Another Female Matchmaker Has Come Out Agreeing With Men That Women Destroyed Dating

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • Repeatedly, men are being proven right by women working with women to help them find mates. Accountability is a bad word in American society.

Komentáře • 176

  • @NoMoneyOut
    @NoMoneyOut Před 2 měsíci +90

    Im 31, and people are taken aback when I reply that I have no Social Media.
    Its toxic...

    • @Chillmindedpanther13
      @Chillmindedpanther13 Před 2 měsíci +18

      Im 37 and I don't do social media either. I watch content on yt and that's it.

    • @carmenbennett4700
      @carmenbennett4700 Před 2 měsíci +12

      ​@@Chillmindedpanther13I got off social media about 10yrs ago and that was the BEST move I ever made , and I'm the same I just watch content on YT! Peace of mind is BEST!!!

    • @Chillmindedpanther13
      @Chillmindedpanther13 Před 2 měsíci

      @@carmenbennett4700 it was 5 years ago for me. Too many trolls and scammers out there.

    • @abovebeyondandforever6571
      @abovebeyondandforever6571 Před 2 měsíci +9

      I deactivated all my social media in 2014, haven't been on since, and I don't miss it at all.

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Almost 1 year without IG. I have not posted anything on FB in over 6 years

  • @rastahill748
    @rastahill748 Před 2 měsíci +76

    Hahahah! 😂 they F'd up everything, dating dont even make sense no more

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb Před 2 měsíci +95

    It’s not just Dubai. Miami, Atlanta, Mexico wherever the popular vacation spots are. Majority of the women posting vacations are 304s and they travel in packs.

    • @xMalfiasx
      @xMalfiasx Před 2 měsíci

      Hoepacks?!

    • @KristNi
      @KristNi Před 2 měsíci

      Why Atlanta? Atlanta isn't a travel city. I'm from there and I never understood the fascination

    • @supersaturn956
      @supersaturn956 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@KristNi It is one of the most popular places to visit especially for Black folks. I personally prefer NOLA though. ATL is too spread out for me; although the Georgia Aquarium rules!

    • @jasondawson92
      @jasondawson92 Před měsícem +2

      Atlanta back then was the spot for sure before social media etc.. it was cool 🆒 fastfoward now social media ruined the experience of finding out and learning what they desire instead of being dictated by social media

    • @Payday-ky7mb
      @Payday-ky7mb Před měsícem +1

      @@jasondawson92 Facts 💯

  • @TheSuperHendo
    @TheSuperHendo Před 2 měsíci +69

    Accountability isn’t in modern women vocabulary 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @commonsense3921
      @commonsense3921 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I’m getting to point where I don’t even want a casual conversation with them.

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 Před 2 měsíci +45

    My wealthy friends don't even travel like that… 😂😂😂😂

  • @markbrucewaynebrown6739
    @markbrucewaynebrown6739 Před 2 měsíci +105

    They have been warned. Now we’re in the age of consequences.

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Winter is a few seasons away.

    • @ThomasLuke2021
      @ThomasLuke2021 Před 2 měsíci +5

      They failed to listen because they are so disrespectful. They were too stupid to see where this was going and too prideful to admit to anything.
      They never built or fought for this place and have managed to ruin the family unit.
      Congratulations ladies...

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @ThomasLuke2021 Pride comes before destruction. Just sit back and watch. They'll refuse to believe that they did it to themselves

    • @commonsense3921
      @commonsense3921 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Time to grab the 🍿 and watch them never change 😂🤣

  • @RTA6226
    @RTA6226 Před 2 měsíci +51

    I sure in hell won't be in Dubai unless I'm on vacation with my man and/or my family!

  • @deepeyton
    @deepeyton Před 2 měsíci +32

    Me and the homies were talking about this last night. The lack of shame and elders to hold that shame is part of the problem as well.

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 Před 2 měsíci +44

    Hey women, us men know what we are talking about
    😂🤷‍♂️💯👍. For the most part, men are calculated, rational, straightforward.

  • @QuintBlitz
    @QuintBlitz Před 2 měsíci +83

    Kendra G will be one of these women, soon enough.

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 Před 2 měsíci +16

      I thinking the same thing. The only thing this keep her on her bs is the bag. But i feel that may get old

    • @professionalpookie
      @professionalpookie Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@calebhenderson6507feel?

    • @0bsmith0
      @0bsmith0 Před 2 měsíci +15

      She already admitted it.

    • @QuintBlitz
      @QuintBlitz Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@0bsmith0When was this, do you remember?

    • @kennethwatts4390
      @kennethwatts4390 Před 2 měsíci

      She already said something about it, sometimes she lay they a$$ out😅

  • @markf.5551
    @markf.5551 Před 2 měsíci +28

    I quit, cause women want too much for nothing!

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 Před 2 měsíci +34

    😂 they are finally waking up, throwing in the towel. 🤷‍♂️👎💯

  • @jhoward8155
    @jhoward8155 Před 2 měsíci +30

    That's the problem they see what these other women have and then they think just cuz this woman got it they should have it too it don't work that way

    • @NoToFeminism
      @NoToFeminism Před 2 měsíci +10

      Exactly. As a BW I don't take any of the fakes on social media seriously.

    • @jhoward8155
      @jhoward8155 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@NoToFeminism Smart woman which more women thought like that.

    • @mopheousredpill7462
      @mopheousredpill7462 Před 2 měsíci

      They don't realize that they gotta sell something in order to live that lifestyle, that's the part these social media folk leave out !!!

  • @perfektg
    @perfektg Před 2 měsíci +18

    Drizzle on fellas.

  • @CootzIsCold
    @CootzIsCold Před 2 měsíci +27

    If you go out pay attention our people are grouped up primarily men with men and women with women. All hanging out and other nations of people are walking with strollers and holding hands enjoying parks and enjoying life

  • @carolynstokes333
    @carolynstokes333 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I hope we as women hear what the men are saying. As a woman i do wish the younger ladies behind me would respect themselves with dress, manners, accountability, and responsibility. When i share with the younger ladies how to represent they don't believe me. They see others in their age category and feel they must do the same to remain competitive. Still i try to talk to my younger sisters because i care about my people. I want the young ladies to keep our culture going long after I am gone. I would the young AA men and women know they were created one for the other by the Father. And to not be fooled by what is on the internet but take their cue from God.

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 Před 2 měsíci

      I understand exactly what you're saying. I try to explain these things to my nieces and young cousins and they roll their eyes and call me old-fashioned. It is so hard because the culture tells them one thing and the voices with sense are drowned out by the foolishness.

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn Před 2 měsíci

      @carolynstokes333 What are they competing at? Becoming single mothers?

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@keptbygrace6221 You meant that other black women tell them to continue the dysfunctional behavior.

  • @SYSBMNOW
    @SYSBMNOW Před 2 měsíci +142

    I can't speak for anyone else, but I gave up pursuing American women in the late 90's. No approaching, no complimenting, no holding doors open, and definitely no trying to help or defend!

    • @melvinharrison9138
      @melvinharrison9138 Před 2 měsíci +17

      For real!💯🤔🧐

    • @abrafovictory7193
      @abrafovictory7193 Před 2 měsíci +7

      👍🏿

    • @sleezyskeezys9796
      @sleezyskeezys9796 Před 2 měsíci

      You musta been dusty or game goofy. Chicks were giving it away. I had 7... 3 main and 4 satellite chicks. That even counting the ones I was just smashing. That may have been all thanks to you giving up on them. Keep up the good work☠️💀☠️💀

    • @crubie3
      @crubie3 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Defend them from what? Bears 🐻 and tigers? Hahaha 😂😂

    • @StrokaReviews
      @StrokaReviews Před 2 měsíci +9

      Stay blessed, brother

  • @jondoe4307
    @jondoe4307 Před 2 měsíci +12

    We all saw the blessing and the curse in the "19".

  • @live4yourself_
    @live4yourself_ Před 2 měsíci +25

    ✈️✈️✈️ lol I can't stress it enough.

  • @drabent99
    @drabent99 Před měsícem +1

    304 black women destroyed dating.

  • @primetimejones6442
    @primetimejones6442 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Of course, all you gotta do is watch Kendra G for further confirmation

  • @inkabelgrave103
    @inkabelgrave103 Před měsícem

    I 💯 percent agree with you brother Phil!!

  • @DoubeEdged7
    @DoubeEdged7 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Don't blame social media.
    Women are followers. they had a choice and made the wrong one

  • @TallT43
    @TallT43 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Steve Harvey needs to be blame too for why it’s so hard to get a woman so I now have giving up on women. I still wanna have faith but I just don’t see it anymore

  • @shawnbrown9336
    @shawnbrown9336 Před 2 měsíci +5

    She still couldn't bring herself to being TOTALLY HONEST.
    The subjective reality of women will lead to their demise.

    • @stripedrajang3571
      @stripedrajang3571 Před 2 měsíci

      What do you mean, that she couldn't bring herself to be totally honest?

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @stripedrajang3571 her word choice. She tap danced...sounded like she was trying to nail down jello, in order to avoid placing firm onus on women .

  • @christophersterling6788
    @christophersterling6788 Před 2 měsíci +11

    And people think that slavery is over 😂😂😂

    • @KristNi
      @KristNi Před 2 měsíci

      I never thought it was

  • @Fitblkdad
    @Fitblkdad Před 2 měsíci +8

    The pandemic gave the earth rest, as it is written The Most High said to let the Earth rest.

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L Před měsícem

    FACTUAL/GREAT TALKING BRO PHIL SIR .... SALUTE 🫡 👍🏾💯

  • @blas4me50
    @blas4me50 Před 2 měsíci +2

    They seemed to date in the style of their favorite shows, now it's definitely social media influencing trends, and horrible dating advice.

  • @BoBoAnderson4052
    @BoBoAnderson4052 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Getting boo boo’d on for the bag is ridiculous 😂

  • @timjones2610
    @timjones2610 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I see absolutely no benefits of social media.

  • @Marchaund
    @Marchaund Před měsícem

    A woman in Dubai unaccompanied is a 304 absolutely.

  • @addingupto1002
    @addingupto1002 Před 2 měsíci

    She hasn't been a match maker that long. She said just over a year. Maybe this just isn't the occupation for her.

  • @user-abdulalimuhammad
    @user-abdulalimuhammad Před 2 měsíci +4

    The song by The O'Jays A prayer 🎉

  • @virgilcarson1516
    @virgilcarson1516 Před 2 měsíci +2

    FINALLY, can you smell want the Rock is cooking???

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 Před 2 měsíci +15

    What took so long??

  • @crashspyrofan98
    @crashspyrofan98 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have autism I never had a girlfriend with autism I’m single

  • @vr4892
    @vr4892 Před 2 měsíci +4

    The pandemic was a resetting! However, OF took off because everyone was at home!

  • @latrellstanton2019
    @latrellstanton2019 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I thought women was always right

  • @calebhenderson6507
    @calebhenderson6507 Před 2 měsíci +5

    You know it crazy when these women are putting the bag at jeopardy because its gotten that bad.

  • @MichaelForte-uf4nf
    @MichaelForte-uf4nf Před 2 měsíci +8

    Wham bam thank ya ma'am

  • @hundreds2696
    @hundreds2696 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Yes they make Bw eat human chocolate 😂

  • @1stoptech
    @1stoptech Před 2 měsíci

    Our way of thinking has to be sturdy. We build 100 story building for people to dwell and sleep in. Men are a great gift to this earth. I don't care what an ungrateful demon spews out their mouth.
    Praises be to the Most High

  • @OneMoreChaunce
    @OneMoreChaunce Před 2 měsíci

    5:53 Uncle Phil was preachin’!!!!

  • @SYSBMNOW
    @SYSBMNOW Před 2 měsíci +19

    Passport...........CHECK! Also fellas, there are a handful of countries that you can go to without needing a passport!

    • @johnlawful2272
      @johnlawful2272 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Like where? Just curious

    • @SYSBMNOW
      @SYSBMNOW Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@johnlawful2272 Puerto Rico
      US Virgin Islands
      Northern Mariana Islands
      American Samoa
      Guam
      Canada
      Mexico

    • @mopheousredpill7462
      @mopheousredpill7462 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@SYSBMNOW 💯💯💯

    • @SYSBMNOW
      @SYSBMNOW Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@mopheousredpill7462 Hell yes! You just might be surprised who you meet when you travel. Whether it be the airport, sky lounge, bar at the airport, or the hotel. If you can't get a passport, even going to a city you've never been will change your perspective.

  • @JaiOva
    @JaiOva Před 2 měsíci +1

    It's a tool that can build you up or tear you down

  • @thegodofearl
    @thegodofearl Před 2 měsíci +9

    I took my talents over seas one of my best life decisions ever

  • @fredbenz69
    @fredbenz69 Před 2 měsíci +5

    You right about the lockdowns
    We need a good recession or depression now

    • @flawed2001
      @flawed2001 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah like he said, it didn’t last long enough. We needed at least a 5 year period for a real, true correction. It seems women have gotten worse overall as a result.

    • @Bigfish1day
      @Bigfish1day Před 2 měsíci +1

      It’s coming fast 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn Před 2 měsíci

      @@flawed2001 That wouldn't correct them. They would only behave until things returned to normal.

    • @KristNi
      @KristNi Před 2 měsíci +1

      It's already actually started

  • @bigsmilie07
    @bigsmilie07 Před 2 měsíci

    Im going to keep saying...they seen vivica fox and now they like oh hell no maybe we needa do better

  • @colonybud
    @colonybud Před 2 měsíci +4

    If they are a wig wearer, that automatically puts them in last place.

  • @MinnesotaEverything
    @MinnesotaEverything Před 2 měsíci +2

    Just give them time men! They will destroy themselves and come to reality!

  • @BettyGreathouse
    @BettyGreathouse Před 2 měsíci +1

    Matthew 18 is JESUS CHRIST JESUS.

  • @darnellrhodes6174
    @darnellrhodes6174 Před 2 měsíci +1

    One of the worst things to EVER happen to America was giving women the freedom, opportunity and power to do whatever they want to do with no consequences!!

  • @LandonDalis1984
    @LandonDalis1984 Před 2 měsíci

    What do the women in this situation?

  • @rangerwalker5369
    @rangerwalker5369 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I would like for the women to help me understand that if what they do is so great, and the women back then got it all wrong why are 80% of divorces are initiated by women, why they can’t keep a man, why are men coming to the conclusion they have options other than them, why are they ranked higher in eviction and why they ranked the highest in student debt?

  • @user-lc9ez4hr3w
    @user-lc9ez4hr3w Před 2 měsíci

    No brother Phil they said get vex or no sex

  • @Adell1294
    @Adell1294 Před měsícem

    Damn you ain’t even listen to her whole video 🤦 just took small clip and ran with it 🙄🙄🙄

  • @camelwheel8198
    @camelwheel8198 Před 2 měsíci

    Hi

  • @jameyMcMillian
    @jameyMcMillian Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm not trying to be funny but over a year as a match maker and you're just starting to think men are right.the mind is a terrible thing to waste 😮

  • @rodmoore_
    @rodmoore_ Před 2 měsíci

    💯

  • @CAJFB
    @CAJFB Před 2 měsíci +1

    ✈️

  • @phoenixstar5000
    @phoenixstar5000 Před 2 měsíci

    Well, I'm going to say that women 100% ruined dating period

  • @kossy08
    @kossy08 Před měsícem +1

    Social media is NOT to blame bcuz AFRICA also has social media but women Don't behave like USA women.Its SINGLE MOTHERHOOD that RAISED new generation WITHOUT Father's and TRADITIONAL VALUES which are the FOUNDATION MEN Build Family UPON.