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  • Practice ending your sentences with a downward pitch.
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  • @mayfly9319
    @mayfly9319 Před 11 měsíci +22852

    Waiting for your live webinar on 12 August

  • @krimeincorporatedod4895
    @krimeincorporatedod4895 Před 11 měsíci +68161

    Every Australian sentence sounds like a question because of that.

    • @wakichunu
      @wakichunu Před 11 měsíci +443

      Oher noer broer

    • @apocalypticpioneers2116
      @apocalypticpioneers2116 Před 11 měsíci +164

      Loooooooooooooool reminds me of Brian's blonde girlfriend in family guy

    • @Boneappleteahee
      @Boneappleteahee Před 11 měsíci +228

      @@wakichunudude CZcams auto translate feature actually translated that to “Oh no brother” 💀💀

    • @JinTheAceStar
      @JinTheAceStar Před 10 měsíci +15

      @@Boneappleteahee looks like swedish lol

    • @randomdude4669
      @randomdude4669 Před 10 měsíci +19

      Nah not everyone lol but some do and its annoying as shit, not too mention this dude is australian

  • @Dolph_Art
    @Dolph_Art Před 9 měsíci +7785

    He also changed the pace at which he spoke. Which i believe helped to stabilize the conviction in his voice as he sounds more relaxed. Speaking faster adds a bit of a nervous tone to his voice.

    • @MrMelonsz
      @MrMelonsz Před 7 měsíci +153

      Here’s a list of many other changes he made to his speech presentation that he didn’t tell us about (these changes tamper with the validity of the pitch experiment):
      He changed how direct his hand gestures were in the lower version.
      He annunciated certain words more in the lower speaking to draw attention to his main points.
      He also changed how confident he was in terms of eye contact in the lower version.
      He didn’t include the usage of “uh” in the lower pitch speaking but did include it in his higher pitch speaking.
      “Uh” makes people appear more unsure of what they’re trying to convey.
      He smiled less in the lower version to showcase his levels of determination, professionally and how serious he is about the goal he is setting.

    • @Dolph_Art
      @Dolph_Art Před 7 měsíci +19

      @@MrMelonsz very nice analysis

    • @defectiveparts8604
      @defectiveparts8604 Před 6 měsíci +10

      Depends, as an American there's a power called "overtalk" you can say too much yes, but that's not what I mean. If you speak fast and enunciate clearly, you can steamroll anyone who tries to interrupt you. You absolutely have to know exactly what you are talking about, and have the hardest hitting facts, or else it does not work.
      Life lesson: Know your sh*t.

    • @MrMelonsz
      @MrMelonsz Před 6 měsíci

      @@Dolph_Art Thank you. I appreciate it. :)

    • @TheFunnyCapy
      @TheFunnyCapy Před 6 měsíci

      fr

  • @VaderPr01
    @VaderPr01 Před 7 měsíci +5246

    I'm too high for this

  • @Mcboogalo
    @Mcboogalo Před 6 měsíci +692

    Bro has the cleanest edits and no one is talking about it

    • @ChinedumDavid
      @ChinedumDavid Před 6 měsíci +3

      Was looking for this comment bro😂

    • @basketguitar9768
      @basketguitar9768 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ChinedumDavid where are your nipples bruh??

  • @TheRutefly
    @TheRutefly Před 10 měsíci +15082

    Australians always seem to end their sentences with a cold beer. What a beautiful people.

    • @jnthnklng
      @jnthnklng Před 10 měsíci +30

      My kind of conversations!!!

    • @Freepalestinesos
      @Freepalestinesos Před 10 měsíci +17

      As an Australian 😂❤

    • @gurumaster342
      @gurumaster342 Před 10 měsíci +7

      They drink beer warm there lol

    • @Trungtoto151
      @Trungtoto151 Před 10 měsíci

      i love it

    • @jettvalen7326
      @jettvalen7326 Před 10 měsíci +3

      ​@@gurumaster342not if we can help it dear.
      You can just taste it more when it's cold and crisp, but sometimes it depends on the beverage.

  • @mechamechV2
    @mechamechV2 Před 10 měsíci +5376

    While ending on a lower pitch adds gravitas to your tone, I do think that ending on a higher pitch can convey a sense of excitement and enthusiasm in the right situation. So, you don't always have to end on the lower pitch.

    • @ssjjaeds759
      @ssjjaeds759 Před 10 měsíci +31

      Facts

    • @Alexa-bp8rm
      @Alexa-bp8rm Před 10 měsíci +67

      Plus we know how depressed Americans are compared to Australians so why not add some fun in our voices and take after them

    • @justanotherperson3445
      @justanotherperson3445 Před 10 měsíci +120

      ⁠@@Alexa-bp8rm… sir this is about public speaking/ business communication. It has nothing to do with emotion. And maybe not your intention but that sounds like a “oh you’re depressed? Why don’t you cheer up!” Kind of thinking that an inflection in your voice has anything to do with that stuff. I meant for this to be written and read in a “sir this is a Wendy’s” type of way but I can tell I lost it. Carry on.

    • @johnnyveng4014
      @johnnyveng4014 Před 10 měsíci +30

      No. It conveys uncertainty, not enthusiasm, in the larger culture. Locally, you might be right. But if you speak with people from farther away, or especially people from other countries, uptalk will make you sound wimpy at best and incompetent at worst.

    • @marti5420
      @marti5420 Před 10 měsíci +33

      The difference between good and great communication and knowing when to use different techniques of communication.

  • @techmaster9781
    @techmaster9781 Před 7 měsíci +13

    "even when they're not!"
    ESPECIALLY when they're not

  • @ragnarokda206
    @ragnarokda206 Před 7 měsíci +339

    I use a higher pitch after my sentences if I want a person to feel that they're learning or experiencing something WITH me.
    I use a lower pitch if I'm very instructive or descriptive. This is to assert confidence.

    • @ManOfSteel-vm6ef
      @ManOfSteel-vm6ef Před 6 měsíci

      Can you explain a little deeper?

    • @ifination
      @ifination Před 5 měsíci

      Like saying "right?" after every sentence, right?

    • @wolfvash22
      @wolfvash22 Před měsícem

      Sounds very accurate, communication is contextual.

  • @PilotHardy
    @PilotHardy Před 10 měsíci +5256

    British newscasters are the KINGS of ending on lower pitch lmao

    • @BigJoze
      @BigJoze Před 10 měsíci +195

      English newscasters love to...pause their sentences quite a lot...for no reason. They also get bored of the end of the sentence their saying, and drag, it out, like this, for some........reasonnnn

    • @DMC888
      @DMC888 Před 10 měsíci +60

      @@BigJozethey drag it out because they’re reading the next part of their script.

    • @WitchKing-Of-Angmar
      @WitchKing-Of-Angmar Před 10 měsíci +34

      ​​@@BigJoze To give you a gage, and show conviction in their points. Make it prestigious.
      "Today at 10:00, news has come to report, that by the next..hour, we will all be doomed in mankind."

    • @sfglim5341
      @sfglim5341 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@BigJozenot no reason. The accent they were taught probably had them do it

    • @danlowe
      @danlowe Před 9 měsíci

      And it's so obnoxious

  • @tesscrelli783
    @tesscrelli783 Před 10 měsíci +1540

    In my speech class I was taught to alternate between ending on a high or low pitch because it prevents your speeches from sounding boring. I think the aim is to keep the audience engaged.

    • @PursuitSk8
      @PursuitSk8 Před 10 měsíci +60

      I agree with this video, but having variety in your tonality is so good too. Both are excellent approaches!

    • @9nikolai
      @9nikolai Před 10 měsíci +36

      Variety isn't just about alternating at random or in a predictable way. That still leads to boredom, if not confusion.
      You should choose how you say things based on what you're saying and how you wish for it to be conveyed.

    • @mn8931
      @mn8931 Před 10 měsíci +15

      huh?? You were taught to alternate? What a horrible advice. It has to be all within context of what the sentence is about. Thats why he said "if you KEEP ending your sentence in a higher pitch", he never said always end in lower pitch.

    • @mn8931
      @mn8931 Před 10 měsíci +1

      100%@@9nikolai

    • @baptistejanin9615
      @baptistejanin9615 Před 10 měsíci +6

      ​@@mn8931I don't think by alternate he means one after the other again and again, or randomly, to me it was implied that it depends on the contexte

  • @Popcornnomnom
    @Popcornnomnom Před 7 měsíci +36

    This is an incredible example of also understanding who your audience is. I'm an executive assistant who talks to people all around the world. Australia does have that inflection at the end of their sentences. America does not. And still in confidence in them means I have to talk in my mind a little bit like a valley girl. But it works for them. Communication language is not easy

  • @Tmb1112
    @Tmb1112 Před 7 měsíci +6

    “Even when they’re not”
    But we are. Always. That’s why we say it like that.

    • @BigL.10
      @BigL.10 Před 4 měsíci

      Hahaha no, Americans try to sell themselves even when they aren’t the most qualified because they’ve been told that they are special their whole lives

    • @user-ik7xq1pb6s
      @user-ik7xq1pb6s Před 4 měsíci +1

      MURICA

    • @lilianai4698
      @lilianai4698 Před 3 měsíci

      Haha. That must be with a lower pitch as well

  • @reinee5511
    @reinee5511 Před 11 měsíci +10411

    I've always noticed that Australians end their sentences on a high pitch. It's one of the reasons why I liked their accent but I couldn't put it into words so thanks for that. i also didn't know it was a bad thing. I always felt like it made their accent more beautiful and somewhat charming. Crazy how your videos open up my mind to specifics in communication skills that I would never imagine exist.

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  Před 11 měsíci +245

      Happy to help !

    • @RealityRogue
      @RealityRogue Před 11 měsíci +192

      I think there’s a difference between sounding charming and sounding confident :)
      You can make a lot of friends with an Australian accent! but it’s also best to learn how to end lower as well if you want to sound competent in a formal environment

    • @HormoziSpeech
      @HormoziSpeech Před 11 měsíci +41

      nothing wrong with it i think it more has to do with if you’re speaking publicly or especially sales

    • @punkrocka9600
      @punkrocka9600 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Even most Americans are "singing" at the end of the sentence. Really annoying.

    • @prehistoriccreator9600
      @prehistoriccreator9600 Před 11 měsíci +11

      I guess high gives a more approachable, less dominating appearance, while low gives a more dominating and less approachable.
      Think about anime and cartoons, the serious characters that take charge usually have a deeper voice or when a goofy character gets serious, their voice drops. While when they want to portray a more lighthearted, bubbly character, or a character acting silly they go for high pitched.

  • @Sugarglidergirl101
    @Sugarglidergirl101 Před 10 měsíci +4204

    Honestly the higher pitch sounds friendly and exciting and the lower pitch sounds calming and reassuring. Both are great in their own way.

    • @TheBeefSlayer
      @TheBeefSlayer Před 10 měsíci +159

      Higher pitch sounds like a question and makes the listener feel like the speaker either doesn’t know or assume the listener is dumb and can’t understand.

    • @hyalophora
      @hyalophora Před 10 měsíci +54

      ​@@TheBeefSlayerNope, doesn't sound like that to me. Maybe it would sound like that to someone who's not used to it.

    • @TheBeefSlayer
      @TheBeefSlayer Před 10 měsíci +38

      @@hyalophora I hear plenty of it. It’s a fact that in USA it sounds like a question. There is even a movie about it.

    • @TheBlueGoldenHawk
      @TheBlueGoldenHawk Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@TheBeefSlayer what movie?

    • @mjt1517
      @mjt1517 Před 9 měsíci

      Constantly ending with a high pitch makes the person sound dumb.

  • @samikdas4345
    @samikdas4345 Před 8 měsíci +2

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  • @user-jj4on7cu1k
    @user-jj4on7cu1k Před 7 měsíci +17

    That lower ending thing was exactly what my dad used to do when I asked him about anything, made me think he was an expert in that thing (and he always was)

  • @FreyaWarr
    @FreyaWarr Před 11 měsíci +3261

    As an American I feel both validated, personally attacked, and informed, seen, and called out 😂😂😂❤

    • @pipthewarrior3738
      @pipthewarrior3738 Před 10 měsíci +35

      Except the best of the best are in America, also the worst of the worst, but still, bad joke

    • @Dumpsack
      @Dumpsack Před 10 měsíci +9

      I know. I had a roller coaster of emotions. But I’m okay with it… I think? I’ll be fine.. 😶

    • @sillicon8227
      @sillicon8227 Před 10 měsíci +11

      ​@@pipthewarrior3738neither the best of the best, nor the worst of the worst are in America

    • @pipthewarrior3738
      @pipthewarrior3738 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@sillicon8227 Ok

    • @rileymorris7230
      @rileymorris7230 Před 10 měsíci +4

      as an Australian I feel personally offendID!

  • @HighTechWizard
    @HighTechWizard Před 10 měsíci +699

    That was the slickest transition to your example, animating yourself back into frame, that deserves recognition!

    • @michaelmendez9423
      @michaelmendez9423 Před 10 měsíci +17

      I was wondering why nobody else was mentioning it. It was sooo good

    • @emperor_mozzy
      @emperor_mozzy Před 10 měsíci +8

      Isn't it possible he just froze a frame from a split second into that transition?

    • @avigailomichael
      @avigailomichael Před 10 měsíci +4

      😅It was magical. Isnt that what he does, magic?

    • @elibankz4355
      @elibankz4355 Před 10 měsíci +3

      It was so smooth that I didn't even notice it until you mentioned it.

    • @andreirachko
      @andreirachko Před 10 měsíci

      Magnificent, much more than your average youtuber would do for a short.

  • @lilianai4698
    @lilianai4698 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ‘Even when they’re not’ so TRUE! I attest that every single day in America!! GENIUS comment and explanation, from a connoisseur

  • @synthesis1634
    @synthesis1634 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I used to up talk but my dad helped me with it and it does make you sound more respectable

  • @deltazygone52
    @deltazygone52 Před 10 měsíci +1368

    Puts a sense of finality in your voice. When you do this it makes you sound confident that you have finished your sentence. The confidence you show by doing this makes people more interested in listening to you.

    • @Cal.18
      @Cal.18 Před 10 měsíci +3

      You can easily finish off a sentence if you’re ending your sentences off with a high pitch. It’s got a lot more to do with how you structure your sentences than how you sound pronouncing them. The way you annunciate words only really has an impact on your initial conversation/pitch with someone. Beyond that a well formed sentence will get you a lot further than ending a sentence on a lower pitch to sound more dominant and confident.

    • @jagi7976
      @jagi7976 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Cal.18any tips on how to improve sentence structure?

    • @thatstuffsimple446
      @thatstuffsimple446 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Bro higher or lower pitch make no difference only thing is make different is accent

    • @deltazygone52
      @deltazygone52 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Cal.18 ok you’re right on that. Sentence structure is more important than tone. But this is how tone can impact how people can react to your speech, infinitesimal as the change is

    • @doryama
      @doryama Před 10 měsíci +1

      It’s very annoying that I don’t see this much in public. Especially when working at McDonald’s, it prevents me from knowing when they’re done with their side of the conversation, so I have to guess when they’re done to try and talk

  • @eksboks148
    @eksboks148 Před 7 měsíci +1

    One sounds like a friend, the other sounds like a salesman or even boss

  • @sudsybat2915
    @sudsybat2915 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Him: “End each sentence on a low note”
    Audience: “Why?”
    Him: “G R A V I T A S”

  • @leopartanen8752
    @leopartanen8752 Před 10 měsíci +948

    In Finland, we end our monotonic speech with no pitch and the other people think there is something wrong with us, especially when they don't know are we serious or not. 😁

    • @CheeseGrater69
      @CheeseGrater69 Před 10 měsíci +6

      lmao yeah its funny sometimes

    • @callummclachlan4771
      @callummclachlan4771 Před 10 měsíci +33

      Makes sense now. Almost every Finnish driver (F1 and rally) seems to have this cool, calm nature about them. Only break 'character' when something has gone completely and utterly wrong.

    • @antcommander1367
      @antcommander1367 Před 10 měsíci +8

      @@callummclachlan4771 well, in front of other people. for excample ''ice man'' kimi short words, cool and calm, while alone in team radio is the competely other story...

    • @RealUlrichLeland
      @RealUlrichLeland Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@callummclachlan4771
      Like when they had to drive past Mazepin

    • @draw2death421
      @draw2death421 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Can confirm as a fellow finn.

  • @carlclips1920
    @carlclips1920 Před 10 měsíci +87

    "Say it with confidence and people will believe you" basically what this is

  • @mapletreegames9053
    @mapletreegames9053 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I use exactly this to portray uncertainty or disbelief lol. "So, you want me to do this?" versus "so you want me to do this."

  • @farialmab4723
    @farialmab4723 Před měsícem +1

    That’s because it makes every sentence sound like a Question rather than a Statement! 😊😄😁

  • @KeepingItKeith
    @KeepingItKeith Před 10 měsíci +171

    The biggest speaking lesson I can share is to learn the power of the pause. It can emphasize Soo much. It also gives people a chance to catch up and others who were waiting to want to see why you stopped.

    • @ideegeniali
      @ideegeniali Před 10 měsíci +5

      And for you to think about what to say next and prepare better speech.
      Also a pause signifies confidence you won't get interrupted. If they try to interrupt on pause, raise your hand to signal wait, i'm not finished

  • @ArreSidu
    @ArreSidu Před 11 měsíci +2102

    Damn that editing

    • @k_celebs__
      @k_celebs__ Před 11 měsíci +16

      That's art right there

    • @captwaffle1361
      @captwaffle1361 Před 10 měsíci

      cleanest edit ive seen in a short

    • @onesyphorus
      @onesyphorus Před 10 měsíci

      fr cuzzoh was the whole flash n the pan there for a sec

  • @Jrb2823
    @Jrb2823 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Finally someone says this. I've tried to share this with college students...explaining that it makes them sound uncertain, and as if they are asking for approval of every statement they make ....as if it's a question.
    So undermining of their position.
    Hope all who do this learn and stop it.

  • @AgathaHark_ness
    @AgathaHark_ness Před 6 měsíci +1

    As an American, I can agree with the, “Even when there not…”

  • @94XJ
    @94XJ Před 10 měsíci +420

    "If you can't enthrall them with excellence, bewilder them with bullshit."
    I cant remember his name, but this was the advice given by my public speaking prof and I remember it to this day.

    • @jnnx
      @jnnx Před 10 měsíci +34

      “If you can't dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit.”
      W.C. Fields

  • @misc6119
    @misc6119 Před 11 měsíci +1498

    I literally love every single video of this guy. He is so smart and positive and right.

  • @JohnnyManu40
    @JohnnyManu40 Před 7 měsíci +1

    That up-talk as you call it, is how I am usually able to identify Aussies online. They always seem to hate it when I say "It's cause of how ya talk."

  • @SilverHuskyYT
    @SilverHuskyYT Před 6 měsíci +1

    "We are the best at what we do."
    *Literal tire fire burning in the background*

  • @ziahdawson4494
    @ziahdawson4494 Před 10 měsíci +34

    “Even when they’re not”
    No truer fact has been spoken 😂

    • @johnnoon9999
      @johnnoon9999 Před 9 měsíci

      You probly are born in the US and resent real americans because you arent one, so you express your anger by posting crap like this on the internet.

  • @ItsAustinSea
    @ItsAustinSea Před 10 měsíci +65

    Im american and i naturally gravitate to ending my sentences on an upward pitch. I sat here and tried out ending on a lower tone and WOW my mind is blown. I need to practice this and start applying it to normal conversation.

    • @johnnoon9999
      @johnnoon9999 Před 9 měsíci

      Itll change your life man. It also sounds alot more manly and confident.

  • @jeanb.5405
    @jeanb.5405 Před 6 měsíci +3

    GLad to see someone is addressing this issue because more and more people are using the high pitch to end their statements making them sound like a question. And more and more are speaking in a Sing Song pattern - both are difficult to tolerate.

  • @luckerooni1153
    @luckerooni1153 Před 6 měsíci +1

    In America, we have a very common flow of this, which is opening low pitch, neutral pitch mid, second to last sentence high pitch, last sentence low pitch.

  • @crafty9953
    @crafty9953 Před 10 měsíci +947

    I always pointed this out with even some British people as well. Honestly I love these accents so much. No one knew what I was talking about when I said that their voices usually go at a higher pitch at the end of their sentences. Everyone acted like I was crazy, but I could always hear it. I think it’s such a beautiful accent

    • @meghanh2511
      @meghanh2511 Před 10 měsíci +12

      The only Brits that end a sentence on a high pitch are Brits who are asking a question.

    • @Ramirez_477
      @Ramirez_477 Před 10 měsíci +10

      ​@@meghanh2511Scousers usually end with a high pitch

    • @MrSlowrolla
      @MrSlowrolla Před 10 měsíci +2

      Also belfast

    • @meghanh2511
      @meghanh2511 Před 10 měsíci

      Really? Well then there's one accent in the whole of Britain who does haha @@Ramirez_477

    • @meghanh2511
      @meghanh2511 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Belfast, which is in Northern Ireland, isn't in Britain. It's a part of the United Kingdom...
      @@MrSlowrolla

  • @madalinabone2753
    @madalinabone2753 Před 11 měsíci +976

    Interesting because as a native Hungarian speaker I specifically remember when they taught us in elementary that you should lower your voice at the end of the sentence so that it's clear where the end is.

    • @prehistoriccreator9600
      @prehistoriccreator9600 Před 11 měsíci +6

      I guess it gives a sense of certainty and firmness.

    • @amkorped8768
      @amkorped8768 Před 11 měsíci +19

      they taught us that cuz in hungarian grammar everything could be a question cuz we do not have a set word order

    • @mrx4814
      @mrx4814 Před 11 měsíci +6

      I'm actually learning Hungarian now as a foreigner, I asked that question yo my teachers and they told me what you said,
      Hungarian places a higher emphasis on tonality compared to other languages I know a statement could be a question depending on the tone, so I'm training myself to look for that, I find Hungarian very interesting a beautiful language

    • @amkorped8768
      @amkorped8768 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@mrx4814 what is your first language?

    • @mrx4814
      @mrx4814 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@amkorped8768 Arabic and English

  • @ifination
    @ifination Před 5 měsíci

    "Even when they're not!" Perfect use of humor to make the point, Made me LOL

  • @Gabriel-vj1cf
    @Gabriel-vj1cf Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’m American and end on a high pitch. I fear coming off as mean or grumpy and that’s why I do it.

  • @TheOliverPras
    @TheOliverPras Před 11 měsíci +208

    As a public speaker and MC, THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSONS I’VE LEARNED

  • @Blackmagecat
    @Blackmagecat Před 11 měsíci +57

    Great notice for the pitches. A high pitch can be great for peaking interest while ending low makes you sound confident.

    • @antcommander1367
      @antcommander1367 Před 10 měsíci

      high pitch ends like sounding norwegian as their ending is like ski jump.

  • @skyzoncloncluxing104
    @skyzoncloncluxing104 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Had to watch this like 10 times, I can confidently say I still cant tell the difference.

  • @MrSlunkyPics
    @MrSlunkyPics Před 7 měsíci +2

    Canadians going super high pitch and then low at the very end automatically

  • @Coconut_Prrson
    @Coconut_Prrson Před 10 měsíci +52

    I did feel much more interested with the higher pitch. It made him seem much more excited and passionate about the subject, as well as making him look much friendlier

    • @irvanray1898
      @irvanray1898 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Uptalk is as important as ending your sentences on a low pitch, just don't do it too often.

  • @BamassacreGaming
    @BamassacreGaming Před 10 měsíci +73

    He didn’t change the ending, he changed his entire pitch.

  • @PatentPending47
    @PatentPending47 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Ending on a lower pitch (for me) helps mark when they’re ending a sentence or about to start a new one. High pitch endings make it seem like there’s more to the sentence, or they’re not done talking

  • @IFoundTheTwoPiece
    @IFoundTheTwoPiece Před 7 měsíci +1

    We are the best at everything we do even when we’re not is one of the funnier descriptions of America I’ve heard

  • @prettyprincess8187
    @prettyprincess8187 Před 10 měsíci +700

    Lol this is true. As an American Woman, this is learned when we get older for most women because as girls, we do the same thing to signify that we're nice and non-threatening. I learned this when I started working with men.

    • @chrisashtonlightell-west1189
      @chrisashtonlightell-west1189 Před 10 měsíci +56

      Yeah, it's important to point out gender differences when talking about speech skills. His heart's in the right place, but his tips are a great way for women or people who are perceived as women to come off as combative and threatening to men. They think we're trying to start an argument and need to be put in our place, even if we're trying to be friendly or conversational.

    • @EnemyTec
      @EnemyTec Před 10 měsíci +22

      I’m a tall and big straight male fighter and I do this. Just to offer some contrast here. I also choose to talk in my higher octave vocal range, not too high but very different to the guys who try to sound tough and talk deep. The higher octave out of the 2 that I can easily access is more welcoming and friendly. If you hear a super deep voice from a male it genuinely is somewhat forced, after some time it stops becoming forced but at some point they chose to exercise that lower octave once they got access to it from puberty, it could be from being self conscious or just wanting to seem intimidating or I guess to sound more manly, I was never worried about that. I can voice act and go very deep if I want to so the capability is there but our voices manifest themselves and provide some insight to our true personality. I’m not going to change it for anybody. Of course if I’m disrespected it goes out the window, (ending sentences upward) but I won’t change being welcoming loving and nice to people through actions and my voice unless it’s in a business setting and I need the sale.

    • @kgmastodon7728
      @kgmastodon7728 Před 10 měsíci

      "They think we're trying to start an argument and need to be put in our place, even if we're trying to be friendly or conversational." Not all men want to "put a woman in her place" sounds like you're attracting the wrong types of men to you.​@@chrisashtonlightell-west1189

    • @Yt-qi9ot
      @Yt-qi9ot Před 10 měsíci +3

      Depends on the culture I'm the area. Some offices care how confident or how much conviction you have. Some care less. Some men don't like this and other men and women in the office talk deeper and rough em up a bit. In terms of competitiveness, men are overtly competitive to other men as well. Some offices are competitive and antagonistic by default.

    • @EnemyTec
      @EnemyTec Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@chrisashtonlightell-west1189 I never thought about this but I can personally say I only look to the word choice and my perception of their immediate intention to determine how someone is treating me.
      I can say however I’m gonna try to recognize if I have that kind of initial perception/reaction to this kind of speech pattern from women/ a woman. I like to think I do not and I’d hope and feel like I believe that other men can think logically in that way too. A very interesting topic and point that you brought up here. Definitely worth consideration and thought

  • @ceruleanpug6044
    @ceruleanpug6044 Před 11 měsíci +651

    Now that you’ve said this I realize how much I do it lol 😅

    • @exchangeofwisdom8475
      @exchangeofwisdom8475 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Which one do you do?

    • @ceruleanpug6044
      @ceruleanpug6044 Před 11 měsíci

      @@exchangeofwisdom8475 generally lower

    • @Adam80680
      @Adam80680 Před 11 měsíci +4

      I will spread ur cheeks lil bro 😭🙏🏼🙏🏼 I betta not catch you in my comments again or it’s finna gon be OVER for you

    • @ceruleanpug6044
      @ceruleanpug6044 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@Adam80680 🤨📸

    • @UnknownIdiot
      @UnknownIdiot Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@Adam80680bro☠️☠️☠️☠️

  • @mrdune5479
    @mrdune5479 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Ending pitch and a slower rhythm. It shows confidence

  • @rogeralemanprado
    @rogeralemanprado Před 7 měsíci +2

    The uptalk is brutal 😂😂😂

  • @sldarwin5615
    @sldarwin5615 Před 11 měsíci +33

    First one is literally how I always talk when dealing with customers at coles. Ending in a high pitch can make the most obscene, disgusting, horrible sentence sound polite at first glance lmao

    • @tristintaylor7999
      @tristintaylor7999 Před 10 měsíci +1

      No trust me, for those of us who aren't so braindead we catch the insult and shit. And up talk in general gets on my nerves. So yeah be careful who you do this too.

    • @sldarwin5615
      @sldarwin5615 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@tristintaylor7999 yeah true, but at least it allows me to talk my shit at work without getting in trouble lol. i do this in front of my managers and they usually have a laugh with me about it after the customer walks away. but yeah, i only use it to people who really deserve it, u have to deal with a lot of dipshits where i work

    • @TRG29338
      @TRG29338 Před 10 měsíci

      Not fooling anyone

    • @SuperNuclearUnicorn
      @SuperNuclearUnicorn Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@tristintaylor7999 yeesh are you Aussie? Because you sound super American with all that aggressive tough guy shit

    • @digitalunity
      @digitalunity Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@sldarwin5615we get it you hate your job and are constantly trying to get fired for being rude to customers

  • @ineffable_lesbian
    @ineffable_lesbian Před 10 měsíci +15

    A CZcamsr I watch is Australian, he was the first person I ever heard end their sentences almost exclusively in a higher pitch and I was *really* confused at first. He sounded like every sentence was a question 😭

  • @hyatesanimations7787
    @hyatesanimations7787 Před 8 měsíci +2

    commenting to keep this stuff on my feed

  • @officialtoofknbusy
    @officialtoofknbusy Před 7 měsíci +2

    I always wondered why Australians sound so upbeat and positive

  • @joeyree22
    @joeyree22 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Aussie living in the US here; and something about that high pitch inflection that we (unconsciously) love to add seems to give me super powers here! The Americans love my accent, it’s not common where I live, so it gives a 0.5% understanding of being a celebrity! People get silly around me, but the best part is how more often than not, people are so nice/ helpful to me! I’m convinced it’s because of my accent and my higher pitch ❤ (also, I like to think I am a decent/nice person, I’m sure that helps too😊).

    • @Logan_93
      @Logan_93 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Americans are just generally nice/helpful people brother, despite what you may have heard.

    • @Logan_93
      @Logan_93 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Also, welcome home.

  • @jorgeramos9950
    @jorgeramos9950 Před 11 měsíci +34

    Agreed... That high pitch feels like a question rather than the declaration it is. Interesting stuff.

  • @KevinCrouch0
    @KevinCrouch0 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The uptalk at the end communicates a question to people, so it makes it feel like everything youre saying is uncertain

  • @CoolCatDoingAKickflip
    @CoolCatDoingAKickflip Před 9 měsíci +2

    I believe the key is the combination of high and low end-pitches.

  • @jdwylde7
    @jdwylde7 Před 11 měsíci +95

    Canadians do this high pitch thing and it’s how I navigate conversations with them. They go up in pitch at the end of every sentence like it’s a question. Then when they finally go down in their pitch, that means it’s your turn to talk.

    • @alexanderthegreat1270
      @alexanderthegreat1270 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Mike Myers did that bit too

    • @classy09az
      @classy09az Před 10 měsíci +1

      do we??

    • @IceWolfLoki
      @IceWolfLoki Před 10 měsíci

      If Australians, Canadians or New Zealanders start ending on a low pitch then you know it's time to stop messing with them. They're lovely friendly peoples until they start ending sentences with a low pitch.

  • @mutatontherocks01
    @mutatontherocks01 Před 10 měsíci +328

    Being an American myself, believe me when i say we'll still trust your conviction and authority because you have an accent, and we find that neat lol.

    • @craigbolton2231
      @craigbolton2231 Před 9 měsíci +13

      Not just americans. Ive got a strong scottish accent and most people, english, american or other scots all just follow what i say as if i know what im on about. Unless the scots are also from glasgow, then we know the one speaking is talking shit

    • @Kayd33
      @Kayd33 Před 9 měsíci

      I second this. lol

    • @johnnoon9999
      @johnnoon9999 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@craigbolton2231 Not gonna lie man I can barely understand yall Glasgowans when yall talk. Then again I can't talk crap cause Im from Dixie and barely anyone outside of my home understands me either!

    • @craigbolton2231
      @craigbolton2231 Před 9 měsíci +6

      @johnnoon9999 half of glasgow can't understand each other anyway. Hell there's different dialects in different parts of Glasgow. I go 10 minutes down the round and the accent goes from "boil some water" to "bile sum wahterrr"

    • @johnnoon9999
      @johnnoon9999 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@craigbolton2231 Hahahah wow I didnt know that. Its kinda cool tho. Its lame that most places/people are losing their individuality nowadays. Some my family goes around talking like californians or something and Im like "whats wrong with you? talk normal!"

  • @nlcrme
    @nlcrme Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is the single most important video that you can watch! He is absolutely magnificent and spot on!

  • @vicenteeichler8804
    @vicenteeichler8804 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love australian accent ending high pitch. It's so kind😊

  • @constellations8572
    @constellations8572 Před 11 měsíci +98

    Amazing advice - my mother always reminded me when I was younger to not uptalk. I sound much more confident when I give presentations now just from that small change.

    • @carultch
      @carultch Před 11 měsíci +1

      Ending on uptalk makes you sound like you don't believe your own statement, and you are seeking validation from your audience. It makes people subconsciously not take you seriously as a reliable source of information.

    • @constellations8572
      @constellations8572 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@carultch Exactly. Especially when you're giving a presentation in school or at work, if you sound confident in what you're saying, even if you aren't exactly certain, people will listen to you and trust you a lot more.

    • @raisschultz420
      @raisschultz420 Před 10 měsíci

      Lmfao my mom did the opposite because she didn't like me talking back so now I have to relearn it

    • @constellations8572
      @constellations8572 Před 10 měsíci

      Haha@@raisschultz420, never too late!

  • @Marvellous328
    @Marvellous328 Před 11 měsíci +319

    I think the British usually end their sentences with a lower pitch. There’re many valley girls in America and Australia 😂

    • @jalfredprufrock620
      @jalfredprufrock620 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Never heard an Irish or Scottish accent have you?

    • @Marvellous328
      @Marvellous328 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@jalfredprufrock620 do they identify as British?

    • @Marvellous328
      @Marvellous328 Před 11 měsíci

      @@jalfredprufrock620 Never learnt how to speak, have you?

    • @Marvellous328
      @Marvellous328 Před 11 měsíci

      @@markthomas5215 Thanks for your informative comment. That’s what I expected to hear rather than emotional ideologies

    • @Marvellous328
      @Marvellous328 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@jalfredprufrock620 never heard a broad and cultivated Aussie accent have you?

  • @FunnCubes
    @FunnCubes Před 7 měsíci +4

    This is because if you pitch up at the end of a sentence it sounds like a question. Its like you're not sure of what you're saying.

  • @Islandlifefornow
    @Islandlifefornow Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thanks for this video. I was never aware about the pitching ending. Now it's just stuck in my head...the high pitch that is.

  • @whyis2plus2
    @whyis2plus2 Před 10 měsíci +10

    moral of the story: ending with a low pitch turns you into tom scott

  • @th0rn3gaming
    @th0rn3gaming Před 11 měsíci +4

    Its not a crazy difference, its a subtle difference that most wouldnt notice but it makes a crazy impact.

  • @OctagonalSquare
    @OctagonalSquare Před 7 měsíci +1

    They do it in New Zealand too. One of my coworkers is from there and it’s how they talk. Granted, I’ve just had casual conversations, haven’t seen them in sales pitches or anything where they had to show authority

  • @charlesogden7364
    @charlesogden7364 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I think the humility you speak of is better than an overbearing tone that at its base comes from a manipulative place. Talking to me this way in recent years has tought me to double check the work as half the times someone's talking out thier ass. With the higher inflection it's open to questions and even when your wrong feels like I can engage with a higher tone over the guy trying to be confident.

  • @marti5420
    @marti5420 Před 10 měsíci +36

    The true difference between good and great communication, is knowing when to use both... Its not about being humble, its about being open and fun when you should, and being authoritative and commanding when you should.

  • @damenwhelan3236
    @damenwhelan3236 Před 11 měsíci +32

    You're not asking a question. You're making a statement.

  • @benwilliams3469
    @benwilliams3469 Před 9 měsíci

    there is an endearing quality about higher pitching, less determination and control can be comforting but not necessarily convincing

  • @Celz765
    @Celz765 Před 7 měsíci

    Sorry I’m late but yeah this always happens,in primary my teacher always told us “high for humble and nice.low for power,authority to put on a show”
    Love in Sydney 🇦🇺and NZ 🇳🇿

  • @dinosaur6106
    @dinosaur6106 Před 11 měsíci +4

    And when you mix the two it shows humbleness but also control, knowledge and confidence in the subject

  • @dankim7831
    @dankim7831 Před 10 měsíci +5

    I think the main gripe I have w ending sentences in a high pitch is that ppl tend to make it sound like they're going to keep talking, and they don't. One of my fav teachers was a history teacher in high school. He said talking is like a roller coaster. There are times where you need to bring your voice up, times to let it down. Times to make the audience anticipate, and times to let things simmer.

  • @TheTSRush
    @TheTSRush Před 6 měsíci

    High pitch reminds me of a cruise ship worker trying to convince me of something that i don't truat they would so themselves. Lower pitch slower candence is deliberate. Hearing lower pitched voices helps you to read people better. Never know if its a conman or a genuine offer of knowledge.

  • @SeePoo
    @SeePoo Před 6 měsíci

    First one sounds like a question and the second sounds like your getting scolded by a teacher

  • @Dogsnark
    @Dogsnark Před 10 měsíci +20

    I noticed this about the way Australians speak some time ago, but I’ve never heard this tendency explained before. Very interesting.

  • @Chevifier
    @Chevifier Před 11 měsíci +22

    Ending on an higher pitch make you sound nervous. Ending on a lower pitch makes you sound unbothered.

  • @mahfuz6531
    @mahfuz6531 Před 6 měsíci

    Especially in songs when they're singing and end on an awkward high pitch it makes it feel like the song isn't complete

  • @devonhollands2001
    @devonhollands2001 Před 6 měsíci

    "even when they're not" 😂

  • @mimp8365
    @mimp8365 Před 11 měsíci +673

    “Even when they’re not.” couldn’t be more accurate. 😂🤣😂

    • @anonymoustechnician2935
      @anonymoustechnician2935 Před 11 měsíci +24

      As an American I can concur that we are not always right but when we say we are you'll believe it lol

    • @shleemlington699
      @shleemlington699 Před 11 měsíci

      Lol everyone does this not just Americans and the funniest part is America leads as the best in the world in a ridiculous amount of things. The other funny thing is that america is literally just compromised of people from all over the world, that’s the entire identity, a melting pot. So when idiots laugh at america they’re literally laughing at themselves and they’re so stupid they don’t get the irony

    • @joshmiller2725
      @joshmiller2725 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Well we send a man to walk on the damn surface of the moon nearly a century ago, so I’d say we’re pretty good at shit.

    • @Gre4g
      @Gre4g Před 11 měsíci +8

      ​@@joshmiller2725great job proving you guys are good at things when you don't even know what a century is

    • @joshmiller2725
      @joshmiller2725 Před 11 měsíci

      Yea I would be salty too if my country was a hundred years behind America in technology. You know the “UFOs” that fighter pilots have been seeing on their radar? The ones that seem to defy the laws of physics? The ones that hover, then break the sound barrier within a fraction of a second, then go straight into the ocean? That’s US military tech. Maybe some day the rest of the world will send a man to the moon. By then the US will probably have already colonized Mars.
      Stay salty. And you’re welcome for moving mankind forward. Make sure to thank an American next time you see one. 👍

  • @grmigrim9834
    @grmigrim9834 Před 11 měsíci +4

    It is also about the pace at which you speak. When he went into higher pitch he also startes talking faster. That increases the effect he talked about even more. Talking slower makes you seem calm and not in a rush to get to the end of your talk.

  • @katiedeacon7427
    @katiedeacon7427 Před 7 měsíci

    It's the most annoying habit when people do that. So nicely put out there. Lower pitch all the way

  • @pontifexchristo
    @pontifexchristo Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yo I actually needed this I've been learning to speak more authoritatively and not shrink.

  • @jitteryhands16
    @jitteryhands16 Před 11 měsíci +42

    Now I notice that my mother does the low-at-end thing. She is a very good speaker! Sometimes, my relatives would stay up till 4am to listen to her. It makes you feel like you are into something.

  • @flxmkr
    @flxmkr Před 10 měsíci +4

    When I was a patient in Maryland, most of them spoke like they were asking questions.
    Remember that just like other countries, there are many areas that have their unique accents. So not every American ends their sentences on a downward slope.
    Also, when you spoke, it wasn’t just the ending that changed. You spoke the entire first sentence with a higher voice than the second sentence with a low voice. Most words you spoke began medium and ended high in the first example. In the second, you spoke most words from medium to low. Go back and listen.
    But you are making some very interesting points. Thank you.

  • @pandamaec
    @pandamaec Před 8 měsíci

    i had the reverse impression on this video. im gonna high pitch everything now

  • @Med1na2012
    @Med1na2012 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Very interesting! It’s amazing how something so small can make a huge difference! I’ll try it

  • @gabrielpetersen8528
    @gabrielpetersen8528 Před 10 měsíci +17

    I’m pretty sure Americans think high pitch sounds condescending. Like “baby talk”.

    • @Hollowlock
      @Hollowlock Před 7 měsíci +1

      No, we typically reserve high pitch endings for questions, so when always ended like that it just ends up sounding like they aren’t confident in a word they’re saying.

    • @NosotrosNoInteligente
      @NosotrosNoInteligente Před 7 měsíci

      No we dont

  • @ClicketyGamer
    @ClicketyGamer Před 10 měsíci +16

    As an Aussie, I trusted the lower pitch way less 😂

  • @homelessperson5455
    @homelessperson5455 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I personally prefer uptalk. Because for me a low pitch end is associated with conmen trying to be respected. Where uptalk is associated with a more relatable genuine speaker trying their best.
    In a roundabout way, trying to be seen as respectable makes you seem unrespectable.

  • @Alto_C
    @Alto_C Před 8 měsíci +1

    im attending community college and i often give this advice out to other students who have that issue when they do presentations or speeches, and every time they end up sounding far better for it. wish i had the thought to tell people that in highschool because most of the students there have this sort of "computer generated voice" syndrome, and getting rid of uptalk is really half of the fix to the problem