I'm not the second option, I was never an option.. LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! Don't let people give you a bad reputation Hope you never hurt yourself in a way that you hate yourself.. I am your friend :) (THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR 60 LIKES 🎉 you are the best!)
To whoever reads this, i love you i love your smile i love your laugh i love your personality i love your hair (or lack thereof) i love your insecurities i love your accomplishments i love your failures i love your eyes i love your beauty i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate) i love the way you dance i love you on your happy days i love you on your sad days i love you on the days you feel lonely i love you on the days you feel helpless i love you on the days you feel like no one cares i love you on the days you feel forgotten i love you on the days you feel unmotivated i love you on the days you feel loved i love you on the days you feel sick i love you on the days you feel motivated i love you on the days you feel depressed i love you on the days you feel stressed i love you on the days you feel crazy i love you on the days you feel hopeful i love you on the days you feel cuddly i love you on the days you feel clingy i love you on the days you feel amazing i love you on the days you feel beautiful i love you on the days you feel like a failure i love you on the days you feel angry i love you on the days you feel aggressive i love you on the days you feel horrible i love you on the days you feel safe i love you on the days you feel unsafe i love you on the days you feel vulnerable i love you on the days you feel weird i love you on the days you feel ok i love you when you're healthy i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music) i love your taste in music i love your taste in movies i love your taste in tv shows i love the way you move i love the way you act i love you when you cry i love you when you're kind i love you when you're mean i love you when you're alone i love you when you can't feel i love you when you feel too much i love you when you can't take life anymore i love you when you feel like it's too much i love you when you're asleep i love you when you have nightmares i love you when you have dreams i love how you believe i love you when you believe in yourself i love you when you don't believe in yourself i love you when you hate yourself i love you when you love yourself i love the way you think i love you problems i love your solutions i love how you support i love you when you're in pain i love you when you're hurt i love your promises i love your secrets i love your attitude i love you sass i love your creativity i love your voice (or lack thereof) i love you hand gestures i love your stories i love your wounds i love your scars i love your face i love your past i love your future i love your present i love your outfits i love your style i love your art i love your honesty i love you when you lie i love you when you're tired i love you when you're energetic i love how you look i love how you cook i love you when you're adventurous i love you when you're scared i love your imperfections i love your perfections i love you when you worry i love you when you talk (or communicate) i love your opinions i love you when you have a headache i love you when you have a stomach ache i love you when you help others i love you when you need help i love you when you're mature i love you when you're immature i love you in the hard times i love you in the easy times i love you when life is meh i love you when you're responsible i love you when you're irresponsible i love you when you fight i love you in your darkest moments i love you in your brightest moments i love your heart i love you in the day i love you in the night i love you at midnight i love you at 3 am i love you at all times i love you at your best i love you at your worst i love the little things you do i love all of you i love you when you're you i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪. From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
This is probably the only thing that has made me smile in a while I want to die so much and I hardly make it through the day with out wanting to die or kill myself so thank you solo much and actually have almost never heard these things co thank you for this beautiful comment that I have read because this actually gave me confidence for the first time probably ever in my life esp once again thank you so much and WE LOVE YOU TOO💕💕 A random stranger on the internet😛. LOVE YOU
Thank you, I needed it so much, It feels good to vent, But its hard to type, You never know what's going on inside someone's mind, I'm always smiling, but not on the inside.. I had a friend, A best friend. I was living perfect, until she got jealous, of my little sister, so she tried to hurt her, I stopped her, and lets just say it wasn't pretty (Almost had to go to the emergency room) So I was NOT OK, Until I found her, the perfect one, I loved her, we were soulmates, we liked the same things, we would call for hours on end, and then she got sick. We were supposed to go on a trip together. So, I went to school worrying about her, all day (then school was horrible, bullying) I came home, Haven't been on electronics (How I talk to her) for 2 days. I check on her, and she says, "Its so funny your mad because I was sick and we couldn't go, I knew I never should have friended you, your just using me, that's the kind of person you are, I'm breaking up with you" And when I read that, I started to cry, I had someone, and now I have no one, I can't trust myself to keep a friendship, I have OCD, and Trust Issues... This happened 2 days ago. I'm just crying everywhere I go, listening to comfort songs.
It's crazy we are sad about not being someone option or being the second one to be chosen when really all you need is yourself cause when your alone all you have is yourself that is the only one you need to make yourself happy choose yourself☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆
Now you are sweetheart ! Talk to me :) you’ll always be an option to me ❤ Ik I’m a stranger but that doesn’t mean I won’t care about what you’re going through :D
Why is this so true when my friends get in to fights they ran up to me and hangout with je but when there friends i get called rude things and then they leave me out it just hurts....
I'm always the second option. For everyone. And it sucks, really it does. My friend doesn't even care for me. She's so happy around her... And I just make her mad. I don't know what to do..
Do you ever realise that you were the second option after you already went through with it but some part of you is ok with it bc they are still giving you that attention you are craving even though they don’t actually want you the way you want them
You told me you like me and yet you got back with her in under 4 weeks of your confession. I know you don't care about how much you hurt me but you should at least know that you broke me, only so that someone else could stitch me back together. I didn't leave you let go. I didn't cry I bled. They wipe my tears, they bandage my wounds [not cutting myself, speaking metaphorically]
On my mom’s birthday my brother and I pranked our mom and have our friend call her as a doctor, and say that we got into car accident and had only one heart to transplant and she chose my brother
ok so there is this boy that just transferred to my school, hes a exchange student from Latvia to be exact and ive been seeing him around so i thought i should talk to him. he takes my morning bus so i followed him on Instagram, and since we have been on the bus he would lean on me alot and tell me that i should give him more eye contact because i was shy lol, he even poked my thigh a couple of times pftt. but since he came to my school i have asked my best friend about him because he used to go to her school for about a month before coming to my school, and she told me he was talking to this one one girl a bit, so i was a little confused but i didnt want to come off as annoying so i became a little less energetic because i didn't wanna annoy him. so now my best friend told me he was hanging with this one girl and went to an amusement park with her as well. so im really confused now because i dont know if hes using me, or just being a player and im getting played. and i was texting him and he said how he cant date and all this other stuff because its against the rules of his exchange program, so now im really hopeless lol. i want him and im falling in love with him, but i dont even think he likes me back and is just using me as another one of his "girls" he bagged in america. im confused and need tips and help please tell me what i should do!
I don't think you need tips, just some advice and guidance. I have a few and u can choose to follow all or none of them. Best option is to talk more to someone close that u can trust, even if its a family member. They can help you better than some random internet person because they know u better and the situation. For Life advice I would say in any situation dealing with someone close is to first truly love yourself. Actually talk to yourself, sit down then listen and reply. Ask urself big questions like, "Am I being realistic or emotional, if his gonna leave anyways then what do I really want and can I get it a better way" or "Am I being dramatic, there are better days ahead". If u love yourself u will find something that makes you so much more happy and with less pain, people aren't as important as yourself. But dont let ego make u toxic. For 'Nothing Matters' advice, I would say learn from the experience, go as deep as u want, if his the player ur gonna be the leader leading him on till his real colors show. Also wat does it matter what he thinks, if his leaving anyways then it doesn't matter what he thinks. Plus if its a good or bad experience you will still learn something out of it and experience is valuable in this life if u can remember it. Your young, so you will and can make mistakes. As long as u learn will you truly progress (Loving yourself also makes getting up after a mistake possible because you know your trying ur best). General advice is to talk, either find what ur looking for directly or u can find it indirectly by asking him how he feels about other people, talking through other people is always a broken communication and can do way more harm than actually confronting the actual person. Communication in a friendship or Relationship is the strongest glue to fix any break. If its unfixable then there really wasn't much u could do anyways. lastly, don't trust him, words are just words, actions is what make character. Be wise and condomise if u ever get there. Don't make irreversible mistakes over a stupid boy.
0:01 -Heather
3:11 -Prom queen
5:24 -8
thx😇
Being the second option in everything actually feels similar
what about not even being an option
It hurts sometimes when you are not even a option
its sad how youtube comforts me then the ppl that I thought loved me :(
I'm not the second option, I was never an option..
LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!
Don't let people give you a bad reputation
Hope you never hurt yourself in a way that you hate yourself..
I am your friend :) (THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR 60 LIKES 🎉 you are the best!)
U made me cry, same to you stranger ❤️
Thank you! Your kind :)❤
To whoever reads this,
i love you
i love your smile
i love your laugh
i love your personality
i love your hair (or lack thereof)
i love your insecurities
i love your accomplishments
i love your failures
i love your eyes
i love your beauty
i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
i love the way you dance
i love you on your happy days
i love you on your sad days
i love you on the days you feel lonely
i love you on the days you feel helpless
i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
i love you on the days you feel forgotten
i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
i love you on the days you feel loved
i love you on the days you feel sick
i love you on the days you feel motivated
i love you on the days you feel depressed
i love you on the days you feel stressed
i love you on the days you feel crazy
i love you on the days you feel hopeful
i love you on the days you feel cuddly
i love you on the days you feel clingy
i love you on the days you feel amazing
i love you on the days you feel beautiful
i love you on the days you feel like a failure
i love you on the days you feel angry
i love you on the days you feel aggressive
i love you on the days you feel horrible
i love you on the days you feel safe
i love you on the days you feel unsafe
i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
i love you on the days you feel weird
i love you on the days you feel ok
i love you when you're healthy
i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
i love your taste in music
i love your taste in movies
i love your taste in tv shows
i love the way you move
i love the way you act
i love you when you cry
i love you when you're kind
i love you when you're mean
i love you when you're alone
i love you when you can't feel
i love you when you feel too much
i love you when you can't take life anymore
i love you when you feel like it's too much
i love you when you're asleep
i love you when you have nightmares
i love you when you have dreams
i love how you believe
i love you when you believe in yourself
i love you when you don't believe in yourself
i love you when you hate yourself
i love you when you love yourself
i love the way you think
i love you problems
i love your solutions
i love how you support
i love you when you're in pain
i love you when you're hurt
i love your promises
i love your secrets
i love your attitude
i love you sass
i love your creativity
i love your voice (or lack thereof)
i love you hand gestures
i love your stories
i love your wounds
i love your scars
i love your face
i love your past
i love your future
i love your present
i love your outfits
i love your style
i love your art
i love your honesty
i love you when you lie
i love you when you're tired
i love you when you're energetic
i love how you look
i love how you cook
i love you when you're adventurous
i love you when you're scared
i love your imperfections
i love your perfections
i love you when you worry
i love you when you talk (or communicate)
i love your opinions
i love you when you have a headache
i love you when you have a stomach ache
i love you when you help others
i love you when you need help
i love you when you're mature
i love you when you're immature
i love you in the hard times
i love you in the easy times
i love you when life is meh
i love you when you're responsible
i love you when you're irresponsible
i love you when you fight
i love you in your darkest moments
i love you in your brightest moments
i love your heart
i love you in the day
i love you in the night
i love you at midnight
i love you at 3 am
i love you at all times
i love you at your best
i love you at your worst
i love the little things you do
i love all of you
i love you when you're you
i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
This is probably the only thing that has made me smile in a while I want to die so much and I hardly make it through the day with out wanting to die or kill myself so thank you solo much and actually have almost never heard these things co thank you for this beautiful comment that I have read because this actually gave me confidence for the first time probably ever in my life esp once again thank you so much and WE LOVE YOU TOO💕💕
A random stranger on the internet😛. LOVE YOU
Thank you so much....I needed this 🥲😔
this make me happier a bit. Thanks
I never knew I needed this soo much thanks for making me feel better❤
Thank you, I needed it so much, It feels good to vent, But its hard to type, You never know what's going on inside someone's mind, I'm always smiling, but not on the inside..
I had a friend, A best friend. I was living perfect, until she got jealous, of my little sister, so she tried to hurt her, I stopped her, and lets just say it wasn't pretty (Almost had to go to the emergency room) So I was NOT OK, Until I found her, the perfect one, I loved her, we were soulmates, we liked the same things, we would call for hours on end, and then she got sick. We were supposed to go on a trip together. So, I went to school worrying about her, all day (then school was horrible, bullying) I came home, Haven't been on electronics (How I talk to her) for 2 days. I check on her, and she says, "Its so funny your mad because I was sick and we couldn't go, I knew I never should have friended you, your just using me, that's the kind of person you are, I'm breaking up with you" And when I read that, I started to cry, I had someone, and now I have no one, I can't trust myself to keep a friendship, I have OCD, and Trust Issues... This happened 2 days ago. I'm just crying everywhere I go, listening to comfort songs.
It's crazy we are sad about not being someone option or being the second one to be chosen when really all you need is yourself cause when your alone all you have is yourself that is the only one you need to make yourself happy choose yourself☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆
first one to listen last one to be heard
It hurts that this is so damn relatable
So true but so hard to accept it 😔😣😖
i’m not even an option💀
Now you are sweetheart !
Talk to me :) you’ll always be an option to me ❤
Ik I’m a stranger but that doesn’t mean I won’t care about what you’re going through :D
@@twinsbutterflies4034 you’re so cuuute thank you 🙏 :)
Why is this so true when my friends get in to fights they ran up to me and hangout with je but when there friends i get called rude things and then they leave me out it just hurts....
Lol I'm not even an option
It's okay , There will definitely be someone whose first priority is you :) I am so proud of you
I'M SO SORRY BUT THE WYA I SNORTED WHEN I READ THAT ( real!! )
I just want to feel pretty and not have to look at other girls and wish it was me
So real
I'm always the second option. For everyone. And it sucks, really it does. My friend doesn't even care for me. She's so happy around her... And I just make her mad. I don't know what to do..
I’ve never been an option
always been the favorite child getting toys but i don't know if i just want toys now.
girl what does this even mean
probably means they want their parents love or wtv
Thank you so much for this
✿♡
Do you ever realise that you were the second option after you already went through with it but some part of you is ok with it bc they are still giving you that attention you are craving even though they don’t actually want you the way you want them
Im not an option
Can't afford to lose but 2nd option hurt so i closed the door so noone can knock anymore . The room sometimes hurt but we will heal ❤
and yet they still don't choose you.
Fr😢 im Always second Option
3:11 is by beach bunny
Oh sorry there must have been a typing mistake
You told me you like me and yet you got back with her in under 4 weeks of your confession.
I know you don't care about how much you hurt me but you should at least know that you broke me, only so that someone else could stitch me back together. I didn't leave you let go. I didn't cry I bled. They wipe my tears, they bandage my wounds [not cutting myself, speaking metaphorically]
you know its good when its starts with heather
I ❤you’re staff ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
I'm neither the first nor the second option😥
You know its gonna be lit when the first song is Heather 🥲❤️🩹
No guy I have ever liked likes me. Now the one that was perfect, the one i thought was THE ONE, likes my best friend.
BAHAHAHAAHAH......ok jokes over, come back home...
I'm not even an "option" cuz I'm a guy..
Same they'd prefer the girl, cause you're a guy that's weird
I needed thar
On my mom’s birthday my brother and I pranked our mom and have our friend call her as a doctor, and say that we got into car accident and had only one heart to transplant and she chose my brother
I hope you are okay 🫂
never been first
You will definitely find someone who puts you first ♡
ok so there is this boy that just transferred to my school, hes a exchange student from Latvia to be exact and ive been seeing him around so i thought i should talk to him. he takes my morning bus so i followed him on Instagram, and since we have been on the bus he would lean on me alot and tell me that i should give him more eye contact because i was shy lol, he even poked my thigh a couple of times pftt. but since he came to my school i have asked my best friend about him because he used to go to her school for about a month before coming to my school, and she told me he was talking to this one one girl a bit, so i was a little confused but i didnt want to come off as annoying so i became a little less energetic because i didn't wanna annoy him. so now my best friend told me he was hanging with this one girl and went to an amusement park with her as well. so im really confused now because i dont know if hes using me, or just being a player and im getting played. and i was texting him and he said how he cant date and all this other stuff because its against the rules of his exchange program, so now im really hopeless lol. i want him and im falling in love with him, but i dont even think he likes me back and is just using me as another one of his "girls" he bagged in america. im confused and need tips and help please tell me what i should do!
I don't think you need tips, just some advice and guidance.
I have a few and u can choose to follow all or none of them.
Best option is to talk more to someone close that u can trust, even if its a family member. They can help you better than some random internet person because they know u better and the situation.
For Life advice I would say in any situation dealing with someone close is to first truly love yourself. Actually talk to yourself, sit down then listen and reply. Ask urself big questions like, "Am I being realistic or emotional, if his gonna leave anyways then what do I really want and can I get it a better way" or "Am I being dramatic, there are better days ahead". If u love yourself u will find something that makes you so much more happy and with less pain, people aren't as important as yourself. But dont let ego make u toxic.
For 'Nothing Matters' advice, I would say learn from the experience, go as deep as u want, if his the player ur gonna be the leader leading him on till his real colors show. Also wat does it matter what he thinks, if his leaving anyways then it doesn't matter what he thinks. Plus if its a good or bad experience you will still learn something out of it and experience is valuable in this life if u can remember it. Your young, so you will and can make mistakes. As long as u learn will you truly progress (Loving yourself also makes getting up after a mistake possible because you know your trying ur best).
General advice is to talk, either find what ur looking for directly or u can find it indirectly by asking him how he feels about other people, talking through other people is always a broken communication and can do way more harm than actually confronting the actual person. Communication in a friendship or Relationship is the strongest glue to fix any break. If its unfixable then there really wasn't much u could do anyways.
lastly, don't trust him, words are just words, actions is what make character. Be wise and condomise if u ever get there. Don't make irreversible mistakes over a stupid boy.
ok thank you lol very much@@Lucky-zz4jq
CASIIEEEEE
Same tho
If I'm preety will u like me¿
They say beauty makes boys happy...
its fucking sad the comment section feels like im talking to a therapsit
The song heather- it sounds like a boy is singing it- :)
Not even the option 😅
😢😔
cómo que prom queen de bad bunny XD
Not pov for me.
this one is for the therapist friends 👍🥲
Lol I'm not even an option
your my option
You will be in future
You will always be an option to someone somewhere ❤