An Autistic Guy - That Library Show

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  • čas přidán 12. 05. 2024
  • Join us in the stacks for an enlightening chat with Subodh from Love on the Spectrum! We delve into his quest for love, navigating relationships, and why cultural preferences matter. Get ready for a bookish journey through romance and self-discovery!
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Komentáře • 378

  • @JJMcCullough
    @JJMcCullough Před měsícem +2860

    I enjoy how he always answers questions in full sentences. He would be a good witness in a trial.

  • @dariyank15
    @dariyank15 Před měsícem +3059

    “youre probably more successful than me” “yes”

  • @tanmaygandhii
    @tanmaygandhii Před měsícem +1670

    " if you could only eat one thing forever what would it be?"
    "DINNER"

    • @Smellyninja11
      @Smellyninja11 Před měsícem +53

      He broke the system with that answer

    • @dezmodium
      @dezmodium Před měsícem +12

      B E C O M E
      U N G O V E R N A B L E

  • @domodomu
    @domodomu Před měsícem +1541

    He wanted to change topics as soon as he realized he said september 11 2001, what a guy.

    • @kei42069
      @kei42069 Před měsícem +16

      yoooo i had to like this comment to change it because it had 911 likes...

  • @tandzakhoza1086
    @tandzakhoza1086 Před měsícem +1182

    I like how trees are so polite when no one is around

    • @teduwu
      @teduwu Před měsícem +8

      they literally make no noise when they fall 🥹

    • @JennyMH056
      @JennyMH056 Před měsícem +20

      "Look behind you".👹

    • @Oliwia-oj7rl
      @Oliwia-oj7rl Před měsícem +19

      ​@@teduwuno, they are screaming watch out behind you in case there's any human around. Trees are so polite

  • @lucrece1744
    @lucrece1744 Před měsícem +997

    “I don’t wanna die” man i hope he never dies

    • @wass800
      @wass800 Před měsícem +32

      bro ur not gonna believe this :(

    • @Smellyninja11
      @Smellyninja11 Před měsícem

      @@wass800ur lying

    • @mindgamer9627
      @mindgamer9627 Před měsícem

      @@wass800 Boooy dont do this to a man

    • @jayboo22
      @jayboo22 Před měsícem +15

      I’m from 200 years in the future. he’s still alive, ruling over the wasteland with an iron fist

    • @jamellwebster205
      @jamellwebster205 Před měsícem

      He stole my heart when he said that 💕💕💕💕

  • @Dreamy.tsu_
    @Dreamy.tsu_ Před měsícem +938

    "very indian career"💀

  • @brunohaas1803
    @brunohaas1803 Před měsícem +322

    "you have a really nice smile"
    him: "=D"

  • @mariameunome
    @mariameunome Před měsícem +490

    the problem with this show is that it's not daily

  • @nicolasvandroux6383
    @nicolasvandroux6383 Před měsícem +775

    As an autistic person , its good to see the autism topic in a positive and light way, with only few question directed to autism itself.

    • @ampsquadships9802
      @ampsquadships9802 Před měsícem

      Fr

    • @Wwillium
      @Wwillium Před měsícem

      I bet you don’t even have it lmaoooooo stop trying to be quirky.

    • @nicolasvandroux6383
      @nicolasvandroux6383 Před měsícem +9

      Oh waw stop being sour honey go to a psychiatrist you may have it yourself, in the meatime try to not be too jealous of people who are true to themselves ( weirdly i dont think you're able to do that 😘)

    • @Wwillium
      @Wwillium Před měsícem

      @@nicolasvandroux6383 babes my brother has autism. Go touch grass🫶

    • @fincle6057
      @fincle6057 Před měsícem

      I really agree !! Growing up autism in media was always portrayed so negatively so it’s nice to see this genuine conversation that parties are active in and enjoying

  • @ffobic
    @ffobic Před měsícem +306

    7:43 "happy early birthday because"

    • @blakxhart
      @blakxhart Před měsícem +50

      The smile Derek gave him was so sweet

  • @beckwilde
    @beckwilde Před měsícem +510

    6:05 what do you do to manage your stress? Have a lot of meetings about life. I LOVED that answer.

  • @finislegobatman
    @finislegobatman Před měsícem +374

    as an autistic person i was kinda sceptical at first, i dont like love on the spectrum bcs it feels like people treat us as naive little children, but i do really like the way you asked him questions about himself and not necessarily his autism:)

  • @JennyMH056
    @JennyMH056 Před měsícem +154

    I'm glad you did this. People need more awareness of autistic people. They're not dumb. Their brains are just wired differently. He's awesome.

  • @chl612
    @chl612 Před měsícem +539

    THE LIBRARY SHOW SHOULD BE MORE FAMOUS, THAT CONCEPT IS SO FUNNY

  • @grissamongi
    @grissamongi Před měsícem +248

    female cat name: ✨prince ✨

  • @inceleradicator2208
    @inceleradicator2208 Před měsícem +99

    "If you could only eat one thing forever what would it be?"
    "It would be dinner."
    BASED

  • @Yapfessional
    @Yapfessional Před měsícem +43

    The way he says no so straightforwardly when he does not want to do something is so refreshing and inspiring. I think we should all communicate& learn to receive communication like that

  • @TartPhartz
    @TartPhartz Před měsícem +90

    I like that he threw the question of what is your definition of autism back at him and I like even more that the dude didn’t try to BS him or pontificate about and just admitted he can’t define it because he’s had no extensive experience with someone autistic.

  • @mikel932
    @mikel932 Před měsícem +153

    -"I eat a lot of donuts"
    -"I eat them just once in a while"
    -"I eat them everyday"
    -"I don't, I do it once in a while"

  • @Angel-ho6sj
    @Angel-ho6sj Před měsícem +119

    "thats uh.. very indian career"

  • @aysegulismailoglu7399
    @aysegulismailoglu7399 Před měsícem +110

    23:37 the forced smile.... I can't--😭😭 bro taking happiness seriously

  • @mohammadrahman1722
    @mohammadrahman1722 Před měsícem +244

    My guy has ACOTAR tastefully facing the camera. Definitely tryna pull the booktok girls 😂

  • @twice2xice_personal
    @twice2xice_personal Před měsícem +77

    Ngl, when he said cuddling. I was like, this guy is so pure

  • @TheNerkler
    @TheNerkler Před měsícem +108

    This interview is so wholesome, I feel like we could all learn a thing or two from Subodh. Especially when it comes to dating.

  • @karthik7404
    @karthik7404 Před měsícem +51

    Egg came first because they have protein
    -Subodh (with touch of tism)

  • @mylesloan
    @mylesloan Před měsícem +35

    “the cat is dead already” 17:12

  • @princessmeow4922
    @princessmeow4922 Před měsícem +27

    12:48 sorry but the way his expression changed so quickly was soo adorable and funny. he can read peoples emotions so well!!!!

  • @tiashadas4057
    @tiashadas4057 Před měsícem +61

    I've been an American citizen for thir- "For all my life " XD

  • @silliestmica
    @silliestmica Před měsícem +178

    It feels criminal to be THIS early to a that library show vid

  • @latrellpetite5681
    @latrellpetite5681 Před měsícem +31

    "i follow the drink" me too man....me too...

  • @ibrabaskir310
    @ibrabaskir310 Před měsícem +39

    17:51 why nobody talking abut *"she is a girl named Prince..." * in supper low whisper*

  • @GauravChaudhary7307
    @GauravChaudhary7307 Před měsícem +49

    7:12 This answer was so real

  • @DaxAndKristen
    @DaxAndKristen Před měsícem +91

    "what makes you mad?"
    "lots of personal questions..."
    oh noooo, most the questions are personal questions ToT

  • @niyalleecochran4045
    @niyalleecochran4045 Před měsícem +44

    He said "ME FIRST!! I'm turning 36"😂

  • @lovepushingdaisies
    @lovepushingdaisies Před měsícem +47

    I love Derek counting A B C D E.

  • @devonnealden8310
    @devonnealden8310 Před měsícem +22

    “meetings about life” does this mean therapy LOL

  • @jacquelinegomez816
    @jacquelinegomez816 Před měsícem +75

    The ACOTAR BOOK 😂

    • @pepitomlg
      @pepitomlg Před měsícem +7

      I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LMAO

  • @rosamartinez-jl4jn
    @rosamartinez-jl4jn Před měsícem +82

    i did not expect a new video😭 at least I have something to watch while eating now lmao

  • @carmahdee
    @carmahdee Před měsícem +60

    "it would be dinner" - amazing guest and great episode!

  • @paigefili
    @paigefili Před měsícem +28

    SUBODH!!!! Love this king

  • @Link-xq1on
    @Link-xq1on Před měsícem +26

    OMG PLEASE GET JAMES FROM LOVE ON THE SPECTRUM TOO I WOULD DIE TO SEE THAT

    • @getficked2022
      @getficked2022 Před měsícem

      He wouldn’t be able to whisper James PROJECTS his voice lol 😂😂

  • @dreamygirl2026
    @dreamygirl2026 Před měsícem +50

    Even Nala from the Lion King? 😂

  • @Mai_Wael
    @Mai_Wael Před měsícem +12

    Dang what did indian girls and egypt do to him😔

    • @cassidyisawsome1423
      @cassidyisawsome1423 Před měsícem +3

      Bro i was scrolling through the comments wondering why nobody was talking about his lowkey hate for india 😭

  • @pinkcaprisun
    @pinkcaprisun Před měsícem +106

    this show is crazy random

    • @kajboonman609
      @kajboonman609 Před měsícem +1

      This guys answers were random😂no hate tho

  • @sophial6328
    @sophial6328 Před měsícem +6

    you were so understanding of him i love it 🥹

  • @parrotdoesasploot2381
    @parrotdoesasploot2381 Před měsícem +13

    He does have a nice smile, love this guy

  • @LoveHeatherette
    @LoveHeatherette Před měsícem +8

    I am so sad things didn’t work out with Rachel. What a great interview. Subodh is the best!

  • @RysuRose
    @RysuRose Před měsícem +10

    I love you Derek, I love how you always put so much effort on making your guests feel comfortable c:

  • @taahco8769
    @taahco8769 Před měsícem +8

    "Happy Birthday because" was the happiest thing I heard today

  • @jessicatu7954
    @jessicatu7954 Před měsícem +2

    the interaction is so wholesome. I love it!!!

  • @7sahez
    @7sahez Před měsícem +14

    How did he change the topic from forgetting sauce in the drive thru to how hard it is to find marriage 😭😭

  • @vinnythep4216
    @vinnythep4216 Před měsícem +9

    At first I was skeptical, but this is a very interesting conversation and he was so respectful and kind 👏👏

  • @minnasouen7460
    @minnasouen7460 Před měsícem +6

    I recently watched love on the spectrum and Subodh is my favorite! 😄 He's so full of joy. Awesome interview.

  • @prathamkukreja2635
    @prathamkukreja2635 Před měsícem +9

    12:12 Loyal and Physical! YES!

  • @caranicolestock550
    @caranicolestock550 Před měsícem +7

    I smiled a wide smile like Subodh the entire time I watched this

  • @karimrguichi3345
    @karimrguichi3345 Před měsícem +3

    Really Like the way how respectful and wholesome Subhob is :D💯

  • @nicklasr7069
    @nicklasr7069 Před měsícem +12

    i love this concept, keep being consistent and this will go far :)

  • @KomaKazi
    @KomaKazi Před měsícem +32

    “…The cat was 21.” “21!? 😳”.

  • @emily9603
    @emily9603 Před měsícem

    You are such a sweetheart and a special soul doing these library interviews. Wishing you all the best and lots of love in life ❤

  • @nastiasalli8976
    @nastiasalli8976 Před měsícem

    This is such a wholesome interview, loved it! His honesty & focus on positive things and how you reacted spontaneously to some situations & with so much empathy ❤

  • @pranathianchuri9066
    @pranathianchuri9066 Před měsícem +3

    That little smile of Derek when he said "happy early birthday because- "
    Derek is very nice

  • @Webcam5678
    @Webcam5678 Před 15 dny

    I love him so much. These answers to the questions are golden 😂❤

  • @spacerockexplorer
    @spacerockexplorer Před měsícem +1

    THIS IS SUCH A COOL SHOW THANK U YAY

  • @YFIOFtho
    @YFIOFtho Před měsícem

    I love this one so much. Subodh is awesome and so are you!

  • @_AimeeCheng_
    @_AimeeCheng_ Před měsícem +2

    TWO WORLDS I DID NOT EXPECT TO COLLIDE 🤯 How did you know we needed this 😍

  • @HarperWarwick
    @HarperWarwick Před měsícem

    Oh my gosh it’s Subodh!!!!! I loved seeing him on Love on the Spectrum

  • @Hy20219
    @Hy20219 Před měsícem +2

    OMGGG LOVED HIM ON LOVE ON THE SPECTRUM 😭😭💜💜

  • @TheJackimaru
    @TheJackimaru Před měsícem +5

    Can I just say that I look forward to your videos, and I think that your content is just different from anybody else in that it is so random but yet entertaining at the same time.
    The guests you invite on your show are so interesting and the questions/interactions you have with them are so unique.
    Cheers from Singapore and will be looking forward to all the content you put out!

  • @user-ji6wm8bn2e
    @user-ji6wm8bn2e Před měsícem +8

    i really enjoyed this one!!!! he's really smart and sweet :)

  • @aislinnhess
    @aislinnhess Před měsícem +1

    i loved him on Love on the spectrum! he’s so sweet

  • @dominicweber
    @dominicweber Před měsícem +16

    I can't lie, the lovely green of Derek's flag is his hottest attribute

  • @dambiecho
    @dambiecho Před měsícem +2

    What a lovely gent! He is a pure delight and we totally know why he is more “successful.” Good listener ✅ Honest ✅ Polite ✅ Well-traveled ✅ Respectful ✅ Has a great sense of humor ✅ Makes good choices ✅

  • @fhyeesandra
    @fhyeesandra Před měsícem +2

    we love a provider mindset man!

  • @linds1986
    @linds1986 Před měsícem +5

    I smiled this whole video. Love Subodh!!!

  • @lepoulpejaune8200
    @lepoulpejaune8200 Před měsícem

    I'm so addicted to your show.

  • @alessandrarosales7174
    @alessandrarosales7174 Před měsícem +4

    SUBODH!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🐐🐐

  • @g4bysanchez
    @g4bysanchez Před měsícem +17

    thank you for giving me something to watch while eating breakfast when i’m supposed to be in school

  • @4shurzen
    @4shurzen Před měsícem +19

    "A hand dog"😭

    • @KawyeEnPleurs
      @KawyeEnPleurs Před měsícem +1

      To be fair that's what I heard too at first and I was very confused

  • @theresekortte5450
    @theresekortte5450 Před měsícem

    favorite vid so far

  • @angeldannyso
    @angeldannyso Před měsícem +1

    His smile is so nice

  • @misseseel
    @misseseel Před 13 dny

    My faves meeting up!!

  • @MamaLH12
    @MamaLH12 Před měsícem +3

    Netflix did not do this man justice. I'm a fan

  • @simp317
    @simp317 Před měsícem

    I love how he tries to be polite throughout this interaction

  • @claybones
    @claybones Před měsícem

    Bro Derek I've watched u since probably 2016ish this is the best piece of content you've ever made

  • @trauma_t9
    @trauma_t9 Před měsícem +6

    He's adorable 🥰

  • @annagramv9893
    @annagramv9893 Před měsícem +1

    I love this guy omg

  • @Mojo2011100
    @Mojo2011100 Před měsícem

    omg Ioved him on love on the spectrum!! him and his family are so lovely

  • @user-hr6vn9hp7o
    @user-hr6vn9hp7o Před měsícem +4

    Stop I feel like he'd give the best hugs

  • @emelyrocha4713
    @emelyrocha4713 Před měsícem

    The sigh after “I haven’t cuddled in a long time” was so real

  • @SonaliShinde-zn4ti
    @SonaliShinde-zn4ti Před měsícem +1

    Derek is such a sweet person :))

  • @candi4202
    @candi4202 Před měsícem

    Loved this

  • @jacksonm4247
    @jacksonm4247 Před měsícem

    Most wholesome man I’ve seen

  • @dezmodium
    @dezmodium Před měsícem +1

    I can't not watch and like a Subodh video. My wife and I loved all the people on LotS and truly hope they all find love and happiness.

  • @user-hw9wp1nz3i
    @user-hw9wp1nz3i Před 9 dny

    This is so entertaining all of your content is the best

  • @justinaJ6
    @justinaJ6 Před měsícem +19

    i saw another indian guy, i knew this ep was gonna be a banger

  • @nictheguy
    @nictheguy Před měsícem +1

    Honestly love this guy, autistic people are so awesome!

  • @jossyj1
    @jossyj1 Před měsícem

    I really enjoyed this. I love so many people with autism. I think it’s dope that they have a dating site too. I hope he gets all the desires of his heart❤

  • @jazmyneespinosa6175
    @jazmyneespinosa6175 Před měsícem +2

    haven't had a cuddle in a long time was so real man

  • @christopherlansky
    @christopherlansky Před měsícem +7

    The fact that derek doesn't know the offspring is revolting