VLOG: Opening Up (Honest Conversation), Updated Office Tour, New Night Time Routine | Julia & Hunter
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 20. 08. 2024
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an hour of god sent footage!!! lol love yâallđ„° ALSO I GOT ENGAGED THIS WEEK!!!!đđ
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Congratulations!
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AMAZING!!!! CONGRATULATIONS
Congratulations â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
JujâŠI know that conversation wasnât easy but so glad you shared it. You never know how many people have the same thoughts and by you sharing, youâre gonna help so many who have struggled during the pandemic. Iâm 51 and recall my 30âs as a time to discover and become my authentic self, to slow down
and really understand whatâs important in life.
Super inspiring and real agreeâ€ïž
Thatâs one thing I truly appreciate from this channel, the fact that you and hunter are so real and have those conversations about things that we all have to grow through. Thank you guys for having those deep conversations that also help međ
For anyone reading this comment... the least we can do for people we LOVE following is give them love back! Even small judgements or little comments of "advice" or anything that could be taken negatively is just not necessary in my opinion.
Juj, your viewers love how real and down to earth you are. We are excited to see you and Hunt grow and evolve! We are evolving humans too (the viewers) so it is so relatable and I just appreciate your content. I couldn't imagine consuming social media without you on it.
100%
We appreciate you
I have so much respect for you two in being able to make those boundaries for yourself and not letting the haters stop you from being yourself, whether its on or off camera. â€ïž
It cant be easy to be under the microscope of social media...Thx for being vulnerable. You definitely need to keep something for you two. appreciate that you are showing us how important it is to care about your mental!
You guys channel has grown tremendously over these past few years. I remember when I first started watching you twoâŠ.Thanks for taking the time to be honest and real with usâ„ïž
You two make me so excited to be married one day. I have been following you for a year or two and you are the one channel I have kept up with in those years. For some reason, I decided to leave a comment today. Love you guys
Oh my goodness reading a book together is so fun!! You guys are adorableđ my husband reads me books now because I told him my dad use to tell me stories when I was little and when I was anxious it helped me calm down and sleep. So fun!!
Hello you guys!
I could be your mom (I have kids your age) but somehow I find your content so relatable! I know that sounds weird but I find the topics you cover and the things you do, are daily dealings everyone has. So I love to watch you guys decorate, shop, cook, visit with family, look forward to vacations, give love to your pet and just so much more! I love to hear your opinions from a young woman's perspective as well as from a young guy's perspective.
Sorry that Covid has impacted your lives in a bit of a stressful way but it seems to me you've handled those overwhelming feelings very well. I love hearing there's a new post from you guys! I'll get a cup of coffee and a blanket and just ENJOY visiting with you guys for 30 or 40 minutes or however long....love it!
Glad to hear you're all good and look forward to continuing being a viewerâ€
You guys are going through life just like everyone else. Know that we are here every step of the way evolving w you guys. Thereâs more to come, and I canât wait to see where the future takes you guys. Watching your videos inspired me in so many ways. Reading, exercising, meditating, and making our own espresso shots before the gym lol seriously! (Bought the same espresso machine) Take whatever break you need because I know the outcome is totally worth it! My fav CZcamsrss!
You two reading to each other is so sweet and wholesome đ„č
Loved your heart to heart, Julia! Finally realizing that you are the key to your own happiness is life changing! As a new mom, I was in a rut. I found myself thinking of all the things that I thought would make me happy but couldnât realize at the time that I just needed to change my mindset. Now, I wake up in the morning after a sleepless night, with a smile on my face because Iâm so grateful for another day with my baby. â€ïž
Hi juj I just wanted to say how much I love your honest conversations ! Your vlogs are so amazing and inspiring, please keep posting and donât let the hater get to you! Keep being amazing and can you please keep having honest conversations because I love them â€ïž
I also think going through major life shifts (passing of Noah, moving to TN) helps us put things into perspective and helps us realize what actually matters and is significant. Iâve seen the emotional maturity in you this past year and itâs so inspiring! Wish we could have a heart to heart I know weâd talk for hours! Xoxo đ
totally feel you on this. my largest following by far is on tiktok & when it started growing so fast I was so excited, but then the negative comments started rolling in from strangers and it took a tole on me.
my fiancĂ© & I love watching yâall for how honest & genuine you are. we are here for whatever you want & are willing to share. thanks for taking us along with you đ
Oh my goodness, Julia Iâm so super proud of you for being so smart and interpreting your feelings and finding what works for you. For us we own two of our own businesses but also have a lot of family and three children and grandbabies and so we have to constantly find the balance. Itâs always a journey. You both are doing so great and although I could be your Mama I love watching you and I love seeing your growth and wisdom and love. Keep it going and by that I mean itâs YOUR journey loves. â€ïžđâ€ïžđâ€ïžđâ€ïžđâ€ïž
22:32 I connected with you on the social media and boundaries. As I get many amazing comments, itâs hard not to âcareâ about those awful comments and it makes me question myself. I started when I was 21 and Iâm a completely different person as I became more mature & people love saying how fake my personality is đ I love that you are talking about this! Thanks julia đ
donât ever feel bad about taking time to yourselves! everybody needs a break. Iâve been loving all of your videos this year and canât wait for whatâs to come! happy valentineâs day to yâall â€ïž
I started going to F45 in June 2021 after my best friend introduced me your vlogs and it changed my life in so many ways! Iâm also self-employed and the structure of going somewhere every day & interacting with people has been amazing, not to mention the fitness improvement. Thanks for sharing! â€ïž
The fact that yâall bring us through your deepest thoughts, struggles, and triumphs is a privilege!!! Itâs not BS at all - itâs real, genuine, authentic life â€ïž reflective phases are beyond transformative! Loving the calm and intentional energy yâall are fostering and 10000% here for the phone/social media detoxes and just living your life đ„°
Iâm not gonna lie, the last few months of you guys not posting videos made me kind of sad and mad because I was so used to seeing videos all the time. But the last vlogs about social media and how we are so invested in other peoples lives has made me realize that I donât need to see what you guys are doing EVERYDAY. That I need to set boundaries for myself and realize that watching your videos is for fun and it shouldnât be something I watch everyday.
Itâs also made me realize that Iâm WAY too invested in social media and that I also need to make boundaries for myself. Thank you for doing this because we all need to take a step back and realize this is real life and it shouldnât be spent on Instagram or CZcams 24/7 but living in the moment.
Iâm looking forward to the new schedule and videos that are more raw and not as forced â€ïž
I love your marriage it is so inspiring to me as a young person. I admire how you guys do life together, and are always learning, growing, and experiencing. The imperfections are still there but thats whats so beautiful to keep transforming your relationship and to feel the growth together. I apprichate you both sharing the life you are building.
We skipping the fact that Hunter was driving an AMG G Wagon!??? đđđ
Thats what i got from this vlog too lmao
Same.
I absolutely adore you two! I love how you both share things about your marriage and your day-to-day life.
I work at F45 so this makes me so happy to hear! đAlso can totally relate to what Julia said about social media. I appreciate your authenticity! Keep setting boundaries and making amazing content
Juj, you look absolutely beautiful and glad to see youre doing well. Thank you for your honesty and transparency... have a lot of respect for you and Hunter
It honestly breaks my heart that someone can be that negative on anyoneâs videos let alone on a Juj and Hunter video. Completely boggles my mind. You both are so freaking awesome. Super grateful that youâve opened yourselves up to all of us! We love you!!! đ
Perfectly said!!!!! â€ïž
I know seriously upsetting that she's feeling this way. I really enjoy being a part of their journey and I feel like a few assholes kind of ruined it for the rest of us
TLDW, I have a 6 month old baby and donât have time to watch this one and thereâs no captions so I canât watch without the sound like I normally do.. what happened, please?
@@elihajn nothing happened just a chat about her journey online and kind of alluding to the negativity and trolling affecting her. Watch it another day nothing serious
@@deemoney6145 thank you!
You are beautiful Julia inside and out. Haters only hate because they are unhappy with their own lives and they are bitter. I love watching you and Hunter together ..and Booker is adorable. Your story time is so sweet!
JUJ so proud of you!! We would rather you put out LESS videos and be MORE happy. We have fallen in love with you and Hunter as people, and anyone that makes you feel guilty for reducing your stress and being more aligned... is projecting their own unhappiness. Keep going, you're doing AMAZING sweetie :) You all deserve the best
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I watch your life evolving ... that's a good thing -- Suggestion : J loves fabrics .. start a small project w/ pillow covers ( make combos that work through different seasons) each tells a story (& you have natural furniture to handle it ) footstools are plenty to find @ thrift stores .. Refinish/ paint & use that cool fabric cover ... Make your own designer look .....â€
Just for the record guys! You don't owe anyone anything! People come to your channel and watch your videos, because you both are genuinely awesome. Even if you post once a month I'll still be super happy to watch your videos!
Love watching your sweet pup talks with Booker - itâs like you transform into the best version of Julie Andrews and itâs truly entertaining. Best dog momđđŒđ€
Booker fresh out of the shower. The BEST! Love his personality. And you two! XOX
i love the convo about doing new projects like starting a project from scratch together!! and love yallâs âgo big or go homeâ attitude, i agree DIY projects sometimes have a âcheapâ or knock off vibe. love yâall!
This was one of my favorite vlogs! You guys are the sweetest ppl with the biggest hearts!!!đ„°â€ïž
Love you guys bunches! Juj that window in your office looks so lovely with the morning light! Might be nice to have the chairs facing the window and enjoy some vitamin D while you guys drink your morning coffee đ€
I love watching you two. You make marriage look so so amazing. I absolutely love your style of fashion and life views. Do you and keep smiling always. Xo
Love you and Hunter! Selfishly itâs amazing to share the journey with you both. At the same time, please do whatâs best for you. One thing Iâve learned is only you know what you need to reach your own happiness. Screw anyone who tries to bring you down, their negativity only reflects how they feel about themselves, nothing to do with anyone else. Sending much love and happiness âŁïž
Sometimes when I see people who have social media as their career that in itself is hard but once it starts to get deep as in talking about things that are so personal that only your family or your partner should know then you have invited thousands into your personal life. I'm happy you are aware, you've reflected and are making changes.
This episode is wonderful! You guys have such a good connection ! Wish you more and more and more love and happiness ...
The intro is so nostalgic !đ„ș Love you guys!
I hope you and hunter never stop sharing your lives with us! Been watching you for years and totally respect that you need to create more balance and pull back a bit from vlogging so frequently. Always rooting for you two. Love from DC đ€
I love how real you and Hunter are. So many CZcamsrs put on this big aesthetic, and it really makes me think more and more how unachievable that lifestyle is. I like that you guys are real and give more content than just an aesthetic
Thanks for sharing your feelings Julia! I'm in Ontario, Canada, and we are still dealing with lockdowns and closures. It's nice to hear places are open and feeling like covid is over, but there are still so many places that are in the thick of it because of governments. Sharing only so you're aware!
you two have had such a positive impact on my journey moving to nashville and i want you to know that!!! i say everyday how grateful i am for F45 and the people and memories its brought me, and its all thanks to you two :) forever grateful for that!
ps. ill never forget meeting you at the F45 party, you made me feel so heard and seen so thank you!
Protect your peace baby girl! Nothing is more important. Take your time; the faithful will be here for you when you are ready!
Ju I just love youâ„ïž! I think itâs so great that you shared how you were feeling with all of us. I think people forget that weâre all human at the end of the day even if youâre a CZcamsr. People just need to learn to be a little bit kinder and just spread more love. Youâre doing a great job so keep up the good work. Thereâs so many of us that genuinely love you for who you are and I do think weâre all a little crazy in some kind of wayđ€ and thatâs okay. Itâs okay to be different and thatâs the beauty of it all.
We love the growth đ±
Thank you for the honesty Juj. Excited to see whatâs to come for you guys this year âŁïž
When you were talking about new things, and said rock climbing, yâall should try it because I started doing it 6 months ago and itâs consumed my life. I spent so long not having a passion and it was amazing and such a great outlet and perfect way to clear your head!
I think you're amazing!!! This channel literally makes me so happy. Thank you for sharing.
Hi everyone đ i love coming here. Julia y'all l are inspiring. Even though y'all are younger than me, I plearn lots from you. Were all living & learn8ng daily. None has it100% together/ perfect. Pluss, all lives/ families are unique Thanks for having usâ€Gbyđ
Your content is amazing. Your marriage, creativity, and motivation to share your journey to find happiness & balance is refreshing! Thank you for always letting us in on your life. I usually donât comment but I watch every video and every ig story and want you to know that both of you are awesome. Sending so much love and gratitude!!
You have every right to get overwhelmed as every human would, Iâm happy you both took the breaks you needed to feel better đ„° you two are just the best and deserve the best!
Q U E E N- THIS Julia Energy is ITTTT!!! đđđŸđđ« I can feel suchhh a difference in your frequency, Gorgeous Soul (I literally felt your energy shift months ago so this also great to hear to validate my own intuitionâșïž) But babe! You are embodying full on Goddess, Do YOU, Trust YOU Vibesssss!!!! I am soul freaking happy for you!!! đ„°âš Thank you for doing the âworkâ. I see you. I feel you. I hold space for youđâš
YES!!!!!! I seriously love your comments đ„°đ They hype me UP!!! đ€©đđŒââïž
Thankful for you !!!!!!âš
@@positivepeony Aweee. Youâre the sweetest. So happy to hear you can feel the love đ„°đ«
Loving the positivity , boundaries can be really helpful and you do seem more chilled .
Love your videos! Never let anyone make you feel like you canât set boundaries or that you are wrong or selfish for doing so. I used to always feel that way and am still learning and trying to change that but it is not selfish at all to take care of yourself and put boundaries in place where you need them. You guys have a ton of support around you and are super blessed to have each other in your life! We are rooting for you guys!!!
you guys reading to each other đ©đ u guys are absolutely precious. i pray to have a marriage like this
REAL LIFE, NOT BULLSHIT! Love you both for being so honest and raw and real on your channel. We all go through what you are going through and it's so refreshing that you use your channel to talk about what is REAL in your lives. You are the GOATS of youtube, always have been but now more than ever! So proud to be a subscriber to you both
only 1 min into this video⊠literally lol and i just have to say itâs really crazy how you guys are just EVERYTHING!! every video i watch iâm like âwow they are just everything đ„°â LOL I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
I love how you guys are so open and willing to have different Conversations đ
Juj thanks for sharing how you feel! Most everyone has been thrown a curve ball with the pandemic and I know that has increased everyoneâs anxiety so keep your chin up and do what you have to be happy. I have a few ideas about your office that might help. I think the formal trim square pieces make the room feel to formal. Remove them and the room will feel more cozy. Remove the chairs ( even though I love them) and get a small 2 seat white/crĂšme sofa for the wall facing the window. I think it will make that room feel more unified! Put a large mirror above the wood piece and your done! Hope you try this!
Your offices both look so inviting and layered and cozy, beautiful!
Love yâall both!! Iâve been an avid watcher for 3+ years and I totally agree about the journey for CZcamsrs through covid. Just a suggestion: it could be great to have a routine every week. Even if itâs a vlog one day every week and a bonus video whatever other day. A routine could be really great for your mental health and also help in setting realistic expectations and boundaries!! Sending love đ
Also obsessed with your new office nook!!!
Hunters. Music. Choice for the vlogs. Thatâs the comment. Thatâs. It.
It simply deserves its own.
I understand Hunter at the end and agree đŻ
Just wanna say I stared watching your channel in the middle of 2020 and absolutely fell in love with your guys dynamic, genuine authenticity and connection to your CZcams fam. Please donât let the haters get to you too much as thereâs so many of us who love and appreciate you both. Sending gratitude and kindness from Australia xxx.
Thanks for sharing honest feelings. It makes the rest of us feel normal for also going through struggles. I am 59 and have been in a mind shift as well. It is cyclical in each stage of life. I also love Green Chef. It is the most healthy of all the services we have tried. God
Bless!
Hello my two favorites,
The two of you have shown a side on CZcams that has never existed before. You show love, compassion and togetherness in EVERYTHING you do. You show that even though there is sometimes differences within a relationship - y'all can still kick it with each-other in a room full of other NONlike-minded people and just get it. I've watched the two of you argue over sh*t that probably doesn't matter, but I've also watched the two of you giddy af in Paris. Big W.
So maybe just MAYBE, the "shit" you hate about people is the very reason you love them.
We know that you should always love humans for the things that you cannot change about them. Always love people for who they are and what they bring to the table - not who they bring and how they can serve you.
I love you SO MUCH,
Juj and Hunt.
Forever ever!!
I would loveee a video of Juliaâs updated skin care routine and talking about the treatments your getting done. Your skin is just glowingggg!! Whatever youâre doing is perfect!!! Love you guys!!
I think an antique island with storage could be useful for your office and maybe add some modern barstool for your journaling and emails plus could be used as a creative area ! You and Hunter have grown so much ⊠yâall are doing an amazing job
Julia your anxiety is because you are focussing on the idea of what you should be instead of being exactly who you are.
You got this. Remember who you are. Remember you can do whatever you want to.
I have a random recommandation, you should read about the notion of "ikigai" ! It has a lot to do with what you are talking about and struggling.
Love from Paris ! đ
When julia talks to the doggoo in her little voiceđ€Łđđđ love it
I'm dying laughing rn cause I was def thinking you guys were blowed & next thing hunter says "and we're not high you guys"đ y'all are funny đ
Juj
Thanks for sharing your story! Itâs never easy to be so vulnerable, especially on such a large platform. So happy that your happier! Itâs definitely something that most of us have to work at everyday. Itâs not easy but working on ourselves is essential. Itâs funny because you would think that since COVID we can speak much more freely about mental health but the stigma remains. Itâs a work in progress⊠but by everyone sharing their story, it helps people come out of the darkness and into the light đĄ! Thank you đ Thank you đ
Yâallâs reading time moved me to tears. Wow. I love you guys so much
Your conversation on social media: I can totally relate. People have become keyboard heroes these days and I think all of us having to stay home really made the mean comments seem louder than the kind ones. It's hard! Even as a small creator I take the few comments I get really to heart. I set boundaries this year too with my social media! Loved this convo - I'm sure a lot of people feel the same way gf!
The book reading evening is such a sweet idea for a couple to do to connect
You got this girl!!! So happy you shared with us. Love your decor ideas and shopping around town. Also. I looked forward to when you use to a week of daily vlogs every once in a while. Love ya!!!
I can not imagine what you are going through, thank you for still putting content out and taking care of yourself â€ïž
Love how your office is coming along Julia! And yeah, it takes tons of practice figuring out work life balance. Hang in there đ
Yooooo new car?! Did Julia finally get her light interior sheâs wanted đ€©
I'm soooo glad you brought your old theme song back! I just love the music on your vlogs đ¶
this booking reading together IS SO CUTE đ„°
I'm patient, because your creativity shines when take a break.
OH! I got on CZcams just in time!! About to do some skin care & kick back to this video. Much love đ
I really enjoyed the reading time! I love that you do that together!!
Absolutely love the progress of your office so far. So far my fav pieces is at number one your wood dresser, and I would love a link to it?! The sitting boucle chairs, and your little side table in between the two chairs. Love love love!
I just adore u 2. I have been watching your CZcams videos and Iâm in like 2-3 years ago and looks like life was a little simpler in Texas for you guys. You 2 have accomplished soooo much, your parents should be so proud of everything you two have done. You 2 arewsomeđđđđ
Bookers has Julia wrapped around his paw đŸ so cute! đđ
I love yâall! Please donât worry! The true fans will always support yâall â€ïžđ
distance makes the heart grow fonder! it seems like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders, we love you guys we arent going anywhere either đ€âš
The evolution Jujâs dog voice is so funny đ€Ł itâs starting to give Dracula mixed with Anna Delvey
I donât know why but it made me tear up watching you guys read together. That is so sweet and intimate and just lovely. Thereâs no one I would feel that comfortable with other than my husband and it was just so heartwarming and we are going to do it now đ„șđ€
Recommended viewing for Juj: watch Tiffanyfergâs series Internet analysis, itsâs all about social media and the effect it has on individuals and culture. we love you girl, thanks for opening up and being vulnerable đ
Great video, loved the reading time together. We have done that before and now I want to start back because it is very much a great get away from the world and you learn a lot about each other and how the other person brings their thoughts out and it can really be therapeutic. Love you guys đđ€©đ
So cute you guys reading together.Love your relationship
Julia I was dying laughing at your chat with Bookerđ the cutest thing ever!!!
We love you, thank you for sharing everything you do, it is most definitely helping others even if they donât always say it â€ïž Iâm so super glad youâre doing well âșïž