Wedding Planner Struggles With Expensive Wedding - Rich Bride Poor Bride 513 - Love At First Bite
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- čas přidán 23. 06. 2021
- Gurj is a groom stuck in between fulfilling Sukhi's wedding day wishes and trying not to put his dad in the poorhouse...
- Jak na to + styl
I like that the groom defends his father's budget making sure the father doesn't end up in the "poor house". The bride has very little respect for father in law.
Or for her husband, for that matter!
his family invited 750 ppl...they could cut ppl....
I agree but she is only inviting 150 people
The wedding planners have no respect for the budget either. She had no idea about the snow machine until they came up with them.
I do feel bad for her in that she's limited by the fact that her family have invited hundreds of people she doesn't know. But she is still being ridiculous
I am an Indian and this is crazy.. Totally shameful behavior by the bride..
Are they actors ?
Totally agree, the bride had no empathy or respects to her father in law to be, those wedding planners knew the groom respected his dads money, but took advantage of this, I felt so annoyed by their greed, egging the bride on with more & more ideas, to show off to guests the bride didn't even know, very shameful on the planners and spoilt bride, feel so sorry for the grooms future, poor gut
Same
@@poppie015 why r u sorry for the guy?? That’s not an arranged marriage, they chooses each other!!!! 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Money digger bride 😂😂😂😂👰👰
Being an Indian myself, I can relate to the idea of parents paying for the wedding. But if ur bride is this unreasonable, man, I would run.
Being an Indian I strongly believe PARENTS SHOULD NOT PAY FOR WEDDING. Make the couple do it. The wedding business is a scam.
My first thought was... RUN!
I have a question? Is the a dowery involved with the marriage? I know that arranged marriages with those requirements are still in place in some countries. Does this affect that cost of what is spent for the wedding, the reception, the traditions, and the gold ornaments, the professional makeup, hair, and all of the clothing and foods etc.? I am asking because I have known some Indian friends who came to America in order to not follow those traditions, as well as from other countries that still have arranged marriages. ( I know that this still happens in the USA, I am going by what the people I have become friends with over time.)
ABSOLUTELY RUN RUN RUN
Right.
I have an idea:
What about 2 independent, self supporting adults pay for their own wedding? We did. We did not feel entitled to our parents' money. What we could afford, we did.
RIGHT!?!! In the beginning they said he's a chef & she's a newscaster, soooo.... THEY GOT MONEY!! I mean he's fine it's her that's the problem! Sorry not sorry but what does he see in her? She's really mean
This 🙌👏
That's what we did!! Invited who we wanted, shot down any freeloaders and basically called all the shots. We told both sets of parents to just show up and enjoy the celebration.
This is the one🙌🏾. AGREED!!!
Maybe bc of cultural things idk 🤷🏿♀️
Listen, If my inlaws were paying for my dresses & wedding, I'd be the humblest, most thougtful, most grateful bride ever. She's an ingrate. Also, the black decorations are kinda ugly😑.
Their inlaws pay for her dresses while she pays for his chlothes. She pays for the first day, his family for the second. Trouble is: they are very different socially. She is the main earner and could easily afford the first day, so we only see that small instant when his chlothes did not suit him properly. Maybe he gained a bit around the waist. Everything else is only for the second day. Maybe she would have chipped in if asked politely, but I only hear the Groom complaining.
@@stefaniebraun3319 the difference is I bet she ran that show too.
@F. Alfonso Albuquerque Same in my country too🇵🇭💃
@@stefaniebraun3319 well. She is just terrible.... totally sensless and tasteless.
@F. Alfonso Albuquerque Its the same for our culture…unfortunately they are from same country as me lol. My dad would not even let me write in black ink on a greeting card….it is preferred to be red ink. So wedding is a whole another thing. 😊
SCREW THE WEDDING! Pay $80 at the courthouse and go on a long honeymoon, come back and put money down on a house!
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You are for real' . & I agree.
I could not agree more with you. I married my now ex-husband in a courthouse in Reno, our rings were silver bands that had cost 10 quid each and we shared a bottle of champagne afterwards. It was a great day that we both enjoyed. Our marriage did not last, but the wedding was great.
That is my go to plan lol
Exactly
This whole episode has my blood boiling !
This bride has NO RESPECT for her husband or his family’s budget. Bride keeps pleading and manipulating/threatening with poor groom to get what she wants. It’s THEIR reception, not HER reception. And that “surprise” - what a laugh lol
My blood is boiling too. Selfish bride pushover groom. This has put me off any formal weddings, just sign the papers at the courthouse and have a hippy dippy reception where even the guests can save by informal clean informal 👗 dressing.
I am Indian and we r known to have crazy expensive weddings beyond our capacity but this bride still manages to give me some second hand embarrassment.
It's quite nauseating how she can spend so much money in a wedding specially when it's his parents money.
That really unbelievable, gold digger.
Disgusting
She likes money
What’s even more disgusting is that the groom and her in-laws were willing to give into it. I’m not stating it’s disgusting because of their character, but rather it is disgusting because she was able to manipulate them. I don’t know if they’re still married… it would be interesting if they still were. In the end, I think the groom was a pushover. He didn’t try to put his foot down, but I guess she was able to manipulate him. I don’t know how that is true love. But, thank goodness I’m not the one married to her. LOL LOL
Now she will be their best daughter inlaw...
I don’t understand spending so much money on a wedding if you can’t afford it. Ridiculous.
Most family had intimate wedding 40 or less people only so alot hassle of not having many options and worry about the cost of dream dress or cake ect. And yes people's opinions of affordable is so different from people point views and how they are raised especially if you grew up having it all and never heard of no and always thinking other that help doesn't mean is your money sometimes people want it back is like loan.
I sooo agree. They focus SO much on the Wedding Day…when there is a MARRIAGE ahead of them that will require positive behaviour, trust and communication. Money is the #1 reason for divorce. Life is a bumpy ride, hopefully more & more couples think ahead and not throw in the towel at the first hard time.
People are pressurised to have a big wedding In south Asian cultures. If people have a small wedding it's seen as strange. If they invited you to their wedding, they'll be expecting an invite back. Covid has however made it easy to have smaller intimate weddings without others feeling offended.
I totally agree....
His family wanted 900 guests! She has 150. Much more reasonable.
The repeated “take it to Poppa D, explain it to him, I know he will not refuse" pissed me off, she knew the old man was saving face so as not to appear poor to the public and she took advantage of it to push unnecessary excesses on his budget while keeping her family completely out of it.
The wedding planners were just helping her push her agenda of making her father-in-law spend more. One of the major duties of the wedding planner is to help the couple marry their expectations with reality.
I can promise you that the after the wedding drama with the In-laws will be ugly. Hope they last anyway!
Ethnic parents in North America especially the dad seem to feel a big wedding bigs them up in the local community ?
Exactly!!! I didn’t like the wedding planners at all, I felt like they were not being budget friendly AT ALL.
"she knew the old man was saving face" - i doubt it. As in: I think she is too stupid and self centred to consider what the old man is thinking of can do. You attribute her with malice, when pure stupidity is good enough for her behaviour.
I’m not sure what shocks me more… the fact this couple is still together, the wedding planners being so quick to spend & enable this greedy bride or a grown woman with her own money spending her future FIL’s money like a teen with her parents credit card in the mall for the first time!
But the father in law invited 900 people so
The way she tells him he needs to lose weight after the outfit she had made didn't fit him. Can you imagine if the roles were reversed and he told her she just needed to lose weight?
Oh, for sure he'd have been called a monster for being so insensitive.
@@mpazinambao2938 Exactly. I hate the double standard here.
Exactly !! I bet she gave smaller measurements so he would have no choice but to lose weight !
Exactly..she is a spoiled brat
Get out now Gurj! If she doesn’t care about your dad’s money - and whines until she gets what she wants, she’ll be like this after the wedding too. Makes me wonder if they’re still married today?
Exactly. Better to run away
It's already late 😭
It's not too late. Still he can run away
Yup! What I was thinking about the entire time.
This is just the beginning……I’d love to know if they are still together! 🇦🇺🇦🇺
I love his sister she's straight to the point
now I'm thankful being raised by a single mother. that makes me want to take care of my wedding expenses 🙏🏼
I love the sister, she knows when to put her foot down and put them in their places.
Specially when the sister put her in the ugly outfit on purpose. Lmfao
Not her wedding!
To no avail apparently, because they still went over budget with extravagant stuff that was unneeded. I still appreciate the sister trying. She clearly had her father‘s best interest at heart while balancing what her brother wanted at the wedding. The one that was the wildcard the most difficult, was the bride.
But at the end she got her way!!! Then she said "that's nothing"🤨 of course it's not coming out of her pocket!!! Her parents didn't contribute nothing????
@@vivianbracero637 Yes, agreed! It was very very frustrating to watch the bride manipulate the groom and everyone else. I’m sure we all think this: how in the world did they get married and how in the world they stayed married or are they? LOL LOL
Since she thinks $5000 is not much, then they should pay the father-in-law that money back. She annoys the hell out of me.
Ikr
Someone commented that she paid for the first day, to which her grooms family invited 700 people. Then the grooms side paid for the second day, which included the outfits. Should have been swapped to avoid one persons demands falling on the other person, but that would have meant less drama. Still comes of super entitled though.
Greedy and Ugly heart on the inside shows exactly on the outside. She's so disrespectful it's just so cringe worthy to see how she's so self sure of herself. She could of got Kindness and Respect for free without having to rely on the grooms DAD to pay.
Being an Indian I can understand the parents "contributing " to the wedding. We as a culture desperately need to make changes in what is considered a proper wedding that shows our class/ status. That 900 ppl will offer this couple no support in the difficult times that's bound to come. As to the bride...DAMN! What a sense of entitlement. Total disregard of your husbands need. I am so impressed by the sister. Well done in protecting the family. You seem like a woman of worth.
This marriage is doomed! He is out of his mind marrying a”spending machine”!
What a princess, shame on her parents for spoiling her!
She is a successful journalist, he is a cook. She can afford these things and he cannot. She paid for the first day, we see barely anything of because of not enough drama even if she was not happy with the 600 additional guests his family invited. His family is supposed to pay for the second day and struggles to keep up while her family expects a certain style. That is it in a nutshell.
They are worth 900 people there; everyone please keep that in mind! To pay 90,000 is not too bad!
@@stefaniebraun3319 He is not a cook, he's a chef. She's not a journalist, she's a reporter. Try again.
@@ChandanSingh-ej2hu 👏👏👏😂😂😂
@@ChandanSingh-ej2hu that doesn’t change the fact that they made valid points
Why is he marrying her? This guy is in a mess.
That's vry true
She don’t deserve him
She's utterly obnoxious
He is s simp..be thinks he don't get someone better than her .he had too low self esteem
@aria mason I don't like to comment on people's private life, but I disagree with you about his being "lucky." I think this groom is really UNLUCKY "that a 'lady' like her is interested in him." I'm fewer than 10 minutes into the show & I already think that he's in for a lifetime of troubles.
Omg!!!!!! His bride gives me high blood pressure!!!!!!! He is too calm for her behavior!!
😂😂😂😂
She has a point though. She wants a nice wedding and the dad wants 8x the amount of attendees. They should compare what her preferences cost with 300 people (both sides inviting 150 each) vs 900. If the dad wants to invite soooo many people and she clearly doesn't want that, why should she dismiss her wedding vision because of people she doesn't want there?
If she is expected to compromise on decor for the sake of his budget, maybe he should compromise on the guest list?
The farther is paying for the guests HE invited. She is free to buy whatever if SHE (or her family) is paying.
@@umbertlambert2113 So you wanted her to drape 1/10th of the wall so her guest would have a nice wall. Its not fair to bride. If they invited 300 people total she could get her centre pieces and decor.
But she shows her true self when she doesnt seem to care that his outfit is comfortable for him..says alot about her. I dnt see this ending well.
Let the news reporter pay for her own wedding
Lucky she wasn't my sister in law because I would tell her I got news for you taking advantage is not cool just because she had a cool winter break .
The Bride and her family usually pay for the first day and the groom and his family for the second. We see the second and hardly anything about the first.
Yes please pfffff
She could at least pay for all those little ideas she kept adding like the snow machine and cutouts
LOL. I don't necessarily disagree it's just funny to me that you think TV news reporters actually make any money, especially on obscure Canadian television networks.
What a greedy bride! I would be ashamed of myself!
I could hardly watch this episode because the bride is so cringeworthy. Her photography surprise was as insulting as it was tacky. She is also a fool :she is going to have to live with this family for the rest of her life who will probably never let her live down her over the top extravagance.
why she is right. if they didn't invite all those people they don't know there would be enough money for her to spend on the important things like their clothing and the wedding they want.
obviously it is a show and they exaggerate i guess a bit by playing the spoiled once but 900 guest nope
I've noticed that theme on every single episode. Makes me wonder how many of these couples actually last beyond 5 years.
@@Jessicaro They're the ones paying for it. It goes their way.
@@ChandanSingh-ej2hu no it doesn't. she paid for the party the day before. they probably asked for things she couldn't afford too.
it is her wedding. so what do you expect her to do? just invite less people and give your wife her dream wedding. there is no reason whatsoever for you to invite 900 plus guests.
Me and my husband are young (22/23) we paid for our own wedding and did not ask for our families to pay for anything. Hearing that the parents are paying for the wedding at 30 is shocking!
@R S In 2020 I had two jobs working 3am-11am and 3pm-8pm everyday I saved almost every penny. My husband is in the military and he saved every paycheck as well.
I will say in punjabi culture it's common for parents to foot the bill for weddings regardless, even if both the bride and groom are well into adulthood and make their own money, it's a cultural thing. However congrats on paying for your own wedding, it's impressive considering how expensive weddings can get.
How utterly selfish of the bride to expect 15 outfits but the groom didn’t even get a suit that fit.
What a spoiled rotten girl. Yes, girl. How dare she try to get more money from a man who wants to retire?!
1) Why invite 900 people and expect to have it all cheaper?
2) don't bluff to people about your money .. this is how you'll end up
3) Choose a nice partner ... Not the one who insults you on your every sentence
4) Dont try to show off ...
5) The event planners need to chill
6) Grooms' sister is wonderful..
Yes, she does insult him.
Here the man definately have a back story .he probably spoke all big big about his wealth....and she is literally an disgusting one
I don’t believe he chose a bad partner. This is all for the cameras. It’s a show 🤷🏻♀️
I watched some other episode where the groom just threw his wedding ring in the river. Like for real that happened? I don’t think so
Yeah the groom's side is insane as well
900 people will pay (gift) an average of 500$ per couple. So they should be ok.
Those wedding planners were nothing short of disrespectful. Constantly looking past the groom to ask the bride if she's happy. Part of their job is understanding the budget and ensuring the couple stays within it. They look like they're just excited to see the end result!
I think the bride wanted to have small wedding but the in-laws wanted a big wedding so they have to deal with expenses . I am not saying she is nice bride but she has a point tho 🤣🤣
She feels no shame in taking full and entitled advantage of her grooms fathers money. Sickening.
Gurge’s sister is right on with being mindful of the budget
Absolutely loved the sisters sense of budget, and sense of humor.
I liked how she asked them to pay the difference if they wanted it that bad. Very reasonable
Just do one thing . Tell this girl to pay all the bills . Then watch what the wedding look like 🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣
Everyone is giving the bride a hard time, which I get…BUT….FACE IT! THIS IS THE FATHER IN LAW’S SHOW! 900 PEOPLE? SERIOUSLY? HE’S SHOWING OFF!
900 people is normal for Indian.... In india we have avrg 1000 people in our desi wedding
Is the groom's father doing it to show he's a big man in the community?
But he ain’t asking the bride to pay for his “Show off”…they are from the punjabi community and trust me.. everyone knows everyone….
@@johnballard6725 no it is the average Indian wedding guest number. It is totally normal.
The bride is pretty but Lord, she’s a nightmare.
My husband encouraged me to get what I wanted for our wedding day, but I still made it a point throughout to watch my spending because I was using his money. Why is it so hard to be considerate? News flash, the wedding is not just about the bride 😅
🤣
Because you're literally white you don't know shit about indian culture, don't compare a your wedding to this, in India the bride is suppose to leave her home and gi stay with her husbands family , not to talk about dowry and all that. Also she has 150 guest while his side has 700 he should definitely pay for the whole thing
@@user-ml4ps5cq3v spending money has absolutely nothing to do with culture. You can be a smart spender or a selfish spender in any culture. Based on this video, this woman seems like a selfish spender. It’s just a personality trait/habit. Why you are bringing cultural differences into this, I have no idea.
@@alinafed19 bruh you're literally white, obviously you ain't gonna understand the dynamics. I bought culture into it because you compared it to YOUR wedding. Did you also pay dowry at your wedding?
She is average..tbh..but acting way crazy'
I think the wedding planners are taking advantage of the groom.
Definitely
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It's business. It's what they do.
They’re just helping the wife get what she wants.
So true!!!! I would get rid of them!!! There really bad.
If I was the bride, and I had envisioned a caliber of wedding for myself and my future spouse, and then here comes my in-laws adding nearly a THOUSAND people to our day, and dangling the money in our face but at the same time penny punching ME? I’d be furious. Not a single one of her ideas outspends the amount of money his family would be taking care of for the guests the imposed on the couple. Is all her behavior understandable? No I actually think she’s insufferable. But interesting how no one peeped that he essentially penny pinched her after the father in law said he’d pay to expand her vision to meet 1000 extra people. And how he never put his foot down on how many additional people would be there, never advocated for any compromise or a plan to get the needs met…. just essentially enforced that she should suck it up and have a tacky wedding outside of what she/they envisioned bc HIS family wanna invite randos.
What a self indulged Bride ☹️😳🙄. Good luck being married to her.
Obscene to spend so much of the Dads money - they ought to be ashamed ☹️
The sister is a real treat...
I love how she made the bride try on the purple outfit knowing how hideous it would look for her own amusement. That’s the least she deserved !!!!!
As she should be.
Materialistic! And how! Its me, me, me! Poor chap, is this a warning of things to come?
Her face at 34:15 when his sister is discussing the budget and telling them anything they want should be fine as long as it clears the budget 😂😂😂😂
For everyone so mad at the bride, please watch 32:35 where its clear that the couple initially wanted to have a small wedding but were made to comply to their parents wishes of having huge one with over 900 guests. No wonder thats expensive! The only reason the parents are paying, and this is to typical, is because things are largely going to be exactly how they want it to be and they will guilt trip the couple into fulfilling the family's dreams of showing off instead of focusing on the couple getting married and their wishes.
She is a greedy showoff.
These wedding planners are more like wedding spenders
Yes. I agree, I am not a fan of them.
My thoughts exactly
They are too pushy. Which makes them unprofessional
Point
The bride is a piece of work, I agree. But maybe they should have balanced the guest list a bit more. Like 150 guests for the bride and 150 guests for the groom.
Inviting 900 people of whom the bride does not know 700 people is a waste of money.
That's how it happens in India. The wedding function is from the bride's side, where her side of the family invited the people they know. And the reception is from the groom's side and they invite their social circle.
Indian culture is huge on family and community, so cousins and their families, friends, co workers etc. If someone is a part of social circle, they are invited .
It's really different from what you guys have, it's a waste of money ya, but it is what it is. Consequently, we do go to go on way more weddings than you guys too
@@amolpreetkaur3443 well, I m just saying that the family should not complain about her choice of dress and its price tag when they go and spend money on invitations to their dentist, his wife and their secretary. It's equally as stupid. She has a point here - in particular since she seems westernized to the point where she finds the extend of the guest list bothersome. Obviously, the family did not consult her about the guest list.
I am pretty sure not every Indian wedding is like this. Only those who can afford it/ or want to seem like they can afford it would celebrate like that.
And I seem to remember the Indian government outlawed some of these practices because families were put under insane financial pressure just so they could marry their daughters off.
Here, I would call this living beyond your means. Don't spent money you don't have. That 85,000 dollars would have been more than a nice down payment to a family home in Germany. It's absurd. One day with 900 guests, 8 outfit changes and fake snow versus a nice roof over my head.... Hmmmm.
@@amolpreetkaur3443 well, I am Indian…. We had 200-250 guests on our wedding .. my husband and I paid for it (not our parents) and guess what it was in MUMBAI not even some other country!
This us the show off
I absolutely agree. They wanted 900 people so suffer the expense that goes with it. Everything would have been cut by 2/3 if the guest list was at 300. You do have to have more everything inc entertainment if you have almost 1000 people. But I would not want the sister-in-law negotiating on Papa D's behalf. He is right there, let him speak! It looks like the sister-in-law has a wedding ring in, so she already had a wedding. I don't find the bride to be any if the things everyone says. The over budget comes from the over invited.
I am Indian and personally I hate such ostentatious weddings and so does my husband. we had a court marriage. It cost us under £5. Had a small and intimate Reception the next day. Had so much fun, our drinks and dinner reception went on for two days. All our guests slept over and helped us in preparing food and cleaning up the next day. We had such a wonderful time that to this day our friends and family talk about it.
No other place on this planet can match the gorgeous lehengas of CHANDNI CHOWK....👑👑
This wedding should be draped in divorce papers!
They should have hired Indian/ Indian-origin planners. There are cultural nuances which only, people from the same ethnic background can understand...
Agreed
I agree!
Disagree the bride is not respecting the Indian culture of respect the two weddings planners ask initially from the start about respecting the Indian tradition
Agreed
Absolutely a group of dancers Bollywood style would have been better than jugglers at a traditional Indian wedding
I think this is toxic on every level. The bride, the groom, the sister in law... awful
Well....
The bride is right doe. If she had 150 persons at their wedding then it could've been an easy budget. But the groom's parents wants to show off to 900......of their own friends an family. She's right
This is not show off Indian people are integrated and we have large extended families
This woman makes me wonder if she really loves this man. This guy needs to learn how to be a man and put a stop to her using his family. One can only imagine how turbulent this marriage is going to be if he don't learn how to say no to her. I think she is a user.
She is a Reporter. She probably has her own.
Her choice of outfits is also so poor
This selfish bride needs to pay for EVERYTHING SHE WANTS.
She was so bossy. She talks like money grows trees.
Or maybe she should have put her foot down and cut the 450 spongers that are only invited because the grooms father is a horrible show-off who invites literally everybody, no matter if bride or groom even know and like them.
Except she doesn't know a whole bunch of people that are coming and will probably never see them again
@@stefaniebraun3319 she mentioned everything she wants. The grooms dad is paying for the reception for which he invited all the guest he had too.
@@stefaniebraun3319 he's paying. He can invite all the guests he wants. You're expecting him to leave his guests behind to accommodate the bride's wishes in HIS budget? Take your toxic ass somewhere else.
Hey this video must be atleast 2003 - 2005 around after analysing outfits n makeup trends
He had so many reasons and opportunities to tap out😔
But he finalized he fate🤣
I love how women love spend all this money on weddings to show off, meanwhile... other women are just sitting there and finding flaws in everything!! Pure waste of energy and money!
That's very true
Summed up
That's India wedding...summed up
Every time she said: Make it happen IRKED my soul!!!
$20,000 on decor😳
So many guests, numbers are not fair
This whole episode is just aggravating
42:07 Papa d was the only one who didn't enjoy the wedding. You can literally tell that from his forced smile. It seemed as if he wanted to tell his son to run from that bridezilla.
Seriously guys??? still waiting for papadi to pay??? whereas these children earns a lot...shame on them. Wait till they get divorce
I dont care about the budget. The father of my husband paying.
A good son. He wanted his father to retired calmly.
She is the most spoilt bride I have ever seen on this show. I was appalled by how selfish she was.
Wedding planners are hilarious ..they make it more expensive
Exactly and I don't like it at all. This is hilarious 🤧
I had a hard time watching the bride be so selfish and $ based. She made me cringe and I felt sorry for the groom and his family.
I can't believe that she is being so free with her Father in Laws money!
Actors ?
I’m confused....when my Bangladeshi friend got married and they also had several days of events plus 800 guests, the family of the bride paid some events and the family of the groom other ones , basically the costs were almost split. The family of the bride bought the groom’s outfit plus presents for his family and in return the family of the groom provided the reception and leaving home outfits for the bride and presents for that family. I was told that this is the tradition. Why is here only the groom’s family paying ?
they r paying for one of the days; the day showed. and 700 of the 900 guests are from them.
@@msmkp01 Yes. His parents invited 700 guests while her family invited less than 150. Additionally, the bride becomes the property of the groom and his family.
Nowadays this is the Bangladeshi wedding culture as your friend had. But I heard from my grandma, back in their times grooms family used to buy gifts and outfits for the bride and paid for both the wedding and reception program. Bride's family had to buy grooms outfit and some gifts. Also weddings were very simple then.
It's always like that.But here bride is so selfish n brainless.We were never meant to spend which we can't afford n agree.
@@tanjinasharmin5380 that's not true. I am a Bangladeshi . In Bangladeshi wedding the groom side pay for both bride and groom's dresses . They both pay their own bills for holud night . Then bride side pay for the wedding day and the groom side pay for the reception . Then bride side pay for the "firuni " that is like 2nd reception in the next day . Firuni is our local language . It's know as many other names .
Honestly the edit makes her look unreasonable but she brings it up: why are his family inviting 900 guests when just 150 are from her side? The budget and her expensive taste would fair if the guest list was smaller. And she herself said she doesn’t even know the vast majority of those attending that her father in law invited. If they want those people, they can foot the bill 🤷🏾♀️
What a selfish woman, pay for your own wedding, she couldn't even care enough to get him a clothing backup, probably thought it would go into her precious "budget"
I did my whole wedding, Dress, Husbands outfit, hairdresser, 3 tire cake, 2 full sheet cakes, and a self serve outside cookout for guess for $150.00
I initially thought the bride was just a selfish brat but actually, the fact that the groom's side wanted to invite more than 700 people just on their side is what really made every cost the bride recommend seem so outlandish. On top of that, the groom is a total doormat so he deserves to pay ever dime she makes him spend....
I couldn't agree more! She stand up for her with the sister. I was annoyed at both of them, but mostly him
But her attitude of "just make it happen" was disgusting.
Yh that’s the thing that I didn’t like how he is inviting a lot of people and she’s only Inviting 150 not sure if all of her family members are in India and not where she lives currently but then again this whole wedding is a mess she’s using his dad for too much money and she’s wants it all to be her way
Totally not a reason for her to be such a brat, lol coz the groom's dad is paying for it. He can invite as many guests as he likes, he is fine paying for it, isn't he? He never said the bride's family could not invite more than 200 people. Since u are not indian, I will explain it to u. Indian weddings are huge and by that I mean I number there can be guests over 1000 too(incase u didn't know) so I don't really see a reason for her to be so immature and ask her father in law to pay for all of it.
So its like we have 5-6 days of celebration where all 5 days are mostly by the bride’s family and the reception is from bridegroom’s family.. so naturally reception is mostly groom s families and relatives and all .
However the bride here is absolutely out of her mind, we as indians do not behave like this and we are conscious of our budgets and respecting all sides
I love ❤️ the groom's sister 😁 she is legit awesome 😁 is she a lawyer or finance expert in real life?
Agree, on point and smart. 👌
"$5,000 is nothing!" It's chump change???" Good lord! What an outlook on money...That was a very expensive wedding, things were just sooo expensive...but I didn't find things tasteful,, just seemed over the top. Anyways that's just my 2 cents lol
I'm all for traditions and culture, but come on.
Its not even cultural man this bride is just greedy
I stop watching. This whole money thing made me disgusted.
This woman is so out of touch and entitled, she must have been so embarrassed looking back at this years later when she's hopefully matured. Who even gets a massive cut out of themselves? So vain
U think she will change.... Shes tottally nighymare
I don’t think the bride showed any respect or consideration especially that her father in-law was paying for it. She seems very spoiled and entitled she should have been made to help pay for everything.
"5 Thousand isn't even a month worth of income" well, then you should have paid for a lot of things yourself. I get the feeling that the bride just wanted some of these things because she didn't had to pay for them. She could easyly have payed for draped walls, but since Papa D isn't paying she's not getting it..... That's so disrespectful
Everytime he talks about her being unreasonable to the budget I think 750 guests!
But the point is the dad gave a budget. A very generous budget. If she wants to go over she should pay for it herself
The editing on this is so unfair. Those 750 guests cost a lot more than anything she wanted but everything is set to make her look unreasonable.
Right? Getting the steak instead of the chicken or whatever uograde she wants are not that problematic until you realize that expense has to be scaled for like 800 people.
I believe it's unreasonable of the grooms family to tell her to want less when the guest list is so unbalanced!
The longer the guest list, the bigger the expected splash.
I remember this wedding. She was well known. Snow machine was neat. I thought they paid for it on their own as they both made good incomes. Good to see Riaz on this.
We were given the choice of the grand ballroom or deposit on a house. Chose the house, had a small wedding at family home with 10 course Chinese menu with chef in kitchen and that was 47 years ago. Now caring for hubby with dementia.
Wonder how long some of these extravagant, wasteful weddings last. All flash, no substance.
Papa D got caught in his own pride unable to say no, had to show off to the nearly 1,000 guests.
those centerpieces i can make for 25$...
(no not the same,but way better)
Yeah they were fugly but damask was popular in 2008.
Wow. Where is the love? Future father in law wallet? Lol. I though the brides father and mother pays for wedding
Not Indian weddings
Why is the sister all up in their business?
If 900 of his family was their, and only 200 hers, there you go ! Also, the groom’s father was covering the expenses.
Yes and the grooms family covers the rehearsal dinner.
The life size figures were a HIT! No need for a photo booth and what an element of FUN for everyone! I would do that if I had the bucks~
OMG...I love his sister!!!! You both work...why don't you pay for the extra's princess🤣
It seems the bride likes the more expensive dresses just because they are more expensive - her first question about the dresses was “how much is it”, like, the more expensive the better.
Yes! So true! She has no idea, no style, just the price in her head! She wants something others won't be able to afford!!!!???? Well, darling, it is not about the price that made Audrey Hepburn an icon, but the way she could carry it! Even a bathrobe and a towel on her head!!!
$5000 over a $85,000 budget is really very good. Good job wedding planners! Papa Dee tripled the cost of decor and food & drink by inviting 700 wedding guests instead of 150. Instead of 900 it could have been 300 people, 150 each.
I AGREE IDK Why Everyones Picking On The Bride She Did Excellent... Yall Wanted All Those Ppl Everyone Cost.. 150 +150 Wuld Hav Been Perfect...
Finally someone with some sense I'm confident they could have cut costs by more than half if there weren't so many guests.
It’s a Punjabi wedding, 900 guests is normal
@@Noname-bl5hk We Understand That We Talkin About The Cost
He's paying for it. He can have as many guests as he wants. The bride isn't entitled to him paying for her stupid wishes.
I am conflicted. If each family had kept it at 150 or 200 people each, they would have spent way less since they would have needed a smaller venue. Less tables, less food and so on. She did sound spoiled but if there were less people, there would have been less conflict on this episode.
Well if the grooms side didn’t invite as many people, she could of gotten exactly what she wanted for a “decent” price. But the fact that it’s 900+ people and 90% is the grooms side… that means she has to sacrifice what she wants for people she doesn’t know? Not fair.
The bride is greedy and it's all about her. He needs to run, they'll be in the poor house soon.
This must be shot like 10yra ago
Coz her outfit and makeup looks so dated 😂
I’m an Indian and trust me this wedding isn’t as fancy compared to the rich Indians wedding
India is a poor country. The rich are few and far between
@@angelaalbury9985 Nah. Plenty of them. Come visit.
@@angelaalbury9985 even the middle class will have much more gold reserve than a rich one in your country
@@angelaalbury9985 are u nuts??I had my wedding 13 years back even at that time this outfit would have been outdated 🤣🤣🤣🤣my wedding attire 13 years back was more intricate and elegant as compared to her wedding attire..I don know why these PPL are using 20 years backward fashion sense in terms of indian attires 🤣🤣🤣
@@angelaalbury9985 india comes top 3rd country to have top most billionaires in the world....there many poor but also many rich, dont stereotype if you dont know anything...and we have engagement ceremony more big then the weddings in U.S, even in middle class family, nothing to be proud of but just trying to clear your mind from stereotypes..
🤦♀️😣 OMG LADY YOURE UNREALISTIC, A WEDDING REQUIRES BUDGETING AND SACRIFICING THINGS TO MAKE IT WORK.
Anyone else got a headache ?????
My parents spent @ $30,000 on my wedding in 1993 in the S.F. Bay Area in CA. Looking back, I really wish they would've spent maybe a quarter of that and then given us the rest for a down payment on a small house. Money ended up being a huge issue for us the first couple of years of our marriage and that would've taken the pressure off of us. All of our friends thought it was such a beautiful event/evening, but that's all it was. One evening. For $30,000. That money could have helped us get through the stress of the first couple years easily. Live and learn I guess. 🤷♀️ On a side note, Sukhi is a spoiled princess. Idk if they told them to play up these roles, but I didn't like how she didn't seem to care about "Papa D" or his retirement money. Why isn't the bride's family paying for some of this? Or is this part of their culture where the man pays the dowry sort of thing? Selfish is the theme of her wedding folks.
She has no regard at all for her father inlaws well being or their future children's inheritance. She is selfish. And 30 000 is 93 was a lot of money,still is now. Sometimes we make bad choices
The Bride is dreadful. Groom….keep asking the hard questions. You’ve got a long road ahead.
She is the main earner, not him. It is her duty to pay for the first day and his to pay for the second. All the fuss is for the second day, he is supposed to pay for. He married above his station. That is the problem.
@@stefaniebraun3319 How snobbish you are. Bless your heart.
@@BillyAlabama You called her dreadful, not me, even while she paid her part without a fuss.
@@stefaniebraun3319 Bless your heart.
Honestly, the bride has a point......she only wanted 150 guests, her husband's family wanted 700 extra......I know Indian weddings are big but she would've saved a ton of money if she had less guests, and her father in law SHOULD pay the difference since he forced her.
Well the father in law didn't FORCE her .. it's a bold word to say.... N even if he invited his side of guest..which believe me is still not a big no. Of u know about Indian weddings .... Still it doesn't give the bride the right to abuse his money....or even manipulation ur husband n in laws for whatever she wants......
My mother would have thrown flying flip flops .if I acted that crazy and entitled 😂😂😂..
Thankfully me my hubby contributed equal for our weddings..
I get that she was over the top, but if HIS family invited 700 people, shouldn’t they be willing to foot most of the bill???
It sounds so childish for having a wedding at parent's money....and not being considerate...
Someone tell that bride “beggars can’t be choosers” 🤣🤣🤣
After watching this. i really want a simple wedding. Less budget one. I dont want anyone to suffer. :(
My mother and father paid for 2 large weddings for my 2 sisters. When my brother married my parents paid for the wedding rehearsal dinner and the wedding rings. All three weddings had around 250 guests. When I got married my father was only able to give me $3000. He had retired and my mother had passed. He just didn't have the extra money for a large wedding. I completely understood . I was just happy with what he could give. I used the money for my dress and 5 night at the Mirage in Vagas. We also saw 2 Circus Soli shows as part of our honeymoon. That $3000 was well used and we had a blast.