When I was living in India there was an ad in the paper for a gay suitor. This lady was trying to find her gay son a match. I thought it was cute, mix of old and new.
Salute to this dad, he not only stole the show but also he changed the mind of many people in this world. If parents become so supportive like him, then no children will be scared of anything. Changes are happening slowly but atleast it is happening.
You can see it right now what will happen to India or other countries if all these things keep on going like this... Just search it about the City of Pompeii on CZcams... BRIGHT FUTURE AHEAD
No definitely not happening in India.. we show from outside we aree different.. but I we are honor killing, dowry and many other stuffs.. definitely if this happens in small village in India... may be sun may not rise for them..
@@mission-e-muhammad Lol you homphobes justify your hate as if the world's gonna end tomorrow despite the fact that everyone know that they are a minority
@@mission-e-muhammad lolđ€Łđ€Ł Comment krne se phele movie dekhkr aaya tha kya???? I bet you're the kind of person who would say that corona virus came to wipe humans of their sins and bring us closer to godđ€Łđ€Ł
@@ddc_3337 jo apne peda karne wale ka na ho closer to GOD people py hasty ho ye gay hone ko promote karengy jo apne Khudda k na ho saky .... jis ne peda kia Us Khudda k hukmo py nahi chalty close Khudda k nahui hue to kisu insan k kia hogy...
Gay from a Jain community.... and they accepted him. Definitely he left India behind and made himself a good father. Appreciate your courage to accept the truth and live with it.
*"Do I love my son any less at **4:31** than **4:24**??"* -this uncle deserves to be one of the best father in the world,but it wouldn't be possible in India...
Why do u have to always take india in between this won't be possible in india who told u and what do u mean by that ,what a waste every father is best to their own child and your comment is a total meaningless and what do u mean a father in other country can e recognised as the best father but in india he will not be recognized as so cuz he is in india ,which country does that u need some serious checkups
I'm not indian so I want to ask a few things and learn. Why is caste so important in india? What are the caste rules like what caste marries which caste? How is this decided cause I heard that you can tell castes apart from surnames so which surname is common with which caste? Sorry if there are too many questions but I've always wondered this
@@elithluxe7568 See in India basically castes have evolved from ancient time basically because of our work for eg: A barber belongs to the Mangala caste A pandit belongs to the Brahmin caste A pot maker is kumara caste A family that maintains cows belongs to Yadav's A goldsmith man belongs to chary. basically, in the olden days, it is important to bring women from the same caste because suppose a pot maker husband is married to goldsmith wife then she doesn't know how to mix clay and they both are not related to their work and wife cant help his husband in his work. But as time changes everyone is doing work based on their skills but not castes. But our parent brain stuck over there where they still give importance to caste. If I speak about surnames it is a different story because in each caste there are 1000s of surnames. basically, surname distinguishes people as a set of the family for eg north Indian brahmins got Joshi as a surname but in the south like sastry like different families got different surnames. but surnames are not a big deal we can marry a person with any surname except ours within the caste. hope this is helpful
@@elithluxe7568 caste system was made very long time ago, based on the work people do. Like kings, priests, Goldsmiths, potters etc... Within those sects there are several sub sects. Now a days all works or jobs are open to all castes, it's with your efficiency or talent you can choose your job not based on caste. But still most of the marriages are arranged, parents pick the partners for their kids, usually from the same caste, because they follow same kind of faiths ,beliefs, rules or lifestyles. Another problem is when selecting a partner parents also prefer from the equal or above financial status to have a secured life.
@@subhashakula1018 interesting. Are certain castes seen as the best/better than others? I imagine those people with the so called higher better caste would be the ones concerned about caste right?
I am Gay , we are poor , I work hard doing body massage and teaching yoga . What ever u earn in a day I give to my mother . My education I have done BA MA in philosophy and specialised study in yoga buy no job opportunity . God has been kind to me . When I think about love ... Soon my tears roll down . The day I cannot give anything any home , I am called with names and words that hurt a lot . Life is very difficult to me . I pray for these two partners and bless them . May be one day i also will be loved .
Ik our society is way too conservative. And people who call you names are ignorant. I also don't tell my parents many things which aren't 'normal' for them because they mock me and don't take me seriously. If I act serious they get angry. Just don't care what others think. Be confident, then people wouldn't bother you much once you make the message clear. But since I am not in your position, I can only give you sympathy. Just don't give up, you will find happiness.
Heeeey we are in this together Keep going but at a point one day just think of yourself ,maybe leave for a while Sometimes we need to leave for our loved ones to actually notice our value
I think world is changing now ... And this is the time when people like him are coming forward for help on such matters.. I don't know why your clock is so opposite đ
You should say that you're glad that people like him exist now. Can you imagine this happening 50 years ago? Our society is more accepting now that it even has been.
@Chaudhry Vikrant ror that's still a very different thing... In whites there r many ethnicities n origins like Italian german french etc and indians mostly r of same genetic race or group so caste system is a very stupid concept
@Pakistani item caste system is prevalent in all the Indian religions so don't mix caste with religion and I am also Sikh and I have seen caste based discrimination in our community too
Ishwarpal Kaur well said!!! Thatâs the reason I never use my last name. I only go by singh or Kaur.. I refused to be defined by cast. My other family uses their last names. I also have inter cast arrange marriage..
Good to know that it melted your heart anshul. Btw i knw you and i m from your school dps bokaro abd same class.đ CZcams itta bada hoke bhi itta chota hai.
@@hitarthvora3765 Yeah but sometimes they come with a stick and stones and beat you to death. I would just say run away as far as you can and never come back.
don't say that he accepted them because he is well educated, my classmates are so homophobic and they are educated too. It depends on how understanding you are.
Yeah.... And Education and Academics is different. Those "educated" Homophobics don't have moral education...and being in 21st century... People should be more open minded.... But, it's keep going down because of the religious beliefs..... And narrow minded society thoughts. Apart from religion....apart from god and stuff..... We are humans... We only living once.. That's what homophobics tend to ignore
Educated meaning in feelings and emotions. My brother told me he was Bi and at fist I was shocked but literally 10 seconds later I was like "oh okay, and....." Then it was his turn to be shocked. He's like "that's it?!? You're not going to tell me I'm wrong or change me" and I was like "if I could change anything, it's to get a nicer brother cuz you're bipolar and I don't know how to deal with you. But you're my brother and that annoys me more. I can't stand you, but I also know that I will let no one will hurt you as long as I'm with you. I'm your older sister, from the moment you were born I knew I would protect you. Its my job" And he was like "thanks.....im afraid of telling my parents, I'll do it when I move out" I told him "prepare to be disappointed if you want drama or think it'll be a big deal. You're still family. You always will be. Do it when you want" If he would of told anyone else I think he would of been outed that day but he told me instead.
This guy is not just educated.. he admits the fact that being gay is not a disease and he chose his son over the conservative people.. A gem of a human being..
Yeah it's easy to break these stereotypes when they're not living in india. Here I have our chacha phufa tau bhatija living along with us so I can't come out to b gay so easily đ
If love is love..and what you started feeling out of influence is so important then i think a brother dating sister or a father dating a daughter are also normal right????. Why not afterall love is love as what this vedio says...an intimacy between brother and sister should also be normalised...Give it a thought. ?sisters dating each other , brothers dating each other is never seen just because they haven't made to feel like this for each other since childhood. That proves you can be made to feel anything by your surroundings. So, going for something only on the basis of feelings is not right. Actual reason for prohibition of Dating between blood siblings has scientific reeason and also it makes us mentally sick.Just imagine what will happen when two brothers will start to be intimate with each other. What kind of society it will be. Its just sick mentality out of social influence. Don't get trapped in it. Feelings can be anything..thoughts can be anything..there are no limits ..that does not mean that you will leave boundaries. Atleast honestly once question yourself..is this truth and it came from inside or i just have influence of bad and mentally sick company. Love is love within set boundaries. You shouldnt cross that boundaries. Otherwise the day is not far away that brother sister and father daughter will start having intimate feelings for each other. This is very sick at the same time fearful view of coming generations and society. Please give it thought. The day is not far that humans will crossbreed with other species as well on tbe name of feelings. Everything must have boundary. And that has already set. If you are feeling something abnormal anusual once question your campany..what peoples you are surrounding with..what you watch on youtube..and may be that its just unconciously sown in your brain from out side, And you started looking it as your own feelings.I never heard that in small villageor town two gay married each other. Why? Why majority gay's are rich?what is connection between being rich and being gay. We need to think about it.Give it a thought with honesty. Gay -a man who can marry women very normally but prefers to marry a man(with same gender) on the basis of only feelings.
@@kO_EC dude if you don't understand what people write please don't comment. I didn't say mine or anyone else's father is illogical in general. But when it comes to their kids' life partner most indian parents are conservative, and their reasoning doesn't seem logical to me. And I have a great relationship with my dad so we can argue and debate and I can openly tell my father "i think your reasoning lacks logic" and he will be fine with it. You are probably one of those guys who listens to every word your father says. If he says sit, you sit. If he says stand you stand. Develop a spine if that's the case.
@@shroendeshmukh5063 Lmao conservatism has a flaw in it and it is that change is inevitable. You can just delay the change but not avoid it, and that is exactly what conservatives try to do. Yes it is good to preserve some traditions but some other traditions which are bad need to be gone. That's it
I freaking cried....My nephew is gay, both his Mom and Dad have passed away, he lived with his aunt and grandma, I am a Fujoshi and he felt that he could confide in me and so whenever he have struggles I was there to share the burden but I know, I do not levitate any of his burden. I just wish when he come out, our relatives take it easy on him...
When I'll adopt a sweet girl (since I'm trans) I'll teach her every aspect of life and let her live. Edit: By being trans, I meant I'd prefer to adopt a child even though ik I can get pregnant (as a transman) and mostly trans folks adopt. Adoption is what I meant. And omg thanks! Everyone here is so supportive. I wish all of you make the majority of our country to cut that transphobia through the roots!!!
@@hkpasubscribe it's not legal here yet. But I know a lot of gay couples who are living together and some of them even live with their in-laws. Just cause it's not on paper doesn't mean Indians are not doing it. If you support gay marriages you can come forward and show the people. I am sure LGBTQ community in India will appreciate it.
If this was in my case, my parents would bury me immediately.. Those 2 are really lucky to have such intellect parents in their life.. Wanted to hear more for mankind..
Dwan Sangma I think most gay people accept them selves for who they are, its the family acceptance thatâs hard and brings depression.. once your family accepts you then itâs much easier..
@abdullah azeem sure, ezhatt can bring some happiness but it's not everything. For ex, I'll be happier to stay with my friends even if my teacher starts insulting me at the cost of my friends.
@Carl Johnson the people you replied to aren't muslim tho. it doesn't matter what religion people belong to. Don't mention in it for no reason in a stupid CZcams comment.
It's not about supporting gay or straight When Dad is speaking about his son love affection emotion tears started rolling from my eyes Respect to you sir wish you loads of luck health and wealth
To all the hate comments: 1.lets not judge a situation we have never been in. 2.let's not hate things, just because we don't understand them. Peace out....
@@harshavarthan6360 lmao. he didn't break emotions at all...You see hate comment when there's no hate comment here and you see emotional outburst in his statement lol...You must be one huuuuge snowflake
We have to admit the fact that this probably happened in US amid a high income group. India is still a long way from this and adds to the burden if you are middle or the lower classes. Long way to go here.
@@IRGhost0 what are you even understanding? I didn't say like that. High income group stay in their rich societies which are more progressive and modernized. Middle and lower stay in a traditional society and despite whatever your education, you will always be under fire for things like homosexuality.
@@priyachoudhary9896 When you are middle or lower class in India, there will be more connections with the traditional society including the relatives. Everyone will have a say on your life. I meant only that. It's not connected to the class in yhe US, of course.
Fr brother I'm 23 and i don't think having kids is gonna be a good idea anymore, the world just gets weirder with every single passing day! I'm old school and i don't dig any of these new values!! Respect to the ones keeping up but I'm out on this one!
@XROM GAMING Even highly qualified doctors, nobel prize winning scientists or engineers can be prejudiced. They are in no way ignorant. Somebody can be both but not everyone is.
I think parents can make the most difference in someone's life. And when that effect is SO positive, there's no stopping you. You will overcome everything, go anywhere, be anything..
It has nothing to do about open mind. It's the most ignorant action which happened in the time of prophet Lut. May God protect us. I will never support them. But I wont have any hate for them as human .
377 is also legal in india but still there are homophobes here saying "woh toh chakka hai" youtubers still making fun in the name of "entertainment" You wanna make a change in your surroundings don't watch those roast these CZcamsrs tell that "a boy making tiktok is gay" there are still many people who are against homosexuals till now you wanna make a change speak up in your own country let's do it guys
This mentality has been around for a long time, it is changing , slow but it is happening. Let us take this responsibility and make this country better than ever
Education is nothing to do with accepting one's sexuality. There are scores of examples where "well" educated would scorn for being gay. Do you think 50%, his dad was talking about were uneducated?
You do not need education to love your child.. If an uneducated man asks himself that does he love him less at 4:31 than he did at 4:25...He will start seeing things differently... So that question to oneself is required...
IT IS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT EDUCATION . LET ME GIVE YOU MY EXAMPLE I AM A STRAIGHT BUT ONE DAY I FELT WHAT IF I WERE A LESBIAN . IF MY MOTHER WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED ME IN THAT CONDITION SO I ASKED HER THAT MUMMY IF I WERE LESBIAN YOU WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED ME OR NOT AND SHE SAID OFFCOURSE YOU ARE MY CHILD AND I WILL LOVE YOU IN ANY FORM LET ME INFORM YOU SHE IS STUDIED ONLY TILL 10TH BECAUSE FAMILY WAS CONSERVATIVE. I BELEIVE IT IS TOTALLY DEPEND ON WAY HOW A INDIVIDUAL THINGS.
@TheAnonymousCat anon I didn't meant to be sarcastic buddy. And your emojis itself shows your mentality. What's your problem with people living happily?
@@bn1193 There is nothing bad in the Quran. It's the speech of Allaah. Its Uncreated. You just have to approach it with a neutral mind and read the Quranic interpretations based on how the first three generations interpreted it. Otherwise a person will not be able to grasp the underlying wisdoms. It's a preserved Book. Has remained unaltered since the dawn of it's revelation.
@@vibgyor9239 yes. A careful study of its literary construction, news of the future events, the wisdom, use of simple and complex similitudes will lead you to believe that this is the speech of Allaah- uncreated.
bisexuals were mentioned in mahabharat tooo so if someone says that this is a western concept give him a glass of strong lemonade so that his hangover can come down
@@sanchita5925 bro even the person who brought goddess Ganga on earth was born from two lesbians his name is bhagrat .(his name means bhag ,bcz two women were in relation so half body was born from one and half from other ) See our culture accept all these from ancient time ..
People are saying they have seen gay weddings of Indians on CZcams. One question, have you seen it in real life? And one or two weddings doesn't mean that all Indians are accepting this. In our college an assistant prof. is gay and I know how badly students tease him daily by saying bad words.
@@abhighosh3085 Do this $hit in Saudi, Qatar, UAE... U will be freakin stonedto death..... As a hardcore Rightwinger i appreciate and respect personal life of people... Especially LGBT.....
To all the people in the comments saying itâs great for him to accept his son as a gay , just know that you ARE supposed to accept it . Some people are ofcourse not exposed to stuff like this enough so itâs only normal to feel weird at the beginning. But to be able to accept them as a person is only humane and nothing extraordinary . We are just here to witness the process of him accepting it . Appreciate him for admitting to his wrong thoughts instead , bcz homophobes generally arenât ready to accept that theyâre one
Yes, you're so right. I agree with you. Parents are supposed to accept their child irrespective of his/her sexuality, or any other basis for that matter. They should accept the children as they are, they are supposed to as you said. I strongly believe in this, because belonging to an Indian family, there are a lot of things which your parents are supposed to accept about you, but they Don't. That upsets me a lot, but it won't make me change, the kind of person I am today, I'll always try to improve and learn. Thank you so much for addressing this. And there are a lot of things, which I learnt after becoming an Army, I see that you can relate too~ Army and Bangtan forever~~~đâš
@@ray_hansika exactly . There are a lot of things still considered taboo in Indian households and I believe itâll change someday. I just feel a bit sad itâs not going to be in this generation . And yes we should try to learn as much as possible and go through it together . Armyyyđ
My husband and I just got married yesterday! This melts my heart. Our families arenât supportive and thatâs okay. Family is so much more than blood.
Just because heterosexuals donât understand itâŠ. doesnât mean homosexuals should not exist. Itâs perfectly within the order of nature Hare Krishna đ
This made me tear up, it was so sweet! Heâs a great father for realizing that his love for his child was greater than any negative feelings he had. It takes a lot of introspection and courage to let go of old beliefs and be accepting. I hope he always maintains a strong bond with his son â€ïž
I have a gay daughter and it never bothered me for one second when she came out she knew that me and her dad and all the family loved her and would protect her from any bias people they are nothing in our lives
@Ravi Singh see I know about how supportive Indians were before colonial era but I think the comment is about today's India which is yet homophobic, atleast majority
I am gay and my mom accept me đ And I said them clearly i would be a single father if I dont find any life partner but I will not marry a girl and will not destroy both lives đ
And my heart grew three sizes today. This is so sweet, to have someone be so self aware and so empathetic and loving towards their children is unfortunately so rare to see in the media. This is what it's like to be a good parent - you learn from your own mistakes and you embrace your child for who they are so long as they are happy, healthy and loving to you the same as you are to them.
fuck off those 5.1 k dislikes...i think everybody should listen to this father's words...wonder why gender is an issue at all...be it man or woman or gay or whatever, atlast we are all humans who will one day die ..so try to love everyone irrespective of gender, caste, creed, color ,shape nd whatelse..
This just made me cry. The only thing you wish from your parents is to be accepted. This man was so quick in reflection and decision. I'm so proud of him and so happy for his son. In the end, not accepting your child has only to do with ones own limitation.
I can see and feel the sadness from his parents specially his mom , but whatsever great job for his parents. They did really good job love their child no matter what. Happy for u guys
He is such an amazing man, proud of him! We need more people like this.... It's never about education, nor about age, it's only about the attitude of how one perceives a thing. I'm glad we have fathers like this!
Just wowwww... Parents like this are blessing, children already suffer a lot when they are different from the society norms, and when your parents doesn't support you in such conditions. It becomes a horrifying experience, sometimes deadly. A big heart to this great father â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
The need of Adding Jain to the title can only be understood by jains.. our community is very much conservative when it comes to marriage and this is actually a very BIG thing that your father showed so much compassion and love. MUCH LOVE TO YOU
No one in India understands it.Many ones talk like gentlemen but trust me they are almost homophobic for their family,Friends etc.You are the gem uncle.Much respect for youđđ
Apart from the emotions put together in the speech, the choice of words and some of the lines were just too amazing !!! "Do I love my son any less at @ than @??"- this line has my heart
Iâm not sure if I consider it a choice.. I had very good friend of mine who was gay, it was 90âs and 2000âs USA... he was beaten so badly after class by few of his classmates because he was gay. I remember he said to me was â if this was a choice I wonât choose this for myself.. I canât help who I am and how I feel...â
Ahaha iam joining college my mom already warned me not to fall in love u know what I did ?I looked deep into her eyes and said mamma if I ever love a guy I will introduce to u first..she understood me đ anyways ! Hamara wala college ke baad aayega
Thanks to gay guys for less competitions for finding myself a beuatiful desi girl. Jokes apart...it's time to walk and talk and be supportive of lgbt people. It's 2020 for God's sake.
This is the 21st century where LGBTQ along with the regular hetero relationships need to be accepted in our societies. Most important is the love and respect we have for each other. Salute to all parents especially Indian parents who have to open up to such situations especially as we're from various cultural, religious backgrounds. Non judgemental acceptance is the key, especially of our very own.
Right but I saw many LGBT relationships cheating on each other Is that love I respected them I donno whether I was living with local minded people or global minded people I respect everyone at the end But don't cheat your partners Have a great life and great celebrations of love
@@ramprasadrocky787 Honestly, this stems from the fact that LGBT people are outgoing with their sexuality, so they do not value sex as something as intimate as others do. This can be a statistic, however I know friends who have cheated and they were heterosexual as any. Thing is, most heterosexual people take sex way too seriously, and hence they have certain impressions (read: regressive) baked in their minds. Of course sex isn't something one should be having with anyone you can find, but honestly, once you start meeting people, you do get attracted to more than one person. It is pretty rare to be in love with only one person and never have emotions for anyone else romantically. One can, yes, and I praise them for that, but at the end of the day, sex is subjective. Find a like minded partner, is what I can say.
This Indian dad is such an exception. People of his generation generally are not open-minded and have no empathy. He had the courage to think about reality and challenge those discriminatory beliefs he grew up with. He showed character growth at his age. It's not common at all. Many others do not understand that being different is not a "problem" that needs fixing.
Accepting is one thing but to admit that your are wrong in a large crowd?
Man, I wished I have that dignity.
99% ally have a similar story to say.. including me
@TheAnonymousCat anon tf you talking about?
@TheAnonymousCat anonyou prove that what is the problem with india???
TheAnonymousCat anon UMMM ARE YOU HIGH OR SUMN COZ- đđđ
@TheAnonymousCat anon ??
This person climbed a mountain for his child. Much respect. Pranam.
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His Father is not a real man because he didn't brought up his son like a real MAN
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Yeah
"Dad and mom I'm gay."
Savage dads be like.
"Hi gay! I'm dad. "
Kaash...
@@aestheticgirl5018 haha girl reality hurts??
"Dad I'm serious"
"No,you're gay"
@@Blue_1208 buttt dad I know I am gay
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@@Blue_1208 noo I don't have any fake female account, h3 send m3 dirty messages thinking that's you because he send this on your account
When I was living in India there was an ad in the paper for a gay suitor. This lady was trying to find her gay son a match. I thought it was cute, mix of old and new.
Aww
That is literally so sweet. Hope she didn't get harassed for that...
Haha, for her the gender may have changed, but the goal was the same, get her child married.
But she still had a caste preference, kinda sad how people can progress but still stay the same
So do you now live in Bangladesh?
Notice how the father even remembered the time and date of his coming out. đ„ș
That's Indian parents for you đđ
They even remember what mark you failed your exam, and what time they beat your ass when you failed said exam.
Welcome to india . Here people remeber the last time you farted
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"Do I love my son any less at 4:31 than I loved him at 4:24?" Honestly, this got me
Mhm, that shit hit deep.
Yeah true
That's called self realization and that father has 100% of it
Yeah
I don't get that
Can anyone explain
Salute to this dad, he not only stole the show but also he changed the mind of many people in this world. If parents become so supportive like him, then no children will be scared of anything. Changes are happening slowly but atleast it is happening.
You can see it right now what will happen to India or other countries if all these things keep on going like this... Just search it about the City of Pompeii on CZcams... BRIGHT FUTURE AHEAD
No definitely not happening in India.. we show from outside we aree different.. but I we are honor killing, dowry and many other stuffs.. definitely if this happens in small village in India... may be sun may not rise for them..
@@mission-e-muhammad Lol you homphobes justify your hate as if the world's gonna end tomorrow despite the fact that everyone know that they are a minority
@@mission-e-muhammad lolđ€Łđ€Ł
Comment krne se phele movie dekhkr aaya tha kya????
I bet you're the kind of person who would say that corona virus came to wipe humans of their sins and bring us closer to godđ€Łđ€Ł
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jo apne peda karne wale ka na ho closer to GOD people py hasty ho ye gay hone ko promote karengy jo apne Khudda k na ho saky ....
jis ne peda kia Us Khudda k hukmo py nahi chalty close Khudda k nahui hue to kisu insan k kia hogy...
Gay from a Jain community.... and they accepted him. Definitely he left India behind and made himself a good father. Appreciate your courage to accept the truth and live with it.
Please don't defame the whole country on the basis of whatever is in your mind, there are always bad and good people everywhere.
He is broad minded because he is born in India. Stupid people are like you who always defames our religion and country in every matter.
wow! I am not homophobic but being that doesn't make me a good person.........loving my country does because then I love every1.....u r a hater....l
What a nonsenicially framed sentence
@dev gana m sure even u have never been to India....u blind stooge....tum jaise zehrile hi desho ko tabah kr dete h
*"Do I love my son any less at **4:31** than **4:24**??"* -this uncle deserves to be one of the best father in the world,but it wouldn't be possible in India...
I didn't get that
Meaning of that?
What?
@@basharjamal580 thank you
Why do u have to always take india in between this won't be possible in india who told u and what do u mean by that ,what a waste every father is best to their own child and your comment is a total meaningless and what do u mean a father in other country can e recognised as the best father but in india he will not be recognized as so cuz he is in india ,which country does that u need some serious checkups
My parents not accepting a girl only because of different caste. You are such a great dad u have true soul
I'm not indian so I want to ask a few things and learn. Why is caste so important in india? What are the caste rules like what caste marries which caste? How is this decided cause I heard that you can tell castes apart from surnames so which surname is common with which caste?
Sorry if there are too many questions but I've always wondered this
@@elithluxe7568 See in India basically castes have evolved from ancient time basically because of our work
for eg: A barber belongs to the Mangala caste
A pandit belongs to the Brahmin caste
A pot maker is kumara caste
A family that maintains cows belongs to Yadav's
A goldsmith man belongs to chary.
basically, in the olden days, it is important to bring women from the same caste because suppose a pot maker husband is married to goldsmith wife then she doesn't know how to mix clay and they both are not related to their work and wife cant help his husband in his work.
But as time changes everyone is doing work based on their skills but not castes. But our parent brain stuck over there where they still give importance to caste.
If I speak about surnames it is a different story because in each caste there are 1000s of surnames. basically, surname distinguishes people as a set of the family for eg north Indian brahmins got Joshi as a surname but in the south like sastry like different families got different surnames.
but surnames are not a big deal we can marry a person with any surname except ours within the caste.
hope this is helpful
whats the girlsâ faith?
@@elithluxe7568 caste system was made very long time ago, based on the work people do. Like kings, priests, Goldsmiths, potters etc... Within those sects there are several sub sects. Now a days all works or jobs are open to all castes, it's with your efficiency or talent you can choose your job not based on caste. But still most of the marriages are arranged, parents pick the partners for their kids, usually from the same caste, because they follow same kind of faiths ,beliefs, rules or lifestyles.
Another problem is when selecting a partner parents also prefer from the equal or above financial status to have a secured life.
@@subhashakula1018 interesting. Are certain castes seen as the best/better than others? I imagine those people with the so called higher better caste would be the ones concerned about caste right?
I am Gay , we are poor , I work hard doing body massage and teaching yoga . What ever u earn in a day I give to my mother . My education I have done BA MA in philosophy and specialised study in yoga buy no job opportunity . God has been kind to me . When I think about love ... Soon my tears roll down . The day I cannot give anything any home , I am called with names and words that hurt a lot . Life is very difficult to me . I pray for these two partners and bless them . May be one day i also will be loved .
Ik our society is way too conservative. And people who call you names are ignorant. I also don't tell my parents many things which aren't 'normal' for them because they mock me and don't take me seriously. If I act serious they get angry. Just don't care what others think. Be confident, then people wouldn't bother you much once you make the message clear. But since I am not in your position, I can only give you sympathy. Just don't give up, you will find happiness.
I am also gay. Sending lots a love to you. You are not alone đ
@@Nirmal950 thankyou my Nirmal
I pray that the day will come for you to meet someone and experience true love
Heeeey we are in this together
Keep going but at a point one day just think of yourself ,maybe leave for a while
Sometimes we need to leave for our loved ones to actually notice our value
I'm glad that people like him still exist. To whom a person's feeling matters more than his hold in the society.
What do you mean 'still' exist?
Still???
I think world is changing now ... And this is the time when people like him are coming forward for help on such matters..
I don't know why your clock is so opposite đ
Punk Nina đ
You should say that you're glad that people like him exist now. Can you imagine this happening 50 years ago? Our society is more accepting now that it even has been.
& here we are...still struggling with intercaste marriages in India.
@Pakistani item and that is only in Punjab
@Chaudhry Vikrant ror that's still a very different thing... In whites there r many ethnicities n origins like Italian german french etc and indians mostly r of same genetic race or group so caste system is a very stupid concept
@Pakistani item caste system is prevalent in all the Indian religions so don't mix caste with religion and I am also Sikh and I have seen caste based discrimination in our community too
Ishwarpal Kaur well said!!! Thatâs the reason I never use my last name. I only go by singh or Kaur.. I refused to be defined by cast. My other family uses their last names. I also have inter cast arrange marriage..
@@ishwarpalkaur2021 Sahi bole paaji.
"Do I love my son any less at 4 : 31 than I did at 4 : 24?" Man that line melted my heart.
Ikrrrr
I wish we could always provide the LBGTQ community in india to have a bigger AND SAFER platform!
No child should be scared to come out!
Good to know that it melted your heart anshul.
Btw i knw you and i m from your school dps bokaro abd same class.đ
CZcams itta bada hoke bhi itta chota hai.
@@aashutoshraj2751 wtf who are youđđđ
@@aashutoshraj2751 kolkata???
i thought these were time stamps đ€Ł
And here I'm struggling to marry my love who is from a different caste :(
that's so sad I hope you guys can be together soon!
I hope you guys will be together , my relationship broke off because of different caste .
Even if ur family doesnât accept it rn. They love u. Marry without permission and then their love for u will force them to accept it
@@hitarthvora3765 Yeah but sometimes they come with a stick and stones and beat you to death. I would just say run away as far as you can and never come back.
@@excite236 yea honour killing and whatnot life is hard u make ur decisions
This father is a true dad. Respect. Hope one day all parents will be like him.
Yea i hope soo ... they r same as us they have to be happy in there own way like us so let's support them
Oh come on , this old man is a fool.
@TheAnonymousCat anon you just prove your worthiness as a citizen of india in its development.
@TheAnonymousCat anon you are homophobic that's it
@TheAnonymousCat anon guided him for what
don't say that he accepted them because he is well educated, my classmates are so homophobic and they are educated too. It depends on how understanding you are.
Yeah.... And Education and Academics is different. Those "educated" Homophobics don't have moral education...and being in 21st century... People should be more open minded.... But, it's keep going down because of the religious beliefs..... And narrow minded society thoughts.
Apart from religion....apart from god and stuff..... We are humans...
We only living once..
That's what homophobics tend to ignore
Educated meaning in feelings and emotions. My brother told me he was Bi and at fist I was shocked but literally 10 seconds later I was like "oh okay, and....."
Then it was his turn to be shocked.
He's like "that's it?!? You're not going to tell me I'm wrong or change me" and I was like "if I could change anything, it's to get a nicer brother cuz you're bipolar and I don't know how to deal with you. But you're my brother and that annoys me more. I can't stand you, but I also know that I will let no one will hurt you as long as I'm with you. I'm your older sister, from the moment you were born I knew I would protect you. Its my job"
And he was like "thanks.....im afraid of telling my parents, I'll do it when I move out"
I told him "prepare to be disappointed if you want drama or think it'll be a big deal. You're still family. You always will be. Do it when you want"
If he would of told anyone else I think he would of been outed that day but he told me instead.
I completely agree with this sentiment. Education doesnât teach empathy. It simply makes you aware of itâs existence.
True. Education wouldn't teach us empathy.
they are not having general knowledge. it's all the parents relatives fault . teach them the meaning about it.
This guy is not just educated.. he admits the fact that being gay is not a disease and he chose his son over the conservative people.. A gem of a human being..
So true đ
Yess! Takes a lot to be open minded especially when it's something you've had prejudice against you whole life!
Gem of a shit....
So if being gay is not a disease, then is it the choice?
@@Adnan_Khan__111 so according to u they should be treated for the desease by aversion therapy like they treated Alan Turing?
Great father. It's difficult to break stereotype in indian families.
Yeah it's easy to break these stereotypes when they're not living in india. Here I have our chacha phufa tau bhatija living along with us so I can't come out to b gay so easily đ
But surprisingly these accept ,better than any other religion or country.
@@anchalpandey9074 đŻ truth ...
If love is love..and what you started feeling out of influence is so important then i think a brother dating sister or a father dating a daughter are also normal right????.
Why not afterall love is love as what this vedio says...an intimacy between brother and sister should also be normalised...Give it a thought.
?sisters dating each other , brothers dating each other is never seen just because they haven't made to feel like this for each other since childhood. That proves you can be made to feel anything by your surroundings. So, going for something only on the basis of feelings is not right. Actual reason for prohibition of Dating between blood siblings has scientific reeason and also it makes us mentally sick.Just imagine what will happen when two brothers will start to be intimate with each other. What kind of society it will be.
Its just sick mentality out of social influence. Don't get trapped in it.
Feelings can be anything..thoughts can be anything..there are no limits ..that does not mean that you will leave boundaries. Atleast honestly once question yourself..is this truth and it came from inside or i just have influence of bad and mentally sick company.
Love is love within set boundaries. You shouldnt cross that boundaries. Otherwise the day is not far away that brother sister and father daughter will start having intimate feelings for each other. This is very sick at the same time fearful view of coming generations and society. Please give it thought.
The day is not far that humans will crossbreed with other species as well on tbe name of feelings. Everything must have boundary. And that has already set. If you are feeling something abnormal anusual once question your campany..what peoples you are surrounding with..what you watch on youtube..and may be that its just unconciously sown in your brain from out side, And you started looking it as your own feelings.I never heard that in small villageor town two gay married each other. Why? Why majority gay's are rich?what is connection between being rich and being gay. We need to think about it.Give it a thought with honesty.
Gay -a man who can marry women very normally but prefers to marry a man(with same gender) on the basis of only feelings.
@@ariseupp8620 you are one of the people who are logical in this comment section.
Looking at these comments I can feel that upcoming indian generation is gonna be little better than this one.
At least i hope they'll be more accepting and pursue logical thinking over anything.
They will be the best
Hahahhhahahahahah..
@@zamurdjan86 your sense of humour is very pathetic.
Who knows.. people of my age I mean the younger generation still use 'gay' as a gali !!!!
All fathers from India need to see this. Not just parents of gay children.
I want my father to see it, just because of the simple logical reasoning.
Not everyone thinks that their father is not logical like u ..my dad is best for me and for everyone their dads are best..maybe not for u
@@kO_EC dude if you don't understand what people write please don't comment.
I didn't say mine or anyone else's father is illogical in general. But when it comes to their kids' life partner most indian parents are conservative, and their reasoning doesn't seem logical to me.
And I have a great relationship with my dad so we can argue and debate and I can openly tell my father "i think your reasoning lacks logic" and he will be fine with it.
You are probably one of those guys who listens to every word your father says. If he says sit, you sit. If he says stand you stand.
Develop a spine if that's the case.
@@ankitchordia2795 being conservative is not wrong, it keeps society in shape.
Shroen Deshmukh ahh yes, and destroys life of many other people because of conservative society.
@@shroendeshmukh5063 Lmao conservatism has a flaw in it and it is that change is inevitable. You can just delay the change but not avoid it, and that is exactly what conservatives try to do. Yes it is good to preserve some traditions but some other traditions which are bad need to be gone. That's it
And I'm a mangalik struggling to find a tree.
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Find one for me too please !
I'm bisexual and my dad would never accept me. This made me cry.
And yet, many people DO accept you! You are awesomeđ!
i accept you
same
@@justanotherstranger2657 I'm glad you are out to us here!
I'm bi too. I'll never disclose this info to my family tho. :(
I freaking cried....My nephew is gay, both his Mom and Dad have passed away, he lived with his aunt and grandma, I am a Fujoshi and he felt that he could confide in me and so whenever he have struggles I was there to share the burden but I know, I do not levitate any of his burden. I just wish when he come out, our relatives take it easy on him...
Happy to see a fujoshi who actually supports LGBTQ !!
@@Kiki-lu you mean fujoshi there are who don't support gay ?
Vampis Zoonis apparently there are.. thatâs why people look down on fujoshis.
I am Fujoshi as well!
Caprice Ch: I echo your prayer. God bless!
When I'll adopt a sweet girl (since I'm trans) I'll teach her every aspect of life and let her live.
Edit: By being trans, I meant I'd prefer to adopt a child even though ik I can get pregnant (as a transman) and mostly trans folks adopt. Adoption is what I meant.
And omg thanks! Everyone here is so supportive. I wish all of you make the majority of our country to cut that transphobia through the roots!!!
Hey, sir !!! GOD BLESS YOU , you gonna give two lessons simultaneously . Wish you nd your incoming daughter a long and happy life.
@@cailynashley2123 đ thank you.
May god keeps you and your family healthy and happy too! ^^
So sweet
Best wishes, may you prosper.
A child brought up in a happy environment is indeed very lucky!! Hope you find the contentment you are looking forđđ
This would have probably NOT happened if they were in India.
Speak for yourself. Not everybody is homophobic.
Marriage of gays is not legal , but the other things.. why not ? India at least urban India has become much more accepting.
hkpasubscribe what world are you living in? Marriage of gays in India is legal
@@hkpasubscribe it's not legal here yet. But I know a lot of gay couples who are living together and some of them even live with their in-laws. Just cause it's not on paper doesn't mean Indians are not doing it. If you support gay marriages you can come forward and show the people. I am sure LGBTQ community in India will appreciate it.
@@flanker2724 it's not. Being gay is decriminalized. Marriage is still not legal.
If this was in my case, my parents would bury me immediately.. Those 2 are really lucky to have such intellect parents in their life.. Wanted to hear more for mankind..
You are amazing, no matter what other people think! You are a worthy human being, unique, and your existence is a blessing for this world!
Old man has gone through a lot but in the end he understood his son. What a humble man! God bless đđŒ
@Dwan Sangma đđLgBt
Dwan Sangma I think most gay people accept them selves for who they are, its the family acceptance thatâs hard and brings depression.. once your family accepts you then itâs much easier..
@Dwan Sangma very true
@@highlightchannel7845 đđu 2
Guys! Crap bag is right
He is proof that not all parents care about their âezhatt â more than their child
Being a parent of a gay child is not something bout ur "ezhaat".
@abdullah azeem happiness or "ezhatt" What comes first?
@abdullah azeem sure, ezhatt can bring some happiness but it's not everything. For ex, I'll be happier to stay with my friends even if my teacher starts insulting me at the cost of my friends.
@abdullah azeem ??????? So what. I choose my friends and family over ezhatt ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ
@Laaiba yes ikr
If this was in india, I cant even imagine his condition .
Water will make you wet.
@@gelliCat why is this here- it made me cackle anyways-
@Carl Johnson Who is the Muslim here?
@@nandinimenon7633 water will wet
Fire will burn
And Time will pass.
Thats how things are. And shouldnt they be how things are ?
@Carl Johnson the people you replied to aren't muslim tho. it doesn't matter what religion people belong to. Don't mention in it for no reason in a stupid CZcams comment.
It's not about supporting gay or straight When Dad is speaking about his son love affection emotion tears started rolling from my eyes Respect to you sir wish you loads of luck health and wealth
same
What about letting your son to marry her own mother (your wife) ? After all love is love
Father and mother is the only people who loves their children more than anyone else.
Yes indeed they are really blessing for us..
@Kabita Karan yeahđđ
Mother yes in my case not father
The one who participate in honour killings have a twisted kind of love!
Grandparents also
Damn, it's really obvious that the dad is a very smart man. He remembers every damn detail. No wonder why his son is smart too.
Hey, Balalaika
To all the hate comments:
1.lets not judge a situation we have never been in.
2.let's not hate things, just because we don't understand them.
Peace out....
Well said
@shatter gee just because you didn't find them doesn't changes the fact that I wrote this only after reading a few of them myself.
@shatter gee learn to control your emotions. Did you just bashed out your hatred on me for a comment I wrote. Man.... You are unbelievable.
@shatter gee he just wrote that for the likes lol
@@harshavarthan6360 lmao. he didn't break emotions at all...You see hate comment when there's no hate comment here and you see emotional outburst in his statement lol...You must be one huuuuge snowflake
We have to admit the fact that this probably happened in US amid a high income group. India is still a long way from this and adds to the burden if you are middle or the lower classes. Long way to go here.
Yes better come back after 150 years to live a good life here.
So if you make less money itâs more ok to be homophobic?
@@IRGhost0 what are you even understanding? I didn't say like that. High income group stay in their rich societies which are more progressive and modernized. Middle and lower stay in a traditional society and despite whatever your education, you will always be under fire for things like homosexuality.
I don't think fiscal stability has anything to do with sexual orientation. Its societal perception. That's it.
@@priyachoudhary9896 When you are middle or lower class in India, there will be more connections with the traditional society including the relatives. Everyone will have a say on your life. I meant only that. It's not connected to the class in yhe US, of course.
Her mother really feels the speech..her expression â€
This is the hardest one.
The toughest job in the world is being a POSITIVE and PRESENT parent. đ
Fr brother I'm 23 and i don't think having kids is gonna be a good idea anymore, the world just gets weirder with every single passing day! I'm old school and i don't dig any of these new values!! Respect to the ones keeping up but I'm out on this one!
The toughest job in the universe is to count the furs on bear
its literally the basic right of a child to have that god đ
And the dad mastered itđđ
@@thestrongest3050 wtf you mean new values are you drunk?
Knowledge is the only cure for ignorance
Prejudice is different from ignorance. In many places knowledge and affluence only seems to legitimize prejudice.
@XROM GAMING Even highly qualified doctors, nobel prize winning scientists or engineers can be prejudiced. They are in no way ignorant.
Somebody can be both but not everyone is.
Yes
Swiftieeeee
That's why i put Taylor Swift's 'You Need To Calm Down' on full blast every morning when i wake up lol
oh & i'm Gay too ! lol
Truth
I think parents can make the most difference in someone's life. And when that effect is SO positive, there's no stopping you. You will overcome everything, go anywhere, be anything..
I hope every parents be so open minded like him
Bhai tu bhi aise hee open minded rehnađđđđđđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Ya bro
Anus is to exit not entry
It has nothing to do about open mind. It's the most ignorant action which happened in the time of prophet Lut. May God protect us.
I will never support them. But I wont have any hate for them as human .
@@mjpawan mind is to think and understand, not to shit
377 is also legal in india but still there are homophobes here saying "woh toh chakka hai" youtubers still making fun in the name of "entertainment"
You wanna make a change in your surroundings don't watch those roast these CZcamsrs tell that "a boy making tiktok is gay" there are still many people who are against homosexuals till now you wanna make a change speak up in your own country let's do it guys
This mentality has been around for a long time, it is changing , slow but it is happening. Let us take this responsibility and make this country better than ever
You are absolutely right. I also thought the same thing when these youtubers and tiktokers both make fun of LGBT community.
@J Ag ur mentality is toxic , not theirs
Meethaađ
@@itsme99. what do you mean by that?
The heros the earth needs the most right now, we need more people like you sir, RESPECT.
Not really. The heroes we need are more scientists, engineers, educators.
Ćaáč karÄcÄrya these are essential fields but relationships matter the most.
If i can be half the father he is to my 2 kids ..i would consider myself a decent dad
Just acknowledging that makes you a better father than most Indians.
@@animealpha4795 Can't agree more.
I think you mean excellent dad
You watched this and realized this much is enough of decency. I trust you that you'll be a really nice dad. Maybe you already are!
Good luck, Sir.
It happened because his father is well educated, if he didn't then the out come would be different.
Education is nothing to do with accepting one's sexuality. There are scores of examples where "well" educated would scorn for being gay. Do you think 50%, his dad was talking about were uneducated?
Education doesn't make you a better person if you can't teach yourself the morals of life
You do not need education to love your child.. If an uneducated man asks himself that does he love him less at 4:31 than he did at 4:25...He will start seeing things differently... So that question to oneself is required...
IT IS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT EDUCATION . LET ME GIVE YOU MY EXAMPLE I AM A STRAIGHT BUT ONE DAY I FELT WHAT IF I WERE A LESBIAN . IF MY MOTHER WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED ME IN THAT CONDITION SO I ASKED HER THAT MUMMY IF I WERE LESBIAN YOU WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED ME OR NOT AND SHE SAID OFFCOURSE YOU ARE MY CHILD AND I WILL LOVE YOU IN ANY FORM LET ME INFORM YOU SHE IS STUDIED ONLY TILL 10TH BECAUSE FAMILY WAS CONSERVATIVE. I BELEIVE IT IS TOTALLY DEPEND ON WAY HOW A INDIVIDUAL THINGS.
@TheAnonymousCat anon first of all get some biology education.
Very emotional. He is lucky to have a father like him.
@TheAnonymousCat anon Stop reading fairy tales.
@TheAnonymousCat anon This shows your ignorance about this. You are not worth arguing.
@TheAnonymousCat anon I didn't meant to be sarcastic buddy. And your emojis itself shows your mentality. What's your problem with people living happily?
@TheAnonymousCat anon Fire hurts you. But how come homosexuality?
I still haven't heard from you
This speech should be taught and displayed in every school and colleges. Man! The words expressed from heart have heavy weight. Great Father.
An indian parent talking and accepting ..their kids....in this aspect... đđ Atleast the thought process..has changed đđ
This is what every child expects from parents .support ... emotionally
@@dingdongditch1274..... huh???
@@dingdongditch1274 only crap thing about this video is ur cmnt
@@dingdongditch1274 shut up.
Hope every parent would be like that
Children shouldn't expect support from parents though being a parent should mean unconditional love and support by default
The guy is lucky to get such parents. This what we say a good parent would even catch the moon for their kids.
www.abukhadeejah.com/lgbtq-homosexuality-gay-muslims-and-islam/
@@abuabdullaah9476 Amend the Quran. Take out the bad things in it and make second amendment Qur'an..
@@bn1193 There is nothing bad in the Quran. It's the speech of Allaah. Its Uncreated. You just have to approach it with a neutral mind and read the Quranic interpretations based on how the first three generations interpreted it. Otherwise a person will not be able to grasp the underlying wisdoms. It's a preserved Book. Has remained unaltered since the dawn of it's revelation.
@@abuabdullaah9476 Is there any proof that it is "speech of Allah"?
@@vibgyor9239 yes. A careful study of its literary construction, news of the future events, the wisdom, use of simple and complex similitudes will lead you to believe that this is the speech of Allaah- uncreated.
bisexuals were mentioned in mahabharat tooo
so if someone says that this is a western concept
give him a glass of strong lemonade so that his hangover can come down
Yes ppl don't know whats our real culture is but still they think they are protectors of india hahaha but no takes them seriously
Damn boi
Who was bisexual in Mahabharat?
@@sanchita5925 bro even the person who brought goddess Ganga on earth was born from two lesbians his name is bhagrat .(his name means bhag ,bcz two women were in relation so half body was born from one and half from other ) See our culture accept all these from ancient time ..
@@edits9287 I never knew it đŻđŻ
Can u please elaborate more !!
Never thought would hear âJain gay weddingâ but well done to those parents!
These type of gay weddings are not possible in India.
You r gay ???
There are gay couples in kerala...you can search it up on youtube and they narrate tjeir life story
czcams.com/video/_Rlj0lYjz1k/video.html
I know of atleast 3 that happened in India. So yes it is.
People are saying they have seen gay weddings of Indians on CZcams. One question, have you seen it in real life? And one or two weddings doesn't mean that all Indians are accepting this.
In our college an assistant prof. is gay and I know how badly students tease him daily by saying bad words.
It's one of the most honest speeches I've ever heard.
@Nationalist Socialist Party of India mat kar bhai
Let people love .and live life as they like.life is to short đ„°
@Nationalist Socialist Party of India aisa toxic minded kyu hai bhai
@Nationalist Socialist Party of India you really need a hug man, such toxicity isnt good for you
@@abhighosh3085 Do this $hit in Saudi, Qatar, UAE... U will be freakin stonedto death..... As a hardcore Rightwinger i appreciate and respect personal life of people... Especially LGBT.....
To all the people in the comments saying itâs great for him to accept his son as a gay , just know that you ARE supposed to accept it . Some people are ofcourse not exposed to stuff like this enough so itâs only normal to feel weird at the beginning. But to be able to accept them as a person is only humane and nothing extraordinary . We are just here to witness the process of him accepting it . Appreciate him for admitting to his wrong thoughts instead , bcz homophobes generally arenât ready to accept that theyâre one
Armyđ
Yes, you're so right. I agree with you. Parents are supposed to accept their child irrespective of his/her sexuality, or any other basis for that matter. They should accept the children as they are, they are supposed to as you said. I strongly believe in this, because belonging to an Indian family, there are a lot of things which your parents are supposed to accept about you, but they Don't. That upsets me a lot, but it won't make me change, the kind of person I am today, I'll always try to improve and learn. Thank you so much for addressing this. And there are a lot of things, which I learnt after becoming an Army, I see that you can relate too~
Army and Bangtan forever~~~đâš
@@imfoive3734 army AND stay ? Come on youâve got good taste
@@ray_hansika exactly . There are a lot of things still considered taboo in Indian households and I believe itâll change someday. I just feel a bit sad itâs not going to be in this generation . And yes we should try to learn as much as possible and go through it together . Armyyyđ
@@-thasisters-6194 yusss bestie. We stan just KINGS
This speech is so much better than every movie I've seen touching this subject.
The best thing I watched today. This Father and human being is the best â€ïžđ
not all of us are lucky love ..
Anus is to exit not entry
@@mjpawan What people do with their genitals is their business not yours. What are you, anus police?
*He's so lucky to have well educated, well formed, understanding and open minded parents who love him.*
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This is how a true Father looks like đŒ
I teared up when I first saw this on Snapchat , I wish all parents would remember to love their children first and to be more supportive đ
Couldnât stop myself from crying đ such a emotional speech from the father.
Me too :-)
My husband and I just got married yesterday! This melts my heart. Our families arenât supportive and thatâs okay. Family is so much more than blood.
Don't worry bad time will fly away and good time will come soon,.....
Just because heterosexuals donât understand itâŠ. doesnât mean homosexuals should not exist.
Itâs perfectly within the order of nature
Hare Krishna đ
This made me tear up, it was so sweet! Heâs a great father for realizing that his love for his child was greater than any negative feelings he had. It takes a lot of introspection and courage to let go of old beliefs and be accepting. I hope he always maintains a strong bond with his son â€ïž
I have a gay daughter and it never bothered me for one second when she came out she knew that me and her dad and all the family loved her and would protect her from any bias people they are nothing in our lives
We need open minded people like u in India....
May Lord Krishna Bless You nd ur family Miss..!!â€ïžđđ»
What is gay daughter
"IT" đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł so sorry
@@devaashgupta547 Lesbian...
@@einstein3448 What I think u didn't read it properly...!!?đđ
I cried after listening to him beacause he reminded me my late fatherđą. People say mothers are great but father has equalent value
What do you mean by late? Like late to become your ... father? I dont understand
@@gelliCat my father passed away 1 year ago
You are too pure. How did you end up supporting this?
@@gelliCat Is it wrong to support it?And why if you think so?
@@justsomeone8899 because it is not contingent with nature and its emergent biological proesses.
we need more accepting and open-minded people in society like him
đđ»his father said," he was lucky to have him as his child"
I m telling you ,"The world is lucky to have you ,as someone's parents"! .
How brave of his father to admit that and celebrate his wedding with his husband.
If only this is possible in India đâ„ïž
@Ravi Singh see I know about how supportive Indians were before colonial era but I think the comment is about today's India which is yet homophobic, atleast majority
It wasnt India it was UK
Nothing hurts me more when people use gay as a abusive word... especially some Indian CZcamsrs
Bro why you guys like guys more than girls ? Is there any special reason? (No hate I'm just curious)
@@hellno6931 Smh bc you are staright....if you were bi you would know
@@shreya9143 there are people supporting u. have u heard ritviz rahi song?
I am gay and my mom accept me đ
And I said them clearly i would be a single father if I dont find any life partner but I will not marry a girl and will not destroy both lives đ
God bless you brother đ
So... We meet again
@@69_pigeons_in_a_trenchcoat ?
@@devil8761 thx
@@dev_peace_soul we've crossed paths in the comments section of one of thr Swaddle's videos
3.3k dislikes Proves that we need more education
Yeah
And my heart grew three sizes today. This is so sweet, to have someone be so self aware and so empathetic and loving towards their children is unfortunately so rare to see in the media. This is what it's like to be a good parent - you learn from your own mistakes and you embrace your child for who they are so long as they are happy, healthy and loving to you the same as you are to them.
Interesting how I got Subh Mangalam Zada Savdhan's prime ad before this.
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@Cold fire it is funny there's a difference btw being disrespectful nd being funny
That movie was hot garbage. There needs to be better portrayal to represent the community.
I don't understand why people are homophobic, given that they got no fucking thing to do with others' choices, that don't even affect them a bit.
Honestly, I was afraid he was going to say something horrible, but he got to a really great place.
fuck off those 5.1 k dislikes...i think everybody should listen to this father's words...wonder why gender is an issue at all...be it man or woman or gay or whatever, atlast we are all humans who will one day die ..so try to love everyone irrespective of gender, caste, creed, color ,shape nd whatelse..
Ohh please stop this shit of humans with these kind of disgusting đ€ź ppl world is deteriorating day by day..Its not natural
This just made me cry. The only thing you wish from your parents is to be accepted.
This man was so quick in reflection and decision. I'm so proud of him and so happy for his son.
In the end, not accepting your child has only to do with ones own limitation.
I can see and feel the sadness from his parents specially his mom , but whatsever great job for his parents.
They did really good job love their child no matter what. Happy for u guys
Wow.. I canât explain how Iâm feeling right now. Heâs lucky to have a father like that..
That's a Fatherđ
Your father is at your home.. Go and show him this nonsense crap
@@dingdongditch1274 lol how close minded
@Cold fire stfu homophobe
All they gays here raise your hand â
Bi hereee
I'm not gay I'm homosexual đ
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@@boribbora it's okay đ
Not gay but ace! đ
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He is such an amazing man, proud of him! We need more people like this.... It's never about education, nor about age, it's only about the attitude of how one perceives a thing. I'm glad we have fathers like this!
Just wowwww... Parents like this are blessing, children already suffer a lot when they are different from the society norms, and when your parents doesn't support you in such conditions. It becomes a horrifying experience, sometimes deadly. A big heart to this great father â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Who is also trying to find homophobic comments by applying newest first filter
Me lmao, I wanna annoy them homophobes
The need of Adding Jain to the title can only be understood by jains.. our community is very much conservative when it comes to marriage and this is actually a very BIG thing that your father showed so much compassion and love. MUCH LOVE TO YOU
No one in India understands it.Many ones talk like gentlemen but trust me they are almost homophobic for their family,Friends etc.You are the gem uncle.Much respect for youđđ
Completely failed the Indian parenting class 101. This is out of syllabus.
Maybe failed the class your parents attended.
@@kumarankush8615 understand the sarcasm. No need to get personal.
@@kumarankush8615 r/whooosh
@@kumarankush8615 he's mocking indian parenting system
@@sangeethavarmaa3628 LoL, don't whoosh me. A slapstick got replied with another one.
He is is a real father who accept his son's sexual orientation without thinking about society's narrow minded thoughts.
I got tears in my eyes while listening your speech.
Really proud of you, I wish people get more open minded like you.
Love from India đźđł
Apart from the emotions put together in the speech, the choice of words and some of the lines were just too amazing !!!
"Do I love my son any less at @ than @??"- this line has my heart
Good speech
First time parents have stood by their kids happiness over their izzat
That's a grave sin in Islam rubi.
Remember this.
@@muhammadyounus7156 no one is talking abt islam here, plus no one asked for your opinion and even the ones getting married are not muslims
@@muhammadyounus7156 islam is shit
@@ManpreetSingh-kg9os nah dude I don't like Islam as well but we have to respect their religion.
@@boribbora no i dont
Life is to short to fix someone's gender choices better support them in achieving what they want and cherish your relationship..
Iâm not sure if I consider it a choice.. I had very good friend of mine who was gay, it was 90âs and 2000âs USA... he was beaten so badly after class by few of his classmates because he was gay. I remember he said to me was â if this was a choice I wonât choose this for myself.. I canât help who I am and how I feel...â
@@shalwinderkaur8276 i bet
So beautifully said đ
man it took 3 secs. to realize what is your name đđ
And here are my parents giving death threats for being in love with someone from another caste
I hope you're doing okay
Ahaha iam joining college my mom already warned me not to fall in love u know what I did ?I looked deep into her eyes and said mamma if I ever love a guy I will introduce to u first..she understood me đ anyways ! Hamara wala college ke baad aayega
@@noonaaa6489 that's a relationship I want with my mom đđ it's so wholesome
Guess it wasn't just a threat đ
This comment section gives me hope and restores my faith in humanity
Every child deserve understanding parents.
I feel so good after listening the speech it's incredible , he is incredible father and human â€ïž
Thanks to gay guys for less competitions for finding myself a beuatiful desi girl.
Jokes apart...it's time to walk and talk and be supportive of lgbt people. It's 2020 for God's sake.
Arent you meant to be on the seas rn sinking ships?
and other lesbian girls
This is the 21st century where LGBTQ along with the regular hetero relationships need to be accepted in our societies. Most important is the love and respect we have for each other. Salute to all parents especially Indian parents who have to open up to such situations especially as we're from various cultural, religious backgrounds. Non judgemental acceptance is the key, especially of our very own.
Right but I saw many LGBT relationships cheating on each other
Is that love
I respected them
I donno whether I was living with local minded people or global minded people
I respect everyone at the end
But don't cheat your partners
Have a great life and great celebrations of love
@@ramprasadrocky787 cheating happens in heterosexual relationships too
Speak this same in front of your father..
Well Said !
@@ramprasadrocky787
Honestly, this stems from the fact that LGBT people are outgoing with their sexuality, so they do not value sex as something as intimate as others do. This can be a statistic, however I know friends who have cheated and they were heterosexual as any. Thing is, most heterosexual people take sex way too seriously, and hence they have certain impressions (read: regressive) baked in their minds. Of course sex isn't something one should be having with anyone you can find, but honestly, once you start meeting people, you do get attracted to more than one person. It is pretty rare to be in love with only one person and never have emotions for anyone else romantically. One can, yes, and I praise them for that, but at the end of the day, sex is subjective.
Find a like minded partner, is what I can say.
This Indian dad is such an exception. People of his generation generally are not open-minded and have no empathy. He had the courage to think about reality and challenge those discriminatory beliefs he grew up with. He showed character growth at his age. It's not common at all. Many others do not understand that being different is not a "problem" that needs fixing.