My Wife Stopped Drinking Alcohol | Intentional Living
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2023
- Living intentionally is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. Consider what aspects of your life you have accepted without making a conscious decision. Take a moment to reflect on where you are in life and where you want to be. Then, evaluate your daily habits and actions to ensure that they align with your goals.
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Also recently stopped drinking, mainly coz I felt really convicted in my spirit and also I felt like I was living a double life. Saturdays I would drink and get tipsy at braais, then Sundays I'm lifting my hands high praising Jesus. I was like nope, I need to decide to do one, cannot do both. It's not easy though, I still crave alcohol, especially on weekends. But God has been so good and has helped me fight the urge to drink each time. So Steph, you've got this girl!
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Ishuu, are you me right now 🥲
What I do when I crave alcohol or the taste I buy non alcoholic drinks or have my juice in a glass wine (apparently your mind registers it in a different way try it ) I totally get what you are saying
I’ve never met a person that quits alcohol and regrets their decision 👏🏻
I quit social media in 2020. My son started Grade R.
I wanted to be present when he started his schooling career. I had Facebook, Instagram, Hangouts. I had the fear I would miss out on a lot of things, not staying "updated enough" with my family.
I deleted all my accounts, I only have WhatsApp & LinkedIn.
I used to be tired all the time & I couldn't understand why? When I deleted the accounts I had more time & I would fall asleep earlier. A few days later it dawned on me all the time I had to do other things. I do miss Facebook now & then when I miss my families in other cities. But yet I gained so much more, precious time with my son.
Am I sorry I deleted all social media? No.
Thank you for sharing💟.
Your story is almost identical to mine. I started drinking and partying at a young age, still very functional until I was 25. Made very bad decisions while drunk, got sick etc. I cut down but found the Lord at 23. I got baptised on the 30th of October 2022 and had my last drink on the 29th of October 2022 and asked God to be with me because I had been fantasising about quitting alcohol for three years. I know there are mixed ideas about alcohol and Christianity, but I had a conviction that I can’t fulfil God’s plan for my life while drinking. It’s been 10 months and God is helping me, because the flesh is weak as I still crave alcohol
Once you've applied discipline to one area of your life,you will see it come through in other areas of your life. Heard that one very well Ma'am 👏
I used to love wine amongst other drinks but when i saw the Enyobeni incident that happened July 2022 in East London and also being a parent of a 12 year old i just knew it was time to stop. I dont know how but God has been able to sustain me thus far and since then ive never had an urge to drink.
Can't get over how beautiful Steph is🥰, Rhulani has a gorgeous mother no🧢😝😅❤. Thank you guys for blessing my Tuesday🥺🔥 Love yall
I’m on my 18th day alcohol free. I had a deep conviction and would feel so guilty after drinking. Through my journey of struggling to stop I realized I’m an emotional drinker . I didn’t like alcohol that much but I found it comforting. Once I realized my why , it was a bit easier to actually stop . The journey is difficult but therapy is helping
This is such a relatable content. I relate cause I stopped drinking alcohol in 2021 and i never looked back. i find that i hear God's voice more clearer now and I'm so much happier and healthier then ever 🙌❤️
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Laziness for me is the hardest thing to let go of I feel safer doing nothing ❤
Maaaaaaaan! I really wanted to hear this,ijooooooooo! I really need to curb my use of social media. Sometimes I reach for my phone as soon as I open my eyes to check emails and read news and like Hungs said,you are putting your body through a rollercoaster of emotions before you are out of bed and sometimes you even forget to thank the Lord that you are awake,alive and fully functional.
Great seeing you both,i have missed you and I will be eagerly waiting for that "anyday,anytime" postings 😅😅😅😅
Thank you for sharing. Have a blessed week ahead ❤❤.
this is the confirmation i needed , thank you so much for this video . social media has me wrapped around its fingers i can not even have a productive day , i can not even do a simple chore like washing dishes. this is where my journey of social media detox starts . i pray and hope i see the light and change . thank you once more for this lovely video
I can relate.. I deleted TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. I’m feeding my mind with information that inspire me.. that feeds my mind with positivity.. I’m happy so far.
I quit Twitter earlier this year, I deleted instagram and Facebook few weeks back. I will definitely return to instagram and facebook, but Twitter I'm completely done with it.. I struggle a lot with social media addiction, Its such a huge struggle.
Stephanie i really adore you for saying this in the presence of your hubby,how innocent,Hungani love her even more,God bless this couple abundantly
There’s calmness & peace that’s tangible in you Mrs Ndlovu. Keep pressing into God.
This hit home for me. It’s very important to sit with oneself to ask the important questions.
A hundred 💯 percent relate with Steph. Thank you Hun! ❤
Hungani looks at Steph with so much respect 🥺❤️
Yhoooo! I bloody needed this, this hit my soul like a double edged sword, thanks guys.🎉
I quit alcohol for a year before getting married and when I came back to it, I couldn't drink my favorite which was a savannah. I still drink and stop whenever I want to. I think me stopping was the very reason that alcohol sort of controlled me and I didn't like how I behaved when drunk. Now I am able to control myself, so the break was to get my reasons right as to why I am drinking because I too started way young
This was soo good!
Thank you for the info. I am still fighting a hard battle and this showed me just how deep-rooted it is. God continue to bless you and enlarge your family territories Steph!
Ag mahn just love how you guys never shy away from being vulnerable with the online family and I love that so so much it makes us relate to you guys as people that go through the same things we go through on a day to day . Thank you for being who and what you both are loads of love ❤
Niiiice 🥰🥰🥰😇 really needed this 🙏
I love these types of relatable content …
Real people stuff !!!!
Thank you guys for this ❤
Great topic guys
Thanks for the encouragement 🙏💞
Thanks for your testimony. It is a journey and there are more things that you'll discover along the way 💛💛💛
I get extremely excited when I get that notification! 🙃♥♥
What an amazing amazing video❤️. One needed, with so much depth and truth. I love. Well Fam I’m also on on a journey of living intentionally. I’ve set aside time each and everyday to spend studying the Word of God in order to deepen my relationship with him
Strongholds are no joke! I am glad that you are in the discernment process!
Love to see u guys bk again
What an educative discussion ❤. Thanks guys for such an informative episode 👏🏾
beautiful convo !!!! thank you !
Yay💃💃☺ I screamed when I saw its 29 minutes long. Love it❤
Informative and insightful conversation, praying that God sustain you on your journey. Thanks Steph for uplifting women through difficult seasons. 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️
It's Steph giving us a whole sermon there at the end for me❤
This hit home. I agree 🎉❤
Keep on Steph lm with you on no alcohol since 2021
I'm intentional on the social media addiction and being focused in completing my PhD
Thank you for the motivation
I love you Mrs Steph, your honesty and transparency is liberating me.
God is soo Good ya'll, he led me to this chanel 1st episode i have ever watched and its this one specifically that speaks to what im going through, i have felt convicted to stop drinking alcohol for many years, i decided to stop 6 months ago. Im just so glad i was led to a like minded person who's on the same journey as i am, i dont have anyone that i can speak to regarding this journey and that can fully understand, all of my friends drink. Coming across this channel was like God encouraging me in a subtle way. I relate a 100% with Steph. God continue to use you and hubby as his vessels.
This is such a wholesome mindfulness story time. Love it thank you guys. So pleasantly surprised to see that there's actually a few of us embarking on this alcohol less journey. Very encouraging
Loved this video! ❤
That was powerful 👏 may God bless you 🙏❤ thank you so much
I am definitely that person who relates to Steph..Thank you for this I needed it.❤
Beautiful topic thank you guys for enlightening us❤ I thoroughly enjoyed this
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Congratulations Steph💃💃
First of all, I appreciate how soft spoken both of you are. Thank you for this video, it was just another way of God's ways of communicating with me. Lol He's beeeeen talking to me about my social media and SLEEP addiction. Steph mentioning time as a "GIFT" went straight to my soul. Lol this entire video is a sermon.. Thank you
I am so glad I watched this, because I feel exactly the same way Steph feels about alcohol, I now know what I need to do, thanks Steph
Great one! I think I want to actually start and be consistent with my hobbies. I have a tendency to isolate and eat a lot of junk. Having good hobbies and habits.. can change one’s health and wellness. I’m game for the journey! Thank you Ndlovu’s!!!🎉🎉🎉
Firstly Steph is really beautiful ❤, and I can totally relate to Hungani, never really thought of the effect of consuming all this content that is so different one after the other and what it does to your mind, spirit and how you feel throughout the day. Something I’m also working on.
Such an impactful video. Love love it.
I've been trying to quit . My 'why' is , I realized I suffer from social anxiety , and alcohol makes me calm and comfortable around people .However I feel terrible the day after ; I become sick for days , I can't work , I can't eat , I have bad dreams , I feel disconnected from God . My skin goes dry I can count a lot . The cost for drinking is just too high than the pleasure I get from it. That is why I am deciding , I quit ! I want to be mindful and intentional about my decisions !
Love this content ❤So relatable.
Just got reminded of why I love you guys! ❤Thank You
This was so good!👌
Congratulations Steph💃💃💃 I'm super proud of you. remember that change comes with a bit of loneliness hence you feel a bit incomplete at times.
I can 100% relate to this intentional living is necessary especially in this day and age when so much is available, so much is accessible.
What we desire the most is what we pay attention to the most!! I love that Steph 🥹👏❤️
Loved every part of this.
I think I have that exact social media addiction and to be honest its dangerous and I have to start the journey of overcoming my addiction 😢
Thank you so much for your transparency. Thank you for letting courage and boldness to overcome any shame or anxiety. Remember that your openness also transforms others.
God knows I needed this Word 🙌🏽😭
I started alcohol when I was so young,but now decided to be lyk alcohol ain't for me.....4 months without drinking alcohol and some people are lyk no we will see December what you'll be doing,but I didn't say that I'm taking break from alcohol but I'm stopping to drink alcohol,you inspire me Steph and thank you for being the person you are
I so relate to you Steph. Been feeling like that for the longest time and I guess pregnancy played a part in slowing me down, making me realize I don't need to drink. Hopefully I will eventually stop drinking.
This is deep. I have never taken alchol but surely there is stuff i need to take stock of and detox from....thanks...m inspired. Well done Steph
Good to see you fam
This conversation helped me so much.
Im currently going through the same phase of my life,i have stopped drinking for about a month now because i got sick.But i find myself asking myself if i really need to start drinking again,Im working on my relationship with God and i feel like this is one step in the right direction and i should just keep it off.For me to be albe to be a whole month sober is a miracle on its own because i can drink shame🙃.
I honestly pray once i get better and i make a decision to stop drinking not because im forced to but because i want to stop and be a better me in this walk im taking with my God.
I needed to hear this. The way i love my wine God🥲🥲
This was so good to watch as I've also let go of the devil's lettuce, which had become a horrible daily habit but 5 months in and I don't think I'll ever go back. Next on the list is alcohol. All the best on your journey Steph
Beautiful storyline.
The intro, Everything😍😁👌🏻
Beautiful couple. Awesome topic. What more could one ask for?! 😉😜 Thank you for this video guys.
Patiently waiting 🤩🎉❤ #ndlovugang #notification_gang
I loved this convo
Firstly, we are appreciative of your sit-downs. They high key feels like therapy... I am actually struggling as well with alcohol and I have made excuses as to noo I'mma drink only wine after being convicted by the holy spirit, coming across such videos of testimonies, and receiving all sorts of spiritual teachings. Let me be obedient 🤕❤
I am always happy to see you guys 😊
Steph ALWAYS speaks so well and really is wise❤️ loved this conversation. Thank you guys💕💕
Oh my goodness I can't wait 💃💃💃💃💃
I’ve missed such from you two 🥺
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Also Steph, you look amazing 🤩
Mr and Mrs Ndlovu thank you for this video.
I'm new and loving it here❤❤❤
Funny how I was convincing myself to get back into alcohol and then i come past this video its been a whole year without it and im not missing anything about it i really relate with you when you said you sometimes feel like theres something missing buh also going back to that isnt worth it, thank you soo much for your transparency ❤❤
We love you so much Ndlovu’s Uncut 😍❤️
Thank You Holy Spirit!!
This was so good can't wait for more content..... Teddy Pendergrass when somebody loves you back, top track
Not 60/40, not 70/ 30 I'm talking about 50/50 kinda love! That's a jam!
"Sometimes it's not obsession , it's worshipping that certain thing"
This video is so timely, i literally noted down and told myself that i will stop drinking alcohol two weeks ago. I have always had this strong conviction but this time since i have taken my relationship with God on another level so alcohol and being spirit filled don't align. Also, it's not likd I'm a heavy drinker and can't do without it, mostly it wax just FOMO really and because i started drinking really really young and I'm almost 30.
Thanks for the video guys I have been taking stock of my weight and it's helps to be intentional indeed I Have seen an improvement
The intro ❤❤❤❤🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
when watching your videos I know I will come out with some educational information. Thank you.
I loved this wow beautiful couple. Loved the last part of the singing was very funny
I really enjoyed watching this🥰❤️thank you for the content that you guys serve
I always learn something new from you guys❤
This got me reflecting on my social media content intake and I wasn’t pleased at all at how it’s sky rocketed .Thank you for an insightful eye opener
My problem too. I've toned down a little but I'm still consuming more social media content than I should.
Hungani looks at Steph with so much respect 🥺❤️
I've been a person who loved to help a lot, lately I've discovered that I have forgotten who I am and wat I love after I've learned that helping others had become an obligation, it felt like a duty and I was unhappy... I recently let go of many relationship whom I think were toxic ND build more close one wd God... through this journey it became clear to m dat drinking was not my thing I jc found myself doing it and am praying that I go back to who I am ND quit being someone else.
You guys are my addiction i love love you ❤❤❤
Stephanie looks great .
Happy to see Kids
Love that Steph, quiting alcohol is something that i really desire for myself bit yeah.... SO Hungani please no more buying alcohol in the house
Same here… I don’t even like drinking but just cos it’s Friday night I’ll have that urge to just go get a bottle of wine and just drink while doing laundry etc … I don’t like it, I haven’t been able to stop though, I don’t know how to…
I only drink on weekends ( Friday and Saturday) but but sometimes I feel like an addict…
Love it for you Steph... You got the inteo rhythm... ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 You're theeee girl!popopooooom😊😊
Luv this couple ❤