Woman Says She Wants Family To 'Back Off' And Let Her Raise Her Kids

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  • čas přidán 13. 10. 2016
  • A woman says her mother and sister “gang up” on her and accuse her of being a bad parent. Why does she also say they blackmailed her?
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  • @Inuko15
    @Inuko15 Před 3 lety +352

    If you are smoking weed around your kids, and you’re currently living in a minivan, you should be thankful to your family taking those beautiful children in to a safe and secure home.

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Před 2 lety +5

      Her children need to be better off to adopted to another better family that homeless family of hers homeless man is one of him and if she plain to join him being in the tent or in the van together

  • @ysabella3259
    @ysabella3259 Před rokem +33

    “how many kids have you watch grace”
    “of mine none, of yours two”
    icon

  • @kandykate163
    @kandykate163 Před rokem +32

    If she's working 50 hours a week and lives in a mini van, where are her paychecks going to?

  • @christinaluna2055
    @christinaluna2055 Před 3 lety +144

    This woman has no standards

    • @teachingtechnologyy
      @teachingtechnologyy Před 3 měsíci +2

      Women like men they can control
      She likes that she can control him, even if he does nothing all day

  • @britneybij3997
    @britneybij3997 Před 2 lety +116

    Her: I never choose my boyfriend over my kids...
    Also her: **Proceeds to name all the times she went out of her way for a man that isnt even doing anything with himself**

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Před rokem +2

      No child support for his two kids and no moneys and no job and he living in his tent and then in the van

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Před rokem +2

      @@suzyra1212
      I think the older child isnt his

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Před rokem

      @@notwerkinginthishouse8634 She has homeless man that only live in the tent and car

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@notwerkinginthishouse8634do you want a boyfriend

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes Před 2 lety +72

    Imagine having two children, working two jobs, while your boyfriend and the father of ur children hang out in ur van all day playing games on ur phone.

  • @leonkennedy6133
    @leonkennedy6133 Před 3 lety +92

    If my daughter/son ever tells me to back off I'm just going to laugh at them because I'm the one who's raising their kids

  • @londonm3546
    @londonm3546 Před 2 lety +22

    Wait, she actually sleeps with a man in a van who is unable to not only work and find housing, but who cannot give her $27? Moreover, if she is working 50 hours a week, where is her money? She could not save $26?

  • @animefan2454
    @animefan2454 Před 2 lety +79

    I'm a stoner and even I know I would not smoke in front of kids

    • @SunBunz
      @SunBunz Před rokem +6

      Stoners with standards. 👊😎

  • @iampekkairl1417
    @iampekkairl1417 Před 3 lety +110

    I watched this a million times

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 Před 2 lety +14

    If they butt out who is going to take care of your kids? Lady you should be so thankful that you have them

  • @danielsayers8665
    @danielsayers8665 Před 2 lety +40

    You can't blame someone for working night shift or not wanting to quit their job.

    • @missolesoul
      @missolesoul Před rokem +4

      If it reeks havoc for your kids or fami!y, you certainly can blame them.

    • @ef7558
      @ef7558 Před rokem +4

      "Find another job then" Yeah we can just get another job by magic! If she wasn't working all these hours they'd be calling her lazy!

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 Před 3 lety +36

    i've been going through serious mental stuff the last 10 years and i've kept working and even managed to buy a house.

  • @mike47734
    @mike47734 Před 3 lety +22

    LOL why did the crown go “ooohhh” when she asked Dr Phil if he’s the same person he was last year?

  • @penelopeb1370
    @penelopeb1370 Před 2 lety +16

    He said he's over thinking and not focused. Dude, that's the weed. Stop smoking and get a damn job.

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes Před 2 lety +120

    I don’t think they should be shaming her for working. The rest , yes

    • @yhyhyhhh
      @yhyhyhhh Před rokem +1

      yes they should

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Před rokem

      He look really disgusting and she loves homeless man both need to be homeless together and be outside together and kids finds better family that don’t live outside 😵‍💫

  • @Virgin_Succubus642
    @Virgin_Succubus642 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Doug: I’m here to support her
    Translation: She’s my ride.

  • @12345678911675
    @12345678911675 Před 2 lety +12

    Her boyfriend is so clingy. Ew

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster Před 2 lety +10

    You want them to butt out, but the only furniture and bedroom they have is at her mother's house? So you want your kids to be homeless too?

  • @MiamayaJones
    @MiamayaJones Před 2 lety +91

    The boyfriend may be a bum. But I hate how people use smoking weed to call someone a bum. Like a mom can smoke weed and still be a good mom. A mom can work nights and still love her kids. The argument is so stupid. They are going after her for working nights....like they need to get their own life

    • @WaffleAssasinX3
      @WaffleAssasinX3 Před 2 lety +2

      Seriosuly, t's only a problem because shes with a bum. otherwise I doubt they would grill her about working so much lol

    • @amberlacey7482
      @amberlacey7482 Před 2 lety +16

      you can smoke weed and be a good mom for sure but for some people it makes them unmotivated and have very poor decision making skills. but i look at it as it shouldnt be done right in front of your kids

    • @Lele-gs9mh
      @Lele-gs9mh Před 2 lety +6

      Depending on the strain it makes some people more productive. Typical puritan thinking

    • @janiceanne
      @janiceanne Před 2 lety +12

      They are asking her to change jobs or change her hours so she can be with her kids in the afternoon, give them showers, teach them table manners, tuck them in bed, read them a bedtime story, etc. If she lives in the house of her mother and dependent on her, she is obligated to follow the rules. She can move out if she doesn't want to follow rules.

    • @audhdcreativity5899
      @audhdcreativity5899 Před 2 lety +3

      @@amberlacey7482 I think sometimes people already are those things before they smoke weed and thd weed just makes them feel not so horrible.

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 Před 2 lety +49

    She is delusional thinking that she doesn’t need anyone to assist her and can provide her children with the stability needed. They deserve better.

    • @lindarice9159
      @lindarice9159 Před 2 lety +3

      She lives in a van for crying out loud. She and her kids need to live in a nice, warm secure home. Her boyfriend needs to get a job or he can leave. He is a bum with a million excuses

  • @suzyra1212
    @suzyra1212 Před 2 lety +13

    Her mom call homeless man a tick because he does look like one 😆

  • @Labrli
    @Labrli Před 3 lety +28

    He’s higher than a damn kite 😅

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans Před rokem +6

    "I work 50 hours a week." For God's Sake, are you delusional?!

  • @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative
    @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative Před 2 lety +13

    I think it’s pretty obvi that she holds the sister not having kids over her sisters head. She can get knocked up. Good for her. She also totally bosses her BF around. She’s with him because he makes her feel superior.

  • @franktrandicostacomedy3370

    Ive never seen two people more in need of a blunt than the sister and mother

  • @fawnieee
    @fawnieee Před 3 lety +83

    My sister has ended up with a guy like this :/ she was incredibly smart and completed a degree in criminology and had hopes of being a forensic scientist.
    And then she met a guy like this and now she's working in a wine shop, no longer allowed to contact us (due to her bf) and she's not even living with him nor does he ever visit her... It's always her that puts in all the effort. It's really sad when you see someone you love brought down by someone else.

  • @bonnienero9415
    @bonnienero9415 Před 2 lety +13

    This woman is temporarily insane.She will look back years from now, wonder what was she thinking.

  • @rachelraquel758
    @rachelraquel758 Před 2 lety +14

    Let me live my life… in your driveway

  • @cottonkittencandy
    @cottonkittencandy Před 2 lety +6

    i dont see what he offers her in their relationship. if she works 2 jobs why cant they afford an apartment? even if it was a studio apartment. i mean i was a single parent i worked and went to school at the same time and was still able to afford a crummy tiny apartment but i had power, running water and a roof over my head and still had time for my baby at the end of the day. couldn't afford a car but thats what the bus is for. i would rather have the apartment than the car any day

  • @pointofcrew
    @pointofcrew Před 3 lety +9

    wow she works an extra shift a week. craaaaaazy

  • @c_kaoi7660
    @c_kaoi7660 Před rokem +2

    A spoiled little princess or a responsible adult 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @johnub4
    @johnub4 Před 3 lety +15

    This is what happens to women who simp for a man

  • @steroidbarney8273
    @steroidbarney8273 Před 3 lety +10

    What happened to her sisters forehead? It goes immediately from her hair to her eyebrows.. I dunno if I've ever seen that before.

  • @Clouditivity
    @Clouditivity Před 2 lety +11

    This guy is so cringy lmao.

  • @victoriamarx3267
    @victoriamarx3267 Před rokem +6

    I wonder if she ever dumped this loser and moved on, he was dragging her down. She's a beautiful competent young woman that could so so much better

  • @madiarabella2589
    @madiarabella2589 Před 2 lety +9

    The sisters hairline is crazy low

  • @junechoi7595
    @junechoi7595 Před 2 lety +19

    I work 50 hours a week as that's my light week. I don't know why she thinks it's some kind of honor to work 50 hours a week. Many people do that with no problem.

  • @railwaychristina3192
    @railwaychristina3192 Před rokem +3

    Fight for your kids by stopping the weed and getting a job which means you can care for them.

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes Před 2 lety +5

    I wonder where she is now

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl Před 2 lety +6

    He’s a lazy bum that doesn’t want to work w/o responsibilities

  • @Usedw0tm8
    @Usedw0tm8 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow my sister does the exact same thing, and I'd bet my car she says the same thing about me being "spoiled". She isn't raising her two children. She sees her son maybe twice a year, and she pushes her replacement daughter (after she ran away across the country with her boss) off onto her grandparents as much as possible. When she WAS primarily taking care of that baby, she developed advanced ringworm and a diaper rash so bad she had open bleeding sores. There's no excuse for that.
    We no longer speak, I get updates from her grandmother. That beautiful little girl deserves the world, and instead ended up with immature, toxic, abusive trash. I have no interest in ever seeing my dear sister again, and that's only one of many reasons why.

  • @8888-9
    @8888-9 Před 3 lety +12

    No no no
    All the nesting we do as expectant mothers.
    That keeps growing.
    Being motivated to do better.
    The family are alienating her, why not drop the superiority hat, and ask how can we help?
    What do you need to get ahead?

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 Před 2 lety +2

    i hope its not down by the river

  • @viviannahernandez2032
    @viviannahernandez2032 Před rokem +1

    this reminds me so much of my sister.

  • @greatestever247
    @greatestever247 Před rokem +2

    The reason that dude isn’t working is because he is lazy!

  • @up2nogood670
    @up2nogood670 Před 3 lety +8

    Tell me there is more of this guy

  • @42031x
    @42031x Před 2 lety +9

    U work 50 hours a week but you live in ur car in ur moms drive way, u should be able to manage living on ur own

  • @chucker625
    @chucker625 Před měsícem

    If that were my sister, I wouldn't go to her for help either.... Seems like the type of person that would hold every little thing over your head for the rest of your life.

  • @lex_7529
    @lex_7529 Před 2 lety +3

    the tick looks like he's from whoville

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans Před rokem +2

    This woman needs to turn her life around, be a mother, and lay off the weed.

  • @TheGokusupersayian
    @TheGokusupersayian Před 3 lety +6

    Wow

  • @alexdungan9816
    @alexdungan9816 Před 3 lety +2

    What season and episode

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w Před 8 měsíci

    Second copy on your ipod duplicated how relateable

  • @yoshimills9814
    @yoshimills9814 Před 2 lety +1

    Chile they take smoking weed to another level. Smoking weed does Not make one ok with living in a van.

  • @captain_xap1218
    @captain_xap1218 Před 3 lety +12

    Why are there soo less comments

    • @firebird6522
      @firebird6522 Před 3 lety +2

      The channel only opened up comments about 3 months ago. This was up for four years before people could comment.

    • @captain_xap1218
      @captain_xap1218 Před 3 lety

      @@firebird6522 thx for helping

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 Před 2 lety

    Doug has the chronic! Weed so strong you forgot to raise your kids.

  • @ladiilexx8533
    @ladiilexx8533 Před 7 měsíci

    She saying 50 hrs a week like it's 80 lol. Girl that's only an extra 2 hrs daily on top of everyone else's standard workweek

    • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166
      @j-rodthelibrarykid1166 Před 7 měsíci

      Different people can handle different things. Not everyone wants to work 12 hrs days like you.

  • @prettyparanormaljess
    @prettyparanormaljess Před 7 dny

    This " mom " is dangerous. You see on the news daily where a mom chooses her man over the safety of her children, it ends badly usually an I am hoping that this woman will wake up or the family did intervene...this is scary! ALSO ITS NOT ABOUT THE MARIJUANA! Smoke or don't, not in your house, or car an don't let it stop you from living but if you work an take care of your kids you wouldn't be on Dr. Phil

  • @ssbdodi8718
    @ssbdodi8718 Před rokem

    the sister is actually annoying

  • @sassygreen5024
    @sassygreen5024 Před 2 lety

    u have no home got kids a jobkessless so called boyfriend....and u can afford weed??????? why????

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 Před 2 lety +3

    My goal is $27……………. ;)

  • @lindaowens2959
    @lindaowens2959 Před 3 lety +1

    I would get rid of an overbearing family like that!

    • @paradoxic7869
      @paradoxic7869 Před 2 lety +22

      Well, they can find a new driveway to park in. She isn't raising her kids, her mom is! CPS would take those kids away in a minute.