HOW TO DRESS WITH STYLE AS A YOUNGER MAN | STYLE TIPS FOR ANY AGE
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- čas přidán 29. 01. 2023
- In this video your host discusses how to find a suitable level of style for the younger gentleman (chap)
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The thing is as young people you are cought up in the circle of friends, fellow students or coworkers and must always go along with their fashion to fit in. Companies like Nike, etc take advantage and put horrendous prices on their products which are nothing but rubber, plastic and synthetic (they make huge profits). It takes really determination to be your own. Young people are so conscious as how other perceive them. Finally freedom comes when you hit 50 and can do whatever you like. No friend circles to fit in you choose your peers. No more pressure no more fitting in just what you like.
In fairness to pricing, Nike and streetwear brands don’t merely get their surcharge from arbitrary inflation. A big chunk comes from marketing. Similar to high end sartorial brands like purple label and Tom Ford, the marketing budgets for these companies is Huge (esp athletics). And raises consumer costs across most segments of their product line.
This topic is very recognizable for me as a 19 year old young man. Chelsea boots were my first step to a smarter clothing style and now I’m wearing flat caps and woolen overcoats. Most of the times I feel overdressed when I’m meeting with my fellow students. Thanks for this video!
Hey Bart, my journey started with the same thing: a pair of chelseas when I was 18, funnily enough. Now im 23, and im much more comfortable dressing up. I think it's key to not lower your standards just because others do. You will get more out of life by sticking to style choice which make you look wise, attractive and classic. Stick with it my friend, nd I will too
Stay true to yourself, Bart and be a proper chap.
It's taken me til near 60 to stop being afraid to look a bit different and stand out. (In my head I'm still 32).
They can say "w4nker in a waistcoat" as much as they like.
Be like Ash. Be a chap.
My 2p worth ; I think younger men looking to take a step up in the style stakes should look at the classic "Mod about town" look (for want of a better description). As you mentioned, a well-fitting pair of indigo jeans, polo shirt or casual button down collared shirt, Harringtons always look good, and perhaps a light tan brogue boot ? This will look smarter than 90+% of contemporaries without looking like you're trying to dress outside of your age group.
As an aside, Chinos are far, far more comfortable to drive in then denim - particularly with modern cars having their pedals so close together (!)
Good advice... on the subject of a jean replacement... I picked up a pair of Hackett(?) mole skin trousers in black. I adjusted the hem and narrowed the bottoms slightly(I have a fab old sewing machine) ... they are now fabulous... and look a touch more casual. I'm a young slightly rotund 53 year old ;)... i do have a full head of hair.
Good afternoon Ash
1...you as a young man handsome
2...you as A older man handsome
3...tomorrow is a big day..birthday 72..
4...still a full time husband and a full time..i am proud of that...
5...peace
Hit the nail on the head Ash, I wished I decided to dress a bit smarter in my mid 20's, but I soldered on with Trainers, bad fitting jeans, T-Shirts (some of which had large prints or logos), baggy hoddies to about 32 - 33 when I started to reevaluate my sartorial choices. I started small at first. I kept with jeans and T-Shirts but the jeans were slim fit, dark blue and adjusted leg length, Plain T-Shirts or Polo, Barbour jackets (Quilted at first, then onto Waxed a bit later) replaced the Hoodie as my goto outerwear. I decided At about 33 to ditch trainers completely with the exception of a bit of jogging in favour of dark brown Chukka boots most of the time and Boat Shoes during the Summer, I have never looked back at that decision, for the best part of 12 years I have not stepped out of the house wearing trainers. I was more late 30's when I stepped up to Brogues (boots & shoes) and Tweed Sports Jackets as well as watches of the Swiss variety, rather than the G-Shocks that lived on the wrist for the best part of 20 years. I had a Tag Heuer Pro 2000 since my late teens, only really wore it as a everyday watch at about 38.
I’ve got a pair of sneakers for casual wear that my young sister gave me as a birthday present - they’re a dark grey so they’re not too ostentatious. It pains me when I go to the store and I see older gentlemen wearing these gaudy da-glo things that look like plastic models of a Russian oligarch’s super-yacht. I hope I live to see the day when this “fashion statement” dies, but it will probably be replaced by something worse, though I can’t imagine anything worse.
Exactly what I was wearing for years. Chinos, harrington/Mac coat, white plain t-shirt/polo shirt/button down shit. I went from harrington to tweed jacket and from white Superga trainers to brogues/penny loafers recently, its quite a natural progress.
Hello Ash. I enjoyed the video. Just to let you know I'm 24, nearly 25 years old. I've been watching your videos for some time. In the way I dress and present myself, I am not typical of my age at all. I often wear a flat cap, harrington jacket, chinos and Loake shoes. So Frank certainly should not feel as if he is the only young man to wants to make the effort.
This is so on point, high leather shoes with black slim fit jeans, black t-shirt with a belt same color as shoes, maybe a watch or a necklace chain (not big), for casual downtown day. there are many variations as well, black or white casual shirt with floral patterns for summer night tango/salsa party combined with dark jeans and leather shoes or simple black t-shirt with black leather jacket for bad boy look or suede brown jacket with brown shoes and watch. combinations are endless. i keep it simple, i only use colors black white and brown, you cant go wrong with this, you only need black and brown shoes, few shades of dark jeans and dark blue ones, or if you want more formal navy blue chinos you can tone it down or ramp it up depending what you want to achieve, casual or more serious look but not entirely formal. im 28 by the way. i also like to dress "mobster look" with white formal shirt, red, blue, green or dark red tie and dark grey, dark blue or dark red vest. no blazer jacket in this, sometimes i add chain on the vest or a tie bar. chain for more bad guy vibes and tie for more serious.. nobody wears vests these days so you will attract super attention but i rarely do this as i dont have opportunities
This applies very much to us old guys, too.
As a 28 year old chap myself in the states, I can second this advice. Dark wash Japanese denim are infinitely stylish. Also give “5 pocket pants” a search on eBay. Brands like Zanella and more are very modern, look great under a suede leather jacket or wool blazer. And lastly, the pea coat is the easiest step towards classic tailoring and lapels.
Greetings from Germany. I like your videos very much. Both the topic and the "original British accent" .
Thank you! 😃
This is all sensible advice for the younger man and the small steps with each garment add up to a subtle but noticeable improvement in style.
Can I turn the question on it's head and ask for your advice in a future video maybe of 'how to dress with style as an OLDER man!
I am in my early 60's, but as I move into my late 60's and 70's would like to dress stylishly but not wear inappropriate clothing that would make me the male version of 'mutton dressed as lamb'!! Also I would like to avoid going to far the other way and dressing beyond my age.
Another great video Ash.
I will certainly explore that avenue at some point very soon - as I am ageing fast myself.
Thank´s for your entertaining videos! I always enjoy them and i couldn´t agree more. Nice greetings from Salzburg, Austria!
Brown chukka boots.
Slim dark wash jeans.
Brown belt to match the chukkas.
Either an oxford cotton button down or tshirt with merino or cashmere crew neck jumper.
Peacoat in cooler weather or a bomber or harrington for warmer weather. A suede bomber or trucker for smarter wear.
A watch. It doesn't have to be an expensive one but something simple either on a metal bracelet or a leather strap to match boots and belt.
Keep to a small number of colours such as all navy monochromatic with the brown of the boots.
Job done.
Sharp!
This is fantastic advice for any man of any age that is still wearing worn jeans, logo t-shirts, and baseball caps. By the time you have gone up 3 or 4 notches, you would have forgotten how self-conscious you felt just going up the first notch.
A 22-year-old male here, I couldn't care less what other folk my age are wearing. Tweed sport coats are casual for me - tweed three-pieces are more like it. I'd hate to waste my dashing youth on dressing like a peasant. I choose to dress like a 1930s gent at all times, maybe with a bit more white tie. Opera pumps, (thrifted) fox fur collar overcoats, and pocket watches - sometimes all at once! When dressing casually, I prefer blazers and cravats to chukkas and jeans, or at least a cardigan and tie. Polos are only for the most casual of occasions for me.
Hello Ash,
Happy to know you know Mons. I live there.
I'm in the same case as Frank. I am in my thirties and I was looking for this video. I started to wear a tweed jacket with jeans and I got a few compliments and I feel I am in the right direction. The balance as you said is very important. Not too classy to feel like an "old man" around our friends and not too casual as the same time. One step at a time.
Best of luck!
Absolutely, I'm 28, and I do feel over dressed from time to time, luckily my circle is older and very sartorial, so I have fallen into it and I am eccentric to my younger peers but hey ho
Thanks Ash!
Great question and awesome answer. I've learnt something new too.
I think the only way to get away with a flat cap, is to smoke a 🚬 in your peacoat while leaning against a brick wall 🧱 on a warf. 😏 rain/wind storm optional
Spot on advice, Ash! This is the advice I would give to anyone looking to step up their style. Baby steps!
Peer pressure can be tough. I never let that be a factor but I know it can be hard. Just do your thing. Lead by example and people will follow. You are at the right place Ash sets a good example. Cheers Ron
I'm a 21 year old student in the UK (also originallyfrom south wales). Things I wear Oxford Button downs, polo's, tshirts and knits like black shawl collar cardigan, roll necks, thick quater zip jumper. Also dark jeans, chinos, boots, trainers when the situation calls for then. Additionally I work part time in Moss Bros and wear a suit normally when I'm on a shift. Dressing for the situation but for your ideal self is my advice. Tbh I do think it's a shame that younger people have lost that want to dress smart. An style icon I would look at would be steve mcqueen especially his casual looks
Bravo young sir - lead your contemporaries to better better style destination!
Hi Ash,
This is a well done video! I’m 24 and definitely appreciate your advice. If I may share my wardrobe, I usually don dark blue jeans, ox blood boots (red wings) and an ironed flannel shirt. Perfect for a water plant operator and a masters student. Cheers from the USA!
Great advice, even for me at age 72.
What an amazing cardigan! I want it so much!
Hi Ash, thank you for this video, It really had wonderfull advice that will surely help me to become a chap
Glad it was helpful!
You broke the heart of every Jean lover, lol. You never wash your jeans, 😂.
On your 'one click' scale it seems your bottom rung of "Jeans and T-shirt" is way more stylish than the dreadful baggy 'joggers' and tracksuit trousers that most young people wear. I'd not take the bins out dressed like that.
Variations on the theme or style of smart casual can be a good start and not overly expensive to get started with if you know where to look. I also find myself going more casual with footwear during winter as casual loafers and casual derby's I found have more grip than Goodyear welted leather sole'd shoes which helps when it gets cold and slippy. Also during summer, even in Britain it's just too hot to go around with a suit jacket or blazer, even a linen one without a lining in my honest opinion. I think flexibility lends itself to practicality and admittedly going full on formal with a suit, even with more casual material is too formal for most occasions and most youngsters would be ill advised to dress in such a way for going to the cinema or something similar, and I know it sounds class ist but not all areas lend themselves to formal or smart clothes, most towns and cities have areas like this I'm afraid, especially if you're wearing a rolex etc...
Nice shawl collar cardigan, but one button is missing? Why not replace with leather football buttons?
Another possibility to get your social circle (and yourself) slowly used to dressing differently is to just buy the whole outfit, i.e. a tweed suit with all accessoires. Then just wear one part at a time and "dress it down". Wear the tweed jacket with jeans and a thin turtlenecksweater, the trousers with nice knitwear. I am no man, but i guess wearing a tie is mentally the biggest hurdle.
So start with wearing a patterned neckscarf with a shirt and pullover (the small ones you wear in the collar, don't know the english name for that).
Most people actually like it when other people are brave enough to dress a little different, it encourages them to also up their style.
Agreed, and that neckscarf is called an Ascot!😉
Excellent video!
Did you happen to see my replies to your reply in the last video’s comments section?
I did. I watched the interview video and found it fascinating. I’ll definitely look in the Davidoff store when I’m next in the city. Thank you for the steer.
@@TheChapsGuide I thought if you watched the “FULL” interview as I am assuming you did and not skimmed through it in part, you would indeed appreciate Mr Sahakians commonalities with yourselves regarding living a respectful, gentlemanly lifestyle. If you do embark on the journey of stopping by Davidoff of London, I hope you find your visit rewarding. Thank You for the reply Ash! All the Best!
All though my 20s (1980s )until I retired (2013) I wore a tweed sport coat and jeans or chinos with some kind of leather or suede boot/chucka/brough in cooler weather. .In the warm months' Id just skip the jacket. I'd wear the tweed coat, collared shirt, tie, and chinos to work. I could have probably gotten away with nice jeans at work but it wasnt exactly up to unwritten code. A tie was at some points required and sometimes not. I didn't want to be that stubborn guy who refused to put on a tie and pair of slacks and loose a promotion over something as silly as a dress code. Why make problems for yourself with the higher ups? On the couple of days a week I was mostly out of the office (visiting farms and inspecting rural properties) I would wear jeans as long as they weren't too faded and distressed. After work I'd ditch the tie, slip on my comfy worn old jeans, grab my Grandads old beat up Stetson fedora,.maybe slip on some tennis shoes and a straw fedora if it was too warm for tweed, boots, and the beaver fedora, and I was out the door. I seemed to fit in just fine with my friends, and IMO it was a good look. I've never wanted to spend a great deal of money on a roomful of clothes so I always looked to select things that are versatile.
What do you think about the colour „chili“ as shoe colour, Ash?
I am searching for a staple, which should fit between a black cap toe oxford and a dark brown plain derby.. and I am stuck right now with a quarter or half brogue in chili or maybe mahagony or even oxblood..
I like the AE chilli colour, it seems to be a take on oxblood, which has long been my favourite
Ash, I enjoy your videos and are always looking forward to the next one. However, I must say that a missed button hole was noticeable to me. Proof that I do watch and listen to your advice. Seventy six and still trying. Ron
Sorry about that.
What are your thoughts on untucked shirts? I prefer tucked in most of the time with Chinos and of course Dress pants but if the setting is super casual I don't see anything wrong with it especially when wearing jeans. Still in my early 30's but in the future I will still value your content. Thanks again!
I personally never wear my shirts untucked, unless I am wearing shorts of course. It does instantly de-formalise your attire to a very casual level, but if this suits your lifestyle, I don't see any problem with it. Just as long as the shirts that you are wearing untucked, are designed to be worn that way (i.e. without a tail).
On a sidenote: Looking at the picture of the young Ash in the intro, I must say growing older does have its advantages, as you get a real and unmistakenly face!
Giving up jeans is HARRRRRRD! Especially here in the states. As a chap in his early 40’s maybe the best thing to do is get them all tailored for a more refined look and give them up at 45….. I know I’m just delaying the inevitable…..
A younger chap might find work or dress boots more suitable to fit in or to one click up with their contemporaries. The shoes might be a bit of a jump. More style than fashion.
How old were you in the picture of you wearing that loud, flowery shirt?
21. Young and thrusting.