Hey Steve: How Do I Tell My Wife I Want To Sleep Together Less?
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- čas přidán 21. 05. 2018
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He is embarrassed to tell her let’s sleep together less but not embarrassed to say it on national tv in a tv show
Really tho 😂😂😂
solid snake
I think when you getting older , thinking capacity going down .
I think that he tried to discuss it with her, but she refused lol...thats why he asked.
ikr? I'm constantly surprised at just how much intimate stuff some folks are willing to tell *millions* of people (isn't TMI a thing anymore?)--but not a peep to their significant others. At least not until they get their yaps in front of a mike. Those little discoveries must be fun!
I'd love to hear the conversations when these couples are heading home...My guess is that they involve either a whole lotta yellin', or some very *loud* silence...
Thess questions are staged
"She gone do it twice and week and I suggest that you're there". Mr. Harvey is too much. Lol
I love it. I died laughing. Lol! 😂😂😂
Wa ha haaaa😂
Took me out! 😂😂😂😂
Lol I lost it when Steve said that lol
😂😂😂
lol did he just ask how he could tell his wife this and his wife is right beside him?
😂😂😂 ikr
Jessica McKinley lol😅
Yes he did, but did you see him move to the other side when he did?😂😂
That is why he moved lol
I thought she was just one of the girls that worked for Steve
Wow! Usually it’s the other way around! Lol 😂 never seen a guy complain about too much sex!
Brooklyn Dreamz I have lol
Brooklyn Dreamz that’s a myth. Men like variety which doesn’t mean high sex drive. The sex drive is high when they haven’t had you yet aka also known as the beginning stages. Most women have “ low sex drives” because they can’t stand the men they’re with. How do you get tired of receiving? Despite all the different positions out there, most times we’re just receiving. He is a lucky man, he chose right cuz if your wife wants it more than you after twenty years, you did something right.
Men usually start to slow down around age 50, which is roughly the same time older women are just hitting their peak.
cmwscb so tell me why some men prefer to marry women fifteen years younger than themselves. Are they dumb 😂? Or they don’t know basic human physiology/ biology? Maybe they want to hold the woman hostage and miserable 😭
He might just be bored with her after that many years he may want a younger woman....
Twice is not that much. He really tired
I know right! He better start working out and take some vitamins! Lol 😂
Try doing that for 20 years.
Diamond629 yep your right however he is 59 and not in good shape
chumbuckery777
Ooo
Thats whats up lol
He better hit the gym
He better get an energy drink
Kountry Bella, he going to need more than energy drink, ooh bless, he make have to do activity at the gym to help him out just. I think the manopauce probably turn her into a young girl again, so her husband going to have to do something about it.
Kountry Bella 😂😂😂😂😂
Suzzette Lettman right. He may have health issues
Low T
Kountry Bella and a viagra
She should get on top of him if he's tired. Maybe he has to do all of the work.
blameitonablackstar Well his wife is got some meat on her now
Homie knows
there are husbands out there that wish they had this guys wife
Truth a lot of girls just lay there.
@@joey1717 ew
even with those pants, she still longing for him? Give that woman a medal
Edit: I never had a comment with 10 votes. Now I have one with 3.9k comments.
The algorithm is with me
Collins bright 😂😂😂😂😂 petty
Don't forget we age into our parents..... don't be like that!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You almost killed me with your comment. Now I have to ask for forgiveness
Lol! I almost cried laughing
Haha.
Damn! I'm a little embarrassed for her.
afro curly girl I'm embarrassed for their children 😅
Me too
She isn't embarrassed, though. She was playing along and laughing.
quitecontrary23 Her husband is voicing a disinterest in her sexually on tv for millions to see, of course she put on a brave face and played along. Even Steve was a little uncomfortable when he realized what the man was actually asking him.
Or maybe they have been married for 20 years because they communicate and maybe he knows his wife and whether or not this would bother her. Give people more credit.
You can tell they really love each other. Even when he moved away you could tell by their smiles that they both knew it was just a joke
It wasn't 100% a joke- there was little truth in it- he just got to the age where he needs a little help to keep up, and Steve encouraged this. It was good advice.
@@MisterMooster the guys problem was energy, not blood flow.
Yooo sis was waving off like "Nope, we aint fiddin to cut back a damn thang!" Get it mama!
brooklynforever1990 K
brooklynforever1990 imagine if the genders were switched would you cheer for the man if he said he ain’t cutting back a damn thing
@@marztianpapi3419 Yup
@@marztianpapi3419 Probably no
double standard much? bet you'd condemn a man for saying the same thing if roles were switched.
She gon do it twice a week and I suggest you're there... I nearly died of laughter
Me too!😆
steve is hilarious
His belt buckle is off center and his pants are up to his neck. He tired.
Hey my Jamaican beauty!
Girl stop you are too funny
Hahahaha he is so so tired. Lol 😂
For real the poor man is tired.
🤣
my best bet is that they be doing it in the same position, same time, same place. l suggest you try different positions, times, places, coz that will keep his majesty at alert position all day and night long.
kate kanini lol u may b on 2 something
Ima live forever cause a legend never dies . 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you know am right ...
He doesn't sound like the creative type.
kate kanini lol
kate kanini I think after 20 years they done tried everything
More fruits and veggies are needed sir... Get your energy level up...
He's probably cheap!
He just tired of hitting the same thing for 20+ years. It like eating the same thing for dinner after a while you run out of things to spice it up.
@@lakeisiac180 too cheap to buy fruits and veggies? Hmmm
Nonsense..y'all will get tired....
@Peace World 60 is really not that old, I can see if he was 80. Lol
Did a quick calculation, twice a week for 20 years is 2080 times......
🤔😂😂😂😂
ooof man
Hmmm. I'll probably hit that number with my girl on year 7 at this rate. That's when I'll need a new woman.
And i'm still a 23 years old virgin :'(
@@nadjiaouidi7040 me too lol! Twinsss
King KING KING - I'd like to meet this guy. 20 years straight in a marriage consistently with the same woman. Some of these young folk in the comments probably can't hold a relationship for 2 yrs and to be that consistent(regardless of any misunderstandings - struggles - growing pains) this King has some knowledge I'd love to absorb.
King AshBel Yep both of them
Young folk here (early 30's) and we just got to our 13 year anniversary...can certainly say life gets in the way and people do get tired, my advice is to be spontaneous and schedule date nights too.
Wrd
You don't know that he was only with her.
ineedhoez but he was with her, other get divorced or break up
That poor man 😂 Get it girl! 😜
:)
Nothing but respect for that man right there, a husband and probably a father for over 20 years by now.
Based on how much they do it they got at least 5 or 6 kids
I wouldn't listen to Hollywood Harvey. No telling where he gets his drive from. As much as he abuses the word "hell", he might be building his eternal home there.
What an accomplishment 😭😂 crazy how western people think it's an extraordinary thing and not the norm
What is not normal to say
@@jomaw0875 Your comment is a little cryptic.. So if he has a high sex drive.. That must be something bad? Sorry I misunderstood.
He doesn’t know how blessed he is.
twice a week!!! maybe i'm young...i want it twice a day or three times a day.
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Dj C_Rock dead😂😂😂
i used to have a sexy hot 20 year old girlfriend, perfection, she had the body any man would die for!, but.. she wanted me to have sex 5 times a day, FIVE TIMES!!! at first, it made me the happyest day alive, after a long time i realised, she was braindead and i had to leave her cause i knew this aint the one. sex dont mean anything its gret and YAY for it, but in the end yo'l value love more than sex.
Holler!!!!
Age is a huge factor
Steve is something else with his response...."and I would suggest that you're there" Hilarious! lol!
IKR!😆 he better read between the lines
I died.
"And i would suggest your there" lmao
the best part
I think its funny you used the correct form of there but not the correcr form of your/you're
She's sitting right there...
I think it's kinda of disrespectful to share something so intimate on national television about your sex life with your spouse .
There's no shame anymore.
And if he's posing this question in her presence now , they clearly could've discussed this at home.
Nicole Williams ikr, then he runs around to the other side of the girl holding the mic. If this were the other way around he would feel he was being dissed imo
Nicole Williams Agreed. That's a private matter. Well seems they did discuss it... to talk about it on television
Nicole Williams girllll child stop this was a discuss topic at home,didn't you see how she responded.... The sex addicted know he was going to go there.
Just because he brought it up I would add one more day if I were his wife.
Cassandra Pearson LMFAO
Wow Steve is down right hilarious, he’s got to be the most entertaining person to watch
@SteveHarvey Please bring them back for their own segment. I want to hear her side. Lol
“I’d suggest you’re there” lmao 🤣
"Cause she gon' do it twice a week and I would suggest that you're there!"😂😂😂😂
She's gonna give him Stroke 😂😂😂😂
Avignon 😂😂😂😂😂
Neri Matrixx 😂😂😂😂
frank 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Avignon 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m died🤣🤣🤣🤣
Private Benjamin
Uncle Steve once again sidetracked. Why are we looking for the bathtub on the mountain top?😂😂😂😂😂
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 This has made part of my day.... Never seen a man that complains about having too much of it.
Too late now!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Keep that love train going!!!
You betta drink you some green tea!
Define "intimate" because to me, I think being intimate doesn't always have to be intercourse....how about a nice bath together in the hot tub while sipping on wine?? Lol cuddling, just kissing? Something nice and relaxing so that nobody ends up gasping for air or "tired"? Lol
Maki Innocent Yes, exactly!! People are just looking at things from one side
Truth👌
Hello the wife doesn't want no wine and no bath!! She want de ting!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shut up. You know what he meant. Context matters.
Dare Jones 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Don't get a side piece, lady. Tell him twice this week, once next week, back to twice. Give him 2 weeks of vacation per year. 😂
quitecontrary23 That's why Steve said...."She gonna do the twice a week and he suggest that he (the husband ) is there."
Cause if he ain't, she gonna have a Tyquan in some Timberland boots putting her in one of these 2018 positions. Then his wife, and all his checks will be going to Tyquan.
quitecontrary23 . pliz stop. l need my ribs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
kate kanini You know I'm right. Listen to Sommore.
RODRICK MYERS Lord have mercy 😆😆😆😆
quitecontrary23 lol, good idea
Twice a week is not alot for married couples! That to me is trimmed down and he wants less???...lol
mdooms76 said those who aren’t married yet
The average for married couples is 5 times a month a month. Obviously some couples may have sex 10 times a month or maybe they have sex once a month, you sound like the type to be higher up in frequency.
SeanDaNerd . Lord have mercy. what a verdict...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Psshh twice a week is alot for a couple that lives together smh speaking from experience
Wth kind of losers are y’all lmao twice a week isn’t a lot at all
If he's tired, he's tired. If she were the one tired, I doubt Mr Steve would be telling her this.
Samuel Oluwaseun Sofoluwe and I don’t see the audience cheering the idea of a woman having to keep up with how much sex her man wants to have. Maybe they would but man is it hard to imagine.
double standards
Yeah that's wat I wrote up.. he has every right to refuse.. feel d wife too controlling to demand like this!! I wld just tell her to go help herself n not hassle d poor man like that! Besides maybe he doesn't find her attractive anymore so maybe he can also ask her do some workout in d gym first 😉😅
I agree, such double standards.
Yeah. Abused the man. It's accepted in western society.
I don't know what people are smoking here, but a lot of married couples hardly have sex after many years. Its gets boring. I know a lot of marriages that fizzled out due to inactivity. The bottom line is that if you cannot get along with your partner in non-sexual situations, the marriage will never work.
preach
Got to have balance in a marriage. You have to have sex or a little self destruct. I am in the self-destructive marriage right now hormones. Doesn’t mean you get to act like a psycho
That’s why it’s great to be connected in other ways (emotionally; spiritual; etc) that way all emphasis is not put on sex. Two people who are connected on deeper levels find ways to stay connected to each other sexually. I truly believe that.
He should be grateful that his wife still loves him that much!
I can’t be the only that keeps rewatching the first few sections for his reaction to the guys name!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
We're together
He is asking the question with his wife sitting there?? WTF ha
...and I suggest that you’re there. 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Steve you killed me bro.
“She’s gonna do it twice a week…. And I suggest that your there…” 🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️
Black dude never stop but this dude is killin me lmafo 😂😂
Black dude never stop ?
OMG!!!!!!!!!! STEP UP BROTHER!!!!!!!!
The ending omg Steve 😂😂😂😂
Yoooooo these comments have me in tears right now😂😂😂😂😂.....I love segments like these on Mr. Steve’s show....
This is why i like steves show there are lot of confident people
Lmao. Hit him with the realest statement at the end. “ She’s gonna do the twice a week. I suggest that YOUR there”
"im getting tired Steve"
i felt that pain in his voice :D
Microphone girl on point all the time!!!! She looks GREAT!!!! Love that dress!!!
Love Steve's " suggest that you're there"
You told him right Steve.
I suggest that you there when it happens 😂😂
Dr Steve Harvey excellent 👍 analysis and answers. WOW. This man will put any psychologist out of business. He.gets to the point in a.mi minute. You don't need an hourly rate just one minute, and the best advice for life.
I realize it's an old post and probably won't matter but there's a resort in the mountains with tubs outside in West Virginia.
That's the great thing about being an older woman..we get energized, they get tired out
Nina Davis I wonder why they want to start seeing younger women when they get older when they have no stamina
Valencia Whittington they want what they can't handle. Thinks it will keep them young😁😒
Oh, okay. Maybe my sex drive will come back in about 20 years then. LOL.
You are nasty
How is that a good thing? Nobody wants you then. Now you're stuck with an itch you can't scratch.
Never would I thought a man would say “I’m getting tired” 😂😂😂
@Hélia Alves women dont get tired of being with the same man? Women cheat just as much if not more than men in marriage.
@Hélia Alves If that's what you wanna believe 🤷🏾♀️
@Hélia Alves I agree it's a generalization as you said. I think historically women have been more faithful based on 3 things: 1.) They are conditioned for marriage basically from birth (historically, not really anymore) 2.) They were always stricter rules placed on womens sexuality and their ability to "explore" that sexuality freely. 3.) Women have been punished harshly for doing the same things (sexually) that a man did. I think women and men are both wired for survival at the end of the day and most humans are more polyamorous than anything.
Exactly right answer as usual Steve! That’s right.
Keep it up and you’ll stay healthy.
Now, this is HILARIOUS!!!! 😂
This guy might need to keep himself active by getting fit and eat good food cause there is no way to break that rule, it has to be consistent or else she may not like it
Truth👌👌👌👏👏
Switch the genders in your comment and people would go crazy
@@1st_b Lmao exactly.
Please tell me this is a troll lol. He should be forced to have sex with her because she might not like it??? Wtf am I reading??!!!
Who cares if she doesnt like it
Whaaaaat?? I died..Is he crazy!! LMAO Get some vitamin B for energy and break her back twice a week.
LMAO! I love Steve. Crazy.
Great Suggestion... #BeThere
Woww! He needs some good old ginger tea & green tea mixed 2gether !! A good stretch 4 like 10min's to get his blood circulating with that tea & then maybe they should exchange some oral favors 1st & then a nice quickie right after would bring everything right on home 4 the both of them! So his back or whatever the problem is ,will survive!!
Diva Time Oysters or clams will also do it with wine. Seafood is EXTREMELY good for the libido.
😂 Love it!
I have been married five years and maybe intimate three to four times a year.... Honestly, I want more of my wife. I don't sleep with other people, I am just waiting for her to get past whatever it is that is holding her back. I love my wife and yes, there are guys that love for more than just sex.
You will be waiting for a looong time if you don't put your foot down. Have a talk about that, and unless there are health issues and you are doing your part in the marriage, that is one of her parts. If the shoe was on the other foot and she wanted more you would be hearing about it in no gentle manner. My guess is she lost respect and through that attraction for one of a few reasons : She started earning more than you, you are more out of shape than when you met or she is already "doing" someone else, probably at work. Damn, once every two weeks is too little. Once every 3 months???
Thats why im divorced, 2 years without intimacy was a deal breaker for me.
Steve you are right on the money.
You just told her by asking the question on live TV. Legendary
You can tell he’s good to her emotionally because I’m wondering how she remains hot for him so consistently.
Twice a week for 20 years 🙄. I'm surprised she is still there now 😂😂😂😂😂
m malo that’s 2080 times, and I’m betting at the beginning it was more than 2
Is grandpa telling us his nearest drug store doesn't sell viagra? LOL
When you find the one you love the fire never goes out.
m malo she probably givin head on a daily
Right!! that's not a whole lot, and who keeps track? I'd really be turned off as his wife.
She has a stunning smile ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is my fav clip!!
It's 5:00 in the morning and I'm cracking up. I've been up since 3 watching Steve. Dang Steve the man old he tired he don't want no medicine he want a break lol.
This is where i come into the picture...I'm 24 and I got energy
SignatureBeatz 🤣😆🤣
"U got my undivided attention."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi Steve.
The resort you are talking about is in New Zealand. I went there but it was totally booked out months in advance. Remember you have to book way ahead. Good luck!
Ikno he didn’t just say once every damn two weeks 😭😂😑
Hey everyone
“I would suggest that you’re there”
Daaaaaaamn..
Wen Steve said " shez going to do it twice a week n I suggest u be ther....." I died hahahahahaaha
Buddy I think you just told her😂
Moral:- "don't expect much from your husband when he is about to be 60yrs 😂"
alright steve!!! ill subscribe!! jeez
“You have my undivided attention” lmao
“She need a new man” keep that same energy when yo man wants some and you don’t give it to him an he go get it somewhere else.
Maybe he's doing all the work 🤷🏾♀️ Maybe time to switch it up! Kudos to them!
That resort you looking for is in Oribi Gorge, Durban, South Africa.
The ending is priceless 😂😂
Buddy 1.Let her get on top more, lol. 2. Increase you're carbs and fluids. 3. Improve your skills so that you can push her buttons faster.
2 a week that's not much buddy
CHASS FREEMAN mhm. It means 5 days they ain't do nothing!!!!
He's 59 doe
his not a teenager..
Hes 60, they been doing it for 20 years constantly twice a week smh
Well its better than not doing it.
wise words from Harvey - great ending
"I would suggest that you're there !"
My word ...‼️
What I would have given for twice a month!!!! Lucky girl.
Everyday for me girl
I’m lucky if it’s once a year...no lie!
I need twice a day before we get up in the morning and before we go to bed at night if not that at least noon and night everyday
Brian Roberts I'm with you on this
Anwanda Manfred why thank you
Oh no sir how old are you
I hope you treat your woman well
May i ask you how old are you?and if you are an african American?
It was so funny him tying to say his name.
Lol Steve trying to pronounce the man's name.
Nope! Get your testosterone levels checked, And Keep Wrecking That! 😂😂🤣😂
Just the fact that he's been counting and keeping track is strange in itself. What man does that? Wow!
I saw the title and was in shock. I never heard of that before 😂
If this was a girl asking this question, harvey would have acted way different. This is actually sexism