Před 4 lety +2

    How do you wear a suit in a hot weather in Texas? Being well dressed in hot weather is difficult. How much and often do you dry clean your suits?

    • @edwardmason119
      @edwardmason119 Před 2 lety

      I live in Austin, and often just skip the blazer and go with the rest.

  • @aaronsung6208
    @aaronsung6208 Před 5 lety +2

    Question: what shoes do you suggest for rainy city like Seattle?
    I like good leather shoes, but i really dont have extra 30 min per day to shine them. Is there any more water-resistant shoe you will recommend?

  • @DJNocturna
    @DJNocturna Před 2 lety

    Thank you ! I love your videos

  • @zoukatron
    @zoukatron Před 5 lety +1

    Given the no sock question, iI feel I have to ask: where do you stand on the topic of socks with sandals? Personally, I do wear them together (shock! horror!), but I get incredibly sweaty feet so it's a lot cleaner (I also almost never wear shorts).

    • @adrielrowley
      @adrielrowley Před 5 lety +1

      How about a woven shoe instead? Still allow air flow but wouldn't scream beach wear. Just a thought, hope helps.

  • @richardsensky3383
    @richardsensky3383 Před 4 lety

    Thank you.

  • @franklucas8262
    @franklucas8262 Před 5 lety +2

    I wear a size 5 shoe. Needless to say it is almost impossible to find quality shoes. Any advise without going full bespoke?

    • @alt5494
      @alt5494 Před 5 lety +1

      Check into Japanese brands they have several very high end brands.

    • @HeavyProfessor
      @HeavyProfessor Před 4 lety +2

      I just have to ask: How are you a size 5?

  • @CreamJockey
    @CreamJockey Před 5 lety

    Great Video!

  • @ninjadudeofficial
    @ninjadudeofficial Před 3 lety +2

    I mean last time I was in an airport it was heading to Sweden for an expedition so I had my walking boots and rucksack but I can see an appeal to at least having a shirt and blazer

  • @BaltimoreActual
    @BaltimoreActual Před 2 lety

    I wish some in formal places had better requirements for dress.

  • @richardbennett8906
    @richardbennett8906 Před 5 lety +1

    Kirby, here is the thing. I work at a cellphone store. They just switched us from polo and dress pants/shoes to a tshirt with jeans uniform.
    I still want to look nice. What kind of dress shoes go good with a black tshirt and what color Jean's compliment them? If it isnt possible, why kind of dark tennis shoe or regular shoe do you reccomend.
    #DislikeTShirtUniforms

    • @isaiahtrofimenko1739
      @isaiahtrofimenko1739 Před 5 lety +1

      Leave this job. It's not worth it.

    • @kirbyallison
      @kirbyallison  Před 5 lety +2

      I’d recommend a dark indigo pair of jeans - they dress up easily - with a dark brown pair of semi-brogue shoes. I’ve never heard of a t-shirt and jeans uniform, though!

    • @richardbennett8906
      @richardbennett8906 Před 5 lety +1

      I dont like it. Its giving me stress lol

    • @Randall1539
      @Randall1539 Před 4 lety

      @@richardbennett8906 I know this is late but if you want to look put together you could wear dark blue jeans with brown or black chelsea boots. Or maybe a chukka boot. Or black jeans with a black chelsa boot. Basically any kind of leather boot that is more casual.

    • @Methodsaimon
      @Methodsaimon Před rokem

      djeezus whats next? they gonna start dressing people in sweatpants and hoodies with logo's or prints on them?

  • @NikoBased
    @NikoBased Před 3 lety +1

    DId you originally stack your creams in order, and then realize you had to dismantle the pyramid every time you wanted to use one of them? Just curious

  • @real_fjcalabrese
    @real_fjcalabrese Před 5 lety +1

    How do we get the Sovereign Grade shoelaces if our question was used?

    • @kirbyallison
      @kirbyallison  Před 5 lety +2

      Frederick Calabrese E-mail customer service!

  • @talavb9301
    @talavb9301 Před 2 lety

    I would dress up going through the airport, but I hate the feeling of wearing dirty clothes. You sweat in airports, you pick up dirt from the seats, etc. etc. etc., it makes me want to wash everything I'm wearing when I arrive.iNow, I wash all my suits at home, so it ends up being the case that I can dress in a suit on my way *home* from vacations, but never on my way *out* of home.

  • @connorhowe2679
    @connorhowe2679 Před 3 lety

    Kirbys suit, as the gentleman would say, “fucks” 👍🏼

  • @HeavyProfessor
    @HeavyProfessor Před 4 lety +2

    I haven't worn jeans in 20 years. Hate the look.

  • @Heiligenbeil
    @Heiligenbeil Před 5 lety

    Dear Kirby, any plans of shipping to Russia? I could very well purchase some ties and garment bags from your website.

    • @kirbyallison
      @kirbyallison  Před 5 lety +1

      Julia Antonova We’d love to ship to Russia, but there are very strict and difficult import regulations that are too difficult for us to manage. Especially if when a package is seized by customs, we, and not the customer, bear the cost.
      Next time you are traveling out of the country, have us ship to your hotel!

  • @Robinom
    @Robinom Před 4 lety

    please can you tell me the name of the prints you have on your wall?thanks

    • @ttvasakis
      @ttvasakis Před 4 lety +1

      Robin Woodward those are old vanity fair ones by spy

    • @Robinom
      @Robinom Před 4 lety +1

      @@ttvasakis thankyou :)

  • @gwimmer98
    @gwimmer98 Před 4 lety +1

    I’m from Europe and I’ve been to the US twice. I would never dare to wear a suit in a restaurant, except high end ones. Imagine going to Olive Garden like this. I even felt uncomfortable in a shirt when going out.

  • @wtfpwnage
    @wtfpwnage Před 2 lety

    So... how many suits do you own?

  • @tfletcher9889
    @tfletcher9889 Před 5 lety +1

    No socks might be fine if one is wearing a linen suit, sitting at a bodega on the edge of a rain forest...but still....

    • @ianarn
      @ianarn Před 5 lety +1

      T Fletcher problem is a suit looks incredibly unbalanced without a tie! A jacket (probably Neapolitan cut) and trousers combination would suit the no tie no socks look alot better.

  • @grimlund
    @grimlund Před 4 lety +1

    Wait now. Did I gotten this straight? Are there really people out there who were suit, shoes, shirt and tie but insists having no socks on? WTF. You allways have socks on even if its 40 degrees Celsius outside. Everything else is disgusting. The only thing that you can wear without socks is probably sandals.

  • @sarichmond
    @sarichmond Před rokem

    Agree 100% on the socks. It's a little offensive. Nobody wants to see that.

  • @MikeFreesinger
    @MikeFreesinger Před 5 lety +6

    No socks?
    Not necessarily rude but definitely poor esthetics 😎

  • @60zeller
    @60zeller Před 4 lety

    To be well dressed at the airport all you have to do is not wear your sweatpants and Steelers jersey

  • @carbonado2432
    @carbonado2432 Před rokem +1

    Suits, WITHOUT socks...
    they'll show you their staged instagram pose, but they wont show you their cross legged sit down, now will they? 🙄

  • @corkboy4523
    @corkboy4523 Před 4 lety +2

    Kinda sad reflection on society that it treats people better because of what they wear!

  • @VictorNightingale1
    @VictorNightingale1 Před 2 lety

    what type of psycho wears a turtleneck with no socks??

  • @isaiahtrofimenko1739
    @isaiahtrofimenko1739 Před 5 lety

    Very nice, gentle, classical soundtrack. Wonderful! Thank you for the socks story. This ridiculous fashion should go away!

  • @Bachconcertos
    @Bachconcertos Před 2 lety

    Suits without socks looks horrible gross.

  • @totalbliss1
    @totalbliss1 Před 4 lety +1

    What if you have a really sexy pair of ankles? Is it rude then?

    • @Methodsaimon
      @Methodsaimon Před rokem

      there is no such thing as 'sexy ankles' you idiot!

  • @lawaspen
    @lawaspen Před rokem

    What working man showers at night?

  • @lukeknox2566
    @lukeknox2566 Před 2 lety

    generally speaking, any place where people treat you better for wearing a tie versus dressing more casually is not a place for me. certainly not worth the cost and discomfort to always wear a suit to gain others' favor.

  • @robertharriman7267
    @robertharriman7267 Před 3 lety

    Dressing 'well' is only important if you feel that you have to impress others. Pathetic.

    • @Methodsaimon
      @Methodsaimon Před rokem

      thats nonsense and ofcourse you can't understand that with your sweatpants and shirt with logo!

  • @jamxtube
    @jamxtube Před 5 lety +6

    Over the years, I've developed an understanding as to exactly why I am treated better in public corresponding with the way I dress and speak. These two go far to convey our attitude. When we are out in the public, we are essentially sharing space. I believe people's better treatment of me when I am well spoken and dressed to be their expression of appreciation for my having contributed something positive to this shared space.
    Having said this, I must admit, I often wear suits without socks. lol. Allow me to explain. I live in Los Angeles. We really only have two seasons; namely, fall and good weather. Fall is only three months. Wearing a tropical wool, khaki, seersucker or linen suit without socks during the other nine months just feels light and breezy and connected to the good weather. But I absolutely take Mr. Allison's point. I am not a member of any private club. Still, I would never go without socks to someone's wedding, funeral or a dinner party at someone's home. Again, I always try to contribute something positive to a shared space.

  • @jamxtube
    @jamxtube Před 5 lety

    Over the years, I've developed an understanding as to exactly why I am treated better in public corresponding with the way I dress and speak. These two go far to convey our attitude. When we are out in the public, we are essentially sharing space. I believe people's better treatment of me when I am well spoken and dressed to be their expression of appreciation for my having contributed something positive to this shared space.
    Having said this, I must admit, I often wear suits without socks. lol. Allow me to explain. I live in Los Angeles. We really only have two seasons; namely, fall and good weather. Fall is only three months. Wearing a tropical wool, khaki, seersucker or linen suit without socks during the other nine months just feels light and breezy and connected to the good weather. But I absolutely take Mr. Allison's point. I am not a member of any private club. Still, I would never go without socks to someone's wedding, funeral or a dinner party at someone's home. Again, I always try to contribute something positive to a shared space.