PAUL BRUNSON ON FINDING LOVE, RED FLAGS & WHY HE DIDN’T THINK LIV SHOULD GET BACK WITH BRAD

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  • čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
  • This week’s episode of #SoWrongItsRight is a dating masterclass from the world’s no.1 matchmaker, Paul Brunson! 💘 Paul first met Liv during a chaotic series of #CelebsGoDating 5 years ago; but now they’re here to help you on the pursuit of love and self-discovery.
    Delving into the depths of relationships, Paul sheds light on how to spot toxic behaviour in your partner, what to do if you’re dating a narcissist, his top red flags in a relationship, and how to succeed on Tinder ❤️
    Paul and Liv also chat about babies and the power of a good parent, establishing financial freedom and the importance of having a purpose in your life… plus they look back on that time where he told Liv not to get back with her now-husband Brad! 😬
    All books mentioned by Paul linked below for your reading list:
    📚 Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini PhD - amzn.eu/d/iZweApb
    📚 So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport - amzn.eu/d/9s0H11B
    📚 Pre-Suasion by Robert B. Cialdini PhD - amzn.eu/d/iq2ROFg
    📚 Find Love by Paul Brunson - amzn.eu/d/9WIQzBe
    TW: please note, Paul mentions the topic of domestic violence and how to break away from dangerous situations in this episode. Listener discretion advised. If you need more advice or help, please head to refuge.org.uk/i-need-help-now
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    Chapters
    00:00 - 01:06 - Intro
    01:07 - 05:34 - Paul’s first impression of Liv
    05:35 - 06:47 - When Liv sought Paul’s advice
    06:48 - 10:53 - Learning how to love yourself
    10:54 - 18:14 - How to spot a toxic partner
    18:15 - 21:31 - How to break away from a toxic partner
    21:32 - 23:50 - The impact you have as a parent
    23:51 - 26:16 - The reality of not having financial freedom
    26:17 - 27:30 - Having a purpose
    27:29 - 30:16 - WTFoxy Moments, listener dilemmas
    30:17 - 35:29 - The power of an introduction
    35:30 - 38:02 - Dating in the UK vs. US
    38:03 - 43:07 - Dating app do’s and don'ts
    43:08 - 52:09 - Box Of Wrong
    52:10 - 53:18 - Outro
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Komentáře • 36

  • @Babygottaeat249
    @Babygottaeat249 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Please do another episode with him. This was so important for people to hear . Love both of your perspectives

  • @Charlotte-tb3dn
    @Charlotte-tb3dn Před 2 měsíci +10

    Such an important message regarding the glamorisation of rich boyfriends. Financial independence means you always have an option and I’m so grateful I had the strength to leave a toxic relationship where he wanted to isolate me and have control. If you’re reading this and having doubts about your situation please speak to someone close to you, I wish I did sooner ❤

  • @maddieball18_
    @maddieball18_ Před 2 měsíci +14

    Loved this, need a part 2 ❤

  • @constructenglish1
    @constructenglish1 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Liv always struck me as really authentic owning her flaws. She was the most real and likeable on LI

  • @Lorglitz
    @Lorglitz Před 2 měsíci +4

    Such a good episode. Been saying that these words are thrown too easily these days.
    Guys who don’t cheer on our wins do not deserve us. That’s my biggest take from this. Having a good support system is vital when you get out of a toxic relationship ❤

  • @lauramaisey3756
    @lauramaisey3756 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Wow! I have a feeling this is going to help ALOT of people! Very special episode! Huge eye opener! My thoughts are with anyone going through tough times 💗💕

  • @gailperry455
    @gailperry455 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I’m loving this podcast Olivia is so authentic and Paul’s a great guest .. great advice .. as a foster carer he’s spot on about parenting.. it isn’t given anywhere near the significance that it should .. so many children and young adults have to suffer the consequences of bad or even below average parenting

  • @michellet6252
    @michellet6252 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I love that you now have the confidence to play big and Paul saw it all along! Great pod

  • @shannonelliott8701
    @shannonelliott8701 Před 2 měsíci +2

    So interesting. My ex is for sure a psychopath, obsessed with himself (flexed in my bedroom mirror everyday etc) and no empathy whatsoever. I lost a resident at my work and he said “so what she’s old she was gonna die at some point”. He’s totally out my life now and charged with domestic abuse but I always love getting to know more about narcissists!

  • @dannievig
    @dannievig Před měsícem

    I LOVED this episode. I listened to it twice and wrote notes! Paul is incredibly clever. I wish it didn't end!

  • @hannahsmith4531
    @hannahsmith4531 Před 2 měsíci

    Best podcast and best episode I have seen all year! ❤

  • @jacquifletcher6377
    @jacquifletcher6377 Před 2 měsíci

    This was so informative, loved the dialogue, will be buying the books, cos it’s what I do… ❤️

  • @aaliyahashworth2328
    @aaliyahashworth2328 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Another podcast which had me completely invested ❤ thank you liv🎉

  • @JellyRaindrops
    @JellyRaindrops Před 2 měsíci

    Loved this episode!

  • @minduthehindu
    @minduthehindu Před 2 měsíci +1

    Loving this ❤❤❤

  • @chontellemica
    @chontellemica Před 2 měsíci

    Great episode 👏🏻

  • @Blahblahbaba123
    @Blahblahbaba123 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love Olivia, she is such a star 🌟 great guest and subject to talk about, thank you for raising awareness ❤️

  • @louiseb6459
    @louiseb6459 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love this ❤love Paul and love that he loves some intel!! 😂❤

  • @jodiestirling5773
    @jodiestirling5773 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What a great podcast ❤... I could listen to him speak all day long💞 and he's not bad to look at either.. Love you both together please do a follow up I bet you guy's could chat on forever.

  • @SafiaMaria-cq9ym
    @SafiaMaria-cq9ym Před 2 měsíci +2

    Loved this. Sooooo good liv ❤

  • @JayaShay
    @JayaShay Před 2 měsíci

    Liv I was a watching this at 2am as was sick as a dog. Your wotsits advice creased me up - I was shaking with laughter!
    Paul is a KING why cant they all be like him? Ive been divorced now for 7 years and heck he was talking about my ex Narcissist on tap.. so informative and loved these nuggets of advice, esp the child piece, I left when my baby was 7 and she wont take any s&&t from anyone. It can be an abusive pattern and if you dont see it you just get used to that environment it was so damaging - 17 years ! But a free bird now
    I wont do the dating apps I would rather be single girl. You are AMAZING love this for you xx Keep it up honey ... you are brilliant babe

  • @emz_xo
    @emz_xo Před 2 měsíci

    Love Pauly B, He is such a legend & an absolute pleasure to listen too ❤ Please have Him back on Liv 🎉🎉🎉

  • @stung3848
    @stung3848 Před 2 měsíci +1

    He's such a lovely man! ❤

  • @kikid1121
    @kikid1121 Před 2 měsíci +2

    6 Dimensions - Carol Ryff
    1. Personal Development
    2. Positive relationships
    3. Autonomy
    4. Environmental mastery
    5. Purpose in life
    6. Self acceptance

  • @RebeccaAtkins-jo8qb
    @RebeccaAtkins-jo8qb Před 2 měsíci

    The ‘ick’ I feel is definitely sex and the city. Absolutely loving these podcasts x

  • @anndreare
    @anndreare Před 2 měsíci +1

    I heard "the ick" in Love Island season 2 , by Olivia Bowen.
    Im pretty sure it was Olivia. Go and check it out. I always scream at TV because you always say that, but I know I heard that by Liv Bow, not even her, Even before, I just know i heard it. Ick ick ick. We, in Croatia, say Bljak

  • @norcal0076
    @norcal0076 Před 2 měsíci

  • @user-hk5yt2rl9c
    @user-hk5yt2rl9c Před 2 měsíci

    awks but was using the term ick way before love island existed

  • @tinder_uk
    @tinder_uk Před 2 měsíci

    Not the Brits playing the long game 👀

  • @CatherineAKennedy
    @CatherineAKennedy Před 2 měsíci

    don't wear glasses that you have to keep putting back in place

  • @felipegerlach3954
    @felipegerlach3954 Před měsícem

    promo sm

  • @poppyanne317
    @poppyanne317 Před 2 měsíci

    This is one of the best podcasts I’ve ever watched! ♥️🫶🏼♥️

  • @anndreare
    @anndreare Před 2 měsíci

    I heard "the ick" in Love Island season 2 , by Olivia Bowen.
    Im pretty sure it was Olivia. Go and check it out. I always scream at TV because you always say that, but I know I heard that by Liv Bow, not even her, Even before, I just know i heard it. Ick ick ick. We, in Croatia, say Bljak