Losing Baby - ADHD - Court Case - Addiction - Tommy Mallet Tells All

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    Losing Baby - ADHD - Courts Cases - Tommy Mallet Tells All
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Komentáře • 257

  • @princessjulia5646
    @princessjulia5646 Před 24 dny +206

    I met Tommy a few weeks ago in a petrol garage. Please believe me i had not a clue who he was. It was early in the morning i was putting diesel in my van and i ask him and his friend if they would mind helping me unlock the petrol tank. Omg we had a little laugh n chat but i promise i didnt have a clue who he was. As this lovely guy pulled off in his car he said its okay ive paid for your petrol !!!!! How kind and nice was that. Ive actually thought about how kind that was of him everyday since. Take it from me Tommy Mallet is a true gentleman and i wish him and his family health and the best in life. I hope our paths cross again cause he is such a nice young man and i know a good person when i meet one.

    • @suzannetaylor9571
      @suzannetaylor9571 Před 24 dny +9

      Oh my god I love that. Tommy is amazing I’ve said it from the start this guy is amazing ❤

    • @dawson1ize
      @dawson1ize Před 23 dny +3

      Awe that’s lovely. He seems like a gem.

    • @leonorajb
      @leonorajb Před 23 dny +5

      Yes him and Georgia are good people

    • @princessjulia5646
      @princessjulia5646 Před 23 dny +1

      Definitely

    • @BumboyWillynut
      @BumboyWillynut Před 23 dny

      Gives u hope for humanity don’t it xxx

  • @louisbaker2964
    @louisbaker2964 Před 20 dny +20

    I wish there was a Tommy Mallett helpline for anyone going through hard times. I reckon just a 20 minute chat with this bloke could change someone’s life around

  • @jamesgreen8630
    @jamesgreen8630 Před 25 dny +61

    I literally never comment on videos.. but this geezer is a breath of fresh air..
    Great guest @James English

  • @sandyblue8082
    @sandyblue8082 Před 25 dny +30

    I have so much respect for you Tommy and how you've spoken so well about ADHD.

  • @chanteread5162
    @chanteread5162 Před 25 dny +19

    Everytime there’s a Tommy interview I click on it FAST . I love his mindset and can see his Growth in this interview .. keep it up Tommy . I love how REAL he is

  • @robynmulholland3911
    @robynmulholland3911 Před 24 dny +13

    Tommy, i don't know if you will see this, but thank you for opening my eyes and giving me my own lightbulb moment on the reason i have felt the same way as you my whole life. I am now sure the answer is ADHD.
    James, thank you for your brilliant podcast and brining on guests like Tommy with important and relatable stories such as this one.

  • @kevmk2
    @kevmk2 Před 25 dny +32

    Tommy is a very down to earth fella. He’s been through a lot. But love his energy and attitude to life. Keep on going fella.

  • @dannyphillips6531
    @dannyphillips6531 Před 25 dny +10

    What a podcast. Tommy Mallett is some geezer and so happy his life has changed for the best. Remember his first scene in TOWIE and seeing where he’s come from then to now is a breath of fresh air

  • @exlibrisross
    @exlibrisross Před 25 dny +21

    In my 60's and I've news for you chum, if you're blessed you will keep learning. Wear the world like a loose garment. Blessings from Belfast.

    • @beyondthedressingtable
      @beyondthedressingtable Před 20 dny

      He might never see this , but I have , and I love that “wear the world like a loose garment” that’s profound ❤

    • @suzirobson8935
      @suzirobson8935 Před 15 dny

      I've never heard 'wear the world like a loose garment' but it's stayed in my head since I read it earlier and I felt compelled to come back here and comment! 😊

    • @Slazza
      @Slazza Před 13 dny

      What a wonderful way of putting it. God bless you

  • @BumboyWillynut
    @BumboyWillynut Před 25 dny +17

    This man is the only authentic working class diamond to come out towie, love to him his misses and his bub & monkey xxxxxx

  • @rishikapoor41
    @rishikapoor41 Před 25 dny +13

    Mallet, loved the story. You have walked the path, that so many people are yet to walk. Just this podcast will change so many lives.

  • @adamfirth4199
    @adamfirth4199 Před 24 dny +5

    this episode really deeply hit home for me, i have a recent bipolar diagnosis aged 28 and finally can see a finish line. i always thought i would end up in a psychiatric ward. the amount of relateable things that both tommy and james spoke about emotion wise is me to a tee. i am not alone and if your reading this, neither are you.

  • @muzeezhodillo8613
    @muzeezhodillo8613 Před 26 dny +12

    Just stumbled upon this guy today. Been watching him all day, listening to his success story and his ups and downs and him striving for legacy.
    Then I see this within the first 24hrs of discovering him. I hope 'I lost it all' isn't meant in the literal sense.

  • @RitchieRosson
    @RitchieRosson Před 27 dny +120

    Who else got excited that it was Timmy Mallet?

  • @flickit6825
    @flickit6825 Před 25 dny +13

    I’ve never related to a podcast before as much as I have with this guy. Proper banger of a pod.

  • @angieclaridgehorsley7917
    @angieclaridgehorsley7917 Před 27 dny +19

    Can't wait for this....what Tommy has been through and how he has come out the other side is totally inspirational. It's not easy pulling yourself out of a dark time,but if you can you will be rewarded.

  • @alexiaelliott9719
    @alexiaelliott9719 Před 25 dny +8

    I've recently been diagnosed with ADHD at age 44. I really appreciate Tommy sharing his experiences. Especially considering taking medication, I've been on the fence. But thank you. Enjoyed the pod 💙

    • @lynsey_mcl8271
      @lynsey_mcl8271 Před 3 dny +1

      I got diagnosed a couple of years ago at the age of 49. I understand you sitting on the fence re medication. I honestly can't tell you how much taking meds have changed my life fod the better 🩷 I'm on Elvanse x Good luck & take care x

  • @jogibson5571
    @jogibson5571 Před 25 dny +15

    Well done Tommy , you should be proud of yourself. You’ve grown and evolved so much 😊

  • @bionicnichola9251
    @bionicnichola9251 Před 25 dny +12

    Great podcast James ! Never watched Towie but i genuinely like this guy. I love his character, high on life, erratic, somebody who has had struggles and understands life. I share his adamant mindset and determination so i get him. I wish him and his family the very best. Keep them coming James ❤️

  • @NaturalNat111
    @NaturalNat111 Před 24 dny +2

    Great interview James. Love Tommy’s honesty and he’s positivity, what a breath of fresh air. Thanks for sharing. 💚💚💚

  • @siobhancampbell9851
    @siobhancampbell9851 Před 25 dny +8

    Best episode ever, totally engaged in the conversation, energy skills and passion lads - keep spreading this energy :)

  • @annabm9237
    @annabm9237 Před 23 dny +2

    Tommy love your energy, down to earth attitude and overall what a genuine, kind caring person you are. Your family is beautiful and I wish you so much happiness, luck and love for you and your family because you so deserve it. Thank you for sharing your story because you will help so many people. Talking and sharing your experiences (when your ready and happy too) can help and touch so many people. Bless you✨✨

  • @samwillis1494
    @samwillis1494 Před 21 dnem +4

    I don’t comment on podcasts but wow!! That was powerful, what a boy he is.

  • @leanneharley6311
    @leanneharley6311 Před 25 dny +11

    Seriously, I could write a book here with all my thoughts and opinions on this one but it would take too long so I'm just gonna make it short n sweet, nothing but respect for you Tommy, 💯 you've been through it, n came out it, hats off man 🙌🙌

  •  Před 24 dny +3

    Most real, meaningful, inspiring, uplifting podcast ♥️ he’s on such a positive journey and it’s lovely & inspiring to hear it ✨✨✨

  • @suzannetaylor9571
    @suzannetaylor9571 Před 24 dny +1

    Been waiting on this for ages and so happy Tommy done it with James. Respect to Tommy wish you well mate xxx

  • @Kaiserblue
    @Kaiserblue Před 25 dny +3

    Jeezo I’ve just been diagnosed at 45 with adhd. So similar to this guy. Do multiple things and have had multiple businesses, some good, some not so good, think way in advance about random shit, temper from zero to 100 In the blink of an eye and very additive personality but always refuse to “give in”. I got told about 10 years ago from a few people but refused to seek help. Glad I finally caved and seen a professional. Great listen this boys 👍🏻

  • @michelledevlin8587
    @michelledevlin8587 Před 24 dny +3

    I love this and can totally understand where Tommy's coming from I definitely have ADHD and am on a 18/24 month waiting list hanging on in there ❤ this interview is brilliant and gives me more hope for the future 😊

  • @Tish-Bigmet
    @Tish-Bigmet Před 20 dny +2

    Its like listening to myself. I thought i was gonna lose the plot. Symptoms were mad crazy. Diagnosed snd medicated and changed my life. I always knew but thought a diagnosis would be pointless. My son is severe adhd/asd. Doctor saw me for 90 minutes. Severe combined type. Detrimental effect on every aspect of my life. Offending. Care system. Prison. Addictions. So pleased you did it now. I wish i had did it 20 years ago. Im 50 now. Diagnosed 2021. I had conduct disorder too. Lifes so different now. Always knew i was different. Keep going Tommy. Wish you well
    The drugs. Can sooo resonate

  • @cazb5777
    @cazb5777 Před 24 dny +3

    Well done, Tommy! What a great guy. So authentic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊

  • @bowda99
    @bowda99 Před 24 dny +1

    Brilliant interview love how you listen and let the conversation flow some people could learn from your technique.

  • @wendykenny7463
    @wendykenny7463 Před 23 dny +1

    Pure raw honesty "Right There " !!! Thankyou so much Guys learned so much about me ? and knowing that thru my worst Trauma im strong enough to see a great future

  • @mousenation3867
    @mousenation3867 Před 25 dny +6

    Brilliant interview 👍

  • @V-Scotland
    @V-Scotland Před 24 dny +2

    Never comment but . Thanks Tommy ingot diagnosed with emotional unstable personality disorder 2014..and you literally described my brain ...struggled in school with out cnt even fill a form out going into meltdown. always thought I was misdiagnosed... you've actually made me want to investigate this further with the doctor.thanks xx good luck to you and your lovely family... always loved you on towie ! X

  • @paigewheadon1438
    @paigewheadon1438 Před 22 dny +2

    Really enjoyed this made me smile listening, Tommy you’re amazing x

  • @JacquelineThorpe-iq1yx
    @JacquelineThorpe-iq1yx Před 24 dny +3

    Well done Tommy for being brave enough to change things in your life and for realising happiness is the greatest gift of all❤️

  • @gillfoster8385
    @gillfoster8385 Před 19 dny

    Tommy nailed it.. great interview. I can resonate on so many levels.. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 47 and my brain has been my biggest battle my entire life. I too lost a child when I was 22 and I’ve struggled to navigate the emotional trauma until I was diagnosed. Medication has been life changing for calming the brain and finding wisdom. I no longer have to take the medication after a year and a half and the skills of learnt to navigate my emotions and the realisation that with trauma comes great wisdom and strength. I no longer feel self conscious of being different.. as Tommy said ADHD can be a gift. Perspective is everything. Also we are all on a journey and our mindset can shift at any time.. it’s ok for Tommy to come back in 3 years time and have a different perspective as he navigates his growth. The real gift is awareness, which leads to compassion for others. To realise your struggles and trauma can heal others is priceless ❤

  • @tessacrowe7395
    @tessacrowe7395 Před 25 dny +1

    Brilliant, true, heartfelt interview. Love you Tommy great interview James, thanks

  • @Annemarie01967
    @Annemarie01967 Před 21 dnem

    I’ve always loved , Tommy, now , even more . So glad to see he’s doing well now. Great interview as always James ❤️

  • @nicknewman7680
    @nicknewman7680 Před 24 dny +4

    Great watch glad you’re happy Tommy! James keep up the great work brother 👍❤️

  • @RICOHUK1
    @RICOHUK1 Před 24 dny +2

    Loved this thanks so much, his explanation of ADHD is amazing to listen too. My son has it and my husband who found out later in life also and explains this just the same

  • @shereejadelawrencebowman1395

    Absolutely loved this interview both such real people smashed it 👏

  • @user-lb3uf6se4r
    @user-lb3uf6se4r Před 22 dny +1

    Fantastic Tommy so much to learn, understand from sharing your experiences. You are there mentally… and that is the most important ingredient for a happy life..if you could put that in a bottle and give it away..’thank yous’ will be endless…You’ve started by being utterly honest with good and bad! Wow!

  • @LiamTuffs
    @LiamTuffs Před 27 dny +4

    Looking forward to this one 💯

  • @hammer9547
    @hammer9547 Před 24 dny +1

    Great interview. So many in the same boat and it is scary how relatable it is to myself and many others yet there is no help out there for adhd in adults.

  • @TomWarner-pk5zp
    @TomWarner-pk5zp Před 5 dny

    Really enjoyed this interview and learnt a lot from it thanks James and Tommy 😀👍

  • @DOINKS-R-USS
    @DOINKS-R-USS Před 25 dny +1

    Real Talk Great interview 🖤

  • @racheleast5855
    @racheleast5855 Před 21 dnem +2

    What a lovely guy Tommy mallet is,and your brill aswell James you both need to give yourself more credit for what genuine lovely guys you both are ❤xx

  • @millsstrongfightstrengthco662

    I have nearly been to where Tommy been after my misses had our prem baby 18 months ago at 26 weeks and nearly died on week two and had a rough first 1st year , we was in hospital for 27 weeks and I've seen what families go through whilst in hospitals similar to Tommy's and wifes trauma when they lose a child the pain is like nothing you every go through unless it happens to you . I totally get his ADHD mindset . Think he nailed this interview . He couldn't speak more truth.

  • @Marmar-oh5xv
    @Marmar-oh5xv Před 20 dny +2

    Personally, in my opinion, I think the message is clear here. That is money really doesn't bring happiness, it helps, but your health happiness and those you love are the riches thing in life you will ever own.
    Amazing podcast James. I have always said from day one Tommy was on TOWIE he was one nice genuine young man. He is a very wise person. I wish him every happiness and success for his future, and I am so pleased to hear he is finding himself for the amazing person he is. Best of luck to you both. You're a good bloke, too, James.

  • @samtwyman9344
    @samtwyman9344 Před 25 dny +7

    Not going to lie when I first seen this guy years ago in towie I couldn’t stand him but wow he’s changed hell of a lot I love the way he is a brilliant husband and a brilliant dad wish nothing but the best for him and his family

  • @sorcha259
    @sorcha259 Před 25 dny +2

    James is brilliant and Big up Tommy really enjoyed ur mad stories… and how ur learning every day. Totally relate 🌟

  • @amydonohoe4669
    @amydonohoe4669 Před 27 dny +2

    Oh I can't wait for this!!

  • @michelle6204
    @michelle6204 Před 24 dny +1

    Great episode! Cho ku rei to James & Tommy xx

  • @jeanmilne397
    @jeanmilne397 Před 24 dny +1

    Brilliant podcast. That’s the best way I’ve heard adhd explained. Brilliant lad ❤👍✊

  • @wendytaylor1701
    @wendytaylor1701 Před 23 dny +1

    Loved this , that young man talks a lot of sense, well done Tommy 🎉

  • @NicolaSmith-rm5bc
    @NicolaSmith-rm5bc Před 20 dny

    Loved this !!! Great family, Georgia is your rock, I’ve always thought you two are amazing together and now you have your own family
    It’s beautiful to see. Look after yourselves every day

  • @stillolivia2230
    @stillolivia2230 Před 24 dny +1

    Lovely real well spoken guy
    Love their family x

  • @Madinakhassan
    @Madinakhassan Před 15 dny

    Loved watching and listening to this ❤ honestly love Tommy & Georgia have watched them from the beginning of Towie to going onto Mallet to Baby steps I love that he has this amazing story to tell, super proud of him! Hope he stays happy and sending him lots of positive energy! ❤

  • @craigmcallister6990
    @craigmcallister6990 Před 22 dny +1

    Great podcast best one in a long time 👏👌

  • @clairefisher9112
    @clairefisher9112 Před 24 dny +1

    Well done Tommy you said it all so fantasticly well you should be proud❤ keep going loved watching xxxxxx

  • @daniellemorrison9788
    @daniellemorrison9788 Před 24 dny +1

    Love Tommy amazing guy brilliant interview James much love ❤

  • @diannefroggatt7708
    @diannefroggatt7708 Před 25 dny +4

    Great guys great positive energy give your family our ❤️

  • @LS7ZH
    @LS7ZH Před 24 dny +1

    Inspired me on another level this! Wow

  • @laurawalsh5511
    @laurawalsh5511 Před 24 dny

    Will always , support Tommy he is an inspiration, been through the mill , still pushing , himself to learn by life . Life throws stuff all the time just learn and grow for yourself 🎉

  • @mickynev
    @mickynev Před 24 dny +1

    Love this ❤

  • @user-it7cz9yj4l
    @user-it7cz9yj4l Před 25 dny +2

    Really relate to this xx

  • @tammysinclair9739
    @tammysinclair9739 Před 24 dny +1

    I love how open you are Tommy. I messaged you on instagram but you never got it 😔 Adhd is your super power. That's what I tell my son ♥

  • @clair233
    @clair233 Před 23 dny +1

    his evolution since his last interview is so remarkable.

  • @samanthagunatillake
    @samanthagunatillake Před 23 dny +1

    Tommy is a wonderful human being. Great podcast James 😊

  • @Itsme-uv1nn
    @Itsme-uv1nn Před 16 dny

    Iam 44 my wife asked me all the time to go to the doctors every thing you said Iam the same, hdhd just listening to you then was like a kick up my back side Iam going to book an appointment tomorrow and get the help I need thank you Both 🙏🏻

  • @charlotteday2241
    @charlotteday2241 Před 25 dny +1

    Great Podcast ! 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @clairekinney4133
    @clairekinney4133 Před 16 dny +1

    Tommy would be a good advocate for kids with ADHD as he has the platform, Our NHS is failing our kids due to there 4 year waiting list and that's just to get seen. Or we could go down the private sector but that's costly. Great interview guys

  • @janetrowland3749
    @janetrowland3749 Před 25 dny +2

    Love this guy

  • @garrymelvin4419
    @garrymelvin4419 Před 25 dny +3

    On fire 🔥 bro 👊🏻

  • @mariajefferies8555
    @mariajefferies8555 Před 23 dny +1

    Great talk I like Tommy, honest chap it seems 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ashley-os7td
    @ashley-os7td Před 25 dny +2

    Love him ❤ great interview

  • @kirstywilliamson9188
    @kirstywilliamson9188 Před 24 dny +1

    Love ur pod ! Tommy is unreal ❤

  • @user-en8zg2uj1u
    @user-en8zg2uj1u Před 8 dny +1

    Brilliant interview. Iv always liked Tommy and his lovely family. Him being open about hisADHD has made me realise that my eldest daughter most likely does have ADHD, which I always thought she had since she was little but like Tommy I didn’t want her to be put on medication as I thought it would change her personality but now I realise I should have persisted to get her evaluated as now she is nearly 18 and really struggles at times and the NHS is a joke when it comes to kids mental health etc. private assessment costs an absolute fortune. James your interviews just get better and better. Does anyone even watch tv anymore? I know I don’t. I’d much rather watch real people and their real stories . All the best to you both.

  • @funnyfaces3849
    @funnyfaces3849 Před 24 dny +1

    Like this guy…but anyone who’s been on a similar journey you’ll be able to see where he is…excited that he’s seen the light after the dark for the first time but….there’s always so much more learning life keeps teaching you…when you think wow great I’ve cracked it…normally ready to get brought down another level….interesting to see where this guy is in 5 years hopefully in a even better place with more lessons and more happiness

  • @lesleyrobinson9790
    @lesleyrobinson9790 Před 23 dny +1

    I like many knew you and Georgia from Towie. Unlike others who have different media avenues since Towie you 2 are the only ogs I still love and follow. Both you and Georgia being so down to earth and honest still makes you both so lovable. I've 2 sons 🎉with adhd and totally understand how you felt after finding out you had adhd and again after starting meditation. (My sons went from crazy mad boys to understanding others with emotions loving boys after meds and support since knowing of adhd. Keep being you Tommy and as a couple remember Tommy and Georgia your 100% couple goals. I'm 45 today and wish I'd found what you Tommy and Georgia have found already xx

  • @ChrisModen
    @ChrisModen Před 15 dny +1

    This is mad…
    I’ve known I have ADHD since I was a kid and I’m now 31, I’ve never understood it and always tell myself I’m past all that but now realise it’s in me more than ever. It’s literally right there in front of me, what the fuck, this podcast is insane 👌🏻 I think this podcast will help so many people I couldn’t turn it off there’s so much I can relate to even though my situations different.

    • @lynsey_mcl8271
      @lynsey_mcl8271 Před 3 dny

      Aww please don't struggle 🥺 I got diagnosed through the NHS a couple of years ago at age 48. Being diagnosed & on medication has literally changed my life ❤ Take care x

  • @paulshields9025
    @paulshields9025 Před 24 dny +2

    Unbelievable this fella. Good luck mate. ❤️👍🏻

  • @paulamccaig8555
    @paulamccaig8555 Před 8 dny

    love this ❤

  • @Rainbowdargon
    @Rainbowdargon Před 26 dny +3

    Can’t wait for this one 🫡

  • @carolburke9153
    @carolburke9153 Před 17 dny +1

    Tommy learned a lesson the hard way ... he now understands .

  • @thedriverofallthings
    @thedriverofallthings Před 25 dny +9

    Never sell your soul for fame and fortune

  • @joefaichney1893
    @joefaichney1893 Před 23 dny +2

    Never heard of him until now … what a bloke related so much apart from the money lol 😂… but that isn’t to say am not putting the pedal to the flaw on life ….. legend thanks James and what a bloke this is he is ….. let’s goooo time to get back the grind ❤it ain’t ever over 👊it will pass ….. start working … it will always pass good en bad ☝️✌️

  • @ericavale1
    @ericavale1 Před 2 dny

    Omg you are literally describing my life before and after my ADHD diagnosis ! 🥰

  • @SuperRooney1010
    @SuperRooney1010 Před 24 dny +2

    top show james ,tommy is a good lad always liked him.

  • @TheZippy72
    @TheZippy72 Před 25 dny +4

    Bravo Tommy 👏

  • @Carsforsaleuk8220
    @Carsforsaleuk8220 Před 25 dny +2

    Probs up there in my top 3 of your interviews if not the best one, this lad is proper I shit you not such a down to earth lad very grounded no fake bullshit class!!

  • @leetheyid4456
    @leetheyid4456 Před 25 dny +3

    God bless to you tommy and family wish yous all the best cuz 🙏 top fella 👍

  • @nicola7609
    @nicola7609 Před 24 dny +2

    So happy for you Tommy that you have your ADHD under control ❤

  • @leonneburns641
    @leonneburns641 Před 24 dny +2

    LOVED it... everything I thought this interview would be and more 👏🏼

  • @fatimab121
    @fatimab121 Před 24 dny +1

    I just love Tommy ❤

  • @jamielankshear6399
    @jamielankshear6399 Před 22 dny +1

    So proud of you Tommy

  • @Magical_Makeup_UK
    @Magical_Makeup_UK Před 15 dny

    So SO relatable

  • @hettybl
    @hettybl Před 21 dnem

    Love him...can relate to so much 😊

  • @lisaainslie8597
    @lisaainslie8597 Před 25 dny +5

    They are the couple who came out of Towie. Lovely little family